It makes me so happy that her reaction to being noticed in public is to be excited and happy because it means people love her and her work and that she's super friendly about it. I just hope nobody invades her personal space or anything like that. Like, if you ever see someone you admire, please keep in mind, they are still a person, who likely does not know you, even though you know about them, and they have a personal life outside what you know them for. Be courteous and respect people's boundaries.
nah fam I practically know every detail of jordan fisher’s life from the minute he was adopted which is like 17 years of knowledge of this man. and every eingle thing he’s acted in, every company he’s worked with, hsi favorite oreo flavor, favorite color, child’s name, his birthday, EVERYTHING. im not obsessed I promise
I'm actually friends with somebody famous and they always complain about fans that recognize them but they never say hi and they kinda just follow them
Your channel in unique (at least the channels I watch) in the decorating genre. You don't spend the full time talking about decorating. You give us stories and I love that.
@@mattmurdock5424 In your depression in realizing this, you try to cut a piece out of yourself, only to find that your knife is also made of cake. You turn to your dog, who isn’t moving. You try to pet him, but his body simply squishes down. He, too, is a cake.
Glad you’re getting public recognition! You completely deserve it, it’s crazy how you’ve gone so far in so little time, have a great rest of your day/night!
I love that in most of your story's Dave shouts you out to other people when they ask if it's you😂 he's like "ah yes.. my amazing wife makes amazing cakes."
Her hair! 😱It is always so beautiful and I don't know how she does it. She never let's us down with entertainment and style! She is amazing at what she does❤❤❤
Please make a hyper realistic cake of a wooden chess set! It would be so cool! Then you could play it with a friend or your husband and eat it afterwards :)
I once encountered a celebrity who came into the store I worked at and I had a similar interaction to the ones you’ve described. Except she was really shy and didn’t really want to engage. I felt pretty embarrassed for being excited, and guilty for creating what for her may have been an uncomfortable situation. I’m happy to hear you’re excited and grateful to be recognized. Must be a good feeling!
I could tell which pillow was a cake on thumbnail, because I was somewhat sure you hadn't made a velvet looking frosting. So there's your challenge: velvet
@@themadlass5584 weird fact you reminded me of: in those fancy expensive furniture stores they can order you any shape pillow in any real leather you want.
I just watched you on Buddy vs Duff! I was so surprised but it was really cool to see you on TV! I feel like you added positivity to the atmosphere. And the 7-headed rat king was super cool!
Congrats, Natalie! Great to hear your happy to be recognized in public. A true talent, and an interesting one at that. The amount of detail and effort you put into a *cake* is just incredible, unimaginable, unforgettable, and purely just amazing. Keep up the awesome work! ♥
i really enjoy your videos. its like im talking to a friend and they're talking about how their day was or things they've ran into! Its always a relaxing yet fun experience to watch your videos!
This makes me think of those classical marble statues where the figure is reclining on a bed - they look so comfy that it can be hard to remember that its actually made of stone.
I love how humble you are. You could totally be like "well if course people recognize me, I'm an artistic diva!" But instead you're very gracious and appreciative. But for real you're an amazing artist so you shouldn't be surprised when people are excited to meet you and know who you are! My 8 and 6 year old daughters frequently go around quoting your opening line... "My name is Natalie Sideserf and I make cakes that don't look like cakes." It's so cute!
I enjoy giving flyby compliments, it also removes the need to figure out appropriate small talk when you just want to be nice to someone. Glad I'm part of the new crowd, you have a GREAT presentation if you haven't started a Patreon please consider it because it's great for connection and you deserve professional experience! You have great scripting/speaking quality
I started watching you and your husband on Texas Cake House. I was so excited when you joined Buddy vs. Duff. Now I get to see more of your amazing cakes here on YT. You continue to push the bounds of what can be done with cake and definitely deserve that recognition.
Well that's kind of my point - I too have guesses but maybe she does something we don't expect like picks a different neighbor and takes it to them or something
"Hi, I'm Blain and I watch Natalie Sideserf make cakes!" And thank you for making those cakes, the shorts thru the week hold me over for every Monday. ❤️
I’m glad you’re getting recognized!! People around my city have begun recognizing me from my TikTok channel and I have only like 1600 followers so I never really expected that. It’s super cool at first but also a tad terrifying the more I think about it. Luckily they’ve all been really kind so far but it’s still scary
I think that's the first thing I'd recognize about you as well, I feel you have a very distinctive voice. In your videos you always sound happy and positive, it's very lovely.
First, I adore your attitude towards things! Like, you are always just this little ray of energetic sunlight! 🌞😁 Second, you for sure deserve the recognition! You are amazingly talented! Keep doing, what you're doing, I love your videos! (Although they always make me crave cake! 🍰🍩😅 Third, I'd love to meet you, though I highly doubt, that would ever happen, as I live in Denmark, but here's to hoping! 🇩🇰 😅 And fourth, I make is a personal point, to always compliment people, if I find them pretty, or like what they're wearing, or whatever it may be. My friends are embarrassed by this, cause I do not do the the fly by compliment (as you call it). But honestly, I think we could all use compliments from strangers every now and then! 🥰
This is a big reason I enjoy your channel still, even as it's grown to *huge* (while I'm not an "old hat" subscriber, you hadn't reached a million when I first found you): you're still as friendly, slightly awkward and nerdy as you were then and haven't fallen into the trap of changing who you are. I think this is a great way, btw, to solve the issue of "how do I make yet another hyper realistic cake and make it entertaining"; IE: not talking about the cake (as much) and more talking around it.
Believe me, When I talk with my friends I ask, " Do you know the TH-cam channel, Sideserf Cake Studio?" And they all start talking about how amazing and cool they are! You are very talented!!
1:49 I had wondered for a while what you do with the bits that you shave off your cakes. It’s good to know that even those shaved off bits don’t go to waste. What a cool way to use left over pieces. 😃👍👍
I love how you re-used the cake that you cut off! 😁 And i always get so hungry when i see you cutting the cake! 😋 I think the green buttercream looks cool and i ever saw someone saying that that was ''His'' cake- but i saw green buttercream like yours and i knew: Thats the one from Sideserf Cake studio! 🥴
You should totally do a Q and A video. I have 5 questions: 1. What country and city do u live in? 2. What is your favorite color? 3. What is ur favorite food (other than cake)? 4. Do u ever get fed up of eating cake? 5. How old r u? love ya ♥️🍰🎂
I have been a fan of yours for YEARSSSS. More recently I’ve followed your TH-cam account! I wish you so much sucess, also… that show on Netflix is it cake, I’m patiently waiting to see you on it!
I first saw you on Food networks!! I love watching baking shows and I often see you! When I stumbled on one of your videos on Facebook I immediately went to YT to subscribe.❤❤ I just want to say that you made my childhood.
What i love best is that your husband is super proud of you. He does the Unveiling proudly. Yes, it is good to give feedback to people who do things to make life's journey pleasant. God bless you, Natalie. I love Watching you all the way from Nigeria. 🇳🇬🇳🇬
When I first saw Natalie on TV, was when me and mum where watching one of Duff Goldman's shows, when she decorated the cakes it was as if the cakes came to life! When I first saw that she had a TH-cam Chanel, I was super excited. It was so cool to see more of her wonderful work! ❤😊
Funny true story that i was reminded of when you mentioned the "fly by". A few years ago I was at a store looking at something near a door. A young man said really quickly as he went out the door, "Your hair is beautiful". I am 60 & my hair is past my waist & silver. I was totally caught off guard & didn't even have time to say thank you! So i guess that was a fly by compliment. Made me feel good! 😊
It makes me like a TH-camr or a celebrity more when you can tell they are sincerely grateful and appreciative their supporters and fans. I really get that from you and I think you are an awesome person! You would be so cool to hang out with ♥️
i feel like you should design a mug where it has a “slice” look taken out of it, and inside is your cake. It could say “Sideserf Cake Studio” on it, too
This makes me so happy how excited you are to meet people who recognize you just like I’m sure they are! This makes me really want to live in an area where I’d recognize people from the internet. If I ever see you in real life I know id have to say hi :)
Well I just started my addiction to your videos about 2 days ago and I showed my 7 year olds the boot cake, they immediately said “Oh I know her!!!” At the same time in sync lol 😂 then they said “well not know her, KNOW her…but we watch her!” 😂 we love your cakes !!!!
This cake is awesome as always! I think if I saw you in person it would be nerves that would keep me from saying something to you! I have always thought you looked like Sabrina Carpenter and I just love her and you. I think you are extremely talented and very down to earth. I’m so glad there are people that approach you.....I make jewelry and sometimes (not often) I get people that say “hey, you’re the jewelry lady”. I makes me feel good too, especially if they bought something I made and they are still loving it. Have a great day Natalie! Your cake sculptures are AMAZING!!! 😄💙🐬
I do fly-by complements. I love seeing the surprise on someone's face as I'm just like, "I love your hair~!" as I'm walking by or I'll say it to a cashier just as I'm leaving. I like to think I'm making someone's day or perhaps making a bad day a little better.
Day 12 of asking if you could make a pool noddle or towel cake. Please make an open towel with wrinkles as a challenge and the pool noodle could have an awesome texture
I wish i lived in the same country as Natalie … it would be awesome to meet her in real life! I watch your videos all the time! They are amazing and super fun to watch!
It makes me so happy that her reaction to being noticed in public is to be excited and happy because it means people love her and her work and that she's super friendly about it. I just hope nobody invades her personal space or anything like that. Like, if you ever see someone you admire, please keep in mind, they are still a person, who likely does not know you, even though you know about them, and they have a personal life outside what you know them for. Be courteous and respect people's boundaries.
nah fam I practically know every detail of jordan fisher’s life from the minute he was adopted which is like 17 years of knowledge of this man. and every eingle thing he’s acted in, every company he’s worked with, hsi favorite oreo flavor, favorite color, child’s name, his birthday, EVERYTHING.
im not obsessed I promise
@@kaleiah2800 seems like you’re obsessed ngl
I'm actually friends with somebody famous and they always complain about fans that recognize them but they never say hi and they kinda just follow them
@@Love__Art WHO DOES THAT.
Your channel in unique (at least the channels I watch) in the decorating genre. You don't spend the full time talking about decorating. You give us stories and I love that.
Same
If I saw you in real life, I’d think you’d be a very realistic cake
And then you see that the area your at is made of cake
@@Yuun0o__ Then I would realize that I am made out of cake
@@mattmurdock5424 In your depression in realizing this, you try to cut a piece out of yourself, only to find that your knife is also made of cake. You turn to your dog, who isn’t moving. You try to pet him, but his body simply squishes down. He, too, is a cake.
@COSMETIC WAVE then you realise the air is cake too
@@fluffy_ and you cant breathe because everything is dead
Glad you’re getting public recognition! You completely deserve it, it’s crazy how you’ve gone so far in so little time, have a great rest of your day/night!
I can’t believe In only 4 months, you’ve gone from 1 million to 3 million. You definitely deserve the success.
She’s growing so fast and I couldn’t be happier for her ❤
agreed
I completely agree she deserves success
I love that in most of your story's Dave shouts you out to other people when they ask if it's you😂 he's like "ah yes.. my amazing wife makes amazing cakes."
Her hair! 😱It is always so beautiful and I don't know how she does it. She never let's us down with entertainment and style! She is amazing at what she does❤❤❤
Please make a hyper realistic cake of a wooden chess set! It would be so cool! Then you could play it with a friend or your husband and eat it afterwards :)
Yeah please!!!
Love this idea!!!!!!
Oms yes please!
@@Mamaofallthings ikr
Yeah! Every time a piece gets eliminated, you must eat it 😃
I swear that you get better at every cake!!!! This pillow is fantastic :D (And i am very glad that people are being kind to you, you are awesome!)
I once encountered a celebrity who came into the store I worked at and I had a similar interaction to the ones you’ve described. Except she was really shy and didn’t really want to engage. I felt pretty embarrassed for being excited, and guilty for creating what for her may have been an uncomfortable situation. I’m happy to hear you’re excited and grateful to be recognized. Must be a good feeling!
what celebrity was it?
You're so upbeat and positive, and you're videos bring me such joy. Thank you!
I told my local bakery about you. They were addicted to your channel the last time I saw. Your talent and your husbands filming are wonderful.
i love the cakes you make and we are just from watching the one you made a pillow cake we love you and god bless you and your tallents amem
I could tell which pillow was a cake on thumbnail, because I was somewhat sure you hadn't made a velvet looking frosting.
So there's your challenge: velvet
Oh man. It’s game over for everyone if she does that. 😂 But in a lot of people’s defense, there are pillows that are made of “pleather”.
@@themadlass5584 weird fact you reminded me of: in those fancy expensive furniture stores they can order you any shape pillow in any real leather you want.
@@themadlass5584 true, she could put the cake next to a leather, pleather, or vinyl pillow, and it would be really hard to tell which was cake
@@pastaisgood6681 Really? That really is a weird fact, but also kind of funny. 😂
Another weird fact that you reminded me of: *ahem* Pasta is good. 😂
@@veggiet2009 Yep. 😂
You are so genuine and sweet! You deserve everything
Glad you're getting recognition in public Natalie! :)
I just watched you on Buddy vs Duff! I was so surprised but it was really cool to see you on TV! I feel like you added positivity to the atmosphere. And the 7-headed rat king was super cool!
I love that youre getting recognized for your talents ❤
Ikr!
why are you everywhere
@@yahellevy IKR
@@yahellevy fr
Congrats, Natalie! Great to hear your happy to be recognized in public. A true talent, and an interesting one at that. The amount of detail and effort you put into a *cake* is just incredible, unimaginable, unforgettable, and purely just amazing. Keep up the awesome work! ♥
i really enjoy your videos. its like im talking to a friend and they're talking about how their day was or things they've ran into! Its always a relaxing yet fun experience to watch your videos!
This makes me think of those classical marble statues where the figure is reclining on a bed - they look so comfy that it can be hard to remember that its actually made of stone.
These fan interactions are so wholesome they made MY day!
I love how humble you are. You could totally be like "well if course people recognize me, I'm an artistic diva!" But instead you're very gracious and appreciative. But for real you're an amazing artist so you shouldn't be surprised when people are excited to meet you and know who you are! My 8 and 6 year old daughters frequently go around quoting your opening line... "My name is Natalie Sideserf and I make cakes that don't look like cakes." It's so cute!
I don’t know what I love more… the amazing realistic cakes or your super fun story time! 😃💚
You deserved to be known! You have an amazing gift and bless your ❤️ for sharing it with all of us!! 😀
I enjoy giving flyby compliments, it also removes the need to figure out appropriate small talk when you just want to be nice to someone. Glad I'm part of the new crowd, you have a GREAT presentation if you haven't started a Patreon please consider it because it's great for connection and you deserve professional experience! You have great scripting/speaking quality
I started watching you and your husband on Texas Cake House. I was so excited when you joined Buddy vs. Duff. Now I get to see more of your amazing cakes here on YT. You continue to push the bounds of what can be done with cake and definitely deserve that recognition.
You are so nice to people, you totally deserve your popularity ❤
I admire not only the art but also the artist!
(you and your cakes are always so beautiful and attractive, Natalie!)
I love your cakes! You should get recognized more
Ya like she is just so cool
I love your hair like that!
Ive always been worried because a lot of people don’t like being recognized in public, so I’m glad you do!
Wait a minute…. 3MILLION! CONGRATS!! I have been here since 50k so you are my fave ytber.
Your hyper-realistic cakes are truly art! What do you do with the cakes once you cut them for your videos?
Prolly she and husband Dave eat it, or share with friends/family
give it away to eat or eat it
Well that's kind of my point - I too have guesses but maybe she does something we don't expect like picks a different neighbor and takes it to them or something
I think I remember hearing in one video that she eats them with friends.
The pillow cake cut was my favorite, so smooth!❤😊
I'm surprised that you don't have more fans,you are very talented and deserve more exposure.
She has 3 million followers lol
@@katem331 but I think she deserves more.
Even though I always know that it's a cake, I still feel that surprising shock as you cut the cake at the end of each video
OMG, THIS CAKE ROCKS! A leopard gecko will be so cool to see!
OMG yes!!!!
@@lollybirdy glad you agree! Her cakes are works of art!
YES I HAVE A LEOPARD GECKO AND ID LOVE TO SEE IT
Yes!! I'd love that too.
@@dianabirbraer1353 May I repeat your suggestion? I'd love to see a leopard gecko cake too!
This is the best cake! I watch your videos for inspiration for drawings!
I think that this is the best cake yet! Love you Natalie!
This was so realistic you are the best and never stop doing cakes that don’t look like cakes❤😊
Who agrees with me?
Your hair is beautiful!
Yeah!
Personal I think this is the best cake you've ever done! I watched the process and I still can't tell its a cake 👏👏👏
Girl you deserve all the love and fan base 🖤🖤🖤 I wish to meet you one day ❤️ 💙 💕
"Hi, I'm Blain and I watch Natalie Sideserf make cakes!"
And thank you for making those cakes, the shorts thru the week hold me over for every Monday. ❤️
It's important the fact that we will never forget you and your cakes!♥️
I am so happy that you are getting the recognition that you deserve. Your cakes are amazing
Hyper realistic cakes 🎂
I’m glad you’re getting recognized!! People around my city have begun recognizing me from my TikTok channel and I have only like 1600 followers so I never really expected that. It’s super cool at first but also a tad terrifying the more I think about it. Luckily they’ve all been really kind so far but it’s still scary
Day 42 of asking Sideserf Cake Studio to make a Bonsai Tree cake.
I think that's the first thing I'd recognize about you as well, I feel you have a very distinctive voice. In your videos you always sound happy and positive, it's very lovely.
that's awesome you're being recognized in public! And this is one of my favorite cakes from you, the way you sculpted it looks so natural!!
First, I adore your attitude towards things! Like, you are always just this little ray of energetic sunlight! 🌞😁
Second, you for sure deserve the recognition! You are amazingly talented! Keep doing, what you're doing, I love your videos! (Although they always make me crave cake! 🍰🍩😅
Third, I'd love to meet you, though I highly doubt, that would ever happen, as I live in Denmark, but here's to hoping! 🇩🇰 😅
And fourth, I make is a personal point, to always compliment people, if I find them pretty, or like what they're wearing, or whatever it may be. My friends are embarrassed by this, cause I do not do the the fly by compliment (as you call it). But honestly, I think we could all use compliments from strangers every now and then! 🥰
I love watching your channel and seeing all of your cake creations! Can’t wait to see what your crazy brain comes up with next!
This is a big reason I enjoy your channel still, even as it's grown to *huge* (while I'm not an "old hat" subscriber, you hadn't reached a million when I first found you): you're still as friendly, slightly awkward and nerdy as you were then and haven't fallen into the trap of changing who you are.
I think this is a great way, btw, to solve the issue of "how do I make yet another hyper realistic cake and make it entertaining"; IE: not talking about the cake (as much) and more talking around it.
Believe me, When I talk with my friends I ask, " Do you know the TH-cam channel, Sideserf Cake Studio?" And they all start talking about how amazing and cool they are! You are very talented!!
1:49 I had wondered for a while what you do with the bits that you shave off your cakes. It’s good to know that even those shaved off bits don’t go to waste. What a cool way to use left over pieces. 😃👍👍
I love watching you and your videos! You always tend to fool me in the real or cake videos
I ADMIRE the fact that you didn't use sticks or plates for stability and it stood SO still!!!
I love how you re-used the cake that you cut off! 😁 And i always get so hungry when i see you cutting the cake! 😋 I think the green buttercream looks cool and i ever saw someone saying that that was ''His'' cake- but i saw green buttercream like yours and i knew: Thats the one from Sideserf Cake studio! 🥴
You should totally do a Q and A video. I have 5 questions:
1. What country and city do u live in?
2. What is your favorite color?
3. What is ur favorite food (other than cake)?
4. Do u ever get fed up of eating cake?
5. How old r u?
love ya ♥️🍰🎂
I have been a fan of yours for YEARSSSS. More recently I’ve followed your TH-cam account! I wish you so much sucess, also… that show on Netflix is it cake, I’m patiently waiting to see you on it!
Make a book cake!!! I know their are tons of bookworms out there 😁
I first saw you on Food networks!! I love watching baking shows and I often see you! When I stumbled on one of your videos on Facebook I immediately went to YT to subscribe.❤❤ I just want to say that you made my childhood.
The bearded dragon cake please! Great ideas!! It would be cool to see either one though with your skills either one will look amazing!
I think you would be an easy to approach type of person. You just seem so genuinely sweet. Like your cakes 🎂!
I love when I see the green frosting in other peoples videos!! You are so talented and I love your videos and creations!!
That cut was so satisfying especially when you moved the knife fast at the last part of the cake.
What i love best is that your husband is super proud of you. He does the Unveiling proudly. Yes, it is good to give feedback to people who do things to make life's journey pleasant. God bless you, Natalie. I love Watching you all the way from Nigeria. 🇳🇬🇳🇬
Hey ! Amazing work! But I have a question? What do you do when you are done with the cake? Do you eat it? Do you throw it away?
Omg!! I never noticed the Meg voice until now!!! 😂😂 nooooo, your voice is so soothing to me, but now I’m just tickled 😂
I enjoy your art and the wonderful stories. Thank you for sharing both of your amazing talents.
When I first saw Natalie on TV, was when me and mum where watching one of Duff Goldman's shows, when she decorated the cakes it was as if the cakes came to life! When I first saw that she had a TH-cam Chanel, I was super excited. It was so cool to see more of her wonderful work! ❤😊
Awesome cake and loved hearing your stories about being recognised in public, especially your term "Fly By" lol.
Funny true story that i was reminded of when you mentioned the "fly by". A few years ago I was at a store looking at something near a door. A young man said really quickly as he went out the door, "Your hair is beautiful". I am 60 & my hair is past my waist & silver. I was totally caught off guard & didn't even have time to say thank you! So i guess that was a fly by compliment. Made me feel good! 😊
It makes me like a TH-camr or a celebrity more when you can tell they are sincerely grateful and appreciative their supporters and fans. I really get that from you and I think you are an awesome person! You would be so cool to hang out with ♥️
I was here when you only had 400k and I’m so happy you finally have the recognition you deserve,!!! ❤
i feel like you should design a mug where it has a “slice” look taken out of it, and inside is your cake. It could say “Sideserf Cake Studio” on it, too
Love your work on buddy vs duff, and your hyper realistic cakes are amazing. I can never tell which one is the real one and which is the cake
Yes, your voice is very distinct. Definitely recognizable.
And you for sure don't sound like Meg from family guy. You sound like YOU and no one else 💕
This makes me so happy how excited you are to meet people who recognize you just like I’m sure they are! This makes me really want to live in an area where I’d recognize people from the internet. If I ever see you in real life I know id have to say hi :)
Well I just started my addiction to your videos about 2 days ago and I showed my 7 year olds the boot cake, they immediately said “Oh I know her!!!” At the same time in sync lol 😂 then they said “well not know her, KNOW her…but we watch her!” 😂 we love your cakes !!!!
WOW THAT IS SO GOOD 😮
this is the best cake out of all , you are so talented to make this
This cake is awesome as always! I think if I saw you in person it would be nerves that would keep me from saying something to you! I have always thought you looked like Sabrina Carpenter and I just love her and you. I think you are extremely talented and very down to earth. I’m so glad there are people that approach you.....I make jewelry and sometimes (not often) I get people that say “hey, you’re the jewelry lady”. I makes me feel good too, especially if they bought something I made and they are still loving it. Have a great day Natalie! Your cake sculptures are AMAZING!!! 😄💙🐬
I do fly-by complements. I love seeing the surprise on someone's face as I'm just like, "I love your hair~!" as I'm walking by or I'll say it to a cashier just as I'm leaving. I like to think I'm making someone's day or perhaps making a bad day a little better.
Another great one. Thanks Natalie
Day 12 of asking if you could make a pool noddle or towel cake. Please make an open towel with wrinkles as a challenge and the pool noodle could have an awesome texture
At 5:10 I was like I SWEAR, THAT MUG LOOKS EXACTLY LIKE AN CAKE-
Idea:you should make it an cake
Now I believe u have the ability to make a whole room made out of cakes! thank u for make every kid's dream to eat a whole room become true 😊
My boys adore your cakes! They really liked this one because it looks so soft!
The shape was great, but I could tell it wasn't a pillow since it was so shiny. Maybe powdered sugar would have made it look more velvety
Mmmm. Looks so yummy and real and awesome!💚
I love making cakes and you are such an inspiration! I love your videos and shorts!
I wish i lived in the same country as Natalie … it would be awesome to meet her in real life! I watch your videos all the time! They are amazing and super fun to watch!
That cut was so satisfying 😮🫠
Ummm....DUH! You're cakes are absolutely amazing and you're gorgeous!👍😊
I have to say, out of all the cakes: this by far is my favorite! It's really good!! 👌❤️👌
Your hair is SO PRETTY 🤩🤩
You should (if you haven’t already) prank your husband with foods that look like they aren’t cake but are