Trans Guy Reacting to Trisha Paytas

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  • @Jammidodger
    @Jammidodger  5 ปีที่แล้ว +6998

    Hey Spuds! Hope you’re not too fed up with this by now. I don’t think theres any point in chucking a barrage of hate over this tbh, there’s obviously something going on (trans or not - it’s not up to us to say), and even if there isn’t, it’s a waste of time to just shout without being constructive. What did need to happen though is calling out damaging wording and misinformation.
    Hope you liked the video xx

    • @cu3660
      @cu3660 5 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      I'm just wondering if maybe she's confused between being trans and gender fluid?
      Edit: Also, I think that this might be an attention thing because it seems like she did very little research. I think if you're really trans, you'd do a whole lot of research before coming out to family/friends/the public. 🤷‍♀️

    • @SkunkySpinda
      @SkunkySpinda 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I like to use sports headphones~ they come with little grippies on them so they stay in my ears better!

    • @dylancole1910
      @dylancole1910 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Jammidodger It's complete bullshit. Don't fall for it, she is genuinely confused. She is struggling with her identity as a Bisexual woman most likely. These could be reall feelings, I mean, no wonder, her naked ass is on camera frequently, has gotten so many womanly enhancement surgeries. This is why the LGBT movement is harmful to society, it's completely flipped it's agenda from quiet acceptance, to complete demands to use outlandish pronouns for identities that do not biologically exist, or will EVER exist. You cannot be both, or neither gender--it's just impossible. After seeing this video being reacted to for the 5th time today, I am certain she is not trolling, she actually believes this shit because she's hit the point in her life where her hormones are affecting her body a lot more in her growing age. I've also seen a trend of middle-aged women who are going through menopause, identifying as trans. She is possibly experiencing extreme body dysmorphia or disassociation due to the issues from being constantly heavily specialized because of her content. She needs help Jamie, she should not be taken seriously.

    • @0ceanOfStorms
      @0ceanOfStorms 5 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      @@dylancole1910 are you ok ? it sounds like you're having a stroke

    • @Jay_Mortis
      @Jay_Mortis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Think you were very kind about it but honestly she clearly has no idea what she's talking about she's either trolling or very confused 🦇🖤🦇

  • @isometricspace4348
    @isometricspace4348 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5986

    I am a girl. I have a ‘boy’ haircut, I have male friends, I don’t wear make up, I never wear dresses or skirts, I am a complete tomboy. But that does not make me trans. You don’t need to be really feminine to be a woman

    • @gabiblatezky
      @gabiblatezky 5 ปีที่แล้ว +179

      Agreed 100%. Also unrelated but love your profile pic ❤

    • @isometricspace4348
      @isometricspace4348 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Gabriela Pastafrola thanks!

    • @makipri
      @makipri 5 ปีที่แล้ว +150

      Also that would invalidate a lot of trans women.

    • @alleymarie13
      @alleymarie13 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I agree with you

    • @nataliewhitfield1289
      @nataliewhitfield1289 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      Same with me, I felt more comfortable with myself after I cut my hair and I loved it when I acted mor masculine but I hate being called a boy or a sir because I am still a girl.

  • @pronounsinmybio
    @pronounsinmybio 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8178

    Sounds like an awful lot of internalized misogyny and gay fetishism.

    • @dandylion1313
      @dandylion1313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +310

      That's literally what I said in the comments of her video LMAO Bless

    • @gyuisthebeom
      @gyuisthebeom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Yeea

    • @nancybeveridgetaylor3256
      @nancybeveridgetaylor3256 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yes!

    • @silkpup5897
      @silkpup5897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I literally said the same thing 😂

    • @cyoatts7100
      @cyoatts7100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Samuel Lowery see we're on the same level, I have never met anyone I would agree to more,
      Which is you, by the way.

  • @goosemcgoose5196
    @goosemcgoose5196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4721

    "I like gay men because they're masculine, give off masculine energy, but are also sensitive"
    My boyfriend is bi and he cries when I tell him I can't wait to marry him. Like... Dudes can be sensitive regardless of sexuality.

  • @arandomgayweeb4413
    @arandomgayweeb4413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2818

    ‘I think they/them is plural’
    Me, being agender: ‘What do you know, Trisha? I could be twenty rabbits in a trench coat.’

    • @ittselli3245
      @ittselli3245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      this made me laugh, thank u

    • @marztheburntoutemo4919
      @marztheburntoutemo4919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Thanks this joke made my day!

    • @apbern4797
      @apbern4797 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I mean there is a billion things living on me

    • @wannabe-werecat
      @wannabe-werecat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      if you are twenty rabbits in a trench coat then *give me a damn hug i need the floofy embrace right now-*
      if your not still give me a hug i need a virtual one right now

    • @agendergod6534
      @agendergod6534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Me, uses "it/its": Oh my gosh HOW DID YOU KNOW?! WHO TATTLED?!

  • @Dani_333
    @Dani_333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4166

    "Do i think i'm Transgender? Yes 1000%. Do I identify with my birth gender?" Yes 1000%"
    Me:*Dan.exe has stopped working*

    • @hollyrose9336
      @hollyrose9336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Daniel Thomas i will say that a lot of Bigender people are their assigned gender at birth and another gender.

    • @glazeliights7025
      @glazeliights7025 4 ปีที่แล้ว +178

      @@hollyrose9336 yeah, but that's not what she was talking about, I'm pretty sure Trisha doesn't even know what Bigender is

    • @minimariaandthecrew8811
      @minimariaandthecrew8811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Not transgender, but nonbinary. And not using they/them pronouns is a personal choice. Although when she mentioned they/them being used by plural people I assume she meant people like me who have dissociative identity disorder or multiple personality disorder, because that's the only "plural" I can think of.

    • @analuizafelixdesouza6336
      @analuizafelixdesouza6336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@minimariaandthecrew8811 No, she meant "plural" as more than one person. As in, using the pronoun "they" to talk about more than one person in the third person. Back then she hadn't even started with the DID crap she made up (not saying DID is made up, but she obviously made up that she has it), probably she didn't even know it was a real disorder.

    • @analuizafelixdesouza6336
      @analuizafelixdesouza6336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@minimariaandthecrew8811 No, she meant "plural" as more than one person. As in, using the pronoun "they" to talk about more than one person in the third person. Back then she hadn't even started with the DID crap she made up (not saying DID is made up, but she obviously made up that she has it), probably she didn't even know it was a real disorder.

  • @cake-ie7uh
    @cake-ie7uh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3131

    Trisha is the 'yes, but actually no' meme at this point.

  • @xander.k3083
    @xander.k3083 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1516

    "I dont like lables."
    "IM ALL THE LABLES"

  • @angelchen7892
    @angelchen7892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +326

    I don't think Trisha is trolling...she's just extremely confused about who she is and uneducated/ignorant

    • @tilarose151
      @tilarose151 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Watch the frenemies podcast with Dr. drew. It is interesting how Trisha tries to convey this topic. Trisha does identify as non Binary now, Also made an apology and donated to trans charity.

    • @logic9140
      @logic9140 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      If you see how she fetishizes and yet speaks over Jews and attacks them and antisemitic
      It may be classic Trisha fetishizing and being discriminatory and staying at very least purposefully ignorant

    • @booperdooper9762
      @booperdooper9762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agreed

  • @blizzard_the_seal9863
    @blizzard_the_seal9863 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2807

    i also hate when people use the word “choose” like that when referring to the LGBTQ+ community. it’s a really uncomfortable word since sexuality and gender aren’t choices :/

    • @RowanWarren78
      @RowanWarren78 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Preach!

    • @kristinwright6632
      @kristinwright6632 4 ปีที่แล้ว +143

      I'm cis straight but when people use that term "choose" like that I ask if they chose to be straight. Often they are confused so I explain it like this. Suppose you lived in a society where it was most normal to be gay and only 10% of the population was straight. Could you just choose to be gay to fit in with the majority of the population. Some refuse to engage but I often get at least uncomfortable squirms.

    • @Vaehe07
      @Vaehe07 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      Yea I am bisexual and I have had a lot of people be like "just choose one, boys or girls" and I'm just like ._.

    • @jaycovey1127
      @jaycovey1127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Blizzard_the_seal if I could choose to be gay I’d be gayer

    • @blizzard_the_seal9863
      @blizzard_the_seal9863 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Jay Covey ikr same

  • @chiliaukdal7457
    @chiliaukdal7457 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2284

    Trish: They/them is plural
    Trish, a few minutes later: I wouldn't be able to satisfy them
    She literally used a singular them in the same video where she said it's plural

    • @letterborneVods
      @letterborneVods 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Chameleon Tea and now she’s saying that she IS plural (DID). I don’t want to accuse her of anything but it’s just weird 🤦‍♀️

    • @starbittenpixieboy
      @starbittenpixieboy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@letterborneVods she's a faker and a shitty person. FUCK Trisha Paytas

    • @tomatosz
      @tomatosz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@letterborneVods ugh yeah that vid was even more yikes... and i haven't even seen the original, only a reaction vid

    • @minimariaandthecrew8811
      @minimariaandthecrew8811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@letterborneVods I picked up plural as meaning DID too. If she WERE to have it then it's not transgender or nonbinary it's your alters identifying as themselves. That said, a male alter in a female body (and vice versa) can have dysphoria about the body. It's the main reason my two male alters, that I know of, don't come out unless absolutely necessary. They usually step back and let female alters handle what needs to be done.

    • @Surdeigt
      @Surdeigt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      LaughingForNoReason XD Oh oh, I WANT to accuse her of trolling topics that hurt others for views 🙄

  • @cloudinhabitant
    @cloudinhabitant 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1530

    people.
    i just learned.
    that i'm a boy.
    *because i don't do my hair and i don't care about my body.*

    • @nightsky5264
      @nightsky5264 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      same then, actually I'm currently sitting on the couch after brushing my hair once and putting it in a ponytail because i don't want to deal with it. (I'd cut it short but for whatever reason my mum won't let me)
      Update: my mum let me cut my hair

    • @maxbromet4365
      @maxbromet4365 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      IM A BOY?!?

    • @aWERFRGT6545BGFG
      @aWERFRGT6545BGFG 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      ah yes I do those things and I don't wear makeup ever so I guess I'm a boy too
      yayyy daaa boisss

    • @PmpknHead
      @PmpknHead 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I guess I am a trans guy rather than a trans enby

    • @hu5225
      @hu5225 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@nightsky5264 awww so lucky. I'm still trying to persuade my mum to let me cut my hair. Hope u live it tho.

  • @gearboxsys9313
    @gearboxsys9313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1214

    this is why we need LGBT+ education in schools. This doesn't feel like Trisha is being malicious, just...really really confused

    • @sopapopp
      @sopapopp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Yeah. Also I feel like if she felt that way she should've made some research to see if that's really what she is before making a video about it.

    • @puppeteer7604
      @puppeteer7604 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I’m getting the vibes thst she’s gender fluid

    • @rivulet5417
      @rivulet5417 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      "But muh gay indrtrucnation"
      -Mat Walsh probably

    • @hypatiakovalevskayasklodow9195
      @hypatiakovalevskayasklodow9195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      agree

    • @MsGuess12345
      @MsGuess12345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We don’t need that shit in school. We need real education. Not live in a fantasy

  • @fortunatecookie
    @fortunatecookie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5702

    “Straight guys turn me off. I never liked that over masculine energy”
    Ahem
    Not 👏🏻 all 👏🏻 gay 👏🏻 guys 👏🏻 are 👏🏻 feminine 👏🏻 please 👏🏻 stop 👏🏻 stereotyping 👏🏻 gay 👏🏻 men 👏🏻

    • @lindaplayspiano
      @lindaplayspiano 4 ปีที่แล้ว +912

      Not 👏🏻 all 👏🏻 straight 👏🏻 men 👏🏻 are 👏🏻 over 👏🏻 masculine 👏🏻 please 👏🏻 stop 👏🏻 stereotyping 👏🏻 straight 👏🏻 men 👏🏻

    • @zeezeroevents
      @zeezeroevents 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Yas

    • @maryamalobaidi4809
      @maryamalobaidi4809 4 ปีที่แล้ว +845

      Sexuality 👏 Has 👏 Nothing 👏 To 👏 Do 👏 With 👏 Gender 👏 Identity 👏 Or 👏 femininity/masculinity 👏

    • @magnuss.2351
      @magnuss.2351 4 ปีที่แล้ว +211

      "Straight guys ... ... over masculine energy"
      Bears:
      Hunks:
      Twunks:
      Cubs:

    • @olli8389
      @olli8389 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      But why
      Aren't gay man painting their nails wearing make up and dresses ?
      (It was sarcasm 😒)

  • @freyas8814
    @freyas8814 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6127

    20 minutes 29 seconds of Jamie trying his hardest to be nice.

    • @icebear6598
      @icebear6598 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Fr tho

    • @max-bl6fi
      @max-bl6fi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +166

      I think it's great that he was being so nice and using just facts, because then others can't label him as being a bully.

    • @TheLastJack
      @TheLastJack 5 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      Max Day honestly he doesn’t seem like someone who would be mean anyway

    • @icebear6598
      @icebear6598 5 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      Yeah, Jaime is honestly such a sweetheart

    • @echowhosthis
      @echowhosthis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      is it bad that i want an uncut version of him going off on her? probably? oops.
      in all seriousness though, i think she needs to be educated on what gender actually is. it’s not a choosing thing. this ain’t the supermarket, that’s down the street. gender is what you are, it’s a know. as said in the video, even gender fluid people don’t choose, they just know. i’m honestly wondering how this is gonna turn out in the end.

  • @diharaj5358
    @diharaj5358 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1932

    "Stereotypes don't dictate gender" dang Jamie

    • @ohteddyboyo
      @ohteddyboyo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Amen!

    • @TheLastJack
      @TheLastJack 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      We love Jamie

    • @kiakaha110
      @kiakaha110 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Isn’t that how most of the alphabet community define gender?

    • @ljb5163
      @ljb5163 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kia Kaha you mean trans people?

    • @leonabrawne200
      @leonabrawne200 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @planet 4 We know what we see. ignoring biology, all you have are stereotypes to say you are a man or woman.

  • @hypergutzz2474
    @hypergutzz2474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    Trish needs to realise that “being attracted too” and “fetisizing” are 2 different things

  • @malinicorrea9379
    @malinicorrea9379 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4462

    I think we now know the video JK Rowling was talking about when she said she's done a lot of research on trans people

    • @pdx13
      @pdx13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      LMAOO YEAH 💀

    • @anomaliexxx
      @anomaliexxx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      IM SOBBING YES EXACTLY

    • @eshiboo
      @eshiboo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      This

    • @sparrowsace
      @sparrowsace 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      That was the most beautiful thing I've read in a long time.

    • @chaislaw5014
      @chaislaw5014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Dying.

  • @colwynneowens7503
    @colwynneowens7503 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2626

    i just feel like she's confusing gender expression & gender identity

    • @S0dap0pb0ttle
      @S0dap0pb0ttle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      This makes sense

    • @AYoutubechannel1448
      @AYoutubechannel1448 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I feel she making whole a lot of money for doing so.

    • @RayNightshade12
      @RayNightshade12 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That’s what I think, if she’s being serious that is

    • @quogrim
      @quogrim 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Or its both.

    • @Courtney-pe2iw
      @Courtney-pe2iw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No she literally said she was a trans man gay man no confusing there she literally straight out said what she was.

  • @ArtsySpinch
    @ArtsySpinch 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3826

    "are you trans?"
    Trisha: "yesn't"

  • @marleymuller2126
    @marleymuller2126 3 ปีที่แล้ว +700

    logic: *has joined the chat"
    Trisha: "im trans, but i identify as my gender that i was born with"
    logic: *has left the chat*

    • @x-ca1iber
      @x-ca1iber 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      *don’t do it don’t do it*
      lOgAn!!!

    • @qwart22
      @qwart22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Tbf that could mean they’re Bigender

    • @randommeowthekitty6482
      @randommeowthekitty6482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Jazlyn Yeoh
      Logan Sanders???????????

    • @dont_blink3578
      @dont_blink3578 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@x-ca1iber i like patton :3

    • @sleepy-emerald
      @sleepy-emerald 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      *Bigender exists.*

  • @RedJo7
    @RedJo7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3919

    Am I vegan ? 1000%
    Do I still eat meat? 1000%

    • @gachajames5481
      @gachajames5481 4 ปีที่แล้ว +192

      Yes we exist

    • @rowanwright571
      @rowanwright571 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      Just spat my tea out 🤣🤣

    • @mxwitcher
      @mxwitcher 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      I am a vegan who is a meat eater, yes.

    • @wolfiespiritz
      @wolfiespiritz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      🤣

    • @samiacool9
      @samiacool9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +211

      Am I alive ? 1000%
      Am I dead ? 1000%
      Yes we exist

  • @keiths2902
    @keiths2902 4 ปีที่แล้ว +546

    I just find it sus that *specifically* she says she is attracted to gay men. Like, hunny, that's an attraction to a sexuality- aka it's a fetishism, as opposed to saying you're attracted to men, which is a gender- so an orientation.

    • @icecubes9056
      @icecubes9056 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      That was very confusing. It's like she's stating a stereotype, that all gay men are one way and straight men are another way.

    • @Tijggie82
      @Tijggie82 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      As a woman, I noticed that I felt attracted to gay guys at a certain point in life. I realized that's because I was raped by my first boyfriend and gay guys aren't interested sexually in me, thus they feel very safe. I like feeling safe ☺️. Still the best feeling ever 😊.

    • @SpecialBlanket
      @SpecialBlanket 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Realistically there are certain types of people that are overwhelmingly more likely to be gay/lesbian/etc. If you like only butch women, you're going to mostly like lesbians. If you like lispy effeminate flamboyant bottoms, realistically that's mostly gay men, even if it's bc society quashes those traits in others. Don't front like there's no different between the populations, and like the chemistry isn't different when someone's perceiving you as their own sex vs another sex. She says "attracted to", but it could be bc she vibes with them bc there's lowkey that energy there, you know?

    • @devent10n
      @devent10n 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Tijggie82 when I still identified as female as a teenager & thought I was ace, instead of, say, wanting a relationship with another ace person, I wanted a relationship with a gay man who could get his sexual needs met outside our relationship. The thought of being touched sexually absolutely repulsed me. Maybe it was because I didn't know any ace men to know it was an option. But I find that "he's not attracted to me and thus won't touch me but I still get emotional validation from the relationship" thing extremely relatable.

    • @pheonixrises11
      @pheonixrises11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      she do kinda sound like someone that has a lot of baggage as a result of being sexualized by older straight men since she was young

  • @goatmadej
    @goatmadej 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1225

    Trisha Paytas, 1000% transgender, 1000% cisgender, 2000% on the kitchen floor.

  • @marjoriebroyles5062
    @marjoriebroyles5062 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Hey Jammie, first I want to say that I like your videos. I'm a 65 yo straight woman from the U.S. I can understand the information that you give. I have wondered for a while now how trans people felt. I'm sorry that society is so hard on you. You and Shabba looks so happy together. Congratulations on getting your PhD. I enjoy your videos because they are informative. I hope I can react the proper way if I were to ever meet a trans man or woman. I think you a courageous for putting yourself out there. I think Trisha is a very confused human being. After watching this video I'm not sure what to call her/him. She definitely needs to do research before she goes on about things, she was very confusing. Hope I didn't rant and hope you understand what I am saying. I really do enjoy your videos. More people need to understand before they make any judgements. I hope you answer me. The best of luck to you and Shabba. Marjorie.

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku ปีที่แล้ว

      i can say definitively that what trisha identifies as is an attention whore. she always pulls some stunt like this when it's been too many weeks/months without her name trending on twitter.

    • @_exolite
      @_exolite ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I love that you are trying to educate yourself on trans people. :)

  • @georgesmith4307
    @georgesmith4307 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2280

    The "not being able to satisfy a gay partner" part pissed me off so much, I'm a gay trans man in a relationship with a gay cis man and the implication that our relationship is less legitimate or satisfying is honestly kind of offensive.

    • @soupsoup4245
      @soupsoup4245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Same here

    • @JJ-jw9ec
      @JJ-jw9ec 4 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      Honestly that's one of my biggest fears as someone who's attracted to men and is transmasc... I feel like a cis gay man would never be happy with me because I don't have what he wants. It's nice to hear that that's not the reality and im glad you and your partner are happy together 💜

    • @soupsoup4245
      @soupsoup4245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      @@JJ-jw9ec There's always gonna be men who will love and appreciate you for who you are no matter what, whether they be cis or trans. Keep fighting on, brother.

    • @calebmofsky-mclean4063
      @calebmofsky-mclean4063 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      im a very young gay trans boy and hearing her say that being trans and never being able to satisfy a partner in the future honestly just made me lose all my self confidence. i already struggle with depression and anxiety and seeing that honestly just made me so offended and depressed.

    • @0verth1nker60
      @0verth1nker60 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I’m scared of that

  • @omen1477
    @omen1477 4 ปีที่แล้ว +839

    gender expression does NOT equal gender identity 😔

    • @chappelled
      @chappelled 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      yes! i present femininely (can’t transition yet) but am a guy. it’s important to know the difference!

    • @chappelled
      @chappelled 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@SashaPosting hi! what does gnc mean? if you don’t mind me asking :)

    • @chappelled
      @chappelled 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@SashaPosting thank you!!

  • @calspencer5862
    @calspencer5862 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1004

    "trans people are lovable whatever stage of transition" Okay. Uh. I had no idea how badly I needed to hear that until now :"))

    • @elizabethcabbage9817
      @elizabethcabbage9817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Callum you are lovable no matter what stage of transition. :)

    • @julietjackson2918
      @julietjackson2918 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I agree. You are loved at every stage of your journey.

    • @trekadouble757
      @trekadouble757 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      That's because, no matter what, trans people are people. And all people are lovable.

    • @markd.9918
      @markd.9918 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@trekadouble757 that's a very wonderful thing to say ♡ I love it

    • @sinnamonroll1788
      @sinnamonroll1788 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You're valid! No matter what stage you're at, or even if you decide not to do T or surgeries! (っ˘з(˘⌣˘ )

  • @heylol9166
    @heylol9166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    "im not like other girls, im a bisexual women/gay man/a transgender/a gay ally"

    • @tauuuuuu
      @tauuuuuu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey I like ur pfp

    • @chappelled
      @chappelled 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      a t r a n s g e n d e r
      i hate that stupid phrase 😭

  • @courtneyfairchild4393
    @courtneyfairchild4393 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4502

    Him, jokingly: "Identify as guys, identifying as multiple guys." Me, from the future: "Honey, you've got a big storm coming."

    • @lolkayleen2757
      @lolkayleen2757 4 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      AHAHAHA I GET IT

    • @baguettegott3409
      @baguettegott3409 4 ปีที่แล้ว +140

      I don't
      Does he actually identify as multiple guys now?

    • @strawberry2850
      @strawberry2850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      what

    • @raineisms
      @raineisms 4 ปีที่แล้ว +510

      @@baguettegott3409 she says she has DID (dissociative identity disorder, previously referred to as multiple personality disorder)

    • @leliasturtevant3825
      @leliasturtevant3825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      I knew someone would comment this 😂😂😂

  • @maisierose654
    @maisierose654 4 ปีที่แล้ว +986

    I dont like how trisha said they/them pronouns were "confusing "
    Like nonbinary people are constantly told theyre asking for too much when they just want decent respect.

    • @om-boi
      @om-boi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Those pronouns work for literally everybody: women, men, and everyone else.

    • @NoName-ld7gg
      @NoName-ld7gg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Someone: “They/them is plural, idiot!”
      Enby: “Well, when you’re on the phone with a telemarketer, and can’t tell THEIR gender by THEIR voice, what do you call THEM?”
      Someone: “ .__. ......”

    • @strawberryboy9045
      @strawberryboy9045 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I don’t have think I love that reference and makes people realize how wrong they are about certain stuff that they don’t know about.

    • @strawberryboy9045
      @strawberryboy9045 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hailea Shephard I was talking about how I recognized that reference and liked it but I don’t know what happened. Sorry for the confusion.

    • @annaj2089
      @annaj2089 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      like, i dont think its confusing. its their pronouns. its like if i told you that i dont want to be called Anna, i want to be called Anna Jane, because that is the name that I was given at birth, and you said "well thats too confusing". like, its my name. whats so difficult to understand about that.

  • @that_one_strange_lamp2067
    @that_one_strange_lamp2067 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1590

    “I don’t like being the center of attention unless I want to be the center of attention.”
    Yep that is how it works.

    • @yulia8175
      @yulia8175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      isn’t that what anyone wants anyway

    • @jrw2319
      @jrw2319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      the only thing she said that was true. as an introverted leo i hate being the center of attention until i want to be lmao

    • @eliotmontesinopetren1764
      @eliotmontesinopetren1764 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Excactly! Wow you described every person ever Trisha!

    • @duru5266
      @duru5266 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Disk of Prudence same

    • @asdjklasdhjkl396
      @asdjklasdhjkl396 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And she said it like she was dropping some sorta bombshell

  • @lostinthelookingglas
    @lostinthelookingglas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    I think she's nonbinary, but hasn't done any of the necessary research to not sound like an uneducated troll. I'm nonbinary and I can choose how I present, but I can't choose how I feel inside. It would be hella convenient to not have to wake up with dysphoria...

    • @kirin1230
      @kirin1230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I feel like she's gender fluid, or female but has never heard of not being a girly girl. Probably the ladder.

    • @smolfrog404
      @smolfrog404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love your profile picture

    • @Mangotherango57
      @Mangotherango57 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah dysphoria is a bitch

    • @hispronounsaretheythem
      @hispronounsaretheythem 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's true. They recently (ok, maybe not so recently) came out non-binary

  • @teefsart
    @teefsart 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1093

    Me, a cis girl with really short hair, who doesn't wear makeup and uses a lot of male clothes....
    So am I a boy now?

    • @nonewem5180
      @nonewem5180 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Ingrid Stephane Welcome to the club

    • @Rebster
      @Rebster 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      You are either a boy or lesbian, must be. At least, that was what happened to me when I had short hair

    • @teefsart
      @teefsart 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      @@Rebster I'm actually asexual 😂😂😂

    • @Rebster
      @Rebster 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      @@teefsart yeah, it's just that people think that once you have short hair, it is impossible to be anything but a transgender or lesbian. While in reality, it is highly possible to be just a straight cis female, or anything else.

    • @smilerpunk922
      @smilerpunk922 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yea sorry

  • @user-rh9qw5qf9p
    @user-rh9qw5qf9p 4 ปีที่แล้ว +746

    „I’m not like other girls, guess I’m a trans guy“

    • @zahra-zm9bw
      @zahra-zm9bw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Trisha Paytas in a nutshell-

  • @mouse9039
    @mouse9039 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1900

    Her: I want to be part of the community!
    Also her: *blatantly insults the trans (and specifically enby) community*

    • @__husk__5512
      @__husk__5512 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Yeah I felt quite offended by it as an enby :(

    • @katiekinsella5122
      @katiekinsella5122 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@__husk__5512 Same :

    • @spinnysponk778
      @spinnysponk778 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Same \\\٩(๑`^´๑)۶////

    • @starry_ser
      @starry_ser 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      t w i n

    • @phoebe.aur0ra
      @phoebe.aur0ra 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeet

  • @empressthorne4075
    @empressthorne4075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Fun fact: "They" has been used as a singular pronoun for a person of unknown/unstated gender dating all the way back to middle English, which includes all of modern English :))

    • @sevrono
      @sevrono ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They has been used in the singular longer than "you" has as a singular, its existed since we used thou

  • @veg5bond
    @veg5bond 4 ปีที่แล้ว +738

    as a nonbinary person, this hurt to watch

    • @user-ly3pj1yz4l
      @user-ly3pj1yz4l 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      @cherri
      Especially the part where she says you can’t use they/them pronouns...

    • @finnbott1334
      @finnbott1334 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      cherri same

    • @ElkStories
      @ElkStories 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @cherri I love your profile picture!

    • @veg5bond
      @veg5bond 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ArtistAsriel aww, thanks!

    • @theeveningcallsforfairies5246
      @theeveningcallsforfairies5246 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sammmmme

  • @staceyperigo8762
    @staceyperigo8762 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1275

    Well, she did once say she identifies as a black woman, lesbian, bisexual and a chicken nugget so there's that.

    • @sparrowcunningham7637
      @sparrowcunningham7637 5 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      don't forget that she's also a teletubbie.

    • @122hsrfe
      @122hsrfe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      How does one identify as a black woman when they are not black 🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️ she probably said i feel black because i like " insert stereotypical things here"

    • @twelveseventeen_
      @twelveseventeen_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I need to see this chicken nugget video, I can't believe that actually happened.

    • @libralin5574
      @libralin5574 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What the fuck

    • @Jimmyboygohome
      @Jimmyboygohome 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sparrow Cunningham come on teletubby teleport us to mars!!!

  • @suspiciousdonut8640
    @suspiciousdonut8640 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2276

    logic: *exists *
    This woman: "I am transgender 1000%!"
    logic: "okay, nice."
    Also this woman: "I identify as the gender I was born as."
    logic: * *has left the chat* *

  • @toadflaxflower
    @toadflaxflower 3 ปีที่แล้ว +274

    Trisha: I'm a boy!!
    Trisha: but I'm also a girl too!!
    Trisha: but I'm NOT nonbinary!!
    Me: ....who wants to tell them about bigender

    • @sidipopsicle1636
      @sidipopsicle1636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      LITERALLY!! thats what i was thinking the WHOLE time

    • @everettjohnson4498
      @everettjohnson4498 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      SAMMEEEE

    • @FluffyArcticWolf
      @FluffyArcticWolf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      You are like the only other person in the comments who even considered bi-gender.

    • @BearsyMai
      @BearsyMai 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Hehe, bigender gang 💗💛🤍💜💙
      💙💙💜🤍💜💗💗
      💙💙🤍💜🤍💗💗
      Sorry, couldn't help myself, we don't get mentioned much, and yes, there are a bunch of different hearts because us bigender peeps can't decide on a flag.
      For those who don't know, the second set of hearts is considered the official flag, while the first is newly made and less controversial, and the third is a slightly altered version of the official flag to be less controversial but still carries the original colours... So there we go, all three sets are my flag.
      Sorry for the lesson 😂

    • @Novacayne-alt
      @Novacayne-alt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      OMG WAIT

  • @katecantsee1901
    @katecantsee1901 5 ปีที่แล้ว +787

    I can’t think of an identity that she hasn’t offended at this stage..

    • @fewcuchptat7431
      @fewcuchptat7431 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      Kate O'Riordan she hasn't identified as asian... YET

    • @DePurpleFish
      @DePurpleFish 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True

    • @squeerrel-j
      @squeerrel-j 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      she didn't say she's asexual, did she?

    • @josiemay2982
      @josiemay2982 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Has she offended pansexuals?

    • @nekoqueen5524
      @nekoqueen5524 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@josiemay2982 As a pan, not that I've seen yet lol. It'll probably happen sooner or later but I won't be paying attention unless Jamie reacts to it

  • @Fcarpenter23
    @Fcarpenter23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5101

    Her: I don’t like they/them pronouns, that’s multiple people
    Me: *sad enby noises*

    • @starpiececonnectingfeelings
      @starpiececonnectingfeelings 4 ปีที่แล้ว +211

      it's okay im enby too :))
      tho i go by he him instead of they them

    • @wishtopublish
      @wishtopublish 4 ปีที่แล้ว +237

      Don't worry thude, they/them pronouns are awesome

    • @ruetistic
      @ruetistic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      What is an enby? Im really sorry if this comes off as rude or offensive

    • @starpiececonnectingfeelings
      @starpiececonnectingfeelings 4 ปีที่แล้ว +179

      @@ruetistic you're fine ! enbies or more commonly known as non binary people are people that feel like they don't quite fit under the male or female label. it's an umbrella term that includes genderfluid , agender and demigender ( and more ! ) . you could look it up for more info. hope this helped ^^

    • @maxuniverse6658
      @maxuniverse6658 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Yay! Enby pals! Just want everyone to know that no matter what anyone says...you’re always valid! I also like the term thude sksks Imma use that in my day to day life now!

  • @ОксанаХлебникова-ю2щ
    @ОксанаХлебникова-ю2щ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1451

    I'm here because Trisha just disrespected DissociaDID and the whole DID community in her new video. So sad to see how much harm she's done to other communities as well. I hope she can find chill one day and stop spread misinformation for attention.

    • @Kate-mu6xn
      @Kate-mu6xn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      I came here from that video to. The fact that she is so uneducated makes me sad. Like if you are going to claim something at least understand what it is first.

    • @voidcosmic1161
      @voidcosmic1161 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Her face alone is a trigger for our anxiety...it’s really not fun. -Void

    • @slideshowgurl
      @slideshowgurl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Оксана Хлебникова she also claimed to be black once 🙄 oh and she converted to Judaism after dating a Jewish guy for 2 weeks.

    • @nos5915
      @nos5915 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Me too, although I've been here before. When it was just trans, I was just like, "I hate this, this is a lot of misinformation, it's dangerous, but okay. It's just one really underinformed person. It's fine." But now its DID too, and...
      ...
      I'm really concerned. Especially now the DissociaDID system got hurt in part because of this.

    • @netoeythedestroyer8468
      @netoeythedestroyer8468 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I THOUGHT I RECOGNISED HER!! i couldn't remember why tho, but wow, she really do be disrespecting every marginalised community

  • @Fruitygho0st
    @Fruitygho0st 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    She doesn't want to be a boy she just wants the privilege of being one

    • @amazingspiderlad
      @amazingspiderlad ปีที่แล้ว

      Which doesn't even work because trans people have it worse than cis women

  • @Shelf0808
    @Shelf0808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3454

    I feel like she’s poorly expressing being pansexual and genderfluid

    • @kitsoto3965
      @kitsoto3965 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      yep

    • @lances4801
      @lances4801 4 ปีที่แล้ว +187

      Or even agender. Its like yhe opposite of nonbinary isnt it?.

    • @Shelf0808
      @Shelf0808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      lance S Agender and nonbinary are the same, though I understand what you mean.

    • @horse_stan6007
      @horse_stan6007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +242

      @@lances4801 they're the same and also different. Some of it is up to the person deciding what labels fit them but they have the same idea of not being in the typical male female thing.

    • @androfeels
      @androfeels 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      yEp

  • @keoode9533
    @keoode9533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +720

    Someone take a shot every time she says "choose" when describing her gender

    • @harrypotter-el6hs
      @harrypotter-el6hs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      i took a shot of hot sauce each time and now i am a dragon

    • @keoode9533
      @keoode9533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@harrypotter-el6hs damn, respect

    • @virgilwright1482
      @virgilwright1482 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      i am bending over my toilet, but the one millionth shot *must* be taken

    • @friday8644
      @friday8644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      please don't, you'll be dead halfway through

    • @annacaris6674
      @annacaris6674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      OKAYYYY

  • @SeaBlueJay
    @SeaBlueJay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1237

    "I can be a guy some days and a girl some days"
    Me: Trish, there's are these two beautiful identities called, Bigender and Genderfluid. Look it up.

    • @mossy_mush5609
      @mossy_mush5609 4 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      Also demigender

    • @NoName-ld7gg
      @NoName-ld7gg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +170

      *excited inclusion noises because genderfluids don’t get a lot of representation in media*

    • @fenrirgallant8766
      @fenrirgallant8766 4 ปีที่แล้ว +129

      @@NoName-ld7gg *vibes in genderfluid*
      also she said she wants to pick and choose her genders and I'm like
      "honey that ain't how it workss"

    • @rainmer471
      @rainmer471 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I love this thread

    • @NoName-ld7gg
      @NoName-ld7gg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @Fenris Wolf
      Yeah, like, just because you say you’re something, doesn’t mean that you ARE that thing. Kind of like how Weeaboos say and think that they’re an anime character, but they’re not (obviously).
      But maybe Weeaboos aren’t a great example, because being trans is completely natural, whilst believing that you live in an anime is not.
      She also said that she has D.I.D (Dissociative Identity Disorder), and clearly, she doesn’t. I think she just sees other people who are trans, or have D.I.D and immediately tries to “fit in”.
      Can’t wait to see which community she spits on next.
      (Btw, this is unrelated, but pls stream “Dynamite” by BTS. We’re trying to get them to 100mil, and we’re so frickin close! ^^)

  • @somethingcool9010
    @somethingcool9010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Trisha: I’m all of it
    Me: when did the lgbt community become pokemon.

    • @natalie8111
      @natalie8111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She has made this a game of Pokémon, gotta catch ‘em all

    • @sampepper7682
      @sampepper7682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@natalie8111 me a demi-panromantic asexual genderfluid: I've collected the whole set

    • @natalie8111
      @natalie8111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@sampepper7682 me a pansexual she/they still questioning my gender but knowing my pronouns

    • @sampepper7682
      @sampepper7682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@natalie8111 yay thats good for you cause them you can at east have the pronouns and feel comfertable!!!

    • @ttthecat
      @ttthecat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol! Gotta catch'em all!

  • @tameratime
    @tameratime 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3305

    She sounds like she is attracted to more feminine men who treat women nicely

    • @FreyaWarr
      @FreyaWarr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      It’s been said in other videos that she has fallen in love with her gay best friend, Cedric. She realizes he will never love her back romantically and so this has triggered this weird coming out identity crisis. She really needs to get off the internet and get some help.

    • @cicidiaries
      @cicidiaries 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      @Whitney Gordon Yeah I agree, although on a side note, do think your parents would let you make a personal email account? You could give your personal account a gamertag-like username that doesn't give an actual name. This way you won't make your parents suspicious, and you won't have to worry as much about being misgendered online.

    • @giuly8jojo
      @giuly8jojo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      she litterally said that she's not attracted by bulky/muscular man, what does that have to do with being trans?

    • @crazycartoonist5450
      @crazycartoonist5450 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Whitney Gordon does your school not monitor your account, mine does that’s why I use a personal email. I just am concerned that they might try to get you in trouble.

    • @tubblebub
      @tubblebub 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Right, and along with that, it seems she doesn't like being treated the way that women are treated. She wants male privilege

  • @judegreenfield9557
    @judegreenfield9557 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1203

    I think Trisha should see a therapist and work this out privately rather than make this muddly, strange video and post it on the internet

    • @sunnybigmc90
      @sunnybigmc90 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Naomi Greenfield supposedly she did but it ain’t workin! Lol

    • @drteddy2609
      @drteddy2609 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Maybe she is using "better help" 🙄

    • @terreplowell4691
      @terreplowell4691 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Agreed tho cause I understand it IS confusing af and yes Trisha can be confused but she’s also inevitably confusing people who are questioning and just in general

    • @heatht7868
      @heatht7868 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She wants attention. And she’s getting it. It’s ridiculous to me.
      I’m allll about gay or bi people and transgender people.
      She just totally insulted everyone in that video. Wow. Ridiculous. Come on.
      It’s making the people that really are going thru being trans or coming out. It’s a hard thing to do.
      She looks like a Barbie. Good for her. Seriously. She’s jumping on the bandwagon. Give me a break. Ugh

    • @annacaris6674
      @annacaris6674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree. I honestly just think she's confused and uneducated.

  • @stickbugorozzie6371
    @stickbugorozzie6371 4 ปีที่แล้ว +294

    She also implied that having short hair would make her trans. Girls can have short hair, boys can have long hair.

    • @myusername1385
      @myusername1385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      fun fact hair and gender are the exact same thing

    • @aiijae9884
      @aiijae9884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      and what will she imply next? enbys are all bald?

    • @myusername1385
      @myusername1385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@aiijae9884 we neither have hair or not have hair, we are voids of genderless space, true story

    • @stickbugorozzie6371
      @stickbugorozzie6371 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@aiijae9884 No... They all have mullets, duh 🙄🙄/j

  • @miloschool7559
    @miloschool7559 4 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    She has just never heard of a masculine female i think.

  • @lukemesser8002
    @lukemesser8002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +436

    Trisha: sees lgbtqia+
    Trisha: I’ll take your entire stock

    • @strawberryboy9045
      @strawberryboy9045 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      diva bhardwaj It stands for intersex. Because they have both genitalia they identify how they want.

    • @annaj2089
      @annaj2089 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@strawberryboy9045 the comments section is basically school for me bc im not super educated and i had no clue what intersex was. thanks for telling me.

    • @tea_addict2453
      @tea_addict2453 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Anna Jane Banana nice to know that someone is using this as a way to learn

    • @annaj2089
      @annaj2089 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@tea_addict2453 hey, im always down to learn more about the different sexualities and genders, and anything else like that. i know the basics, but i hate offending people, it gives me literal anxiety, and learning more about this stuff makes me feel more confident that im not going to offend someone.

    • @tea_addict2453
      @tea_addict2453 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Anna Jane Banana same tho. Also you have restored my faith in humanity, thank you

  • @Ed_Lothia
    @Ed_Lothia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2679

    Trish: I don't wear make up and I have a zit and I don't like sexual harrasment from men so I'm a man
    Me, a cis female:.... am.... am I a man?

    • @leavemealoneha8042
      @leavemealoneha8042 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I know my comment is stupid but what is cis

    • @kafkafication3449
      @kafkafication3449 5 ปีที่แล้ว +244

      @@leavemealoneha8042 Cis=your gender identity matches the gender you were assigned at birth.
      Trans=Your gender identity does not match the gender you were assigned at birth.
      In short cis just means not trans. Your comment is not stupid, it's always good to learn. (As long as you're not sealioning people)

    • @picassohippo9557
      @picassohippo9557 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Existencial Dread what is sealioning?

    • @sabrinawilliams8717
      @sabrinawilliams8717 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @@kafkafication3449 yes what is sealioning? Making a bunch of noise for attention?

    • @sunnybigmc90
      @sunnybigmc90 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂😅

  • @adrianinha19
    @adrianinha19 4 ปีที่แล้ว +567

    "Sterotypes do not dictate gender"....I love that!

  • @KalikaInLeather
    @KalikaInLeather 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    "You can reject labels, but you can't have them all" so well said!!

  • @LadyLunesca
    @LadyLunesca 5 ปีที่แล้ว +736

    She sounds like she's just fed up with societal expectations on women's appearances and that she's attracted to feminine/androgynous men. She needs to see a good counselor to talk through her feelings.

    • @Isrjisoneavalable
      @Isrjisoneavalable 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Jesse Houston agree

    • @trishfish6914
      @trishfish6914 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Jesse Houston thats the thing! in the “apology” she said she was seeing a gender therapist for m o n t h s. idk how tf that therapist didnt shut her down immediately or teach her any terms and actual imformation

    • @sarahl3721
      @sarahl3721 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@trishfish6914 I think shutting people down is the opposite of what therapists are supposed to do, right?

    • @LadyLunesca
      @LadyLunesca 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@trishfish6914 like I said she needs a GOOD counselor lol one that can help her intelligently verbalize her thoughts and feelings.

    • @trishfish6914
      @trishfish6914 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sarah L well say youre going to therapy for being depressed. if youre not depressed the therapist is not going to encourage you to go on anti depressants and will or should tell you youre not depressed. same for a gender therapist. if youre not trans, they should encourage you to see a therapist for maybe split personality disorder or not to go on testosterone and would stop encouraging her to say shes trans when shes not

  • @stabbyseb1319
    @stabbyseb1319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1094

    "I know guys are into bodies and all that" *OMG Trisha! NO! as an asexual trans man I feel o f f e n d e d*

    • @MoonyLupa
      @MoonyLupa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Same tbh

    • @xiphactinusaudax1045
      @xiphactinusaudax1045 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Not trans, but asexual, and same.

    • @zekeleonard5247
      @zekeleonard5247 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I’m not asexual but I still feel offended by that. I support you 😊

    • @hummingbirdspark3998
      @hummingbirdspark3998 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I saw your pfp. Are you a fander?

    • @derp4374
      @derp4374 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Not asexual or a trans man, but she makes me want to die

  • @kawaii.universe2003
    @kawaii.universe2003 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1886

    It honestly sounds like she’s misinformed and just doesn’t like stereotypes or gender roles that are forced upon her.

    • @downsjmmyjones101
      @downsjmmyjones101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Yeah she's just really confused because she doesn't know what any of these things mean.
      It seems that she just never stopped being a middle schooler, which is where people generally find out their identity.

    • @grizzlegrowlsem
      @grizzlegrowlsem 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agreed! Very well put.

    • @seawatersoul333
      @seawatersoul333 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Sounds like shes wanting to say she feels more nonbinary than anything else 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ not only that but it's not hard to tell shes also trying to 'embrace' a more "black look" since the whole "I'm black" video 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @kawaii.universe2003
      @kawaii.universe2003 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Adhley Severeyns honestly when I saw her for the first time I thought she was at least mixed

    • @marcuspaulson2263
      @marcuspaulson2263 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree!

  • @juliagilewska8354
    @juliagilewska8354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    "stereotypes do not dictate gender" my exact feelings the whole time.

  • @user-ly3pj1yz4l
    @user-ly3pj1yz4l 4 ปีที่แล้ว +425

    “People saying I’m a they” no...
    People are saying “please use they/them pronouns for me”

    • @elizabethcabbage9817
      @elizabethcabbage9817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Llama PANwaffle I actually have a friend that would rather be called he or she and not they but he still doesn't say other people can't be called they. The idea that they is a plural and thus shouldn't be used is stupid, if you don't like that one, that's fine use a different one, but don't deny that anybody can be called they just because you feel it's not a singular word.

    • @user-ly3pj1yz4l
      @user-ly3pj1yz4l 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Kiara Blitz of course! Anyone can use whatever pronouns they feel most comfortable with!

    • @elizabethcabbage9817
      @elizabethcabbage9817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Llama PANwaffle :)

    • @elizabethcabbage9817
      @elizabethcabbage9817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Altoid Bazingá my own mind is blown. 😂

    • @miles-lk7po
      @miles-lk7po 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      *laughs in nonbinary*

  • @fraxinus_ash
    @fraxinus_ash 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1599

    I think fron what she's saying she has internalised misogyny and has had awful experiences with straight men.

    • @Coopsickle
      @Coopsickle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      I mean I wouldnt say that because it's literally word for word what my mom told me when I came out as trans, but yeah, she is really uneducated and clearly making some mistakes.

    • @Isrjisoneavalable
      @Isrjisoneavalable 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Exactly! I want to shout at her to stop talking and posting, but I also pity her and want to make her a cup of tea and recommend some books and videos

    • @texasktea
      @texasktea 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hm go figure. It's like she's having an misogyny epiphany.

    • @deboraht5079
      @deboraht5079 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ash -- I think that early on Trish was a stripper and worked in an escort service. She also dated older, unavailable men. So Trish was hurt a lot by the power and age difference. I think that she was used for her looks.

    • @sarahleebeauty6761
      @sarahleebeauty6761 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ash right.. she wants male privilege, this video is great for information so i hope she sees this

  • @itwasthesummerof
    @itwasthesummerof 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2271

    yes i'm vegan. yes i eat meat. we exist.

    • @Marion89gr
      @Marion89gr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      I didn't quite understand your comment

    • @LeviAckerman-tn4zj
      @LeviAckerman-tn4zj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +173

      @@Marion89gr by definition, vegans do not eat meat. similarly, she is contradictory when describing being trans

    • @krystyna89lopez
      @krystyna89lopez 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Being a vegan is a choice 😂

    • @Marion89gr
      @Marion89gr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@LeviAckerman-tn4zj oh, thanks. I didn't get the sarcasm

    • @CapucineNighly
      @CapucineNighly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Sister-in-law is 1000% this. And I'm not even joking.

  • @sigsomething
    @sigsomething 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    "they/them are for multiple people"
    me, pretending to be enby but is actually multiple raccoons in a trench coat: oh shit she onto us

  • @britybearx3
    @britybearx3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +510

    “stereotypes do not dictate gender.”
    tea.

  • @aceunavailable9141
    @aceunavailable9141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +304

    Transphobes really dont realize that you can be a girl and have short hair huh

    • @aWERFRGT6545BGFG
      @aWERFRGT6545BGFG 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      as well as hate makeup and basically be a mascgirl. I bet trisha doesn't believe in femboys either

    • @andii-
      @andii- 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      and dave mustaine is apparently a girl bc he has long hair, according to her nonexistent logic

    • @KaiahAurora
      @KaiahAurora 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      As I've always said, it's the people who are the most insistent about gender being inflexible, biological, and binary, who are the ones who need to be constantly reminded about what gender is by slapping blue or pink on anything and separating the world into cars and barbies

    • @renhey9979
      @renhey9979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My friend has the most amazing hair. He grew it out and because its long and Blonde, he looks like Thor. It is really cool. Also if you were to live in a hot country short hair would be good.

    • @andii-
      @andii- 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Esther Podolny im so happy for u!!!!

  • @mirimochi910
    @mirimochi910 4 ปีที่แล้ว +721

    1000% trans + 1000% cis = 2000% transcis
    guys I figured it out

    • @fardareismai4495
      @fardareismai4495 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      You deserve a Nobel prize for this crucial addition to science.

    • @wolfiespiritz
      @wolfiespiritz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol

    • @ves4345
      @ves4345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lol. S c i e n c e. . .

    • @finneth
      @finneth 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sounds like the name Trisha

    • @jaxsonbaird6903
      @jaxsonbaird6903 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lmao

  • @asher4543
    @asher4543 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Me around my close friends who I am out to: do I identity with non binary 1000%
    Me around my other friends and family: do I identify with my natural born gender 1000%

  • @froggyqueen1435
    @froggyqueen1435 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1805

    Hi! Genderfluid here!
    It does kinda sound like she's genderfluid, but it almost sounds like she WANTS to be genderfluid rather than actually identifies as it.
    Genderfluid is a really cool identity, and it's also kinda comforting if you want to experiment with things, such as different pronouns, a different name/names, or different ways to look/gender expression. However. Being genderfluid doesn't mean you wake up and decide what you feel like identiying as that day. I guess it's more like you have to analyze how you actually feel that day, and analyze what expression (clothes, pronouns, name) will make you feel the most comfortable that day (this can change throughout the day.) Genderfluid doesn't equal having a wide range of style... It's not the same as "I feel like wearing a dress today" or "I feel like having short hair today" or even "I feel like wearing sweatpants today cuz they're comfy." It's not like that, as I tried to explain above.
    This is why you can't just say "short hair is more convenient, therefore I feel like a boy everyday" because that's not how it works. You don't "decide" what gender you are that day because it's not a decision. Gender expression is different from gender identity. Also, don't stereotype that short hair equals boy. Girls with short hair aren't men.
    The video annoys me because when I try to explain to someone what genderfluid means to me, they think of videos like hers, because they sound similar. I didn't wake up today and chose to be a boy because of the convenience of the hair. No, I woke up, analyzed how I felt, discovered that I felt more like a boy than anything else, so I chose to express myself as male and use he/him pronouns for the time while I identify as male. Also, there's a difference between "today in particular, I *feel like* identiying as a boy because that's how I feel today" and "I *feel like* identifying as a boy because it's more convenient." The first "I feel like" is referencing how your brain is telling you you feel that day, and the second "I feel like" is making a choice. It's like how "I feel happy today" and "I feel like buying _____today" use the term "I feel" differently. So the way she says "I feel like" really makes it sound like genderfluid is a choice, and you choose how you identify every day, when that's not what it's really like. It makes it harder for people to learn, understand, and accept the community. And it makes us look crazy. So please stop.
    I think Trisha should really experiment with different things, and decide how she feels most comfortable. Maybe she is genderfluid... But the way she phrased it made it sound like she's choosing to be something similar to genderfluid rather than actually being it. Maybe she just wants to be a masculine girl in a relationship with a more stereotypically feminine guy (straight/bi/pan/etc man can all be feminine, and it's ok to have a type, as long as she's not fetishizing.)
    In conclusion,
    • Although it's true that being genderfluid means different things to everyone when it comes to their personal identity, and everyone feels differently/has different experiences as a genderfluid person, what she's describing is just... Not what genderfluid MEANS.
    • It sounds like she's choosing to be genderfluid.
    • That's not how genderfluid works.
    • She's making us look bad/making it look like we choose everything.
    • Wanting to look a certain way doesn't determine your identity, and I don't think she understands that.
    • It's ok to experiment and want a certain type of relationship, but it's not ok to stereotype and fetishize.
    Hope this helps ♥️

    • @Naiden_AE
      @Naiden_AE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      This was the most explaining text about gender fluid I've ever seen, now I understand it better and hope to never be disrespectful to gender fluid people!!thank you so much for sharing your experience!!
      (If the comment sounds like mocking or trolling, it's because English is not my first language, so I'm not that good at it yet. Please don't read it like that)

    • @PeacefulAmphibian
      @PeacefulAmphibian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Im trans and I hate my life, but this sounds very fun
      Ps. That was long

    • @annarajala578
      @annarajala578 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      This is such an excellent comment! Wow I wish I could pull this out of my pocket whenever someone is spouting misinformation about gender identity. Thanks so much for such a positive and thorough explanation!

    • @adeola_63
      @adeola_63 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Bruh this just made me realize I'm actually agender. Thanks!

    • @nickibaumgart7697
      @nickibaumgart7697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      as a genderfluid person (im way more enby leaning and its more like... I'm basically agender but with occasional flashes of Stronger Gender Feelings TM), ayup! like man oh man i wish i could just wake up and be like 'ohoho this is gonna be the gender for today' instead of having to analyze it :/

  • @bills-beard
    @bills-beard 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1496

    sounds like this lady has a problem with society's sexism and misogyny, not with her gender identity

    • @leahbrandman7549
      @leahbrandman7549 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Don’t we all...

    • @ljones3487
      @ljones3487 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Her biggest problem seems to be with maths. 🤣

    • @primotef8863
      @primotef8863 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Definitely feels trapped by societal norms and standards, but this does not make you transgender.

    • @timthetoolmantaylor9048
      @timthetoolmantaylor9048 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The patriarchy! Waaaaaah!

    • @archaedia
      @archaedia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@leahbrandman7549 exactly!

  • @AlxMar5
    @AlxMar5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +514

    I wonder if this was one of the "trans people" JK Rowling talked with...

  • @Jane-oz7pp
    @Jane-oz7pp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Jamie my budgie really loves your channel, she gets super excited everytime she hears your voice.
    I just think you should know.

  • @mouse9039
    @mouse9039 4 ปีที่แล้ว +757

    Trisha paytas: so do I identify as transgender, yes 1000%.do I identify as my natural born gender, yes 1000%.
    Me: is my name Steve, yes 1000%. Is my name not Steve, yes 1000%

    • @rainbowosprey1619
      @rainbowosprey1619 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      pixiethefirecat 7 bill wurtz reference?

    • @mouse9039
      @mouse9039 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@rainbowosprey1619 not intentionally but I'm gonna say it was in an attempt to be cool 😎

    • @NoName-ld7gg
      @NoName-ld7gg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      If she’s trans, then I’m cis.

    • @TheInvisibleCanadia
      @TheInvisibleCanadia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Do I have a car that's in a tree?

    • @lemonange4975
      @lemonange4975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      WhaT Is LoGicAl???? I cAN't TELl

  • @JuMixBoox
    @JuMixBoox 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2718

    It sounds to me like she does not feel comfortable being a woman in this society. She feels mistreated by men, judged for her looks, objectified and sexually categorised by strangers. She feels like she can't trust people as a woman because they always have bad intentions. I feel for her, but I think she should refocus her efforts. Someone needs to educate her in a very kind way.

    • @Isrjisoneavalable
      @Isrjisoneavalable 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      JuMixBoox well said

    • @criminalkey2259
      @criminalkey2259 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      top comment

    • @fanpet3912
      @fanpet3912 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

    • @fthurman
      @fthurman 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      ✨SadCat✨ none of what you’ve said is actually true, and it’s terribly othering.

    • @tubblebub
      @tubblebub 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@OnlyLilynn44 That is such a good point. I thought at first that it sounded like Jamie was right in saying (like the above comment) that she wants male privilege; but after reading your comment, I'm not sure. She is being incredibly hypocritical cuz she absolutely likes the sexual attention she gets from dressing up the way she does, and actually seems to need that validation. Maybe she's being picky and just wants certain people to sexualize her. Or maybe just this week she hasn't been feeling up to all the attention. Or maybe she hasn't felt like doing her hair and makeup, but still wants to be considered attractive, and because men have that privilege she wants to "choose to be a man today."
      She'll never transition in any sense. Maaaaaaybe she'll more masculine, but she's not going to cut her actual hair or anything. She might play along with it for a little bit, and then she'll make another crying on the kitchen floor video and get 37 million views and more of that attention she craves and we are giving her right now.

  • @louisturnier580
    @louisturnier580 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    My mother is a radical feminist and I’m a FTM,,, this is how i think she sees how I feel. She is a scary woman and I don’t know how to argue with her other than just give up on what I’m gonna say and agree with her. My mind always goes blank when I try to explain to her “why I feel this way”

  • @NoisyWombat
    @NoisyWombat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +245

    Kinda sounds like she doesn’t like attention from men, she probably feels attracted to gay guys because they don’t make advances. She mentioned older guys paying attention to her when she went through puberty, I feel like there’s more to the story there.
    Doesn’t sound like trolling to me, just confusion, ignorance and a longing for a supportive community.

    • @aditichawla8606
      @aditichawla8606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I kinda agree. I don't think she is trying to troll.. but is actually really confused.

    • @GatoTomato
      @GatoTomato 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Yeah she probably would be better off with a good therapist than blasting her personal struggles in front of a bunch of strangers on the internet

    • @beepatpen
      @beepatpen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, it kinda sounds like the logic (from my understanding) Is that Gay guys don't make advances sexually on women?
      Idk what im saying, idk what shes saying idk what anyones saying

    • @fallenroses13
      @fallenroses13 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kevin T the therapist wouldn't know what to say lol

  • @bergrritothebeggoon
    @bergrritothebeggoon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +348

    "I identify as both a trans man and as a lesbian"- trisha

    • @elizabethcabbage9817
      @elizabethcabbage9817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      Berger Queen excuse me she's a gay man,, and also a straight man, and a bi man, and a pan man, and an ace man, and also a straight woman, and a gay woman, and a bi woman, and a pan woman, and an ace woman, and evidently gender-fluid but probably also bigender and pangender and agender because come on she wants all the labels.

    • @gaigeiris9632
      @gaigeiris9632 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Kiara Blitz mooom trisha is hoarding all the identities, you said it was my turn on the gender :c

    • @missserenity1090
      @missserenity1090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Berger Queen Trisha: I am bi, a man, gay, lesbian, straight, a woman, non-binary, and asexual all at once.

    • @wolfiespiritz
      @wolfiespiritz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@elizabethcabbage9817 lol

    • @wessthemess9375
      @wessthemess9375 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Don’t forget she also identifies as a chicken nugget

  • @lornithorynquedelespace9385
    @lornithorynquedelespace9385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I'm really impressed to see that even when he's angry, he's still a very kind and respectful cutie pie.

  • @katfanq
    @katfanq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +279

    theres a difference between “i identify as” & “i identify with”

    • @nationcrim3s335
      @nationcrim3s335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      erin n o a h f i n n c e

    • @daga670
      @daga670 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can i know the difference please?

    • @katfanq
      @katfanq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I'm The gayest In the land
      i’ll try to explain this in the best way i can but identifying as something means you belong in that group or category. like if i said “i identify as a guy” that would mean, well, i am a guy. but if you identify WITH something, it has a few different meanings but i think in trisha’s context she feels she has the same problems &/or feelings as guys.. at least i think thats what shes getting at idrk since i dont really trust the things she says now

    • @sarahchicago
      @sarahchicago 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I'm The gayest in the land
      I think identifying with a group means you can relate to them in some way, whereas identifying as means that you are a member of that group.

  • @user-rr2il6hb7v
    @user-rr2il6hb7v 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1469

    She literally said she was a chicken nugget at one point

    • @jaxsonezria
      @jaxsonezria 5 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      And that she was black

    • @pyrexbutt962
      @pyrexbutt962 5 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      "Im a motherfucking teletubbie"

    • @diamondbella8091
      @diamondbella8091 5 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Right.. and so many people hesitate to acknowledge that she is trolling everyone. Thats what she does.. everything she says is a lie. She does it for attention and it works unfortunately..

    • @plodiN3
      @plodiN3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      this reminds me of the that vine with that nice young kid "even tho I look like a burned chicken nugget I still love myself". Don't mean to derail the topic but it's just what came up in my head and it made me smile. so thanks for that I guess

    • @graysongirard3564
      @graysongirard3564 5 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      In just 2-3 years, for views she has come out as
      A lesbian (and has continued to publicly date men exclusively)
      B L A C K
      A *teletubby*
      A cHiCkEn NuGgEt
      A. Gay. Trans. Man.

  • @---bv8hj
    @---bv8hj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +942

    She’s not trans, she just jumps on trends, she’s jumped onto the DID community lately apparently.

    • @pulu7415
      @pulu7415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      What the f*ck is her thinking?
      Edit : sorry for the swear. I don't think when I am angrily confused

    • @thegaang2829
      @thegaang2829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Yeah and when she did she caused a TH-camr who educates others on DID to completely leave the platform (until further notice) due to the hate she was being sent from Trish haters

    • @cally0165
      @cally0165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hi My Name Is Vincent it also affected them so bad that a f*cking protector had to make the video telling the community they were taking a break Trisha needs to be cut of from all internet access that would make the world a slightly better place

    • @adrianinha19
      @adrianinha19 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@cally0165 what does that mean, what is a protector?

    • @fenrirgallant8766
      @fenrirgallant8766 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@adrianinha19 Protectors are alters who protect the body, system, host, core, or other specific alters or groups of alters. Physical protectors might take or try to prevent physical abuse or become aggressive in an attempt to defend against physical abuse.
      so basiclly each alter has a role and that is the protectors role

  • @lifu._
    @lifu._ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Trisha: I don’t wanna offend anyone
    Also Trisha: offends an entire community

    • @KaiahAurora
      @KaiahAurora 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm pretty sure it's more that just one community at this point

    • @catebrooks6779
      @catebrooks6779 ปีที่แล้ว

      "An"?? Multiple.

    • @sevrono
      @sevrono ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KaiahAurora obviously the LGBT+ community, whats the others?

  • @RazuYazu
    @RazuYazu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +333

    Hair length isn't gender exclusive. Trisha, wut. I have really long hair as a trans man and people read me as male without question.

    • @nalomelimaia
      @nalomelimaia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      I have short hair, i wear men's undies.. Does that make me a man? No, definitely not. I'm a cis woman.. My haircut does not define me🙄

    • @yourlocalcryptid6024
      @yourlocalcryptid6024 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I'm a Trans guy with medium length hair and I'm still undoubtedly a man. My friend is a dis guy and has really long hair, he is also undoubtedly a guy (unless he were to tell me differently). Hair doesn't do shit.

    • @tuggerjaegger2886
      @tuggerjaegger2886 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      my dad thinks also that short hair is only for men, and long hair only for women. but i have long hair and it annoys me how i can't explain things properly to him

    • @rokorae
      @rokorae 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      im a cis man with medium-long hair
      long hair bois

    • @KarutoZoaldyeck
      @KarutoZoaldyeck 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nalomelimaia KAREN HAIR?!

  • @kaialietetreault8909
    @kaialietetreault8909 5 ปีที่แล้ว +559

    No one: "What's your gender?"
    Trisha: *"Well, yes, but actually no"*

  • @gerund_umlaut
    @gerund_umlaut 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1199

    I mean, the reasons in that video were kinda like: “I like wearing pants - ima trans guy”. It’s like “I don’t like eggs so im vegan”

    • @Dani-rx8ck
      @Dani-rx8ck 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Not to mention she also came out as vegan in the past, ate one salad and went back to eating meat lol

    • @jackriver8385
      @jackriver8385 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      As a vegan, I agree 🌱

    • @casperdavis3916
      @casperdavis3916 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Gerund Umlaut
      If that’s how her brain works I guess I’m vegan 😂😂😂 🌱

    • @katsimpsforleviathan
      @katsimpsforleviathan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      As a girl who lives in pants, and who shaved all of her hair off about 6 months ago, I agree. By her standards, I'm a guy when I know that I'm not.

    • @doodling.tulips9582
      @doodling.tulips9582 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I'm a cis girl, and I don't want my boobs. I don't wear makeup. I never wear skirts, dresses or jewelry. I always wear sneakers, long pants and a baggy hoodie. I guess I'm trans by her logic

  • @_.sleepyghost._659
    @_.sleepyghost._659 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "I might be too harsh but it makes me squirm a little"
    -The least harsh statement

  • @kpoptrashemotrashhumantras8929
    @kpoptrashemotrashhumantras8929 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1076

    "So do I think I'm transgender, yes 1000%."
    "Do I identity with my natural born gender, 1000%"
    Sweetie, that's not how being trans works or how maths works.

    • @mauriciolara3558
      @mauriciolara3558 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don't understand this though, if you identify as transgender you absoloutley have to identify as the gender you're transitioning too ? Is it possible at the time maybe she doesn't consider herself a male yet. I'm not here to defend her, she doesn't make a lot of sense, but i just want to hear your thinking, or anyone else's for that matter.

    • @santiv4
      @santiv4 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Mauricio Lara the reason why someone’s trans is because they don’t identify with their “natural born” gender
      thats kind of the whole point

    • @mauriciolara3558
      @mauriciolara3558 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@santiv4 gotcha so like by defintion word for word cool cool thanks

    • @santiv4
      @santiv4 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mauricio Lara i cant tell if this is sarcasm or not

    • @404usernotfound_
      @404usernotfound_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@santiv4 I don't think so, I think they're genuinely confused but who knows

  • @sara_gillett
    @sara_gillett 4 ปีที่แล้ว +239

    And now she's come out saying she has dissociative identity disorder when she clearly doesn't... *Sigh*

    • @cjboyo
      @cjboyo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Big fucking oof

    • @kurzler
      @kurzler 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      and she called DissociaDID, who actually has DiD, cRaZy

    • @jiphyy
      @jiphyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The Ravaged Coalition she said in the video that she never got diagnosed

    • @void9214
      @void9214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Kill Me I thought tp stood for toilet paper for a second lol

    • @oliverfloof6824
      @oliverfloof6824 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Dead Email Idk if she has it or not but she says things about her 'experiences' with DID that are supposed to be literally impossible such as alters dying. That's the only time I think accusing someone of faking is somewhat justified. However even if she does have it she self diagnosed with apparently 0 research based on how bogusly uninformed she was. She kept referring to DID and MPD as two 'slightly different' disorders. Then she spread her harmful misinformation to a giant platform under the guise that it's okay because she has DID, while insulting other people who have it.

  • @tistamukhopadhyay5026
    @tistamukhopadhyay5026 4 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    'I identify as multiple guys'
    oh, how that aged...

  • @francescab1336
    @francescab1336 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You have made me a lot more open to trans people, just so you know you’re doing great work. I never thought being gay/lesbian/bi was odd because I new what it was from an early age, and at time myself have felt attraction towards other women. But i didn’t know what trans was until i was like 14, and so its taken longer for me to stop thinking of it as weird. I now see it as normal as cis, just a longer journey. Thanks :)

  • @joshuaorion1263
    @joshuaorion1263 5 ปีที่แล้ว +493

    I think she needs help, shes very misinformed, and needs to be taught the reality of gender. i dont think she means bad, but she seems to be applying meaning to things that dont have a meaning. shes got a lot of misinformation and stereotypes.

    • @chrissyzcreationz
      @chrissyzcreationz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      she SAYS she's seeing a Gender Therapist, but this is Trisha, so who really knows?

    • @KatelynnE1995
      @KatelynnE1995 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      She’s definitely not seeing a gender therapist it’s all a joke to her! She used to identify as gay, bi, black, a chicken nugget even a bloody teletubbie she just does it for attention!

    • @chrissyzcreationz
      @chrissyzcreationz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@KatelynnE1995 lol yeah, I kind of stopped watching her around the time of the chicken nugget deal. lol

    • @Isrjisoneavalable
      @Isrjisoneavalable 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think she needs some help with many things, including her understanding of gender and her sense of self

    • @jessp4016
      @jessp4016 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah I was thinking the same - doesn't know that romantic and sexual attraction can be fluid or at least disproportionate (like,more romantic and less sexual or vice versa). And I agree she just needs to talk it out with experts. Some therapists aren't educated about gender & sexuality so she should see an expert. Someone said she shares a lot with her community on her platform so I figure she uses it like she would friends irl.

  • @ashtonjaymes6844
    @ashtonjaymes6844 4 ปีที่แล้ว +249

    I'm a transman and I have long hair and I see it as my mane, it's very masculine to me. I DEFINITELY dont consider myself "femme" in any way, even though I have long thick hair. I have no interest in cutting my hair off but I'm just as male as any cisgender man who has long hair, and there are many.

    • @SayHelloHelli
      @SayHelloHelli 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ashton jaymes like all of Seattle in the 90s

    • @deadwolfius-kun3692
      @deadwolfius-kun3692 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you for this comment ! For me long hair is very masculine for me !

    • @mykelmicalromance
      @mykelmicalromance 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      say it louder for the ppl in the back

    • @msjkramey
      @msjkramey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      A man with long hair can definitely be very sexy. Own your mane!! Besides, it's about what makes you feel good over everything else

    • @missserenity1090
      @missserenity1090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Right? I don’t see guys with long hair and go WOMAN! Ive known a lot of guys to have long hair and they look like like regular guys. Alternatively, having short hair, no makeup on, and a flatter chest doesn’t make you look less feminine. I literally see both of these things all the time. Why did she think that these were good reasons to say she is trans, I just don’t get her.

  • @MidoriJane12
    @MidoriJane12 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1553

    Gay man: oh sorry we can’t date I’m gay
    Trisha: *its not a problem anymore*

    • @Meggsie
      @Meggsie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I am deceased xD

    • @Raev222
      @Raev222 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Thaaaaat's what she's doing. Lmao.

    • @shrek6758
      @shrek6758 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      james charles 2.0

    • @Saturn57
      @Saturn57 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Omg, you're so right. This is just part her of inability to accept rejection, smh.

    • @kourtneyswholesomelife5971
      @kourtneyswholesomelife5971 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bamboo Milkshake I love this 😂

  • @loverrlee
    @loverrlee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m a cis woman who is bi, but when I was questioning my gender identity and sexuality, I have had similar thoughts to Trisha, especially going through a phase where I was only attracted to gay men (very confusing for me). I know now that these thoughts don’t make me trans, but I understand where Trisha is coming from trying to sort it all out. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

  • @ish4638
    @ish4638 4 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    "identifying as multiple guys"
    this aged well

    • @aperson5261
      @aperson5261 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I’m confused. Sorry can u explain 😂

    • @ish4638
      @ish4638 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@aperson5261 she's decided to say she has DID now.

    • @aperson5261
      @aperson5261 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@ish4638 im sorry I’m not sure what that means. I’m sorry if this is annoying but I’m trying to get more educated on it as several people I know have recently come out and I want to make sure I know everything right. I hope it’s ok I’m asking so many questions.

    • @ish4638
      @ish4638 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@aperson5261 don't worry about it! DID means dissociative identity disorder. You might have heard people call ot multiple personality disorder? Basically, the brain splits when a person goes through trauma, forming several different "people" inside one mind.

    • @aperson5261
      @aperson5261 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@ish4638 oh I get it now. Thank you for explaining so well!!

  • @dannydevito7145
    @dannydevito7145 5 ปีที่แล้ว +791

    Trisha is just a whole mess to be honest, definitely needs to get off social media for the rest of the year at least

    • @sloshypath
      @sloshypath 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      More for us than her lmao

    • @moik4037
      @moik4037 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Muffin Gee?

    • @yasmineakasha4209
      @yasmineakasha4209 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      your username is danny devito but your pfp is gerard way and that resonates a strong type of energy that i cannot match

    • @AllyMemes
      @AllyMemes 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s hard to do that when your job is social media. She’s facing financial insecurity if she does that. I think it’s something she needs to do, but I doubt she’s able to.

    • @giuly8jojo
      @giuly8jojo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      she just wants attention and knows that creating drama is the way to do it

  • @blueberrypi3103
    @blueberrypi3103 4 ปีที่แล้ว +435

    Trisha: I'm more attracted to gay men-
    Me getting triggered: What does that have to do with being trans!?!?

    • @eszternyiri3738
      @eszternyiri3738 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I mean... I'm about 100% sure I'm a hetero girl but! I can melt into a puddle by watching a gay couple being intimate (I mean, I love to watch attractive male bodies, if there are 2, double the visual joy, no?) I'm no trans, no homosexual, but tbh gay guys can be real hotties.

  • @insertinterestingnamehere6037
    @insertinterestingnamehere6037 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Trisha: I am 1000% male, and 1000% female.
    Jamie: *Jamie.exe has stoped working*

  • @exammole4545
    @exammole4545 4 ปีที่แล้ว +245

    Half my braincells are thanos snapped, and the rest just offed themselves.

    • @infaroyyaalkarimahmuhamad1439
      @infaroyyaalkarimahmuhamad1439 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Noped out of here 😂

    • @exammole4545
      @exammole4545 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My new braincells I grew back are dead again

    • @Sailor_Enchantix
      @Sailor_Enchantix 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @leiliabug5240
      @leiliabug5240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ...My brain cells are on vacation. They said "You're on your own. Love ya, byee!"

    • @possums154
      @possums154 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      My brain cells just offed themselves because the rest of the apotheosised wouldn’t share them. It was my turn on the brain cells guys!