@@YourGirlfriendNeedsaDivorce "Not if both respect each others right to their marital share." Please elaborate? Are you saying marital share as in division of labor? Marital share as in legal rights to assets, time and money? Or marital share and legal rights and claims during a divorce proceeding such as "equitable distribution"? What are we talking about about here by that statement?
@@bobbyscalchi4013 marital share - equitable interest in what was earned, purchased, or acquired during marriage. Not all states are equitable distribution states
@@delocon ....what? If that were true, it would be separate assets because they're already earned. What's divided in divorce is what was earned during the marriage - hardly the "finish line"
@@YourGirlfriendNeedsaDivorce Women don't pick loser men with nothing to marry, they pick established men. They can then cheat on those men, or just flat out decide "I'm not happy" and abandon the marriage. If she decides to accuse the husband of domestic or sexual abuse, true or not it will work even better in her favor. They will then, as you have in this thread, describe basic necessities of living as "unpaid labour" painting themselves as victims in the relationship. More and more of us are done. We'll keep our shit, and the women we do have relationships with will be told straight up that marriage isn't happening, and for many of us, you're not even getting cohabitation. This is the bed you're making, enjoy sleeping in it.
@YourGirlfriendNeedsaDivorce It's so wild watching feminists still treat marriage traditionally. Equity would only be important to you because you're looking for a man that's better than you in every single way to improve your quality of life and status. Thought we were about equality these days? What about 2 partners on the same level building their life together? As long as ya'll continue to treat marriage like a buffet line, you can expect to die alone.
@@XAn0nymousX0 it's men who are more likely to be single! But, no - it's not a buffet line. There are inequities at every stage and both partners support each other, though not necessarily equally from a financial standpoint, especially once children come into the equation. Families make all sorts of different decisions, and that's fine - but you can't expect only one to pay for it while the other is free to go on as if he had no responsibility for joint decisions.
@@DVul stay clear? Of ... what? I'm already married, so not entertaining advances from random misogynists on the internet. I also only represent women, so it's not like professionally there's any risk either. Don't want to watch my videos? Scroll on.
@@YourGirlfriendNeedsaDivorce Again, another childish response. Mike Hunt isn't my "user name", it is my name, or rather Michael Hunt, but yes, my friends and family call me Mike, and Michael Hunt is my birth name. I understand being teased about this in high school, but not from a grown adult. If you really are a lawyer, I am sorry for any client who employs your services.
@@mikehunt5637 I assumed you chose it to be funny. I'm sorry - that's unfortunate, but I had no way of knowing. It's a common joke name. In any case, I stand by my initial response - if your wife is leaving you, you have the opportunity to be a better spouse too. It's hard for me to understand why so many men are determined to trap women in marriages that aren't working but are unwilling to do the work to improve the marriage. The women who I see are doing the work - have done the work for years - and are tired of being alone in their marriages.
What you’re addressing doesn’t have to do with divorce. What you’re actually advising women on is how to gain full custody of the children in order to receive the highest amount of child support. None of these issues will prevent a man from having to pay alimony, that is determined by weather or not she worked throughout the relationship or not.
@@De_Lus well, I think that depends on what you're looking for. I got married for love and because I had found someone I wanted to raise children with and build a life with. But just because I got married doesn't mean that I give my husband a blank check to abuse or control me, either. If it's not a partnership, I - and a lot of other women - don't want it. It's possible that what you're bringing to the table is just not something that women want and that's less a problem with marriage than with... well, you.
@@YourGirlfriendNeedsaDivorce lol you said it yourself its what you are looking for... it should not be something what you are looking for. marriage should be about love and thats it,nothing else and here you are giving advice on how to abuse the marriage system. beyond that, there is no reason for you to personal attack me like that. thats kind of predjudice of you. there just is no point to marriage anymore especcialy in this day and age and with that i think you have even proven my point if this is your reaction on me just simply sharing my opinion
@@De_Lus marriage - historically - has not been about love. In any case, both now and then, there's a lot of economics behind it. I'm not suggesting anyone abuse the system; I'm suggesting they make sure they're aware of how the system works so that they don't get taken advantage of. This happens all too often. Your comment that you don't know why to get married suggests to me that it's not about love for you and also that you're not even married.
@@YourGirlfriendNeedsaDivorce no i don't even want to, i am staying single like a lot of men are doing the pro's don't outweight the con's, like getting evidence in a trial case to get a heads up for in court is kinda of sick entrapment in my opinion. its all about the money so, again and i repeat my statement there is no point in getting married anymore. we can talk back and ford about this but its not gonna change. the way the world is like
not one single positive comment i read here on this video, so i don't know whats the point in debating. i don't even understand why youtube would want to adress me this women fashion magazine garbage nonsense talk
Wow, so many triggered people in the comments.....people who probably didnt address their own wrongdoings in the downfall of a a marriage to boot....shes just giving advice to people who care about what hapoens in a divorce...ideally, this doesnt happen, but people arent very accountable or mature or have good family values....so thats why it comes to this....
@@Channelinterrupted thanks for the support! I get a lot of hate on this channel in particular - which I get - but its hard to get behind either forcing people to stay in unhappy or unhealthy marriages or denying them access to what was earned during it. Marriage is a partnership of two people supporting each other.
@@mattwernecke2342 ugh, I know! The worst ive ever had! But, you know - we all have imperfections. I could pick myself apart but I choose to show up instead.
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Marriage and divorce are just money games now. And most people that play this game will lose.
@@ebrimamaubeh8363 Not necessarily. Not if both respect each others right to their marital share. It's the fighting that loses all the money.
Correction. Most Men that play this game will lose. In the West anyways.
@@bobbyscalchi4013 far from it, in my experience. How long have you practiced? Where?
@@YourGirlfriendNeedsaDivorce "Not if both respect each others right to their marital share." Please elaborate? Are you saying marital share as in division of labor? Marital share as in legal rights to assets, time and money? Or marital share and legal rights and claims during a divorce proceeding such as "equitable distribution"? What are we talking about about here by that statement?
@@bobbyscalchi4013 marital share - equitable interest in what was earned, purchased, or acquired during marriage. Not all states are equitable distribution states
This is a very good example of what's wrong with the world today.
For the dudes: Remember bros, never sign a contract with someone who is rewarded for breaking it.
@@delocon rewarded? By receiving an equitable share in what they helped build?
@@YourGirlfriendNeedsaDivorce Let's be honest here, you wait at the finish line and you pick the winners, then you take them for all their worth.
@@delocon ....what? If that were true, it would be separate assets because they're already earned. What's divided in divorce is what was earned during the marriage - hardly the "finish line"
@@YourGirlfriendNeedsaDivorce Women don't pick loser men with nothing to marry, they pick established men. They can then cheat on those men, or just flat out decide "I'm not happy" and abandon the marriage. If she decides to accuse the husband of domestic or sexual abuse, true or not it will work even better in her favor. They will then, as you have in this thread, describe basic necessities of living as "unpaid labour" painting themselves as victims in the relationship. More and more of us are done. We'll keep our shit, and the women we do have relationships with will be told straight up that marriage isn't happening, and for many of us, you're not even getting cohabitation. This is the bed you're making, enjoy sleeping in it.
Stay single guys.
There is no reason for men to get married, especially if he has something to loose.
Ask yourself if your vows meant anything at all.
@@geogeer9911 it takes two people to uphold vows.
No.
@@YourGirlfriendNeedsaDivorce True. But when one doesn't, it can be problematic.
Prenuptial and DNA tests for all offsping.
There is no Debate.
@@JohnCunningham-sy5ug you're right, there isn't - because no state requires either of those things automatically, let alone both.
Mega cringe. Idk how this got into my algorithm, but this is just more proof people need to completely abondon the idea of marriage as a concept.
@@XAn0nymousX0 probably a good choice for you if you don't believe in equity of any kind for both partners.
@YourGirlfriendNeedsaDivorce It's so wild watching feminists still treat marriage traditionally. Equity would only be important to you because you're looking for a man that's better than you in every single way to improve your quality of life and status. Thought we were about equality these days? What about 2 partners on the same level building their life together?
As long as ya'll continue to treat marriage like a buffet line, you can expect to die alone.
@@XAn0nymousX0 it's men who are more likely to be single! But, no - it's not a buffet line. There are inequities at every stage and both partners support each other, though not necessarily equally from a financial standpoint, especially once children come into the equation. Families make all sorts of different decisions, and that's fine - but you can't expect only one to pay for it while the other is free to go on as if he had no responsibility for joint decisions.
They can just allege that you are bipolar and it carries weight. The system is broken and our kids suffer for it.
@@tiabiamama i literally have a case exactly like this right now! It's insane to me. Who cares? The stigma is so gross.
Gents, this is what crazy looks like... stay clear....
@@DVul stay clear? Of ... what? I'm already married, so not entertaining advances from random misogynists on the internet. I also only represent women, so it's not like professionally there's any risk either. Don't want to watch my videos? Scroll on.
He's not going to say anything he's now got piece and quiet . MONEY is only drama he's got . How much the system is going to take .
Maybe just try to be a better spouse?
@@mikehunt5637 right back at ya!
@@YourGirlfriendNeedsaDivorce That is a response that I would expect from someone in high school.
@@mikehunt5637 kind of like your user name
@@YourGirlfriendNeedsaDivorce Again, another childish response. Mike Hunt isn't my "user name", it is my name, or rather Michael Hunt, but yes, my friends and family call me Mike, and Michael Hunt is my birth name. I understand being teased about this in high school, but not from a grown adult. If you really are a lawyer, I am sorry for any client who employs your services.
@@mikehunt5637 I assumed you chose it to be funny. I'm sorry - that's unfortunate, but I had no way of knowing. It's a common joke name. In any case, I stand by my initial response - if your wife is leaving you, you have the opportunity to be a better spouse too. It's hard for me to understand why so many men are determined to trap women in marriages that aren't working but are unwilling to do the work to improve the marriage. The women who I see are doing the work - have done the work for years - and are tired of being alone in their marriages.
Lawyers love money.
@@hongolloyd8728 lawyers who love it the most practice in an area other than family law
What you’re addressing doesn’t have to do with divorce. What you’re actually advising women on is how to gain full custody of the children in order to receive the highest amount of child support. None of these issues will prevent a man from having to pay alimony, that is determined by weather or not she worked throughout the relationship or not.
@@mattsmith817 *whether. And, no, I don't think you have a solid understanding of alimony.
BS
whats the point of getting married anymore :D
@@De_Lus well, I think that depends on what you're looking for. I got married for love and because I had found someone I wanted to raise children with and build a life with. But just because I got married doesn't mean that I give my husband a blank check to abuse or control me, either. If it's not a partnership, I - and a lot of other women - don't want it. It's possible that what you're bringing to the table is just not something that women want and that's less a problem with marriage than with... well, you.
@@YourGirlfriendNeedsaDivorce lol you said it yourself its what you are looking for... it should not be something what you are looking for. marriage should be about love and thats it,nothing else and here you are giving advice on how to abuse the marriage system. beyond that, there is no reason for you to personal attack me like that. thats kind of predjudice of you. there just is no point to marriage anymore especcialy in this day and age and with that i think you have even proven my point if this is your reaction on me just simply sharing my opinion
@@De_Lus marriage - historically - has not been about love. In any case, both now and then, there's a lot of economics behind it. I'm not suggesting anyone abuse the system; I'm suggesting they make sure they're aware of how the system works so that they don't get taken advantage of. This happens all too often. Your comment that you don't know why to get married suggests to me that it's not about love for you and also that you're not even married.
@@YourGirlfriendNeedsaDivorce no i don't even want to, i am staying single like a lot of men are doing the pro's don't outweight the con's, like getting evidence in a trial case to get a heads up for in court is kinda of sick entrapment in my opinion. its all about the money so, again and i repeat my statement there is no point in getting married anymore. we can talk back and ford about this but its not gonna change. the way the world is like
not one single positive comment i read here on this video, so i don't know whats the point in debating. i don't even understand why youtube would want to adress me this women fashion magazine garbage nonsense talk
Wow, so many triggered people in the comments.....people who probably didnt address their own wrongdoings in the downfall of a a marriage to boot....shes just giving advice to people who care about what hapoens in a divorce...ideally, this doesnt happen, but people arent very accountable or mature or have good family values....so thats why it comes to this....
@@Channelinterrupted thanks for the support! I get a lot of hate on this channel in particular - which I get - but its hard to get behind either forcing people to stay in unhappy or unhealthy marriages or denying them access to what was earned during it. Marriage is a partnership of two people supporting each other.
Nice pimple
@@mattwernecke2342 ugh, I know! The worst ive ever had! But, you know - we all have imperfections. I could pick myself apart but I choose to show up instead.