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  • @Rene_21-d1y
    @Rene_21-d1y 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    When Kat said :"Lets rock, let's go, let's GROW"!!! I felt that 🤞🏽🔥❤️

  • @WandileKhoza
    @WandileKhoza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Gugu: “Where else can they take you, we’re at the bottom” 🤣🤣
    this took me tf out!
    BIG FACTS shared on this video 🥺
    Really enjoyed it guys😍

  • @Mbaliyakhoyothando
    @Mbaliyakhoyothando 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    "I think jealousy is a normal emotion, I think the problem is when you project your Jealousy to people" 🙌

  • @alicesakhilendlovu4862
    @alicesakhilendlovu4862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I relate with the jealousy chat! 💔I used to be in a friendship where everytime I'd share good news or just achievements/plans, and they'd always try change the conversation to being about themselves and what they are doing. It always felt like they were competing. It got to a point where i stopped sharing things with them.

    • @lady_sits
      @lady_sits 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here 🙋🏽‍♀️

  • @4sossgirl
    @4sossgirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    “normally you’ll realise when you fight with your partner it’s really bad but when you make up..it’s amazing and you chase that feeling” yikes

  • @ntokozoskosana5982
    @ntokozoskosana5982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Gugulethu is so beautiful 🥺😍❤️

  • @thandiwe4971
    @thandiwe4971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I was almost head first in a toxic relationship like boma last week, normalize leaving the relationship for your own good

  • @zamuntukhoza1021
    @zamuntukhoza1021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Gugu will just rock up with a simple straight back hairstyle but look stunning AF! Umuhle Sisi

  • @KatlegoLebogang
    @KatlegoLebogang 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love you so much sis ❤️ Recording with you is really just one of my favourite things to do!!! ❤️❤️

  • @naledims9499
    @naledims9499 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Katlego bathong ke mood😂😂ily guys❤❤❤

  • @yolandasithebe3607
    @yolandasithebe3607 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Love katleho her energy, her laugh 🤭🤭😍😍😍🔥

  • @deliwemavis2200
    @deliwemavis2200 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I have just left a toxic relationship and yooh its hard I wanna go back so much but the damage is too deep been crying every day and praying for healing

  • @4sossgirl
    @4sossgirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    “also you should vocalise something once and anyone that respects you will listen the first time” listennn

  • @lisalunika
    @lisalunika 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Y’all said “it’s Sunday, I’m gonna preach to you “😭😭

  • @theee_luyanda4546
    @theee_luyanda4546 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Toxic relationships🙅‍♀️Never go back no matter how much you miss them coz it'll end in tears

  • @mufaro68
    @mufaro68 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    katlego that jawline😩😍

  • @kerlykamure5234
    @kerlykamure5234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Katlego is sooo Beautiful ,, Love her energyyy

  • @4sossgirl
    @4sossgirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “let’s build. let’s rock, let’s go, let’s grow” 🤲🏽

  • @JennyOyubu
    @JennyOyubu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When Kat said "Let's rock, let's go and let's grow plus "when you are in a relationship, your partner should protect your honor at all cost" Those words shaped hard, I was like PREACH SIS🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @Mbaliyakhoyothando
    @Mbaliyakhoyothando 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Friends who understand and respect what you're going through without feeling like you're dimming their lights or jealous of them are everything 🥺❤️

  • @starfishstarfish5162
    @starfishstarfish5162 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yall made me realise that I'm not weird , same principles leant through bad experiences

  • @lithe-thabango132
    @lithe-thabango132 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just burnt bridges with my step-sister because of this !!!!!! Can't be draining myself with her lies

  • @allthingsbeautywithsego.622
    @allthingsbeautywithsego.622 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The way I sobbed through the entire video ?! 🥺😭😭😭 I related to every single thing y’all said !!! Y’all beautiful ladies were spitting hard raw FACTS!!!!! 🥺🥺😭😭😭😭😭 yooooh I needed to hear this 🥺🥺💔

  • @londiweskosana4814
    @londiweskosana4814 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why didn't we have this conversation sooner!!

  • @unathibutsaka
    @unathibutsaka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this video is so informative , not only have I learnt how to identify toxic relationships I have also learned how to be a better friend

  • @ThokoTwala
    @ThokoTwala 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “Your friends wins should motivate you” 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @freckleflame
    @freckleflame 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    no ways! i was dong my hair while listening. I just stopped everything to properly sit down and watch and LISTEN because wow. Beautiful and true! Great video Gugu! Congratulations Kat on your channel!

  • @sukoluhlesibanda7812
    @sukoluhlesibanda7812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ladies,you are so gorgeous🥺😻😻😻

  • @anam.m_
    @anam.m_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I haven't watched the whole video but thixo facts on facts📌

  • @thokozilengcakani2123
    @thokozilengcakani2123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    60K around the corner 🥂🥂
    Well done sisGU

  • @mphobubbly
    @mphobubbly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Shuuuu girlies!!! That friendship part was HIIITTTTIIING!!! also... when you said god MOVES when you ask him to remove??? FELT!! Hey... youll see things/people moving funny faster than you ever have! Aggghhh always love the content! A little triggered but we must pray and keep it moving!

  • @motselisisekonyela8587
    @motselisisekonyela8587 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kat has a channel? 😭😭 God answers prayers fr! I'm happier than happy 🍾🥂💃💃💃💃

  • @lesegomthimkulu8787
    @lesegomthimkulu8787 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm gowisharing because of this video guys. Wow.

  • @pheonix6347
    @pheonix6347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I really enjoyed this video.
    I learned so much and Gugu and her friends stay speaking fact

  • @lesegomnguni2492
    @lesegomnguni2492 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yoh ha a I came back to this video just to make sure made the right choice. I had to break up with someone because my feelings when voiced always lead to fights. I felt like I was walking on eggshells.

  • @reahilemoumakoe
    @reahilemoumakoe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please do a part 2?.💞💞💞💞

  • @l_esed_i
    @l_esed_i 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    GUGU YOU SPEAK NOTHING BUT FACTS!! I wish i started watching your videos long ago ESEPCIALLY THIS VIDEO because i would gave avoided SO MUCH hurt and pain and mental health issues. But i know now! you are a gem! an honest God sent. we love you chile !!

  • @rethabile4127
    @rethabile4127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The timing of this video😭🥺🤩my friend needed it❤

  • @pheonix6347
    @pheonix6347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    🕺🏿🕺🏿🕺🏿Finally Gugu.
    I have been waiting.

  • @ItsofficiallyMsMondey
    @ItsofficiallyMsMondey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The petty comments that your friend gives when they jealous ,like its a switch

  • @4sossgirl
    @4sossgirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “privacy and hiding..two different things” facts

  • @banelembo3907
    @banelembo3907 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please make a part 2😭😭

  • @thokozileomuhle
    @thokozileomuhle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "constant fighting is not normal" i felt that.. Powerful conversations

  • @miamuuaza8313
    @miamuuaza8313 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not a lot of people do talk about toxic friendships, thank you for this :)

  • @sithabilehlela
    @sithabilehlela 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kat is in the house 🥺💃💃💃❤️

  • @lihlithembamkhize1273
    @lihlithembamkhize1273 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    LOL, I LOVE YOU AND YOUR FRIENDS, that's just all I'm going to say.

  • @fortunatesurprise6081
    @fortunatesurprise6081 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video deserves a second round I'm not happy 😭😭😭😭😭😭❤❤❤the end part for me

  • @bonolomarumo7505
    @bonolomarumo7505 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you guys for this. Although I might be a little younger than you guys I can absolutely relate to what you guys said about looking for grounding relationships. I'm genuinely, from the bottom of my heart cannot deal with romantic relationships that aren't for the long run.

  • @tshepi4justice875
    @tshepi4justice875 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow one perfect take 🎬🎬🎬🎬? I’m inspired 🔥🔥🔥🔥 no cuts or edits! Amazing 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @simphiwengwenya4337
    @simphiwengwenya4337 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    you guys are so sharp and here u are sharpening the rest of us , much love #TeamGenge

  • @yaneliswaphambaniso7248
    @yaneliswaphambaniso7248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can listen you speak all day ladies❤❤.

  • @Amanda-1999
    @Amanda-1999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i only realised after 3 minutes, that you guys have matching tops ❤❤❤
    love the content.

  • @hercrown1318
    @hercrown1318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I just realised yall are matching

  • @yonelanobakada2394
    @yonelanobakada2394 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm in a situation similar to the one mentioned here (toxic friendship) and I really didn't know what to do 'cause I kinda still love her as a friend but this video helped me❤ I didn't know I needed it

  • @naledi.motsepe
    @naledi.motsepe 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m rewatching this, this video is so important. thank you guys.❤️

  • @all_things_busishozi1721
    @all_things_busishozi1721 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️jehova I'm in a relationship where I sometimes hide where I'm going because my partner won't a accept a friend of mine just cause he is of the opposite sex

  • @apheqwane
    @apheqwane 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Notification gang lets goooo ! 💥

  • @lesegogededzha6717
    @lesegogededzha6717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Whatssssss gooodddd genge😍🤘

  • @LethaboDladla00
    @LethaboDladla00 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "It is subtle,you see it in the little things"😭💀🙌the accuracy

  • @undjivangausurua5593
    @undjivangausurua5593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Words can’t express how much this video was sooooo powerful and full of wisdom !! ❤️❤️

  • @TheWinningNadz
    @TheWinningNadz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jealousy and envy are very common feelings. But I think people must catch themselves when it comes to that and then work on it. There have been days when I had to catch myself and tell myself that I'm acting up chile and I need to deal with my own insecurities. This has often allowed me to show up better for my friends.

  • @sisonkemakalima4508
    @sisonkemakalima4508 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think I'm in a toxic friendship, a friend of mine wanted me to give her my assignment because she was asked to resubmit because she had failed her assignment. I refused to give her my assignment and I saw her today and she did not even look at me when we were talking, I do feel bad for not giving her my assignment but I know deep down I wasn't wrong

  • @NkosazanaNk
    @NkosazanaNk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ❤❤ commenting on how good this vid is before i even watch it . bc wowza , sis gu never disappoints

  • @indiphilemanxiwa
    @indiphilemanxiwa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kat is pretty too😭

  • @lisalunika
    @lisalunika 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Y’all were just preaching 😭

  • @indiphilemanxiwa
    @indiphilemanxiwa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Gugu is so pretty yho😭😍😍

  • @Yeyethunyoka
    @Yeyethunyoka 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    All I am saying is I NEEDED TO WATCH THIS VIDEO! Most of the things that are being spoken about here I am currently going through especially in friendships.

  • @zuks.n
    @zuks.n 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So what would you guys suggest toxic people do to get better? I think in toxic relationships, there's a contribution from both sides

    • @milaniinalim3357
      @milaniinalim3357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Be self aware and not enable other toxic people

    • @tiyiselabaloyi3837
      @tiyiselabaloyi3837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@milaniinalim3357 Yes I agree being self aware is very important

  • @everythinglee9614
    @everythinglee9614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    so happy to see my favourite faces 😍

  • @lusandatsilana8890
    @lusandatsilana8890 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kat is gorgeous. Whaaat?!!🔥😩

  • @asandaprecious6709
    @asandaprecious6709 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was very powerful 🙌🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯

  • @thulizinhle3846
    @thulizinhle3846 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    May we please have another one🥺Loved this❤️😻

  • @itsmumba
    @itsmumba 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    they said what they said and i agree with everything

  • @phomelloraltadi7636
    @phomelloraltadi7636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sho genge we've got the vibe again today🔥❤🌻

  • @bamekepu2063
    @bamekepu2063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love to see a consistent Quueeeennn❤

  • @theghel1296
    @theghel1296 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This could potentially be a sign👀

  • @Mayiwe
    @Mayiwe 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    iyoooooo I HAVE NEVER FELT SO PERSONALLY ATTACKED. i am literally screaming

  • @sanelesishuba2021
    @sanelesishuba2021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shucks this hit me in ways...yazin. wow

  • @noluthandozungu8007
    @noluthandozungu8007 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ngiyanizwa mina
    Thank you for that especially for mentioning the part of letting God know and to fast... ♥️🥰thank you

  • @lulamamogorosi5726
    @lulamamogorosi5726 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    These sit-down talks you have are actually so nice... Thank you Gugu. I love these

  • @buhlesoga
    @buhlesoga ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much❤️❤️

  • @sihle_khums
    @sihle_khums 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love this🥺❤🔥 preach ninani !

  • @thabiletinyiko6450
    @thabiletinyiko6450 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wuuuuu! The gems! The facts!!!! Ni ya shisa girls!

  • @tshenolomolokwane
    @tshenolomolokwane 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Congrats on 50k 👏🏽

  • @leratomokone5960
    @leratomokone5960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yasss definitely need a 2nd video this is soo good 😭😭😭😭

  • @lisalunika
    @lisalunika 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Y’all said “it’s Sunday am I’m gonna preach to you “😭😭

  • @karabelomasoleng6999
    @karabelomasoleng6999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It was too short 😭

  • @annekutumela859
    @annekutumela859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lmao that British "yehh" 😂😂😂

  • @the_mixed_priincess9812
    @the_mixed_priincess9812 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate this was more emphasising friendships than romantic relationships 😭✨

  • @Siphokazi_H
    @Siphokazi_H 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was such a great vid Haibo !!🙌🏾❤️ thank you

  • @katlehoabigail5392
    @katlehoabigail5392 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely loved this!

  • @athyqinela
    @athyqinela 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kat finally has tshanel guysssssss ❤️❤️❤️💃

  • @nokulunga_ngwenya
    @nokulunga_ngwenya 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed this video rn!!!! I love you guys so much❤❤❤

  • @hlonzntoni4344
    @hlonzntoni4344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sho Notification geeeeeeeenge

  • @langazwane
    @langazwane 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really learn a lot from you Sis gugu 🙏🏾🤍

  • @thejourneyofhope08
    @thejourneyofhope08 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    love love loved this video thank you gugs and kat

  • @olifiloelerato8716
    @olifiloelerato8716 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel like this topic fits with family as well.

  • @prestacliff
    @prestacliff 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s the road to 60k for me 😭🤩🤩🤩🤩

  • @nombongooo
    @nombongooo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS VIDEO

  • @KaleidoscopePrhyme
    @KaleidoscopePrhyme 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I thoroughly enjoyed this video. We definitely need a part 2.