@@MentalHealness Lee?? How do you know that your X was a narcissist?? What was her character, what did she do specifically to let u know she was narcissistic?;
@@MentalHealness Lee, can you please, please, please, do a video on the relationship between a histrionic and a narcissist? That would be so cool! My narcissistic abuser has ended up being with a histrionic and it's like he's met his soulmate. They're both exploitative, entitled, shallow, delusional, conceited, materialistic and superficial. It's a really interesting dynamic! And it has been going on for almost two years and there's no end in sight because the narcissist is afraid of losing his supply. He's an aging narcissist (in his forties) and he's been afraid of mortality and sickness.
Narcissists deserve each other. Empaths deserve each other. An Empath does not deserve a Narcissist. The Narcissist always targets or desires the Empath.
Being a narcissist is one side of the spectrum being a empath is also the other side of the spectrum. Lots of empaths also comes from troubled households. Just because someone is a empath doesn't mean they are healthy. There is such a thing as healthy narcissism and also having empathy for others the perfect balance . It's not too much of the one or the other.
I know two narcs who have been married for over 10 years. They put on fake smiles and boast about their "great" lives, but they cannot look at each other, sit next each other, nor say something nice to each other. They are miserable! And now they're pregnant, in hopes that a baby will somehow make their loveless marriage better 🤦🏻♀️ As an empathic INFJ, I feel bad for them, but I feel worse for the baby.
My former best friend and her boyfriend are narcissists. She’s covert and he’s overt, but she’s socially charming while he is not. They’ve been together over 15 years, they say they’re married but they never got legally married. They’re terrible to each other. He’s verbally abusive and she constantly flirts and cheats. They seem to think they’re the perfect couple though simply because they stay together. She used to make fun of me when I was single, she even told me she would laugh her ass off if I got pregnant before her. Well, I did. It turns out they can’t have kids. And while I would never wish that on anyone, I’m kinda happy for the nonexistent baby. I used to be terrified thinking of those two being parents and what I knew they would do to that poor kid. I watched what they put their cats through 😳 it was straight up abuse
My parents are narcissists but different shades, divorced and remarried 3-4x each, step parents harmed me physically and psychologically, and at 28 I have epilepsy and ocd. I have no relationship with either parent and now I’m repairing myself, creating boundaries with my n laws, who are almost worse. His siste has treated me like shit while taking and taking (even after hospitalization) and I’m realizing it’s because they exploit my weaknesses. I’m working on being strong, and part of that is not tolerating bad behavior. It’s not me, but it is. I take responsibility for my healing, so I can fortify myself against the insecurities of bullies.
Lol that intro. Nailed it with my last narc. I think his newest supply is a narc. I think he finally found his true love at the age of 59. Fingers crossed so that he never darkens my door again
I’ve seen people online saying both parents were narcissists. It was surprising to me because I would think if they do get together they wouldn’t last long because I’d think they’d recognize the game and quickly be out lol.
If one of them is willing to pretend to be submissive in order to gain access to the wealth, power, or whatever resources the other partner brings, some of these toxic relationshits can drag on for decades.
Professor Sam Vaknin has a wonderful insight on the conditions of two narcs in couple, for example, grandiose and inverted narc with both having somatic variety can work together.
I'm high in empathy too, but there's something wrong w/ that expression, "I'm an empath". Not saying you personally are using it any wrong way, other than to get a point across. It's just turned into something not so good and can throw off a grandiose vibe all too often when I hear it.
The skit 😂😂😂 BTW I dated a narcissistic Coworker and he left me for my friend who was also my colleague. You're right Lee. I had to quit the job because the humiliation was too much and needless to say I really suffered afterwards.
My husband and I are both narcissists. We've been together for 15yrs and have 4 children together. We love eachother, and our kids. He and I have a very symbiotic love that's gotten stronger over the decade and a half we've been together. The way I see it, only narcs know how to be with a narc successfully.
You have most definitely kept me from going back into that toxic cycle I left that situation in July of this year Your videos have helped me tremendously Thanks a Bunch
My ex narc had a narc wife. They have two kids together. Daughter is a narc and son is an empath. Wife wanted status and pretended to be an empath. Husband pretended to be an empath to convince people he was a good person. Deep down they're both demonic and deserve each other. I watched him deliberately try to run over a squirrel and denied it amongst other things. Gaslighting was severe. 😈 Thank you Lee for putting a name to it. I thought I was crazy.😵💫
My X and I are complete mirrors and legit same people. Trusting your narrcisit partner feels impossible, you know what they're doing casue your doing the same thing. The competition thing is real, completley. Lee, when you said wanting to have kids together even after we both had been divorced and had kids already. We were grown and almost done being parents. We still both would have done the baby thing again if she could have had another baby. We are the craziest toxic couple ever. This has been the hardest relationship I've ever been in. Also the most 🔥 and ❤. We break up to male up. 4 years and we're trying to go no contact for real this time.
It's true! My daughter and her husband are both narcissists. They feed off of each other. It's really strange to witness. Glad I don't have to see it anymore.
Omg! This is my ‘ex’ husband and his ‘mistress’ 2 narcissists - both still married to other people - she ‘left’ her husband when she came over to another state to see her dying mum (she stopped messaging her husband) and family when she found out my ex and I separated! He moved her in 6 mths after he moved out, 4 mths after he moved into his flat. Didn’t tell me or the kids. ‘She has a heart of gold’ I suspect monkey branching. Def Trauma Bonded. His karma - she has severe epilepsy, ie brakes limbs from falls, she is a preditor, manipulative, and a lier. Match made in heaven 😂
My narcissistic x emotional hurt our children when telling them he hadn't loved me in years and got with a narcissist person they knew telling them he cheated on me. And yes the other is married also. But getting your input puts me at ease knowing what I need to do for my kids. So thanks
"Your describing my mother and father in law." "He loves silently hanging up the telephone on his family to regain control over a situation resulting in the silent treatment." "She will Gaslight that you're not right in the head."
I've heard that narcissists don't generally get trauma bonded themselves from relationships. Unless, they run into another cluster B or narcissist and attempt a relationship. I sure saw that w/ my ex and his young mistress. Not sure what her disorder is, but she definitely has one. He admitted to getting a taste of his own medicine w/ lying and headgames. He's not usually bitter to me, but he just trashes her now, and she's trying to ban him from everywhere she goes. Already banned him from little retail job and a common friend warned him to never be alone w/ her again. I met the devious little bimbo. He's as bad, but she had the trash lack of morals to come into my home to befriend me after starting their affair. crazy story, I'd never want to write a book about, but people say it's like a movie plot that people would think is too far fetched.
Yes, then can, specially when both are aware and they will last much longer. In this case their dynamic of relationship is similar to the Unerwood couple, from "House of Cards" (TV series), where each of them has supplies on the side (or even having shared supply)
Narcissists marrying each other is the best thing for this equation.Of course too unfortunate for babies who will be born out of it.Innocent people should not suffer under the hands of narcissists
I think narcissist deserves a narcissist atleast to date so that they might understand what he's putting other person through ( when they were in relation with healthy person) and they can only be in emotional state only when they need !
Omg I was drinking water and literally spit it out laughing when you were acting like the people who think you got your karma - “Damn devilish bastard” 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
Yeah. I was/ am very cranky at times. So she matches that energy. Then when I changed my opinion on certain people she did too. She even opened up about child trauma
I haven't been diagnosed but I think I'm boderline & know my partner is a full blown Narc... I couldn't stop laughing at the skit in the beginning cz that is us for sure 😂😂😂 we've been together nearly a yr now and it started so gd but we're in a very strange space now. I've called him a Narc before cz i noticed traits, and he called me a Narc about a month ago cz he felt like he saw the traits 💀. I thought I was just an empath but I tend to mirror his behaviour sometimes and we've definitely triangulated each other at times yet I can't seem to break up with him🥴 He has a gd heart sometimes but I'm not sure if we just trauma bonded tbh. Oh & I think we're pregnant🤧
I don't think there's anything wrong with treating a narcissist like they treat you. But eventually exerting so much energy to be a shitty person becomes counterproductive and it's best to cut them off. As long as you don't treat good non-narcisstic ppl bad than it's all good. Karma plays out in many different ways for narcissists
The covert keeps the overt in line and the overt keeps the covert on their toes its a visceral experience to witness and there is no amicable splitting only nuclear explosive departure
Wow, as a narcissist you connected with your girlfriend? I tried to talk to my ex about things they just NEVER cared. Even when we separately went through things with the same people, I tried to talk about it to process through the pain. They just never acknowledged it. When I brought it up again like maybe this time…. They ultimately just blamed me for putting a wedge between them and the people. I was only trying to connect on anything and that’s something we had in common. At least you were connecting 😢
Wow that’s my relationship to the t. he’s my identical toxic azz twin. both always trying to win. moved in right away. We both have narcissistic traits but not NPD.
Can I ask you about having traits, but not NPD? Does that mean you're more subclinical, or just registering as kind of medium on one of the psych questionnaires? I'm pretty sure my ex is one. We're still in touch and I broached the topic that I think he has at least subclinal, or probably lower register NPD. He thinks because he's only 15 on the questionnaire, that might rule it out (I'm like 4). Of course these quizzes don't rule it in, or out, but that would be his hope. He's very high in the traits and I can only hope he'll get to counseling. I know what I went through at the end of 10 yrs, and I don't wish that on the next one. Also, pwNPD do markedly suffer from that very fragile and labile ego and shame.
My thinking, and this has certainly been in my case is that the vast majority of people meet their partners in places like the workplace, classroom, etc. the type of places they frequent the most. This is by far more natural in my opinion because one will have the opportunity to see, meet, and get to know this person through daily interactions before making a decision to date.
Whyyyyy is this EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED JUST MONTHS AGO WITH MY SOON TO BE EX HUSBAND?! They met in feb (he says) she moved in august. We were separated but lived together for years. I immediately moved cause what?! 😂! She was preggo by September! No longer want to do the thing that caught them! She don’t want to deal with our 4 kids but she was super nanny before pregnancy! Get this…. They both lied! 😂 She lied about her job profession, still is. He lied about his financial situation. I was the money! 😂 now they’re just stuck playing games with one another! He had ran to file the divorce! Note he doesn’t seem to really be following up with that! OH WE’RE GETTING DIVORCED LIL SILLY!lol😂 This is crazy! I didn’t know this was a thing. He has an ex! Same thing! But she didn’t end up having the baby. And we never ended up divorced.
Hi i have a question..... can 2 narcissists be friends ? Like 2 guys ? Cuz i just got out of a relationship with one..... n his friend would treat him badly sometimes but he would always be good to him..... so i dont know how it would work ( maybe because that friend would invite him to parties to meet women )
I do believe 2 narcissist can be together and you can both be empathic 😂. My husband and I have both and we are totaly crazy about each other! We get mad blame and feel sympathy 😂😂😂 then by the next day we go on with life work and deal with family and talk about our next date😂. He rubs my feet any time Im in need and I rub his neck when I see he had enough. And final we have no chlidren together but kuddos to my husband my son loves him to death. So beware and go with caution. ❤
That's what is worrying. I see some comments of some narcissist couples that are happily married and love each well. They say they have kids though and that's worrisome. Who would want to risk that w/ kids? I guess narcissists. They didn't say if they were self aware and reformed w/ counseling. They might have married when they didn't know.
But don't you think it was childish though? 3 weeks after I kicked my narc out, he went into a 'relationship' with the mother of his best friends child, who also happened to be a friend of mine... I think he calculated a triple whammy! Which was, piss off his best friend who told him he had to leave, because he had been drained by him, and to be honest.. No proof of course, but I blocked him but feel he had reasons for this.. Someone fresh who believes his lies, to piss of his bezzo who couldn't take it anymore, and to get a rise out of me.. I really do think he was expecting an outpouring of drama, which neither me nor his best friend gave him. I feel he is trapped now, as he went to the 'next available' I don't follow nor watch him, but when I last saw his new love, she looked totally drained.. But she reckons.. As she said to her baby daddy, that she is gonna fix him! 2 Issues with this is A) You cannot fix someone who thinks they are perfectly okay, and B) You should let people be who they are and find their own path.. If you find someone who ticks some boxes, but not all.. Then you should never try mould them to your version of perfect.. I had this done to me, and as a victim, it takes a very long time to find yourself, your wants and needs.. Please don't mould... Accept and reject till you find your true person x
My family and friends, all know that i am attracted to a Narcs. And they just piss it of long time ago, in they mind i am just insane 🤷🏼but they dont care. But when i am informing them that for example i met someone they are only asking: WHAT THIS TIME? PSYCHOPATCH? SERIAL KILLER? OSAMA BIN LADEN? 😑🤣 I have to find the short video for my TT. Its cool.
Your intro skit was too real to be just a skit lmao. When you see them lovebomb each other then try to triangulate you into a "poly" relationship so they have a scapegoat lol.
Yes 2 narcissist can be together. My parents are baby boomers narcissists they been married for 47 years. I have 3 brothers and sisters and we all narcissists 🤣🤣🤣
2 narcs in 1 relationship is like a battlefield Lol tit for tat type of situation. i felt like i was his karma tho but you also bond and feel like you got a male/female version of yourself
@@MentalHealness you make laugh a lot with your skit! Quick question for you my ex covert narc that I dumped last year was two timing me unbeknown to me with his new fiancée supply that he hidden very carefully from me when I kicked him out of my house he went straight to her, again I had no clue and idea, he became unbearable so I knew it was time to ditch him ( again for 4th time) but this time I told him to never come back. A month after I kicked him out he revealed to me he was with someone else in a very angry way by text changed his pic to a pic of him and her and blocked me on WhatsApp. I didn’t know at the time but he was doing the reverse hoovering crap that I felt for so I started to play along and get upset, he was not replying to my emails so I found her and contacted her and she proceeded to tell me he told her straight he cheated on me repeatedly through the relationship with on and off with prostitutes and then told me she was engaged and they were moving to his home country.. that is only weeks after he left my house?!?! She literally had zero empathy for my daughter pain for him totally ignoring us because he doesn’t have any use of us anymore. She had zero empathy about that. How do I know she is a overt or covert narcissist? They are still love bombing the shit out of each other after 8 months being together…🤷🏽♀️
@@MentalHealness and by the way I am no longer trauma bonded I don’t give a shit about him and her what they do in fact I am grateful he came into my life because he helped me awaken to a brand new life and see my traumas. I understand that I created in my reality through the lenses of the little wounded girl I was being raised by a covert narcissist man. I transmutted that shit and trauma. I feel the happiest I have ever been but I am curious of the dynamic they having which I know it can’t be all roses and rainbows 😆😆😆 they must be abusing the shit out of each other but I am curious. She lost her father to suicide few years ago so this girl is full of trauma!
Stop lying 🤥 narcissist go where the attention is from my experience being a empath , i have to question everything you're saying i mean, this is a platform for attention seekers .
Lee you're amazing...I'm so grateful 🙏🏾
Thank you so much.
@Mental Healness I've been watching you for a long time and you have educated me so much!
Yesss 🤎🙏🏾
@@MentalHealness Lee?? How do you know that your X was a narcissist?? What was her character, what did she do specifically to let u know she was narcissistic?;
@@MentalHealness Lee, can you please, please, please, do a video on the relationship between a histrionic and a narcissist? That would be so cool!
My narcissistic abuser has ended up being with a histrionic and it's like he's met his soulmate. They're both exploitative, entitled, shallow, delusional, conceited, materialistic and superficial. It's a really interesting dynamic! And it has been going on for almost two years and there's no end in sight because the narcissist is afraid of losing his supply. He's an aging narcissist (in his forties) and he's been afraid of mortality and sickness.
Narcissists deserve each other. Empaths deserve each other. An Empath does not deserve a Narcissist. The Narcissist always targets or desires the Empath.
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Being a narcissist is one side of the spectrum being a empath is also the other side of the spectrum. Lots of empaths also comes from troubled households. Just because someone is a empath doesn't mean they are healthy. There is such a thing as healthy narcissism and also having empathy for others the perfect balance . It's not too much of the one or the other.
Healthy narcissism is the best 🙂
Healthy narcissism is even better than being a empath. 🙂
2 healthy narcissists can be together 🤗
I know two narcs who have been married for over 10 years. They put on fake smiles and boast about their "great" lives, but they cannot look at each other, sit next each other, nor say something nice to each other. They are miserable! And now they're pregnant, in hopes that a baby will somehow make their loveless marriage better 🤦🏻♀️ As an empathic INFJ, I feel bad for them, but I feel worse for the baby.
Nope, they will create a new narcissist
My former best friend and her boyfriend are narcissists. She’s covert and he’s overt, but she’s socially charming while he is not. They’ve been together over 15 years, they say they’re married but they never got legally married. They’re terrible to each other. He’s verbally abusive and she constantly flirts and cheats. They seem to think they’re the perfect couple though simply because they stay together. She used to make fun of me when I was single, she even told me she would laugh her ass off if I got pregnant before her. Well, I did. It turns out they can’t have kids. And while I would never wish that on anyone, I’m kinda happy for the nonexistent baby. I used to be terrified thinking of those two being parents and what I knew they would do to that poor kid. I watched what they put their cats through 😳 it was straight up abuse
My parents are narcissists but different shades, divorced and remarried 3-4x each, step parents harmed me physically and psychologically, and at 28 I have epilepsy and ocd. I have no relationship with either parent and now I’m repairing myself, creating boundaries with my n laws, who are almost worse. His siste has treated me like shit while taking and taking (even after hospitalization) and I’m realizing it’s because they exploit my weaknesses. I’m working on being strong, and part of that is not tolerating bad behavior. It’s not me, but it is. I take responsibility for my healing, so I can fortify myself against the insecurities of bullies.
Lol that intro. Nailed it with my last narc. I think his newest supply is a narc. I think he finally found his true love at the age of 59. Fingers crossed so that he never darkens my door again
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They will self implode on each other.
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I'm hoping and praying this is true.
The way I laughed at “I need a divorce too!” 😂
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I’ve seen people online saying both parents were narcissists. It was surprising to me because I would think if they do get together they wouldn’t last long because I’d think they’d recognize the game and quickly be out lol.
If one of them is willing to pretend to be submissive in order to gain access to the wealth, power, or whatever resources the other partner brings, some of these toxic relationshits can drag on for decades.
I thinknits common for one parent to have NPD and the other one a borderline. And a borderline could be confused as a narcissist.
this skit had me in stitches 🤣🤣🤣 my parents are narcs: cell mates/egomates
Dude. You nailed it. This my last relationship. Especially that you feel like you are soulmates but can’t be together. Damn in the feels
Professor Sam Vaknin has a wonderful insight on the conditions of two narcs in couple, for example, grandiose and inverted narc with both having somatic variety can work together.
i am an empath and honestly i respect you a lot
Appreciate it
Lol
I'm high in empathy too, but there's something wrong w/ that expression, "I'm an empath". Not saying you personally are using it any wrong way, other than to get a point across. It's just turned into something not so good and can throw off a grandiose vibe all too often when I hear it.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 stop being delusional 😂
@@saintejeannedarc9460😂😂😂😂😂
The skit 😂😂😂
BTW I dated a narcissistic Coworker and he left me for my friend who was also my colleague. You're right Lee. I had to quit the job because the humiliation was too much and needless to say I really suffered afterwards.
The way you say clapping cheeks makes me die 😂
My husband and I are both narcissists. We've been together for 15yrs and have 4 children together. We love eachother, and our kids. He and I have a very symbiotic love that's gotten stronger over the decade and a half we've been together. The way I see it, only narcs know how to be with a narc successfully.
How did you guys do it? Mine wants marriage but we off and on and I’m terrified
I LOVE that you put this comment up here!!! I think me and my husband are narcissistic as well🤦🏾♀️… 11 years and still going😂
So have you been cheating each other? Constantly?
Lol sounds like marital bliss
@@alondraacosta-mora6504😂😂😂 ouch 😓
You have most definitely kept me from going back into that toxic cycle
I left that situation in July of this year
Your videos have helped me tremendously
Thanks a Bunch
You’re welcome. Stay strong
Are you going to stay single for the rest of your life? 😂
@@m7amm33 Why would I
I’m a great person and have genuine love to give
I definitely have a new real love
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My ex narc had a narc wife. They have two kids together. Daughter is a narc and son is an empath. Wife wanted status and pretended to be an empath. Husband pretended to be an empath to convince people he was a good person. Deep down they're both demonic and deserve each other. I watched him deliberately try to run over a squirrel and denied it amongst other things. Gaslighting was severe. 😈 Thank you Lee for putting a name to it. I thought I was crazy.😵💫
After 5 years of being alone I ended up with a narcissist again, she’s a cop so i figured it wouldn’t be as bad as it was but unreal
I love the analogy of the narcissistic flea bath, lol! 😂
My X and I are complete mirrors and legit same people. Trusting your narrcisit partner feels impossible, you know what they're doing casue your doing the same thing. The competition thing is real, completley.
Lee, when you said wanting to have kids together even after we both had been divorced and had kids already. We were grown and almost done being parents. We still both would have done the baby thing again if she could have had another baby.
We are the craziest toxic couple ever. This has been the hardest relationship I've ever been in. Also the most 🔥 and ❤. We break up to male up. 4 years and we're trying to go no contact for real this time.
I caught the fleas... 🥺 It's too easy when you have BPD
Reactive abuse. You hit me...two hits, I hit you and you hit the floor! That's me mirroring you.
It's true! My daughter and her husband are both narcissists. They feed off of each other. It's really strange to witness. Glad I don't have to see it anymore.
You’re a narcissist too 🤪
Omg! This is my ‘ex’ husband and his ‘mistress’ 2 narcissists - both still married to other people - she ‘left’ her husband when she came over to another state to see her dying mum (she stopped messaging her husband) and family when she found out my ex and I separated! He moved her in 6 mths after he moved out, 4 mths after he moved into his flat. Didn’t tell me or the kids. ‘She has a heart of gold’ I suspect monkey branching. Def Trauma Bonded. His karma - she has severe epilepsy, ie brakes limbs from falls, she is a preditor, manipulative, and a lier. Match made in heaven 😂
😂😂😂your skits are hilarious ❤ you are hilarious. Love it
My narcissistic x emotional hurt our children when telling them he hadn't loved me in years and got with a narcissist person they knew telling them he cheated on me. And yes the other is married also. But getting your input puts me at ease knowing what I need to do for my kids. So thanks
You absolutely crack me up 🤣🤣 I listen to you all the time and some of it is so funny
my empathy has a musk 👃
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You are so right 👍I did pick up some Narcissistic fleas🤣😂
"Your describing my mother and father in law." "He loves silently hanging up the telephone on his family to regain control over a situation resulting in the silent treatment." "She will Gaslight that you're not right in the head."
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After my narc met another narc, he's been sick ever since. I wonder if he's being controlled by some dark ways.
I've heard that narcissists don't generally get trauma bonded themselves from relationships. Unless, they run into another cluster B or narcissist and attempt a relationship. I sure saw that w/ my ex and his young mistress. Not sure what her disorder is, but she definitely has one. He admitted to getting a taste of his own medicine w/ lying and headgames. He's not usually bitter to me, but he just trashes her now, and she's trying to ban him from everywhere she goes. Already banned him from little retail job and a common friend warned him to never be alone w/ her again. I met the devious little bimbo. He's as bad, but she had the trash lack of morals to come into my home to befriend me after starting their affair. crazy story, I'd never want to write a book about, but people say it's like a movie plot that people would think is too far fetched.
This is happening too me right now at my job. I always attract narcissists.
Yes, then can, specially when both are aware and they will last much longer. In this case their dynamic of relationship is similar to the Unerwood couple, from "House of Cards" (TV series), where each of them has supplies on the side (or even having shared supply)
Narcissists marrying each other is the best thing for this equation.Of course too unfortunate for babies who will be born out of it.Innocent people should not suffer under the hands of narcissists
The peeker eye...🤣
I think narcissist deserves a narcissist atleast to date so that they might understand what he's putting other person through ( when they were in relation with healthy person) and they can only be in emotional state only when they need !
Omg I was drinking water and literally spit it out laughing when you were acting like the people who think you got your karma - “Damn devilish bastard” 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
Hahaha “Oh my goodness” 😂
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I hope your channel gets bigger. It's a good all around form of awareness!
Thank you
You are hilarious lol I get your messages but man do you take the edge off with the humor 😂
Thank you for sharing n helping.
Any advice for two narcissists trying to make it work? Or breaking the news to your partner that they are also a narcissist in a supportive way?
Currently how I describe my relationship
Yeah. I was/ am very cranky at times. So she matches that energy. Then when I changed my opinion on certain people she did too. She even opened up about child trauma
Yeah, sadly me and my gf broke up. We were both narrcists. We were both toxic
I haven't been diagnosed but I think I'm boderline & know my partner is a full blown Narc... I couldn't stop laughing at the skit in the beginning cz that is us for sure 😂😂😂 we've been together nearly a yr now and it started so gd but we're in a very strange space now. I've called him a Narc before cz i noticed traits, and he called me a Narc about a month ago cz he felt like he saw the traits 💀. I thought I was just an empath but I tend to mirror his behaviour sometimes and we've definitely triangulated each other at times yet I can't seem to break up with him🥴 He has a gd heart sometimes but I'm not sure if we just trauma bonded tbh. Oh & I think we're pregnant🤧
U make me genuinely CACKLE “can I clap them cheeks plz” sob sob
It’s funny how prideful these ppl are yet they love to play the victim for favors 😂
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I liked your skit!! Funny.
I don't think there's anything wrong with treating a narcissist like they treat you. But eventually exerting so much energy to be a shitty person becomes counterproductive and it's best to cut them off. As long as you don't treat good non-narcisstic ppl bad than it's all good. Karma plays out in many different ways for narcissists
The covert keeps the overt in line and the overt keeps the covert on their toes its a visceral experience to witness and there is no amicable splitting only nuclear explosive departure
Would be interesting to see 2 covert/quiet narcs together.
Wow, as a narcissist you connected with your girlfriend? I tried to talk to my ex about things they just NEVER cared. Even when we separately went through things with the same people, I tried to talk about it to process through the pain. They just never acknowledged it. When I brought it up again like maybe this time…. They ultimately just blamed me for putting a wedge between them and the people. I was only trying to connect on anything and that’s something we had in common. At least you were connecting 😢
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Wow that’s my relationship to the t. he’s my identical toxic azz twin. both always trying to win. moved in right away. We both have narcissistic traits but not NPD.
Can I ask you about having traits, but not NPD? Does that mean you're more subclinical, or just registering as kind of medium on one of the psych questionnaires?
I'm pretty sure my ex is one. We're still in touch and I broached the topic that I think he has at least subclinal, or probably lower register NPD. He thinks because he's only 15 on the questionnaire, that might rule it out (I'm like 4). Of course these quizzes don't rule it in, or out, but that would be his hope. He's very high in the traits and I can only hope he'll get to counseling. I know what I went through at the end of 10 yrs, and I don't wish that on the next one. Also, pwNPD do markedly suffer from that very fragile and labile ego and shame.
Quoting someone else here …. Unless they are both self aware.. let the mirror death spiral commence!
My thinking, and this has certainly been in my case is that the vast majority of people meet their partners in places like the workplace, classroom, etc. the type of places they frequent the most. This is by far more natural in my opinion because one will have the opportunity to see, meet, and get to know this person through daily interactions before making a decision to date.
Old saying.."never eat...where you shit"...bad
Whyyyyy is this EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED JUST MONTHS AGO WITH MY SOON TO BE EX HUSBAND?! They met in feb (he says) she moved in august. We were separated but lived together for years. I immediately moved cause what?! 😂! She was preggo by September! No longer want to do the thing that caught them! She don’t want to deal with our 4 kids but she was super nanny before pregnancy! Get this…. They both lied! 😂 She lied about her job profession, still is. He lied about his financial situation. I was the money! 😂 now they’re just stuck playing games with one another! He had ran to file the divorce! Note he doesn’t seem to really be following up with that! OH WE’RE GETTING DIVORCED LIL SILLY!lol😂 This is crazy! I didn’t know this was a thing. He has an ex! Same thing! But she didn’t end up having the baby. And we never ended up divorced.
I discovered that my narc was cheating on me with his previous girldfriend (a narc too) i left the relationship, good luck for him 👋👋
Hi i have a question..... can 2 narcissists be friends ? Like 2 guys ? Cuz i just got out of a relationship with one..... n his friend would treat him badly sometimes but he would always be good to him..... so i dont know how it would work ( maybe because that friend would invite him to parties to meet women )
This skit was hilarious!!!😂💯
Lol, Ive got to give myself a narcissistic fleabath now 😂
I do believe 2 narcissist can be together and you can both be empathic 😂. My husband and I have both and we are totaly crazy about each other! We get mad blame and feel sympathy 😂😂😂 then by the next day we go on with life work and deal with family and talk about our next date😂. He rubs my feet any time Im in need and I rub his neck when I see he had enough. And final we have no chlidren together but kuddos to my husband my son loves him to death. So beware and go with caution. ❤
Stay safe
They may stay together but kids grow up narcissistic or bordline personality because of the model
That's what is worrying. I see some comments of some narcissist couples that are happily married and love each well. They say they have kids though and that's worrisome. Who would want to risk that w/ kids? I guess narcissists. They didn't say if they were self aware and reformed w/ counseling. They might have married when they didn't know.
It’s like listening to a friend with you lol
😲😲😲 He said it! Kid number 4 so I can trap you!
Have NEVER HEARD IT BEFORE. Knew it happened to me. 6 kids later.... here I am
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But don't you think it was childish though? 3 weeks after I kicked my narc out, he went into a 'relationship' with the mother of his best friends child, who also happened to be a friend of mine... I think he calculated a triple whammy! Which was, piss off his best friend who told him he had to leave, because he had been drained by him, and to be honest.. No proof of course, but I blocked him but feel he had reasons for this.. Someone fresh who believes his lies, to piss of his bezzo who couldn't take it anymore, and to get a rise out of me.. I really do think he was expecting an outpouring of drama, which neither me nor his best friend gave him. I feel he is trapped now, as he went to the 'next available' I don't follow nor watch him, but when I last saw his new love, she looked totally drained.. But she reckons.. As she said to her baby daddy, that she is gonna fix him! 2 Issues with this is A) You cannot fix someone who thinks they are perfectly okay, and B) You should let people be who they are and find their own path.. If you find someone who ticks some boxes, but not all.. Then you should never try mould them to your version of perfect.. I had this done to me, and as a victim, it takes a very long time to find yourself, your wants and needs.. Please don't mould... Accept and reject till you find your true person x
My x is with a narc right now
Dont you think narc on narc relationships provide a chance of reflection evennin the slightest? What about karma? Js
The jezabel sword xD I was called a Jezabell by my ex NARSSARSITS xD The irony
The skit is catchy!
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Very funny..if funny be the right word!
The beginning 😂😂😂
My family and friends, all know that i am attracted to a Narcs. And they just piss it of long time ago, in they mind i am just insane 🤷🏼but they dont care. But when i am informing them that for example i met someone they are only asking: WHAT THIS TIME? PSYCHOPATCH? SERIAL KILLER? OSAMA BIN LADEN? 😑🤣
I have to find the short video for my TT. Its cool.
Your friends are funny, but your addiction to chaos and punishment is rather sad. I hope you get that sorted out.
That skit was sadly hilarious
You don’t have to explain we know😊
Your intro skit was too real to be just a skit lmao. When you see them lovebomb each other then try to triangulate you into a "poly" relationship so they have a scapegoat lol.
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How was it though? LOL
Yes 2 narcissist can be together. My parents are baby boomers narcissists they been married for 47 years. I have 3 brothers and sisters and we all narcissists 🤣🤣🤣
Oh wow how does that work? I'm asking cz I think I'm borderline and my partner is a Narcissist 😂
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2 narcs in 1 relationship is like a battlefield Lol tit for tat type of situation. i felt like i was his karma tho but you also bond and feel like you got a male/female version of yourself
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@@MentalHealness you make laugh a lot with your skit! Quick question for you my ex covert narc that I dumped last year was two timing me unbeknown to me with his new fiancée supply that he hidden very carefully from me when I kicked him out of my house he went straight to her, again I had no clue and idea, he became unbearable so I knew it was time to ditch him ( again for 4th time) but this time I told him to never come back. A month after I kicked him out he revealed to me he was with someone else in a very angry way by text changed his pic to a pic of him and her and blocked me on WhatsApp.
I didn’t know at the time but he was doing the reverse hoovering crap that I felt for so I started to play along and get upset, he was not replying to my emails so I found her and contacted her and she proceeded to tell me he told her straight he cheated on me repeatedly through the relationship with on and off with prostitutes and then told me she was engaged and they were moving to his home country.. that is only weeks after he left my house?!?! She literally had zero empathy for my daughter pain for him totally ignoring us because he doesn’t have any use of us anymore. She had zero empathy about that. How do I know she is a overt or covert narcissist? They are still love bombing the shit out of each other after 8 months being together…🤷🏽♀️
@@MentalHealness and by the way I am no longer trauma bonded I don’t give a shit about him and her what they do in fact I am grateful he came into my life because he helped me awaken to a brand new life and see my traumas. I understand that I created in my reality through the lenses of the little wounded girl I was being raised by a covert narcissist man. I transmutted that shit and trauma. I feel the happiest I have ever been but I am curious of the dynamic they having which I know it can’t be all roses and rainbows 😆😆😆 they must be abusing the shit out of each other but I am curious. She lost her father to suicide few years ago so this girl is full of trauma!
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Stop lying 🤥 narcissist go where the attention is from my experience being a empath , i have to question everything you're saying i mean, this is a platform for attention seekers .
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You may not be a true narc. You echo and have problems but you simply don't sound like a true narc.
I messed with my coworker while I was still in a relationship and it was horrible when I was getting tired of him