GIRL CHAT VAULT: Getting Fit for a Proposal

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  • Real fam, would you go extra hard at the gym in preparation for an anticipated marriage proposal?

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  • @samanthaclyne2011
    @samanthaclyne2011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    Jeannie always has inspirational & reflective moments such as what she shared about her friend passing

  • @sarongebretatios652
    @sarongebretatios652 4 ปีที่แล้ว +329

    College taught me that not everyone was raised the same. You wouldn’t believe how many people struggle with cleaning and hygiene

    • @immapunchu5313
      @immapunchu5313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yeah. Sometimes, even public restroom teaches me a lot.

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly

    • @transparentsunflower8295
      @transparentsunflower8295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I seriously was confused and upset when a college boyfriend had the nerve to complain about me not doing his laundry with him.....like bro I don't hold no one's hand!!

  • @mimimella383
    @mimimella383 4 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    If he had to resort to a letter, I'm pretty sure hes tried the talk before. And hiring a maid? Please, just clean up after yourself...not all of us have the luxury of being able to afford someone else to clean up after us.

    • @noflex7403
      @noflex7403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      right and he don't need to hire a maid to flush the damn toilet lol

    • @moimeself1088
      @moimeself1088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@noflex7403 i cane to say exactly this! Like wtf?? 1st world problems... like seriously, flush your damn toilet.

  • @blessingbatista7230
    @blessingbatista7230 4 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    Thats nasty, period.
    Im 100% sure he spoke to her before writing the note... Come on, common sense ppl.

    • @Julia-gh9kz
      @Julia-gh9kz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      u know there's this quote: "Common sense is like deodorant, the people who need it most never use it." It's funny because its true. Lol

  • @freemindsloveforever
    @freemindsloveforever 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Every episode: Loni "thats why im not married
    Tamera: Adam and I...
    J: heres the thing
    A: outraged as a New Yorker
    😝😝😝😝😝😝

  • @lifeisrosyyy
    @lifeisrosyyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    No one:
    Loni: and that’s why I’m single!!!

  • @berylhall2204
    @berylhall2204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Tamara is very brave, I could never tell him why I was crying. I would just tell him I miss my grandma

  • @disneylady9116
    @disneylady9116 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I love Tameras honesty. It’s awesome, beautiful and real. A great example for so many!

  • @kristahess5030
    @kristahess5030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    The way Adrienne called her out for being nasty 😂😂😂😂 I died

  • @tamerilee
    @tamerilee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    Jeannie really needs to write a book

    • @zwengji
      @zwengji 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She's too loud for tv

    • @Sssssssslf
      @Sssssssslf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      On what?

  • @lizet3more
    @lizet3more 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Is it just me but Adrienne has a habit of jumping into a conversation way too often to be heard without really processing what's being discussed and just saying anything even when it all doesn't make sense 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @0310tp
      @0310tp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      100%%%%%%%

    • @doneecemcneil7826
      @doneecemcneil7826 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Gm edagdwg glad I'm not the only one paying attention to what Miss A. Is doing most of the time no respect and never real and she thinks she's saying something important sad Linda j. Peace

  • @shawnise311
    @shawnise311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I’m with Tamara, stop doing things for validation from others. Do it for yourself!

  • @itsjustmeflo8684
    @itsjustmeflo8684 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Adrienne 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 well you'll be in shape for the next guy! I can't breathe 😂🤣

  • @KarSol21
    @KarSol21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    Adrienne is grossed out that the lady doesn't flush. But she has admitted that she doesn't always wash her hands after using the restroom? 🤔 That's gross too 😖

    • @Mel__21
      @Mel__21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      It's 2020. Let's leave this behind because y'all exaggerated as always. She says sometimes in the middle of the night when she goes to the bathroom she forgets to wash her hands because she's to tired. I'm sure we've all done that. At 3am it happens.

    • @KarSol21
      @KarSol21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@Mel__21 its still as gross as not flushing, if not more. You wipe and have bacteria on your hands, hands should always be washed.

    • @Mel__21
      @Mel__21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@KarSol21 that's why u make sure to wash your hands in the morning once you wake up. There u go problem solved.

    • @Kc24piv
      @Kc24piv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Mel 21 mo cuz you’re like touching your face in your sleep and stuff.

    • @bambi7563
      @bambi7563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Mel 21 umm no one exaggerated. She literally said she just don’t wash her hands, and then cause they backlash she went and tried to explain it away and not seem as bad by saying the 3am thing. Ain’t no one exaggerating they literally just stating exactly what she said so calm down

  • @brunom72
    @brunom72 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    if you read the beginning of the letter, it stated that she "promised to change her bathroom habits" and that she broke HER promise to him.

    • @tanjimhannan4627
      @tanjimhannan4627 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      brunom72 I must be blind how do you read that

  • @aicarpediem1500
    @aicarpediem1500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'm with Tamera and Jeannie on this one.Just happy to be alive.It could be worst so I'm grateful

  • @ammal411
    @ammal411 4 ปีที่แล้ว +328

    Yo Jeanie is a gem she needs to be protected at all costs!!

  • @gabriella8141
    @gabriella8141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I feel like Loni’s explanation would mean that everyone is funny, but they’re not. Some people just find it harder to be happy, not because they’re ungrateful, but because they have so much trouble living in the moment. And this does not include those who are clinically depressed or too anxious, those are separate issues.

  • @along58
    @along58 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I thought the letter was hilarious and wasn’t toxic at all. The tone of the letter was sarcastic

    • @christengardner4780
      @christengardner4780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agree and I think the girl doing some things are nasty. The toilet may not be flushed I it's late af and he sleeping right there that's rude at to wake someone up she probably peed and washed her hands after. Towels on the floor because no one gana Keep buying a rug period.

    • @EllePlowPlow
      @EllePlowPlow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      To write a letter like that to someone who is supposed to be your equal, not your child, is passive aggressive.

    • @along58
      @along58 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Elle Plow Plow you have to actually read the letter. The contents of the letter were clearly a joke.

  • @tammyj4369
    @tammyj4369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This is why we have 2 bathrooms in my house. I deal with my mess and my hubby deals with his...one less problem for us to deal with.

  • @lipsohlips97
    @lipsohlips97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I had many a roommate who wouldn't remove their hair from the drain after showering... After months of dealing with it when i confronted them they would always be shocked like it was a foreign concept... Some people just live differently i guess lol

    • @animebabe539
      @animebabe539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      lipsohlips97 That's disgusting.

    • @lipsohlips97
      @lipsohlips97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@animebabe539 Yes, it was very disgusting to live with, but even more frustrating when they made me feel like the crazy one LOL

    • @bosslady1973
      @bosslady1973 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's a MUST to remove that extra hair! Also, a woman's background might speak to this. Maybe she never had to clean up after herself, had maids, etc. A plumber is expensive. Draino can be as well.

    • @lipsohlips97
      @lipsohlips97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@bosslady1973 I think they never had to share a bathroom with someone so it didn't matter if their hair was there or not. Two of the girls were Chinese and from generation of the single child rule. But one was like white and I know she grew up in a tougher environment and low key raised her younger sibling. I'm not a confrontational person so first few times I sucked it up and removed their hair for them... which no lie was disgusting... I told my friends and they told me to confront the people. Some were understanding and like okay while others I had to keep reminding and every time they gave me the "You're crazy look" lol

    • @lagirlforever9723
      @lagirlforever9723 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I had a roommate in college that would do the same!! 😷 It was so disgusting and I did confront her about it. But nothing came about it so I decided to get out of there and get a different roommate lol

  • @shawnise311
    @shawnise311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    They’re tripping. That woman is trifling. I agree with Adrian!

    • @theeladystacyaustin5005
      @theeladystacyaustin5005 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That not how you spell Adrienne's name. A-d-r-i-e-n-n-e

    • @carlawalker4989
      @carlawalker4989 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What chew know bout trifling 😉🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @BATOOLESK
    @BATOOLESK 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    adrienne is missing loni's point ! maybe he knew she is nasty but married her for other attributes she has !

  • @chubbybunny123
    @chubbybunny123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    i just could not deal with someone so nasty, i'm very protective of my space and most men are not taught to do basic thing IF YOU'RE A MOM OF A BOY PLS DONT LET HIM GO FROM HOME BEFORE BEING A CLEAN HUMAN THANKS

  • @nikkib5753
    @nikkib5753 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Y'all be reaching Loni & Tamara. We DO NOT know he hasn't talked to her. I guarantee you he didn't hold it in EVERY day, without ever saying a word, and one day decided to tape a book about it on the mirror. He PROBABLY got sick & tired of ASKING her to change those habits. They say, people tend to LISTEN BETTER when they READ it instead of being told it. On another note, she's disgusting. The "dirty bathroom" issues are a sign of MUCH deeper rooted issues.

    • @along58
      @along58 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nikki B He also said at the beginning of the letter that she mentioned how she was going to change her bathroom habits in the new year because she knew that he was irritated by it. After a year of her not changing is when he wrote the letter. They definitely didn’t actually read the letter, and they’re definitely reaching.

    • @nikkib5753
      @nikkib5753 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@along58 ohhhhh, see!!! Now, all them hosts should have been aware of that part!! That changes how they may have reacted to it! Thank you for letting me know. I mean, I was not born YESTERDAY! Clearly this has been an ongoing issue. I cannot imagine. I am so OCD I could NEVER girl!!

    • @siadara8874
      @siadara8874 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She's straight up nasty and disgusting! I cannot believe they are blaming the man smh she is a wife therefore an adult since in US children don't marry!
      And she doesnt know to flush after using the toilet?

  • @tatiannaclyde5617
    @tatiannaclyde5617 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I LOVE watching these episodes at work, but the story of Tamera thinking she was getting proposed to? Had me dying😂😂the strength it took to not laugh?! that poor soul. I'm glad everything worked out for her though.

  • @Bohlaleinabowl
    @Bohlaleinabowl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Loni's makeup is worrying me, who's her makeup artist?

  • @lynnshiro6984
    @lynnshiro6984 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love how Loni and Tamera joked and ended it with I love you...

  • @rosabellef3582
    @rosabellef3582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Had a date with my boyfriend now fiancé at a nice restaurant and God I thought he was gonna propose that day... it’s all the questions he was asking on our way... it’s like he was a little nervous ..? I was SO disappointed when the night passed by and he never got on one knee 🤣🤣🤣

  • @sarahissa2109
    @sarahissa2109 4 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    Loni’s makeup artist needs to be fired today!!!!!!

    • @AppleSofi
      @AppleSofi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      This is an old clip; I believe she changed the makeup artist a really long time ago. That or the MUA improved quite a lot over the seasons...

    • @Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves
      @Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      FACTS!

    • @hayleydavis1449
      @hayleydavis1449 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You are a bully!!!

    • @jessicareyesnyc2211
      @jessicareyesnyc2211 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sarah Issa I said the same thing girl, I said the same thing

    • @sarahissa2109
      @sarahissa2109 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hayley Davis I mean why?

  • @vyspeeds
    @vyspeeds 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    If I was an audience member I would be wishing I could get a cocktail too

  • @sangeetha8214
    @sangeetha8214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Watching old The Real videos during quarantine to feel like I'm hanging with my friends! :P

  • @LoniLoni11
    @LoniLoni11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    10 hours of crying!?! Wow

  • @_FAITHXO
    @_FAITHXO 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Just have to point out there, I love the complicity friendship between Loni and Tamera at 7:14... for me that's a good example of love, trust and friendship. Love you all girl #keepingitreal

  • @jayysworldd..
    @jayysworldd.. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Chileee i hope these rumors about loni leaving isn't true cause she cannot be replaced 😭

    • @tamerilee
      @tamerilee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Jay's world yeah, she keeps the ladies grounded and I need uncle James to make another appearance on the show :(

    • @animebabe539
      @animebabe539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is a long time ago though. She has become really shady lately and just doesn't care.

    • @MajesticMyronn
      @MajesticMyronn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jay's world she posted on her IG saying just to tune in Jan 6th... because people keep asking if it’s true... all of our important questions will be answered cuz there’s actually been several rumors spread about the show ever since they stopped filming to go on Mid Season Holiday Hiatus... luckily most of its positive but this one rumor about Loni being replaced by Amanda ( which somehow magically ended up on SOME blogs two days later ) is the one that people are dwelling on st the moment

    • @chandlerpope2072
      @chandlerpope2072 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Myronn Coleman wow I didn’t even know about Loni’s (unconfirmed) removal, I thought Amanda was going to be the 5th host, not a replacement

  • @alexxachloe
    @alexxachloe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don’t want to judge but, a dirty bathroom is sooooo gross to me. I can’t stand it😖

  • @TheCami38
    @TheCami38 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Also if you have fibroids know your iron levels and blood count. My old doctor let me get down to 4 pints of blood and my primary and I kept telling her something was us. I got a new doctor and she read my blood work and after iron IVs and shots I got a hysterectomy. To say all that when my new doctor read my blood work she was like your next period could of given you a heart attack.

    • @shantell4847
      @shantell4847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You said something I never knew

    • @sleepqueen1350
      @sleepqueen1350 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Dang sis that's scary, glad you're ok!

    • @TheCami38
      @TheCami38 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lop Dert thank you and yes it was. By the grace of GOD I’m glad I’m okay too. Hearing the initial was scary. But being told to go and have my hemoglobin check because something could be happen and I not know was even scarier. To know that all this states out being Carrie for by a black female doctor who had the same situation and brush it off. Knowing that Black and Latino women have a higher rate of this happening was heartbreaking.

    • @christengardner4780
      @christengardner4780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have fibroids and tbh I was told that I can't give blood or anything and my white blood cell count is to high. I'm a nurse and I ignored it until it started to bother my health and I'm only 20 so a lot of people including doctors are concerned.

    • @TheCami38
      @TheCami38 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Christen Gardner please take care of yourself and make sure you have a team of good doctors.

  • @nanasokool3193
    @nanasokool3193 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    So we gone act like the DIDNT finish lonies makeup

  • @totsysmith309
    @totsysmith309 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Its also nasty to use the bathroom and not wash your hands !!!

  • @yolandadiaz2914
    @yolandadiaz2914 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm working out for my Wedding.. i was not thinking about the proposal...lol buuuut I will use my proposal pic as a before and after..LOL!

  • @Jj_86
    @Jj_86 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Loni looks great and hair is so cute 🥰

  • @rohidnablayy6060
    @rohidnablayy6060 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m Irish and yes Ireland is beautiful the weather kinda sucks buts is such a pretty country 🇮🇪💚💚💚

  • @jamierobinson8565
    @jamierobinson8565 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You should be working out all the time not just for a damn certain time

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I’m not sure about anybody else... but homeboy is BUGGING ! I understand his frustration with his wife... but umm there’s no need to make a list of “ rules “ for your wife to follow... having a simple conversation about how it upsets you and how u want to make sure that the bathroom stays clean could’ve been the best option to use

    • @Jay.Laurent
      @Jay.Laurent 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I just finished reading the letter. I pause and zoomed in, and it definitely has been mentioned that they've spoken about this many times in their 8 year long relationship. The letter seemed kinda quirky/funny, not overtly rude and toxic as this conversation is suggesting. it just seems like a man who is very tidy and at his wits end with a somewhat spoiled wife😂

  • @jessicareyesnyc2211
    @jessicareyesnyc2211 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Who did loni’s makeup ? I have questions 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @hayleydavis1449
      @hayleydavis1449 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Bully...how do you think these comments make Loni feel???

  • @MsDee-xc8uc
    @MsDee-xc8uc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Y'all look gorgeous!!!
    P.S.: Don't leave Loni!!

  • @MJ-qc3qy
    @MJ-qc3qy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    HOLLUPPPP! Tam was with Adam SIX YEARS before marriage? What you doin for 6 years?!

  • @V23-j6w
    @V23-j6w 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jeanie really be calling me out from minute 8:53-9:04

  • @leelar.3010
    @leelar.3010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If this situation was the other way around and she wrote him that note; they would all be cheering her on. This would've been a whole other conversation. FACT

    • @siadara8874
      @siadara8874 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is nasty! The man shouldnt have to tell you to flush my God

  • @Squeegees123
    @Squeegees123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    damn imagine telling a guy you thought he was gonna propose after 4 years and he still doesn’t after a year and even then y’all still break up? 5-6 years is a little too long. Made me see Adam a little differently. Glad they’re happy now though

    • @Private.Jetson
      @Private.Jetson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ikr he was weird for that

    • @Squeegees123
      @Squeegees123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I think she said they broke up for a year then they got back together after. A grown ass man went 6 years without sex? 🤨🤨🤔🤔

    • @cristinitao
      @cristinitao 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      KU4EVER100 Tamera didn’t wait until marriage for sex though

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      4 years is too damn long one year,two years tops life is too short to be wasting years for people that don’t value you

    • @reneeelizabeth8666
      @reneeelizabeth8666 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cristinita really??

  • @9188jenni
    @9188jenni 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That letter was so passive aggressive. Gotta learn to communicate directly

  • @darlenechisley4916
    @darlenechisley4916 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tam what if he did do it face to face and the letter was the last straw

  • @AfricanUrbnLegend
    @AfricanUrbnLegend 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I'm sorry but Loni's makeup isn't looking good to me. Did they forget to brush away her backing powder under her eyes?

    • @lipsohlips97
      @lipsohlips97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      LOL ik this was an old video... they have improved since lol

    • @sarahissa2109
      @sarahissa2109 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol that’s what I said

    • @amariahlovelace5113
      @amariahlovelace5113 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That and her lashes on her left eye

    • @LaLa31089
      @LaLa31089 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      And that happens a lot. It has an ash overtone

    • @hayleydavis1449
      @hayleydavis1449 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bully!!

  • @Isa-jl5vz
    @Isa-jl5vz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    they’re all so good looking😭

  • @rocking1313
    @rocking1313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Imagine what a woman like that would be when she is in a committed relationship?

  • @1slandqu33n
    @1slandqu33n 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is why I probably couldn't exist in a relationship. I just don't have the patience to tolerate adults who cannot clean up after themselves. Furthermore, immature enough to blast their significant other.

  • @zainabdiouf6523
    @zainabdiouf6523 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I hope loni isn’t leaving because she is essential to the show. She also gives a unique point of view as an older, plus-size, darker black woman. I like the bond between the 4 women, they give off a real positive family vibe. I think Amanda coming in will ruin the vibe between the ladies. No shade to Amanda. I think she’s amazing but not for the show.
    Edit: i think when Amanda was on the show it was awkward. She talked a lot over others. But idk

    • @ryanLeKing
      @ryanLeKing 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Replace her with another Plus Size Dark Skin Black Woman. || She's a hater; but I get it: Big and Lesser Attractive isn't easy.

    • @mayamonroe
      @mayamonroe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Zainab Diouf I said the same thing. I have a feeling the vibe isn’t going to be the same.

    • @clarifyingquestions
      @clarifyingquestions 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ryanLeKing She s a hater? She is on national tv saying hat s feels - fair but you on the other hand are hating for free from the couch in anonymity.

    • @simplymonica6888
      @simplymonica6888 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Colleen Jones. I’m weak 😂

    • @animebabe539
      @animebabe539 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tobias Orion | rFitz Another Dark skin female would be great like Remy ma, Amara, naturi but that might be awkward. There are so many different kinds.

  • @EllePlowPlow
    @EllePlowPlow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don’t like Adam Housley. 😐😑😑

  • @KennM12
    @KennM12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    towels on the floor is one thing, but not flushing EUW

  • @gloriashelby684
    @gloriashelby684 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well said Jeannie the easiest way to live a happy life everyday of your life is learning to be grateful for everything around you from the least to the biggest,you will be truly happy no matter what's going on in your life.

  • @carolea1629
    @carolea1629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    😂😂😂 *Love their connection, especially when Tam and Loni pick on each other*

  • @tearsofawaterfall2656
    @tearsofawaterfall2656 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I completely understand the man- how hard is it to pick up after yourself. He clearly does the majority of the cleaning and then she just comes in and ruins it. And how out of touch to say just hire a maid?

  • @annvaughn8974
    @annvaughn8974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    We heard tameras story before

    • @MySweetAriane
      @MySweetAriane 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They seem to do that a lot. Repeating stories

    • @cauliflowerpower41
      @cauliflowerpower41 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's a rerun y'all chill

    • @hayleydavis1449
      @hayleydavis1449 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't watch if it bothers you.....bully

  • @doneecemcneil7826
    @doneecemcneil7826 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gm edagdwg he was being real she didn't care and he had enough pay attention to what you do and say to anyone god is real they aren't together anymore linda j .peace

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I think there’s something we’re not addressing because one that man met you at a certain weight and decided to stay with you when u were at the weight... if u think losing weight is gonna guarantee a proposal... idk it just feels weird to me ! Ladies love yourself just as much as that man loves you... if he isn’t complaining you shouldn’t either... should he push you to be the best you that you can be... yes but he’s not expecting u to lose weight for him !

  • @jessicawatt8647
    @jessicawatt8647 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Everyone talking bout Loni makeup? Someone please inform me what’s wrong with it? Causeeee .. I don’t see it

  • @michaela_xo
    @michaela_xo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yes yes I’m gonna need these girl chat vault videos to be thrown at us if I’m gonna survive the holiday break

  • @melanievargas5384
    @melanievargas5384 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tam would be me crying on the plane home from Ireland without a ring... I'm a Cancer so that how I operate

  • @lorebay2593
    @lorebay2593 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How about find Joy in your relationship with GOD and live, it is the best and He keeps you at peace being aware of His love and care. That’s why I’m always happy even in my circumstance.

    • @minianoiz6492
      @minianoiz6492 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Halleluyah, praise the Lord!

  • @crystalmorrison1616
    @crystalmorrison1616 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    *Why de wid someone who u know don't like to bathe?*

  • @drtwitch6409
    @drtwitch6409 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I get looking good for a special occasion. I’m about to fly myself and first for the time. And I wish I was lighter for a pic to mark the occasion. But just because I’m not my ideal weight I’m not gonna let that stop me from taking a pic.

  • @Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves
    @Da-hellFreesHorseSlaves 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Lonnie 's makeup is hectic

  • @kimonefrancis3211
    @kimonefrancis3211 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I agree with Adrienne

  • @_l.indsFGM
    @_l.indsFGM 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey @therealdaytime. Please talk about the infradian rhythm. Have Alissa Vitti as a guest. The talk about cardiovascular disease made me think of her and the information she has could help lots of women

  • @lily-ti9wn
    @lily-ti9wn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this whole I'm in my shape for myself is bs, if I wanted to lose weight for my wedding it's for the photos that I will take for myself and will show my grandsons on the most important day of my life lol

  • @celestesharp6120
    @celestesharp6120 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You don't know how many times he has talked to he about it. So, yes, it seems passive-aggressive, but maybe nothing else has worked. He shouldn't have to flush the toilet after her or tell her to flush it. He is not her father or maid and shouldn't have to constantly pick up after her or flush the toilet after her. Although, I have trouble believing that he didn't know about this before they got married, and if it bothers him that much he shouldn't have married her... it should have been a deal breaker. Unless, they married young and have been married for many years before the issue showed up and if she has depression and it is undiagnosed or has gotten worse. Maybe, he could suggest they could go to counselling. They both need help.

  • @Just-Princess
    @Just-Princess 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honestly... I judge women more harshly than men if they have dirty bathroom habits. I notice it A LOT at work, and I'm always confused at how you reach 20/30/40/50 etc and not know how to clean up after yourself.

    • @minianoiz6492
      @minianoiz6492 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Preach!

    • @jdo9676
      @jdo9676 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Some people out in public don't care about restroom etiquette...but go to their home it's a different story...ijs

  • @lindaibude4264
    @lindaibude4264 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    complements of the season to the ladies of the real... for real who's always doing this to Loni's? her makeup! hum

  • @vickymary99
    @vickymary99 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Know your dieting habits, read books that prevent these major diseases for life.

  • @nicolegibau4023
    @nicolegibau4023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mhmm🤔a lol strawberry puree twist up that kiwi😂😂😂😁 #strawberrykiwiyes!

  • @believer264
    @believer264 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Omg, I truly don't see anything wrong with Loni's makeup... i love her whole look

  • @tanishahaynes8362
    @tanishahaynes8362 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yall women know that yall bathroom got hair products and makeup everywhere! Calm down. Lol

  • @christengardner4780
    @christengardner4780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I thought Loni was with what's his name? Isn't she in a relationship

  • @elizabethmulder8057
    @elizabethmulder8057 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was the only episode I wasnt really vibing with tameras opinion. Two wrongs dont make a right. And happiness for some is a choice but others that deal with ptsd or other traumatic issues really are in worse situations they face on the daily for SURVIVAL. I doubt she has a daily life or death mental complexity which makes it almost impossible for others.

  • @theaondracawley5441
    @theaondracawley5441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Adrienne is just talking about not flushing the toilet. Lol.

  • @CreativeMsKitty
    @CreativeMsKitty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hummmmmmm. Is Lonnie acting like a bitter shrew?

  • @bigbraz
    @bigbraz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    She's got nasty ass bathroom habits and the HUSBAND is the toxic one? Terrible logic... Nothing wrong with passive aggressive. She's clearly not listening to his pleas.

  • @Megan-nm9lz
    @Megan-nm9lz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    lonnie👏👏👏

  • @MrsPetal
    @MrsPetal 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Everyone has a thirst to live forever, good Lord I guess no one wants to meet Jesus in heaven, and some of y’all will be shining Lucifers boots.

  • @slayerette86m
    @slayerette86m 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jesus, women over complicate things.

  • @Jinx_bambam
    @Jinx_bambam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Happiness is a choice 💕

  • @justmo4706
    @justmo4706 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's not about being single or compatible you have to be considerate of others in a relationship or not. This is just rude what she's doing so unfortunately he's being nasty back.

  • @shellbradshaw8030
    @shellbradshaw8030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel tension btwn Tamara and Loni!

  • @MrsPetal
    @MrsPetal 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can’t give up eating Krispy Kreme donuts not even for my heart. 😁😌

  • @bouahomepaphatsalang
    @bouahomepaphatsalang 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What loni SAID

  • @drtwitch6409
    @drtwitch6409 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think the key to happiness is not giving up. Like if some people didn’t like you that doesn’t stop you from going to another place to make friends. Sometimes happiness can’t be achieved because of the environment. So I think it’s ok to be sad or mad a little. But learn to control it and not overdo it. Also it’s ok not to be happy when your done crying. It’s ok to feel neutral. Because I struggle from depression. And sometimes I feel like crying. But then I don’t want to feel happy either after I feel like I’m done crying because I don’t feel like my situation is something to be happy about. But I know if I continue to cry and get mad I’ll just wasting time and energy. So then I try to become neutral. It’s ok to be neutral when you don’t want to be happy. But by not giving up I do hope for happiness in the future.

  • @karlas001healthjourney6
    @karlas001healthjourney6 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I LOL I love Adrienne but man nothing worse & more disgusting than not washing your hands after using the bathroom 🚽 ahem Adrienne 😇 Sorry but nothing trumps not washing your hands AFTER you use the bathroom 🙄

  • @blessedhoney
    @blessedhoney 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why the heck dont they play these in order

  • @kendracox4496
    @kendracox4496 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I never understand how a woman can go into a restroom and dont flush and leave nastiness behind ... ! Disgusting..

  • @owenauble1537
    @owenauble1537 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well all know if the bathroom note was the other way around (woman left the note for the man), everyone would expect the man to clean up the act reallll fast! Why can’t men want a clean partner just as much as a woman does? Makes no sense, if your nasty, fix it, no matter the gender, that’s just how it is