I realized that my gift is listening and giving encouragement. It seems like it comes naturally because even when I feel like I’m speaking nonsense my friends would be so impressed and say “Wow you’re right!” 😅
I can do a ‘reading’ based on numerology to find out if this really is your ‘gift’. I’ll just need your date of birth and I’ll be able to tell you if ‘giving to others’ is your natural gift 🎁
I feel like words can't explain just how much i appreciate girls who are this articulate and comfortable with expressing themselves?? like omg the amount of effort and personal development that really shines through her rationale, the personal awareness and understanding of dynamics both within herself and of the world around her ahhh 😍just love to see you guys absolutely thrive omg ❤
@@la_princesse_des_beauxarts omgg you noticed :') consider this a loving message of respect and admiration from minnie mouse HERSELF mmkay sending much love❤❤❤
Heck yea~ I have a former bff who kept dodging our dates FOR TWO YEARS, and i still love her, cuz i understand she lives far away in a rural village and is dependent on her family's car. Buuut...i stopped inviting her out and i spend more time investing in other friends. I'll be there, if she ever wants to come around, it's just that i'm dedicating my time to others, who match the same dedication. Heck, she always forgets my birthday, which i honestly don't care about, but recently one of my waaay newer friends got me birthday gift, and i felt literally shocked by the thoughtfullness of it. That doesn't reflect well on the kinds of expectations i built up after this former best friend.
Okay but did I just spent 21 minute of my life attentively listening to to you, then yes, I did! I wish I had friends like you in my life cuz girl no one matches the level of “classiness” and “attentiveness” that I desire rn 😂❤
I swear I was thinking today that I cant manifest a friend or social circle because it didnt know what I was looking for yet and then this video show up!! you give me so much insight!! thank you
I freaking love London Afternoon Teas in the upscale hotels... well, that I see on YT videos because I haven't been back to London myself since the late 90s. If I were living in London I'd prioritize going to them once every season if I could because aren't they the very definition of feminine classiness, refreshment, and leisure. Excellent friends are those that appreciate tea time out and about is what I say, haha!
Im always the one going out doing things for friends and not getting anything in return, i realized this and those who put no effort into being friends with me i stopped being friends with them :) i feel that so many people dont care about others anymore it's hard to meet genuine kind souls
You are so underrated! This sums up everything I’ve been struggling with. I feel like you packed years of therapy in this video. Thank you, I feel hopeful again 💗
This is so true, I love giving thoughtful gifts but I often get discouraged by 'friends' who don't give back. I gifted my bicycle to a so-called friend because she needed. When my birthday came, she didn't even bring a drink to share, let alone gifted me anything, she just brought some ice (and she came with her boyfriend) because I asked her to bring something :') that's when I knew my place in her heart
I noticed this about most humans recently: that we don't value as much what we didn't "earn"--so trust is earned, your precious kindness is also to be earned because to earn something is to place a proof of value. 💖
Come on over babe! It's cozy here 💖 For context: she started trading stocks and learning since middle school in China, she funded her UK university expenses all by herself from trading and is now traveling for funsies. I totally admire her because she's literally self made.
@@la_princesse_des_beauxarts Where did she get the money to trade stocks in middle school? Unrelated, you have a very regal look, your hairstyle contributes to it but just your facial features are regal.
My body went sugar baby and just exploded out into Infinity. It was like I was an ice cube thrown into the ocean and it just melted. This was by far the most incredible and most positive and most joyful experience that you could possibly imagine. That was the moment of death and I had the Epiphany that death is the greatest thing that could happen to a living creature because it feels like in that process of dying for a split second it's terrifying because you're dying and you have no idea what's coming next. But then as you fully let go and the death occurs the next Split Second you're so relieved. It's like your entire life was this giant thousand pound weight wrapped around your shoulders just tons and tons of weight and then all of it was just lifted in a split second and you realize that you're untouchable and that you're Immortal and that nothing could ever disturb you again. It's complete peace just utter peace and joy and profundity. The beauty of it is Indescribable. How is it possible. There's no way that this is possible. Did I really just die? How could that be? I'm laughing and I'm smiling 😂
i felt like i needed to comment that i really liked the concept of the video its like asmr and so calming w the water sounds also the echo is so great even tho i listened this like a podcast watching this is also like talking to a friend
At first I was going to skim past this video and not say anything because I felt a little bit like reality was mocking me. However, upon taking a second glance and considering this video is pretty much summarising the type of give and take I have wanted before, I must make it known that I feel so blessed to have come across this video summarising exactly the kind of virtuous friendship I have always felt must exist - yet did not experience up to now. That is literally what it is called in the 3 Greek platonic relationships, virtuous friendship. Anyway, congratulations for establishing and maintaining authentic enriching connections where you feel safe and supported platonically to share experiences, rather than merely being kept around out of negativity to solve problems based specifically on desperation and pity. I aspire to establish that kind of depth within connections beyond just family once I feel more settled in my life. In entirely different previous videos I had encountered on TH-cam, I often felt an aversion to applying methodical ways of making friends due to repeated disappointment and this sense of it still requiring conscious effort more than I'd like, which made things feel similarly conditional and performative as they already had for me before over years. 💖
Wan Lin, your brilliance shines through in everything you do. Your vast knowledge, wisdom and intellect are truly inspiring, and your beauty💛both inside and out💛makes you someone I deeply treasure. Thank you for being such a remarkable presence! 💛
My dream lol. I've recently come out of a long depression haze and I have friends but because they are used to the version of me that is lifeless and doesn't really do anything, they exclude me from everything. I need people to take me out and show me around
@@DianaDonineaux i tried a couple of times, they don't take me seriously. They are used to me being low maintanence. Two of them have kids now and don't really want to go out anymore unless it is a neighborhood cafe
i always seem to attract a lot of toxic, insecure friends to the point where i fall into this role of always being the one to uplift and encourage them without my care being reciprocated😭
Hey there. I have struggled with this as well. I had a crush on a twitch streamer. I was almost obsessed with her. Please don't judge me for this. I had my reasons. The thing that helped me is leaving twitch altogether. I blocked her TH-cam accounts from the TH-cam feed. I never visit Instagram and twitch anyway so that's not a problem. And it worked! Parasocial relationships are really bad for you and will leave you astray. Blocking it completely helped me. Good luck!
@@akj3344 I don't judge you for any of that brother I praise and recognize your courage and mental strength I am not struggling with the issue of obsessing over someone on the Internet But I have the shiny object syndrome when it comes to people. I am rarely content with what I have so I appreciate the company of someone I find extravagant or peculiar in a way . I am on the Internet because I haven't found it in real life if it possibly exists ? Life often seems to me bland and tasteless I devour content about people on TH-cam the same way a gourmet tastes different dishes on a banquet I know the key to solving my problem would certainly be to accept every moment and things I posses as a gift But I have never been really enthusiastic when it comes to casual magic I am still searching for personal answers as we all are when it comes to which meaning and purpose we give to our lives
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I feel so bad for your parents.
Friends you have to “perform” for was so real
I realized that my gift is listening and giving encouragement. It seems like it comes naturally because even when I feel like I’m speaking nonsense my friends would be so impressed and say “Wow you’re right!” 😅
I can do a ‘reading’ based on numerology to find out if this really is your ‘gift’. I’ll just need your date of birth and I’ll be able to tell you if ‘giving to others’ is your natural gift 🎁
I feel like words can't explain just how much i appreciate girls who are this articulate and comfortable with expressing themselves?? like omg the amount of effort and personal development that really shines through her rationale, the personal awareness and understanding of dynamics both within herself and of the world around her ahhh 😍just love to see you guys absolutely thrive omg ❤
Omg Minnie Mouse!! I LOVE ❤️✨♥️
@@la_princesse_des_beauxarts omgg you noticed :') consider this a loving message of respect and admiration from minnie mouse HERSELF mmkay sending much love❤❤❤
Heck yea~
I have a former bff who kept dodging our dates FOR TWO YEARS, and i still love her, cuz i understand she lives far away in a rural village and is dependent on her family's car. Buuut...i stopped inviting her out and i spend more time investing in other friends. I'll be there, if she ever wants to come around, it's just that i'm dedicating my time to others, who match the same dedication. Heck, she always forgets my birthday, which i honestly don't care about, but recently one of my waaay newer friends got me birthday gift, and i felt literally shocked by the thoughtfullness of it. That doesn't reflect well on the kinds of expectations i built up after this former best friend.
Okay but did I just spent 21 minute of my life attentively listening to to you, then yes, I did! I wish I had friends like you in my life cuz girl no one matches the level of “classiness” and “attentiveness” that I desire rn 😂❤
You know you have magical powers right? Or at least now you do! They'll appear just like that when you focus on yourself ✨🌷🌠
I know I manifested this video, i have been thinking about friendship since last night.
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I swear I was thinking today that I cant manifest a friend or social circle because it didnt know what I was looking for yet and then this video show up!! you give me so much insight!! thank you
I freaking love London Afternoon Teas in the upscale hotels... well, that I see on YT videos because I haven't been back to London myself since the late 90s. If I were living in London I'd prioritize going to them once every season if I could because aren't they the very definition of feminine classiness, refreshment, and leisure. Excellent friends are those that appreciate tea time out and about is what I say, haha!
Im always the one going out doing things for friends and not getting anything in return, i realized this and those who put no effort into being friends with me i stopped being friends with them :) i feel that so many people dont care about others anymore it's hard to meet genuine kind souls
You are so underrated! This sums up everything I’ve been struggling with. I feel like you packed years of therapy in this video. Thank you, I feel hopeful again 💗
😻💖✨
There is more pleasure in giving than receiving. I appreciate your words, thoughts, and perspectives.💚💚💚
You are honestly so original and mature beyond your age. Love your unique thoughts and reflections on life.
This is so true, I love giving thoughtful gifts but I often get discouraged by 'friends' who don't give back. I gifted my bicycle to a so-called friend because she needed. When my birthday came, she didn't even bring a drink to share, let alone gifted me anything, she just brought some ice (and she came with her boyfriend) because I asked her to bring something :') that's when I knew my place in her heart
I noticed this about most humans recently: that we don't value as much what we didn't "earn"--so trust is earned, your precious kindness is also to be earned because to earn something is to place a proof of value. 💖
Yeah the moment you said *stocks 0:25 we live in two different realities. 😂😂
Come on over babe! It's cozy here 💖
For context: she started trading stocks and learning since middle school in China, she funded her UK university expenses all by herself from trading and is now traveling for funsies. I totally admire her because she's literally self made.
@@la_princesse_des_beauxarts Where did she get the money to trade stocks in middle school? Unrelated, you have a very regal look, your hairstyle contributes to it but just your facial features are regal.
My body went sugar baby and just exploded out into Infinity. It was like I was an ice cube thrown into the ocean and it just melted. This was by far the most incredible and most positive and most joyful experience that you could possibly imagine. That was the moment of death and I had the Epiphany that death is the greatest thing that could happen to a living creature because it feels like in that process of dying for a split second it's terrifying because you're dying and you have no idea what's coming next. But then as you fully let go and the death occurs the next Split Second you're so relieved. It's like your entire life was this giant thousand pound weight wrapped around your shoulders just tons and tons of weight and then all of it was just lifted in a split second and you realize that you're untouchable and that you're Immortal and that nothing could ever disturb you again. It's complete peace just utter peace and joy and profundity. The beauty of it is Indescribable.
How is it possible. There's no way that this is possible. Did I really just die? How could that be?
I'm laughing and I'm smiling 😂
i felt like i needed to comment that i really liked the concept of the video its like asmr and so calming w the water sounds also the echo is so great even tho i listened this like a podcast watching this is also like talking to a friend
At first I was going to skim past this video and not say anything because I felt a little bit like reality was mocking me. However, upon taking a second glance and considering this video is pretty much summarising the type of give and take I have wanted before, I must make it known that I feel so blessed to have come across this video summarising exactly the kind of virtuous friendship I have always felt must exist - yet did not experience up to now. That is literally what it is called in the 3 Greek platonic relationships, virtuous friendship. Anyway, congratulations for establishing and maintaining authentic enriching connections where you feel safe and supported platonically to share experiences, rather than merely being kept around out of negativity to solve problems based specifically on desperation and pity. I aspire to establish that kind of depth within connections beyond just family once I feel more settled in my life. In entirely different previous videos I had encountered on TH-cam, I often felt an aversion to applying methodical ways of making friends due to repeated disappointment and this sense of it still requiring conscious effort more than I'd like, which made things feel similarly conditional and performative as they already had for me before over years. 💖
You got this; you are amazing!! TRUST 💖
Damn I love you I swear you’re just a ball of shimmering star that KNOWS IT GETS TO SHINE ❤❤
🌠💖😽
Wan Lin, your brilliance shines through in everything you do. Your vast knowledge, wisdom and intellect are truly inspiring, and your beauty💛both inside and out💛makes you someone I deeply treasure. Thank you for being such a remarkable presence! 💛
Thank you so much lovely 💖🌷😻
We think alike, good to find company far away on the internet ❤
ok once i do this, surely ill be in paris, in a bath tub, with a shell, talking for about 21 mins about getting good friends
hoping for the best
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Also if you avoid bad dates the speed will be even faster for you!! Good luck 😻✨😽🌠💖
My dream lol. I've recently come out of a long depression haze and I have friends but because they are used to the version of me that is lifeless and doesn't really do anything, they exclude me from everything. I need people to take me out and show me around
You can propose and them in thé first place
@@DianaDonineaux i tried a couple of times, they don't take me seriously. They are used to me being low maintanence. Two of them have kids now and don't really want to go out anymore unless it is a neighborhood cafe
@@BA-ph2yq ok
Your channel is amazing. I genuinely find you the most relatable. Your video qbiut immigrant mentality was brilliant.
Thank you 💖✨🌠
Your videos make my days sweeter, thank you ✨🎀
i always seem to attract a lot of toxic, insecure friends to the point where i fall into this role of always being the one to uplift and encourage them without my care being reciprocated😭
Search up the "R.A.M." Relationship attachment model-- LIFE CHANGING
Very informative and eye opening talk 🙏♥️
You’re a healer that’s why people pick up your energy
i swear i built my algorithm brick by brick
🫴🏻🧱✨
You’re so fabulous btw 💋
Girlie pop I need to be like you!!!!
You see in me qualities that already exist in you ✨💖
this is so random, but where did you get these gorgeous candle holders from?
Trudon! But vintage shops/antique markets have similar ones :)
got so much out of this x
Thank you!
What type wall is that behind you? What is it called? Its very nice!
No idea! I'll have to ask the landlady who decorated everything 💖
It’s a style called terrazzo which is a mixture of chips of marble, shells, glass, and other materials mixed into cement or epoxy
You were in my dream last night that’s how I know you’ve gone deep into my subconscious 😂😂😂
Omg I was aiming for the exes but I guess there was some spillover hehehe 😽✨🩵
@@la_princesse_des_beauxarts there was a guy with you in the dream so hey, maybe it was a two birds one stone situation👀👀👀😂❤️❤️
Did you buy a Pooter?
💙 💙 💙 💙
Hello,
Could you do a video about parasocial relationships ?
Hey there. I have struggled with this as well. I had a crush on a twitch streamer. I was almost obsessed with her. Please don't judge me for this. I had my reasons.
The thing that helped me is leaving twitch altogether. I blocked her TH-cam accounts from the TH-cam feed. I never visit Instagram and twitch anyway so that's not a problem. And it worked!
Parasocial relationships are really bad for you and will leave you astray. Blocking it completely helped me. Good luck!
@@akj3344 I don't judge you for any of that brother
I praise and recognize your courage and mental strength
I am not struggling with the issue of obsessing over someone on the Internet
But I have the shiny object syndrome when it comes to people.
I am rarely content with what I have so I appreciate the company of someone I find extravagant or peculiar in a way .
I am on the Internet because I haven't found it in real life if it possibly exists ?
Life often seems to me bland and tasteless
I devour content about people on TH-cam the same way a gourmet tastes different dishes on a banquet
I know the key to solving my problem would certainly be to accept every moment and things I posses as a gift
But I have never been really enthusiastic when it comes to casual magic
I am still searching for personal answers as we all are when it comes to which meaning and purpose we give to our lives
Girrrl
🌷
Hi Hello
I❤️🔥
life on easy mode
Go rot and stay miserable. It's your own fault
This has to be satire.
you've got to be kidding me....
Whyy
They all want to date you, they are not friends😂
They're all women
most women know real friendship.