Episode 3: Confession | Sweet Bobby | Full podcast episode

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  • @syedahoque9695
    @syedahoque9695 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    Someone could have gotten serious hurt, and the crime of passion could have happened to Bobby, This Simran should go to jail

  • @johnsmithda4th
    @johnsmithda4th หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    In the Netflix documentary it showed that "Bobby" was buying Kirat all these gifts including necklaces and flowers when in fact it was Simran that was buying them. This make's me think that perhaps Simran was in love with Kirat? Perhaps? Anyone else think that?

    • @ramonarosario6299
      @ramonarosario6299 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Yup! I think Simran has had a huge crush on Kirat for a long time and to Simran this relationship her "bobby" avatar is having with Kirat is very real and very important and what seems to us and Kirat as a lack of remorse or empathy is resentment Simran feels for not having Kirat reciprocate the feelings Simran feels for her.

    • @johnsmithda4th
      @johnsmithda4th หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@ramonarosario6299 Yup agreed. Her reasoning was that they were both in a dark place and this "fantasy" was a good escape for them both 😅 not to mention all the xxxxx over the phone 🤣

    • @kati_nixie
      @kati_nixie หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Tempting to think that, but I feel it's deeper than that. The fact that Simran showed zero remorse or empathy towards Kirat means she did not, on a deep level, care for her. The crush - maybe, but on an obsessive compulsive side, without actually considering another person

    • @kati_nixie
      @kati_nixie หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@ramonarosario6299 If it was a 3-months or even a year long story, no remorse or empathy could be indeed resentment. But given the context and the complexity of it, it is more on the side of psychopathic traits, not just a love-resentment story.

    • @johnsmithda4th
      @johnsmithda4th หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@kati_nixie Yea I can see that. The lack of remorse is certainly interesting. Also that statement that mentioned this dates back to when they were kids makes me wonder if Kirat perhaps used to bully Simran or pick on her which let's be honest as kids we often do. The whole thing is screwed up but by no means was Kirat innocent in all of this. By some bizarre fate/miracle the universe puts you in the same building as the man you are supposedly dating. You then go up to this man and say hello it's me and he says I don't know you and you just brush that off? That's madness. Even that early on into the whole thing Kirat was hit with realisation that something could be wrong but yet she still ignored it. 🤦🏽‍♂

  • @redbeans0422
    @redbeans0422 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Simran stating in a statement this was a family matter started when she was a schoolgirl is a self-preservation plea for pity. She continued the ploy well into her working years and obviously wouldn't have stopped her trolling until it was made a public matter to the police

    • @jwace
      @jwace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yup - it has lawyer speak all over it. Sad.

    • @SS-cd6ie
      @SS-cd6ie หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She def wins the trolling award.

  • @harryisamuggle
    @harryisamuggle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    I hope Kirat takes this & becomes a spokesperson for how catfishing and such criminal acts can change your life, I hope she can get movie rights or something good come out it.

    • @danielanderson888
      @danielanderson888 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I run a private investigations company (my YT channel is just a bit of fun and a hobby when travelling) and our business has gone off in a complete different direction over recent years with Catfishing cases. I wouldn't be lying if I said we take enquiries daily regarding women (for the most part) in these exact situations. It creates absolute hell and despair for these women and rightly should now be a crime and one that carries a hefty sentence too!

    • @ghostghost7067
      @ghostghost7067 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​​@@danielanderson888what's the website? may be useful

    • @danielanderson888
      @danielanderson888 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ghostghost7067 Anderson & Co Surveillance and Private investigators Ltd.

    • @hibokorane8218
      @hibokorane8218 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      There's new Netflix documentary!!

  • @Ahornaiya
    @Ahornaiya หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Simran saying “i ruined my own life” and not having any empathy for the heartbreak and abuse she just put kirat through is hurting me. It hurts me to think how this reaction hurt kirat even more and how kirat had to go through this rollercoaster of emotions alone with no empathy.

    • @johnsmithda4th
      @johnsmithda4th หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yea the whole thing is sad. Simran is apparently doing well though, got a fiancé and in a good job whereas Kirat is the one struggling with the whole ordeal. Messed up really

    • @Thegloriousmess1
      @Thegloriousmess1 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@johnsmithda4thOhh she has a fiance now?

    • @johnsmithda4th
      @johnsmithda4th หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Thegloriousmess1 Yea that's what they say in this podcast, I believe in the last episode. Madness right? Maybe he thinks she's someone else as well? 🤣

  • @konniej8657
    @konniej8657 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    So very sad how one person was able to destroy another persons life.

    • @Marcel_Audubon
      @Marcel_Audubon ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Kirat willingly destroyed her own life - even participating in this podcast is her way of continuing her relationship with "bobby"

    • @SLilithHaze
      @SLilithHaze 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      @@Marcel_Audubon wtf is wrong with you? can't victims talk about their trauma anymore?

    • @Marcel_Audubon
      @Marcel_Audubon 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@SLilithHaze no. they don't get to talk about it if they were stoooopid enough to let it go on for EIGHT years and never one time met the person they supposedly built their life around. Not eight days, Not eight weeks. Eight YEARS.
      No, they need to just go away.
      You do, too.

    • @Ble33334
      @Ble33334 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Marcel_Audubon are you fucking simran? like genuinely I don't understand why you're so spiteful on half of these eps comment sections yet you continue to watch? lmao breathe having a little bit of compassion is fine x

    • @xavier3578
      @xavier3578 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@Marcel_Audubon Seems like you need to go away Instead of crying in the comments

  • @mirandak1773
    @mirandak1773 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    When she first said she was talking to simrans ex jj through messages on fb I KNEW it was going to end up being simran.

  • @roybatty8366
    @roybatty8366 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    He could have said he was staying on the International Space Station and she'd have swallowed it hook, line and sinker. Staggering gullibility.

    • @SS-cd6ie
      @SS-cd6ie หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I wish she would get therapy on why she was so gullible. Her parents probably had to play a big part in sheltering her. But it said she takes no accountability. She literally says she gets mad when people call her naive cuz she's not

    • @eleanoramara
      @eleanoramara หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​​@@SS-cd6ieshe was in her 30s!!! She chose to believe 🚩he was in the witness protection program in America when he was shot and based in Africa & Europe?! 🚩He was in the witness protection program on a different continent and able to keep his identity, old contacts and social media?! She was in an on & off relationship from 17 into her 30s.....she lacks self esteem and was boy crazy into adulthood. She was saddened when he disappeared and came back 🚩engaged to what she thought was his 2nd wife after being divorced only a year. She jumped at the chance to be with him when he was leaving the 2nd wife🚩she couldn't see him. 🚩He's bed bound but can video call her. 🚩He "cheats" on her with his 2nd wife/ex wife and get her pregnant. 🚩‼️She sticks around plans on being a step-mom as long as the mother (her friend at one point) isn't in HER life😂. She wanted to be married before her grandmother passed🚩and still stuck around after that didn't happen. She hired a private investigator, who told her 🚩he was living with his 2nd wife/ex. She could have blocked him and walked...she drive to his home where he, his wife AND child lived....this is a dangerous level of delusional. Her cousin is a monster and she was the easiest pray on the internet

    • @glindagoodwitchofnorthview8287
      @glindagoodwitchofnorthview8287 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I’m sorry but it’s not regular Catfishing if somebody creates an online community over six or seven years. This was an inside job designed to destroy somebody and you are victim blaming. shame on you.

    • @roybatty8366
      @roybatty8366 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@glindagoodwitchofnorthview8287 obviously the perp is more to blame but there were many red flags the story was too preposterous. When I reunited with an old friend he told me stuff that I immediately didnt believe so I reverse image searched and found him out. I feel sorry for Kirat as a large chunk of her life was ruined but she should have been less willing to believe the outlandish stories.

    • @fiapuletaele5015
      @fiapuletaele5015 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      If youse haven’t been in her position then please pipe down, at the end of the day she was in love with this person who is real but his profile wasn’t. Sometimes when you fall for someone you’re willing to hang onto all the good moments that makes you want to stay and hang on.

  • @Marcel_Audubon
    @Marcel_Audubon ปีที่แล้ว +22

    "real bobby" isn't a main character - he's irrelevant, just a source of internet pictures

  • @rmo8922
    @rmo8922 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Simran is a sociopath but kirat is not 100% there mentally either. Naive is one thing but this??? For years??? Not once did you creep on his socials? Not once did you google his name? I get simran would have created profiles but im sure the real bobby would have socials too and both would have popped up.

  • @nafisahussain8444
    @nafisahussain8444 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I'M SORRY A HEART TRANSPLANT

  • @Irenerosales7779
    @Irenerosales7779 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    The pain in her voice so sad. This is why we have to raise strong girls into strong women so they don’t allow this type of treatment from anyone.

  • @reubeng2110
    @reubeng2110 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    now this is real drama right here

  • @taigmanianderson9367
    @taigmanianderson9367 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    How can someone think this is love. Love does not drain you love does not suck your ENERGY!!! Love does not take take take from you m, this is insane

    • @eeshaaaa01
      @eeshaaaa01 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      i completely agree with you!! but i think she just was attached to him and when you are attached to someone its very hard to see the red flags, speaking from experience.

    • @kati_nixie
      @kati_nixie หลายเดือนก่อน

      I wish more people knew that!

  • @aczzzy
    @aczzzy หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    We need to take the danger of psychopaths more seriously.
    They are predators and we are their prey.

    • @greyLeicester
      @greyLeicester หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why do people mistake psychopath and sociopath so often!? 🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @culturalresponse2447
    @culturalresponse2447 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    If her community knew him, and she knew of his family or him as Kirat claims, how did she not know he was not actually a cardiologist? There are so many red flags for me. I think Kirat has lied about a lot of details.

    • @daffedavidsen6306
      @daffedavidsen6306 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No she was just naive.
      I saw you on the vice comments too.
      But I dont know what to belive. But I feel like i wanna belive Kirat

    • @brookiegremlin6660
      @brookiegremlin6660 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I think Kirat is misrepresenting the actual events. Imo she doesn't want to cop to her part in this "deception."

    • @KVG822
      @KVG822 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      There’s so many red flags i would have blocked and deleted him really early on.

  • @Marcel_Audubon
    @Marcel_Audubon ปีที่แล้ว +14

    heart transplant? Oh, brother!

  • @TedaR
    @TedaR ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I wish they wouldn’t have included the therapist statement at the end of last epi, where she says “ she will do again “. It gave away that it had been a “she” all along but I didn’t suspect who the she was. 😳

  • @PunjabiKudiUK
    @PunjabiKudiUK หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    She should have realised it was all a hoax when he refused to see her in London for months.

    • @kati_nixie
      @kati_nixie หลายเดือนก่อน

      True and this is very obvious from a clear-headed perspective. However she was brainwashed for years - and the group of about 30 people, including some of her family members, kept telling her Bobby is real and she should trust him. So her capacity for rational thinking, for being objective, has really gone down at that point :(

  • @shranjitkaur9243
    @shranjitkaur9243 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    She must of done something really bad to simran for her to do this to her. Or she was in love with her and she wanted her for herself.

    • @justanotherviewer00
      @justanotherviewer00 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      How weird do you have to be 😭

    • @Newuxtreme
      @Newuxtreme หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Simran is gay and has had a life long crush on Kirat, this started off as an innocent way to play a virtual gay storyline with her and took a ridiculous turn over the years, and she absolutely fell in love with Kirat overtime.
      And wth do you think Kirat could possibly have done to have Simran dedicate her entire life (literally not having her own damn life) to just be annoying to Kirat?

    • @shranjitkaur9243
      @shranjitkaur9243 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Newuxtreme let’s says she is bisexual cuz she did this to jj before

  • @serenahussain2072
    @serenahussain2072 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Does anyone know did this JJ brother of real Bobby even die?? Surely if they’re all part of a big Kenyan Sikh community then word would have gotten around of the funeral dates and arrangements and so on?

    • @Wallflower58
      @Wallflower58 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I thought the same turns out he didn’t die it was made up by Simran

  • @meri2321
    @meri2321 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Did she never talk to Bobby on the phone? Were they textning for all these years?
    Does not make sense how she did not find out earlier.

    • @Simonegabs
      @Simonegabs 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Lies lies and more lies… Simran has created this imaginary situation, where she also controlled situations… as K could confide in Simran, not knowing that they were all the same person. Its sick. It’s really sick.

    • @unknown-rh1tm
      @unknown-rh1tm 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ​@@Simonegabs how can she not know difference between Simran and man's voice also similarities between all other fake people she spoke to?

    • @diananurtlessova9388
      @diananurtlessova9388 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I also have the same question

    • @diananurtlessova9388
      @diananurtlessova9388 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@unknown-rh1tmI also don’t understand how she doesn’t differentiate female voice. Could Simran changed her voice through apps ? How do you think

    • @megiwpiegi773
      @megiwpiegi773 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i think they used Skype for calls

  • @shranjitkaur9243
    @shranjitkaur9243 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Listen to all this I hear about 2 women living with mental health from so life experiences. Not saying in a horrible way as a lot of people can become like kirat and simran. They both need help or this can become a roller coaster

  • @omgomg6602
    @omgomg6602 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Was they a family feud that Simiran felt compelled to seek vengeance on ????

  • @Newuxtreme
    @Newuxtreme หลายเดือนก่อน

    Simran "I've ruined my own life."
    Kirat lied to parents and fam about going out and actually meeting Bobby irl in person, but this is towards the very end last few months of summer or whenever he supposedly was back in the UK.

  • @ghostghost7067
    @ghostghost7067 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    why did Kirat report the real bobby to the police in Brighton?

    • @simrinduhra2200
      @simrinduhra2200 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      She didn’t, she was gonna cuz he was gonna call the police on her for harassing his family cuz he didn’t know her and I think she was gonna show the police all the evidence then that she “knew him” but then simran knew she was gonna get exposed if the police got involved so she came clean

  • @cameronhussain1931
    @cameronhussain1931 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I can’t figure out the motive in all this
    Can someone help me please ?

    • @mikaelaisraelsson119
      @mikaelaisraelsson119 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I think it was maybe a case of narcissistic supply. From what I understand, ppl who have untreated narcisstistic personality disorder have a sort of compulsive need to exert control over others, to manipulate and put them down, in order to feed a false sense of superiority.
      This narcissistic self image is very brittle and needs constant validation through this kind of behavior, and it's also the only thing that protects them from their actual traumatized self, which is actually more like a lack of self, because their development was stunted.
      Essentially they were made to feel so worthless that they don't even see themselves as human, and the narcissistic behaviors compensate for this and allow them to keep functioning, so they can't stop, which means they also end up in self destructive cycles.
      The "supply" is the person or people they latch onto, in this case Kirat, to control and manipulate. It's disturbing but it's also a defense mechanism, they don't really have another way of functioning, unless they can get help.

    • @ghostghost7067
      @ghostghost7067 หลายเดือนก่อน

      my thoughts exactly too​@@mikaelaisraelsson119

    • @Newuxtreme
      @Newuxtreme หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Simran is gay and has had a life long crush on Kirat, this started off as an innocent way to play a virtual gay storyline with her and took a ridiculous turn over the years, and she absolutely fell in love with Kirat overtime.
      Simran is clearly also pscho/sociopathic and highly intelligent and Kirat is a low self esteem doormat. This was the luckiest match made in heaven.

  • @LilyCalla24
    @LilyCalla24 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Funny thing is, in the context of this reality, there are small moments where she say ‘oh I felt something wasn’t right’ when it came to being worried about his health or the way he treated her. But she couldn’t feel the entire situation didn’t feel right?🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @reubeng2110
    @reubeng2110 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Hey mom remember that boyfriend ive been dating for over 8 years online. Well hes here come in simran yeah, ok this is wierd!

  • @runabibi6672
    @runabibi6672 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Is simran lessiban

  • @Irenerosales7779
    @Irenerosales7779 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This all happened cause Kirat allowed to be treated so badly

  • @thespider-mankid675
    @thespider-mankid675 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I think simian could make a lot of money by revealing her secrets on catfishing….! Oh and kirat…? Girl you are so naive… have you never come across internet safety, as over the years it has been covered on the news plenty of times… even catfishing has been covered on the media and how to protect yourself….?

    • @crayzee1372
      @crayzee1372 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bro this started 2009. Cat fishing wasn't that well understand

  • @MISSYF27
    @MISSYF27 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Im suprised he didnt have a brain transplant too

  • @noiaruiz1270
    @noiaruiz1270 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What does she mean by who have I been sleeping with?

    • @daffedavidsen6306
      @daffedavidsen6306 ปีที่แล้ว

      Didnt you hear? She had sex with her cousin or "bobby" while blind folded. 😲😵 she really tricked her in to some creepy shit

    • @Zelestean
      @Zelestean ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She would fall asleep on the phone talking

    • @ghostghost7067
      @ghostghost7067 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      banging on the phone

  • @thespider-mankid675
    @thespider-mankid675 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Actually listening to the beginning of this podcast where kirat says he’s in his hotel room but he’s not ready to see me because he’s not in the right head space, seeing as she accepts this as a plausible excuse for him not meeting her after 8yrs of online talking I reckon kirat is in on this with simran…. I reckon both kirat and simran are expecting to make a lot of money out of this knowing this story would go viral….!

    • @justanotherviewer00
      @justanotherviewer00 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      That's ridiculous

    • @thespider-mankid675
      @thespider-mankid675 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@justanotherviewer00 well you might think so but this sure has gone viral and it doesn’t make sense to anyone not even tortoise can fathom how she missed the plethora of red flags…..

    • @Newuxtreme
      @Newuxtreme หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      No that part is just her being an absolute extremist doormat, which is just obvious about her character by now. But I highly doubt she was in on it with Simran, that's fucking stupid, they have both caused ridiculous amounts of pain and even shame for their families (which I don't care about but they absolutely certainly do).
      Also this is beyond playing with fire to "fake". Simrans been lucky so far to not to go to jail, but she will be eventually for sure. No one would risk something like this. Also this was never supposed to get fame either. You are watching this now, 8+ years in, not when it happened, nor when this podcast luckily got picked up.
      Plus till date neither of them have made any money on either of these things. Kirat MIGHT make some finally, which is the ONLY good thing for her in her life atm.

    • @eeshaaaa01
      @eeshaaaa01 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yah but why would they go one for this for 8 years? wouldn't they give up? they have timestamps & everything

    • @SS-cd6ie
      @SS-cd6ie หลายเดือนก่อน

      How could she possibly have any idea it would go viral? As if anyone would know they're going to be in a Netflix documentary. This went on for 10 years and they have proof of that. Neither of them needed money they were very wealthy especially simran.

  • @incognitoburrito8
    @incognitoburrito8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What if real bobby was just fooling around with kirat while still being married and when kirat confronted him and made him speak to simran.thats when simran and him get in touch and he pays simran to take it on herself ...i know crazy perspective but still

  • @ningwajimi2030
    @ningwajimi2030 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is crazy....

  • @Simonegabs
    @Simonegabs 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I know this voice of Bobby…

  • @septianitjitasura1021
    @septianitjitasura1021 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    najong..this young gen think they can be a faker and not get any consequences

  • @hannahassan2574
    @hannahassan2574 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The ‘ real Bobby ‘ is not the real character ..just pictures misused

  • @Anjajovanovic1887
    @Anjajovanovic1887 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is not A psycological thriller, the last three episodes didnt have any twists

    • @ariebons8019
      @ariebons8019 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The interviewer clearly states at the end of this episode: ‘Simran’s confession was the last domino in this tragic story’

  • @PunjabiKudiUK
    @PunjabiKudiUK หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    She should have realised it was all a hoax when he refused to see her in London for months.

    • @HTAnderson76
      @HTAnderson76 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I mean, she should have realized it was a hoax YEARS before that.

    • @PunjabiKudiUK
      @PunjabiKudiUK หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@HTAnderson76 yes I agree, I’m shocked how her mum (who knew of the relationship) didn’t see through this and slap some sense into her daughter

    • @simrinduhra2200
      @simrinduhra2200 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@PunjabiKudiUK she tried they said on the Netflix show she would tell her it’s weird how Bobby’s whisper voice is so squeaky and Kirat would just get mad at anyone who said anything against bobby