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Navigating Masculinity and Life - With Umar Baba Ahmed
Discussion Pointers
Navigating Manhood and Masculinity
● Changing perceptions: How have your perceptions of masculinity changed over the years, especially as you've become a husband and father?
● Toxic masculinity: Have you ever noticed toxic masculinity in your own life? How have you addressed or challenged it?
● Emotional expression: What have been some of the challenges you've faced in expressing your emotions as a man? How have you overcome these challenges?
Regrets and Lessons Learned
● Looking back: Are there any decisions or actions in your past that you regret navigating manhood? What lessons have you learned from these experiences?
● Second chances: How do you view the concept of second chances? Have you ever had to give yourself a second chance and what is the importance of positive self talk?
● Mistakes and growth: How do you believe mistakes contribute to personal growth and development?
Change and Transformation
● Personal evolution: What are some of the biggest transformations you've undergone in your life? How have these changes shaped who you are today?
● Fear of change: Have you ever been afraid of change? How have you overcome these fears?
● Embracing uncertainty: How do you approach uncertainty and the unknown? What strategies do you use to navigate these situations?
Fatherhood and Parenting
● Balancing act: How do you balance the demands of work, family, and personal life? What strategies have you found helpful in managing your time and energy?
● Father-child relationships: What do you consider to be the most important qualities for a father to possess? How do you strive to cultivate these qualities in your own relationships with your children?
● Challenges and rewards: What are some of the biggest challenges and rewards of fatherhood? How have these experiences shaped your perspective on life?
The Impact of His Wife
● Love and support: How has your wife's love and support influenced your personal growth and development?
● Challenges and compromises: What silent challenges have you faced in your marriage
as a man, and how have you and your wife overcome them?
● Partnership and equality: How do you view the role of women in society? What do you
believe it means to be a supportive and equal partner to your wife?
Service to the Ummah
● Community involvement: How do you contribute to your community and the broader Muslim world? What motivates you to serve others?
● Challenges and rewards: What challenges have you faced in your efforts to serve the ummah? What rewards have you received?
● Future aspirations: What are your goals for your involvement in the ummah in the future? How do you hope to make a positive impact?
Re-education and Unlearning
● Negative cultural norms: What negative cultural norms have you had to unlearn? How did you challenge these beliefs and practices?
● Continuous learning: How do you stay informed and continue to learn throughout your life? What resources do you find helpful?
● Personal growth: How do you believe re-education and unlearning contribute to personal growth and development?
Beauty in Responsibility
● Accountability and ownership: How do you view the concept of responsibility? What does it mean to be accountable for your actions?
● Challenges and rewards: What challenges have you faced in taking responsibility for your life? What rewards have you received?
● Purpose and meaning: How does taking responsibility contribute to a sense of purpose and meaning in your life?
Growth and Realizing What Matters
● Prioritizing values: How do you determine what truly matters in your life? What values guide your decisions?
● Overcoming obstacles: What obstacles have you faced in pursuing your goals and dreams? How have you overcome these challenges?
NOTE: Some of these questions will be addressed in the Second Episode InshaAllah
Please forgive some slight audio issues, these will all be rectified in the following episodes inshallah.
Navigating Manhood and Masculinity
● Changing perceptions: How have your perceptions of masculinity changed over the years, especially as you've become a husband and father?
● Toxic masculinity: Have you ever noticed toxic masculinity in your own life? How have you addressed or challenged it?
● Emotional expression: What have been some of the challenges you've faced in expressing your emotions as a man? How have you overcome these challenges?
Regrets and Lessons Learned
● Looking back: Are there any decisions or actions in your past that you regret navigating manhood? What lessons have you learned from these experiences?
● Second chances: How do you view the concept of second chances? Have you ever had to give yourself a second chance and what is the importance of positive self talk?
● Mistakes and growth: How do you believe mistakes contribute to personal growth and development?
Change and Transformation
● Personal evolution: What are some of the biggest transformations you've undergone in your life? How have these changes shaped who you are today?
● Fear of change: Have you ever been afraid of change? How have you overcome these fears?
● Embracing uncertainty: How do you approach uncertainty and the unknown? What strategies do you use to navigate these situations?
Fatherhood and Parenting
● Balancing act: How do you balance the demands of work, family, and personal life? What strategies have you found helpful in managing your time and energy?
● Father-child relationships: What do you consider to be the most important qualities for a father to possess? How do you strive to cultivate these qualities in your own relationships with your children?
● Challenges and rewards: What are some of the biggest challenges and rewards of fatherhood? How have these experiences shaped your perspective on life?
The Impact of His Wife
● Love and support: How has your wife's love and support influenced your personal growth and development?
● Challenges and compromises: What silent challenges have you faced in your marriage
as a man, and how have you and your wife overcome them?
● Partnership and equality: How do you view the role of women in society? What do you
believe it means to be a supportive and equal partner to your wife?
Service to the Ummah
● Community involvement: How do you contribute to your community and the broader Muslim world? What motivates you to serve others?
● Challenges and rewards: What challenges have you faced in your efforts to serve the ummah? What rewards have you received?
● Future aspirations: What are your goals for your involvement in the ummah in the future? How do you hope to make a positive impact?
Re-education and Unlearning
● Negative cultural norms: What negative cultural norms have you had to unlearn? How did you challenge these beliefs and practices?
● Continuous learning: How do you stay informed and continue to learn throughout your life? What resources do you find helpful?
● Personal growth: How do you believe re-education and unlearning contribute to personal growth and development?
Beauty in Responsibility
● Accountability and ownership: How do you view the concept of responsibility? What does it mean to be accountable for your actions?
● Challenges and rewards: What challenges have you faced in taking responsibility for your life? What rewards have you received?
● Purpose and meaning: How does taking responsibility contribute to a sense of purpose and meaning in your life?
Growth and Realizing What Matters
● Prioritizing values: How do you determine what truly matters in your life? What values guide your decisions?
● Overcoming obstacles: What obstacles have you faced in pursuing your goals and dreams? How have you overcome these challenges?
NOTE: Some of these questions will be addressed in the Second Episode InshaAllah
Please forgive some slight audio issues, these will all be rectified in the following episodes inshallah.
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Your latest video was lengthy but packed with a lot of lessons, it was very educating and insightful. I plan on sending the link to my brother inshaa Allah. Don't know if you know this but comments are turned off. I think it will be good to turn it back on for feedback, questions, suggestions and even words of encouragement. You impact people's lives with what you do and it's surprising you mentioned that you were worried about how people will receive what you do! Well done and jazakallahu khayran.
Baraqallah feekum His book! pls how do we get notified when it is published
Allahumma baarik Anticipating the next episode.
We’re waiting for the episode on lust control Jazakhallah khairan
Jazakhallah khairan
What you're doing is beautiful. Jazakumullahu bi khair
Great podcast, especially the topic about sensitivity, which is vital bcuz couples tends to ignore that
How do I ask a question I don't want to publicly ask? I need the POV of a man
Married people have no business being friends with the opposite gender. I’ve never seen an Islamic scholar that says it’s allowed. We aren’t perfect but it’s important to acknowledge what’s wrong. It’s definitely something worth discussing before marriage.
This is amazingg🫶🏽🤍
"Are you in love with that person or the idea of that person" Great episode overall💯
These are such important topics that often go unnoticed in relationships! Recognizing red flags like controlling behavior early on can save so much emotional pain later. Also, it's crucial to address past traumas before they shape new partnerships. Open communication, trust, and mutual respect are key for navigating everything from romantic gestures to friendships with the opposite sex.i really like this,a great one.
Thanks for the advice, And yes, I tried what I read the other day and it was mind blowing to see her trembling with satisfaction and ready to keep going. It started when I learned to last at least 30 minutes go’ogling the latest in Greyzar Drinbo's PE Solution and now she keeps dragging me back lol
This episode was amazing, it is amazing cos I'm not done watching yet but 😮💨😮💨. It's packed!!!. Allāhuma barik guys 💕
Husband's protective jealousy over his wife (Ghyrah) Amazing episode! Allahumma Barik
Agreed.Checking ur attitude status😅 after every relationship is pretty important.Reflected alot😊 may Allah Increase u in knowledge
OK at this point I'll call this a home of blessing, u guys re rlly trying.
This is something each nd everyone of us should find interested in, cause many of us don't know what relationship is talk less of making it be forever (marriage)
The part about savior complex? Whew. While trying to fix the person, you end up draining yourself and then both of you are unhappy in the relationship. Sometimes people aren’t ready to change because of comfort. They’re scared of the unknown and what they are is as a result of years of forming a specific trauma response. Think about how hard it is to change yourself? Very difficult right? Now then imagine how much harder it must be to change a grown adult with a will of their own. Practically impossible. Self development is different for everybody. The pace at which they heal might be slower than you’re ready to deal with so just move on
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Masha Allah Barakallahu feekhum It was indeed a helpful and impactful session , I enjoy every bit of it...
Masha Allah Barakallahu feekhum wonderful session May Allah continue to keep us firm on the right path
God Walahi the level of maturity this guy had is beyond amazing And Safar you did amazing This is what we all need to hear Thank you so much for this Allahumma Barik you two
Actually when I came across this podcast I was like 'how can I watch this podcast of almost 2 hours, what would I even gain from it' but I as began to ....., it's just Masha Allah very insightful and very interesting. I didn't even realize when it did come to an end. May God bless you and us together.
I wish TH-cam has like a voicenote in the comment section where I can completely just say everything that’s in my mind right now🥹 But anyhoo, Jazakhumullahi khair to you both. You two don’t know how much happiness this video has given me today, so I’ll simply say May Allah bless you both abundantly! I want to say a lot but I keep having this thought to jus keep it simple so I guess I’ll jus do that, orrrrrr🌚 whatever man! I’ll jus say what I can🫠🥲 Been following safar for almost 3yrs now on insta and after seeing this video, I didn’t give it a second thought to go follow Salim cos honestly, I was beyond thrilled with everything he spoke about! It’s like seeing everything I’ve ever imagined manifesting cos anytime I tell a friend or family member about how and who I’ve imagined my husband to be, they always tell me to jus go to Jannah to find him😂 Watching Salim speak about what I’ve ever wanted and more is jus mind-blowing for me! Alhamdulillah, this is my sign to discard that silly thought about settling!
When a man is raised by an educated caring woman,You know it by all means,exactly for a woman,when she’s being raised by an intelligent wise man it always shows…
OMG ❤❤ Masha Allah
Anytime I hear the word "Masculinity "shaykh Abdullah oduro's words come up to my mind wallahi I don't mind spending time watching/listening to podcasts as long the topic of discussion is helpful you and Alhamdulillah I didn't regret watching this episode it's really worth spending time on you have discussed so many important things and jazakhumullah khairan if you're also a fine of watching podcast I recommend you also watch(imaan cave,honesty tea talk and Some videos of towards till eternity in particular (shaykh yahya adel's episode and that of Omar suleiman)😊
I get it cause I treat my interactions as business too.
A very intentional episode very insightful…A breath of fresh air honestly listening to very mature minds!
I relate heavily to trying to solve my problems alone but unfortunately mine stems from an avoidant personality. It’s nice to hear about it from a male perspective
This is so good mashallah so so many valid points and I truly learned with this as well .
I just can't get tired of watching it🤗
Love this. Are y'all a couple?
Terrific Looking forward to the next episodes
55:15 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Amazing talks. Allahumma barik.
MashaAllah Allahumma barki kumaa❤
Can’t wait for next episode🤭
Very good conversation
I really like the format of the video. Getting both the male perspective and female perspective. I also like how you breakdown the questions before giving your opinions (with the other person's POV in mind) about the dilemmas/ Questions. looking forward to more episodes!!!
Omo! This is huge I so much love this and I learned a lot, thank you so much 😊 I can’t wait for the next episode 😁
Looking forward to episode two 😅 Loved this
Ya iya hausa 😅
Love thisss❤
I really enjoyed myself here
This is nice🫶
Really enjoy watching this🥰 keep it coming 😌
Masha Allah This is amazing
S.a.w