The part about savior complex? Whew. While trying to fix the person, you end up draining yourself and then both of you are unhappy in the relationship. Sometimes people aren’t ready to change because of comfort. They’re scared of the unknown and what they are is as a result of years of forming a specific trauma response. Think about how hard it is to change yourself? Very difficult right? Now then imagine how much harder it must be to change a grown adult with a will of their own. Practically impossible. Self development is different for everybody. The pace at which they heal might be slower than you’re ready to deal with so just move on
These are such important topics that often go unnoticed in relationships! Recognizing red flags like controlling behavior early on can save so much emotional pain later. Also, it's crucial to address past traumas before they shape new partnerships. Open communication, trust, and mutual respect are key for navigating everything from romantic gestures to friendships with the opposite sex.i really like this,a great one.
Your latest video was lengthy but packed with a lot of lessons, it was very educating and insightful. I plan on sending the link to my brother inshaa Allah. Don't know if you know this but comments are turned off. I think it will be good to turn it back on for feedback, questions, suggestions and even words of encouragement. You impact people's lives with what you do and it's surprising you mentioned that you were worried about how people will receive what you do! Well done and jazakallahu khayran.
Married people have no business being friends with the opposite gender. I’ve never seen an Islamic scholar that says it’s allowed. We aren’t perfect but it’s important to acknowledge what’s wrong. It’s definitely something worth discussing before marriage.
Allahumma baarik
Anticipating the next episode.
The part about savior complex? Whew. While trying to fix the person, you end up draining yourself and then both of you are unhappy in the relationship. Sometimes people aren’t ready to change because of comfort. They’re scared of the unknown and what they are is as a result of years of forming a specific trauma response. Think about how hard it is to change yourself? Very difficult right? Now then imagine how much harder it must be to change a grown adult with a will of their own. Practically impossible. Self development is different for everybody. The pace at which they heal might be slower than you’re ready to deal with so just move on
Husband's protective jealousy over his wife (Ghyrah)
Amazing episode!
Allahumma Barik
These are such important topics that often go unnoticed in relationships! Recognizing red flags like controlling behavior early on can save so much emotional pain later. Also, it's crucial to address past traumas before they shape new partnerships. Open communication, trust, and mutual respect are key for navigating everything from romantic gestures to friendships with the opposite sex.i really like this,a great one.
"Are you in love with that person or the idea of that person" Great episode overall💯
Your latest video was lengthy but packed with a lot of lessons, it was very educating and insightful. I plan on sending the link to my brother inshaa Allah. Don't know if you know this but comments are turned off. I think it will be good to turn it back on for feedback, questions, suggestions and even words of encouragement. You impact people's lives with what you do and it's surprising you mentioned that you were worried about how people will receive what you do! Well done and jazakallahu khayran.
We’re waiting for the episode on lust control
Jazakhallah khairan
What you're doing is beautiful.
Jazakumullahu bi khair
Great podcast, especially the topic about sensitivity, which is vital bcuz couples tends to ignore that
This episode was amazing, it is amazing cos I'm not done watching yet but 😮💨😮💨. It's packed!!!. Allāhuma barik guys 💕
Agreed.Checking ur attitude status😅 after every relationship is pretty important.Reflected alot😊 may Allah Increase u in knowledge
OK at this point I'll call this a home of blessing, u guys re rlly trying.
Married people have no business being friends with the opposite gender. I’ve never seen an Islamic scholar that says it’s allowed.
We aren’t perfect but it’s important to acknowledge what’s wrong. It’s definitely something worth discussing before marriage.
This is amazingg🫶🏽🤍
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