@@Kelsey1442 “I don’t think that it was op that got her sister injured.” Do you not have ears or did you skip over the part where op cleaned the floors and leave them wet for her sister? “I would clean and mop the tiles but leave the floors in my sister’s room slightly wet in the hopes that she might somehow slip and fall.” This was literally in the story smh 🤦♀️
@@alexvalentine5091 Except sister did not slip and fall in her room. She fell in the bathroom. Yes OP hoped for it but this one was not one of OP's doing.
@@DragonicGamer32 OP didn’t say where she fell. She clearly said her sister was on her way to clean up. She was headed to the bathroom which means she more than likely had to go down the hall OP deliberately set up for an accident to happen.
OP was insecure and gullible to get surgery so quickly, but she went too far in her revenge on her sister. That was just beyond cruel. OP should have talked it out with her husband, or spend a smaller portion of her saving on a PI to find out if her husband was cheating.
I think the same thing. There's a difference between getting divorced after a year and a life-long goal. Plus, even if he was cheating (which he PROBABLY was), prove it with an investigator. Then divorce his ass.
I agree! And why wouldn't she consult her MOTHER, who is a long term marriage, instead of her single, unmarried younger sister?? She is stupid and a forever victim, looking for excuses outside of herself. Disgusting person.
To be honest, I do think the husband was cheating or realized he didn’t wanna be with her and he probably wanted to divorce her so he was able to use this as a reason to do so since he had been ignoring her for so long and they barely had been married. I wonder if the $5000 she used was money he earned because that would make things even worse, if he had been working very hard for their future, and she stole five grand from him to throw down the drain for something he didn’t even care about.
I honestly think that her being so pushy and demanding while he was adjusting his new job... that was the first step. He told her that he wanted to save money for the kids and she went and spend 5k on some surgery she didn't need, just because she was insecure and blamed it on him and the models he has to work with. I would've divorce her too.
@@candegonzalez3045 I agree and adding that she hurt her sister (destroying her carreer and might even have killed her) and this makes OP not the victim but the AH!
It's so sad to see OP cannot see that it was all her fault, not her husband, not her sisters, it's herself.. I'm with the husband.. Marriage is work and it's not always going to be honeymoon and glitter... She needs help
OP is the absolute WORST. Honestly, she worked SO HARD to prove some nonexistent affair that she went absolutely mad about her body, which was always her primary insecurity. Cheers to Jeff for walking out, she just couldn't get that he was tired, which is completely normal considering that he has a full time job. Her sister sucks too, she doesn't have any right to bodyshame OP but that didn't mean OP had to absolutely crush all her dreams, it's horrendous. Someone get this girl some therapy ASAP
OP sounds like the worst type or person. Insecurity is a bitch but letting it not only control your decisions but also create an entire delusion of reality is just pathetic. OP probably hurt her ex husband more than he ever did her.
I want to agree with OP but after what she did the whole going under the knife and stuff, And to top it off she injured her sister and sabotage her career That injury potentially not only benched her sister but likely DESTROYED any chance of her to be better than she was before that!
@@Kumo5980 it could've kill OP's sister. Also, about the husband... there's literally ZERO evidence that he was actually cheating. More than that, there's a huge chance that he was simply working, he's a studio photographer so it was pretty obvious that he was gonna have models around at some point
@@candegonzalez3045 yup her parents were speaking the truth to her!, OP had it all but her insecurities just had to DESTROY it all When Jeff divorced that shows us that he ain’t shallow He married his love of his life (op before the surgery) not an model (op after the surgery!)
So, because you're insecure and literally say you're too lazy to work out, and can't control yourself enough to eat healthier, you let your sister talk you into getting surgery. Without talking to your husband. Who married you when you were overweight. Sister was wrong for talking behind your back like she did, but you decision was not her fault. & OP is a huge POS for setting the stage for her sis to get hurt and keep her out of competing. If this story is real, I hope karma hits OP hard AF.
She says she's no a psychopath. But she sure as hell doesn't exhibit much of a conscience. OP's sister doesn't admit her part in OP's decision, when her friend is critical of that decision. And that warrants deliberately doing bodily harm in order to take away a life long dream and hard work?? And is PROUD of it??
Sister was probably trying the best she can to provide solutions to OP (she literally recommended everything before surgery) but nothing was good enough. OP is terrible and doesn’t deserve anyone, let alone a husband or sister.
yeah op doesn't have a healthy mindset at all she convinced herself that her husband was cheating out of insecurity and jealousy, then let her sister reinforce that mindset and convince her to get a procedure she probably didn't need, her husband getting a divorce was kinda justified as its never proven that he cheated and who would want to be with someone who accuses you of cheating. the stuff afterward with her sister is whatever as her sister was being a snake but the mindset of "im getting all this attention because of my body, these men are richer than my ex" is gonna go right out the window as op self admittedly said they were lazy and ate whatever they want and wasnt even gonna go to the gym once a week because she is lazy. all that attention is just gonna disappear after a few months
I can't decide if I think the husband was cheating during the marriage. It is possible someone who didn't work much and suddenly found themselves in a competitive, demanding job was in fact tired and stressed. If she thought he was cheating, she should have hired a PI or found a way to get proof, or an admission. We don't know, and neither did she. Also, OP is admittedly too lazy to work out, or eat a healthy diet, she isn't going to keep that "banging body".
I don’t think he was cheating. She said he got hired on at a well known business. Well known business have clients left and right. OP was just delusional and naive. Her parents were right had she talked to 2 married people who both worked she would’ve known it’s not unusual behavior for certain things to die down until you “find” a groove.
@@bautistalover I agree. He went from hoping for clients to clients all the time.. Then, rather than be supportive or understanding, she jumped to conclusions. You said something else I agree with, she should have listened to her parents. From experience, it is strange how much smarter my parents have gotten as I have gotten older. One other thing someone else commented on, when women were coming to his house, it was after the divorce was finalized if I understood correctly. So technically, no, not cheating if he was sleeping with any of them, again, circumstantial.
@@areformingamadon yes exactly those girls were at the house after the divorce was finalized and depending on how long it took it’s no one business who he’s sleeping with in the home.
Honestly I was unsure whether the husband was cheating or not. Part of me kind of thought he was, but what OP's parents said made sense. I can simply guess the kind of workload the husband had with the new job, and sure I understand how OP could feel uncomfortable with him working with super attractive women. But like some people said, OP should've hired a PI to have concrete proof. Going under the knife for a BBL w/o discussing it with her husband was mistake no. 1. Having her sister be disqualified from the competition was major mistake no. 2. Now that OP has that "banging body", she believes the world is her oyster. Unless she miraculously meets a rich person who happens to have decent moral standards, chances are that she will actually be cheated on with the next attractive woman because I don't believe majority of physical relationships last so long. I hope OP seeks professional help because the thought process/mindset she's shown thus far is concerning.
OP is so hateful and detestable, I could not even finish the story. Her sister was cruel in her words, but OP actually caused her own destruction. She was the one who was suspecting her husband cheating regardless, if her sister interfered. The sisters interference was just more proof to the husband that his wife didn’t trust him.
If my sister came to me for a talk, I would not have said all that crap OP sister said 0P is quite insecure and it shows that’s OK. We all have things we need to work on and that she can’t blame him They were better ways of supporting her sister, who is being brutally negative and in my mind showing her no support not even oh I’m so sorry and we don’t even know if he’s cheating yet not every guy cheats when he gets around thin women, especially if his wife is overweight some people actually care about the person on the inside not the outside.
Agreed that the sister was a b***h, but she probably didn’t deserve to be denied her one shot at something she worked for since she was four-years-old stolen from her. I think OP’s revenge was unnecessarily harsh.
there shouldn’t have been revenge in the first place. OP made everyone around her cater to her insecurities until something surgical was brought up, like how are you going to help someone who doesn’t want to help themselves? you can’t. OP is a cruel, terrible person and she shouldn’t have anyone around her.
So I got to to the part where she is thinking about going under the knife. From what I remember of the beginning of this story she was heavy when she married him. So what makes her think that he wants a skinny girl if he loved her just the way she was and is? People will do the craziest things. I feel so bad for her, she seems very insecure.
He might have settled for her since he had no money when they got married. When he started making money he really lost interest in her. She had every right to be insecure since she was losing him anyway. Good thing she put the $6k to good use before she had to split it in divorce court. Sister was right, but OP should have discussed it with her husband first.
At the end, she ends up purposefully trying to injure her sister so she can’t compete in the Olympics. It’s not clear if the sister slipped in the shower or fell because of OP’s deliberately getting the sister’s floor wet in the hopes she would slip, but sister injured her ankle and couldn’t compete. OP was delighted. So yes, she is insecure, but her maliciousness makes her more of a narcissist than a victim.
@wayneanon Everyone kept saying he was just working & saving for his future family. What family? You have to have sex to get pregnant. There was no sex,no time, no attention. He was mad she showed up at work. Is it any wonder she began to get insecure? It doesn't take any "energy"to tell someone you love them & reassure them that they are fine just the way they are. Would it have killed him to send a text or voice mail during the day? I do not approve of what she let her sister talk her into doing. Her sister fed on her insecurities. In stead of love & reassurance, she got condemnation & accusations. A real loving sister would not have done the things she did to OP. I can understand OP's thoughts in regards to her marriage. I have been there myself. I do NOT agree with her plans to ruin her sister's chance at the Olympics. Surely there was other ways to get the revenge she thought her sister deserved. I can understand her wanting revenge. Her sister did her real dirty but what she did was over the line. I think Jeff was the most to blame in the senario. He obviously does not know how to communicate & didn't value or prioritize his marriage and Im not talking about sex. I can understand the tiredness & stress of the new job but it takes no time to give your wife a hug & kiss. The marriage died due to lack of intamacy. My husband & I do not have as much sex as we did 20 years ago when we first started dating. We DO however, have more intimacy. He always gives me a kiss in the morning to start our day & a kiss at night before we go to sleep. We cuddle at night in bed & talk a bit before we turn the lights out to go to sleep. He sends me funny texts and messages during the day to let me know he was thinking about me. He holds my hand when we are in public or driving in the car. He makes time for me even if we have to "schedule" it. OP did not feel loved or wanted. Her husband knew. He made no attempts to prove otherwise. Even with a new job he could have told his boss he needed a day or weekend off to spend with his wife. Work could have scheduled around a small request like that. I mean who took all tje pictures before he was hired? And I wanted to know why pictures of half naked models were on his personal phone. If he was shooting a paid session, wouldn't he be using an ACTUAL camera to send a proof sheet to his boss? No professional photographer would use a camera phone to shoot a session for a client. Camera phones are good these days but have nowhere near the power a professional 📷 does. Sorry for the long rant. The story really hit me. It was almost identical to why my first marriage imploded and BTW I do believe Jeff was cheating. If he wasn't he would have gone out of his way to orove his loyalty when OP made her first set of accusations. Silence speaks volumes. End of rant.
Having plastic surgery is not gonna save your marriage talking to him talking to each other it’s going to do that ask him tell him what you’re feeling that is what a marriage is communication
zero accountability, the only one at fault for her divorce was her and her insecurities, she chose to have an operation without consulting her husband.
OP was an idiot for not just talking to her husband about everything plus also she was definitely jealous that her husband was working with models but couldn't understand that some men and women have an attraction to people with some "meat" on their bones. Two of my ex's friends are in that type of relationship with one being so skinny that he could be snapped like a twig and his boyfriend is slightly heavy set but they love each other even with their jobs
I think he was either cheating or was in the verge. I've been married to the same man for almost 30 years and I listen to these stories wondering why in earth these people get married in the first place if they're willing to give up and walk away so easily. Marriage is not easy, it is a fight, but it is worth it
I was under the impression that for elective surgeries like what OP got, that you have to see a therapist or something like that. I guess I just figured something like seeing a therapist before getting unnecessary procedures done was a nice dream.
@@bautistalover probably. Seems like a lot of posts are from people where English is not their first language and usually it's better written than those where English is their first language.
@@jennilynne1977 lol too true. Sounds like this OP would’ve benefited from a psych evaluation. Like why would you let someone get that kind of procedure if they aren’t willing to eat right and exercise to help themselves.🤷🏿♀️
OP s/h talked it over w/her husband and he could have reassured her that he loves her the way that she is. Then if she was still doubtful then she could have hired a PI to find out if he was cheating or not.
When you are in a relationship, all big and some small decisions must be discussed. People might think “It’s his/her money so he/she can do whatever”, but that’s not how a good relationship works. It’s all about both compromising, empathizing, understanding, and sharing. OP’s husband is right to be mad, but also looking at himself and his actions contributing to OP’s insecurity. Neither are innocent here. Edit: Whoa! OP does need therapy.
You’re his wife you’re better than a model OP get the work done if you want to get it done but don’t do it for your husband. If you’re going to do it do it for you but also get some therapy as well.
First of all, if you're insecure with the fact that your husband is cheating, prove it first with an investigator. Secondly, there's a difference between being a part of the reason why your husband divorced you after one year of marriage, and a life-long dream. Maybe you saying that you're not a psychopath is you knowing what people are going to say for good reason. I'm very sorry that you got your feelings hurt, but you're the reason that you're not fit. You said that yourself that your lazy and don't watch what you eat. Although, since your husband having a women come over a few days later probably means that you weren't wrong in your assumptions.
A 30 something y/o man who goes without sex for almost a month because he's "tired"!? No way. He's definitely cheating. Men always make time for sex. I guess you are all forgetting about the fact that he's bringing these models home, too, once the divorce was done? Guess he must have gotten a second wind so he's.... all of a sudden... not too tired any more to pu out.
Anyone else find it funny how the girl is kinda demanding sex like the husband is her little sex toy. If it was the other way around ppl would be yelling she doesn't owe him sex and such
Why should the OP have to talk to her husband or her parents? It is her body and her choice. She does not need anyone's "consent". The husband was a grade A jerk in any case and would have left her no matter what. As for the sister - doing that was very childish. The OP needs a lot of help.
What your sister did is wrong or people, so is what you did you need to go onto therapy get some security in yourself you lost your husband. He liked you. The way you were before you don’t hide major surgery from family members especially your own husband. I am sorry, but this is karma getting you too.
OP’s husband married her knowing she was overweight so why would he suddenly change his feelings for her? Even if he was putting work before their marriage, that’s not the same as cheating. Even though she didn’t tell him what she was doing, why couldn’t he be happy for her when she finally had a thin healthy body? As for OP’s sister, I don’t believe that she did any wrong. She didn’t force OP to take her advice. OP made that decision herself. Ruining her sister’s chances at the Olympics was just plain evil! Shame on you OP for doing that. What goes around comes around and you will pay a price one day for destroying your sister’s life long dream. She had no way of knowing that your husband would respond the way he did. It was a risk that you willingly took. You can never give her back what you’ve taken from her.
Because she didn’t do it because she wanted to be healthy. She did it to claim her territory she did all that because she believes his cheating without proof . It was all in vain .
I think OP and her sister's family were low-key toxic. Parents definitely noticed the weight/size differences in their kids and did nothing to guide OP into a healthy relationship with food. But were all under her sister because she had a long term goal of going for the Olympics, and being the skinny one in general. This was a long time coming. If it didn't come down to this it would've been something else to trigger a similar response.
My son and I think he was lying. He didn't have time for her but quickly got over her. Then had time for models? I don't think so. She did not have a healthy mindset though.
Op the AH definitely pitiful everyone has a job and still makes time to go to the gym that type of mindset is the worst and can lead into a early grave but the husband is still a idiot for not communicating doesn’t matter what’s going on still need to talk and it was her money not his she didn’t need permission at all
OP is so annoying. She could’ve easily worked out before work or after work. She acts like she’s the only person in the world that works five days a week. She could’ve made time, everything she does just irritates me because she sounds like a freaking psychopath for what she did and blaming her sister why she chose to go under the knife. She should’ve been an adult and talked to her husband like an adult
I'm 45 female, I don't know if it comes with age but you can't control everything or someone else's feelings. If you can't trust your partner and do nothing but worry all the time why stay with them? If your partner is going to cheat their is nothing you can do about it, why worry and fret overy it? Until it actually happens why make everyone miserable? Seems like these people somehow drive their partners into cheating or leaving. Just be happy and content until you are actually confronted with evidence.
how does op have no time to work out and stalk her husband. also how does she expect h to be interested when she accused him of cheating. Op is seriously gluttonous either food or sex, and she is significantly narcissistic.
Maybe Ops suspicion accusations and inability to support her husbands budding career is why she lost her husband before she got surgery. Having a psycho clingy wife would make me stay at work IMO took her insecurities to the next level
I'm going to be honest. I still feel like the husband had been cheating. Yes what her sister did was cruel and destructive, but the fact he was inviting those women into the house only a few days after divorce isn't just coincidence. he was seeing them and was just waiting for some way to break away from OP. Her changing her body was the perfect escape for him. The fact he could not even consider taking some leave of absence even when it was a possibility tells that he really had no intention of trying to fix the marriage. And the kids argument does not help when they weren't even being intimate to HAVE that child. That said, OP's vindictive behavior towards her sister is unnerving. And definitely doesn't really fit the crime, but then the sister did entice OP to fork over 5K for something like this. The only positive is the parents have remained supportive through it. They warned her of the consequences but remain as parents should be, supportive.
It wasn’t a few days…have you never heard the saying the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. He could be using sex a a coping mechanism which isn’t necessarily healthy.
I think her husband contributed to her insecurities if he truly loved her and was attracted he would have internally felt that, and had some responsibility for that . He used it for a way out as for sister not her fault . How can she understand rationships if her love is competition, which op took from her. Op should have known that . I mark it as age and love makes u do things. Your sister tried to help best she could ,but has no clue how. She is your sister for life. I'm glad u got surgery for yourself not anyone else. Feel good life is short.
Ok. OP is just a nasty person. She was the one to cause her divorce by not trusting her husband. Her sister didn't deserve her revenge. To me it sounds like her sister thought OP needed the operation for her sanity. Ok sister shouldn't have talked about OP to her friend, but OP really took things way too far.
Can I say that this story is nothing but a pathetic case of miscommunication. The husband got busy and like men usually do, assumed that it was alright. Advice: it's NEVER is, especially when the wife is insecure. And then, let's not forget about the OP. Since he's neglecting me, he's cheating. She never once bothered to talk it out with with her husband.
Yeah, she messed up a lot. I hate how everything turned out for her but I do think her marriage was doomed anyway her husband had already made up his mind And mentally and emotionally checked out he was putting everything above her and spending time plus he more than likely was cheating going that long without sex, and even when he forced himself to do it with her, she felt that it was robotic come on after that long of not getting none, he should’ve been like a madman on top of her. He didn’t want to be with her otherwise he wouldn’t have been bringing those very women in the house that she transferred herself to look like as soon as they got divorced, he seems like he was really just looking for a reason and OP gave him an out.
Maybe I missed something, who forced you to have surgery? Were you kidnapped and taken to hospital? Have you no mind of your own? Shame on you, OP, I guess you can start eating again. 😻😁😻
... it sounds like her insecurities are eating her alive. she wants to "save her marriage" with the fastest option because she has convinced herself that hubby wants skinny hot girls, she helped an accident happen to ruin her sister's dream, she takes no accountability for her own problems... Like I was sad she wrecked her marriage but that she was overjoyed her sister got hurt is disgusting.
Some men prefer women with a little plumpness to anorexic looking ones. I'm old enough to remember May West and how she made being a heavy set woman beautiful. There is other heavy set women in the movies as well they are beautiful too!
Enjoyed the story but op needs some to talk to someone about her insecurities towards other women. They do not have a healthy mindset in the slightest and it irks me something awful how she shames others for their body type Like it's all so vindictive it feels fake
If it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck, walks like a duck, and smells like a duck, then it’s a duck. The husband’s a cheater. OP’s surgery was a very convenient excuse for divorcing her and moving up the food chain.
Her sis in an athlete. But her words were mean. Not tough love just mean. But she did offer her decent advice and that was to go to the gym with her. OP admitted to just being lazy. Wouldn’t go to the gym once a week because she’s just lazy. And just like that all of my sympathy went out the window. Was her husband hiding something at this point who the fuck cares. Because the fact that she was too lazy to take her ass to the gym once a week and work on her confidence, but it was quick to get surgery and then bragged about how Richer men were attracted to her now and then purposely sabotage her sisters, athletic dream because that supposedly ruined her marriage. so far is the only bad story I’ve ever heard. I mean her husband was definitely cheating I mean be serious.
I have no sympathy for the original poster and everything that happened to her she destroyed her own marriage her sister didn't do that she did that before the sister even came into the picture Plus on top of that she says she's not a narcissist but in all honesty she is she sounds like an insecure narcissistic person but I think she went from oh my God I can't believe my sister destroyed my marriage to the point where she went oh look I have a hot body now I can use this to attract way more attractive men than my husband and I don't have to worry about any model stealing those men away from me yeah spoken like a true insecure narcissistic person and thank God the husband dodged a bullet with her especially if it came to kids because I'm pretty sure she would have made everything about her and not those kids of that man got her pregnant like this person is the true definition of a train wreck
I kind of feel like the husband was cheating on her, he was too tired to have sex but before they were even divorced he's having girls come over for dates???? Ummm not adding up there in my opinion
ESH, there were different ways to talking it out, but the sister is just the worst. Sorry but I'm just as suspicious of the hubby, maybe he wasn't cheating but possibly he wasn't honest that he was no into "it". Maybe he's really ace and aromantic the whole time yet he never told the op.
In my opinion, married less than a year, he wasn’t just tired. His excuses are all those of a cheating man. She’s free of him and can move on. However, I’m sad about what she tried to do to her sister. Very petty. She lost her hubby because he wasn’t attracted to her anymore.😢
OP's ex husband is going to regret his life some day. When he realizes the choices he made, he will wish OP was back. At the same time.. OP's own sister had better watch herself now. After what she (Op's sister) did to her own sister, there's a chance her marriage some day will face the same sort of DOOM of OP's 2nd revenge.
He has nothing to regret. He was suspected unfairly of cheating and his wife went full on psycho and changed her body to claim her territory. He married her chubby because he loved her as she was. The only person with regrets should be OP because she blew up her marriage for nothing. In short if her husband wanted a skinny woman he would’ve married one not OP.
There is no way in hell 3 weeks is enough for the swelling to go down and give you a "a bangging body" if OP was overweight, then she would have a fat face, legs and arms. Suckinf the fat out of your belly and waist and transfering it into the but does not make you thin. And i know this because i had lipo when i was overweight, you must wear the compressing body suit at least a month and when the month was over, there wast much difference. It was until i got a gastric sleeve that i lost weight, and then i had skin removal surgery with fat transferred to my but that I got the "banging body." I dont really like the animated channel. The stories sound fake. I would rather listen to the normal channel with the lovely background.
"I discovered he was now bringing these ladies into his home and I am certain it was not for work." Right up until this was said at 25:59 I believed Jeff was not cheating, but c'mon a WEEK after divorce papers and he is already hitting the fast lanes with these ladies? He may have been upset OP went under the knife, and he might have been hurt that she feared he was cheating.... but sounds to me more like he wanted an excuse to divorce OP so he could play the field freely. The divorce is not even finalized so yeah it's still CHEATING no matter how you slice it. So I think OP is better off without him if she stops and thinks about the timing and everything. That above sentence alone makes me question his character and makes me think he was cheating on her prior to the surgery. Now I might be wrong about that, but a week? A week was all it took before he got his side piece? No, he was just very good at hiding it. I do hope however that OP doesn't do anything drastic like this in the future and that she learns from this mistake and finds someone to love her for her, not the body she has. If the love is based solely off of looks or money and not the person within.... that's not real true love, It's a shallow person's 'love'.
It was a week AFTER the divorce was finalized. She didn’t say how long the divorce took. It could’ve been months. Either way him sleeping with people a week after it was finalized isn’t proof he was cheating. It could mean he’s using sex as a coping mechanism it happens all the time. OP is delusional and insecure and she let these 2 things wreck her marriage. There’s no proof whatsoever he cheated. Instead of spending 5k on BBL she should’ve hired PI.
Commentors who weren't targeted by body fat and body shaming, they have no right to speak about controlling body and things surrounding.. sister is changing her verse which equals back stabbing.. husband roams with waving red flags all over.. whom are they kidding
I hope her sister finds out. OP is certifiably crazy and should be held accountable for her actions.
I don’t think that it was op that got her sister injured. She was just happy about it. It was probably karma that did it. Her sister was mean.
@@Kelsey1442 “I don’t think that it was op that got her sister injured.” Do you not have ears or did you skip over the part where op cleaned the floors and leave them wet for her sister?
“I would clean and mop the tiles but leave the floors in my sister’s room slightly wet in the hopes that she might somehow slip and fall.” This was literally in the story smh 🤦♀️
@@alexvalentine5091 Except sister did not slip and fall in her room. She fell in the bathroom. Yes OP hoped for it but this one was not one of OP's doing.
@@DragonicGamer32 the op was the one mopping the floors so yes
@@DragonicGamer32 OP didn’t say where she fell. She clearly said her sister was on her way to clean up. She was headed to the bathroom which means she more than likely had to go down the hall OP deliberately set up for an accident to happen.
OP was insecure and gullible to get surgery so quickly, but she went too far in her revenge on her sister. That was just beyond cruel. OP should have talked it out with her husband, or spend a smaller portion of her saving on a PI to find out if her husband was cheating.
I think the same thing. There's a difference between getting divorced after a year and a life-long goal. Plus, even if he was cheating (which he PROBABLY was), prove it with an investigator. Then divorce his ass.
I agree! And why wouldn't she consult her MOTHER, who is a long term marriage, instead of her single, unmarried younger sister?? She is stupid and a forever victim, looking for excuses outside of herself. Disgusting person.
To be honest, I do think the husband was cheating or realized he didn’t wanna be with her and he probably wanted to divorce her so he was able to use this as a reason to do so since he had been ignoring her for so long and they barely had been married. I wonder if the $5000 she used was money he earned because that would make things even worse, if he had been working very hard for their future, and she stole five grand from him to throw down the drain for something he didn’t even care about.
I honestly think that her being so pushy and demanding while he was adjusting his new job... that was the first step. He told her that he wanted to save money for the kids and she went and spend 5k on some surgery she didn't need, just because she was insecure and blamed it on him and the models he has to work with. I would've divorce her too.
@@candegonzalez3045 I agree and adding that she hurt her sister (destroying her carreer and might even have killed her) and this makes OP not the victim but the AH!
It's so sad to see OP cannot see that it was all her fault, not her husband, not her sisters, it's herself.. I'm with the husband.. Marriage is work and it's not always going to be honeymoon and glitter... She needs help
as usual zero accountability for her choices
OP's insecurities destroyed her own relationship.
OP is the absolute WORST. Honestly, she worked SO HARD to prove some nonexistent affair that she went absolutely mad about her body, which was always her primary insecurity. Cheers to Jeff for walking out, she just couldn't get that he was tired, which is completely normal considering that he has a full time job. Her sister sucks too, she doesn't have any right to bodyshame OP but that didn't mean OP had to absolutely crush all her dreams, it's horrendous. Someone get this girl some therapy ASAP
OP sounds like the worst type or person. Insecurity is a bitch but letting it not only control your decisions but also create an entire delusion of reality is just pathetic. OP probably hurt her ex husband more than he ever did her.
I want to agree with OP but after what she did the whole going under the knife and stuff,
And to top it off she injured her sister and sabotage her career
That injury potentially not only benched her sister but likely DESTROYED any chance of her to be better than she was before that!
@@Kumo5980 it could've kill OP's sister. Also, about the husband... there's literally ZERO evidence that he was actually cheating. More than that, there's a huge chance that he was simply working, he's a studio photographer so it was pretty obvious that he was gonna have models around at some point
@@candegonzalez3045 yup her parents were speaking the truth to her!,
OP had it all but her insecurities just had to DESTROY it all
When Jeff divorced that shows us that he ain’t shallow
He married his love of his life (op before the surgery) not an model (op after the surgery!)
So, because you're insecure and literally say you're too lazy to work out, and can't control yourself enough to eat healthier, you let your sister talk you into getting surgery. Without talking to your husband. Who married you when you were overweight. Sister was wrong for talking behind your back like she did, but you decision was not her fault. & OP is a huge POS for setting the stage for her sis to get hurt and keep her out of competing. If this story is real, I hope karma hits OP hard AF.
not a real story After such surgery she would have sagging bits
Well all it takes is one friend or family member on Reddit that recognizes OP
She says she's no a psychopath. But she sure as hell doesn't exhibit much of a conscience. OP's sister doesn't admit her part in OP's decision, when her friend is critical of that decision. And that warrants deliberately doing bodily harm in order to take away a life long dream and hard work?? And is PROUD of it??
Sister was probably trying the best she can to provide solutions to OP (she literally recommended everything before surgery) but nothing was good enough. OP is terrible and doesn’t deserve anyone, let alone a husband or sister.
OP says she’s not a psychopath, but she’s at least a malignant narcissist. Everything is about her and all her problems are everyone else’s fault.
I hope people see OP for what she is and that her sister does too. That op ruined her sister's life.
Well, the first friend of family member that is on reddit might recognize OP and splii the beans
We can only hope it happens fast
yeah op doesn't have a healthy mindset at all she convinced herself that her husband was cheating out of insecurity and jealousy, then let her sister reinforce that mindset and convince her to get a procedure she probably didn't need, her husband getting a divorce was kinda justified as its never proven that he cheated and who would want to be with someone who accuses you of cheating. the stuff afterward with her sister is whatever as her sister was being a snake but the mindset of "im getting all this attention because of my body, these men are richer than my ex" is gonna go right out the window as op self admittedly said they were lazy and ate whatever they want and wasnt even gonna go to the gym once a week because she is lazy. all that attention is just gonna disappear after a few months
I can't decide if I think the husband was cheating during the marriage. It is possible someone who didn't work much and suddenly found themselves in a competitive, demanding job was in fact tired and stressed. If she thought he was cheating, she should have hired a PI or found a way to get proof, or an admission. We don't know, and neither did she. Also, OP is admittedly too lazy to work out, or eat a healthy diet, she isn't going to keep that "banging body".
Why stay with someone you don’t trust . She needs to work on herself
I don’t think he was cheating. She said he got hired on at a well known business. Well known business have clients left and right. OP was just delusional and naive. Her parents were right had she talked to 2 married people who both worked she would’ve known it’s not unusual behavior for certain things to die down until you “find” a groove.
@@bautistalover I agree. He went from hoping for clients to clients all the time.. Then, rather than be supportive or understanding, she jumped to conclusions. You said something else I agree with, she should have listened to her parents. From experience, it is strange how much smarter my parents have gotten as I have gotten older. One other thing someone else commented on, when women were coming to his house, it was after the divorce was finalized if I understood correctly. So technically, no, not cheating if he was sleeping with any of them, again, circumstantial.
@@areformingamadon yes exactly those girls were at the house after the divorce was finalized and depending on how long it took it’s no one business who he’s sleeping with in the home.
Honestly I was unsure whether the husband was cheating or not. Part of me kind of thought he was, but what OP's parents said made sense. I can simply guess the kind of workload the husband had with the new job, and sure I understand how OP could feel uncomfortable with him working with super attractive women. But like some people said, OP should've hired a PI to have concrete proof. Going under the knife for a BBL w/o discussing it with her husband was mistake no. 1. Having her sister be disqualified from the competition was major mistake no. 2.
Now that OP has that "banging body", she believes the world is her oyster. Unless she miraculously meets a rich person who happens to have decent moral standards, chances are that she will actually be cheated on with the next attractive woman because I don't believe majority of physical relationships last so long. I hope OP seeks professional help because the thought process/mindset she's shown thus far is concerning.
You should’ve talk to your husband before you did it. 0P you can’t surprise a spouse like that.
He was screwing around due to the fact on how fast he brought those models home as soon as the ink was on the final decree
I was mind blown when she said she couldn't go to the gym... Like what?!?!
With sisters like that who needs enemies!
How you tell stories is fantastic! Really appreciate it 😊
An extremely irritating voice
OP is so hateful and detestable, I could not even finish the story. Her sister was cruel in her words, but OP actually caused her own destruction. She was the one who was suspecting her husband cheating regardless, if her sister interfered. The sisters interference was just more proof to the husband that his wife didn’t trust him.
If my sister came to me for a talk, I would not have said all that crap OP sister said 0P is quite insecure and it shows that’s OK. We all have things we need to work on and that she can’t blame him They were better ways of supporting her sister, who is being brutally negative and in my mind showing her no support not even oh I’m so sorry and we don’t even know if he’s cheating yet not every guy cheats when he gets around thin women, especially if his wife is overweight some people actually care about the person on the inside not the outside.
Agreed that the sister was a b***h, but she probably didn’t deserve to be denied her one shot at something she worked for since she was four-years-old stolen from her. I think OP’s revenge was unnecessarily harsh.
there shouldn’t have been revenge in the first place. OP made everyone around her cater to her insecurities until something surgical was brought up, like how are you going to help someone who doesn’t want to help themselves? you can’t. OP is a cruel, terrible person and she shouldn’t have anyone around her.
So I got to to the part where she is thinking about going under the knife. From what I remember of the beginning of this story she was heavy when she married him. So what makes her think that he wants a skinny girl if he loved her just the way she was and is? People will do the craziest things. I feel so bad for her, she seems very insecure.
He might have settled for her since he had no money when they got married. When he started making money he really lost interest in her. She had every right to be insecure since she was losing him anyway. Good thing she put the $6k to good use before she had to split it in divorce court. Sister was right, but OP should have discussed it with her husband first.
@@BillAnon lol she’s going to gain that old body back. Then that 6k and the marriage will be lost.
@@bautistalover A lot of you guys missed that the marriage was over anyway. He completely lost attraction for her.
At the end, she ends up purposefully trying to injure her sister so she can’t compete in the Olympics. It’s not clear if the sister slipped in the shower or fell because of OP’s deliberately getting the sister’s floor wet in the hopes she would slip, but sister injured her ankle and couldn’t compete. OP was delighted. So yes, she is insecure, but her maliciousness makes her more of a narcissist than a victim.
@wayneanon
Everyone kept saying he was just working & saving for his future family. What family?
You have to have sex to get pregnant. There was no sex,no time, no attention. He was mad she showed up at work. Is it any wonder she began to get insecure? It doesn't take any "energy"to tell someone you love them & reassure them that they are fine just the way they are. Would it have killed him to send a text or voice mail during the day?
I do not approve of what she let her sister talk her into doing. Her sister fed on her insecurities. In stead of love & reassurance, she got condemnation & accusations. A real loving sister would not have done the things she did to OP. I can understand OP's thoughts in regards to her marriage. I have been there myself.
I do NOT agree with her plans to ruin her sister's chance at the Olympics. Surely there was other ways to get the revenge she thought her sister deserved. I can understand her wanting revenge. Her sister did her real dirty but what she did was over the line.
I think Jeff was the most to blame in the senario. He obviously does not know how to communicate & didn't value or prioritize his marriage and Im not talking about sex. I can understand the tiredness & stress of the new job but it takes no time to give your wife a hug & kiss.
The marriage died due to lack of intamacy.
My husband & I do not have as much sex as we did 20 years ago when we first started dating. We DO however, have more intimacy.
He always gives me a kiss in the morning to start our day & a kiss at night before we go to sleep. We cuddle at night in bed & talk a bit before we turn the lights out to go to sleep. He sends me funny texts and messages during the day to let me know he was thinking about me. He holds my hand when we are in public or driving in the car. He makes time for me even if we have to "schedule" it.
OP did not feel loved or wanted. Her husband knew. He made no attempts to prove otherwise.
Even with a new job he could have told his boss he needed a day or weekend off to spend with his wife. Work could have scheduled around a small request like that. I mean who took all tje pictures before he was hired?
And I wanted to know why pictures of half naked models were on his personal phone. If he was shooting a paid session, wouldn't he be using an ACTUAL camera to send a proof sheet to his boss?
No professional photographer would use a camera phone to shoot a session for a client. Camera phones are good these days but have nowhere near the power a professional 📷 does.
Sorry for the long rant. The story really hit me. It was almost identical to why my first marriage imploded and
BTW I do believe Jeff was cheating. If he wasn't he would have gone out of his way to orove his loyalty when OP made her first set of accusations.
Silence speaks volumes.
End of rant.
She was highly insecure but ex husband didn’t help, a whole messed up situation
Having plastic surgery is not gonna save your marriage talking to him talking to each other it’s going to do that ask him tell him what you’re feeling that is what a marriage is communication
And when OP's family finds out about her reddit post....she CAUSED her sister's accident!! She isn't right in the head.
What is the point of liposuction and a bbl if you won't workout?
zero accountability, the only one at fault for her divorce was her and her insecurities, she chose to have an operation without consulting her husband.
Accountability is what Op lacks she's insecure and a phycho
OP only has herself to blame 💯. A little jealous as well
OP was an idiot for not just talking to her husband about everything plus also she was definitely jealous that her husband was working with models but couldn't understand that some men and women have an attraction to people with some "meat" on their bones. Two of my ex's friends are in that type of relationship with one being so skinny that he could be snapped like a twig and his boyfriend is slightly heavy set but they love each other even with their jobs
Yeah OP definitely has something wrong upstairs
I think he was either cheating or was in the verge. I've been married to the same man for almost 30 years and I listen to these stories wondering why in earth these people get married in the first place if they're willing to give up and walk away so easily. Marriage is not easy, it is a fight, but it is worth it
She says no price was too big to pay. As long as the price wasnt a little of her time to exercise and maybe not stuff her face.
What an awful woman. Not a psychopath? Yeah right.
I was under the impression that for elective surgeries like what OP got, that you have to see a therapist or something like that. I guess I just figured something like seeing a therapist before getting unnecessary procedures done was a nice dream.
Maybe they aren’t in the US.
@@bautistalover probably. Seems like a lot of posts are from people where English is not their first language and usually it's better written than those where English is their first language.
@@jennilynne1977 lol too true. Sounds like this OP would’ve benefited from a psych evaluation. Like why would you let someone get that kind of procedure if they aren’t willing to eat right and exercise to help themselves.🤷🏿♀️
OP he is photographer. He photographs models. What did you expect on his phone. For them to all look like goblins
How sad. You failed your marriage by constantly accusing your husband of cheating and draining the savings without discussion.
OP s/h talked it over w/her husband and he could have reassured her that he loves her the way that she is. Then if she was still doubtful then she could have hired a PI to find out if he was cheating or not.
When you are in a relationship, all big and some small decisions must be discussed. People might think “It’s his/her money so he/she can do whatever”, but that’s not how a good relationship works. It’s all about both compromising, empathizing, understanding, and sharing. OP’s husband is right to be mad, but also looking at himself and his actions contributing to OP’s insecurity. Neither are innocent here.
Edit: Whoa! OP does need therapy.
This woman needs serious help!
I think OP made a big mistake
You’re his wife you’re better than a model OP get the work done if you want to get it done but don’t do it for your husband. If you’re going to do it do it for you but also get some therapy as well.
True, you may love him, but it sounds one-sided. There are other men out there that love women who do not fit the ideal skinny model
OP's going to need a lot more than a lift. Wasted money in a pathetic attempt.
Op is the Worst !!!!!!! So is the sister they both bad as each other
she was nuts
First of all, if you're insecure with the fact that your husband is cheating, prove it first with an investigator. Secondly, there's a difference between being a part of the reason why your husband divorced you after one year of marriage, and a life-long dream. Maybe you saying that you're not a psychopath is you knowing what people are going to say for good reason. I'm very sorry that you got your feelings hurt, but you're the reason that you're not fit. You said that yourself that your lazy and don't watch what you eat. Although, since your husband having a women come over a few days later probably means that you weren't wrong in your assumptions.
A 30 something y/o man who goes without sex for almost a month because he's "tired"!? No way. He's definitely cheating. Men always make time for sex. I guess you are all forgetting about the fact that he's bringing these models home, too, once the divorce was done? Guess he must have gotten a second wind so he's.... all of a sudden... not too tired any more to pu out.
Anyone else find it funny how the girl is kinda demanding sex like the husband is her little sex toy. If it was the other way around ppl would be yelling she doesn't owe him sex and such
I think OP's husband was over the marriage and used the surgery as an excuse to leave.
Why should the OP have to talk to her husband or her parents? It is her body and her choice. She does not need anyone's "consent". The husband was a grade A jerk in any case and would have left her no matter what. As for the sister - doing that was very childish. The OP needs a lot of help.
“Can’t wait for my husband to salivate every time I move”. I threw up a lot in my mouth. Her lack of depth is unfathomable
What your sister did is wrong or people, so is what you did you need to go onto therapy get some security in yourself you lost your husband. He liked you. The way you were before you don’t hide major surgery from family members especially your own husband. I am sorry, but this is karma getting you too.
When op said she was lazy I was rooting for her husband to cheat or find someone else because your insecure and don't want to do anything about it
no one need a sis like op
OP has issues. Her insecurities have ruined her marriage and her sister’s future. I would never want to be near her.
OMG what evil person in the end!
She should have researched this on the web. I hope she is happy
Sounds good for her so for
OP’s husband married her knowing she was overweight so why would he suddenly change his feelings for her? Even if he was putting work before their marriage, that’s not the same as cheating. Even though she didn’t tell him what she was doing, why couldn’t he be happy for her when she finally had a thin healthy body? As for OP’s sister, I don’t believe that she did any wrong. She didn’t force OP to take her advice. OP made that decision herself. Ruining her sister’s chances at the Olympics was just plain evil! Shame on you OP for doing that. What goes around comes around and you will pay a price one day for destroying your sister’s life long dream. She had no way of knowing that your husband would respond the way he did. It was a risk that you willingly took. You can never give her back what you’ve taken from her.
Because she didn’t do it because she wanted to be healthy. She did it to claim her territory she did all that because she believes his cheating without proof . It was all in vain .
I think OP and her sister's family were low-key toxic.
Parents definitely noticed the weight/size differences in their kids and did nothing to guide OP into a healthy relationship with food. But were all under her sister because she had a long term goal of going for the Olympics, and being the skinny one in general.
This was a long time coming. If it didn't come down to this it would've been something else to trigger a similar response.
My son and I think he was lying. He didn't have time for her but quickly got over her. Then had time for models? I don't think so. She did not have a healthy mindset though.
No price is too much to pay, except for exercising and eating smart.
Ummmm, OP is not a very nice person
No way 5k changes things that much surgery wise
Op the AH definitely pitiful everyone has a job and still makes time to go to the gym that type of mindset is the worst and can lead into a early grave but the husband is still a idiot for not communicating doesn’t matter what’s going on still need to talk and it was her money not his she didn’t need permission at all
Op can't even work out for 1 time ?
She definitely gains gain massive weight
OP is so annoying. She could’ve easily worked out before work or after work. She acts like she’s the only person in the world that works five days a week. She could’ve made time, everything she does just irritates me because she sounds like a freaking psychopath for what she did and blaming her sister why she chose to go under the knife. She should’ve been an adult and talked to her husband like an adult
Your sister should have told you if have to change anything about yourself to please someone that they don’t deserve you as you are.
Thanks again Mr Reddito
I'm 45 female, I don't know if it comes with age but you can't control everything or someone else's feelings. If you can't trust your partner and do nothing but worry all the time why stay with them? If your partner is going to cheat their is nothing you can do about it, why worry and fret overy it? Until it actually happens why make everyone miserable? Seems like these people somehow drive their partners into cheating or leaving. Just be happy and content until you are actually confronted with evidence.
how does op have no time to work out and stalk her husband. also how does she expect h to be interested when she accused him of cheating. Op is seriously gluttonous either food or sex, and she is significantly narcissistic.
Maybe Ops suspicion accusations and inability to support her husbands budding career is why she lost her husband before she got surgery. Having a psycho clingy wife would make me stay at work IMO took her insecurities to the next level
I'm going to be honest. I still feel like the husband had been cheating. Yes what her sister did was cruel and destructive, but the fact he was inviting those women into the house only a few days after divorce isn't just coincidence. he was seeing them and was just waiting for some way to break away from OP. Her changing her body was the perfect escape for him. The fact he could not even consider taking some leave of absence even when it was a possibility tells that he really had no intention of trying to fix the marriage. And the kids argument does not help when they weren't even being intimate to HAVE that child.
That said, OP's vindictive behavior towards her sister is unnerving. And definitely doesn't really fit the crime, but then the sister did entice OP to fork over 5K for something like this. The only positive is the parents have remained supportive through it. They warned her of the consequences but remain as parents should be, supportive.
It wasn’t a few days…have you never heard the saying the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. He could be using sex a a coping mechanism which isn’t necessarily healthy.
I think her husband contributed to her insecurities if he truly loved her and was attracted he would have internally felt that, and had some responsibility for that . He used it for a way out as for sister not her fault . How can she understand rationships if her love is competition, which op took from her. Op should have known that . I mark it as age and love makes u do things. Your sister tried to help best she could ,but has no clue how. She is your sister for life. I'm glad u got surgery for yourself not anyone else. Feel good life is short.
This story is crazy. This women is nuts smh
Ok. OP is just a nasty person. She was the one to cause her divorce by not trusting her husband. Her sister didn't deserve her revenge. To me it sounds like her sister thought OP needed the operation for her sanity. Ok sister shouldn't have talked about OP to her friend, but OP really took things way too far.
Can I say that this story is nothing but a pathetic case of miscommunication. The husband got busy and like men usually do, assumed that it was alright. Advice: it's NEVER is, especially when the wife is insecure. And then, let's not forget about the OP. Since he's neglecting me, he's cheating. She never once bothered to talk it out with with her husband.
Yeah, she messed up a lot. I hate how everything turned out for her but I do think her marriage was doomed anyway her husband had already made up his mind And mentally and emotionally checked out he was putting everything above her and spending time plus he more than likely was cheating going that long without sex, and even when he forced himself to do it with her, she felt that it was robotic come on after that long of not getting none, he should’ve been like a madman on top of her. He didn’t want to be with her otherwise he wouldn’t have been bringing those very women in the house that she transferred herself to look like as soon as they got divorced, he seems like he was really just looking for a reason and OP gave him an out.
Oh, she’s gonna get her karma later for doing what she did to her sister
I hate the Lume ads on you tube
No, not believing this one.
Maybe I missed something, who forced you to have surgery? Were you kidnapped and taken to hospital? Have you no mind of your own? Shame on you, OP, I guess you can start eating again. 😻😁😻
... it sounds like her insecurities are eating her alive. she wants to "save her marriage" with the fastest option because she has convinced herself that hubby wants skinny hot girls, she helped an accident happen to ruin her sister's dream, she takes no accountability for her own problems... Like I was sad she wrecked her marriage but that she was overjoyed her sister got hurt is disgusting.
OP is an ungly person, just because she got knocked down a few pegs doesn’t mean she gets to turn around and hammer her sister
Some men prefer women with a little plumpness to anorexic looking ones. I'm old enough to remember May West and how she made being a heavy set woman beautiful. There is other heavy set women in the movies as well they are beautiful too!
Enjoyed the story but op needs some to talk to someone about her insecurities towards other women. They do not have a healthy mindset in the slightest and it irks me something awful how she shames others for their body type
Like it's all so vindictive it feels fake
So OP is a piece of...
Sociopath or psychopath or narcissist- op is one of these or a couple of these!
Husband was cheating no man does that with out being turned off at his wives body/smell, cheating or gay
OP 😞
If it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck, walks like a duck, and smells like a duck, then it’s a duck. The husband’s a cheater. OP’s surgery was a very convenient excuse for divorcing her and moving up the food chain.
Yeah, I believe he was cheating too and used her surgery as an excuse also.
Her sis in an athlete. But her words were mean. Not tough love just mean. But she did offer her decent advice and that was to go to the gym with her. OP admitted to just being lazy. Wouldn’t go to the gym once a week because she’s just lazy. And just like that all of my sympathy went out the window. Was her husband hiding something at this point who the fuck cares. Because the fact that she was too lazy to take her ass to the gym once a week and work on her confidence, but it was quick to get surgery and then bragged about how Richer men were attracted to her now and then purposely sabotage her sisters, athletic dream because that supposedly ruined her marriage. so far is the only bad story I’ve ever heard. I mean her husband was definitely cheating I mean be serious.
This is fiction again
I have no sympathy for the original poster and everything that happened to her she destroyed her own marriage her sister didn't do that she did that before the sister even came into the picture Plus on top of that she says she's not a narcissist but in all honesty she is she sounds like an insecure narcissistic person but I think she went from oh my God I can't believe my sister destroyed my marriage to the point where she went oh look I have a hot body now I can use this to attract way more attractive men than my husband and I don't have to worry about any model stealing those men away from me yeah spoken like a true insecure narcissistic person and thank God the husband dodged a bullet with her especially if it came to kids because I'm pretty sure she would have made everything about her and not those kids of that man got her pregnant like this person is the true definition of a train wreck
I kind of feel like the husband was cheating on her, he was too tired to have sex but before they were even divorced he's having girls come over for dates???? Ummm not adding up there in my opinion
Op a weirdo
ESH, there were different ways to talking it out, but the sister is just the worst. Sorry but I'm just as suspicious of the hubby, maybe he wasn't cheating but possibly he wasn't honest that he was no into "it". Maybe he's really ace and aromantic the whole time yet he never told the op.
Or maybe he really was just tired adjusting to having shoots left and right as opposed to his lax schedule before he got hired.
In my opinion, married less than a year, he wasn’t just tired. His excuses are all those of a cheating man. She’s free of him and can move on. However, I’m sad about what she tried to do to her sister. Very petty. She lost her hubby because he wasn’t attracted to her anymore.😢
OP's ex husband is going to regret his life some day. When he realizes the choices he made, he will wish OP was back. At the same time.. OP's own sister had better watch herself now. After what she (Op's sister) did to her own sister, there's a chance her marriage some day will face the same sort of DOOM of OP's 2nd revenge.
He has nothing to regret. He was suspected unfairly of cheating and his wife went full on psycho and changed her body to claim her territory. He married her chubby because he loved her as she was. The only person with regrets should be OP because she blew up her marriage for nothing. In short if her husband wanted a skinny woman he would’ve married one not OP.
There is no way in hell 3 weeks is enough for the swelling to go down and give you a "a bangging body" if OP was overweight, then she would have a fat face, legs and arms. Suckinf the fat out of your belly and waist and transfering it into the but does not make you thin. And i know this because i had lipo when i was overweight, you must wear the compressing body suit at least a month and when the month was over, there wast much difference. It was until i got a gastric sleeve that i lost weight, and then i had skin removal surgery with fat transferred to my but that I got the "banging body." I dont really like the animated channel. The stories sound fake. I would rather listen to the normal channel with the lovely background.
Totally agree This is not a true story & Mr Reddito is stupid if he thinks people will be taken in
"I discovered he was now bringing these ladies into his home and I am certain it was not for work."
Right up until this was said at 25:59 I believed Jeff was not cheating, but c'mon a WEEK after divorce papers and he is already hitting the fast lanes with these ladies? He may have been upset OP went under the knife, and he might have been hurt that she feared he was cheating.... but sounds to me more like he wanted an excuse to divorce OP so he could play the field freely. The divorce is not even finalized so yeah it's still CHEATING no matter how you slice it. So I think OP is better off without him if she stops and thinks about the timing and everything. That above sentence alone makes me question his character and makes me think he was cheating on her prior to the surgery. Now I might be wrong about that, but a week? A week was all it took before he got his side piece? No, he was just very good at hiding it.
I do hope however that OP doesn't do anything drastic like this in the future and that she learns from this mistake and finds someone to love her for her, not the body she has. If the love is based solely off of looks or money and not the person within.... that's not real true love, It's a shallow person's 'love'.
It was a week AFTER the divorce was finalized. She didn’t say how long the divorce took. It could’ve been months. Either way him sleeping with people a week after it was finalized isn’t proof he was cheating. It could mean he’s using sex as a coping mechanism it happens all the time. OP is delusional and insecure and she let these 2 things wreck her marriage. There’s no proof whatsoever he cheated. Instead of spending 5k on BBL she should’ve hired PI.
I'm absolutely certain the husband was cheating on op. You don't go weeks or months without sex with you spouse unless you're cheating.
Commentors who weren't targeted by body fat and body shaming, they have no right to speak about controlling body and things surrounding.. sister is changing her verse which equals back stabbing.. husband roams with waving red flags all over.. whom are they kidding
op needs therapy. a LOT of it