My biggest insecurity is my dark skin. Dark skin girls are really at the bottom of the chain. Colourism is a thing. I can be someone’s type but because I’m dark it’s a TURN OFF. And people think it’s preference but someone is always prettier because they’re lighter and it’s as if my skin is a crime. But we move.
Hey girl.I'm a dark skin girl & I can totally relate with how you feel.Listen homegirl if a guy is truly interested in you he will go after you despite your skin tone.Your beautiful Queen raise the standard and set the bar!
Worst part is they’ll say that colourism is not real😭😭 A lightskin girl will always automatically be above average JUST because she is light skin despite what she actually looks like. That’s just the tea🤷🏾♀️
I know this is a bit late respond but yerrr my lady I don't know you personally but please wear that dark skin with confidence because some of us fu*cks with it I swear
This is my first video of yours that I have watched. And I'm already so drawn to you. Uyathandeka. Your energy is so attractive and wholesome! Your honesty is so relatable and yho I could go on and on about what captured me from this first video ❤😍
Thank you for this Video Gugu. My friend got me here coz I have insecurities too a lot of them. I don't think I'm beautiful, my weight, skin colour, nje everything. I don't think a lot of people like me - so I don't really date. I'm just at a point where I just wanna sleep. Not go anywhere and just be alone
Reciprocated love is a big thing hey!! i feel you in that one for real. I think that's my biggest insecurity. But just like you, i push people away easily!! it makes it easy not to get hurt
Being vocal about your insecurities blocks others from feeding off of them cos you're just like "uhmmm, I know that, tell me something I don't know" 🙄😌. I just love you Gugu
I’ve been saying me too throughout the video , the sooner you accept your flaws the better they don’t affect you ♥️ by the way just saw you on looking for mjolo and I liked you ✌🏽
Listen! It actually is hard to lose weight on your arms, don’t beat yourself up about it. I’ve beeeeeeen on this road for way too long and I’ve kinda just accepted it cause Lord knows I’m lazy :/ there are apparently specific exercises that can help with toning or slimming down arms💓 you’re gorgeous and I love your videos by the way
My biggest insecurities are my short hair, body, face,my mental healthy(overthinking) and the fact that i wear glasses..i always feel like they all make me look old and ugly...they have been my biggest insecurities for my whole entire life i really cant believe it when im told im loved or just being treated nice i get very shocked because I've always been the one who does that to other people just to cover myself from being seen that im so insecure...sometimes i cry because i feel like im being hard om myself though nobody knows...I've always been like "there will be a time I'll be very pretty" but it doesnt really encourage me...they make me feel like a burden to people and it makes me to always try to not be vulnerable...i battle with these each and everyday and its really hard sometimes because I'll be told im am pretty and I'll either accept it or not accept it or if im not told that i look nice or i am pretty i immediately feel ugly and start pin pointing the way i look ugly...
And I didn't know about this channel sooner hit like if you are here from DEFINING"❤️❤️. My biggest insecurity is my height I'm taller than most females in my country and people won't be afraid to point it out. Other insecurities include:Acne,Tummy fat ,back rolls
Yes my african sister you are truly the african queen! I am african youtuber too but not south africa and I make the animation because my friend in Europe is big animator he is teaching me! I hope I can get many subscribers like you one day.
Okay l might be late cause this vid is like months old but the comment section is forever Young 😂 This year l told myself l'm going to be comfortable with being uncomfortable (Uncomfortable Growth 😉).
My biggest insecurity is my dark skin. Dark skin girls are really at the bottom of the chain. Colourism is a thing. I can be someone’s type but because I’m dark it’s a TURN OFF. And people think it’s preference but someone is always prettier because they’re lighter and it’s as if my skin is a crime. But we move.
Hey girl.I'm a dark skin girl & I can totally relate with how you feel.Listen homegirl if a guy is truly interested in you he will go after you despite your skin tone.Your beautiful Queen raise the standard and set the bar!
Worst part is they’ll say that colourism is not real😭😭 A lightskin girl will always automatically be above average JUST because she is light skin despite what she actually looks like. That’s just the tea🤷🏾♀️
@Melanin N, that is so sad. The thought that you are being sidelined because your darker despite meeting other requirements 😔🥺.
I know this is a bit late respond but yerrr my lady I don't know you personally but please wear that dark skin with confidence because some of us fu*cks with it I swear
Move girl
"I just really wanna feel loved by the people that I love"...felt that. Same sis same.
❤
Felt that, innit.
Same
The last part, I resonate with Gugu so much. Scary stuff. Here to remind myself, my feelings are valid
They definitely are valid ❤️
To ncenga people, not because you are needy, but you are just nice. Oh my gosh. It's like ngis'slima!
😍😍.. ekse uyababa genge. I Never get tired of looking at your face. Isqede uzosithola mengikubona.
This is my first video of yours that I have watched. And I'm already so drawn to you. Uyathandeka. Your energy is so attractive and wholesome! Your honesty is so relatable and yho I could go on and on about what captured me from this first video ❤😍
I’m so happy you like the content 🥺❤️ thank you
Thank you for this Video Gugu. My friend got me here coz I have insecurities too a lot of them. I don't think I'm beautiful, my weight, skin colour, nje everything. I don't think a lot of people like me - so I don't really date. I'm just at a point where I just wanna sleep. Not go anywhere and just be alone
Reciprocated love is a big thing hey!! i feel you in that one for real. I think that's my biggest insecurity. But just like you, i push people away easily!! it makes it easy not to get hurt
Guurrll 1 you gorgeous as hell all these physical insecurities asiwaboni
Snenhlanhla Hadebe thank you so much mama 🥺❤️
When you said "I drift".. I felt that.
Recently found your channel, I'm so loving you. You're real😎
Being vocal about your insecurities blocks others from feeding off of them cos you're just like "uhmmm, I know that, tell me something I don't know" 🙄😌. I just love you Gugu
"own your truth" resonated with me because the last part of your video is ME.
You're loved, sis. ✨ I appreciate you sharing your vulnerability with us
I remember how I used to think I wasn’t beautiful, now that I cav myself I feel like I’m not smart enough, a weird 180.
mpho karabo shongwe I am you, you are me 🤞🏽
DUDE!
You is me
Me is you morgirl 🤞🏾
I’ve been saying me too throughout the video , the sooner you accept your flaws the better they don’t affect you ♥️ by the way just saw you on looking for mjolo and I liked you ✌🏽
Listen! It actually is hard to lose weight on your arms, don’t beat yourself up about it. I’ve beeeeeeen on this road for way too long and I’ve kinda just accepted it cause Lord knows I’m lazy :/ there are apparently specific exercises that can help with toning or slimming down arms💓 you’re gorgeous and I love your videos by the way
Everything Vee if I’m keeping it buck, I lack consistency so this is the first time I’m actually trying 😭 fingers crossed. Thank you mama 🥺❤️
To owning our truth ! Love this ❤😊
We really fuck with your truth and vibes🤗
What a beauty of a woman...damn
Kwame Mofokeng thank you 🥺💕
Girl you're so gorgeous 😍, I love this video, so relateable
Let’s just take time to realize how pretty Gugulethu is
She is so pretty
It's the transformer moves for me 😹
Oh my word You speak KZN Zulu 😭❤️ it’s really all about the dialect & annunciations
yhuuu I really felt like you spoke to me as a friend here 😔 Thank You so much for this Gugu 👏♥️
Mamello Motsoeneng ❤️❤️❤️
I’m just watching this whole video like “girl same”.
Thank u for the awesome content, I absolutely love ur channel. Speaking about your insecurities openly is such a brave thing💕thank u
sis I’m literally crying 🥺thank you
You are the queen indeed
bontle selebi thank you 🥺
My biggest insecurities are my short hair, body, face,my mental healthy(overthinking) and the fact that i wear glasses..i always feel like they all make me look old and ugly...they have been my biggest insecurities for my whole entire life i really cant believe it when im told im loved or just being treated nice i get very shocked because I've always been the one who does that to other people just to cover myself from being seen that im so insecure...sometimes i cry because i feel like im being hard om myself though nobody knows...I've always been like "there will be a time I'll be very pretty" but it doesnt really encourage me...they make me feel like a burden to people and it makes me to always try to not be vulnerable...i battle with these each and everyday and its really hard sometimes because I'll be told im am pretty and I'll either accept it or not accept it or if im not told that i look nice or i am pretty i immediately feel ugly and start pin pointing the way i look ugly...
love love love this 🌸
And I didn't know about this channel sooner hit like if you are here from DEFINING"❤️❤️.
My biggest insecurity is my height I'm taller than most females in my country and people won't be afraid to point it out. Other insecurities include:Acne,Tummy fat ,back rolls
You is me, me is you. ❤️
talented speaker and youtuber.
Neville thank you so much 💕
Your intro is amazing❤
Yes my african sister you are truly the african queen! I am african youtuber too but not south africa and I make the animation because my friend in Europe is big animator he is teaching me! I hope I can get many subscribers like you one day.
Thank you for this video ❤️
Wow thanks babes💕
We took so notes there
Umuhle too much , congratulations on your basically 💗🥰.
Your raps remind me of Issa Rae on 'Insecure'🥺❤
Love you for this💜💜
Hi am Cara a TH-camr base in Dubai and I talk about Dubai and so many things my first time on your channel I just subscribe
you're so gorgeous !! just stumbled on your channel #subscribed
Okay l might be late cause this vid is like months old but the comment section is forever Young 😂
This year l told myself l'm going to be comfortable with being uncomfortable (Uncomfortable Growth 😉).
This was so hard to watch. I feel like it was even hard to make this and I commend you for that.
Thank you for this ❤️
9:10 -9:17 of the video? is soooooo relatable😞
Yoooh my insecurities are my height and toes ☹️
I'm insecure about my height too
Our first insecurity is the same!! Had the same exact experience 🤣🤣🤣
Tjoo ay this video is stressing me and I'm outchea crying coz I have a lot of physical insecurities. They drown me💔
U can rap 😎🤝
i listen to these as podcasts and it's too beautiful. can we please get podcasts😢❤❤
i love this
I’m also insecured about my abroad arms
Your Zulu accent highkey slaps
Can u do a video abt things you should know before you go to uni
Great work hope to collaborate with u on TH-cam,Namibia🇳🇦❤❤❤❤
Transformer legs 🤣
You look like Gugulethu Mbatha-Raw , ironically 😅
I don’t know if you’re trying to say you want to be reassured as a loved one, that’s me rn.