I went to my first show/concert last week and was a little taken aback to see just how much people project onto celebrities, so willing to play the role of a crazed adoring fan.. the music was good though, just could never be me
You are right. The last concert I went to (IU = the most famous celebrity in South Korea I daresay), I was much less enchanted than I thought I would be. Sure the first few songs she was so beautiful and had the star quality (the posture, expressions, everything). I was so captured. But eventually, the excitement died down and it was her voice and her music that moved me, and not the fact that she was a celebrity. IU herself said not to worship her and treat her like you would any other person in a video. Respect for talent and craft =/= worship. IU is just a human being like me, who happens to be very beautiful and as a singer myself, she has better technique than me due to years of perfecting the craft. And she is very good at composing music. That's it. Thinking this way has led me to stop caring that much about celebrities. I sometimes watch them for entertainment but I don't think much past it. At the end of the day, they have their own families and close friends. Fans are just... clients (for the lack of a better word), except for a very few fans she does genuinely remember because she met them in a more personal way. Sounds cold, but it is what it is. and IU is one of the most humble and lowkey celebs I know. I don't know about celebs who have star syndrome and are nowhere near as humble as her.
Yes, don’t forget that the hype they get is because of a whole team behind them that works hard to market them. It’s more about the image than the talent. Most of them are not even happy and constantly seek validation. Few of them have pure talent that is deserving of admiration, but even that doesn’t justify to put them on a pedestal.
I don’t think is wrong to admit someone is higher on the pedestal than us. As an example, somebody with a Nobel prize in medicine in higher in the pedestal of that field than me, that’s fine. I don’t care to respect them in that sense. Similarly, I am higher in the pedestal than them in whatever area I am an expert in. Everyone is a great and also am idiot in some areas of life. The issue comes when people get big egos and compete or become fanatical / obsessive / disempowered. Pedestals are for honors and prizes, not for mindless worship. If I wanted to worship I’ll create an altar.
@@la_princesse_des_beauxarts I think the ego is good for reality testing, but many go insane trying to push into agendas or break boundaries that are not for them. Mind you that spiritually if one is always obsessing or competing with someone they have fixed their eyes there, and energetically that is also worship… and is actually worse and more powerful than pedestaling people you admire. You become the energetic slave of that competitor, specially if they are not competing with you and you have no actual chance of winning (why a healthy ego is so important 🙂)
If you study quantum physics, you would be surprised to discover that we live in a hologram/ simulation , practically everything is an "illusion" our awareness/ perception / attention ( our energetical input , to be even more specific) of anything we see in this world it's what keeping it alive in our reality. It's hard to grasp/believe but if you've reached a certain level of consciousness or even went through some sort of spiritual awakening, you would understand. Outside this third dimensional world , we are all one.❤
But these "prizes" don't mean anything at the end of the day lol. EVERYTHING that exists only mean something to you if you DECIDE it means something. Nothing is set in stone, we decide how we see things and the world. It's all about perspective. Like me for example, I could be a great singer and right now be having a world tour getting lots of money. But I don't see that as worthy. To >me< what is truly worthy in this life is being safe, happy, nourished and FREE from others personal expectations.
to be fanatical is to be blind to something like blind to too much weight loss or filler blindness ... its to be blind to the reality of a person ... and for your behaviour to be fanatical towards them
I liked and commented simply because of the title. I hate celebrity worship 💯 💯 i see so many people’s brain turn to mush with the nervous worship energy of fanatics mean
EXACTLY!!!! Everything you said is so powerful also it seems sad to base your whole self worth around someone you dont know esp bcs you never know who they really are
It's ok to acknowledge that some people are "higher than you" or "better than you" in certain areas. As long as you can also acknowledge your own strengths and the ways in which you may be "better" than them. It can also be helpful to look up to them as an example for how you would like to grow..but like you said, without idolizing them or putting them on a pedastal.
Yes I appreciate a lot of the work of artists and with some of them I like some of their personality traits but I still see them as humans so I don't expect celebrities to be 24/7 perfect all the time because that's unrealistic.
This right here. Thank you. I often feel envious and jealous of certain people (both celebrities and peers). I am tired of feeling this way and I want to thrive in my life. I have been breaking down these feelings piece by piece and discovering what they mean. When you're jealous and envious of something, it shows that you truly desire and reveals that subconsciously, you feel you can't have it. In turn, you become resentful, upset, sad, unmotivated etc. This video really broke it down another layer for me and has helped me along my healing journey. Thank you!!
they are actually much more miserable than us. They all sold their souls for worldly possessions and most of us don't even know what they do behind close doors.
I never worship anyone. I do appreciate a lot of artists, I like their work, I am a fan of their work, but I never worship the person. I don't know them!! Plus, c'mon, they have a whole team behind them to make them look beautiful, to say the right things, to dress good, to stay slim etc, they all make important decisions about their careers, they have like marketers, pr, you name it. But we don't have a team, how can we compare with them? A celebrity is not successful just on their own, I'm sorry. It's a whole team behind them making strategies and stuff with the artist. So I don't have that chance to be guided by a professional team to be successful. And I don't know celebrities, I don't have a clue what kind of person they are. It's crazy to be obsessed with someone that you don't know. I don't like this. And the energy is weird, like saying x and y is a queen/king and are the best and being extremely involved to protect them from haters is too crazy for me. People are delulu and waste their time & money. Support their work, but don't be obsessive and absurd. They show only the "perfect persona" to the world. But they are exactly like us in reality.
Girl girl girl. You are a BLESSING. I feel so drawn to your page and that I’m meant to hear your words. What you said about the energy harvesting at concerts…. I have felt that so much at all concerts. Thank you for your wisdom. As a young woman I aspire to live in Europe like you are someday 💟🤍🌸
Just because they are RICH. Multimillionaires and billionaires. Common people see money as a hierarchy, as a division to see if you are "worthy" or not, it's a very dumb way of thinking but that's humanity for you. I only like certain celebrities because of their craft OR because I have a crush on them. Never because I think they are better than me or have a better life than me, which to me is the very opposite because I did not need to endure lots of abuse like them did to have a comfortable and happy life.
Thank you for this video, for me fangirling is not necessarily being obsessed, my favourite group songs and tv shows bring me joy, their personalities is something I look up to for myself ... because as I have been facing difficult situations and hated myself a lot, having someone to look up to makes me feel less crappy 😭😭😭
I loved Cat on a Hot Tin Roof! I laughed so much but learned a lot too, from the more serious subject of family obligations and duty, or moving on from the past :)
It was very good film, I liked it, especially script. But I still don't understand why Gooper was unloved child by Mom and also Dad, unlike Brick, since very formative childhood. I have my own theories, but that's anyway seems ultimately unfair
Amazing video , what if the celebrity that i admired had certain traits that i loved but were tied to their personality but then they got a new personality that i don't like anymore & am still stuck / in love with their old personality / traits / characteristics ?
21:39 like what my fav song to me by Pink says in the radio that I am not less than f*ckin' perfect just cuz I struggled and it doesn't mean I have to be flawless cuz making mistakes is part of being human
@@la_princesse_des_beauxarts I relate to that song.I saw the vid and what the woman in the vid is going through is similar to me and my hobby is also art..When I am already getting myself out from hell in a catholic school,I am telling myself after watching the vid of the song,"I am not gonna let anyone control me anymore"
I’m old. Here’s how I’ve come to view celebrities: They are created by interests as focul points for certain demographics - shepherds to guide and control the herd. Go your own way as best you can.
Just found your channel. You’re really articulate and the things you say resonate a great deal with me. Did not expect the Bataille reference! Keep it up, cheers from Rio. I’ll leave you with a follow up question, which I don’t know if you’ll answer but it’d be cool if you did: If you admire qualities on others that you don’t necessarily see in yourself, would you say that it’s possible to cultivate them from scratch or not? Or would you say that, if others are a mirror of you, then what you see in them you yourself also have (even if unwittingly)?
Thank you so much for your kind encouragement! I do believe it is possible to cultivate qualities you recognize in another even if they seem far fetched or very different to how you currently identify. Years ago I never would have imagined myself as playful and seductive (I repressed my femininity and felt it was a burden/shameful rather than a source of power)--and I even judged others who had those positive qualities. So I say yes to the latter question as well :)
I went 2x to Michael Jackson concert and I could not enjoy it at all. It felt wrong. I thought I'm strange. But the situation was so unattractive for me even though I admire his vocals.
you can’t just say nice words, they have to have some iota of meaning and flow tying them together - this is a stream of absolutely incoherent contradictory hollow juvenile *nonnnsense*. I’m not even certain YOU know exactly what YOU mean- it’s quite difficult to pick out anything really definitive from it, a lot of the time you’re countering one of your own earlier ideas unwittingly. That’s the trouble with everyone believing their ‘thoughts’ and ‘opinions’ are of equal worth to everyone else’s ~regardless~ of the subject/content, and their own lack of knowledge, experience & understanding.. that’s not how it works! your words aren’t naturally important enough that you can preach them to the world so readily, as if people can & should learn something of actual significance from you - you earn respect and repute with real effort and time and experience, and even then you don’t assume you’re clever enough to be able to school people on any subject at all (particularly if the subject/content is vague & disjointed & reductive & founded on non-empirical crumbs of data such as your “factual observations”.. like in this case) - you don’t just decide your intellectual contribution is highly valuable out of nothing but vanity, it’s the narcissistic narcosis of an ego that is desperately hungry for the quickest and easiest and cheapest satisfaction & reassurance of itself, without the bother of hard work or substance. Words are incredibly powerful and precious, and you should be serious & thoughtful about your own so they actually have some degree of value and weight, not cheapened by being used carelessly and frivolously and indifferently.
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I went to my first show/concert last week and was a little taken aback to see just how much people project onto celebrities, so willing to play the role of a crazed adoring fan.. the music was good though, just could never be me
I went to my first concert over a month ago, and I noticed the same thing. I got weirded out a bit how people were acting.
@@NAmiddlefingerup this man would like slightly lift his shirt up and they would start screaming and hollering like relax..🤣🤣😭
You are right. The last concert I went to (IU = the most famous celebrity in South Korea I daresay), I was much less enchanted than I thought I would be. Sure the first few songs she was so beautiful and had the star quality (the posture, expressions, everything). I was so captured. But eventually, the excitement died down and it was her voice and her music that moved me, and not the fact that she was a celebrity. IU herself said not to worship her and treat her like you would any other person in a video.
Respect for talent and craft =/= worship. IU is just a human being like me, who happens to be very beautiful and as a singer myself, she has better technique than me due to years of perfecting the craft. And she is very good at composing music. That's it.
Thinking this way has led me to stop caring that much about celebrities. I sometimes watch them for entertainment but I don't think much past it. At the end of the day, they have their own families and close friends. Fans are just... clients (for the lack of a better word), except for a very few fans she does genuinely remember because she met them in a more personal way. Sounds cold, but it is what it is.
and IU is one of the most humble and lowkey celebs I know. I don't know about celebs who have star syndrome and are nowhere near as humble as her.
Yes, don’t forget that the hype they get is because of a whole team behind them that works hard to market them. It’s more about the image than the talent. Most of them are not even happy and constantly seek validation. Few of them have pure talent that is deserving of admiration, but even that doesn’t justify to put them on a pedestal.
I don’t think is wrong to admit someone is higher on the pedestal than us. As an example, somebody with a Nobel prize in medicine in higher in the pedestal of that field than me, that’s fine. I don’t care to respect them in that sense. Similarly, I am higher in the pedestal than them in whatever area I am an expert in. Everyone is a great and also am idiot in some areas of life. The issue comes when people get big egos and compete or become fanatical / obsessive / disempowered. Pedestals are for honors and prizes, not for mindless worship. If I wanted to worship I’ll create an altar.
Absolutely agree! You ego serves you like a guard dog but if you can't control it, it will drag you through the mud 😸💕
@@la_princesse_des_beauxarts I think the ego is good for reality testing, but many go insane trying to push into agendas or break boundaries that are not for them. Mind you that spiritually if one is always obsessing or competing with someone they have fixed their eyes there, and energetically that is also worship… and is actually worse and more powerful than pedestaling people you admire. You become the energetic slave of that competitor, specially if they are not competing with you and you have no actual chance of winning (why a healthy ego is so important 🙂)
If you study quantum physics, you would be surprised to discover that we live in a hologram/ simulation , practically everything is an "illusion" our awareness/ perception / attention ( our energetical input , to be even more specific) of anything we see in this world it's what keeping it alive in our reality. It's hard to grasp/believe but if you've reached a certain level of consciousness or even went through some sort of spiritual awakening, you would understand. Outside this third dimensional world , we are all one.❤
But these "prizes" don't mean anything at the end of the day lol. EVERYTHING that exists only mean something to you if you DECIDE it means something. Nothing is set in stone, we decide how we see things and the world. It's all about perspective.
Like me for example, I could be a great singer and right now be having a world tour getting lots of money. But I don't see that as worthy. To >me< what is truly worthy in this life is being safe, happy, nourished and FREE from others personal expectations.
I totally agree with you about celebrity worship; huge swathes of them are not worthy of being worshipped.
to be fanatical is to be blind to something like blind to too much weight loss or filler blindness ... its to be blind to the reality of a person ... and for your behaviour to be fanatical towards them
Truth celebrities are not better than you but you have the same opportunity to do the same
I liked and commented simply because of the title.
I hate celebrity worship
💯 💯 i see so many people’s brain turn to mush with the nervous worship energy of fanatics mean
EXACTLY!!!! Everything you said is so powerful also it seems sad to base your whole self worth around someone you dont know esp bcs you never know who they really are
It's ok to acknowledge that some people are "higher than you" or "better than you" in certain areas. As long as you can also acknowledge your own strengths and the ways in which you may be "better" than them. It can also be helpful to look up to them as an example for how you would like to grow..but like you said, without idolizing them or putting them on a pedastal.
Oh u woke me tf up with this video 😭😭😭
I've bumped into a couple celebrities/ famous people over the years and some are extra regular.
LA YOUR A SMART LADY ..
Seriously.. you are absolutely right.
Yes I appreciate a lot of the work of artists and with some of them I like some of their personality traits but I still see them as humans so I don't expect celebrities to be 24/7 perfect all the time because that's unrealistic.
You don't even know if it's real.
it feels like something clicked... thank you for making this video!
This right here. Thank you. I often feel envious and jealous of certain people (both celebrities and peers). I am tired of feeling this way and I want to thrive in my life. I have been breaking down these feelings piece by piece and discovering what they mean. When you're jealous and envious of something, it shows that you truly desire and reveals that subconsciously, you feel you can't have it. In turn, you become resentful, upset, sad, unmotivated etc. This video really broke it down another layer for me and has helped me along my healing journey. Thank you!!
they are actually much more miserable than us. They all sold their souls for worldly possessions and most of us don't even know what they do behind close doors.
I never worship anyone. I do appreciate a lot of artists, I like their work, I am a fan of their work, but I never worship the person. I don't know them!! Plus, c'mon, they have a whole team behind them to make them look beautiful, to say the right things, to dress good, to stay slim etc, they all make important decisions about their careers, they have like marketers, pr, you name it. But we don't have a team, how can we compare with them? A celebrity is not successful just on their own, I'm sorry. It's a whole team behind them making strategies and stuff with the artist. So I don't have that chance to be guided by a professional team to be successful. And I don't know celebrities, I don't have a clue what kind of person they are. It's crazy to be obsessed with someone that you don't know. I don't like this. And the energy is weird, like saying x and y is a queen/king and are the best and being extremely involved to protect them from haters is too crazy for me. People are delulu and waste their time & money. Support their work, but don't be obsessive and absurd. They show only the "perfect persona" to the world. But they are exactly like us in reality.
YOU GET IT ⚡️
Girl girl girl. You are a BLESSING. I feel so drawn to your page and that I’m meant to hear your words. What you said about the energy harvesting at concerts…. I have felt that so much at all concerts. Thank you for your wisdom. As a young woman I aspire to live in Europe like you are someday 💟🤍🌸
I always said that im nobody fan, ppl be cool, n i be intrigued n inspired
Just because they are RICH. Multimillionaires and billionaires. Common people see money as a hierarchy, as a division to see if you are "worthy" or not, it's a very dumb way of thinking but that's humanity for you.
I only like certain celebrities because of their craft OR because I have a crush on them. Never because I think they are better than me or have a better life than me, which to me is the very opposite because I did not need to endure lots of abuse like them did to have a comfortable and happy life.
You get it!! 💖
Thank u. Finally the perfect someone said it in the perfect way. The universe seems truly tired of the BS on planet Earth.
This just opened my eyes. and brain. Thank you so much
Your videos are SO enriching! ✨☺️🌷 Deeply grateful
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Muah you’re so special
Thanks Angel 🪸🌸🪷
I love your content! I can feel my brain rewiring on many levels..
I appreciate this message, thank you
Thank you for this video, for me fangirling is not necessarily being obsessed, my favourite group songs and tv shows bring me joy, their personalities is something I look up to for myself ... because as I have been facing difficult situations and hated myself a lot, having someone to look up to makes me feel less crappy 😭😭😭
When it makes your life better it's adding not taking!! 💖
🔥awesome video 🫳🎤
I was trying to tell this to people, that they shouldn't worship celebrities for all these reasaons.
Merci beaucoup the princess of beautiful arts 🎨 🎉 🥳 🎉 🪅 🎊
i like your makeup
Jeffree star blood money green palette I got last Christmas!! Thank you 🐢
@@la_princesse_des_beauxarts it reminds me of my fav childhood elemental princess in series i watched in childhood..It's like a mermaid
This video found me for a reason, I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately and you explained it so clearly, thank you 🙏💕
Yeh, they work hardest.
So true.
Great video my friend. Very gorgeous and full of wisdom. I’m glad I’m of the same mindset myself. Once again, good video!
You shared some great wisdom here. Thank you!✨✨✨✨
thanks alot for your intellectual comments dear. Wish you all the best...
Omg thank you you just said all my thoughts
Finally someone said it
I think it’s time for me to be HIM
I’m happy is someone now that ❤
A very smart perspective!
such a great video transformed my perspective of putting anyone on a pedal stool you're a gem
You're a gem 💎
I love your videos 💕☺️
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Celebs dont care abour us
I never ever understood celebrities and athletes. It’s crazy how some people are obsess with them.
Ah omg ily I had this conversation earlier
I’m glad I found your channel. You are a wise one❤️
The only celebrity, singer I really have an affinity for is Aurora Aksnes(Aurora)
I just find her very, very interesting.
She has an radiating heart energy!! A premonition for future humanity
@la_princesse_des_beauxarts Agreed.
She is a person you would want to sit and talk with.
She just happens to also make good music. Ha!
I honestly love Tems and Jorja Smith but I take them as an Inspiration to become my best version of myself!
Love this. Need to watch the rest of ur videos haha
How much u understand of this world....can u explain me about worshipping....what about love mean ??
Good stuff, keep doing ya thing your very necessary
So glad I found your channel! You are so wise and beautiful-my new lǎoshī!❤
Ishowspeed 😂❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉 thanks for the awareness
Show support for the average person with a product or service.
well, i just met you and i already admire you
i love your energy❤
Subscribed
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Loving your vidoes! 🤭🥰 “Witch Doctor!”
You have Elizabeth Tailor vibe for sure, btw what films with her would you recommend?
I loved Cat on a Hot Tin Roof! I laughed so much but learned a lot too, from the more serious subject of family obligations and duty, or moving on from the past :)
It was very good film, I liked it, especially script. But I still don't understand why Gooper was unloved child by Mom and also Dad, unlike Brick, since very formative childhood. I have my own theories, but that's anyway seems ultimately unfair
Amazing video , what if the celebrity that i admired had certain traits that i loved but were tied to their personality but then they got a new personality that i don't like anymore & am still stuck / in love with their old personality / traits / characteristics ?
Most human love exists in our imagination, so cherish the feeling ✨🌷💖🩵
@@la_princesse_des_beauxarts you're right ! Thank youu for sharing your knowledge 🥰
I’ve been saying this for decades. Never ever worshipped a celebrity in my life.
J’aime beaucoup ta chaîne ytb🥰
Merci 😽✨🕊️
21:39 like what my fav song to me by Pink says in the radio that I am not less than f*ckin' perfect just cuz I struggled and it doesn't mean I have to be flawless cuz making mistakes is part of being human
That was my favorite song in 7th grade! OMG!!!
@@la_princesse_des_beauxarts I relate to that song.I saw the vid and what the woman in the vid is going through is similar to me and my hobby is also art..When I am already getting myself out from hell in a catholic school,I am telling myself after watching the vid of the song,"I am not gonna let anyone control me anymore"
fan is icky for sure
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I need this vid
I’m old. Here’s how I’ve come to view celebrities: They are created by interests as focul points for certain demographics - shepherds to guide and control the herd. Go your own way as best you can.
Gained a new subscriber ✨
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Just found your channel. You’re really articulate and the things you say resonate a great deal with me.
Did not expect the Bataille reference!
Keep it up, cheers from Rio.
I’ll leave you with a follow up question, which I don’t know if you’ll answer but it’d be cool if you did:
If you admire qualities on others that you don’t necessarily see in yourself, would you say that it’s possible to cultivate them from scratch or not?
Or would you say that, if others are a mirror of you, then what you see in them you yourself also have (even if unwittingly)?
Thank you so much for your kind encouragement!
I do believe it is possible to cultivate qualities you recognize in another even if they seem far fetched or very different to how you currently identify. Years ago I never would have imagined myself as playful and seductive (I repressed my femininity and felt it was a burden/shameful rather than a source of power)--and I even judged others who had those positive qualities. So I say yes to the latter question as well :)
@@la_princesse_des_beauxarts Lovely insight! Turns out we're not all perfect from the start.
Loving your videos, keep doing what you're doing 🫶🙌
I went 2x to Michael Jackson concert and I could not enjoy it at all. It felt wrong. I thought I'm strange. But the situation was so unattractive for me even though I admire his vocals.
An actresz conracted me, then she started boasting and asking me A vip card mempership
Lana Del Rey had the most toxic and violent fans of any show I've been to, and I've been to literal mosh pits
Yeah I outgrew the LDR sad girl phase; it was essential for the plot 🌷🩵
@@la_princesse_des_beauxarts Girl I understand that trajectory 100%💫 I truly believe it was a critical chapter for inner healing!
This can be extended to politics
Preach that to all the simps and fan boys who "follow" you on insta
you can’t just say nice words, they have to have some iota of meaning and flow tying them together - this is a stream of absolutely incoherent contradictory hollow juvenile *nonnnsense*. I’m not even certain YOU know exactly what YOU mean- it’s quite difficult to pick out anything really definitive from it, a lot of the time you’re countering one of your own earlier ideas unwittingly. That’s the trouble with everyone believing their ‘thoughts’ and ‘opinions’ are of equal worth to everyone else’s ~regardless~ of the subject/content, and their own lack of knowledge, experience & understanding.. that’s not how it works! your words aren’t naturally important enough that you can preach them to the world so readily, as if people can & should learn something of actual significance from you - you earn respect and repute with real effort and time and experience, and even then you don’t assume you’re clever enough to be able to school people on any subject at all (particularly if the subject/content is vague & disjointed & reductive & founded on non-empirical crumbs of data such as your “factual observations”.. like in this case) - you don’t just decide your intellectual contribution is highly valuable out of nothing but vanity, it’s the narcissistic narcosis of an ego that is desperately hungry for the quickest and easiest and cheapest satisfaction & reassurance of itself, without the bother of hard work or substance. Words are incredibly powerful and precious, and you should be serious & thoughtful about your own so they actually have some degree of value and weight, not cheapened by being used carelessly and frivolously and indifferently.
Irony of ironies