Episode 5: (In)justice | Sweet Bobby | Full podcast episode

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  • @LilianTony
    @LilianTony หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Grooming how? The police neglected Kirat and it’s really sad
    Simran is out there getting engaged, promoted and living like nothing happened while she has destroyed and wasted 10 years of her cousin’s life

  • @user-hg1qy7iu8l
    @user-hg1qy7iu8l 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    She’s cool as a cucumber because psychopaths do not experience fear.

  • @badako
    @badako ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I had to pause multiple times listening to what the lawyers said because I got so heated. She makes me sick

  • @isitreal79
    @isitreal79 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    There must be some punishment. The exposure from podcast and documentaries will hopefully make things happen.

  • @lipz11223344
    @lipz11223344 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Amazing came over from watching Netflix and on facebook someone recommended this.

    • @Renaissance2412
      @Renaissance2412 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm sorry, but kirat is more nuts than the actual catfisher if we are talking about mental stability.
      She didn't seem right in the head and it's obvious she's still deluded and in love with the idea of Bobby. I bet she thought it in her irrational mind "he will see how much I love him and leave sanj and the baby for me".
      Let's not forget she wanted to mow sanj down when she passed by her car. I don't care how stressed or upset you are, that is not a normal thing to consider.
      Finally...can we please STOP calling this the most sophisticated catfishing scheme of all time? It wasn't sophisticated in the slightest. It was Kirats desperation/mental health/clear issues, that were the major concern of the show. That was the general consensus from the viewers.
      The podcast and the netflix doc have backfired on her majorly. She went looking to be portrayed as some catfish martyr. But actually, the focus is not at all on Simran. It's on her. The producers of the doc were clever and knew what they were doing. They wanted to show the world how gullible, unintelligent and desperate some people struggle out there.
      Witness protection in the USA was the ultimate joke. Come ONNN Kirat! ,
      This whole documentary from Netflix has only not produced the outcome she was hoping for.
      Sadly, this lady needs extensive psychological help. It is Bobby and Sanj who I feel the most sorry for. They were an innocent couple navigating life with a young baby when one day their life was turned upside down. Then Kirats went to the media to make some COIN. Their entire private family life has been destroyed. She's also still so deluded that apparently she can't understand why they don't want to have anything to do with her. It's like she was thinking they were going to be doing coffee meet ups with her or calling her round for roti and saag lol. The fact she was offended by their rejection and limited contact speaks volumes of what kind of person she is inside....which is sadly a very troubled woman..

    • @phoebs50
      @phoebs50 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@Renaissance2412you've copied and pasted your comments elsewhere which means you've had this comment saved on your phone to reply to people's comments defending Simran. You're either Simran or a relative. Whomever you are- tell her she needs a mental evaluation. Her daughter might inherit her problems too

    • @suarezriveira
      @suarezriveira หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Renaissance2412 hi simran. stop reposting your comment cause no one is buying it

    • @user-s971
      @user-s971 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Simran is a danger to public, she needs to be locked up in punjab prison and get get special treatment there. That's what she needs , sadly they don't do it here . Funny how I think it's her post where she is calling kirat a psycho.can u imagine she was 17 when she started this? Seriously she can't be around. Family too are a disgrace.

    • @user-s971
      @user-s971 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@Renaissance2412 , is that you simian, or someone she knows. GET A GRIP and some treatment, u need it.

  • @TheTravelingSenoritoVlogs
    @TheTravelingSenoritoVlogs ปีที่แล้ว +20

    doesn't england have a law against unjust vexation, violence against women and cyber crime? to think UK is a first world country.

    • @Marcel_Audubon
      @Marcel_Audubon ปีที่แล้ว

      vexation? oh, honeychild! the police have real crimes to solve, they don't have a staff large enough to involve themselves in Facebook hissyfits (mercifully!)

  • @victoriam597
    @victoriam597 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    Who would marry simran after something like this

    • @findthatvin3817
      @findthatvin3817 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      she is now married and has a child

    • @victoriam597
      @victoriam597 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@findthatvin3817 wow

  • @TedaR
    @TedaR ปีที่แล้ว +11

    16:00 ish WHY DIDN’T KIRAT CHANGE HER # ALREADY!? Why is she still engaging?!

    • @kati_nixie
      @kati_nixie หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Mb she did change her number
      Simran could easily get her new number though family members

  • @kaypetal831
    @kaypetal831 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Another case of police neglagence... shame on them at Houndslow, this is clear coersive and control police need to be trained in this... and the officer who implied she has MH issues without having any medical background any grounds to use that against her to avoid doing their job. Absolutely shocking..this os simply neglagence, as they should be actively listening without judgment not assuming its a family issue amd dismiss it!! There are 1000s of crimes committed within families every day !!! They should be investigated themselves. This woman abused and then neglacted by the authorities which are meant to support us. Shame on them as they vaused her further distress !! Im fuming 😤

  • @samk2283
    @samk2283 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I think the brother was in on the scam.

    • @findthatvin3817
      @findthatvin3817 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I think her parents were also in on it

  • @phoebs50
    @phoebs50 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The thing is, this podcast is out. One day her daughter will grow up and watch all the media on this. Its time simran owned up to what she did or face consequences. Whatever goes around will come back

  • @D.nya_art
    @D.nya_art หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Wait what ! 12:30 a WhatsApp group 🤯 then why did not kirat ever talk to anyone on phone? Were everyone on "witness protection" ? Lol (around 60 people) never met or saw anyone, never called anyone?
    Ps: i feel sad for her but how could someone be so naive 🤦‍♀️ how did she believe everything for 10 years

    • @kati_nixie
      @kati_nixie หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She knew these people existed cause they were part of the community and her family, relatives and friends knew them. Why would she think their profiles were not real?
      I mean most people wouldn't think someone's profile is fake, let alone that 30+ profiles are created by one person. How would that even come to mind, especially if nothing weird is happening on these profiles?

  • @shallomolugbemiro1028
    @shallomolugbemiro1028 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    saying this can happen to "anyone" is a stretch

    • @phoebs50
      @phoebs50 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But it did happen

    • @phoebs50
      @phoebs50 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Just because it didn't happen to you doesn't negate it happening to someone else. Youre just lucky it hasn't happened to you

    • @phoebs50
      @phoebs50 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm not kirat btw I'm just someone whose just watched this podcast and have studied psychology and criminology and for you to say it's a stretch is very naive

  • @TedaR
    @TedaR ปีที่แล้ว +6

    EDIT: Comment made while listening. Here I have ONLY HEARD A FEW MINUTES: Who, the morality police?! I’m angry too but there is no crime here. Civil neither really. UNFORTUNATELY! 🤬 EDIT: clearly idk British law however “forced” is not proven imo. There is no physical threat of bodily harm etc. She (Kirat) could have opted out at any time. Just make sure we ALL TELL EVERYONE we know! That’s all we can do really. And PRAY FOR ALL INVOLVED! 🙏🏼✝️🥰

    • @LucasPereira-px9ln
      @LucasPereira-px9ln ปีที่แล้ว

      just shut up

    • @AnaLucia-wy2ii
      @AnaLucia-wy2ii 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Civil law has a lot more room. She was harassed. I believe that she ultimately did win a civil lawsuit.

  • @TedaR
    @TedaR ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I purposely have not and will not listen to the “legal statement at the end of each episode”…..so there! 😝

    • @SamSam24270
      @SamSam24270 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The legal statement means nothing, its just this silly little girls way of trying to bully anyone who attempts to question her, now the netflix production is out, watch how the big player news outlets are going to tear her apart, she should be very worried now 😳

  • @honestfriend767
    @honestfriend767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She could have told the cops this is a case of fraud.

  • @reubeng2110
    @reubeng2110 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    have i just been scammed into believing a scammer story cause it sounds to crazy to be true

    • @Trund27
      @Trund27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nah, it’s true. There are libel laws they have to be mindful of. Humans can be notoriously messed up.

    • @TedaR
      @TedaR ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤭

    • @jf3053
      @jf3053 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There is now a Netflix episode called "Sweet Bobby" based on this story.

    • @Renaissance2412
      @Renaissance2412 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I'm sorry, but kirat is more nuts than the actual catfisher if we are talking about mental stability.
      She didn't seem right in the head and it's obvious she's still deluded and in love with the idea of Bobby. I bet she thought it in her irrational mind "he will see how much I love him and leave sanj and the baby for me".
      Let's not forget she wanted to mow sanj down when she passed by her car. I don't care how stressed or upset you are, that is not a normal thing to consider.
      Finally...can we please STOP calling this the most sophisticated catfishing scheme of all time? It wasn't sophisticated in the slightest. It was Kirats desperation/mental health/clear issues, that were the major concern of the show. That was the general consensus from the viewers.
      The podcast and the netflix doc have backfired on her majorly. She went looking to be portrayed as some catfish martyr. But actually, the focus is not at all on Simran. It's on her. The producers of the doc were clever and knew what they were doing. They wanted to show the world how gullible, unintelligent and desperate some people struggle out there.
      Witness protection in the USA was the ultimate joke. Come ONNN Kirat! ,
      This whole documentary from Netflix has only not produced the outcome she was hoping for.
      Sadly, this lady needs extensive psychological help. It is Bobby and Sanj who I feel the most sorry for. They were an innocent couple navigating life with a young baby when one day their life was turned upside down. Then Kirats went to the media to make some COIN. Their entire private family life has been destroyed. She's also still so deluded that apparently she can't understand why they don't want to have anything to do with her. It's like she was thinking they were going to be doing coffee meet ups with her or calling her round for roti and saag lol. The fact she was offended by their rejection and limited contact speaks volumes of what kind of person she is inside....which is sadly a very troubled woman..

  • @tinas6459
    @tinas6459 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Simran used VPNs,

  • @Got2BOshun
    @Got2BOshun 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I think the real perpetrator is Simrans brother & her parents are making her take the fall for him. A busy ambitious person has no time for this level of world creation & maintenance

    • @Alla_Russian
      @Alla_Russian 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      This is absurd. It was Simran who communicated with her cousin all these years. Kirat believed in Bobby because of Simran's confirmation.

    • @patiotaiza
      @patiotaiza 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      You have no idea what psychopaths are capable of

    • @xoxox903
      @xoxox903 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      lol you clearly don’t know corporate; the most successful people are psychos

    • @themizzzzle
      @themizzzzle หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      It was Simran who pretended to speak to Bobby multiple times on Kirats behalf in NYC and she even pretended to deliver a shirt directly to kirat from Bobby who she claimed to have met in NYC in person. She did multiple things like this over the years

  • @bikeboi821
    @bikeboi821 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How is simran not being done for identity theft and impersonation!!!!

  • @yavit5058
    @yavit5058 หลายเดือนก่อน

    12:25 i rolplay, its not that difficult lol

  • @pepps1943
    @pepps1943 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    How TF can you be in a controlling relationship if it's completely virtual and you've never formally met?? Just turn off your phone 😂 stahppp. I'm quickly loosing all sympathy for this woman lol. Everyone involved appears to have extremely poor judgement and lack all common sense.

    • @TheGinaChan
      @TheGinaChan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      It's called getting emotionally attached to someone but clearly you've never had a similar online relationship, so how would you know? Kirat may have had poor judgment or been a bit naive, but that obviously doesn't make this ok.. Some people weren't taught who to trust and who not to trust online. Besides, it involved family members, names she thought she could trust, right? Also, does your point work in the same way if someone is bullied? Will it all just be fine if they leave the room or move? No emotional harm done, right?

    • @Takhar7
      @Takhar7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@TheGinaChan 8 years.
      No meeting in person. No video call. Enough red flags to fill a pirate ship.
      The "it involved family members" makes it even worse - no conversations about any of his background story? No questions about him being a doctor? Not a single hint over 8 years?
      Just ridiculous judgment from everyone involved.

    • @samihasamin5813
      @samihasamin5813 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@Takhar7of course it’s poor judgment and hopefully everyone involved has learned something from this incident. That being said, it is wrong to berate the victim in this manner. So many women remain in abusive relationships for years, when they can simply leave right?. Don’t underestimate the power of the psychological hold that a narcissist can have over someone. It’s easy to judge as an outsider looking in, but when someone is in the thick of it, judgements can easily get clouded, especially when our emotions get involved. Maybe Kirat had low self-esteem. I know I have made so many stupid judgements in my life (nothing like this of course) and now looking back I cringe and I know I will never do that again, but I had really low self esteem and it affected my judgement. Don’t berate people just because you think you know better. Just my two cents 🤌

    • @brookiegremlin6660
      @brookiegremlin6660 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Takhar7 Yeah I don't understand how she was totally cool never. ever. once hanging out with her own "boyfriend" or "stepson." And if my cousin claimed to have a relationship with my fake boyfriend that I never laid eyes upon, that wouldn't make it better. That would make it worse.

    • @KVG822
      @KVG822 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I would have blocked and deleted him early on. How can someone control you through a phone?

  • @EmyKayx
    @EmyKayx หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Yeah she has been catfished and this cause emotional damage, but… the real victim is Bobby. Simran didn’t scam money or blackmail Kirat. She was not threading her physically since everything was virtual so I don’t know what she could gained from the justice actually

    • @yavit5058
      @yavit5058 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Shhh... they are gonna attack you for victim blaming

    • @SamSam24270
      @SamSam24270 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Hello Simran, how are you 👋👋🤣🤣🤣

    • @Renaissance2412
      @Renaissance2412 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm sorry, but kirat is more nuts than the actual catfisher if we are talking about mental stability.
      She didn't seem right in the head and it's obvious she's still deluded and in love with the idea of Bobby. I bet she thought it in her irrational mind "he will see how much I love him and leave sanj and the baby for me".
      Let's not forget she wanted to mow sanj down when she passed by her car. I don't care how stressed or upset you are, that is not a normal thing to consider.
      Finally...can we please STOP calling this the most sophisticated catfishing scheme of all time? It wasn't sophisticated in the slightest. It was Kirats desperation/mental health/clear issues, that were the major concern of the show. That was the general consensus from the viewers.
      The podcast and the netflix doc have backfired on her majorly. She went looking to be portrayed as some catfish martyr. But actually, the focus is not at all on Simran. It's on her. The producers of the doc were clever and knew what they were doing. They wanted to show the world how gullible, unintelligent and desperate some people struggle out there.
      Witness protection in the USA was the ultimate joke. Come ONNN Kirat! ,
      This whole documentary from Netflix has only not produced the outcome she was hoping for.
      Sadly, this lady needs extensive psychological help. It is Bobby and Sanj who I feel the most sorry for. They were an innocent couple navigating life with a young baby when one day their life was turned upside down. Then Kirats went to the media to make some COIN. Their entire private family life has been destroyed. She's also still so deluded that apparently she can't understand why they don't want to have anything to do with her. It's like she was thinking they were going to be doing coffee meet ups with her or calling her round for roti and saag lol. The fact she was offended by their rejection and limited contact speaks volumes of what kind of person she is inside....which is sadly a very troubled woman..

    • @Renaissance2412
      @Renaissance2412 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@SamSam24270hello Kirat

  • @tilatfamilyblogs
    @tilatfamilyblogs หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    **Cunning girl**

    • @Renaissance2412
      @Renaissance2412 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Crazy girl*
      Both of them. Her and her cousin.

  • @Renaissance2412
    @Renaissance2412 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm sorry, but kirat is more nuts than the actual catfisher if we are talking about mental stability.
    She didn't seem right in the head and it's obvious she's still deluded and in love with the idea of Bobby. I bet she thought it in her irrational mind "he will see how much I love him and leave sanj and the baby for me".
    Let's not forget she wanted to mow sanj down when she passed by her car. I don't care how stressed or upset you are, that is not a normal thing to consider.
    Finally...can we please STOP calling this the most sophisticated catfishing scheme of all time? It wasn't sophisticated in the slightest. It was Kirats desperation/mental health/clear issues, that were the major concern of the show. That was the general consensus from the viewers.
    The podcast and the netflix doc have backfired on her majorly. She went looking to be portrayed as some catfish martyr. But actually, the focus is not at all on Simran. It's on her. The producers of the doc were clever and knew what they were doing. They wanted to show the world how gullible, unintelligent and desperate some people struggle out there.
    Witness protection in the USA was the ultimate joke. Come ONNN Kirat! ,
    This whole documentary from Netflix has only not produced the outcome she was hoping for.
    Sadly, this lady needs extensive psychological help. It is Bobby and Sanj who I feel the most sorry for. They were an innocent couple navigating life with a young baby when one day their life was turned upside down. Then Kirats went to the media to make some COIN. Their entire private family life has been destroyed. She's also still so deluded that apparently she can't understand why they don't want to have anything to do with her. It's like she was thinking they were going to be doing coffee meet ups with her or calling her round for roti and saag lol. The fact she was offended by their rejection and limited contact speaks volumes of what kind of person she is inside....which is sadly a very troubled woman..

    • @nadianaqvi1794
      @nadianaqvi1794 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      is that you simran?

    • @phoebs50
      @phoebs50 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Sounds like the sociopath Simran herself advocating for herself for the fake bobby and for the other29 fake personas . She seriously needs a mental evaluation and time to own up because whatever she has her daughter might have it too. It's time to acknowledge the issues she has before her baby daughter has same problems

    • @JacintasChromebook
      @JacintasChromebook 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@nadianaqvi1794 I think Simrans rich family are paying for bots, there's no way Kirat comes off as anything other than a bit naive whereas Simran seems like a sociopath?

    • @Tikkibombom
      @Tikkibombom 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Hi Simran!