That’s how they attack all of there new supply. For real the supply has fallen in love with you not them. They have no personality they have studied yours.
Thank you Lee ❤️ This is so true. I watched my ex over the years try to mirror other people , I've even called him out on it a few times. His new / old supply doesn't know that she fell in love with me because he was mirroring me .
I definitely need to hear this one. I had 2 girls dye their hair blonde and it was obvious it was because of me because they wouldnt stop trying to pick on me, and everyone was noticing it on both occasions. One even started wearing eyeliner like i wear it. It was bizarre.
He copied everything I did especially at the end it was like he was panic competing with me, he has no empathy and he said he didn't like that I laughed ao much and like I was too fun loving. He eventually started acting like me, he had no talent or hobbies so he tried to act like he had rhythm or happy but the joy I have the world didn't give it and the world can't take it and it also can't be mimicked you have to have it inside and he never understood that. He always asked me, how I act like nothing is happening like I didn't care because I am able to go through things with my head up high he couldn't handle anything and would get depressed andad when he didn't have money especially if I had money and he didn't. All I felt was Jealousy Competition Judgement Arrogance and Fakeness from him He hated me for being better than him
My husband is trying to divorce me and leave me with no money after 24 years together. He never wanted me to work, he didn’t want me to have any friends and I have never been put on the bank accounts. He got arrested for dv and now he is trying to make me homeless as revenge. I have no friends now and he says he is going to use all the money before divorce so there is nothing to split.
😢 i totally get it.Mine's trying to tell me that I'll have nothing. He'll squash the business after thirty three years of marriage.I supported him when I was twenty ...5 years up then he wanted me to stay home and raise children, or I built a business doing that. It was very lucrative, my last child graduated, and now he's trying to make me off myself or off me, there's somebody else he tried to drive me crazy already.He does not want to give me a dime
Hope you have a good attorney. They can put a freeze on the bank accounts. If you haven’t started yet, gather documents. And that includes tax documents. EVERYTHING.
I'm so sorry🫂 I was married to one for 32 years He left after my mother paid off our home and all our debt and then he says that he wants half of the house. Money that was never his It was my mother's money who pay for all our debt. Including his truck. And he wants half of everything. These people are sick. 😩💔
Thank you Lee for so Clearly putting into words what victims of narcissits k ow is going on but cant figure out on our own..You are a light in a dark dark tunnel. ❤
getting a third party, a man, to step in and tell the narc to stop contacting me and go through him, was the one thing that finally made him back down and this was after he gave up thousands, almost 10k just by refusing and wasting time, adding fees, he was stubborn to the point of self harm but when he knew that a mean enough man was on my side protecting me and enthusiastic about it and that i was in a safe place that is the ONLY time he backed down he scurried away now 2000 miles away good luck out there show no mercy
if you spend and connect a lot of time with somebody it's natural you start to act or speak in a kinda similar way, but with toxic and/or narcissistic people you can practically *feel* how fake it is, how forced and awkward it is, when they do or say things that don't make sense in a given context, but it's something you said or a way you do something, or clearly show they don't actually understand what they are copying (this one actually makes me angry tbh, because when it comes to them copying certain things about you, they end up just mocking something that is an actual, serious issue people deal with, all because of that need fot attention and validation)
Yes! Thank you 🙏🏽 I couldn’t put it into words but it comes off as mocking. It’s a way that I spot toxic/narcissistic behavior right away. Normal mirroring I understand especially being neurodivergent but abusive or toxic people mock.
I’m a huge Eagles fan and last year he all of a sudden went to work wearing my Eagles jacket acting like he’s a super fan that’s probably why we loss last year
He started listening to the same music as me. We are from different countries. He only cooked recipes from my country lol. My interest were his interest. He never traveled prior to me. He LITERALLY took the new chicks on the SAME VACATIONS I took him on when we started dating. I buy UNISEX perfumes. He bought the knock off versions lol. It was easy to tell when he was with someone new. He suddenly started using new phrases or had new interests lol. He started listening to sermons and gospel songs in his car. Side chick was a super christian lol What is worst, he convinced one of the side chicks to buy the same vehicle as mine. She suddenly started posting about loving to travel (even though she had never been anywhere but MIAMI). She even bought the SAME BREED DOG as mine. They are weird shape shifters.
Excellent information to hear but extremely hurtful. Fought for a uniformed family dynamic and now the spouse is doing the exact things I asked for. I made excuses & just thought he wasn't capable but after 20+ years realized why.
My bitter narcissistic baby daddy has stolen money and debit cards from me during relationship and after the relationship ended and still lies about it. He has no respect for boundaries and I'm a month sober of no contact with my narcissistic baby daddy
😩💯, It's terrible Mine stole $250,000 from my mother. When we confronted him he said that it was a gift and that's not true we had to get an attorney.💔
My baby daddy was shocked when he learned that I knew about his scamming theft ways cuz I had all my debit card accounts linked to my phone and I would receive text message alerts from Amazon
@@nifesshachamberlain7884 hey there!! Helpful assist from someone dealing with the same thing. DID U KNOW, because it is in fact SO COMMON, that u can, due to DV get a court order and CHANGE that SSN#? Do it. Get FREE
My ex narc copied my entire house decor. He hated taking off his shoes at the front door but low and behold in his 1st house at 42. You must take your shoes off. He also copied everyone bum, who gave him advice .
This part Im here for it Lee. im SICK 2 DEATH of us having to hear of men stealing our bodies in death, in inmate/relationships keeping us captive. I honestly believe some of these men having been incarcerated come out and recreate their own jails with us women as their cellies. We can be as anonymous to them, until we want our freedom.
He copies the way I speak/type, what I like, he copies the spaces I go into despite it being for people who aren't him, he'd copy my poses in photos, he even spent years slandering me while wearing my fucking glasses in his profile photos 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 Year 9 post discard, no contact still, still brainwashing others while cosplaying me.
My narc copied a lot of my interest but he copied mannerisms of flying monkeys. Odd and annoying ones. They also worshipped their sibling and lived vicariously through them. The envy was crazy. I realized it was because he had no sense of self. Actually quite sad.
Aye i commented about this on one of your lives a few days ago! My narcissistic baby daddy up and moved to England, one of the many places I have travelled to and spent months at a time in right before i met him. We were 20 when we met and we were together for 5 years. After I left him for cheating on me when i was freshly postpartum, he joined the air force bc he couldnt get a job and had nowhere to live. He put all of the places I have travelled to on his dream sheet and of course somehow got England. He then used this to try and get me to marry him and move there with him and I had to stay strong and tell him no. Welp, good thing I told him no because a woman reached out to me telling me he cheated on her multiple times while also planning to marry her. Now, just a few months later hes dating a new girl thats in school to be a psychologist & hes taking her to all the places I have travelled to / told him i wanted to travel to & he put the same songs hes sent me in a public playlist for her lol. I asked him about it and he said “Well I learned to love from you” to me, that means hes aware of what hes doing. I dont think he wants us back (thank god) but its not fair hes using my likes and interests / personality traits to get someone else to fall in love with him. He claims hes changed and honestly is putting on a good show but i truly feel as though hes just manipulating her and she doesnt know it yet. Worst of all, he has been pretending to be a dad only when shes around will he facetime our kid. Does anyone know when they will stop pretending and just move on? I was hoping his move across the ocean would make him forget about us.
He might stop bothering y’all once your kid starts to form their own personality and especially when they learn the word NO 😂narcissists don’t like when kids or people in general have their own separate personalities,wants and needs. He may still try to be Disney dad for validation of people around him tho but that’s more rare . If you move on and get into a healthy relationship,emphasis on healthy, he’ll most likely leave you alone too in that situation. Especially if the new guy is about protecting you and being good to your child.
@@PR-cv1if Luckily I have been in a healthy relationship for a year now and he takes the best care of my daughter and me. My bd was mad about it for a very very long time and even threatened to pew pew my bf. He seemed to be good now that he got this new supply 3 months ago but now is trying to all of a sudden get custody of our kid.
They mirror you with the new supply as well, I couldn’t believe that (both ) new supply were in love with the same movie and singer that’s my favorite, they both had it scrawled all over their fb pages , I was in shock but now I understand 🙏🏻
But in the beginning in the love bombing stage, I remember him writing me a poem and he all other women. Are just shades of Gray compared to you? Then I laughed, I thought, for sure, he'd read it somewhere or said something. And he got mad, he still gets mad about it to this day. As he treats me like s*** on the daily
Sometimes when we have what he considered a conversation he'd sound like me use my terms to explain himself it was bizarre.. This is why ive always said he had no soul just an empty shell..
My ex still goes to the laundromat down the street from me. He lives no where near me. He probably takes his new supplies to my favorite place at the beach where I live. He is sick.😢
Literalllyyy my daughter called me laughing that he switched up his eating habits to the same thing I’ve done for years lol and went bought the same Groceries and I’m not even around. Nor did he eat that stuff. I told her send me a picture I have neverrrr seen him vacuum and I kept a super clean house. I juts imagined he wasn’t doing dishes and stuff lol wth
Thank you lee❤ you're the best When I walked away from my Ex narcissistic family and ex boyfriend , I recalled all my Identity and blessings & Everything And what no contact⚔️🦁✌️
I 100% saw this when I met my ex I said I wanted to be a nurse, he claimed he wanted to be a doctor and that never happened so went for EMT/ caregiver route since I was a CNA before I became a nurse. Also my interests: Starbucks/ and rooftop dining 😂 wthell happened
Also on a totally side note,I recall this vividly because of certain nuances of the event. He brought me to a fertility clinic that he used to bring his ex wife (older supply) to. I had no issues at that time and my lack of interest in sex stemmed from the constant bickering and fighting happening at home. One can't just demand sex at the end of a whole day of gaslighting, fighting,and name-calling. In the end I found out he was doing that to prove smth to his former wife that he had once again visited this particular fertility clinic with me. Thank God I had this habit of writing in my diary and I knew exactly when this happened so he couldn't gaslight me. It was all done in an attempt to undermine me. He was never in love with me. He was in love with his former supply....and I'm fine with that. But why bring an innocent child into this world and abandon her though? What was her fault in all of this? What was my fault in all of this? But as usual,a narcissistic person would never have the answer to these because it's all about THEM. They can't care less bout what you're going through. By the way,his older supply is a narcissist too. So... Good luck. 👍
Yeah. All the time. I used to do this part time (well mostly freelance) kinda job from my hometown in Singapore before I moved to the states handling domestic helps. Suddenly he became interested in that and wanted to do the same thing. I have a habit of writing 'Kind Regards' at the end of every E-mail and suddenly he would be doing the same thing. He thought I wasn't noticing all this...but I was. I also think it's a form of silent mockery. Like they want you to know they are "copying you" and also not have you call them out. Of course all this happened SUCH a long time back but I still remember it today as clear as day. It's crazy the limits these people would go to. Like....who does that? ,🤔😑
I’ve only been watching you for a little over a year but I didn’t know you had a twin brother? Is your brother a narcissist if that’s okay to ask? If not, how did that affect you and your guy’s relationship? Why did you be come one and he didn’t if that’s the case?
Yip see I would normally feel sorry for him coz shit y do u feel like that or think that shit I'm here you got me , trust me I dont fall for just anybody .. but now knowing what I know it makes sense . I'm exactly what he was needing .. Even though I've come to terms with All the Kaos that happened these videos help with healing g & keep focused on staying on track to Normal Lifestyle for the Sane & Able 😂😂😂 Thanks Lee good luck all make the right choices stop getting fooled let's go!!❤
I’d like to know the answer to that too. It’s been 15 years and almost 8 of those years with zero contact. He’s moved into other supply so I wonder if he’s gradually dropped some of my old personality traits since he’s cycled through other sources of supply. I’m sure they keep a lil bit of everyone though
Yes, my EX Narcissist mom and sister, are definitely jealous of me,It is so sad that these generational curses patterns, Is ruin Families they do not want to better themselves to keep the family, as they say no contact⚔️✌️🦁🔥🔥🔥
You are absolutely right when I went no contact with my EX narcissistic family, mom & sister , Her facebook page came up, and The school I went to, Came up on her page😂 she went too A whole another schools hilarious😂
Star Wars / Darth Vader SUPERFAN HERE. my narc didn't gv 5 fcks about STAR Wars lol. Had NEVER even watched. But after watching me meet ABSOLUTE STRANGERS and us being so ANIMATED about it IT DROVE HIM CRAZY. HE NOT ONLYBWATCHED EVERY SINGLE MOVIE (FIRST 6 AND THE ANIMATED CLONE WARS) he googled EVERY CHARACTER. Yall... THE MF STILL HATES STAR WARS but knows just enough to have a decent conversation with other fans ... I'm a SUPERFAN.. I KNOW THE CANON NON CANON MANGA.. ECT .. THE WORKS... I know he's out there somewhere getting on a true fans last nerve🤣🤣🤣🤣
My mother quit smoking and went to the gym thx to me. Could not steal my higher education bc. she is too dumb. But made my aggressive like she was when she was younger. Not anymore! Could not steal my IQ, my strength and consequent manner.😂
THANK YOU!!🙏 so much for making this video Being honest and vulnerable with us. Saying personal things about you It can't be easy I appreciate you very much ❤️ because you have to be proud of the person you're becoming changing for the better and helping others.❤️🩹❤️❤️👏
It's envy, which is worse than jealousy.
Took me years to realize this. Soooo true!!!!
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@@ebonyapplepy3906 You’re absolutely right…..
THIS! Ugh. They try to erase you from the equation that is YOU.
They can’t become you, but provide a cheap imitation. They are performative.
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Mirroring: imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.
That’s how they attack all of there new supply. For real the supply has fallen in love with you not them. They have no personality they have studied yours.
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Thank you Lee ❤️ This is so true.
I watched my ex over the years try to mirror other people , I've even called him out on it a few times.
His new / old supply doesn't know that she fell in love with me because he was mirroring me .
You’re welcome
I think the issue is that they take the elements they like about you as their own and then act like really ungrateful to your contributions.
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I definitely need to hear this one. I had 2 girls dye their hair blonde and it was obvious it was because of me because they wouldnt stop trying to pick on me, and everyone was noticing it on both occasions. One even started wearing eyeliner like i wear it. It was bizarre.
My husband’s ex a narc or BPD copied even the last two cars I bought.
stay empowered
He copied everything I did especially at the end it was like he was panic competing with me, he has no empathy and he said he didn't like that I laughed ao much and like I was too fun loving. He eventually started acting like me, he had no talent or hobbies so he tried to act like he had rhythm or happy but the joy I have the world didn't give it and the world can't take it and it also can't be mimicked you have to have it inside and he never understood that. He always asked me, how I act like nothing is happening like I didn't care because I am able to go through things with my head up high he couldn't handle anything and would get depressed andad when he didn't have money especially if I had money and he didn't.
All I felt was
Jealousy
Competition
Judgement
Arrogance and
Fakeness from him
He hated me for being better than him
That was how my Nasty Narc husband was kept silently competing with me….
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I still have a hard time wrapping my brain around it, but they say imitation is the sincerest form of flattery... and often an unintended compliment.
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My husband is trying to divorce me and leave me with no money after 24 years together. He never wanted me to work, he didn’t want me to have any friends and I have never been put on the bank accounts. He got arrested for dv and now he is trying to make me homeless as revenge. I have no friends now and he says he is going to use all the money before divorce so there is nothing to split.
😢 i totally get it.Mine's trying to tell me that I'll have nothing. He'll squash the business after thirty three years of marriage.I supported him when I was twenty ...5 years up then he wanted me to stay home and raise children, or I built a business doing that. It was very lucrative, my last child graduated, and now he's trying to make me off myself or off me, there's somebody else he tried to drive me crazy already.He does not want to give me a dime
Hope you have a good attorney. They can put a freeze on the bank accounts. If you haven’t started yet, gather documents. And that includes tax documents. EVERYTHING.
I'm so sorry🫂 I was married to one for 32 years He left after my mother paid off our home and all our debt and then he says that he wants half of the house. Money that was never his It was my mother's money who pay for all our debt. Including his truck. And he wants half of everything. These people are sick. 😩💔
Yeah, he spent 70000 cash in one month. In November bought a truck, a nice R. V, the living room set a bedroom set a huge new back porch
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Thank you Lee for so Clearly putting into words what victims of narcissits k ow is going on but cant figure out on our own..You are a light in a dark dark tunnel. ❤
you’re welcome
Seen them copying regular daily patterns and likes, also get close to yo friends and making u aloof from them. Madness.
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getting a third party, a man, to step in and tell the narc to stop contacting me and go through him, was the one thing that finally made him back down
and this was after he gave up thousands, almost 10k just by refusing and wasting time, adding fees, he was stubborn to the point of self harm
but when he knew
that a mean enough man
was on my side
protecting me and enthusiastic about it
and that i was in a safe place
that is the ONLY time he backed down
he scurried away now
2000 miles away
good luck out there
show no mercy
empty inside with no authenticity.
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if you spend and connect a lot of time with somebody it's natural you start to act or speak in a kinda similar way, but with toxic and/or narcissistic people you can practically *feel* how fake it is, how forced and awkward it is, when they do or say things that don't make sense in a given context, but it's something you said or a way you do something, or clearly show they don't actually understand what they are copying (this one actually makes me angry tbh, because when it comes to them copying certain things about you, they end up just mocking something that is an actual, serious issue people deal with, all because of that need fot attention and validation)
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Yes! Thank you 🙏🏽 I couldn’t put it into words but it comes off as mocking. It’s a way that I spot toxic/narcissistic behavior right away. Normal mirroring I understand especially being neurodivergent but abusive or toxic people mock.
I’m a huge Eagles fan and last year he all of a sudden went to work wearing my Eagles jacket acting like he’s a super fan that’s probably why we loss last year
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He started listening to the same music as me. We are from different countries. He only cooked recipes from my country lol. My interest were his interest. He never traveled prior to me. He LITERALLY took the new chicks on the SAME VACATIONS I took him on when we started dating. I buy UNISEX perfumes. He bought the knock off versions lol. It was easy to tell when he was with someone new. He suddenly started using new phrases or had new interests lol. He started listening to sermons and gospel songs in his car. Side chick was a super christian lol
What is worst, he convinced one of the side chicks to buy the same vehicle as mine. She suddenly started posting about loving to travel (even though she had never been anywhere but MIAMI). She even bought the SAME BREED DOG as mine. They are weird shape shifters.
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Excellent information to hear but extremely hurtful. Fought for a uniformed family dynamic and now the spouse is doing the exact things I asked for. I made excuses & just thought he wasn't capable but after 20+ years realized why.
stay strong
7:15 thank you for your vulnerability it’s extremely validating to hear that
You’re welcome
My bitter narcissistic baby daddy has stolen money and debit cards from me during relationship and after the relationship ended and still lies about it. He has no respect for boundaries and I'm a month sober of no contact with my narcissistic baby daddy
😩💯, It's terrible Mine stole $250,000 from my mother. When we confronted him he said that it was a gift and that's not true we had to get an attorney.💔
My baby daddy was shocked when he learned that I knew about his scamming theft ways cuz I had all my debit card accounts linked to my phone and I would receive text message alerts from Amazon
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@@nifesshachamberlain7884 hey there!! Helpful assist from someone dealing with the same thing. DID U KNOW, because it is in fact SO COMMON, that u can, due to DV get a court order and CHANGE that SSN#? Do it. Get FREE
Made me feel less than for loving him
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Important message, thank you Lee
you’re welcome
My ex narc copied my entire house decor. He hated taking off his shoes at the front door but low and behold in his 1st house at 42. You must take your shoes off. He also copied everyone bum, who gave him advice .
oh my goodness
I’m literally experiencing this now. It’s so weird.
This part Im here for it Lee. im SICK 2 DEATH of us having to hear of men stealing our bodies in death, in inmate/relationships keeping us captive. I honestly believe some of these men having been incarcerated come out and recreate their own jails with us women as their cellies. We can be as anonymous to them, until we want our freedom.
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He copies the way I speak/type, what I like, he copies the spaces I go into despite it being for people who aren't him, he'd copy my poses in photos, he even spent years slandering me while wearing my fucking glasses in his profile photos 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 Year 9 post discard, no contact still, still brainwashing others while cosplaying me.
trying to be you
On point!!!
Thank you Lee. I love you very much for your honesty, humor and empathy! 🙏😎
My narc copied a lot of my interest but he copied mannerisms of flying monkeys. Odd and annoying ones. They also worshipped their sibling and lived vicariously through them. The envy was crazy. I realized it was because he had no sense of self. Actually quite sad.
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Aye i commented about this on one of your lives a few days ago!
My narcissistic baby daddy up and moved to England, one of the many places I have travelled to and spent months at a time in right before i met him.
We were 20 when we met and we were together for 5 years. After I left him for cheating on me when i was freshly postpartum, he joined the air force bc he couldnt get a job and had nowhere to live. He put all of the places I have travelled to on his dream sheet and of course somehow got England. He then used this to try and get me to marry him and move there with him and I had to stay strong and tell him no.
Welp, good thing I told him no because a woman reached out to me telling me he cheated on her multiple times while also planning to marry her.
Now, just a few months later hes dating a new girl thats in school to be a psychologist & hes taking her to all the places I have travelled to / told him i wanted to travel to & he put the same songs hes sent me in a public playlist for her lol. I asked him about it and he said “Well I learned to love from you” to me, that means hes aware of what hes doing. I dont think he wants us back (thank god) but its not fair hes using my likes and interests / personality traits to get someone else to fall in love with him.
He claims hes changed and honestly is putting on a good show but i truly feel as though hes just manipulating her and she doesnt know it yet. Worst of all, he has been pretending to be a dad only when shes around will he facetime our kid.
Does anyone know when they will stop pretending and just move on? I was hoping his move across the ocean would make him forget about us.
Yall i forgot to mention the new supply has the same name as me
He might stop bothering y’all once your kid starts to form their own personality and especially when they learn the word NO 😂narcissists don’t like when kids or people in general have their own separate personalities,wants and needs. He may still try to be Disney dad for validation of people around him tho but that’s more rare . If you move on and get into a healthy relationship,emphasis on healthy, he’ll most likely leave you alone too in that situation. Especially if the new guy is about protecting you and being good to your child.
@@PR-cv1if Luckily I have been in a healthy relationship for a year now and he takes the best care of my daughter and me. My bd was mad about it for a very very long time and even threatened to pew pew my bf. He seemed to be good now that he got this new supply 3 months ago but now is trying to all of a sudden get custody of our kid.
They mirror you with the new supply as well, I couldn’t believe that (both ) new supply were in love with the same movie and singer that’s my favorite, they both had it scrawled all over their fb pages , I was in shock but now I understand 🙏🏻
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The yawn when said "I am more identity." 😂 Still , I applaud you for humbling working on yourself and helping others.
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But in the beginning in the love bombing stage, I remember him writing me a poem and he all other women. Are just shades of Gray compared to you? Then I laughed, I thought, for sure, he'd read it somewhere or said something. And he got mad, he still gets mad about it to this day. As he treats me like s*** on the daily
oh man :(
Mirrored me and moved on to a new supply
Which they will repeat with the new supply.
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Sometimes when we have what he considered a conversation he'd sound like me use my terms to explain himself it was bizarre.. This is why ive always said he had no soul just an empty shell..
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Thank you for explaining us the NPD, Lee! 🙏❤️
you’re welcome
My ex still goes to the laundromat down the street from me. He lives no where near me. He probably takes his new supplies to my favorite place at the beach where I live. He is sick.😢
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Literalllyyy my daughter called me laughing that he switched up his eating habits to the same thing I’ve done for years lol and went bought the same Groceries and I’m not even around. Nor did he eat that stuff. I told her send me a picture I have neverrrr seen him vacuum and I kept a super clean house. I juts imagined he wasn’t doing dishes and stuff lol wth
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Thank you lee❤ you're the best When I walked away from my Ex narcissistic family and ex boyfriend , I recalled all my Identity and blessings & Everything And what no contact⚔️🦁✌️
You are so welcome
7:45 very… demure ✨
very
I 100% saw this when I met my ex I said I wanted to be a nurse, he claimed he wanted to be a doctor and that never happened so went for EMT/ caregiver route since I was a CNA before I became a nurse. Also my interests: Starbucks/ and rooftop dining 😂 wthell happened
Notis on! 🔥🔥
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Also on a totally side note,I recall this vividly because of certain nuances of the event. He brought me to a fertility clinic that he used to bring his ex wife (older supply) to. I had no issues at that time and my lack of interest in sex stemmed from the constant bickering and fighting happening at home. One can't just demand sex at the end of a whole day of gaslighting, fighting,and name-calling. In the end I found out he was doing that to prove smth to his former wife that he had once again visited this particular fertility clinic with me. Thank God I had this habit of writing in my diary and I knew exactly when this happened so he couldn't gaslight me. It was all done in an attempt to undermine me. He was never in love with me. He was in love with his former supply....and I'm fine with that. But why bring an innocent child into this world and abandon her though? What was her fault in all of this? What was my fault in all of this? But as usual,a narcissistic person would never have the answer to these because it's all about THEM. They can't care less bout what you're going through. By the way,his older supply is a narcissist too. So... Good luck. 👍
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Yeah. All the time. I used to do this part time (well mostly freelance) kinda job from my hometown in Singapore before I moved to the states handling domestic helps. Suddenly he became interested in that and wanted to do the same thing. I have a habit of writing 'Kind Regards' at the end of every E-mail and suddenly he would be doing the same thing. He thought I wasn't noticing all this...but I was. I also think it's a form of silent mockery. Like they want you to know they are "copying you" and also not have you call them out. Of course all this happened SUCH a long time back but I still remember it today as clear as day. It's crazy the limits these people would go to. Like....who does that? ,🤔😑
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I’ve only been watching you for a little over a year but I didn’t know you had a twin brother? Is your brother a narcissist if that’s okay to ask? If not, how did that affect you and your guy’s relationship? Why did you be come one and he didn’t if that’s the case?
He discussed this in another video. His twin brother does not have NPD.
@@phytosfaves do you know what the video was called more or less?
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Yip see I would normally feel sorry for him coz shit y do u feel like that or think that shit I'm here you got me , trust me I dont fall for just anybody .. but now knowing what I know it makes sense . I'm exactly what he was needing .. Even though I've come to terms with All the Kaos that happened these videos help with healing g & keep focused on staying on track to Normal Lifestyle for the Sane & Able 😂😂😂 Thanks Lee good luck all make the right choices stop getting fooled let's go!!❤
How long can they steal you energy/personality if you have gone no contact? Is it indefinitely?
I’d like to know the answer to that too. It’s been 15 years and almost 8 of those years with zero contact. He’s moved into other supply so I wonder if he’s gradually dropped some of my old personality traits since he’s cycled through other sources of supply. I’m sure they keep a lil bit of everyone though
depends
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Yes, my EX Narcissist mom and sister, are definitely jealous of me,It is so sad that these generational curses patterns, Is ruin Families they do not want to better themselves to keep the family, as they say no contact⚔️✌️🦁🔥🔥🔥
I'm sorry you had to go through that. 🙏🏽
You are absolutely right when I went no contact with my EX narcissistic family, mom & sister , Her facebook page came up, and The school I went to, Came up on her page😂 she went too A whole another schools hilarious😂
Oh man. Wth
Please talk about why narcissists stealh/hold onto your pictures
A trophy of their victims.Maybe they're sick
This is strange, but true. They project a story around the pictures. The narrative is false. 🤔
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He has already. They keep pictures as trophies. They look back on them as memorabilia.
Star Wars / Darth Vader SUPERFAN HERE. my narc didn't gv 5 fcks about STAR Wars lol. Had NEVER even watched. But after watching me meet ABSOLUTE STRANGERS and us being so ANIMATED about it IT DROVE HIM CRAZY. HE NOT ONLYBWATCHED EVERY SINGLE MOVIE (FIRST 6 AND THE ANIMATED CLONE WARS) he googled EVERY CHARACTER. Yall... THE MF STILL HATES STAR WARS but knows just enough to have a decent conversation with other fans ... I'm a SUPERFAN.. I KNOW THE CANON NON CANON MANGA.. ECT .. THE WORKS... I know he's out there somewhere getting on a true fans last nerve🤣🤣🤣🤣
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So many 👻 im confused who is the 😈
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Hey Lee have the flu 🥶🤧 but im catching up
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@MentalHealness I been sick for a few days but been working a lot headed in now I'm working on my 9th day at work still gotta keep going
Twin brother! Are you identical and is your twin a narcissist?
he's not
My mother quit smoking and went to the gym thx to me.
Could not steal my higher education bc. she is too dumb.
But made my aggressive like she was when she was younger.
Not anymore! Could not steal my IQ, my strength and consequent manner.😂
protect your peace
Mirror image
Amen..Copy cats.
You are a twin? IDEntical fraternal ?
fraternal
@ that’s interesting 🤨 I always wondered about narcissism in twins 👯♂️
Hello
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so many yawns
Could be tired but could also be meds. I was on antidepressants before and it made me yawn like crazy and clench my jaw. It was annoying.
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THANK YOU!!🙏 so much for making this video Being honest and vulnerable with us. Saying personal things about you It can't be easy I appreciate you very much ❤️ because you have to be proud of the person you're becoming changing for the better and helping others.❤️🩹❤️❤️👏
❤️🩹 You’re so welcomme