The biggest compliment I can give this Man on his videos is that as I watch one is I’ll say “ I’ll just watch one more “ and then end up watching several more .
It took me improving myself and becoming more attractive to realize my actions with women were not wrong, I was just chasing women who had low interest in me. They weren’t giving me signals so I didn’t even know what a high interest woman looked like
True . They can show interest even if it's low. Vs higher interest. For men we automatically have a high interest. We get the wide eyes body language ect. In my experience (usually) the woman gets that wide eyed smiles really Into you after getting to know you a bit
Had this happen to me often in the past. A woman would give me that "look", and I would get her number and hit them up, but would never get a response back....nothing. Just use that rejection to work on yourself so when the women who are really feeling you come through you can give them the best that you've got. What I still find weird is I saw a couple of those same women sometime later (in the store, etc.) and they kept looking down at the ground and then back up at me multiple times all puppy eyed and shit. Women can be very strange, but regardless, keep doing you and it will all pay off in the end.
I've already accepted that when I get a number, it's a 50/50 chance it'll lead to anything. It's not a big deal. But indeed, Rom is right about how they respond when you reach out. If she's into you, she makes things very easy and actually puts forth effort to reach out to you as well. Once I started receiving good morning texts pretty routinely from different women I never initiated a good morning text again, save for like 2 times here and there after me and the woman had been talking for days or weeks.
@@jsnicks7189 that's what I've been doing for years now... I'm not exactly new to this but my results come slowly. I can't relate to people's "glow up" stories. My stuff is gradual. It's like watching yourself grow up in a mirror everyday
My advice...don't ask, GIVE her your number/information. Put the ball in her court & make her decide. This way she HAS to make an effort. No matter how attractive she might be, you should ALWAYS have someone she will get pissed about when she sees you didn't blink an eye if she doesn't contact you. Fellas...you have to change the way you do 'business' in the new dating market or get left behind
She will but you forgot to add that even if she took your number she can text you on whatsapp with a simple "hey" and because of that the convo is over guys just need to escalate as quick as they can, otherwise she will ghost like usual they are masters in wasting time.
A woman dont want your number..if she didnt ask..They will take it so you won't beat them up..This is what my baby and big sister both in their 30s told me. If she gives you her correct number...you are on 1st base already
Good stuff. That’s one thing I picked up and confirmed over the years: A woman will make it clear one way or the other how she feels. Most will avoid giving you any sliver of false hope. But I suspect they are interested if they make themselves available, touch me, or compliment me, for example. They are just as aggressive in going after a man they want as we are
Comes at the exact right moment. Monday at work, a women gave me a letter with her number, although i only exchanged 1 or 2 sentences with her. I hit her up yesterday and she responds after seconds, asks me questions and so on. I ask her on a date, boom right away she wants to meet. This is the first time a woman is THAT interested in me, its pretty funny !
You going down a tricky path my brother lmfao it never ends well with the coworker situation..don’t tell her anything about yourself, and just smash, and dash
Just handle your shit bro dont let her tear you down if anything,don’t listen to these scared weake simpletons 😹.Eyes on the prize baby there’s always a way go for what you want. Ain’t no such thing as not getting what you want
Met this one chick, we went on a date to the mall and she was asking me to buy her all this stuff and then asked me to go to this expensive seafood restaurant. I just ghosted her, she was only interested in me for my money.
Man unc Rom came in time with this one! I had asked a girl out at my gym because she would look my way at times. I asked her out and she couldn’t look at me and she was like covering her face I thought wow she must be nervous so I told her to think about it but came back the next day boy was she ducking me everywhere I would be she would avoid and no eye contact. A Women will let you know fellas
Star doing the same SHIH to her while you LEVEL UP/LOOKSMAX AND GET MONEY TOO RIGHT IN FRONT OF HER FACE. EVERY FEW WEEKS SHE'LL NOTICE YOU LOOKING BETTER, HAVING MORE CONFIDENCE, SND OTHER BIRDS CHECKING YOU OUT. When she approaches you...reject her.🖨️💯🧔🏽
For me, it’s always in the eyes..the eyes tell you enough. You can’t really explain it, you just know. Also noticed hair playing, which was always a good sign. But I’m going to start paying more attention to the body language just to learn..
Right on the head with this one Rom! Situation happened to me a couple mons ago. I met this nice looking sista at work. We exchanged numbers the first time I met her. I asked her out twice to her face...All she said was "ooh ok"... I came to the conclusion that she was either nervous or was not really interested to began with....
I'm going through this right now. She went from daily text to flippin the switch to uninterested responses. She's a stringer and loves her ego stroked. Thanks for these words of wisdom and you articulate it so beautifully.
Trust me with the text game. If she only texts or DM you quickly when she's offended over something you said, she's not really interested. From personal experience, women suddenly have all the text speed and time in the world when arguing with you. Im like "Ohhhh. After all this time of late replies and short answers, you wanna talk now uh?"😅
@@user-vb4cc1dn8k Yea, I know. That 'tease style' is common. It's not for me tho. Doesn't suit my personality. Joe Budden has that style to get his chicks. It matches his personality that's why it works.
@@user-vb4cc1dn8k Now thinking about it. Alot of guys have thier own teasing style. It's just triggering women in a full on playful debate is one of them.
I must have played this video about 5 times already. I've been divorced for almost 6 years and wll be 60 in January. These are great and practical tools for any of us who are attempting to get remarried, date, or have a serious relationship with a woman. If there's anything that's frustrating about this is that while I was coming up nobody was teaching this to us as boys and young men while we were coming up or start out so we wasted so much time, energy, and resources chasing. With these kinds of tools we can make better choices and pass this wisdom to our sons and other boys and young men we mentor or influence. Thanks.
I'm in this similar situation. There's this woman I work with that I believe for sure likes me, yet she does certain things that makes me believe she's just being nice. One minute she'll go over and above to make me seem different from other guys, but then she'll go kinda cold and show me nothing which is confusing. At this point, I just go to work and do the job and let her come to me because the signals are too mixed.
Yup it's game playing. actual game playing but for a need of hers. Ego, validation ect. Actions and words have to match. Otherwise she's just messing around. When I was younger I would fall for that. But now I see more.
Sir, I stumbled upon this channel recently it has been some much-needed medicine. Some of the many truths you share are things I’ve arrived at myself, and the others just click. I’m still young, but man, I hope some youth find this. I couldve used this 10 years ago, but maybe it wouldve gone over my head then anyway being how stubborn I was in my teens. Appreciate it, you’re doing a good service.
Getting her number is nothing giving your number is nothing either because let's say you did start texting her from a "dating app" now you're going from one app to another that is not directly gonna cut it down, you give her leverage to ghost or do too much texting. - The more you text the more she can use it against you because in the mind of a woman you always said something that is/was "offending" her. - You should escalate as quick as you can and to make it clear if a woman is really interested in you there is nothing you can do wrong or say wrong you're just "IT" for her unless you really mess it up. - It's important to add that many guys need to learn to read the body language of a woman in real-life we all know how to read it when it comes to other dudes in terms of DANGER or a possible "enemy" don't stay behind when it comes to women and that same reading. - Thanks rom. 👍🏿
With women, you got to make them shit or get off the pot. There was this chick at my job giving me mad choosing signals (or atleast I thought it was) so I decided to test her out by giving her a ultimatum. I walked up to her and told her to meet me after work at a certain spot, and she never showed up, so I'm assuming she just wanted my validation. So that's something I nipped in the bud real quick.
explain cause at work i see women getting attention from brothers at every corner i stay away from the women and they stay trying to get my attention like do they not get the hint or just won't stop.
@@iloveblackwomen9926 Women at work get attention from dudes all day every day and if you don't give it she will immediately think that something is wrong with her or she ugly, even though everybody else thirsty around her. It's funny.
@@Watchyourselvez Facts. Most of them just want your attention. A lot of them at my job be married, or have boyfriends that work there too, and still trying to get my attention.
Yes. I agree. It's always best to escalate your actions with women as fast as possible. I.e, can i get your #, then can i take you on a date, touching her waist and back, go for a kiss or invite her to you place. Just don't be thirsty, be direct and respect whatever response they give . Remember, women give excuses to guys that they aren't interested in , but make exceptions for guys that they like.
This is interesting because I could be talking to a girl and I don’t ask for her phone number and she would give it to me and when I text she takes for ever to reply back or talk 😂
The tribe thing is definitely true. You'll sense it, and know pretty much right away. I remember me and my friend hit up some girls, one was Puerto Rican and the other was Black. The Black girl told my friend right away, that she's not into Black dudes, and then I started talking to her and got her number. But there's been instances where he would talk to girls, and I knew they were feeling Black dudes, so I stood in my lane. Same with White women and Asian women etc etc, I sensed if they were interested in Latino men. But also some women will give you a shot, because they never experienced someone of your nationality.
true. we can make it complicated or overthink. but just talking to ppl with show it. the eyes show alot. do they show indifference, disinterest, or interest. do the eyes light up when they see you. ect.
For sure . Where i work 1 girl in particular stands out ..if i give her a slight smirk i get from her a big smile back everytime , when we speak her voice changes compared to how she speaks to others . However im 42 , she is 25 , we work together .. it could get messy so im careful how i go in this
While i have been shown high interest without knowing the social cues, i never really got to learn the signs due to autism and ADHD. But i'm not the excuse type so i took it upon myself to learn and notice the difference between both sides of the story when it comes to guys and girls liking eachother. I currently work in a restaurant, and i've noticed the signs out of the corner of my eye. From personal experience they do tend to want to talk to you more, they'll make up any excuse to get close to you just to talk to you. I had a girl last week who seemed very timid to come up to me because i seemed like the type to just not talk at all. She seemed ecstatic to just talk to me, and this is the first time we're being formally introduced. I never even knew her name until she came up to me. When it comes to women and the guy they find attractive, they will be VERY VERY aggressive. I've also noticed that they'll sneak a look towards you, it's very obvious when they really like you. This also happened to me last week, and i find it very intriguing compared to when women are just scared of rejection vs when they actually want to get to know you. I could be wrong and blowing it out of proportion, but she knows what i look like already no reason to keep looking at me everytime you walk past. The thing women say about "he has to XY and Z before i can give him some" is bullshit.
As I heard one man said before, people tell you how they feel about by the way they treat you. If a woman wants you she will make time for you, she will smile and she will look at you. One thing I do is look for the signs. If she don't look my direction, she's short with words or she gives you that mean look I just walk away.
Wisdom. Listen to Uncle Rom guys , pure facts . Ofcourse some exceptions are there but in general if a woman likes you there will be no doubt. If there is doubt she does not like you as much its the bitter truth. Either listen to this man and learn or learn it the hard way by experiencing heart ache and stress lol .
I think this should be obvious. Kinda baffles me that some dudes cant pick up on women’s interest. Maybe it comes with experience or something. Great video Unc💯
Have you ever thought that many men out there don't have that experience with women because they either wasn't taught or they lacked the confidence because they've been constantly rejected and overlooked by women?
Experience helps. But I agree. It can get a little confusing if she's doing the mixed signals but I don't read into that much anymore. But I also believe ain't no way dudes that blind or un perceptive. Otherwise we all wouldn't be here 😂
I suggested Red Lobster in Harlem once bc I needed to check outhis eating etiquette before we went elsewhere. Guess what? He wasn't worth anywhere else. Eating etiquette was fine, but conversation was lacking. 🤷🏾♀️
That’s why I’m starting to practice body game, just after gaining a little muscle it made my dating life wayyy easier. But I still have a long way to go but for now I’m practicing more with talking to women and it’s cool so far but it’s been easier sleeping with a girl first night not even having to ask. Usually they’re frisky with me which I was never used to.
Bro before i saw this video i was talking to that girl and kinda trying to make her interested but after i saw the video i felt whole lot of satisfaction and freedom, thanks a lot
Very true one of sexiest women I ever been with was told to me and from my perspective from seeing her was the most shy person I ever meet till she ask me for advice about her ex and I was genuinely trying to give her good advice she was looking in to my soul extremely out of character of who I thought she was and then couple confirm she wanted me
kind of weird in my situation , all signs were present but when asked out she gave a neutral / shy response of "okay , thanks " and never followed up . Is it case closed ?
@@luisybolo3571 that’s what they do bro especially if you live in a major city. I’m in the DMV and most of my friends are party promoters so you can only imagine how much I get asked that lol
Bro ngl, I love these videos , but I really gave up trying to get hoes😂 yeah they gon always be on my body , but still . It takes time to just go to even try and connect with girls , especially when they’re usually temporary . Just gotta keep building my funds and it’ll be much easier 😂, and this is coming from a good looking dude 😂, tired of trying 😂
@@yasuke665 it means when you are living your best life! Women can see it! & they know you don't give a crap;! So they want to bring you down!! I.e a peg or two.. Shaming! Tactics!! Etc.
Boy rom you hit it out the park with the “one word answers” I wish I could get the years back and energy back I wasted on girls growing up, sending them paragraphs and shit for “one word responds” hrs later. Guys if you see this or even think it for a second move on!! Zero interest is there
What does it imply when someone asks you a question again that you already responded to? I ask b/c the other day when I was at PT, me and the therapist doc made small talk as usual about trivial things I don't care to talk about. The gal who helps me with my injury asked "what plans do you have for New Years?" I replied "I have nothing going on at the moment." A few minutes passed and she hit me with the same question, but worded it differently. She said "so you don't do anything for New Years?" I said: "it depends. I might have a drink if others are drinking, ya know, please the crowd a little." She said "please the crowd, you never should do that!" What is going on here? Is she giving out an indicator of interest or her seeking validation by getting me to focus on her instead of me doing my workout?
If I was you Bro, I would invite her out for New Year's Eve and state clearly to her when the clock hits 2022, your both going to have a nice passionate kiss to see in the New Year. If she is into you, she will follow. If not, she is an attention seeker who isn't worth your time.
@@user-vb4cc1dn8k Exactly. She just wants to feel wanted and pursued after. Too structured and hot one minute, then cold the next. MEntal issues for sure.
Hey Rom, loved this video. Just the other day a young lady that works at the mall was complementing me and holding strong eye contact and smiling. we were having a great convo. I got her number and she never replied, I could tell she even blocked my number. What’s all that about ? I could have swore she was feeling me hard.
I dont think its just the customer aspect necessarily. Lots of girls seem to either be constantly having emotional swings or are just digging the attention in the moment, but arent really interested...ive had plenty that im certain are feeling me, only to not be willing to even give a phone number or set something up...women are a trip for sure.
I don't even know when i like a man how i behave everything to do with dating got out of mind...my head is just bills,bills,bills 90 percent of my brain is just bills zero interest in being in a relationship
You're lieing, you may not know how you behave when you like a guy but everybody knows when they like someone although you may not want him/her to know
I been running across uninterested women for years and all they ever did was play games. Just focusing on making money now
Real shiiii
Real shit
Same here guy. Tbh i always remember that Bronx Tale quote that "great ones (women) come every 10 years like the great fighters".
Shit we have wants & needs both parties I'd say play it by your rules
How did work out 2 years later?
The biggest compliment I can give this Man on his videos is that as I watch one is I’ll say “ I’ll just watch one more “ and then end up watching several more .
🙏🏾
Getting the phone number USED TO MEAN SOMETHING. Now it just the first step of 30
It took me improving myself and becoming more attractive to realize my actions with women were not wrong, I was just chasing women who had low interest in me. They weren’t giving me signals so I didn’t even know what a high interest woman looked like
True . They can show interest even if it's low. Vs higher interest. For men we automatically have a high interest. We get the wide eyes body language ect. In my experience (usually) the woman gets that wide eyed smiles really Into you after getting to know you a bit
She wants you when she’s willing to follow you
You talking about her following you around as you lead her changing the venue/location in real life, or are you talking about social media???
@@busyrand I’m talking real life…..submissiveness
@@NateTheNoble that is the real truth.. if she ain’t following she ain’t about nothing with you
I agree
Had this happen to me often in the past. A woman would give me that "look", and I would get her number and hit them up, but would never get a response back....nothing. Just use that rejection to work on yourself so when the women who are really feeling you come through you can give them the best that you've got. What I still find weird is I saw a couple of those same women sometime later (in the store, etc.) and they kept looking down at the ground and then back up at me multiple times all puppy eyed and shit. Women can be very strange, but regardless, keep doing you and it will all pay off in the end.
Thats cause she tryna reel u in to get yo attention so she can get a ego boost.after that she ghosting u.
Im started to feel like women get a dopamine rush off attention lol
@@sixowe3083 Thats probably it
@@DannyYasharel7THEY DO
@@DannyYasharel7they do man lol
I've already accepted that when I get a number, it's a 50/50 chance it'll lead to anything. It's not a big deal. But indeed, Rom is right about how they respond when you reach out. If she's into you, she makes things very easy and actually puts forth effort to reach out to you as well. Once I started receiving good morning texts pretty routinely from different women I never initiated a good morning text again, save for like 2 times here and there after me and the woman had been talking for days or weeks.
Wow, 50-50 sounds very optimistic. In my experience, it's 20-80 at best.
I support this message 🖤💯
@@independentthought3390 facts bro oh well it is what it is at this point.
If it’s 20-80 focus on improving social skills and improving urself overall
@@jsnicks7189 that's what I've been doing for years now... I'm not exactly new to this but my results come slowly. I can't relate to people's "glow up" stories. My stuff is gradual. It's like watching yourself grow up in a mirror everyday
Facts, If a woman isn't showing interest I move to the next very quickly.
Right. I bet she start showing interest when she see you with another wmn
@@nicekix3038 that always happens lol
@@nicekix3038yup I say let's meet up at my place. If she says no or w/e it's ok we'll see you later 😂 in a cool calm way
@@nicekix3038always or even if u just ain't paying attention to then anymore
If she really like you you'll get that phone call or text.
She'll leave the backdoor unlocked...
💯🤦♂️
Then comes jerome thru the front door cause he forgot sun shit
@@timchavis9420😂😂😂😂
The backdoor ?
@@MadMax-cg6gh😂
My advice...don't ask, GIVE her your number/information. Put the ball in her court & make her decide. This way she HAS to make an effort. No matter how attractive she might be, you should ALWAYS have someone she will get pissed about when she sees you didn't blink an eye if she doesn't contact you.
Fellas...you have to change the way you do 'business' in the new dating market or get left behind
She will but you forgot to add that even if she took your number she can text you on whatsapp with a simple "hey" and because of that the convo is over guys just need to escalate as quick as they can, otherwise she will ghost like usual they are masters in wasting time.
A woman dont want your number..if she didnt ask..They will take it so you won't beat them up..This is what my baby and big sister both in their 30s told me. If she gives you her correct number...you are on 1st base already
@@lourose4972 I'm 50. I don't listen to 30 somethings about how to get women, particularly women
@@denzel9455 You lost me as soon as you mention an app where you can't verify anything or anyone. You'll learn
@@herbertlewis8442 lol angry BM as usual blocklist.
Good stuff. That’s one thing I picked up and confirmed over the years: A woman will make it clear one way or the other how she feels. Most will avoid giving you any sliver of false hope. But I suspect they are interested if they make themselves available, touch me, or compliment me, for example. They are just as aggressive in going after a man they want as we are
Comes at the exact right moment. Monday at work, a women gave me a letter with her number, although i only exchanged 1 or 2 sentences with her. I hit her up yesterday and she responds after seconds, asks me questions and so on. I ask her on a date, boom right away she wants to meet. This is the first time a woman is THAT interested in me, its pretty funny !
If she works with you it’s not worth the risk. Protect your assets by not dealing with women from work.
Aye!!! Good shit. I literally just did this but I gave her my number. We headed out on the town Thursday 💯💪🏾
You going down a tricky path my brother lmfao it never ends well with the coworker situation..don’t tell her anything about yourself, and just smash, and dash
Just handle your shit bro dont let her tear you down if anything,don’t listen to these scared weake simpletons 😹.Eyes on the prize baby there’s always a way go for what you want. Ain’t no such thing as not getting what you want
Nothing’s impossible!Where there’s a will there’s a way.Jusr make sure your covering your 6
Met this one chick, we went on a date to the mall and she was asking me to buy her all this stuff and then asked me to go to this expensive seafood restaurant. I just ghosted her, she was only interested in me for my money.
Man unc Rom came in time with this one! I had asked a girl out at my gym because she would look my way at times. I asked her out and she couldn’t look at me and she was like covering her face I thought wow she must be nervous so I told her to think about it but came back the next day boy was she ducking me everywhere I would be she would avoid and no eye contact. A Women will let you know fellas
Yea bro you gotta watch out for that alot of times the woman is just looking at you to see if you looking at them (validation)
She could be intimidated and think you look too good
Star doing the same SHIH to her while you LEVEL UP/LOOKSMAX AND GET MONEY TOO RIGHT IN FRONT OF HER FACE. EVERY FEW WEEKS SHE'LL NOTICE YOU LOOKING BETTER, HAVING MORE CONFIDENCE, SND OTHER BIRDS CHECKING YOU OUT. When she approaches you...reject her.🖨️💯🧔🏽
She’s intimidated. Go back and talk to her and don’t take no for an answer. She’s very shy, happened to me a couple times.
For me, it’s always in the eyes..the eyes tell you enough. You can’t really explain it, you just know. Also noticed hair playing, which was always a good sign. But I’m going to start paying more attention to the body language just to learn..
Yup nothing is 💯. A woman can give those eyes but then when you make effort, converse, ect she short answered or something. No worries. Now we know
Correct, and the soft feminine voice she uses when she says your name, when she's really into you,
Right on the head with this one Rom! Situation happened to me a couple mons ago. I met this nice looking sista at work. We exchanged numbers the first time I met her. I asked her out twice to her face...All she said was "ooh ok"... I came to the conclusion that she was either nervous or was not really interested to began with....
Give your self value and don’t settle to soon with someone who doesn’t share the same values and morals as you.
Spitting facts 💯
I'm going through this right now. She went from daily text to flippin the switch to uninterested responses. She's a stringer and loves her ego stroked. Thanks for these words of wisdom and you articulate it so beautifully.
If your trying to hard , she ain’t it
Truth. If a woman wants you she makes it easy.
The key is mastering non-verbal communication =body language and the reading thereof.
You already know i gotta come back here for the comments 👏🏼
I can tell by the Gye Nyame on your wall that you are a powerful brother respect 💯👊🏾
This guy really knows what he’s talking about. Reminds of Chef from South Park (in a good way)
Trust me with the text game. If she only texts or DM you quickly when she's offended over something you said, she's not really interested. From personal experience, women suddenly have all the text speed and time in the world when arguing with you. Im like "Ohhhh. After all this time of late replies and short answers, you wanna talk now uh?"😅
@@user-vb4cc1dn8k Yea, I know. That 'tease style' is common. It's not for me tho. Doesn't suit my personality. Joe Budden has that style to get his chicks. It matches his personality that's why it works.
U are right! I experienced that several times in the past
Facts
@@user-vb4cc1dn8k Now thinking about it. Alot of guys have thier own teasing style. It's just triggering women in a full on playful debate is one of them.
Oh man I got that before.
I must have played this video about 5 times already. I've been divorced for almost 6 years and wll be 60 in January. These are great and practical tools for any of us who are attempting to get remarried, date, or have a serious relationship with a woman. If there's anything that's frustrating about this is that while I was coming up nobody was teaching this to us as boys and young men while we were coming up or start out so we wasted so much time, energy, and resources chasing. With these kinds of tools we can make better choices and pass this wisdom to our sons and other boys and young men we mentor or influence. Thanks.
When you were growing up , ladies didn’t play games like now and days 😮💨
Get that speedy recovery Rom!
I'm in this similar situation. There's this woman I work with that I believe for sure likes me, yet she does certain things that makes me believe she's just being nice. One minute she'll go over and above to make me seem different from other guys, but then she'll go kinda cold and show me nothing which is confusing. At this point, I just go to work and do the job and let her come to me because the signals are too mixed.
It’s probably a shit test….
Yup. Act like she don't exist.
@@darcsun9766 💯
She tryna play u . She don't want u.
Yup it's game playing. actual game playing but for a need of hers. Ego, validation ect. Actions and words have to match. Otherwise she's just messing around. When I was younger I would fall for that. But now I see more.
Sir, I stumbled upon this channel recently it has been some much-needed medicine. Some of the many truths you share are things I’ve arrived at myself, and the others just click. I’m still young, but man, I hope some youth find this. I couldve used this 10 years ago, but maybe it wouldve gone over my head then anyway being how stubborn I was in my teens. Appreciate it, you’re doing a good service.
Getting her number is nothing giving your number is nothing either because let's say you did start texting her from a "dating app" now you're going from one app to another that is not directly gonna cut it down, you give her leverage to ghost or do too much texting.
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The more you text the more she can use it against you because in the mind of a woman you always said something that is/was "offending" her.
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You should escalate as quick as you can and to make it clear if a woman is really interested in you there is nothing you can do wrong or say wrong you're just "IT" for her unless you really mess it up.
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It's important to add that many guys need to learn to read the body language of a woman in real-life we all know how to read it when it comes to other dudes in terms of DANGER or a possible "enemy" don't stay behind when it comes to women and that same reading.
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Thanks rom.
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With women, you got to make them shit or get off the pot. There was this chick at my job giving me mad choosing signals (or atleast I thought it was) so I decided to test her out by giving her a ultimatum. I walked up to her and told her to meet me after work at a certain spot, and she never showed up, so I'm assuming she just wanted my validation. So that's something I nipped in the bud real quick.
explain cause at work i see women getting attention from brothers at every corner i stay away from the women and they stay trying to get my attention like do they not get the hint or just won't stop.
@@iloveblackwomen9926 Women at work get attention from dudes all day every day and if you don't give it she will immediately think that something is wrong with her or she ugly, even though everybody else thirsty around her. It's funny.
@@Watchyourselvez Facts. Most of them just want your attention. A lot of them at my job be married, or have boyfriends that work there too, and still trying to get my attention.
Giving a woman an ultimatum has never worked in my book. They always view it as a controlling method and go with what benefits them.
Yes. I agree. It's always best to escalate your actions with women as fast as possible. I.e, can i get your #, then can i take you on a date, touching her waist and back, go for a kiss or invite her to you place. Just don't be thirsty, be direct and respect whatever response they give . Remember, women give excuses to guys that they aren't interested in , but make exceptions for guys that they like.
This is interesting because I could be talking to a girl and I don’t ask for her phone number and she would give it to me and when I text she takes for ever to reply back or talk 😂
Women love to play that Corny game of initiate then act like im too busy 🙄.. that’s when I end up walking away. I have no time for nonsense
Some will play those games for their own validation.
The tribe thing is definitely true. You'll sense it, and know pretty much right away. I remember me and my friend hit up some girls, one was Puerto Rican and the other was Black. The Black girl told my friend right away, that she's not into Black dudes, and then I started talking to her and got her number. But there's been instances where he would talk to girls, and I knew they were feeling Black dudes, so I stood in my lane. Same with White women and Asian women etc etc, I sensed if they were interested in Latino men. But also some women will give you a shot, because they never experienced someone of your nationality.
true. we can make it complicated or overthink. but just talking to ppl with show it. the eyes show alot. do they show indifference, disinterest, or interest. do the eyes light up when they see you. ect.
this man nonstop spittin game 🤣🤣🤣can’t stop laughing
For sure . Where i work 1 girl in particular stands out ..if i give her a slight smirk i get from her a big smile back everytime , when we speak her voice changes compared to how she speaks to others . However im 42 , she is 25 , we work together .. it could get messy so im careful how i go in this
😂😂😂 facts thats exactly why my block list long you can feel that energy
I can always tell by how friendly they are
I noticed that shy women won't look you in the eye.
Unless they far away across the room 😂
Would be nice if people could say no not interested. Time wasters are a big disrespect.
Big facts, OG!!!! Thanks for keeping it a 💯
Crazy how I’ve always asked like my eyes are right here and they say I can’t look people in the eye etc I feel stupid but I know now
While i have been shown high interest without knowing the social cues, i never really got to learn the signs due to autism and ADHD. But i'm not the excuse type so i took it upon myself to learn and notice the difference between both sides of the story when it comes to guys and girls liking eachother.
I currently work in a restaurant, and i've noticed the signs out of the corner of my eye. From personal experience they do tend to want to talk to you more, they'll make up any excuse to get close to you just to talk to you. I had a girl last week who seemed very timid to come up to me because i seemed like the type to just not talk at all. She seemed ecstatic to just talk to me, and this is the first time we're being formally introduced. I never even knew her name until she came up to me. When it comes to women and the guy they find attractive, they will be VERY VERY aggressive.
I've also noticed that they'll sneak a look towards you, it's very obvious when they really like you. This also happened to me last week, and i find it very intriguing compared to when women are just scared of rejection vs when they actually want to get to know you. I could be wrong and blowing it out of proportion, but she knows what i look like already no reason to keep looking at me everytime you walk past.
The thing women say about "he has to XY and Z before i can give him some" is bullshit.
Like my pops use to tell me.. either you got it or not...
As I heard one man said before, people tell you how they feel about by the way they treat you. If a woman wants you she will make time for you, she will smile and she will look at you. One thing I do is look for the signs. If she don't look my direction, she's short with words or she gives you that mean look I just walk away.
Wisdom. Listen to Uncle Rom guys , pure facts . Ofcourse some exceptions are there but in general if a woman likes you there will be no doubt. If there is doubt she does not like you as much its the bitter truth. Either listen to this man and learn or learn it the hard way by experiencing heart ache and stress lol .
KEEP IT UP
Bedankt
Thanks for your support.
Speaking facts Rom 💯
I think this should be obvious. Kinda baffles me that some dudes cant pick up on women’s interest. Maybe it comes with experience or something. Great video Unc💯
Have you ever thought that many men out there don't have that experience with women because they either wasn't taught or they lacked the confidence because they've been constantly rejected and overlooked by women?
Experience helps. But I agree. It can get a little confusing if she's doing the mixed signals but I don't read into that much anymore. But I also believe ain't no way dudes that blind or un perceptive. Otherwise we all wouldn't be here 😂
I suggested Red Lobster in Harlem once bc I needed to check outhis eating etiquette before we went elsewhere. Guess what? He wasn't worth anywhere else. Eating etiquette was fine, but conversation was lacking. 🤷🏾♀️
Pay attention to their feet and tonality of the voice
When a women gives you a random smile then she probably doesn't know you that well. Honest I pay attention in how she react and take it from there. 👊🤙
That’s why I’m starting to practice body game, just after gaining a little muscle it made my dating life wayyy easier.
But I still have a long way to go but for now I’m practicing more with talking to women and it’s cool so far but it’s been easier sleeping with a girl first night not even having to ask.
Usually they’re frisky with me which I was never used to.
Bro before i saw this video i was talking to that girl and kinda trying to make her interested but after i saw the video i felt whole lot of satisfaction and freedom, thanks a lot
Very true one of sexiest women I ever been with was told to me and from my perspective from seeing her was the most shy person I ever meet till she ask me for advice about her ex and I was genuinely trying to give her good advice she was looking in to my soul extremely out of character of who I thought she was and then couple confirm she wanted me
kind of weird in my situation , all signs were present but when asked out she gave a neutral / shy response of "okay , thanks " and never followed up . Is it case closed ?
What happened
Great Video..
I was at the nightclub the other night and some chick asked for my Instagram account , is that a sign ?
Depends if she follows up with you.
Hell no that’s just a social status check
@@Raquib25 thanks for the advice , she just literally asked me for my account and since then she haven’t answered
@@luisybolo3571 that’s what they do bro especially if you live in a major city. I’m in the DMV and most of my friends are party promoters so you can only imagine how much I get asked that lol
Had one do me like that but never responded? Unfollow her & move on. Learn to CUT LOSSES as SOON AS they OCCUR.
Bro ngl, I love these videos , but I really gave up trying to get hoes😂 yeah they gon always be on my body , but still . It takes time to just go to even try and connect with girls , especially when they’re usually temporary . Just gotta keep building my funds and it’ll be much easier 😂, and this is coming from a good looking dude 😂, tired of trying 😂
When you are handsome & physically fit some want bring you down a peg or 2!! A Chic even told me that!
Factz.
@@blackhawk6695 wym by this?
@@blackhawk6695 I heard this before wym tho?
@@yasuke665 it means when you are living your best life! Women can see it! & they know you don't give a crap;! So they want to bring you down!! I.e a peg or two.. Shaming! Tactics!! Etc.
Boy rom you hit it out the park with the “one word answers” I wish I could get the years back and energy back I wasted on girls growing up, sending them paragraphs and shit for “one word responds” hrs later. Guys if you see this or even think it for a second move on!! Zero interest is there
What does it imply when someone asks you a question again that you already responded to? I ask b/c the other day when I was at PT, me and the therapist doc made small talk as usual about trivial things I don't care to talk about. The gal who helps me with my injury asked "what plans do you have for New Years?" I replied "I have nothing going on at the moment." A few minutes passed and she hit me with the same question, but worded it differently. She said "so you don't do anything for New Years?" I said: "it depends. I might have a drink if others are drinking, ya know, please the crowd a little." She said "please the crowd, you never should do that!" What is going on here? Is she giving out an indicator of interest or her seeking validation by getting me to focus on her instead of me doing my workout?
If I was you Bro, I would invite her out for New Year's Eve and state clearly to her when the clock hits 2022, your both going to have a nice passionate kiss to see in the New Year.
If she is into you, she will follow. If not, she is an attention seeker who isn't worth your time.
The second time was a choosing signal.She was hoping you’d make a move(which could eventually lead to y’all doing something on new year’s eve)
@@ShootYourShot90 makes sense. In this case imma say the juice ain't worth the squeeze on this, and it's a shit test for validation.
@@user-vb4cc1dn8k Exactly. She just wants to feel wanted and pursued after. Too structured and hot one minute, then cold the next. MEntal issues for sure.
@@maravilloso002 She was probably expecting you to ask her what her plans were for NYE. Are you attracted to her?
If women can let the men know that are not interested, things would go alot smoother.... Alot of time won't be wasted!
NOTIFICATION GANG!👊
Hey Rom, loved this video. Just the other day a young lady that works at the mall was complementing me and holding strong eye contact and smiling. we were having a great convo. I got her number and she never replied, I could tell she even blocked my number. What’s all that about ? I could have swore she was feeling me hard.
remeber she was being nice to a customer, to boost her ego /get validation from guys.
You're a customer to her this is the same thing that's happening in sales and restaurants.
I dont think its just the customer aspect necessarily. Lots of girls seem to either be constantly having emotional swings or are just digging the attention in the moment, but arent really interested...ive had plenty that im certain are feeling me, only to not be willing to even give a phone number or set something up...women are a trip for sure.
I don't even know when i like a man how i behave everything to do with dating got out of mind...my head is just bills,bills,bills 90 percent of my brain is just bills zero interest in being in a relationship
You're lieing, you may not know how you behave when you like a guy but everybody knows when they like someone although you may not want him/her to know
Ron Is A God💯👑
great video