Why You're Shy Around Attractive People
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No wonder people won't start a conversation with me. I must be out of everyone's league.
lol
So that's why people throw up when they see me.. they're just nauseous from nervousness because i'm hot
Darlin you'll be okay
There's always someone who finds you attractive
@@MiLa-xi6qj ?
So basically, it doesn't matter if u're extrovert or introvert - attractive is attractive!
Proof that personality doesn't matter, all you need is a pretty face.
@@wuzumakiyou are wrong, being pretty but too much evil/boring/useless/low energy/stupidy wont get you far.
I'd say if you are an extrovert and ugly you are ANNOYING. ;D Telling that as an ugly person who happened to be extroverted but since people disliked my chatty personality I never interact myself and now very silent.
@@vimanaarchitects2151 everybody says my son is quite handsome but i know hes very annoying because he talks too much about trivial things, im trying to convey the idea of thinking before talking to him
True
The only thing I’d say I slightly disagree with is the idea that shy = introverted. This simply isn’t true. I’m an introvert, but I’m not shy. I have friends who are extroverted, but are shy upon initial interaction. Introversion and extroversion refers to whether or not a person gains energy or loses energy from others. I think what you’re talking about here, is only about whether someone is shy or not.
Totally agree with you on this. Introversion has nth to do with being shy. I have tried explaining this to my friends so many times they just don’t get it.
I don’t necessarily lose energy after talking to people, and social events don’t drain me, but I’m not socially forward or extroverted either
helpful, thank you
The outcome of both are similar though. Introverts don't like socialize and shy people can't muster courage to socialize. So the end result is similar
Being an introvert just means you needed to spend some time alone, but it doesn't mean you're shy
I avoid this by turning off my highly neurotic inner dialogue. It freaks women out when you have zero nervousness, not even a healthy amount, just nothing. I've mastered this through volunteering at events as a greeter. In this, the easiest way to get over being shy is to interact with many people as possible. You'd be surprised how unintimidating even attractive people are once you introduce yourself and "break the ice".
yeah i guess i can relate i have had a job that has me around hundreds of people every day and even tho they're not customers i talk to pretty much everyone when i have the opportunity jus to pass time since were all stuck there for 10-12 hours a day. i find it way easier to talk to ppl in my free time now since that. I've met at least 2000 people the past year working there since most come and go quickly.
Too rare for people to ’crack the code’ like you’ve done.
Doesn't freak me out. I would be chill and would consider the interaction nice and relaxed.
Pretty much the same. I used to get nervous talking to attractive people but over the years I've just made myself talk to so many people that I can pretty much talk to anyone. Also it helps not putting attractive people on a pedestal. Everyone has flaws including attractive people so feel free to point them out to them (in good taste). If they get offended and move on, oh well. Ugly people can be sensitive too and if someone can't take a ribbing why be around them attractive or otherwise.
@@michaelanthony4750why would you randomly mention someone supposed flaws?
There was this girl who was in my class that probably knew I had a crush on her, and right before it was my turn to do my presentation, she asked the teacher if she could go to the bathroom or smthn. She came back when I was done and got scolded by the teacher, but I'm thankful for her because I think she knew I was shy and got nervous around her. She probably gauged me out before I started my presentation by asking me "How come you're so quiet?" to which I responded like a dum dum with, *shrug* "...iunno" whilst slightly blushing 🤦♂
Idk if that was her intention or not, but Thanks Sarah ☺
Dang this is so adorable
Sarah is a g
nice fake scenario bro
@@Daemon1995_tell him queen Arthur
@@Daemon1995_
Yes u were the teacher
I think this is very much a short-time thing though. I‘ve been shy around very attractive people of both genders before, but once I got to know them even a little bit I was completely fine. It‘s probably because you then understand that they are normal humans after all. 😂
I dont really care much about attractive people past the "oh damm", but crushes man... fk
Not my case
You probably stop seeing them as mating partners. Eases tension.
To me this only happens with people I’m meeting as friends, but if I’m getting to know someone attractive that I’m going to be dating or potencionally dating then I’ll be freaking out even weeks after the first meeting 🥴 it’s just part of my insecurities tbh, also the thinking of being judged by attractive people, whether they are male o females
I think its more of you dont see attractive people everyday, its out of the norm and takes time to get use to hanging out with attractive people that it then becomes normal to see.
Shyness is cute but anxiety is akward.
What is the difference lol?
@@JoseGomez-jr8hn face
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@@youtubesucks2755as in good looking person shy and anxious person ugly
@@youtubesucks2755 LMAO
So true. Shyness is endearing, demonstrating humility and sincerity in a way that can't be faked.
It's more complex actually. Some people say they make more eye contact to someone they like, some say they cant do it. Some say they show signs of body language to show theyre interested, some say theyre too shy
True.
Shyness (≠) Introversion
This^
It's not as much about attractiveness as it is about perceived "value." I'm shy around people I admire and respect just the same
This exact moment happened to me a while ago when I was in a bus and looked at cute girl. She was like a straight perfect 10/10 and probably around my age (18). I looked at her as she walked in and as she sat down we held eyecontact for a few seconds until she gave me the most beautiful and humble smile I have ever seen, she giggled a bit while doing it. After I saw that and my eyes got huge because I couldn’t believe what I just saw. I had a total blackout and looked out the window asap. I literally couldn’t look at her after that. I did it anyways in secret because I couldn’t believe the she really looked like a 10/10 but as she initiated eyecontact I looked away again. This happened a couple of times during the next 15 minutes until she ultimately left and I never saw her again.
God I wished I had the balls to go down and speak with her. But I don’t and every time I hold eyecontact with a beautiful girl I just look away.
However I stare at the soul of girls that I don’t find attractive
Bro, same! It's tough, honestly, to try to keep eye contract with people like that. But something that helped me fix this is to just force myself to have eye contract with everyone I see. But now I have amazing eye contact with people I don't know or will never see again, and on the contrary, terrible eye contact with people I know 😭
@quandaledingle720 actually happened to me lol
bro just lost the chance to meet the love of his life, ill pray for you tonight for you to meet her again and have the balls to approach her
YOUR STORY REMINDS ME OF HER I ALSO DONT HAVE BALLS TO MAKE APPROACH BUT SINCE THEN I DONT SEE HER
Because I am painfully aware of my personality.
No. You could lay down anywhere and a line of men would form. Your personality has nothing to do with reality. Personality only matters for people with penises
Am i your catharsis
@@ProxzLMAO
I get shy when talking to my crush because I'm scared I'm going to do a Freudian slip, and tell them that they have the type of face that I want to sit on.
They would understand im sure
if he's single and close to you in terms of looks, his sexual instincts will convince him that a relationship have to be initiated.
I'm crying with laughter at this comment 🤣🤣🤣
Are you a guy or a girl?😮
Eww. I hope you never get him.
Love the work, greatest channel. Nobody is bringing up this content with this quality. Flawless style, Scientific methods, pleasant narration… peak of its niche.
Perfectly described
When I was in high school there was this cute guy that sat across from me, and when it was my turn to read my writing out loud I blushed so hard that I literally got a bloody nose. Yes, part of that was probably due to social anxiety, but he was also just that attractive. To this day it’s still one of the most humiliating moments of my life. But hopefully if he ever feels ugly, he just has to remember that. 😅
This might be weird and off topic but this man's voice makes me sleep just like beautiful musics and rain sounds do😜 It's so soothing I sleep listening his videos❤ now time to get some sleep 🥱
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Yes, he has a smooth voice. I love it.
yes his voice is very calming he should do asmr
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Shyness, anxiety, and being an introvert are 3 different things by the way. In a nutshell…
Shyness means your maybe a little bashful… humble. Anxiety means you are panicking and can’t find the words. Introvert means you feel most comfortable and at your best when you spend time alone. Let’s not forget reserved.. which is neither shy or forthcoming. They can go hand in hand but they don’t have to.
I myself would describe myself as a shy/reserved introvert/extrovert. Lol. It’s a scale
As a person who have been both shy and introverted all my life, I agree
Being shy and being an introvert r 2 different things
Shyness is when u for example can't hold an eye contact with ppl or when u r nervous to start a conversation with strangers etc
While being introverted is not wanting to socialize most of the times and u want to spend more time alone bcz socializing makes u tired
Everyone call me shy all the time, i don’t feel like i am. I don’t like to draw attention to myself because I like my time spent alone most of the time. I don’t like the feeling I get around toxic groups of people and i feel like there is ALWAYS going to be toxicity when around alot of people.
Introvert/extrovert? You mean ambivert?
Thank you for helping me understand why people are intimidated by me 💖
The more I live, the more I learn that there's a reason for everything. No wonder the stoics always say to accept things as a will of nature.
This explains why visible moderate nervousness when a guy walks up to me is attractive.
I find it cute & genuine depending on his attractiveness as well, whereas being super confident makes me feel like you do this all the time, hence it can single-handedly decrease the chances of getting my number to 0 depending on other factors.
While majority of women prefer confidence, life is weird.
Im glad I’m not so alone in this line of thought 4:41
@@goldeternal I don’t even know how to respond to you, if believing it’s cap & projecting makes you feel better about your situation, do that. Just leave me out of your BS
@@goldeternalit’s literally said in this video backed by science bro.
I feel the same way, they’re much more my type.
The visible moderate nervousness has never worked for me when approaching women. The anxious energy must be palpable, many guys are better off being relaxed and confident
This would mean an average guy approaching you is in a lose-lose scenario.
I somewhat agree with the point where Qoves says that the other knowing you're attracted to them makes them attracted to you.
There was this guy I really liked in high school and when he found out I liked him he became intrigued. He would ask my friends why I like him and what I say about him. He normally doesn't acknowledge his crushes or care about them but I don't understand why he was interested in me. During my 5 years in High school he would ALWAYS stare at me throughout the 5 years and our conversations would always be awkward but in a cute way.
He never acknowledged me before he found out I liked him. He knew me as we were in the same class but didn’t seem bothered. He’s a very handsome guy and has had many girlfriends. I find myself to be average looking.
yes!! I remember I met this one guy whom I never thought he would be into me as he was heavily confident and a typical leader type and I'm shy and the complete opposite. My friend is confident and was the first to talk to them. I at first didnt find him attractive as he was so much of a show off and I thought he would be a better fit for my friend. But it turned out that he liked me and we were starting to play pool in a group and he used to do this professionally before. I suck at these things but somehow I managed to win against him. During the game he became more and more insecure afterwards I could sense that he liked me. The less he tried to show off the more I understood he liked me and all of the sudden I kinda found him cute too. It was this contrast of him being super attractive and confident and then being super shy and vulnerable around me which made me even recognise him as a potential partner lol this made me realise that vulnerability is actually what makes people drawn to another. The way he was looking at me was longing and still vulnerable. When I met my love of life at first it was just flirting and chemistry but I had many of these moments with people. I realised I love him when he told me he loved me crying. It was so emotional and he was not confident as usual at all. He was showing his pure side. And that's when I fell deeply for him as I understood that his actions are real and he truly likes me. I also realised that many guys like shy girls as it makes it easier for them to be in their masculine leading role. I believe some insecurities just show that the other person is human too, that we have a chance with them and that their actions are real and honest.
Bruh it only happens when you're attractive too. Otherwise guys won't give a shit about girls who are unattractive and have crushes on them.
I wish someone told me when I was a teenager that the friendly girls just wants to be friends. And the girl who acted shy, awkward and never spoke to me was the one who actually liked me, I would've probably went to prom in high school.
Bro why each time that the narrator says shy shows an asian person💀
it's impossible to talk to someone you really like
Wrong answer.
Not impossible just really really really hard
It's hard, but it's possible. You just need to stop your inner thoughts and understand that they are just people with the same issues as you are. We tend to put our crushes on a pedestal, but once you realize that person is a human like all we are, it will be easier.
Yes, I know it's hard but just practice to talk with someone that you actually like more
It's all about THE LOOKS. IM TELLING YOU PEOPLE. NOTHING ELSE MATTERS, UNLESS YOU HAVE THE LOOKS.
If you're good looking, you got it made, no matter where you are at in life.
Not true. All the important people, the people with power, decision-makers, purveyors of knowledge -- top scientists or economists, world leaders are overwhelmingly average looking people. As Dr Grande said in his latest video, superficial charm wins in the short term but it always fails in the long term. People fall in love with attractive people but, over the long term are more likely to emotionally invest in someone who values and cares for them.
@@Talitha-hv3ze exactly lol
Mostly your IQ is most important. You have to be slightly more productive than average person at least to have higher chance of success.
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@@Smartwurk THE LHHUUUOOOOUUUUCCCKKSSSS
being a shy/scared person i know that i missed out lots of opportunities,i wish if i can turn off this option but I can't still I'm always reminding myself to not be shy and trying to fix my personality
The model in the thumbnail is the face model for V, a character in Devil May Cry 5
and his name is Owen Hamze
Is this why some men will avoid talking to me in social groups when I am being nothing but kind and outgoing? It’s like they talk to everyone else but me
I am considered attractive, but i am also very shy.
When there i am in a social situation where i an interacting with my people and there are girls there, i normally try not to give attention to the girls.
I do that cuz i dont want to appear flirty. Especially if i find the girl atractive, i prefer if she start the conversation, so i dont come out as having "second intentions"
nope. ur probably just not their type. all attention would be on you that were the case.
@fff-oe2js i am an extremely less attractive Francisco haha
Nope. Probably not. You’re either uninteresting or maybe even invisible.
No.If a guy likes you they will show their sympathy immediately. Women tend to create fantazies that have nothing to do with reality.
The title + thumbnail combo is hilarious
This colmment section is so weird aha
Hey, I know you do mostly videos about celebrities and musicians or even models but I would be highly interested in videos on athletes. Roman Reigns or Charles Oliveira would be great examples to start with breaking down their facial structure and how it’s changed over the years under the spotlight
When I first met my boyfriend I sensed he was nervous which kinda put me at ease in a way because now I can’t be the nervous one 😂
I'm not shy around my crush because i never went near her😂😂😂😂.
Yup thats right, I tried to avoid making eye contact with my crush when she was talking to me
4:29 finally some good news for us socially awkward nervous types!
Could you make a video on how tyson was so intimidating. When he was lean (1996) looked intimidating but handsome at the same time. Was it his large cheekbones or browridge etc.
Please do a face analysis on the late actor River Phoenix. He has the perfect face in my opinion.
Guy in the thumbnail is Owen Hamze who is also a face model for V in DMC5! :D
Hey qoves can you do more older Hollywood stars like Vivien Leigh, Claudia Cardinale, Marilyn Monroe and male Paul Newman, Clint Eastwood...
Marlon brando, Tyrone Power, etc
The 800 pound gorilla in the living room: if you’re ugly, you’re screwed…
blackpillers: if ur not a psl god just don’t even try to approach a girl bro
@@slimluka2947 it's good advice considering how many women will consider it sexual assault if a guy they aren't attracted to tries to approach them
@@slimluka2947 he didn't even say that
@@slimluka2947 you gotta be decent looking
@@toad15fan actually ur right a coworker of mine asked a girl to hangout after approaching her and got assult at a college
0:00
Holy fuck, I just had this happen to me this weekend. This absolutely gorgeous girl asked me to join her home later at a friend's birthday party last Saturday and I absolutely chickened out.
For context, I am definitely below average looking and she is WAY above but we got to hang out for the first time one on one the day before and I guess we liked each other's personalities, but being so below her in looks, my brain just didn't register her proposal and defaulted to staying the fuck away from her all night. Why am I like this? FUCK ME.
I think it depends on the person. If you're not very attractive, aren't in good shape, lack confidence, are introverted, shy or socially awkward, getting nervous when you see someone you like is because you don't know what to do and you see them as above you, so you put them on a pedestal.
But if you're in shape, attractive, confident, extroverted, and socially adept, but have still somehow experienced nothing but rejection and disinterest, then you'll feel nervous because you know she SHOULD be interested, but the last 486 haven't been, so the pressure to attract this one is very high.
Low confidence vs over confidence
Can you do Winona Ryder from Stranger things she is beyond stunning.
Wait I'm confused. 1:57 Attractive people being shy (i.e. introverted) increases attractiveness but then also extroversion also increases attractiveness?
Exactly
It sounds bullshit, but nothing is more attractive than being who you're
Shy and introversion isn’t the same thing
I didnt really get that either, being nervous as a man just makes you seem incompetent to women, its a turn off. Opposite if you're a woman.
@@Sadman51 Thanks. That's what I was thinking. It's the only way this makes sense. But what is the difference?
I wish this were true for me 😭 People have told me my unmade up face looks scary. So when people see me, they tend to run. I remember a few occasions when men would "pick up" chicks very obviously with the "can you be my girlfriend?" Question... but the moment they see my face they run. I remember one time a guy didn't get a good look at me so was about to approach me but once he saw me closer, he literally ran off. I was so mortified
Oh? Let's change that for you.
Can you be my girlfriend?
your way of speaking shows me authenticity in such a way that i find it desirable. you’re pretty in my eyes.
Scary as in how tho??
@@tisashakya4729 I don't know exactly but in college, I used to have people tell me to smile because I look angry all the time. I had to learn how to make up my face to look more cheerful but sometimes you just go out tired.
I have chronic illness so when I remove my concealer, and remove my eyelid tape, and am resting, I've had some people ask if I'm on heroin or if I need to go to the hospital. It's mortifying anyone would think I take street drugs. I know it sounds crazy because my avatar makes me look normal. I do edit my photos.
@@Mekhel aww that's very sweet but I'm happily taken now. It wasn't easy but I found someone!
Hey! I would love you see you do a facial analysis on vinnie hacker, he has an interesting facial make up. also who's the guy in the thumbnail?
Hi qoves can you do Isabelle Adjani french actress she is stunning and one of most beautiful if not the most beautiful actress.But almost nobody talks enough about her.
Could you do a conclusion at the end as it’s quite a lot of info
Is the free facial analysis thing still in the works? Around new years you made a community post abt that, just curious if it might release soon.
There was this woman who I was wildly attracted to but it was an inappropriate circumstance ( work )
So it made the shyness absolutely unbearable.
Couldn’t even listen to her voice mails without STRESS . 🥵
Rip
Literally!!!
Same here ugh it hurts soooooooooo bad
Do Kyungsoo has been an introverted person that everyone loves... i wish I could be admirable person like him. he is shy but everyone always find him attractive in any ways, ie personality & appearance
As someone with body-dysmorphia, I can confirm.
Every person has body dysmorphia, you're not special
@@Sean.R whatever soothes your own anxieties
@@cj548 oh cool
@@samyueru3380 the sensation of what we may call anxiety is called the second aggregate. The third aggregate is called perception. The fourth aggregate is called thought formation. Your thoughts create your emotions. Emotions are your State of Consciousness, called the fifth aggregate
@@Sean.R So when you say love you really mean discrimination. You discriminate
This is pretty much true lol
Omg is that the face model for V in the thumbnail?😍😍😍
Please do a face analysis for Vinnie Hacker, so interesting to see because he looks both masculine and feminine-modelesque and has warm features despite looking so striking!
Love your channel
Hi Amazing Vedios you've got.
A request: can you please make a video on foreheads for men and appropriate hairstyle. Also highlight someone who is losing his hair and what can be done.
*videos
I don’t quite agree with the description of introverts and extroverts used in this video. It has less to do with shyness but more to do with energy levels in social situations or sensitivity to outside stimulus. I think it would have been more accurate if the video stuck to shy people vs outgoing, agreeable people description. Regardless, the point made was clear. Just wanted to point it out. Great video as always!
Good video, but the girl couldn’t even see the guy’s face. They were both wearing masks. She couldn’t know whether he was attractive or not. She ran away because she’s likely shy and socially awkward, ran into a much taller guy, and was embarrassed.
Or maybe she knows him from school? They look like school kids and those bunch usually go to the same hanging spot so it's pretty common to come across people you know from school. Otherwise, you'd be right that she's just embarrassed she ran into a pretty-looking (build-wise) guy.
So you have to be a nervous extrovert?
Nah I'm just here because the thumbnail model modelled for Capcom's Devil May Cry. Go on ahead.
So as always, just be atractive physically, nothing else..
One could argue that one should reduce word rate when nervous and use clear and concise language to speak more effectively. More words is not equal to better communication
PLEASE DO AALIYAH!!! breakdown of her face... she was literally captivating dam near every man in hollywood!! And I feel she had a beauty that was timeless!! ..
FACtS‼️ I don’t think ppl talk enough about how beautiful that girl was. I mean she was gorgeous in Queen of the Damned. She’s the reason Ive been vamp life since I was a child. I admired her so much.
I'm scared of attractive people's social power. They can get others to dislike you because they don't. I want to stay under their radar.
You're assuming all attractive people are manipulative. The evidence is in the millions that that's not true. Sounds like you've been burned. That sucks. Don't forget that unattractive people can also be manipulative.
Ooh it's V from Devil May Cry!
I’m introverted but I used to be super social and acted extraverted because I thought I had to, then I got older and realized I can be however the fuck I want so I socialize as much as I want and I’m not shy around people, I still have really good social skills and don’t get nervous around people I just get annoyed so I chose not to socialize
Yes a man I met and we were thrown together over and over, was this way. I showed up at a breakfast and there was no seat for me so two men went looking for a chair for me ...the man who brought one first and I sat in that chair backed off when the second man showed up...full of confidence as HE was. That first man sat to my right and the one who was confident sat to my left. The man on the right eventually excused himself and left the event early...I felt awful for him. He could not bring himself to say a word to me while the other one couldnt shut up. I actually didnt like the chatty man and liked him less and less. It took mos. before that first man would look at me and speak to me and then ONLY when I worked to engage HIM in conversation he could barely speak...I felt so bad for him.
In the meantime I did find someone to date...neither of these two men. Now my best friend is interested in the shy man. She finds him good looking. So, now I am trying to maneuver them together...he feels comfortable around me NOW that I am taken. He doesnt know her so is shy around HER NOW. She says he is the only attractive man who attends these breakfasts so I am hoping on her behalf. Wish I could TELL him outright....but I hold back because maybe he isnt interested in HER.
You'd think we were preteens but no, we are all senior citizens. So these emotions dont always fade with age and maturity and experience.
Now i know why my classfellow always hesitate to talk to me even a uni teacher hesitate when they see me they turn their head just to avoid me. At that time i feel very lonely & thought i have issues with me. So beauty =intelligence = wealth = behaviour (ikhlaq) are equal in trading. & God gift too. If a person given one them no doubt is lucky because he is chosen one. If have all them it's jackpot.
Lol At literally everyone in comments saying oh now I know why ppl don’t talk to me they shy n I’m gorgeous 🤣 all 350 of us can’t be drop dead gorg some of y’all are lying lol
Introvert + attractive= superpower
Let's be real if you are attractive you can't be introvert, your subconscious Creates a very social and outgoing personality if you have good looks but if you are ugly your subconscious mind Creates depressed, awkward, no communication skills or lazy kind of personality, I experienced this, i was not super ugly but low average from school to college times but after post graduate i got work done, I got my face scratches removed, blackheads and moles that are too many on my face and body all remove and some got stitched because big moles, and i already have decent height and facial symmetry too, gained muscles, now because of all good diet and gym everyday and good sleep and doing sports I went from depressed ugly being to hero like personality
@@NotTH-cam-cp3qg really happy for the transformation you underwent and also that you've expanded your comfort zone. Seems like your life has changed for better. But some people just choose to be introverts and not have a big social life not because they are unattractive or have no social skills but because they have personal goals which don't require a lot of socialising, or they could just prefer solitude, people need to stop giving so much importance to how they look but instead start thinking about what contributions they are making towards making the world a better place and start working towards building a legacy we only care about looks up to a certain age. In my death bed I wouldn't worry about how people perceived me as or how pretty I looked when I was in university, if our goal needed us to socialise we'd do it, it has no correlation with how attractive we are.
Llevaba ya casi mi primer semestre en bachillerato
Recuerdo que era dia de hallowen. Mi amiga me dijo que la acompañara al salon de su novio, nos quedamos ahi platicando,entonces,una voz de hombre dijo las siguientes palabras "Fernando tragiste nuevos amigos" cuando voltie hize contacto visual era el chico mas guapo que había visto te juro que me sorpendi tanto que no supe que decir me quede conjelada y fingi estar entretenida
Despues me senti super incomoda que me queria largar de ahi
Luego llegaron pensamientos a mi cabeza como "este chicos es nuevo[?]" "Por que nunca lo habia visto" "encerio es amigo de fernando" "me gusta"
You got so much wrong here.
1) Being introverted & shy are not the same. Many introverts are confident.
2) Introverts are not trying to become extroverts. The world doesn't revolve around extroversion & you are not better because of that.
The fact that you clearly don't have a bimodal understanding of this proves that we are taking in a lot of our surroundings as observants while you are worried about self-expression & fitting in.
3) And finally: introverts are about 50% of the population. Why would you assume that we would all be chasing extroverts?
I'm introverted & reasonably confident. I'm attracted to other introverts. Shy or not.
Shyness isn’t introversion.
Cant even be nervous or shy as a guy anymore 😭
Hi qoves, great video, can you make one on South Asian (Indian) girls and explain why someone can find them very attractive 😅
Indian girls are attractive 😂 dw about a video to confirm it to you. Im dating an indian Girl
@Erick zuluaga hi, not to confirm that they are beautiful (they are), but to understand way I prefer them
@@baldacchinonicholas7962 ahh I see
@Erick zuluaga so how did you get a South Asian girlfriend? It's hard for me to talk to anyone, let alone pretty girls I like, when I do talk to "Indian" girls, I just get friend zoned
@@baldacchinonicholas7962 I used to be a very shy dude. I basically took small steps towards being able to talk to girls I found attractive. Just takes practice and having friends as a support/ fallback if you are overwhelmed with talking to people (girls for example). I met my girlfriend through mutual friends and we started casually talking then when I could tell she was comfortable around me I made the first moves. Subtle compliments here and there and making plans to do something we both had in common.
Is there such thing as face dysmorphia, cuz I have it
yes there is many people have it thats why so many people get surgery on their face
Holy shit. Thank you
Hi qoves can you do Aishwarya Rai, Frieda Pinto, Anya Chalotra and other several beautiful Indian actresses?
Please can you do an analysis of Mariama Diallo she is one of the most beautiful Africans I have seen yet .
Shyness is more complex than presented here. A lot of it has to do with an inability or an unwillingness to engage in small talk. A person can be shy and enjoy performing on stage because he/she has a script. A lot of actors are shy, and good looking. Introversion has only to do with whether you run what you are about to say or do through your mind before saying or doing whatever it is you are contemplating whereas extroverts have less "inner talk." If you remove other people from around extroverts, they go crazy and get up and seek out someone to interact with. An introvert can simply rely on his/her own thoughts when not around others to keep them going.
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Interesting video but I deplore the lack of articles regarding several of the affirmations in this video (related to the shyness atractiveness for e.g)
I think it's more complex. Shyness can have different ulterior functions.
For example : A generally serious- No BS minded girl might shy away from a cute guy to send him cues that she find him so attractive that she could barely act serious infront of him. She wanted that guy to know - that he's so cute - but directly telling him could be awkward, or a inadequate gesture to signal the depth of passion he has evoked in her - so she shy away from him.
Shyness can often be an unhindered expression of First instance of love. Because if you have fallen for somebody, talking to him/her in the same way that you talk to everybody else could mean that your love lacks depth or passion. If you really want to express someone that you love him/her then a pinch of shyness is a very potent signal. It's a symbol of sacredness of your love. If you don't feel even a hint of shy, it could mean you treat that person as a robot & you don't care how you come across..
lol I think I made a huge mess but anyway.
One more example : I'm generally reserved & cold. But I often act shy to signal that I care for that person enough that I'm willing to turn off my "cold exterior".
Like you act shy on purpose?
I apologize for the confusion caused by my previous comment.
Let me clarify. I don't fake shyness; However, there are instances when I consciously override it, although I usually prefer not to. It's bc I want to express my genuine emotions and avoid appearing cold when I'm actually : 😳
Also, my shyness doesn't stem from feeling inferior in any way. Rather, my shyness arises when I really value how others perceive me & what they think about me.
For example, when I'm around my crush, I could have suppressed my Shyness (natural shyness) & made a serious face. This could unintentionally convey disinterest to her, which I definitely don't want to happen. Shyness, on the other hand, sends the message that I care about her and value how she Perceive me (I don't want her to think that I'm uninterested in her bc of my cold exterior), which is why I don't supress my shyness around them.
Also, my initial comment was more from the perspective of contemplating the evolutionary purpose of Shyness. I absolutely don't *control* my Shyness . Bad choice of word, sorry. I just wanted to tell that I mostly choose not to suppress my shyness. I didn't meant I was faking it or manufacturing it.
You mean your a tsundere
@@kevinlow69420 😅 You can say that
@@rahulranjan9013 Well I’m glad you’re self evaluating enough to understand this. Some men will act like a robot and wonder why they miss opportunities with the girls they like. It’s already quite confusing when you’re interacting with a colder type of person. I’m always very uncertain and uncomfortable around them, but I like them so much bc usually they’re so freaking smart and helpful.
Nervousness increasing appeal surprised me.
Is the man in the thumbnail a model? Does anyone know his name by chance? Ty in advance
What's the name of the model on the preview?
Is it V from Devil May Cry 5 in the thumbnail?
Its hard to lose with good looks
you mean lose not loose
@@pixie77531 ty fam, it's fixed
My crush Joann. I actually ran away when i saw her walking towards me.
Ah.. this must be why no one talks to me. All makes sense now.
Introvert -> nervous + attractive = endearing and more attractive
Awareness of attraction increases interest up to a point
Were the young people acting in the video at the beginning, perhaps? I wonder why the camera is following the movement of the "shy girl".
I only heard the windows error sound all along the vid. I would rate myself as a 6. Honestly, I feel better around attractive people. They feel good in their own skin, they're confident. It's nice to be around them. They definitely won't complain about insignificant details. They love themselves. It's something enjoyable. Off course if their confidence become arrogance, it's another story. People probably fear and feel uncomfortable about arrogant behaviors more than attractiveness itself.
i did see this one girl at the dollar store a while ago, just your average white girl but i am shorter then her, and My teeth are messed up and i noticed this one guy in the store smelled better then me and he was taller. But I didn't want to go up to her unless i got my teeth fixed. i could be assertive around women and improve my financial situation but i would still be short. i think the reason i would be shy is because i am short, have bad teeth, and know in a lot of ways i am not good enough for the women.
Short/ethnic/ugly men that approach women are called creeps. You dodged a bullet. Only approach women if you are tall/white/attractive. Then you'll be described as confident.
Hey, can you do Ben Shapiro face or Jennifer Garner?
Twilight Era Rob Pattinson 101.
Names of the models please ?
I'm shy around attractive people but I also want to be friends with them
Ehm, did he just give us ... hope?
I dont know why but I'm less shy around people I find attractive... maybe it's the halo effect thing where I think that they are a better person than they are
So if you are good looking, then shyness might help you?