When You Meet Your Girlfriend's Mother
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 14 ส.ค. 2024
- When You Meet Your Girlfriend's Mother is an animation that tells the story of a young couple. The girl, knowing that this relationship is serious, decides to introduce her current boyfriend to her parents. A nice dinner turns into an interrogation. Boyfriend quickly realizes that his girlfriend's mother does not like him and criticizes him a lot. But why be surprised, after all, every mother knows what is better for her daughter.
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So who is objectively right here?
PS: Not a true story bro...
Thumbnail got me bricked up
@@just_a_turtle_chadAyo
@@just_a_turtle_chadchill dude
How unfortunate.
@@just_a_turtle_chadsame
Moms are either the sweetest people out there or the most psychologically terrifying ones.
mine is 50/50
if shes honestly worried for her daughter it isnt bad. i wish my mom told me this.
Yeah they take control of the steering wheel cause of "Your Safety" haha My mom is really big on that, so i had to get away.
Both can be true at the same time.
@@nothankspleasebrainwashed
I love how the dad didnt utter a single word... like his resolve has been gone for years, maybe even decades
It's just been 5 minutes and she almost made me lose my resolve.
fr, thats how the wife takes over cause he don't wanna intervene and be a man about it.
I like how she says how a man should offer such things what did she give?
It is how we dads roll, helps us to keep what is left of our sanity…
I thought that was a brother...
The script, camera angles and scenes are so professional. It’s like watching a 9/10 rated movie
IDK I miss the scuffed animation with the heavy handed meme humour. Kind of the like the masterpiece 'Doomer live in society' and the even more masterful sequel 'Doomer v Society'
I think you’re glazing a bit there
while watching the beginning of the video, I thought... what if your turned her questionning against her. Are you a good mother? How many times have you insulted your daugther? shouted at her? have you been jealous of her? How many times have you shouted at her? disrespected her?
@@smashmusique You'd be invited to leave the house pretty quick lol, that'd be a terrible idea unless you don't care about your future with her, but if that's the case why go to her parent's house in the first place. Picking a fight with her mom lmfao get real
bro never watched a movie
Boomer parents: I got to make all my kids decisions to protect them
Also Boomer parents: why is my kid so immature?
Lmao, facts
True, but they're secretly waiting for the child to step up and they're never going to the way they want them to.
Millennials have to be one of the worst generations of parents (not all obviously but a big chunk) throwing their 3-year-olds a tablet. People need to read the self-improvement and parenting book called the Bible.
Also, boomer parents are always those people who were found dead alone in their houses.
it's hard to walk on your own two feet when your parents carry you against your will. it's very delusional of them to expect you to fly when you haven't had to leave the nest once. parents should encourage kids to move out or to do adult things early so they can mature from failure and enjoy success when they succeed at it.
The dad staring silently says it all.
With the tv remote at the dinner table 😅😅😂😂
@@henrik1743The day after Dad said Yes in church, that TV remote was permanently attached to his hand.
hes irrelevant no one cares
Put the remote control on the docking station! 😂@@henrik1743
@@herzog1857Well not to let me get distracted by this, but like.. is that not the best case scenario well really only presumably hopefully that or a death stare etc idk something menacing.. ugh I keep sputtering/messong up mej words lmao *facepalms*
Mom's just projecting her failure's onto her daughter now. Frankly, if the dad heard that conversation the first thing that'll come to his mind is "Did she *settle* for me?"
Gotta be one of the worst feelings in the world, realizing you married into a one-sided love.
That's the reason why he turned up the volume, lol
i think dad knew.
Yep, but the Dad would also maybe have a feeling that he settled for her. It goes both ways.
Wouldn't it be the mom is trying to protect her daughter from making the same mistake rather than projecting her failure? If the mom married someone who was unsuitable for her, then she is trying to warn the daughter from making the same mistake. The mother seems to have some good points but is also pushing it/went too far by encouraging her to get back with her ex.
"Jonathan always used to take you somewhere."
I'd be out of there as soon as she dropped that one. I got enough of those comparative insults from my own mother growing up, definitely don't need or want them from a complete stranger.
But if you left your gf just because of how their parents treated you wouldn't that be the same if your parents treated the same with your gf and she left you because of them. We cannot choose our family but we can choose our friends and partners tho...
@@hekamHe did not say that he would leave his girlfriend but that he would leave the room. Although you have a good point, I still think that fren with the first comment is right. Wojak must have respect for himself no matter what situation he was in, and not allow humiliation of this kind. If he has no respect for himself, how will his gf respect him?
@@herzog1857 If it's just leaving the room I see no problem. I opted out from conversation when I see it's just bashing or lecturing me for something I thought was right but I also think its better to point them out their wrong point of view because it's your girlfriends parents. If you really want to make it work you have to say your reason for doing so, not just say yes or no or just answer without thinking. He was clearly not mentally prepared to have this meeting with the parents. And if he left the room it would make the parents point of view kind of right.
@@hekam I completely agree with you, but this is not about questions that Wojak answers with Yes or No. It's about her mother mentioning her ex and comparing him to her current boyfriend as better than him. Ex-boyfriend is ex-boyfriend for a reason, and to compare him as better than Wojak is quite an insult and a kick below the belt.
@@herzog1857 I know its hard to control your anger when someone compare you with their exes. But if you want to tackle this kind of situation you gotta play it cool sometimes. But in this case I see where you are coming from. What Wojak did is neither leave or play it cool. But I think his gf is a lot to blame here. She could just make him leave with her after that or maybe make a good argument. She and Worjak is kind of similar people.
The mom is basically teaching her daughter to choose a guy with means rather than a guy she connects with on an emotional level.
At the end of the day, she'll settle down with a dude she doesn't even like, because he can provide a lifestyle for her future.
This happens more often than people are willing to admit. lol
And then she divorces the betabuxx, takes half of his shit, and starts dating a guy she's actually attracted to.
who hurt you bro@@rakijr9176
she projects her own insecurities and fears of the world onto her daughter. teaches her to go along with it all, rather than speak out against it.
@@rakijr9176 read a bit too much manosphere koolaid there kiddo
@@Gamez4eveR Right. I forgot women are 100% loyal to guys who buy them shit and completely lose interest in all other dudes. My mistake.
It's always a nice day when I realize how absurd life is.
you should imagine sysiphus happy
@@emperorvicesysiphus 55 seems happy. I guess?
@@emperorvice with a goal for the rest of his life, I must imagine him happy
@@JmasterPullmizter cynically happy
How is it absurd? Maybe u cant cope
He should have told her he had a job as a Discord mod. She would have instantly accepted him.
or better yet a professional TH-cam commenter
That kind of mom will not compromise for a non-reddit mod
@@user-net-unknown would of??? :))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
By discord or reddit mod you mean a child...
..predator right?
The fact that she stayed with him is very wholesome 👍🏻
Edit: ok ok she is gonna leave him I get it…
The only part of video that was unrealistic. IRL she starts doubting, strays and then destroys him.
@@trevinschaerr3732gotta appeal to the normies
@@trevinschaerr3732 different women exist
Did she stay with him? The ending could be construed that she was about to have a "talk" with him.
Looked like she was ending it
The dad being quiet says a lot.
His right to speak was taken long ago
that interrogation scene was so realistic
Playing 21 fucking questions
resonance profile pic?
That's exactly how I felt when my girlfriend's family started making questions, so relatable
@@Roboseal2 well spotted
@@youngragga69 No wonder if parents are overprotective of their daughters when men are statistically more dangerous as people
It´s so accurate how many parents only think of the financial future of there kids, not realizing that they become happy and have a good life through other ways...
It's because the parents themselves failed at being happy, to them at least they can be sure that avoiding money problems is a more certain outcome rather than hoping that you stay happy in your relationship. But their attitude and parenting will pass down whatever mindset led them to be unhappy, like their parents did to them. Generational trauma.
l live only to be caretaker of my family's money, property etc., and l must have a child to give it to him/her, so that our (family) properties won't get lost. One kid is better, so that property won't get split. And l must get a good job to gain money as fast as possible to fulfill the gap left by inheritance tax. That is my future life purpose. l almost typed that l almost wish to die, but... oh... uh oh.
Because the dad was betabux and the mom is a gold digger
I was told to always try my best, do as much as I can to get big money, so I did. My parents are poor but I can buy whatever the fuck I want. I also cannot have a mental break, cannot rest on my vacations, which I barely take. When I have free time I'm always backstabbed by the feeling that I should be working, or doing something more productive.
you cannot be happy and poor
I wasn't good enough. My ex wife chose her parents' advice. Was only married for a year. She took my unborn son who's probably someone else's son now. My new girlfriend is wonderful, and so is her mother. I was immediately welcomed into the family. I guess, sometimes things happen for a reason.
Well done my broda congratulations welcome to the other side where the grass is greener
You didn’t deserve her if she packed it up that quickly. I hope you are doing well in life currently
I like how the dad didn't say a word probably out of fear of his wife's reaction
The cut-off to the dad and him sitting alone in silence was gold.
I couldn't stop smiling when they switched to him and the dad, that was something beautiful xd
Gotta say. This girl is a keeper. Not her parents tho
Can't really marry a girl without her family though.
@@MrFujinkonot true. Been married for a decade and my wife and I always knew her mother had to be kept at bay.
@@MrFujinkoOf course you can. Maybe in different cultures, that would be the thing, but you can legitimately marry without any family involvement if you wish.
@@LuisMercadoorg Sorry, I think you misinterpreted me. I was referring to healthy adjusted girls with good family relations, clearly not the group your wife belongs to. Cheers.
@@LuisMercadoorgIt's possible but not the norm. You'll see that many marital issues also involve the extended family. People are still tribal. If you don't have your family, you absolutely have to find another tribe for identity and community. That's why some lonely people attach themselves to online forums. They don't have family involvement or a good family. The level is advanced once a couple has children. Without enough money, you cannot afford a reliable nanny and daycare. Who do you rely on then? It's a predicament. I can honestly say that my mother and my mother-in-law have made our lives a living hell.
The worst part is that I was the one that was encouraging separation a long time ago because it was obvious neither are good for our marriage. I would love to ghost both, but my husband won't budge. My mother's free daycare and his mother's upper middle class money is too convenient. He won't say that, but it's the truth. I'm trying not to be full of resentment, but it's proving difficult.
Man, this video kinda hits home. My cousin used to be interogated by his future in-laws because he didn't have a stable job at the time especially when he kept on pushing back finishing school.
But man, his now-wife continued to stay beside him. They are currently happily married and living well.
Stable job? in 2024?
As somebody who went through many marriage interviews, that interrogation scene was accurate af.
The reverse almost happened to my dad. His family was a bunch of stuck up northeast folks who looked down on my mom even though she was more educated and made substantially more money than my dad they were still concerned about how it would look considering the rest of their family all married millionaires. To this day my dads never truly forgive them and I mostly only associate with my mom's side of the family. My dad prefers it better this way so we as kids never got jealous over what our millionaires cousins had.
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Same happened with my grandfather (my father's father) when he was together with my grandmother. My grandfather was from Bosnia and Herzegovina, he was a Bosnian Muslim and he was in the Yugoslav People's Army after WW2 and he met my grandmother in Zagreb (my grandmother was a Croat). When he wanted to bring her home to my great-grandfather, he didn't want to let her in the house, because my grandfather's family was really religious and didn't want my grandfather to marry a person outside of the religion of Islam. He did anyway and stopped speaking to his father (my great-grandfather) for the rest of his life.
@@Loterrach If you don't mind me asking for sociological reasons. What your great-grandfather was worried about, did it come true? With what religion did your grandparents raise their family? And with what religion were you raised? And what is your religion now?
So was your grandfather super rich but just did the Warren Buffet and gave nothing to his kids so they wouldn’t be spoiled or did every one of your dad’s siblings marry a millionaire on their own despite starting off middle class?
@@vladimirrashkovsky6274 he was wealthy but not a multi millionaire. He had 6 kids. 2 sons and 4 daughters. All the daughters except 1 graduated from ivy league colleges and married multi millionaires except the oldest one. The other son moved out to California and became rich. My dad didn't want to go to college after he got rejected from Georgetown and decided to join the army. His parents naturally disapprove so he left at 18 and never really returned. I'm in contact with mostly his older sister who is the only other non millionaire child but she treats me and my brother like it's her kids because she was unable to have any of her own. That being said I'm 21 and don't really harbor any ill will to any of them they live all incredibly blessed lives they just aren't really thankful for it. To much love for money and not enough love for God in my taste but they really aren't bad people just out of touch with reality.
"Tell me, why are you dating my daughter?"
"I don't know"
Broke me
That is a pretty red flag right there. Not having a stable job and aimlessly drifting through life without a plan is already a problem, but not even knowing why you want to date your partner is a huge problem.
@@IntranetusaAt least he has some sort of income. If he's trying his hardest and theyre doing ok I don't see the problem not everyone is some sort of high achiever
@@jackslepowron5905 Is he trying his hardest through, or is he just trying to coast through life with minimum/little effort?
You don't need to be a high achiever to be fiancially/job stable. You don't have to go to college - but there are other options like apprenticeships and trade schools. And even if you don't go to any type of school at all, you can stay in your job long enough to build your skills. The fact that the boyfriend quit his carpenting job, didn't pursue other types of education/skills building, and is now bouncing around temporary jobs working short term gigs means he isn't building any skills.
If this is all a temporary thing for him to figure out a plan/goal then that isn't an issue. If he is still like this a year or two or longer into the relationship and he has no plan or goal, then that's when they need to start worrying.
@@IntranetusaNot everyone is able to lay out the cards of their whole future onto the table at a young age. People are learning their whole life. And not everyone is able to tell from the start what they want to achieve.
@@Intranetusa Sounds more like something you blurt out without thinking when you're under pressure.
They're both wrong. Her mom doesn't know him at all, she just asked him about his job, she probably couldn't care less either way and find a reason to talk about how this John would be better either way.
The girl's fault was going to dinner even if she knew what her mom thinks in the first place.
I think the girl did everything right tbh. Her guy had to meet her parents at some point or he might have gotten suspicious or resentful, feeling like she's embarassed of him or isn't serious about him. He met them and quickly realized that her mom really is a cunt and her dad enables her. She stood up for him too despite being no match for her mom. He now understands why she didn't want him to meet them. His self-esteem took a hit because of the mom and she was there for him to help him through it.
The girl didn't do anything wrong.
Meeting your partner's parents is a must if you two actually take the relationship seriously.
Its understandable the mom wants her daughter to find a better man materially, but it just hurts when I see this man get judged by his educational background and career so hard that sounds like this man doesn't even deserve love.
nowdays thats actually reality, deserving love and being able to provide are interlinked, men cant have the one without the other
Chads and Tyrons do have it unconditionally, however.
@ValentineNTT Unless you win the genetic lottery and/or are a dangerous cocky piece of shit... hypergamy has done wonders for our now shitty western civilization...
@@ValentineNTTno it's not, unless the woman they are with is superficial
@@fable_enthusiast Loving for money is not superficial?
Not sure if this scenario is more relatable than parents who are just happy you even found a girlfriend XD
It is for me. Like father, like son.. I have seen two generations of these sort of women, and gathered stories of a generation or two more.
Well if you are a boy then there is a 90% chance that your parents will be happy cuz at least there is a chance for them to see their grandchildren in the future.
If you are a girl that found a boyfriend, then be prepared. There are not many parents that will easily let you date their daugher
If you’re this channel’s target audience, the first one. If you had a normal life, the latter
Mine actively sabotaged my relationships. Lied through their teeth making up horror stories about me. Parents were abusive and I cut them off.
The worst thing is that such parents are not even interested in finding out more about their son’s girlfriend, neither where she works, nor about her family and background, nor what activities she does, they don’t even care that this girl may be a drug addict, an alcoholic or a manipulative person who may bad influence on their son
I've learned that houses where moms run the show in a controlling way and dads are quiet pushovers tend to end up with messy divorce/breakups, because mom just gaslights her daughter behind your back the whole time.
They see you as a threat to their unquestioned hierarchy.
А может быть ты просто неудачник?
@@user-te5zs8wn2x😂Я вижу ты сын "родины", подкаблучник. Если кто и знает, что такое неудачники, так это русские.
@@thesmirkingwolf у неудачника сгорела жопа) чел найди работу, может быть после этого кто-то тебе даст, или дело в твоем микропенисе?
No, no,no he is right, she doesn't love the father, he is a ATM machine, a object.
@@thesmirkingwolf Beautiful.
"Not everyone is destined to become someone I guess"
This mother will cover for the daughter not getting a real job after 6 years at University and will cover for her daughters behaviour on the streets during the relationship.
She talks as if you go to University you can automatically get a great job. If she really wants to see people who "didn't became someone" she can come to my country (Italy), where lots of people went there but still don't have a job
@@jagsitterharsperiamo che col tempo sta mentalità arcaica del prestigio dell'università venga meno prima o poi. La gente deve cominciare a considerare anche altre opzioni
The daughter shouldn’t necessarily marry “someone” but become “someone “
@@davidetrombetta6309 Sono d'accordo con la tua opinione.
Qua in Italia se non hai impresa di famiglia o raccomandazione è un vera giungla maledetta
At least his girlfriend supported him. We don't see this in real life very often these days.
Some boyfriends too
Good thing this awkward situation will never happen to me.
Because I will never have a girlfriend.
« I try to see the positive in every situation »
Also no need to call off an engagement.
real
You and me both...
losers
My ex’s mom was like this. She hated the fact I was a blue collar worker and thought I wasn’t good enough for her daughter
Damn sorry to hear not trying to be nosy but I like to hear the story
I went through the same crap I realize now if the mom has 5 divorces you should avoid taking her daughter seriously
At least you're doing something damn people be snobby
Bro same :/
@@DUSTKILLLmom's fallacies shouldnt fall on her daughter. That's way too simple to judge
"And you'll be stuck with your eternal child, who's peak was in highschool."
Now THAT last line was personal 😭😭
Based youngmaxxing to dab on old resented witches 🤠
"Well not everyone is destined to become someone, I guess"
Reminds me of an ex's mum who said: "I want my grandchildren to look like me." Not said to me directly, but to her.
So was this a mixed race relationship then? I'm just wondering if she meant it in a racial way or if I'm misinterpreting.
@@darksideofevil13 yes, exactly in a racial way
@@GGrev Oh yeah that rough...sorry to hear that.
shoulda said if she prefers ugly children she can go f herself
Damm bro
I died of laughter at the sincere "I don't know" at 1:30. God damn it, it's the most sincere answer to give after having been blasted by so many hard questions. Even Anon's fucking face makes it hard not to, it's like a pet just wanting the "scolding" moment to be over so it could go on.
that shit was hilarious, what kind of answer is that lol. tbh i would be concerned as well if that was his answeer
Another reason men don't date. Frankly, there are so many, it's a wonder humans still reproduce at all.
Doomer even shaved and took off the beenie for this.
"Not everyone is destined to become someone I guess". Damn...
I know parents are meant to care for their kids future, but like, goddamn.
This isn’t Sebastian.
@@chuckingreaper8654 Really? Had to tell with the voices and designs sometimes lol.
@@SumThingFawful Sebastian's gf could care less about her family and introducing bfs to them. She is a sadist too and does not empathize with Sebastian unlike this girl.
Actually, there are some parents who subconsciously (or not) don’t want their kids to succeed in life, so they always try to sabotage them somehow.
@@SumThingFawful The father is completely different and there would be a brother at the table as well. This is just the family of the girl doing TikTok dances in the shorts.
Don't worry everyone not every mom would guilt trip you and do this. Some would not even care as long as you're making their son/daughter happy ☺️
Dont ever let somebody talk to you this way, ive been in his seat and this is a glaring look into their real personality and you are setting them up to always treat you this way. The moment it starts shut it down, dont get angry but dont let your gfs parents treat you this way. Doesnt matter how much you like them
Ps its funny cause this is really realistic. Ladies like this usually have an arm chair husband, who just sits there and lets his wife do this crap. The husbands are usually alright 1 on 1 but when their wife is around they are just doormats
Always stand up for your boundaries, these type of people grind away at you until your nothing.
@@rootfish2671 yep. I learned that the hard way. The best way is to nip in the bud right away. I got abused by an adult women like that when I was a teenager. I realized years later it wasn't right. As soon as one of these people /woman start it, you call it out
Karen Mom. You can tell the dad is not the same he just has to go along with it. That’s what happens when your marry a Karen. You become emasculated.
I nearly, life forecasted written in palms and face did married one but as my good karma came I realized I was standing in front of a homewrecking narcisstic money grabbing men castrating goblin. I ghosted with so much pain and sorrow lost a couple of pound and nearly costed my life on a sudden rage. Thinking back the pain I had then is better than the pain I will have with her tied in a contract of marriage.
@@kaiser98berlin damn man
@@kaiser98berlinsheesh, good thing you got out brotha.
The picture promised nurture and boba, I received sadness and anxiety.
😂
I have this kind of family. If you respect yourself at all, do not walk. Run away
it's funny to think that parents will ruin their own child's future because they think that that they know "who's right for them"
I understand you but in the end, in this economic situation, money plays huge role
@@user-lg3pp1kh4iyes.
everyone blind by money , so the divorce rates goes high.
nothing else matter.
no matter if you doing OK, you must be unhappy if you can't afford 5 cars and 5 expensive vacations a year.
@@user-lg3pp1kh4i
Problem is.... They can't see beyond the money most of the time and that's the bloody problem.
You know what's funnier? The other way around, I'm pretty sure they wouldn't have asked all those questions to a girlfriend
@@mrtyrant1680A millionare can hurt their daughter even worse!
This reminds me of my ex lol. First time I went there for dinner, I got the whole interrogation. I work in tax and have a masters degree. Oh how they loved me.. not for my personality but for my job. Whenever friends came over, this is X, X's boyfriend, he went to university. Come on man.
Your just your job to them
That makes me a little envious, we all have our strengths though. I always got called handsome by girlfriends parents, especially their dads funny enough. but if the girls mom was single they would say stuff like “if only I was younger…”
You should have lied.
@@JakobFridfinnsson
Funny… me too… I’m pretty much a loser blue collar worker but have a pretty boy face and her parents are rich af…. All they can say is “wow your bf is so handsome… but work such menial job…. Look for someone more serious” to my exes… so I just treat those girls like my personal toys just to f with their parents 😂
@@flashlight5287 just say u're waste of oxygen
I love how there was no talk afterwards. Just "it's okay" eye contact. Every man worries the girl will leave after the parents meeting, good to see they got through it.
"What are your intentions with my daughter? Cells."
"Cells."
interlinked
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Imagine having the daughter's boyfriend over and not trusting her (nor your raising methods) in the slightest.
My little sister once brought a boyfriend over, little man was so afraid and tense that I had to put myself in his shoes, so I started to redirect the interrogatory towards shared interests and hobbies to quickly humanize that poor soul.
Sis was so glad that she became super honest with me. They eventually ended their relationship on good terms, but what's important is to stop being so fearful.
I've taught my sis all she needs to know about all types of men, it's her life choices from then on. Parents can be quite hesitant, but they had more than enough time to influence and raise them by teaching lessons and being decent role models.
that mother is a classic Female Delusion Calculator patient
Female Delusion Calculator speaks more about quality of men than delusion of women.
Last time I saw it, it took me to looking for some 20-30 white male, from 5'5'' with 5000 YEARLY income, to barely get into 2 out of 5.
I wonder what one should enter to get 1/5 rating, lmao.
As a guy working in a supermarket with a girlfriend who was into a relationship with a doctor i truly understand this and it made me inconfortable
"he keeps changing jobs as if it doesn't matter" he only had two lmao
This is why rich people always win. They don't have to go through this torment. If Wokaj was rich and never went to college, the daughters mom wouldn't have anything else to say but, "When is the wedding?"
Yes but only because the Mum is a manipulative btch
Rich, position or social class, its annoying. Life suck. If you are born in wrong family, wrong country or even wrong neighbourhood, you have so low chance to be same as someone who get luckier, you need work way harder and sometimes even that doesn't help. In the end after all this we all die and all this doesn't matter at all for universe. Fuck this.
@@TN51234thats why the best is becoming a monk 🗿. No worldly affairs, for none of it truly matters
@@prajj19 monkpilled and enlightened
@@prajj19 good
Yeahhh if a girl I was with had a mother like that I'd 100% not have kids with her - I the two of us had a falling out, your family and friends are supposed to tell you how awesome your partner is and encourage you two to stay together - a mother like this would only encourage a breakup, and if kids were involved she'd fight viciously to prevent you from seeing the kids. Guys, if you GF has a mother/father like this, run for the hills. Same for her friends, if they are feminist/woke types that's also a red flag for the same reason.
It's rough if you actually care for the girl though
@@wetfart420 yes I'm assuming you guys have standards; if she's for the streets, she only deserves the bed sheets.
@@jackslepowron5905 it maybe rough but still relevant, be very careful trusting your future to a woman, make sure she qualifies; she's qualifying you, so do the same with her.
It's only a red flag if your girl does not set some strong boundaries with her parents. If my dad shittalked my girl like this, I'd threaten to go no contact for a year if he keeps it up. She's my girl and he will respect her or he will be removed.
That smile at the end makes me feel a little hopeful. Like she's comforting our David after a bad meet with the parents. They'll get through this.
came for the thumbnail, left with anxiety.
me fr
My comment is so fucking underrated @@therealxtigerxx
My parents are these kinds of people. They scrutinize the hell out of everyone their kids choose to be with.
The REALEST part is how the mother does all the talking, and when the father and you are alone , not a single word is spoken. 😂😂😂
The mom is super rude, most of her concern are valid. But money doesn’t equal happiness, people underestimate the value in having a partner that brings you happiness in of itself.
Well said. I have seen too many rich people feeling miserable to ignore this any longer.
That being said, to some degree you need money, because if you can't even cover your basic needs properly, you'll be miserable too.
But it is not the responsiblility of someone to bring happiness to you. You control your own happiness.
True. Money doesn't bring happiness, but fiancial stability is still important because the lack of money is one of the primary causes for divorce and breakups in relationship.
You essentially need money to keep your life stable. Then you can focus on your depression and question the meaning of life at your own leisure.
As long as the person can make enough money to support the house fine… doesn’t need to be rich
Man it’s like her mother was trying to get her daughter to be miserable. She went on and on about picking the right guy for her daughter and yet it seemed she had resentment about her own marriage choice. I noticed that when she admitted that she had arguments over trivial things with her husband and yet they “managed somehow.”
Plus part about telling her daughter to get back with her ex even tho it didn’t work out the first time. That’s awful advice among many things she said.
That's why the dad is silent because he doesn't want to get into another stupid fight with his wife later by saying the wrong thing
Never thought my life would be on this channel. I feel so much less alone now. There’s truly something wrong today, and my faith has been somewhat restored. Looks exactly like my mom, and acts like her, fiance even works at a restraint, and I’m at a dollar store. She “tolerates” him. I love him. He loves me, I feel like she tries to convince me that he doesn’t care about me because he doesn’t have a well paying job…..it fucks with my head, and our relationship….things are just complicated…
don’t let her get to you. she’s most likely afraid, and she pushes her fear onto you. she’s not teaching you to raise a voice against hardship, she’s teaching you to cut corners. there’s more dignity in hardship than there is in taking the easy way out at the cost of your happiness. hope you do well
parents wonder why kids don't come to visited anymore
4:51 weird moon
It exploded
I am Polish and I dated a Bosnian. All I remember is every time I took her home at night her mom would stand very far away by their backyard garage in the shadows and watch us while smoking cigarettes like some 70s detective. I was waiting for her to whip out the magnifying glass or something. Needless to say her parents really did not like me and there were always excuses for why we go to my house instead of hers
Sounds very bizzare, was it because your Polish?
@@rootfish2671 yeah that's what I figured unfortunately
@@BigRobChicagoPL that sucks Europeans are racist as hell
When a man is only what he can offer.
You are ALWAYS what you can offer ,whether it is money, good genes, emotions ,good sex...
It's a bit more like "When 'my second job' is all man has to offer"...
The bar of expectations is getting out of control, no wonder why people stay single.
Wellm i'm not single and i have very high expectations and my waifu perfectly fits them, we love each other♥
A father who's speech hit close to home, and a mother who's speech talks about comparison. I say break up immediately.
Never been in a relationship. But as someone who isn’t rich, now this just makes me more scared to even enter one. Couldn’t imagine going through something like this.
Being fiancially stable isn't the same as being rich. You can have a lower middle class factory job or clerical job, or a middle class teaching job and be fiancially stable...which is much better than changing jobs every few months and aimlessly living without direction like the guy in this video.
@@IntranetusaBoth suck I don’t earn much but I can manage my Money good enough imo. I am about to buy my First apartment in a center of a City at 27. Many people who earn more than me are having debt for their Cars. Since I don’t have a car the typical reaction of a Parent is. „Ohhh you must be broke then!“ Mam I wanna have a daughter who dates me for who I am not for my Income…..
@@Termileon besides the middle class is dying out. The ridiculous prices of housing these days means "stability" is a joke unless you are working a three figure cream of the crop job- you have to force yourself to rent forever or hope you go into an interior country town while hoping other "economic refugees" from the city don't follow you there.
It's an internet cartoon, not the real world
Most people are really all that financially stable at least in the range of what is considered stability so dont worry too much. Plenty of them are in relationshipa
I can find my situation very relatable. My mother degrades all the guys i've met by explaining they are "not for me." When she hears me talking about a guy intentionally, she digs and gets upset because she doesn't want me to pick. She believes she knows what she's doing and my father says nothing about it. My parents have been close to divorce several times and even know have been giving each other constant silent treatments. Divorce could also be a solution imo, I hated witnessing it while being raised and even now. I have a boyfriend now and I can't even tell anyone about it because I cannot choose for myself. But we're happy and have plans for the future, but as a daughter with these kinds of controlling parents, I feel guilty my boyfriend has to go along knowing my parents will probably be absent in our future life. Family is very important to me, but I don't know what I could do any further about it.
You could, you know, get away from them... when the time comes.
Please consider therapy when you're free from them. You may not be a bad person, far from it, but there will be certainly some inevitable baggage from being raised by a narcissist. Which may impede or even destroy your relationship with your boyfriend.
Tell her to fuck herself. Ur life, ur choices. She's a fucking failure because she married a weak man, aka ur father
Niedawno odkryłem ten kanał, obejrzałem w dwa dni prawie wszystkie filmiki.
Robisz dobrą robotę.
Mom is projecting so hard
I remember the mom of my first girlfriend at age 17 would talk mad shit about my girlfriends EX named Sean. I remember sitting in the car as she was speaking on him and I was laughing hesitantly while thinking I'm next in line and wondering if I was good enough for the mom. I'm pretty sure she shit talked me too, probably called me weird and shit after we broke up. I knew Sean from school, and he was actually an asshole so I didn't feel bad for him though.
haha same thing here brother greatful to say i broke that ship
This triggered my PTSD.
Only for me, I flew to my ex GFs house to just end up get neglected by her family and excluded from conversations by them speaking in their own language. Not a single proper conversation happened for days.
This is the kind of mother that shows you how the woman you are dating will be like in the future. The father being dead inside and having the 1,000 yard stare and not saying anything while his wife acts like this.
Been there and done that but I was “rude” telling the mother how little her thoughts meant to me and her bullshit was not going to be tolerated, then I got up and left.
My current girlfriend’s family is wonderful and was not only welcoming and kind like her but asking what my goals were and why but without sinister motives.
"Well, I guess not everyone is destined to become someone"
Goddamn. Fuckin stake through the heart. 😂
The mother was talking about herself too on that phrase at least for me
In my experience this role has always been the father and the mother was always really acceptant and welcomed me into the family too bad their daughters were hoes or manipulative but the last one was both and a sociopath she lied about her family friends everything I was in love with a girl that didn’t even exist like that it was just a role and she was so smart and organized she pulled it off so good all my friends didn’t spot any red flags
If the father is like that the girl rebels by being a hoe. If the mother is like that the girl will struggle with self esteem.
Same is true with boys a lot of the time.
The father represents power and stability, whereas the mother represents self worth and emotional stability.
Its beacuse if their sweet little Angels were like that probably they didnt teach her morals or good values, why would they care of who's daughter boyfriend Is ? Also thats a red flag on women
Ya was in the same boat only realized it way too late but eventually broke it off with her
To cope with such people, one can try to develop pitty and disgust for them.
She seems like a control freak that doesn't even have happiness in her own life - the toxic "girl boss" mindset
The effort on the eyes is definitly noticed ! Keep it up !! Makes your story so much realer
Boomer lady settled having calculations in mind, not pure emotions, attraction and love. All women I know that went away from true feelings and settled because of status, money and security are now in a miserable relationship, they cheat with chad on their hard working partner. I'm glad I ended all my relationships before I got cucked. I remember my first gf's mom and her partner, what he told me was true all they way into my late 37's when it comes to women. If you want to know what your women will be like in the future, just look at her mother and how she behaves. That is 100% accurate from my experiance. P.S. remember guys, women are only simple at the beginning, even if you are 90% the one she is looking for, those 10% that you lack will in the long run make her forget all the good things about you. They never have enough, they stop appreciating the things you do after 2 years, 3 years, maybe 5 years, this time will come sooner or later in every relationship.
I was thinking 7 years, but you're absolutely right. If any guys do get in a relationship just remember, the chances of her leaving or cheating are nearly 100% no matter how "alpha" you are. And I'm not saying don't get in a relationship, just be careful.
I'm certainly going to say dont get in a relationship. Thats the only way to be careful.
It's never worth it, especially not in this day and age. The idea of working hard to get and support a loyal and obedient wife who loves you and the family to raise and love was a lie society told men to keep them propping it up while it actively sucked the life out of them and enabled women to run rampant with zero consequences to any of their actions and destroy men.
I always tell men these days to ask themselves; what can a woman do for you that you cant do for yourself?
Unless you want biological children, that answer is literally nothing.
And even in that, it is absolutely not guaranteed to happen for a thousand different reasons. And even if it does? She can have the state take them from you for just as many more reasons. Big, small, they could all be made-up and she would still win.
Women are completely and totally incapable of caring about men in any meaningful way. They cry about how men "objectify" them, but to them we are less than objects; we are simply a means to an end.
I use to be a full-on Taurus about relationships through-and-through. Maybe broken is a kind way of describing me, but I'll tell you one thing; I've been much, much more satisfied with my life when I stopped involving women in it.
I dont take being called Bitter as an insult anymore. Bitterness is simply your ingrained reminder to remember what you've learned.
Ironic how the ones who lambast you for being bitter are the ones trying to take advantage of you.
You are generalizing way too much, the percentage part is just misleading.
Everyone is blinded by being in love (in the beginning of the relationship), after a while he/she will slowly start to think more rationally about his/her SO and their flaws. But that DOES NOT automatically mean that they will forget all the good things about you. If your flaws are too big to being handled (e.g. you being an addict or you being psysical), here is where the relationship can end. But if you're not a wife beater, the right woman will be a good buddy to help in overcoming obstacles (coming from your 10% and her 10% and from life in general), she'll help you with your problems and try to make it work.
I'm sorry that you have this terrible experience, but not every woman is a greedy cheating psychopath that is thinking only about her well-being.
@@philllopez8483 your optimism screams lack of experience
@@Soundeagle3456 Or maybe that's his way of cope.
Immense pressure to be perfect. At a very young age.
"Jonathan always used to take you somewhere."
-yeah there must be a very important reason he's not here right now, or was it your passive agression that drove him away?
i'm here for my girlfriend not you you know.
A part of me is thankful I never got into a situation like this. Damn that's rough...
From watching this I realise I have never met the parents of anyone I dated... Guess they don't last long enough to get there.
@@incognito1110 Yes and no, honestly at the stage of my life where I want the long term.
Mom is destroying the self confidence of her daughter by totally undermining everything she decided for.
everyone thinks the mom is wrong when she is actually the only one with logic here, many of us want to think relationships are for love, but they are not, and no it is not just the fact that the man doesn't have money, it is that he isn't mature enough, yes money isn't the only important thing, but a 1 sided relationship is never going to work out
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Exactly, I’m with the mom completely here
I fell for the thumbnail.. again
I always wonder if I'll ever end up like the mother here. Hopefully I don't
You recognize the danger.
So no, you'll do fine.
Is it really that difficult to raise your daughter to be independent and smart rather than a permament hooker for some one?
@@Spinetap it’s not right to immediately dismiss the guy as a man child for not being a big shot.. especially with how useless education is these days in certain countries
@@Spinetap Please don't raise any offspring.
@@Spinetap 😜
Am i the only one to notice the ominous droning hum in the background of basically every video?
It's unsettling. And almost always fitting.
Also, I'm of the opinion that relationships are about who you're with, not what they offer.
Otherwise it's just a business transaction with romance, sex or other perks sprinkled on top.
I say it doesn't matter. If either person can more than take care of themselves, then its enough when your together.
I love how the background news insinuates to older generations that younger generations should be happier being more poor and miserable.
To be fair the mother gave him two reasonable options: a college career or a solid business-based income. In any case it is objectivly better than a dead end job
1:27
I didn't expect you to be so blatant about this basically be an interrogation
XD
I always thought the father would be the one to ask questions.
The mom is def dominant in that relationship
The mom of my ex was like this. Always pressuring me on and about to create a stable life for her daughter and provide. Nagging constantly on my brain.
Well. Two months after breakup it turned out she was cheating on her husband and burned the entire family dynamic down.
Sorry for my ex, but glad I got out of that shithole.
You turned a cheap meme into art. This channel is the essential Wojack.
This almost happened to me glad i graduated and got a job prove them wrong
So they actually played you like a fiddle. You ended up doing precisely what they wanted.
@@monsterboomer8051Shh!
Don't tell him 😂
But honestly it's a win-win for all.
@@monsterboomer8051 What if he wanted to go to college and get a job? Are you proposing that he just should have dropped and then proceeded to go homeless mode?
@@murilofurlan3479 Yes.
You sound like wagecuck bro.
@@monsterboomer8051 not really. Unlike someone well off from the start, he knows the ugly side of the family, so at least they probably won't be able to benefit directly from his resources.
Remember, when you get a girl, she marries into your family, not you onto hers, that's why she gets your name, and not you get hers. Meaning, you should only care about the quality of her parents in what concerns to how they raised her. If they raised her well (like the girl in this video, who was clearly good), then whatever flaws they might have are irrelevant. You are taking their girl from them, and that's it.
this is a devouring mother who makes all the decisions for the child. she is trying to crush her own child's will because she states that she knows best; but she is projecting her own doubt on to the child. She is trying squash the child's will so she can be in control.
Why the clickbait thumbnail?
Milfing
😂
"Why are you dating my daughter?"
"I was lonely and she was available. Trust me, if I could have found a boyfriend at the time, I would have."
A better answer than "I don't know" and some parents would understand it, but nobody in his position would have the courage or confidence to talk that way. That's too bad because it would lighten up the mood.
How TF did I read that as "When you meet your mother's Girlfriend" Did I forget to take my meds again?
People often oblige to the cliché or stereotype of being respectful to your SO's parents, but there's a few things people forget:
You deserve respect, you've been invited as a guest to come over to their home and more importantly it is a relationship between you and your SO. Not you, your SO and your SO's parents.
You are interviewing their parents as much as they are interviewing you. You can criticize them on callous and superfluous remarks about you.
If they patronize you or chastise you for where you are in your occupation, then they don't deserve any respect and personally, I would have said something and left.
Alternatively, you can one-up them by laughing at their thinly-veiled insults and ask them about their life and contrast how uninteresting theirs might be.
Don't let anyone treat you less than you are. You may not have passions or a good career now, but no one can tell you what your future worth is.
Be protective and aggressive for someone you love, but not be possessive.
The mother portrayed in the video is the classic Gen X parent pressing their self-interests onto their kids.
You cannot let your parent control your love-life, save for people who maybe have severe addiction or mental issues.
Of course she's never worked a day in her life but is first to talk
That was one of the most painful videos I've ever watched...well done. I had a girlfriend once with a mom like that. Not quite that bad but still pretty awful. Was so glad when I broke things off with that girl. Wouldn't have to see her or her mother ever again. My current gf is wonderful and so is her mother. If you can fellas, find a good girlfriend with a good mom. A lot of the times they go hand in hand
This is why someone with a good relationship with her family is a huge green flag
If you believe that her relationship with her family is a green flag, then you are misguided, or if not, your ability to see the whole picture rivals that of a cornered nearsighted hamster.