littlerush99 now that’s fantastic. Only way to be safe is to do it yourself (with doctors help of course since most of us contaminate tests without knowingly doing so).
I don't play about this especially here in Atlanta, the HIV and std rate is so high especially amongst african americans. Everytime I get intimate with someone, I make sure we both get tested for EVERY std and we both go in to see our results TOGETHER for that reassurance.
@@realestatewithlilianayepes Right. Most millennials I know are out here being depressed and prefer to spend their days bingewatching Netflix and staying at home.
True. I think she over generalizes way to much and doesn't really know who Millennials are. And actually, studies have shown Millennials have less sex than any generation and less STDs. It's HER generation that was out there wildin' most of the time
It was hard to watch how judgemental A was about the STD conversation. Come on now you don't have to be out their to get an STD. The man you were dating for years but wasn't publicly claiming you could have stepped out and gave you something or Rob lol or anyone else. I hate when females that are in serial relationships act like that's so much better🙄
I got one twice. And I honestly just straight up talked about it. "Hey I got told that I had clamydia and I don't know who I got it from so you should probably get checked. Just thought I'd let you know. Sorry." And That's how that conversation would go.
Hmmm 🤔 When to start the STD conversation... BEFORE YOU TRY TO GRT IN BED WITH THE PERSON !! sometimes you just don't know , the person might not even know themselves because of financial reasons & etc. but make sure to be open and honest from th get go...and if you still don’t trust them first hand... go to your doctor before doing ANYTHING !
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 this is so awesome, today is my birthday 2.12.19 and how perfect is this. Tamera and Adrienne sang happy birthday, that’s so special ♥️♥️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I've heard there are dating apps for people who have chronic stds...so that way they don't even have to have the conversation. But if you have a curable one, get it treated and just chill and wait till it clears up before trying to do it with somebody.
Why is Adrienne so judgemental here? What about confidence, being comfortable in your sexuality and all that stuff these hosts preach? I swear the only people who are consistent with their answers are Jeannie and Tamera.
There is a difference between what you're saying and being indiscriminate. I'm sure we don't have to explain the difference. I think that's what Adrienne is getting at.
Madina Tuleshova *this was years ago. her growth is impeccable. don’t get offended over simple things lol i didn’t find anything wrong with what she said. love & light to you* 🦋
Jeannie literally back tracked her comments about TI a week ago and then there was a video where Tamera stated she paid for her wedding then another where she backtracked that statement. None of the hosts are consistent
Comments abt lonis makeup need to stop ASAP . Did u ever consider that loni might prefer a certain look or switch up on makeup. She’s aware of her make up. She looks fab as always ♥️
unfortunately the free clinics now are all income based off your household. I Was in a free clinic a few months back(in VA) just for my "yearly" checkup as i dont have insurance available and a young lady , id say 17 came in asking if hey had std testing available they told her she would need to turn in all her income and her parents income if she lived with them as well.. She turned around and walked out.. So sad, but this is reality many young people face..
This is why I’m fine with just waiting until I’m married to have sex. I pray to God who I marry doesn’t have an STD. We’ll both get tested. You can be a carrier for something and not even have the actual disease. I always did think it was nasty to sleep with so many different people any way.
Shayna Dorsey I met a girl who was dating a man for 3.5 years, they were waiting to have sex until after the wedding and when they had to get tested before the wedding she found out he was HIV positive 😳
What if it turns out your future spouse slept with so many people before you guys got married? You can never really judge until you're so certain that even in your marriage there isn't infidelity that brings in STDs or HIV. I commend you for waiting till marriage, but pray God gives you discernment when the time comes for marriage. So many virgins are getting disappointed out here
Carmencita Davis Not everyone who is infected with an STI sleeps around: I understand where you’re coming from, however it’s a bit insensitive to forget that some faithful, responsible people *COME INTO* new monogamous relationships after getting cheated on (or maybe their previous partner just didn’t know, and just didn’t care to tell them) and want to be honest with their new partner whom they’re devoted to, but are scared to tell them because of judgmental attitudes such as this one. Not saying you’re a bad person for thinking this; just the statement itself is a bit ignorant. 🤷🏽♀️
@@sammierose1150 people are also born with them all the time. You can be a virgin use a condom, have a mishap, and catch a whole aids. That stereotype is BS
It’s serious out here. People hide the most important things.. My shoes would tell me to let them go & spoil myself. & Aww ☺️☺️ I clapped too like i was there in the audience lool
Im 18 and this is why I'm a virgin. A girl from my school got genital herpes from her boyfriend and I really ain't got time for all that mess. They aren't together anymore but idk its sketch, I'm not letting anyone pressure me into that. Are you about to pay for my treatment? I think not.
They're so ignorant about STD's calling people who have them "dirty" and being judgmental, assuming their lifestyle. Some people are born with STDs and even those who develop them from sleeping with multiple people should NOT be shamed. It only makes it more of a stigma and prevents more from getting tested.
You are 100 percent correct. In fact, one of the primary STD's, namely certain strains of the HPV virus, has no known test and is not symptomatic with many people. BTW, if anyone has had a wart on any part of their bodies (i.e., hands, feet, etc.) they have been infected with a strain of the HPV virus. There are many strains, it's only the strain that affects the genitals that becomes an issue.
Before I'm with anybody we both get tested.. I don't find the conversation awkward when I make it about both our safety. We both get a printed paper. I get tested before and after everytime. I even get tested right before I'm with someone new if it's been a while since I was tested and had sex even if I had a clear after my last one because I want my new partner to feel safe.
“ from the STD Blues to a New Pair Of Shoes “ these seamless transitions kill me 😭😂
lmaooo right
LMFAOOO who’s in charge of this 😂
CAN TAM & ADE JUST DO A RECORD TOGETHER... PLZ ?!?! Give the fans what they deserve 😭😭😭
Yes a song for the show, wow tamera can sing
I got goosebumps!!
Yes, I agree, Tam&Adrienne needs to make a record together. It would be beautiful, I'm sure.
That harmony on the Happy birthday song? Go on ahead y'all! They did that!
Yup! 😍
Adrienne's run at the end was so beautiful and soothing👏👏👏👏. She's indeed a gifted singer. Tam also didn't disappoint...
Adrienne's run at the end is EVERYTHING 😍😍😍
*If u are intimate with someone why would you be scared to say let's go get tested*
Why not before you're intimate?I know my ex, she had a HIV test kit by the bed ! I was totally comfortable with it and yes we did get tested for STDs!
Because mofo's be cheating on their partners.
littlerush99 now that’s fantastic. Only way to be safe is to do it yourself (with doctors help of course since most of us contaminate tests without knowingly doing so).
@@crystaljbailey that’s your exact reason to get tested lol
Someone needs to customize shoes for Adrienne 😭
She makes jewelry next thing is Shoes! 😜🤷
The harmony between Tamera and Adrienne singing Happy Birthday was beautiful! =)
I don't play about this especially here in Atlanta, the HIV and std rate is so high especially amongst african americans. Everytime I get intimate with someone, I make sure we both get tested for EVERY std and we both go in to see our results TOGETHER for that reassurance.
BROTHA Jeff 👏👏👏
Adrienne: No need for vocal gymnastics
Also Adrienne: Proceeds to slay and slay out
OMG!!! Tam and A, that was AMAZING!!! 🔥🔥💕🙌🏾👏🏾
I've never seen the entire clip but I'm telling you the last "happy birthday to you" bring me to tears. AND I DON'T KNOW WHY!!
Me too
I think the word 'millennials' needs to be banned on this show 😂 it's so overused
Yes and they dont even know who fits the millennials bracket.
I agree, loni sleeps with several “her words” and she definitely is not a millennial
@@realestatewithlilianayepes Right. Most millennials I know are out here being depressed and prefer to spend their days bingewatching Netflix and staying at home.
True. I think she over generalizes way to much and doesn't really know who Millennials are. And actually, studies have shown Millennials have less sex than any generation and less STDs. It's HER generation that was out there wildin' most of the time
@@lavoshakern such an accurate statement... every generation is supposed to be better than the last.... Boomers jacked us up lol
Ade and Tamera KILLED the HBD song 👏🏾😃
"Guess what puts a damper on the mood" 🤣🤣🤣 her facial expressions that whole time cracked me up
It was hard to watch how judgemental A was about the STD conversation. Come on now you don't have to be out their to get an STD. The man you were dating for years but wasn't publicly claiming you could have stepped out and gave you something or Rob lol or anyone else. I hate when females that are in serial relationships act like that's so much better🙄
When tam was like “why yall looking at me” cause she forgot her queue from rehearsal looool
Their vocals were amazing
OMG TAMERA LOOKS GORGEOUS IN THIS EPISODE!!!
*their voices are so beautiful omg* 🦋
It's not just millenials, people have been doing that for a very long time Loni
Almost cried with their Happy Birthday rendition! These girls can SING
Imagine the parents seeing the text that would be awkward asf 😂😂
Jeanie looks good in this color
I got one twice. And I honestly just straight up talked about it. "Hey I got told that I had clamydia and I don't know who I got it from so you should probably get checked. Just thought I'd let you know. Sorry." And That's how that conversation would go.
15:48 *Harmonies, come through!* 🎶✨🎶
Hmmm 🤔 When to start the STD conversation... BEFORE YOU TRY TO GRT IN BED WITH THE PERSON !! sometimes you just don't know , the person might not even know themselves because of financial reasons & etc. but make sure to be open and honest from th get go...and if you still don’t trust them first hand... go to your doctor before doing ANYTHING !
Lol Adrienne and jeannie looks lovely. Wow that happy birthday between Adrienne and tamera was really really good.❤❤❤🤩🤩🤩
Their duet at the end was the duet we never knew we needed
16 min video? Aight y’all finally listening to your Audience
All old clips are long
Dis ain't new lol
jesijess933 whoops just realized
i restarted them singing so many times it was so beautiful i could hear a little cheetahlishes coming out of Adrienne 😭❤️❤️❤️
that happy birthday was so damn cute :’)
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 this is so awesome, today is my birthday 2.12.19 and how perfect is this. Tamera and Adrienne sang happy birthday, that’s so special ♥️♥️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I think the Anonymous text is so childish. But at the same time, it can save embarrassment
Wow their voices really blended well together 🥰
Oh my goodnees; the singing brought tears to my eyes🥰❤️🥰❤️🥰❤️👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
whoever did Loni’s undereye concealer needs to be fired
*It's highlights lol*
Crystal Morrison it’s not done well tho
Crystal Morrison That is not highlight. I said under eye CONCEALER it’s meant to highlight the under eye area but it’s not good lol
they used the same shade concealer for jeannie on loni lmaoo
@@finelightgold8516 *it's highlight for her eyes and u still miss the joke hush. Not all of us are quick. Some are slow*
You two singing gave me chills! good job
I wish I had skin like Tamara omg
Adrienne girl u still got it!
I've heard there are dating apps for people who have chronic stds...so that way they don't even have to have the conversation. But if you have a curable one, get it treated and just chill and wait till it clears up before trying to do it with somebody.
Nah. Adrienne -- I need you to tell me wassup In person. Be mature.
Lmaoo same, the judgement is unnecessary
tam and adrienne singing was everythingggg😍
Why is Adrienne so judgemental here? What about confidence, being comfortable in your sexuality and all that stuff these hosts preach? I swear the only people who are consistent with their answers are Jeannie and Tamera.
There is a difference between what you're saying and being indiscriminate. I'm sure we don't have to explain the difference. I think that's what Adrienne is getting at.
Madina Tuleshova *this was years ago. her growth is impeccable. don’t get offended over simple things lol i didn’t find anything wrong with what she said. love & light to you* 🦋
Agreed! I really appreciate Jeannie and Tamera’s consistency.
Jeannie literally back tracked her comments about TI a week ago and then there was a video where Tamera stated she paid for her wedding then another where she backtracked that statement. None of the hosts are consistent
sorry girl but I wouldn’t consider it comfortable or confident if you sleep with someone new every week
Loni has come a long way. It feels like just yesterday she was trashing on coffee dates because it wasn't enough of an investment. You go Loni!
Wow the girls singing happy birthday together gave me chills
Y’all don’t trust them by word literally go get tested together and get the results together , so many people lie out here be careful .
Yes, I think that Tam and Adrienne needto make a record together. You both gave me chills. Your voices are absolutely B...E...A...T...I...F...U...L.
0:06 - Tamar went from hosting to bieng an audience member.
@Kim Lerjit LMAOOOO
You wrong for this 😂
Tam and Adrienne should do a song together.
Comments abt lonis makeup need to stop ASAP . Did u ever consider that loni might prefer a certain look or switch up on makeup. She’s aware of her make up. She looks fab as always ♥️
OMMGGG ADRIENNE took me back to cheetah girls with those vocals
unfortunately the free clinics now are all income based off your household. I Was in a free clinic a few months back(in VA) just for my "yearly" checkup as i dont have insurance available and a young lady , id say 17 came in asking if hey had std testing available they told her she would need to turn in all her income and her parents income if she lived with them as well.. She turned around and walked out.. So sad, but this is reality many young people face..
I loved to hear those two sing.....
Yaaaaaas!!! Y’all did that. Tam and A can saaaaang!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
The singing was so good at the end OMG
They need to put Tam and A singing the birthday song in a video itself. Omggg that was beautiful 😍😭
This is actually the best rendition birthday song I heard in years, so simple and so beautiful....Love it!
I DIDNT KNOW TAMERA COULD SING SO WELL
This is why I’m fine with just waiting until I’m married to have sex. I pray to God who I marry doesn’t have an STD. We’ll both get tested. You can be a carrier for something and not even have the actual disease. I always did think it was nasty to sleep with so many different people any way.
Shayna Dorsey I met a girl who was dating a man for 3.5 years, they were waiting to have sex until after the wedding and when they had to get tested before the wedding she found out he was HIV positive 😳
What if it turns out your future spouse slept with so many people before you guys got married? You can never really judge until you're so certain that even in your marriage there isn't infidelity that brings in STDs or HIV. I commend you for waiting till marriage, but pray God gives you discernment when the time comes for marriage. So many virgins are getting disappointed out here
@@bossmummy1295 it's also important to keep in mind, you can carry many diseases without symptoms for a long re. Even up to 20 years
@@sadieann1036 hoping when you have babies they won't be affected
Be positive and love your self❤️
The best alternative birthday song is the Stevie wonder one 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿
The real is literally becoming like the Wendy Williams Show, the audience over exaggerate🤷🏽♀️
I can't be the only one clapping hands at home for tam and ade lol that was sooo good
@TheRealDaytime can we please have a duet live with Adrienne & Tamera ASAP?!!!
🥰🥰🥰
Selina Skeggs !!!!
❤❤
Tamera & Adrienne sound good together
Neither one of the partners wouldn't have to worry about getting STD if neither one of them wouldn't sleep around in the first place.
Carmencita Davis Not everyone who is infected with an STI sleeps around: I understand where you’re coming from, however it’s a bit insensitive to forget that some faithful, responsible people *COME INTO* new monogamous relationships after getting cheated on (or maybe their previous partner just didn’t know, and just didn’t care to tell them) and want to be honest with their new partner whom they’re devoted to, but are scared to tell them because of judgmental attitudes such as this one. Not saying you’re a bad person for thinking this; just the statement itself is a bit ignorant. 🤷🏽♀️
@@sammierose1150 people are also born with them all the time.
You can be a virgin use a condom, have a mishap, and catch a whole aids. That stereotype is BS
Okaaay go head Tamera and Adrienne. The Harmony at the end👏🏾👏🏾😍
Adrienne should get some custom fit LouBoutin heels ❣️❣️🖤
OMG!!! That voices of Ade n Tam AMAZING.....!!! Lol I kept replaying that part.
Tamera is hilarious! If you know you have it you should’ve went n got it taken care of & THEN ask your partner if they know if they know.
The ladies look fantastic!! Everyone of them have their makeup and outfit on point! 🙌
I don’t think Jeannie knows what “Grindr” is😭😭😭 Hopefully she knows now
Considering herpes is getting spread like wild fires around my school, all of my classmates need to see this.
they need to use a different baking powder on Loni. It could be the lighting but they have to keep that in mind next time.
More Girl Chat topics like these please!! These are why I started watching The Real!!
Wow! those two ladies can sing!.
Wow Tam & Ade sound so good on the Birthday song!!!
Adrienne shoes would say you a G for wearing me bigger than your foot and nobody dont even realize
It’s serious out here. People hide the most important things..
My shoes would tell me to let them go & spoil myself.
& Aww ☺️☺️ I clapped too like i was there in the audience lool
I actually used this texting service myself on a cheating ex to make them panic. Wasn’t me so now you gotta play “guess who” 🤣
i love that jeannie knows what grindr is lmaooooo
I feel like yall singing to me because today is my 25th!!
I'm British and I sing the happy birthday song and then do the hip hip hurray lol love it, love to the ladies of the real!
Im 18 and this is why I'm a virgin. A girl from my school got genital herpes from her boyfriend and I really ain't got time for all that mess. They aren't together anymore but idk its sketch, I'm not letting anyone pressure me into that. Are you about to pay for my treatment? I think not.
They're so ignorant about STD's calling people who have them "dirty" and being judgmental, assuming their lifestyle. Some people are born with STDs and even those who develop them from sleeping with multiple people should NOT be shamed. It only makes it more of a stigma and prevents more from getting tested.
You are 100 percent correct. In fact, one of the primary STD's, namely certain strains of the HPV virus, has no known test and is not symptomatic with many people. BTW, if anyone has had a wart on any part of their bodies (i.e., hands, feet, etc.) they have been infected with a strain of the HPV virus. There are many strains, it's only the strain that affects the genitals that becomes an issue.
Jeannie looked so beautiful when she was singing happy birthday❤
Wow! They sang that beautifully ❤️
Loni makeup is horrific
You ladies are magic!
Tamara can sing 🎶
harmonies come throoooouuuggghhhh
Tamera high key be having a good deep chuckle when Loni be roastin herself lmbo
tam and ade actually do look alike. and they should just do an ep together if not an album
Before I'm with anybody we both get tested.. I don't find the conversation awkward when I make it about both our safety. We both get a printed paper. I get tested before and after everytime. I even get tested right before I'm with someone new if it's been a while since I was tested and had sex even if I had a clear after my last one because I want my new partner to feel safe.
OMG Adriennes face at the end LOL had me dead haha
Off topic but Ade I love your hair! 😍 Please tell us all your secrets
Tamera and Aidrenne have beautiful voices! Wow
I remember Tamera singing on sister sister and she could sang!!!
Beautiful voices
The worst singers are the most entertaining! Which is why I binge watch the Xfactor’s worst auditions!