The Try Guys Shave Their Dads • Fatherhood: Part 4

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  • Clean-shaven...clean slate. The Try Guys finally confront their fathers about marriage, parenting, and explosive family secrets. The fourth in a special five-part series exploring fatherhood. This Father’s Day, Gillette encourages you to put down the phone and #GoAskDad • Video
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ความคิดเห็น • 19K

  • @crippledmemow2654
    @crippledmemow2654 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6172

    "Why did she leave you?"
    "I.. Don't know.."
    MY HEART IS SHATTERED

    • @heathers9354
      @heathers9354 7 ปีที่แล้ว +191

      Kamila Feehan that hit me hard. my mom left when I was in middle School and I don't know why. I had always thought she never wanted me.

    • @goback7700
      @goback7700 7 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Kamila Feehan Me too... It felt like a sharp object wounded my heart... like wow...

    • @irenek5298
      @irenek5298 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      so sad😭😭😭😭

    • @okeoke3002
      @okeoke3002 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      kamila feehan ur cute

    • @callmebreezy338
      @callmebreezy338 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      lian bmut
      not the time for that, dude.

  • @junkie94
    @junkie94 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13559

    "Why'd she leave you?"
    *short pause*
    "I have no idea."
    I could feel my heart physically break.

    • @pjb4465
      @pjb4465 7 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      allthefeels not physically but figuratively

    • @junkie94
      @junkie94 7 ปีที่แล้ว +170

      PJ B heartbreak is a physical feeling 💔

    • @Wild4lon
      @Wild4lon 7 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      allthefeels i am crying right now

    • @ImTheCookieMonster95
      @ImTheCookieMonster95 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I doubt you felt your heart physically break . but i see your point

    • @XxBrittany20xX
      @XxBrittany20xX 7 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Heartbreak is real. That has been proven medically and scientifically

  • @yoyohan9
    @yoyohan9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9505

    The moments between Eugene and his father are so revealing and intimate that I feel like I'm eavesdropping on a very private conversation.

    • @Shifu287
      @Shifu287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Exactly!

    • @yoyohan9
      @yoyohan9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@emilv.9135 he WHAT???

    • @sarahsings8468
      @sarahsings8468 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      @@yoyohan9 It was his stepfather, not his birth father. It's still sad though, may he rest in peace ❤

    • @lloveshorrorc2440
      @lloveshorrorc2440 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Sarah Sings oh thank god it wasn’t his real father. But his stepfather seemed like a very sweet man and my wishes go out to min, eugene, and their family.

    • @emilv.9135
      @emilv.9135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@sarahsings8468 Oh... well as you said, still sad

  • @jennaye8142
    @jennaye8142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1362

    Ngl I started sobbing when Eugene said, "Even though you didn't have a dad, I have a good dad". Especially after hearing how Eugene used to hate his dad, and finally he's able to rekindle their relationship a bit.

  • @Classycat17
    @Classycat17 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5371

    Eugene's dad: "Are you crying?"
    Eugene: "No! Are you crying?"
    Me: *"I'M CRYING"*

    • @emilyjackson2682
      @emilyjackson2682 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      NeonMoon SAME

    • @junecisiong
      @junecisiong 7 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Obviously Eugene was about to cry. I did

    • @nishiaboo7583
      @nishiaboo7583 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      NeonMoon: same!! aww the feeeelz

    • @somedaysoon9551
      @somedaysoon9551 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      NeonMoon me too😢

    • @avagracem9760
      @avagracem9760 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      same I'm so emotional after watching that and cant stop crying omg 😂

  • @olimakiella
    @olimakiella 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6710

    Eugene's Dad: Are you crying?
    Eugene: I'm not crying, are you crying?
    Me: WELL, I'M CRYING.

    • @twilightaddicable
      @twilightaddicable 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      olimakiella that's exactly what I said!

    • @abbymoraine1105
      @abbymoraine1105 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      olimakiella same... 😭

    • @bethsieb7373
      @bethsieb7373 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      olimakiella me too

    • @TiaBeTrippin
      @TiaBeTrippin 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      olimakiella Same!!

    • @michealpok3701
      @michealpok3701 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      HAHAHA I EVEN HAD TISSUES IN MY EYES

  • @renah.3459
    @renah.3459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3314

    Eugene: “Why did she leave you?”
    Eugene’s dad: “I have no idea.”
    Eugene’s dad: “Are you crying?”
    Eugene, red eyed: “No, are you crying?”
    There where so many more intimate moments between Eugene and his father. I never knew I could cry so hard. I love his dad ❤️

    • @hannahandersen6869
      @hannahandersen6869 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And what Ned and Keith's dads said right before about their wives already had me tearing up.

  • @MizzLizzyLiz
    @MizzLizzyLiz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4634

    I really hope Eugene and his dad found peace with each other. I really do. They seemed they broke a lot of boundaries and it really came through this experience.

    • @kittycat10072
      @kittycat10072 4 ปีที่แล้ว +209

      you should watch the vid of eugene and his dad going to a gay bar together!!! their relationship has progressed really well and it makes me super happy to see it

    • @poggies7639
      @poggies7639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +208

      Ghabrielle Almeida tbh Eugene’s dad wasn’t a bad dad, he just came from Korea in a time where the country was really poor so he had to work much harder to support his family than native born Americans since they had more generational wealth built up, it’s the unfortunate part about moving countries especially to from a poorer one to a rich one. I feel like he would’ve been able to spend more time with his kids when they were young if not for the struggles immigrants face

    • @doctordre005
      @doctordre005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @imyourdadandim9 whoaaa dude you got a stick in the mud. I dont want to speak against your family because each one are varied in life but i believe people can change
      and at least based on the try guys videos we saw, eugene and his dad had mend their relationship for the better
      ps: you're not at fault, your family is

    • @doctordre005
      @doctordre005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @imyourdadandim9 well that sucks
      really hope more opportunity comes for you, mate

  • @loofy7748
    @loofy7748 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3938

    "Even though you didn't have a dad i have a good dad." Bruh Eugene got me crying manly tears.

    • @saraflores149
      @saraflores149 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      loofy ikr😢😢😢

    • @trinitymilby9474
      @trinitymilby9474 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      loofy omfg right when the video was ending and I started scrolling to the comments I read this same quote right when he was saying it. My mind is blown.

    • @EasyDistraction
      @EasyDistraction 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      loofy just casually balling my eyes out. Nothing to see here 😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @loofy7748
      @loofy7748 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Foster Child 12:30

    • @leda_20
      @leda_20 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      EasyDistraction I b

  • @burgeritchi
    @burgeritchi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3508

    Jae-"Are you crying?"
    Eugene-*tearing up* "No,are you crying?"
    Me-IM CRYING

  • @IOL-ox5tn
    @IOL-ox5tn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1914

    *Eugene and his dad hug*
    Eugene's dad: *P A T P A T*

    • @yaldabaoth9235
      @yaldabaoth9235 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @JackOfSpades no it isn't

    • @kortilla8287
      @kortilla8287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@yaldabaoth9235 To me it is because growing up as an asian, my parents would pat me all the time. It was a sign of affection so maybe we just have different experiences.

    • @yaldabaoth9235
      @yaldabaoth9235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kortilla8287 I think it's pretty much a common thing to do in everywhere except the anglosphere. not exclusively asian

    • @embrace7052
      @embrace7052 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@kortilla8287 yes lol pat pat is a thing here even in south Asian Countries

    • @txnd9426
      @txnd9426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ITS ALWAYS THE PAT PAT BAHAHAHA

  • @karatelover72698
    @karatelover72698 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2295

    Anyone else love how Eugene's dad and mom are divorced but his dad still says nice things about his mom

    • @princembat
      @princembat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +183

      sometimes you just find that youre better seperate from someone than together, doesnt mean ya have to have bad blood

    • @delaneyreyes8995
      @delaneyreyes8995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      He seems like a respectful man

    • @djdog120
      @djdog120 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      That's.... healthy? Like talking bad about someone after a breaup/divorce if they didn't do much bad, then that's just unhealthy.
      Edit: just for anyone who sees this, my dad and mom do **not** have this relationship. They are divorced. I know what it’s like to have parents like that.

    • @theceacastle
      @theceacastle ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@djdog120 it is healthy but its not always the case in divorce. I think the commenter was just appreciating it

    • @sunnystreet4950
      @sunnystreet4950 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@djdog120 nearly every divorced couple I know talks smack about their exes to their kids. It’s not okay but it happens so often. Of course not everyone does this but it’s so prevalent. It’s something sweet to be pointed out as something to emulate.

  • @angebears7968
    @angebears7968 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3041

    "Even though you don't have a dad, I have a good dad."-Eugene.

  • @mena21721
    @mena21721 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6546

    i love the fact that even though Eugene HATES hugs (you can actually see a video about it) he gave his Father a real, emotional Hug! and his Father also seemed like he wanted to give him a real Hug
    that was very very sweet

    • @disneyqueen6319
      @disneyqueen6319 7 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      mena21721 they have come such a long way in just a couple of days

    • @woldinini9988
      @woldinini9988 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      one day:)

    • @fandomanimegirl1221
      @fandomanimegirl1221 7 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      That was so sad and happy at the same time. I almost cried and I told my eyes, DON'T YOU DARE CRY! WE'RE GOOD, WE'RE GOOD, STOP IT EYES! lol.

    • @mena21721
      @mena21721 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Disney Queen hopefully they'll keep it up that way :)

    • @mena21721
      @mena21721 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Fandom Girl i know x) it was really touching

  • @handthesaratonin
    @handthesaratonin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1543

    Eugene has that look of anger towards those who left his dad and he seems like he wants to protect his dad

  • @angelchica1492
    @angelchica1492 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1669

    God....when Eugene said "love you Dad" and his dad said "Eugene I love you more"
    I lost it and cried

    • @LucGPTnki
      @LucGPTnki ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yep exactly. still wiping them away. wheew!

    • @echle4675
      @echle4675 ปีที่แล้ว

      What time stamp

    • @Dh-uj8pr
      @Dh-uj8pr ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@echle4675 12:10

  • @yaboyiamarat6006
    @yaboyiamarat6006 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9676

    Eugene's dad " are you crying?"
    Eugene obviously crying: "no!"

    • @faithbabiesrebornnursery1895
      @faithbabiesrebornnursery1895 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      😭😭😭😭😭😭😂😔

    • @appu6787
      @appu6787 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      GloomyBean :3 no........ maybe............... yes.........

    • @orksca5459
      @orksca5459 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      they say you dont always need tears to cry

    • @pallaspanda2282
      @pallaspanda2282 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Well I am so yeah...

    • @jupitertheplanet2030
      @jupitertheplanet2030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The air is so dry there

  • @FranciscaHale
    @FranciscaHale 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3425

    Eugene: [about his grandmother] why did she leave you?
    His dad: I have no idea.
    my heart just broke

    • @salemluna56
      @salemluna56 7 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Francisca Hale I cried for years in Spanish

    • @TaySoaresS
      @TaySoaresS 7 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      I actually started crying at that moment

    • @urmomgay3970
      @urmomgay3970 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      He said, "I don't know why."

    • @FatimaAli-cd1si
      @FatimaAli-cd1si 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Super Hijabi ARMY

    • @tatteredwings_1394
      @tatteredwings_1394 7 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      that hit me so hard... at least Eugene now kinda understands his dad a lot more

  • @maevesloan1943
    @maevesloan1943 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4605

    I love Eugenes dad so much
    “ *Tom Brady* “
    “Are you falling asleep”
    “ *trying to* “
    “ *eh* “
    “ *errr* “

  • @Wisndk
    @Wisndk ปีที่แล้ว +718

    Wish Ned took his dad’s advice.

    • @ZaynMalik-sq2li
      @ZaynMalik-sq2li ปีที่แล้ว +72

      It’s sad really, Ned’s dad looks like a sweet and caring father. I too wished he had taken his father’s advice 😓

    • @Meredythe
      @Meredythe ปีที่แล้ว +60

      What I would not give to see Ned's father kicking his butt for being a screw up.

    • @tinyartsy
      @tinyartsy ปีที่แล้ว +9

      so glad i’m not the only one who thought this

    • @hannahandersen6869
      @hannahandersen6869 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      His dad seems so wise and kind. I wish Ned would've just listened or even talked to his dad before cheating on Ariel. I have a feeling his dad would've helped him work through whatever pushed him to cheat.

    • @LatinHetaliaPeru
      @LatinHetaliaPeru 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      his father now is kinda ashamed of him

  • @eliseensanian3842
    @eliseensanian3842 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2589

    "are you crying?"
    "no! Are you crying?"
    Tsundere Eugene is the best Eugene.

    • @rainyoodles5948
      @rainyoodles5948 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Isabella Manson YESSSSSS
      TSUNDERE ENGENE IS THE BEST ENGENE

    • @yenzi930
      @yenzi930 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Isabella Manson the meaning of Eugene is tsundere

    • @dorothy1092
      @dorothy1092 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      YEESSSSSS!! Ikr!!

    • @chrystalcoleman6963
      @chrystalcoleman6963 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Isabella Manson I

    • @maddysmith1421
      @maddysmith1421 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      A tsundere with a little bit of yandere 😂😂😂

  • @helencamargodiaz588
    @helencamargodiaz588 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2699

    when Eugene said " even though you didn't have a dad, I have a great dad" he was speaking from the little boy inside of himself

    • @katherinesmith1740
      @katherinesmith1740 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I did cry...what a video

    • @alicemasdefiol4367
      @alicemasdefiol4367 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Duuuuude right when he said it i read ur comment THE EXACT SAME TIME.....i just found that hella cool😂🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @idek4167
    @idek4167 4 ปีที่แล้ว +806

    "Don't feel sorry, that's life."
    Dang this kinda hits me tbh

  • @starsanchez7462
    @starsanchez7462 4 ปีที่แล้ว +486

    Eugene and his dad made me tear up, but I think the part when my tears really kicked into gear was when Zach was thanking his dad and mom for supporting him through his depression.
    I'm so happy for him and jealous at the same time because my mom died before she could help me with my depression, and my dad refuses to acknowledge it at all.

    • @halloweenallyearround4889
      @halloweenallyearround4889 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm sorry about that. Sometimes people don't know how to love. And some family is better to be away from. Please know the horrible times you're experiencing will one day pass and give way to contentment and peacefulness. I hope you have access to therapy and find suitable help. Big hugs or the sign of support you prefer.

  • @gorgeoustaehyung4413
    @gorgeoustaehyung4413 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2583

    Eugene: "and then she left and we were with you"
    *damn that's deep*

    • @An-pv8sv
      @An-pv8sv 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Twilight Bright I cried

    • @alexanderhamilton7016
      @alexanderhamilton7016 7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Twilight Bright I started tearing up

    • @amon3236
      @amon3236 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      alexander hamilton ALL THE WAY FROM LONDON *DAMN*

    • @rissmanley3540
      @rissmanley3540 7 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      I feel bad watching it it feels so private but I am confused because he was so shocked that his grandma left his dad...but his mom left him so why does that shock him, maybe just because he didn't know and because his dad didn't have a dad to go to it was just confusing

    • @NumberXIII
      @NumberXIII 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Laurissa Allen his dad died, mom left

  • @888kawehi
    @888kawehi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3701

    HE ASKED FOR A HUG. HE HATES HUGS.

    • @JJ-zj2xr
      @JJ-zj2xr 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      OMG I KNOWW

    • @hyabrd1775
      @hyabrd1775 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      ¡~¡
      BOOTIFUL...

    • @TwitchyMoth
      @TwitchyMoth 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      sarah johanna :0

    • @marybritneyatillo8097
      @marybritneyatillo8097 7 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      kaylin lopez I Know.. almost all of them got me feel emotional..especially eugene..

    • @iloveyoutothemoonandback
      @iloveyoutothemoonandback 7 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      omg i forgot this. And they hugged for like 18 seconds!

  • @ellaronci2703
    @ellaronci2703 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    "i was an idiot" "i needed to date other people" i wish ned learned that before getting married

  • @kaivjak
    @kaivjak ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I wonder how Ned’s dad felt when he found out about what Ned did.

  • @caitlynqdkim9075
    @caitlynqdkim9075 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4784

    "I'm sorry about what happened to you"
    "Don't be sorry, that's life"
    I have some dust in my eyes. 😪

    • @FriedRice3519
      @FriedRice3519 7 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Random Person. *sniff*im NOT CRYING *double sniff* you're crying

    • @AureliaIsBored
      @AureliaIsBored 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Who is chopping onions near me?!?!

    • @elizabethlozano9915
      @elizabethlozano9915 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same same . hahahahhahah

    • @nickyh4241
      @nickyh4241 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Random Person allergies, I have allergies.

    • @uselessunicycle885
      @uselessunicycle885 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Random Person My eyes are deep cleaning the dust with tears, the dust is really stuck in there..

  • @simong1794
    @simong1794 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4575

    "Even though you didn't have a dad..I have a pretty good dad"
    mm
    I'm cryin now anyone else

  • @thereforeiam2908
    @thereforeiam2908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +584

    I'm just so proud of Eugene for really talking with his father.
    And can we just take a moment to see how similar are Ned's and Keith's dads to their sons...

    • @antithoughtpolice7497
      @antithoughtpolice7497 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It was seeing the red flags Ned may have learned from his dad, and Keith having a better example and being the superior husband.
      I mean, "We broke up and dated other people... It wasn't the same."

  • @Artlover1115
    @Artlover1115 ปีที่แล้ว +437

    I wonder if having two kids did stress their relationship like he feared, but cheating is never ever ever the answer Ned, he really should’ve known better and learned to communicate stronger

    • @itsMeUhDanii
      @itsMeUhDanii ปีที่แล้ว +24

      That’s 100%!! What I was thinking as well

    • @tomoko7584
      @tomoko7584 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      more like he was a failure as a father and partner since the beginning

    • @lilymae7516
      @lilymae7516 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      If he feared it than that was on him, not the relationship itself. Those are his own insecurities being a husband and dad. If he wasn't ready and scared of having a family then he shouldn't have had one.

    • @antithoughtpolice7497
      @antithoughtpolice7497 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@lilymae7516 Until intense therapy, yeah don't do relationships

    • @carnuatus
      @carnuatus ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Cheating usually has nothing to do with the person being cheated on. It is usually a repeated, pathologized behavior and based on a podcast episode where Ariel basically implied that SHE was the one that Ned cheated with, at one point. The ex who was cheated on somehow got invited to their wedding (!!!) and Ariel had to set a hard boundary about it. Obviously she didn't say all that but it could be easily extrapolated from what she DID say.
      Remember this: if your relationship with someone is the result of cheating, just know that they rarely ever stop.

  • @yalikejazz611
    @yalikejazz611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8106

    eugene: *hugs his dad*
    his dad: *pat pat pat pat pat pat pat*

    • @syra1541
      @syra1541 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      I know, lots of people do that when uncomfortable in hugs, and some just do it because they're accustomed to if but I think that's what it is

    • @spoilurself.
      @spoilurself. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Isa The Gacha girl gravity falls?

    • @Bangel911
      @Bangel911 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      This is a cultural thing. Oftentimes, those who are older than you who give you hugs pat you on the back as a gesture of adoration. It's a nonverbal way of saying "I adore you" or "I love you". Koreans rarely ever say the words "I love you" even to your own child or parents so oftentimes we find other ways to express it without actually saying it directly. It's that passive aggressive nature that we're just born with 🤣🤣🤣

    • @0891mik
      @0891mik 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I am now almost 30, my mother said she love me for the first time a couple years ago. The first time she actually embraced a hug that wasn’t responded with Pat Pat Pat was just a couple years ago. It’s very much a cultural thing.

    • @YoYo-it5vc
      @YoYo-it5vc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      That sir, is the Asian pat

  • @MissDarcei
    @MissDarcei 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17658

    "I'M NOT CRYING, YOU'RE CRYING" - Eugene

    • @greywhale
      @greywhale 7 ปีที่แล้ว +367

      MissDarcei think he said "are you crying?"

    • @jordyjay1434
      @jordyjay1434 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      MissDarcei #Sad

    • @morganc5611
      @morganc5611 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Lmao

    • @AgnetkaKonfetka
      @AgnetkaKonfetka 6 ปีที่แล้ว +142

      No eugene you're wrong im crying 😭

    • @ih2408
      @ih2408 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      if you did not cry your soulness

  • @NOONE-cd4gu
    @NOONE-cd4gu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +302

    "Even tho you didnt have a dad i have a very good one" -Eugene
    Omg my tears 😭😍

  • @gtkkkgoonzL1
    @gtkkkgoonzL1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +347

    I really felt touched on the part when he said “I know when I was a teen I yelled at you and mom a lot “ and that hit different because its hard to explain how you feel as a teenager and you just want to be understood parents are the best gift you could ever get and they’ll always be there for you and put up with you and love you no matter what 😢

  • @Ally-mv2in
    @Ally-mv2in 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2533

    “Even though you didn’t have a dad, I have a good dad.” -Eugene ;I’m sobbing;

    • @loafy1180
      @loafy1180 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      12:30

    • @Quissayilen
      @Quissayilen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      noooOOOO. sh sh shhhh. shushhhh. I am like seconds away from crying rn

    • @annaliadepaolo1069
      @annaliadepaolo1069 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm crying so much tbh.

    • @SkullCrusher757
      @SkullCrusher757 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      my mother and her siblings would say the same thing about their father. my grandfather father walked out on them before my grandfather was born

  • @LS-uo3wk
    @LS-uo3wk 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3213

    Everybody is talking about Eugene and his father but no one is actually talking about how brave it was for both of them to put something that personal on the internet. So much respect for them.

    • @sophiekiser2975
      @sophiekiser2975 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Lea Anthes That is so true! They are so inspiring!

    • @aliciasandoval
      @aliciasandoval 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Lea Anthes so true they are really brave

    • @daddyalex7988
      @daddyalex7988 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Brave and it will help others. It helped me.

    • @rokitdemo136
      @rokitdemo136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It made my cryyy , my grandma became an orphan at age of 6, her mom died when giving her birth and her dad left her and I just respect her so much and I hope that when I grow up I can make her happy , and I think that for Eugene knowing that about his father was a big hit

  • @scintillatingsinger9585
    @scintillatingsinger9585 3 ปีที่แล้ว +234

    When Zach apologized to his dad I started crying.
    This video is so heartfelt and all the boys shared so much with their dads and they weren't acting. They were just spending time with one of the most important people in their lives.

  • @alexmoon273
    @alexmoon273 3 ปีที่แล้ว +384

    Eugene's dad backstory:
    6:38-6:48 hits you like a punch to the gut. You feel the weight of it, but 6:49-6:53 just hits you like a freaking truck. Your feelings have nowhere to hide.

  • @Pinkash246
    @Pinkash246 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1470

    "Don't be afraid to draw blood" "I never said that" 😂😂😂

  • @LemonySauce
    @LemonySauce 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2424

    Eugene: I love you dad
    Father: Eugene I love you more
    Eugene: I love you most
    Father: Well, i do more than you
    Eugene: It's not a contest, dad
    #Classic, my mom and i do that every time we talk. See she had a stroke a year ago and she lost her memory temporarily and it was tough to watch her stare at me and not know who i was. Four months past and i would tell her i love you and she would say "but i don't know you" but now her memory is fully back and she constantly tells me.

    • @AlessandraCFlores
      @AlessandraCFlores 7 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Ayeki Williams I'm so sorry for that, but also I'm so glad to know that now she is ok :)

    • @LemonySauce
      @LemonySauce 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Alessandra C Flores thanks so much

    • @resuriuchiha4108
      @resuriuchiha4108 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Ayeki Williams sorry for what you had to experience your share is so heartwarming. happy to hear everything is now ok (I don't know if you're religious and what your beliefs may be) but may god bring upon you many blessings such as this one

    • @LemonySauce
      @LemonySauce 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Resuri Uchiha thank you

    • @38dd
      @38dd 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      im so sorry

  • @decnmalue8522
    @decnmalue8522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    It’s sad how Eugene and his father have both experienced their mothers leaving them

  • @phuongnguyenthanh4628
    @phuongnguyenthanh4628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +326

    I understand about the "Korean culture" that Eugene was talking about. Even his dad said he want proud about it so he didn't talk but as an Asian, I know that's our culture. Dad in Asian has a big strong imagine. They don't want to show the sad moment or the failure. They are the biggest one in the family. They are in charge of providing for the whole family (no government fund). They need to be strong like steel. They don't say sorry, or love you or hug much. You can see it in Eugene sence with his dad.
    We dont know much about our dads or have fun with our dads like people in the West so you guys should feel happy if you has a deep happy relationship with your dad.

    • @unknown-et2vs
      @unknown-et2vs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yup.. asian dad's don't show much of their emotion... Sometimes I think that my dad doesn't even love me. But I know that one day I'd fully understand what he's going through.

  • @user-lr5th3ef5v
    @user-lr5th3ef5v 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1559

    Eugene's father seems like he went through so much and it affected so many things like his relationship with Eugene and it just breaks my heart, I just want to hug them both.

    • @imnotayoutuber7781
      @imnotayoutuber7781 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lauren Clement I’m so late right now I don’t know what happend to them eugene and his dad I’m lost

  • @khadeejaahmad2247
    @khadeejaahmad2247 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1828

    Eugene: I love you dad
    Dad: I love you more
    Eugene: I love you most
    Dad: I love you more than you love me
    Eugene: Its not a contest dad
    😂😂😂😂😂😂 Ded. Eugene's sense of humour sparks at the most weirdest times😂

    • @shamsiftikar8083
      @shamsiftikar8083 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Khadeeja Ahmad they love each other very much but doesn't express

    • @pineinapple9272
      @pineinapple9272 7 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      i thought eugene said "it's not a contest dad" at the end.

    • @juhiaroma
      @juhiaroma 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Shams Iftikar that's such Asian thing

    • @khadeejaahmad2247
      @khadeejaahmad2247 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      pineinapple oh wait you are right just heard it again

    • @achuuz
      @achuuz 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Khadeeja Ahmad I was too busy with crying so I had no chance to laugh at that

  • @user-mq9ni4eb2h
    @user-mq9ni4eb2h ปีที่แล้ว +23

    ned: "im worried about havings kids and it stressing our relationship" cheats on ariel years later.

  • @m.d.2198
    @m.d.2198 3 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    I'm so proud of Eugene and his dad for being vulnerable and telling each other I love you. They talked about so much and it looks like they bonded a lot in that moment

  • @imtallsowhat
    @imtallsowhat 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7731

    I teared up when eugene's dad talked about his past and when Eugene found out that his father's childhood/teenage years were worse than Eugene's... I'm really glad they got to do a video together. it really gave them a chance to connect..

    • @Sugabug75
      @Sugabug75 7 ปีที่แล้ว +228

      ba nana Honestly, each video with the two of them together makes me a little sad. Especially juxtaposed against the others. I hope that this opens a door for them.

    • @guacamoleontoast4591
      @guacamoleontoast4591 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      me too

    • @noway-vy8yw
      @noway-vy8yw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Umaru Chan😍😍

    • @mr.barackobamareal
      @mr.barackobamareal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know this is a great and serious comment but umaru Chan

    • @raisingchanges
      @raisingchanges 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think it was also more how he could relate, as well. I'm glad they did this video too.

  • @celticcountrylover
    @celticcountrylover 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1054

    "The Try Guys Have Deep, Emotional Conversations With Their Fathers (Oh And I Guess There's Shaving Too)"

  • @Lovebug756
    @Lovebug756 4 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    Eugene’s dad made me cry I feel for him ya know. He didn’t have a father so he didn’t know how to be there for his children but he is still trying to be the best man for them even while going through so much alone

    • @baala2754
      @baala2754 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I can relate to him becoz my dad passed away when I was a year old 😞

  • @taylor7043
    @taylor7043 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Damn why is Eugene's life so crazy hard. Like in the try guys ancestry video he learned a lot about his family that he never knew because he didn't even know like 3/4 of his family because of the war

  • @startfromscratchproduction8889
    @startfromscratchproduction8889 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1912

    1% of the comments is about the shaving
    99% Eugene and his dad

    • @coolcool7325
      @coolcool7325 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      AMD Movie Expert tru

    • @annagerlach1981
      @annagerlach1981 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      AMD Movie Expert it has good reason

    • @hanseng5542
      @hanseng5542 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      AMD Movie Expert (@_@)

    • @comicdubs619
      @comicdubs619 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      AMD Movie Expert true

    • @addisondennis8575
      @addisondennis8575 7 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      well I balled the entire time

  • @autumndunn345
    @autumndunn345 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4011

    Kieth and his father are the funny ones
    Eugene and his father are the mysterious and emotional ones
    Ned and his father is the happy and proud ones
    Zach and his father are the precious ones

    • @nibba6968
      @nibba6968 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Stella Hogg true

    • @127deku
      @127deku 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Stella Hogg this comment deserves more likes

    • @autumndunn345
      @autumndunn345 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      twenty øne panicking piløts that band should be noticed more 😉 |-/

    • @TreeSlotBot
      @TreeSlotBot 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      dont label then lol thats so generalized

    • @emma-br2fk
      @emma-br2fk 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      euphony - why you gotta ruin everything

  • @leighreinhart6185
    @leighreinhart6185 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Eugene's dad went through so much. I'm glad he has lived long enough for him and Eugene to have these conversations. Not everyone gets that chance.

  • @antithoughtpolice7497
    @antithoughtpolice7497 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Eugene and Zach were so sweet in this video T-T
    9:58 Ned, should of listened to your dad

  • @avinm2356
    @avinm2356 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2270

    Eugene’s Dad: “Are you crying?”
    Eugene:” No, are you crying?”
    * *says that while crying* *

    • @ianbyrne465
      @ianbyrne465 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I’m not crying! You’re crying!

    • @alymunoz534
      @alymunoz534 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      asian Family.. hides. cries Not all but many cause it a sign of weakness For them.😔😔

  • @phatcami
    @phatcami 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3769

    Eugene needs to go somewhere with his dad and just talk. The love is there but they don't seem to know each other

    • @TheMlleSam
      @TheMlleSam 6 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      I see so much of my relationship with my dad (even if I'm a woman) in theirs... it's insane... and makes it even more emotional...

    • @dellamaevanneste8571
      @dellamaevanneste8571 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      phatcami I am glad he and his dad are working on their relationship

    • @chiaseed7974
      @chiaseed7974 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I dont know why but yeah I think this is an asian thing because I also have a hard time knowing my mom (i was raised by a single mom and she was just recently married)

    • @007meef6
      @007meef6 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Well. I was in the same situation when I was like 11. Then there is puberty, in wich I am still, that was just an horrible time for our relationship expecially before I came out as gay.
      Then I came out like three days ago and I feel like our bond is getting stronger. I love him much more now.

    • @munishganorkar7375
      @munishganorkar7375 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      It's just an Asian thing, both India and china and those places. Kids and parents simply don't talk the same way as in Europe and the west. Sometimes I experience the same thing, even if I am an American born Indian. It's just a way of life. Not great but that's how it is.

  • @PhevieWonder
    @PhevieWonder 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Dang, Eugene’s dad saying “I don’t know why” when asked why his mom left him, is just so heartbreaking. You can hear in his voice he’s never had to confront it in so long and it hurts him even now to deal with it.
    Like, I get Eugene’s anger about his dad not talking about his hardships, but how can a dad surrounded by patriarchal traditions come to his teenage kids and tell them about how much he hurts inside? It must be so hard.

  • @this_is_chycanthropy
    @this_is_chycanthropy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Eugene and his father competing over who loves who more is beautiful. Zach wanting to make amends and his father being so compassionate toward him is exactly the energy I expected from the Kornfelds. And Keith is literally his dad. It's uncanny. I love this video.

  • @notused6998
    @notused6998 7 ปีที่แล้ว +533

    "i love you dad."
    "i love you more."
    m y h e a r t i s b r o k e n

  • @strawberry9192
    @strawberry9192 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2463

    *Begins series*
    Me:Lol this is gonna be funny
    *watches four vids*
    Me now: *cries eternally*

    • @somuchtrash8661
      @somuchtrash8661 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      same

    • @LauraConnolly
      @LauraConnolly 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      or blubbers externally

    • @GabeGarberBowling
      @GabeGarberBowling 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @rachelc6104
      @rachelc6104 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Phanic! AtTheAmazingPhandomIsNotOnFire I love your name

    • @strawberry9192
      @strawberry9192 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Rachel Heart I had to change it because of Dan ;-;

  • @hobimonieforlife3204
    @hobimonieforlife3204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    oh my gosh Eugene is so sweet and is trying his best not to cry but he's already dying inside knowing that him is his dad went through almost the same situation about their parents. and i am happy that they were able to open up to each other that easily, it's like they're both just waiting for one of them to start the conversation. i don't have this moment yet with my parents and i hope to have it one day ♥

  • @katyekatart4722
    @katyekatart4722 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    As someone with an Asian grandfather, every story I can squeeze out is very precious. My grandfather grew up the first few years of his life in the Japanese internment camps during WW2. So naturally, it isn't something he's very keen on sharing or re-living. I've only heard "I love you" two times from him, and I treasure those close. Neither of his kids ( my mom and her brother) EVER heard that from him, he rarely said it to my grandma either. I loved seeing Eugene and his father connect.

  • @TankCollinsProtectionSquad
    @TankCollinsProtectionSquad 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3921

    Jae: Are you crying?
    Eugene: No
    Me: ... yes

    • @karlaarana6999
      @karlaarana6999 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      leeah galaxies same

    • @sara-ri8pv
      @sara-ri8pv 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      leeah galaxies i started crying that's for sure

    • @gabbie.rb13
      @gabbie.rb13 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      leeah galaxies samee

    • @hubiski
      @hubiski 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      leeah galaxies that's so me

    • @rrk119
      @rrk119 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      leeah galaxies me rn

  • @narutofan9tf
    @narutofan9tf 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2427

    Eugene's dad when he whispered "I don't know why" at 6:50, oh man that was heartbreaking

    • @infamousashton7606
      @infamousashton7606 7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      LittleFilms I'm crying; I'm balling my eyes out. Because; I know what it's like, and I know how he feels, and how said it, broke me more than I already am, shattered 😭😭

    • @grabs_you5954
      @grabs_you5954 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ashton Weir i know that uegen's father cameback but i also know what its like to not have a dad i mean i am still waiting i met him one day and that was it.

    • @narutofan9tf
      @narutofan9tf 7 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      +Ashton Weir
      I know right same here! You can really hear the weight and emotional impact that question had on Eugene's dad, as if all the years of questioning the choices of his mother and the decisions, responsibilities and burdens he had to endure were all exposed in that single answer ... " I don't know why"

    • @bluetextbooks
      @bluetextbooks 7 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      LittleFilms I cried. Damn Eugenie's dad had a tough life. Learning stuff like that really helps you understand your parents.

    • @olluquimiranda8030
      @olluquimiranda8030 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      LittleFilms I

  • @giocervantes2328
    @giocervantes2328 4 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    All their dads were exactly how I imagined them to be.

    • @ZaynMalik-sq2li
      @ZaynMalik-sq2li ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s funny how that happens but so true!

  • @emilymoran5389
    @emilymoran5389 3 ปีที่แล้ว +300

    I can see why Ned talks so highly of his wife, after seeing his dad talk highly of his mom.

  • @writersblock7783
    @writersblock7783 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8621

    Is no one gonna talk about how Ned and his dads voice is exactly the same

    • @kharasoul7274
      @kharasoul7274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Writers Block Nah, we talked about that last episode.

    • @margot3711
      @margot3711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      we talked about that in EVERY episode

    • @sydclem
      @sydclem 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      i was looking for this comment

    • @jeannegibraltar4505
      @jeannegibraltar4505 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Yes just deeper but the SAME

    • @lina-fk8gd
      @lina-fk8gd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Writers Block omgggg yesss I waiting for someone to point this out lol

  • @nazaline577
    @nazaline577 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7388

    Eugene and his dad got real deep “Why did she leave?” “ I have no idea” 😭😭😢

    • @abyssal5955
      @abyssal5955 4 ปีที่แล้ว +183

      God this hit me deep.

    • @appu6787
      @appu6787 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Abyssal *same*

    • @kerstiesweeney
      @kerstiesweeney 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Nazaline is a beautiful name. I've never heard it before. Does it mean something special??
      💖💖💖

    • @sookheejeon2903
      @sookheejeon2903 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@zuzuomeleteoriginal oh my haha

    • @cathiaaskew1106
      @cathiaaskew1106 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Like everyone else was so happy and they were just having sad, bonding, deep talk

  • @cassieruud1652
    @cassieruud1652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I just need to say HOW GENTLE the fellas are when shaving their fathers is just incredible. Especially around difficult questions.

  • @wingsofzero5732
    @wingsofzero5732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Hearing Eugene’s father say, “It’s my mistake” hit me like a truck. I think about how much I wanted my own father to admit once in his life that he did wrong by me.
    I’ll never get that now, and watching this is weird because I feel so disconnected from watching the relationship these four have with their fathers, yet I’m so happy that there are people who do have good relationships with their folks out there.

  • @phanic.at.the.disco.
    @phanic.at.the.disco. 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1687

    Buzzfeed: talking about emotional struggles with family
    Also buzzfeed: GIRL SHOWS HER BOYFRIEND HER PAD LOL

    • @alyssastar97
      @alyssastar97 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Honestly, they had this and then they had a video where they were painting with period blood.

    • @randomrandomness2485
      @randomrandomness2485 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I think the period videos are to stop women from making their periods taboos.....Although it is a personal case other people shoudnt act like periods are that disgusting....its normal

    • @pallas144
      @pallas144 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      BAHAHAHAHA

    • @phanic.at.the.disco.
      @phanic.at.the.disco. 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      WHEN DID THIS GET SO MANY LIKES LMAO

    • @oceanwonders
      @oceanwonders 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Something for everyone.

  • @OFB307
    @OFB307 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2446

    Eugene's Dad wow! What a guy, takes it all by himself and all inside him. A locked safe of traumatic events, but still so strong! And gotta mention Zach's depression and his father's compassion, pure father's love nothing else.

    • @amineucar3531
      @amineucar3531 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      true

    • @jessevillarreal3538
      @jessevillarreal3538 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ömer Faruk BATAN a

    • @123_Aqua_Blue
      @123_Aqua_Blue 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Loved his dad

    • @nik6831
      @nik6831 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      i love you dad, eugene i love you more, i love you most, something something, its not a contest dad.
      lol

    • @kellyh342
      @kellyh342 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My best friend is exactly like that...she has so much family issues, I can't believe what she goes through, and I was starting to get suspicious at one point, until I called her over the phone and...heard stuff...

  • @bringbackfreedomeofspeech
    @bringbackfreedomeofspeech ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This episode made me cry the entire way. The parts with Eugene and his dad speaking hit home for me and was so relatable it was probably the hardest to watch. Asking if it was OK to hug is exactly what it's like with my own father.

  • @kaikai2881
    @kaikai2881 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Zach's dad is literally an angel. We need to protect him at all costs.

  • @libby2262
    @libby2262 6 ปีที่แล้ว +844

    Jae:"are you crying?"
    Eugene: "No, are you crying?"
    Me: Yes...

    • @staishabennett5319
      @staishabennett5319 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Literally me. I'm in floods right now 😭😭

  • @jolierouge3064
    @jolierouge3064 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3405

    "Well don't feel sorry, that's life.." Eugene's dad got me right on my knees.

  • @chayanikahazra1915
    @chayanikahazra1915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    "Don't feel sorry, that's life." A precious nugget of life lesson from Papa Yang! ❤️
    It's gonna resonate with me for a long while ❤️

  • @Improbable_Fiction
    @Improbable_Fiction ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Foreshadowing in Ned's case.

  • @liafoley2669
    @liafoley2669 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1173

    Eugenes Dad: "Are you crying?"
    Me: "YES!" *weeps*

    • @JoJo-kz6jq
      @JoJo-kz6jq 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same

    • @THLaunched
      @THLaunched 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lia Foley I was getting ready to comment this! Soo True!

    • @victoriakim8925
      @victoriakim8925 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lia Foley up

  • @dweick23
    @dweick23 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2097

    It's interesting how Eugene and his dad's life kind of mirror each other as far as being/feeling abandoned. It made me sad that Eugene's dad seemed to feel shame that his parents weren't there, as if it was his fault. I think they both needed this talk. I hope they continue it. It makes me think about reaching out to my dad. We're not close either.

    • @emilyi5077
      @emilyi5077 7 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I really think that you should reach out to your dad, because it could be a significant "what if" if you never do it. But do it only when and if you're ready to do so. I'm rooting for you. :)

    • @TheRealOreoJedi
      @TheRealOreoJedi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Shara It's better to try than to have never tried at all. It'll be ok. I'm rooting for you too!

    • @alesahughson756
      @alesahughson756 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      My dad died when I was 6. I will never get the chance to have a relationship with him. You should reach out to your father before you're in the same boat as me.

    • @katiekawaii
      @katiekawaii 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Shara It's so interesting how these family cycles play out, so obvious from the outside and yet they so often go unnoticed. Their mothers both left at these critical times. It's tragic, but it's also a great place for them to start to build a bond based on empathy. I hope they do.

  • @ShiningStar2010
    @ShiningStar2010 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Ned should have learned from his Dad “I was an idiot”

  • @Sss-mj7zb
    @Sss-mj7zb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Zach: I remember you teaching me to not be afraid to draw blood.
    His dad: I never said that...
    LMAO what??

  • @abiehie
    @abiehie 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1483

    I feel like eugene has always had some sort of anger towards his dad because of things he did & didn't do & in this video I think that eugene finally got to understand the reasons for his dad's actions & this is a huge step forward for their relationship. I really hope their relationship gets stronger from here on out.

    • @youtubeuser6762
      @youtubeuser6762 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I love billboard singer Eugene and his dad's relationship is common among asian countries.

    • @roundearth3130
      @roundearth3130 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love billboard singer p

    • @ginahuang8214
      @ginahuang8214 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How does Eugene not have a boyfriend?!

    • @VickiCabrera
      @VickiCabrera 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I love billboard singer I agree completely. It's nice that he and his dad were open and willing to break whatever was holding apart. I hope they're much closer from now on. I just feel like they both really needed this.

    • @heidijapan3468
      @heidijapan3468 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hope so too suga

  • @patblack781
    @patblack781 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5861

    Eugene was the only one that wasn't insecure about shaving

    • @laurenskee2665
      @laurenskee2665 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Right?! But it's also not surprising haha

    • @hongkong0730
      @hongkong0730 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Yes but I guess he was insecure about his relationship with his dad

    • @Razu985
      @Razu985 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Right?? I actually found it kinda hot how confident he was haha

    • @benvunikura6881
      @benvunikura6881 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yet he is the least open

    • @abbiefa
      @abbiefa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      He had a deep talk with his dad

  • @julias_pie
    @julias_pie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I'm crying all the tears Eugene didn't cry in this video. And the tender moments between the other guys and their dads just made me even more emotional. They're all such sweethearts ;-;

  • @kyra6744
    @kyra6744 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Its so scary how Ned, his father and his sister all look so similar-

  • @emma.stallings
    @emma.stallings 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2535

    You know they get sad when they shave the same spot 20 times

    • @jimenasaldivar744
      @jimenasaldivar744 7 ปีที่แล้ว +251

      and the worst part was that they still had facial hair!

    • @krys7a
      @krys7a 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      i read this and then i looked up and saw ned do it

    • @jessica-sk7lt
      @jessica-sk7lt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@krys7a WAIT SAME

  • @adero08
    @adero08 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3174

    There was a lot of healing in this video for Eugene and his dad.

    • @digitaledwin2496
      @digitaledwin2496 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@trinalu7346 No, you're saying it because you want to be in the middle of attention

    • @Crystal_saga
      @Crystal_saga 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Jazz Taylor y’all are mean for some reason like chill

    • @MK1vids
      @MK1vids 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@trinalu7346 please don't waste your time by responding to people like that ever again lol

    • @ec169
      @ec169 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      DigitalEdwin it’s a TH-cam comment why would she try and get attention from that

    • @lostcolonyforge5792
      @lostcolonyforge5792 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought he didn’t cut him when he shaved him

  • @cloutydaze
    @cloutydaze ปีที่แล้ว +14

    watching this now 5 years later is so interesting. I worked with Eugene's oldest aunt for a while and she had nothing nice to say about his dad which is so upsetting bc he seems like such a gentle soul under unfortunate circumstances

  • @angerona7366
    @angerona7366 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2942

    I think of all the father son interactions, Eugene and his dad was the most impactful. You could see the anger he was holding onto melt away and he really got know and respect his dad. I'm legit in tears right now over that.

  • @Andy-rj8sr
    @Andy-rj8sr ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I wish I could talk to my dad the way Eugene talked to his. Maybe when I'm an adult I'll be able to

  • @The-Icelandic-Katniss-Everdeen
    @The-Icelandic-Katniss-Everdeen 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Ned's dad thinks he was an idiot when he was younger, well it turns out he wasn't as much of an idot as his son. He at least didn't cheat on his wife with whom he shared two kids with. He was just young and broke up with his gf, that doesn't necessarily mean he was an idiot.

    • @LatinHetaliaPeru
      @LatinHetaliaPeru 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      he was a n idiot, he meant that he was in a long relationship with his gf at the moment, but he broke up with her cuz he was bored (and yeah, instead of cheatying, he was interested in other girls so to prevent to be disrespectful he broke up since he thought he didn't love her anymore, while she was still in love with him).
      But yeah Ned elevated the idiotness and added to imbecile levels into high ups, not only to a wife with TWO KIDS, PLUS being into a position of power and putting in risk his friends an ENTIRE COMPANY

  • @jennyliu2916
    @jennyliu2916 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11680

    let's face it, eugene and his dad are the stars of this fatherhood series.

    • @shaniyadavis4889
      @shaniyadavis4889 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Jenny Liu I don't understand

    • @brandonhwh3167
      @brandonhwh3167 7 ปีที่แล้ว +195

      Jenny Liu Eugene is the star of everything

    • @stefaniegrosekemper4625
      @stefaniegrosekemper4625 7 ปีที่แล้ว +335

      This is more insight into eugene's character than we've seen in the past 3 years. It was really touching and well done.
      Ps- everyone should take note- this is what we want from sponsored videos.

    • @haiitsjustconnor6953
      @haiitsjustconnor6953 7 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Jenny Liu they should start their own drama XD

    • @reginamclean1591
      @reginamclean1591 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Jenny Liu true

  • @_animamundi_
    @_animamundi_ 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1742

    Eugene's Dad: I missed a lot. I didn't spend a lot of time with you guys. But you had a good mom.
    Eugene: Yeah
    Eugene's Dad: She's a very tender, caring mom so you guys should appreciate.
    Eugene: Well we did but then she left.
    **PLAYFUL BACKGROUND MUSIC STOPS**
    >>I! FREAKIN'! CRIED!!!

    • @helenzheng2986
      @helenzheng2986 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      AnimaMundi

    • @Alinelili1000
      @Alinelili1000 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      it doesnt even suddently stop it just slightly goes stopping is so :(

  • @ashleyallison352
    @ashleyallison352 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    As someone who has never meet these guys I'm happy Eugene got to have this experience with his dad. From an outsiders perspective it seems like they weren't super close and through doing this series they were able to really talk and learn more about eachother.

  • @jenniferilgaz6720
    @jenniferilgaz6720 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    My mom left when I was 7. I held on to this idea that she actually loved me until I was older and realized she just never should've have kids. Especially now that I have my own. How could any parent leave their child?!?

    • @XxBadHabitxX
      @XxBadHabitxX 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Mine left when I was 8 a few days before my birthday. It’s a feeling that as a child literally makes no sense and you think mom is gonna come home. I’m 19 now and I fear being like her if I ever have kids.

    • @crochetbytaylor6865
      @crochetbytaylor6865 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@XxBadHabitxX I’m sure you’ll be a wonderful parents since you experienced what u experienced and know it was wrong and very hurtful, and the fact that you are afraid shows you already care. I hope you are well and not too stressed about that. ☺️

    • @XxBadHabitxX
      @XxBadHabitxX 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@crochetbytaylor6865 I would agree with that only I share many characteristics negative with my mother. I share her bad habits without really knowing that I do it, I share her attitude without knowing I did there’s a lot of things that line up with her that is only realized later in life … that scares me
      Edit: Reading it back it sounds weird to say that I don’t know that I’m doing it but I truly didn’t until near weeks ago when family members told me that I’m a lot like her and that I also share the same illnesses she has from genetic. A lot of who I am is literally a photo copy of her and I hate that.

  • @emilyash2584
    @emilyash2584 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1543

    Eugene's dad went through some hard stuff. He actually struggled and he tried to give Eugene a better life, and he did. I'm really happy that this series happened! You could tell that they became closer.

    • @katemcmurtry8276
      @katemcmurtry8276 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Emily Ash that's so true... I actually started crying at the end when Eugene and his dad hugged

    • @younganddemented3093
      @younganddemented3093 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly. It made me really emotional to see such growth and everything.

  • @amayalobato
    @amayalobato 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1420

    Eugene and his dad are connecting on a level that Eugene definitely needed to experience.

    • @bojana1752
      @bojana1752 7 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      amaya lobato It's a weird idea that we are all just watching something like that. This is a special moment in both their lives and we get to goddamn see that. (And cry along) That's so special!

    • @emmz7618
      @emmz7618 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      amaya lobato yes! I thought the same thing. It's like you could feel and see how important that moment was for him.