Indigo Adults & Shame

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  • @brittneyruiz4821
    @brittneyruiz4821 8 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    i have a extremely hard time in life being indigo adult especially when i was a child among other gifts. Being abandoned for who i am. i have now adapted into loving myself being alone now and stay in my beautiful world.

    • @tammietreasure4293
      @tammietreasure4293 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me to !!❤

    • @cocojaz4478
      @cocojaz4478 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Way to go sister. Love and Light ❤️

    • @valerieriggins3184
      @valerieriggins3184 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Making Home...Your Own Peaceful Heaven! Is Appreciated After Living In A Nightmare. Of Trying To Live Out Others Negative Viewpoint. That's Cause Low Self-esteem n Self Hate of Your Natural SELF.

  • @georgev4616
    @georgev4616 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My Father, God bless him! .. Told me from a very young age (under ten) that my Teachers where lying! Too me!!! .. So I would "Question Everything" .. The Teachers and classmates would "Frown," I was told that I was "Disruptive" and would always be kicked out of the class, even though I would ask "Educated & Concise Questions" .. Never did I ever want to "Conform" or "Tow the line"
    ~ "I do what I wanna do" ~ As long as nobody is
    hurt, I'm "Good" with that!
    My Father was always proud of me, and he would never frown, he would tell me that I was "Different"...
    I asked him, "how?" ..... He told me, .... "You care, in a way that most people do not"
    Now! ... That I am a "Adult" .. I have been told that I am an ~ "In-Di-Go!" ~ Not wanting to be "Labeled" I said "NO!" .... Then I was told that I've "Ascended"
    Never paying any mind to this subject I didn't know
    what it means! So I asked, ... "What does ascended mean?" ... The Lady told me "You are from Heaven"
    LOL! .... I could not stop laughing!!! .... Hahahaha!
    ~ The Truth ~
    The Tenth of August 2011 ... I sustained a penetrative head injury ... Yes I have "Spoken With Angels" ... But! I wanted to keep it a secret.
    On the Tenth of August 2011 the other me died ~
    On the eighteenth of August 2011 a "New Me Was
    Born"
    The "Angels" told me ... "We have come to take
    you back" ... I told them ... "I don't want to go with you,
    send me back in there is something I need to do, I have unfinished business" ....... They seemed upset!
    They left me.
    ~ "Love is why I have stayed here" ~

  • @thaisminaknnedy1065
    @thaisminaknnedy1065 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    i am 19 and i literally agree with almost every single one of them. about school work, i repeated year 4! like it was that bad, i couldnt handle school, nor teachers and the only thing that ever made me happy was music and art class. Doing new projects that will change routine in school was what i needed. When i was little i never really had friends per say. I always hanged out the older seniors of my schools and they easily accepted me. They kind of understood me, not entirely but they knew i wasnt like the other kids. I never feared teachers nor authority, i just felt bad because i knew my mum would be disappointed, thats all. Also...when i was small whenever i go obsessed over anything i would learn it till i knew it to perfection, same as now. I try to get good grades cuz it is needed but i know this is not a real world, it isnt real, it is just a place humans accommodated their needs, everything we have in this world has psychological connections that dont matter because from that we create problems for ourselves! We stop each other form doing what we want to do and that makes us hate who is different. As a way to cope i learnt how to be around people. I am super social, and it all has to do because i understand people before i even know them. I mean, dude, i know what you mean about being sensitive! I CRY FOR ANYTHING! a sad tv ad, x factor auditions, my friend's sadness, people's happiness make me cry! people praying to God in their profound happiness! I see the beauty of faith in spirituality! i do see it, omg. Im glad i found this, i didnt know what indigo adults were until today, and just to find out that i am. Crazy amazing. Thanks for sharing

  • @joanalmorais8201
    @joanalmorais8201 8 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I have goosebumps! On my way home I was thinking about how I feel so unfullfield. I feel this way because I don't express myself...I don't write or create what I want because I'm afraid of what others might think. I've tried to break this fear many times but it's quite difficult.
    Thank you so much for this video :) It gave me motivation to actually be who I really am. xx

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I SO get it!!! The first step is to start practicing what it feels like if opinions didn't exist! You are FREE

    • @asldfk
      @asldfk 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      JO - I'm JUST the same. I have goosebumps and butterflies in my stomach after this video. I'm so afraid of people thinking I'm 'weird' if I just let it all out and let it free! I have tried to break through from the fear since watching Candace's video's for the past year (or two?!) but I just haven't been able to do it! When I 'toy' with it, people actually respond amazingly and if anything I feel like I make a difference and touch people's lives in a simple yet profound way. When I hide my true expressions, I don't feel like that. Anyway I just wanted to say I'm glad I'm not the only one and all the best for your new path :)

    • @joanalmorais8201
      @joanalmorais8201 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your comment Alex! I guess I've learned since I was little that being polite and quite is always better than speaking up! I am happy we are both trying to break this fear because speaking our truth is so important and crucial for our well-being :)
      I wish you all the best xx

    • @Kristen10-22
      @Kristen10-22 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Joanalmorais AMEN

    • @trehugr4life
      @trehugr4life 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great advice!!! I will start that NOW

  • @comac2373
    @comac2373 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I struggle so much with shame It's not even funny, but my true voice is emerging and it shakes people's foundations to the ground if they are not true. Thanks for everything you do Candace, you save lives and I hope you understand how insanely important the work you do really is. Didn't realize there were angels on TH-cam.

  • @asldfk
    @asldfk 8 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Sooooo what I needed to hear. I'm trying so hard to become more free and open with these gifts (even that feels so scary to say but I love how you call them gifts!). You are so right, they are gifts and its time I used them and CELEBRATED them. I'm so so sick of feeling afraid that people will think I'm weird..... my gypsy, intuitive, free, hippy, love-filled incredible, sensitive-to-energies soul needs to be heard and seen and I need to get out of its way. Eeek! :) Thank you for sharing!

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yay! My pleasure :-)

    • @trehugr4life
      @trehugr4life 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      next time I'm feeling down about not fitting in, I'm going to come back here and read your comment :)

    • @harrynac6017
      @harrynac6017 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      trehugr4life Hi. In case you forgot this. I'm your reminder.

  • @tommyg190
    @tommyg190 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I cried watching your video. You explained me to me. I just found out about indigo today. I'm so happy to finally learn more about this gift - all I can say, is my gift is humor. I've made people laugh in hospitals, funerals and breakdowns. I just have to learn how to hone it and share it on a bigger stage. My purpose is to make people laugh and forget about their concerns.

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thomas G this is SO beautiful! Thank you so much for sharing :-))

  • @yasminpaterson2894
    @yasminpaterson2894 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Needed to hear this very much. Lately I've been feeling a void and like I'm slowly losing my 'purpose' because I can't seem to fit in or find people on the same wavelength as me. It's a part of trying to figure out who I am and do what I want, however I'm scared of judgements and leaving this comfort zone.. even though I know it's what I need to do in order to step into my power at the end of the day. I'm learning and trying to embrace my quirks and accept myself entirely. It's a bit of a hard process but I'm positive about it. Thank you!

  • @kylemonkeyn54
    @kylemonkeyn54 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I'm so glad I found you! This is my life story

  • @QuetzalCoatl_PT
    @QuetzalCoatl_PT 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I found this video today, everything happens for a reason and I was really needing it. Thank you.

  • @kerrycraig1222
    @kerrycraig1222 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate so much of what you have to say. It doesn't matter how many hundreds of friends you have on Facebook when barely anyone connects to the world the way you do or sees things the way you do. I appreciate it when I find those places where I do connect, as I have here. thank you

  • @markflierl1624
    @markflierl1624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I carry a lot of shame. I've gotten a lot out, but I have soooo much more to get out. This was a fantastic video. Not only did I have problems with my parents, but my teachers were almost as bad. The older I get, the less respect I have for them. It was like nobody listened to me but everyone wanted to sell something to me. Everyone wanted to tell me how to live my life. If I didn't agree with them, they would accuse me of being a know it all. I don't know many things, but I do know that I don't want to live my life the way most people do.

  • @judithrix-brown8790
    @judithrix-brown8790 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dear Candace.. I love your special teaching for those who are new to the planet now. As an Indigo/
    Lightworker and loveable weirdo to those who knew me as a kid, I am confident we will survive. I am 73 and had to discover all of this on my own with only my intuition and higher self as a guide. My advice to all the young ones out there.. hang in there it does get better with time. Thank God for adulthood, too! I got to study many paths along the way all have something to add. Most important
    Nothing is wasted when you choose to live a conscious life.

  • @betsyroy6269
    @betsyroy6269 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I do not fit in so I just stay to myself. It's hard to have friends because no one understands me and they criticizes. Also, I take on people's problems. I don't need that. It's hard to feel so much. Also, I want to know and understand everything, now ! It's hard not to be able to understand and know things that are not known or understood.

  • @miip-vs6lb
    @miip-vs6lb 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Candance am amazed how you know ... exactly what I should be doing .. but not really doing. Yet you have all the answers that I need .
    You are 💯 right in my solutions . Thank you for all your help and support.
    I do find them so empowering.
    Must listen over and over instead of sabotaging myself.
    You are brilliant.
    Gladys
    x

  • @paulbrooks7685
    @paulbrooks7685 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome, I am a missunderstood adult starseed, indigo and inntravert aswell, we are also spiritual lightworkers in secret too! We are not trying to guide you on a wrong path, but rather to lift your spiritual growths journey back to a reasonable state of conciousness and well being in the Light of the higher vibrations ,fields and plains of physical and spiritual coexistences between Light energy and dark energy. Furthermore cancelling out the misconceptions about who we really are as individuals! Indigos are soul seekers lending personal guidance to any lost person that may need help. Starseed children are also with Light workers all uniting as one union unto the spiritual and physical realms and have been sent to Earth on a mission of peace.

  • @ekdaluz4607
    @ekdaluz4607 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow. My life story in a nutshell. Thank you ❤️

  • @safelyheartfelt8142
    @safelyheartfelt8142 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am very much your target market, identifying a lot with descriptions of Indigos, lightworkers, HSP, empaths, intuitives, energetically sensitive, etc. I consider myself a recovered codependent too. As are my coaching clients who seem to be attracted to me, the ones I most connect with. I appreciate your videos and that you serve this big-hearted population that so often struggles with confident self-actualization and peace.

  • @gangstalkersarecowardslose1017
    @gangstalkersarecowardslose1017 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've had this my whole life,,,shamed for being me,shamed for my kind heart and sensitive soul,,also I've always done things my own way and been upfront and honest with people and real with them and the only thing that I've gotten for this is rejection,,,I've learned to walk alone and approve of myself,,,I love me more than being a projection punching bag for people that refuse to deal with their issues,,,in our presence they are angry because we mirror their truth,,too bad,,their stuff is not our responsibility

  • @kathleendoran5054
    @kathleendoran5054 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    keep doing your thing Candace. we appreciate you. :)

  • @nickeysandusky8046
    @nickeysandusky8046 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That's all my friends tell me, your just different you don't belong to this world, it pissed me off, your so right ❤️🧘💕

  • @shanerogers2835
    @shanerogers2835 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are 100% not incorrect. I thank you for this message. Life has been good, but tuff as well. I'm an Aquarius , R.h. O negative half Cherokee and half Irish. My mother was in labor with me for 36 hours I was born on 01 26 1976 at 3:33 am on a Saturday. 11 11 always every day is the best number that funds me

  • @umrilifenChrist
    @umrilifenChrist 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This totally made me cry...& im not even a cryer. It hit a nerve something that I can not express with words because I don't think there are words that you can use to express it...but this brought feelins & experiences up from childhood & my teenage years. I didn't realize the affects. I didn't know I was an indigo, i just learned of this word today & halfway believed in this stuff. But this hit a nerve. I'm grateful for this video.

  • @christiannilsson6550
    @christiannilsson6550 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Word, girl!!!! im an Adhd adult an im trying to make the word more posivtely loaded,,im proud of my adhd... xxx

  • @innervision97
    @innervision97 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The instincts I have - I follow them. Don’t need a reason.
    The feelings I have - I live in alignment with that
    The awarenesses I have - I believe even if it’s not to be seen.
    Wow!

  • @Apixi
    @Apixi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so precious. Thank you for sharing. I found myself nodding my head "yes"!

  • @LoloBTiger
    @LoloBTiger 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I always told my daughter that her ADHD diagnosis was such a gift. I have always been so inspired by her creativity and they way she sees the world. It is like a bright light.

  • @rickwalker5543
    @rickwalker5543 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is an example of "there are no coincidences" - I stumbled across your TH-cam page to find exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you so much!

  • @Khans4444
    @Khans4444 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i hid until it became impossible to dumb myself down any longer to appease the world - picked up the guitar after 30 years and the music NEVER left me.... i couldn't stop it if i tried ....... someone actually told me 'it's as if you don't care what anyone says, you're going to do whatever you want' - hell yeah i am 😀

  • @jadajarvis9204
    @jadajarvis9204 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I FUCKING LOVe YOUUU . YOU JUST HELPED ME IN A piece of puzzle to my manifestation amd awakening process! OMG THANK YOU so much. ive been struggling with myself whether i wanna fit or or jut embrace. ive tried this past year to do both and truly im soooo tired of it !!! SOCIETY FUCKING SUCKS . ALL I CAN SAY IS THANK YOU BOTH TO YOU AND AARON D !

  • @AlanP1TO10WORLD
    @AlanP1TO10WORLD 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes spot on! Maybe this is the reason why a lot of Indigo's choose assertive partners (so did I ) as a form of protection to the outside world so we can be ourselves or when we come home we can find a place of peace as there's someone who understands us or let us be. But it's only when we start seeing/believing in ourselves and learn how to become assertive and stand up for our believes, peace comes from within. I see or recognise this codependent pattern in other Indigo people as well. I had to step out of my relationship to recognise this pattern but I'm sure there are more gentle ways to this.

  • @catiebrown2890
    @catiebrown2890 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This makes so much sense. I have had such bad anxiety because I'm so aware of my differences and ashamed of them

  • @keyoncesable
    @keyoncesable 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is so on point, finally someone who will speak up.

  • @patrickmula3339
    @patrickmula3339 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    HI Candace You accurately described my Life experiences. I am 64 and am in the perfect profession for me. I am A Reiki Jin Kei Do master practitioner and licensed massage therapist. Thanks for validating people like us. Lots of love Rick

  • @azifitiz222
    @azifitiz222 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am a strong Indigo, knew from an early age. The more I connected the dots and sought out and found a settling vibration. I knew the teachings of Jesus. I found myself in Him. I am a born again believer and follow Truth.

  • @kirenjitjaura3371
    @kirenjitjaura3371 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your message. I totally agree! It's never to late to shine shine shine!!!

  • @colleenjuneglatzel5926
    @colleenjuneglatzel5926 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're a gifted speaker. I hope more people stumble across you.

  • @VonDutchNL
    @VonDutchNL 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Well, i'm an indigo ''man'' 29 years of age, i always was (and still am) a super sensitive guy, around when i hit high school i oppressed those loving emotional feelings, and became such a harch closed negative boy. I always could read (and still can) peoples feelings, i could/can feel their energy and it drained me emotionally didnt know how to deal with it,
    So that's why i build a wall around me at the time maybe around 13. after 13 and up I became a badass, drank alot, agressive, shut down my feelings, became ''popular''.. i lost my real self being.
    I'm 29 now and i see how that was SO wrong of me to do.. i just conformed to people around me, being the guy what society wants me to be. Now i've been going back to my ''real self'' since a year or two, and it feels so out of my ''character'' for people who know me.. because i was wearing a mask for such a long time. I still find it very difficult to show my real feelings because they can be so intense and can scare off people. I'm almost always alone now, with my feelings.. just to not bother others with my ''weird way'' of thinking.
    The thing is, i am pretty handsome (sorry i'm not trying to be arrogant) and people always look at that, and just assume things like i'm arrogant or shallow.. those negative energies also break me up. I tried to find other indogo's in my country, overhere there seem to be not such a community.
    Btw sorry for my bad english grammar, i just need some advice, i feel kinda lost.

    • @digitaldame2672
      @digitaldame2672 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope you are doing better. Check out Infinite Waters (Diving Deep) has deep knowledge to help you out. Steve Nobel to clear all your past life, this life stuff and connect to the new earth grid 5D. Victor Oddo has a great channel to help you understand the energies we are all going through. You haven't done anything wrong, there wasn't much information around when you were younger, its time to forgive yourself and others and connect to your true self. Welcome to the weird party - its a great time to be an evolved human on earth at this time. Do the work and your gifts will change and grow. :)

    • @turkanismail8169
      @turkanismail8169 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Check out Alan Robarge. No disrespect to candace but ive never heard any one as emotionally intelligent as him

  • @Changeworld408
    @Changeworld408 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderfull info, what related to me the most is about being a system buster. I guess being true to yourself is hard if you come to hit on a system 99% of the people still depend. Being honest and not getting thumbs up is better then selling your soul to get likes on facebook

  • @kittykat6255
    @kittykat6255 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Growing up an indigo, my self-esteem was damaged hard. I grew up a broken black sheep. Addressing how i felt only got me in more trouble or hurt

  • @testoptions
    @testoptions 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This one made me feel something so good. I want to be myself more than anything. Almost there. So close. Tippy-toes nose.

  • @julspaul1
    @julspaul1 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes ...Im so able to see myself as here....life has always been a great struggle for me from my childhood ... so many years have gone by now I feel the gifts that I have is dying down .

  • @jaredtuitel5121
    @jaredtuitel5121 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude I went through the whole authority realization when I went out on my own to college. Brought up a lot of wounds I've been healing now and thank god for it! Love all your vids about shame and abandonment. You don't have to apologize for saying Fuck. Say what you need to say. No shame queen!

  • @trehugr4life
    @trehugr4life 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    So well explained; just what I needed to hear today! Thank you!!! and the part about how you 'feel a lie, feel what's going on'..OMG, YES..it's a relief to hear someone else say that!

  • @CryptoProphet
    @CryptoProphet 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cool. I like your message, thanks! There is also the issue of having to fight obstacles, walls and hurdles that are put in the way by others. Ultimately these have always created pauses for me to learn and grow more - or I have been in that situation to blow the doors off of some BS situation, lol. Yep, blowing up old systems is kind of fun once you realize that's what you're there for ;-)

  • @chelsearose2441
    @chelsearose2441 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bipolar II rapid cycling
    No medication
    Embraced my gifts
    True to myself. Irritating the world around me, helping people wake up

  • @Julieber1
    @Julieber1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I definitely get all the checkmarks here on what you’re saying about ADD and autism and what not. And I am also ashamed of my authentic self and self loathing because of the multidimensional being I am.
    I hate the fact that I cannot come to come out and tell my family who, and what I am I’m dealing with this anime girl soul factor makes things even more intensive painful and makes me feel more ashamed.
    I am an STARSEED/BLUE-RAY Pleiadians Anime Female warrior named Jujtoti from the Karelian Family from a multidimensional advanced technological hybrid alien humanoid anime all female Pleiadian world.
    I’ve got a lot more than a bargain before when I had my awakening to reveal things about my authentic self at times. I’m still struggling with it, defines everything this 3-D reality stands for in this world.
    It took a big major awakening for me to truly wake up to who and what I truly am. I know am no longer the Earth female I thought I was because I’m a dimensional Starseed/Blue Ray Pleiadians Anime Magical Teen Girl Goddess.
    I’ve lost my reality since I’ve had my major awakening on December 30 after I lost a tooth and making a wish to be a young beautiful female forever and have immortality. My wish got granted, and then this is when my entire journey started.
    For me, my awakening was not something I had planned or a choice as it happened, regardless of what I wanted or not wanted, regardless of whether or not, I was ready or not.
    Then on Dec30th going into 2024 when I lost a tooth, out of fear I Made a wish to be a beautiful female forever and have immortality. Then right away the kundalini awakening opened up at full attack and my authentic self said now you have the soul of an anime girl, and you are now a real anime girl inside. Ever since then I have been in a living hell or dream state I am unable to wake from.
    Even my mind set, and body has gone into the age regression process to look more like an anime girl. That is what I see when I look in Mirror anyway. I see a cute anime girl looking back at me and I am like what the bloody hell. Is this Really happening to me and is this freakin real. What the hell happened to my reality.
    Been dealing with these synchronicities from earlier childhood and it’s been using anime and anime girls as ways to get my attention even when I wasn’t looking for it or interested in it or you knew about it.
    Back then I was more interested in about finding a dream job. Having a nice car. Nice house making big money nothing else mattered back then. Even if I found out what anime meant back then I didn’t give a damn about it because I was more interested in what I mentioned above.
    Over time Anime revealed itself to in the form of synchronicities to me and told me what it was. It slammed me into the wall to make sure I knew what anime girls and magical girls were. Then over time the more I had to watch it off and on, I would start having fantasies and desires to be an anime girl living in anime girl worlds. For many years I was able to push it away and think it was nothing more than that.
    I don't like anything about the Magical Girl Part because she is from Puella Mgi Madoka Magica multiverse. I seem to be an unintended victim of forced contact from Kyubey to be a Magical Girl. I am sick of all this suffering on top of suffering on top of suffering. I don't want to be a Magical girl knowing the suffering they must put up with. Magical Girls are made to suffer.
    Please help me, because I don't know what to do any more. This is driving me into complete madness and I don't want to end up in no dam Phy ward again. I had a bad traumatic experience. I was put in there over a deviated septum last year in Feb of 2023 for 2 and half weeks.
    What they did to me was just inhuman. I was having issues breathing and one day the head nurse and its helper came in the dark and ejected me with two syringes at the same time on both sides of my ribs. It felt like an alien abduction to me.
    Can anyone explain to me what type of shifts I am dealing with? I feel so scared, confused, broken and damaged goods. I hate dealing with the Anime Girl Body Dysphoria the most. I hate the fact that I can't go back and yet it keeps pushing me forward.
    I feel like I am a mental wreck, and I can't help feeling the way I do deep down inside! The more I Follow this Path the stronger the feelings of being a Anime Girl Gets. I Can't go back because there is only death and pain. Going forward drives me into feeling to be a true anime girl and live in an anime girl multiverse. The feeling is like being stuck in a dream state that I am unable to awaken from. This is why my dissociation is my best friend when I feel numb and in the void from any feelings and pain.
    I am sick of how people point the finger at me and say I brought this on myself. Why would I pick such painful and deadly path knowing that it could risk could be suicide and death.
    This is me in the world since I’ve been going my shape changing transmutation to being younger. The Post is my animal and then there is my anime girl soul family.
    I went to a psychic fair this week in Saturday and Sunday. I visit multi psychics for multiple different Readings, and they’ve all agreed that I am a Pleiadian.
    I’ve done a lot of soul-searching and everything and I know deep down inside I’ve been confirmed by others that I am a multi dimensional being.
    I also have the soul of an Anime Magical Teen Girl Goddess, that’s also been confirmed by a large group of psychics that they felt this anime girl child like present.
    😭😭😭😭

  • @EsterVanderWalttube
    @EsterVanderWalttube 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you. I am in full agreement with you. Since I have accepted the fact that I am different my life is so much more tranquil. I have peace inside of me were before i was constantly at war with myself.

  • @Badboyjoshyyy
    @Badboyjoshyyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    “I dont need a reason” i love that!!

  • @BG-kb7ju
    @BG-kb7ju 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    FINALLY!!! Somebody that understands me😔

  • @DenaJaq
    @DenaJaq 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the confirmation. Been healing and accepting the "whats wrong with me" thing. Thanks

  • @comac2373
    @comac2373 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think I'm a lightworker or something, seen lights and spirits my whole life. I'm a 27 year old male, and it makes me not feel so alone seeing videos like this. Thanks.

  • @Angell_Lee
    @Angell_Lee ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much, your video made me cry of joy. I appreciate you so much, you are a gift to the world xo

  • @weskil79
    @weskil79 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou so much for your message, I have been living like that for a month or two now and although lonely sometimes i feel i'm able to help strangers project their secrets to me. Don't get me wrong I scare them and lose contact but I just no in my heart I've sparked something in them. I'm starting to care less and less about how it benefits me (not being lonely) and what it does for them long term (in the short term I may have upset them) we all have messages for eachother and our greatest (perceived) enemies have the most important ones. I'm starting to see through language as well that is not the driving force here, it's all frequency and emotion. I think I will check your course out, I think that's just what I need. I used to hate being different than the rest, but now I know there's others it's become quite empowering.

  • @katia.vakulenchik
    @katia.vakulenchik 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Candace, your videos are helping me a lot. Thank you for your work and just existing.

  • @ninag3068
    @ninag3068 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg, never before has a video in youtube made me feel better... I'm going through mental hell right now, thank you so much

  • @saskiabrouwer4348
    @saskiabrouwer4348 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are so refreshing thx for it . your Indigo brother

  • @anagijon5202
    @anagijon5202 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So cool to have come accross your videos!!) I so really needed to hear this its so empowering Thank you!!!❤

  • @maritkirkeng3154
    @maritkirkeng3154 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Holy shit! I Just realized im an indigo! It all makes sence now ... wooaw. Thank you 🥰

  • @bunnyteeth365
    @bunnyteeth365 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I think I'm an indigo. I was labelled autistic. I think that's the most dehumanizing label to exist. I often do everything I can to not seem autistic or different. Another issue I have is that people interpret my indigo energy as naive or childlike. I hate it.

    • @thelexishow4436
      @thelexishow4436 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hey! Hello, that's so me. I am actually autistic to and everyone thinks so me as childish even though I'm so mature!

    • @lilxgremlinyeet2751
      @lilxgremlinyeet2751 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Anonymous noneya same

  • @helmsfere123
    @helmsfere123 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have work to do then. Thanks for the assignment. I resisted at first but you are inescapabley, right on the money! Thank you x

  • @GoldbergandPartners
    @GoldbergandPartners 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Unity and Diversity. Spot on.

  • @mithasoe
    @mithasoe 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    told that I'm befriended Satan last weekend by my aunts because of me being myself. I'm just stunned. I've been hated by people since I was born, but don't know why. know I now. not going to back down because I know who I am and I'm accepting myself and this gift

  • @timepyramid2354
    @timepyramid2354 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cadence, you're really good at making BIG projections in a BIG way!

  • @7gmang
    @7gmang 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    yeah! its sad that i cant find anyone to really connect with...i love myself though it's that since i was a kid i felt not being understood by my parents and I was mainly alone

  • @shiningemperor850
    @shiningemperor850 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Indigo needs to give to receive, to connect to be stronger, more meaningful, purposeful.

  • @courtneymccullough1264
    @courtneymccullough1264 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is so what I needed

  • @skylarm4624
    @skylarm4624 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Candice you are so amazing I really appreciate everything you've done I'm definitely going to check out your Facebook page also thank you so much for creating something for us 2 grow in our gifts I have been feeling quite a bit of Shame lightly and not knowing wear it came from I felt like I wasn't ever going to succeed my path in life I know is to help gain awareness for people that are under a stigma of any kind I have HIV and I I am so grateful HIV saved my life some people don't get that kind of Revelation all I mean by that is I now know my life purpose which is a beautiful thing I am going to create a foundation called awareness art and create a support system for people that feel they are outcasts and or that don't have anybody so I am very inspired by you I just came across this video and I'm so glad I did love you girl thank you so much for your words keep your badassness going Namaste Angel girl

  • @Tavz1111
    @Tavz1111 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Indigo adult -thank you for the reminder, love your honesty

    • @uduakudo8908
      @uduakudo8908 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you.... You and other Women like you have inspired me to feel comfortable speaking out... I experienced a lot of abuse in the Black power movement... always afraid to tell the truth... I didn't learn about abuse through racism... my own people were abusive towards me & my children....thank you for your courage & I hope that other Women & (Men for that matter) see this video bcuz the Black community is at risk...we get attacked by Black Men & Women like Umar who have the agenda, behavior, speech & energy of a sociopath or a psychopath (&if he really is a Psychologist then he knows how to be a sociopath) that is very similar to Hitler and they dare us, especially Women, to speak out...we should remember that people like Hitler and Idi Amin started their movements trying to help people, trying to make a change for those who were in desperate need...then they destroyed entire communities & caused so much hurt & pain & confusion... I believe that as Humans we were not meant to destroy each other!! Where is the Love!! Thank you again for your presence on this earth!! Many blessings to all who read this!! Let's restore Humanity!! Bcuz right now I'm not always sure if we're even human!!

  • @user-mt4zr5kp7h
    @user-mt4zr5kp7h 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I so feel you! 🤗

  • @marta41553
    @marta41553 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just thought I was crazy all my life.. I only did work with help work with the homeless, family, youth with Mental health and hospice.. now my grand kids are definitely are cristal child's

  • @abrahammelchizedekgabrielm766
    @abrahammelchizedekgabrielm766 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can relate... im sensitive to frequencies in all forms Sound, Light, Color, Smell, Ect... in my room i don't use light bulb as it kinda drains my energy thus i prefer candle. In malls it gets even worse, i feel everything until i loose my grounding, thus,i need solitude or atleast i have to walk around with my Sapphire crystal, it helps me maintain my normal Magnetic field and deflects un wanted energies. Ive always been misunderstood. besides, i enjoy my times in solitude, this is were i discovered what society is crazy about doesn't even make sense to me. i see fake people hiding in musks. People tend to think they can cover up a magnetic force (sad, anger, hate, jealousy) yet i use my heart literally to feel the vibration in others. that way, i can see fake from honest. Im a natural healer and can literally cure almost any disease using frequencies and vibration from the synchronicity of my Visual thoughts, my hands magnetic field with my hearts intention. however,due to my misunderstanding, people can die yet the solution was around. As indigos we are a key puzzle in society,unfortunately we are seen otherwise, we are percieved cold and unapproachable yet we have great ideas and solutions for mankind example how to cure cancer and create free energy from the infinite Etheric Fields...but again, it wont be easy to solve problems unless we loosen up on our outer appearance, then the world will value our Authentic gifts.

  • @nicolec8884
    @nicolec8884 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I guess this explains why I am incompatible with most people? I remember a psychic telling me Im an indigo child and people shamed me for not liking the same stuff they like. I am dealing with a lot of shame and hate it. I'm tired of dealing with control freaks I met in the past.

  • @MerridethHawk
    @MerridethHawk 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    First video of yours I watched, genuinely enjoyed it.

  • @zippyzipzipzip6641
    @zippyzipzipzip6641 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you too . great video Candice . i use the arts of dimensions 1-5, colors , numbers and + and. - to navigate through the universe. Relitivty .too , works well and Its very progressive. . Very basic.

  • @sonyatrivino9854
    @sonyatrivino9854 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I never understood my own soul until now, I had plenty events during my whole life and now everythings has made sense.

  • @jessmess2.0
    @jessmess2.0 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Candace, this video was exactly what I needed today. I really enjoyed your presence. I will definitely be checking out your program! ❤

  • @kendu5636
    @kendu5636 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for your unique perspective. Saw psychiatrist yesterday. Not feeling good. I’ve seen him 3 times for 30 min each. Very frustrated about long waits 2-3 months between 30 min sessions. Also I completely disagree with his latest “insights” completely wrong. I know me. Suggestions?

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kendu maybe try a session with me!

    • @kendu5636
      @kendu5636 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Uuuummmmmmmm. Ok! I’m in!

  • @patriciaducent1135
    @patriciaducent1135 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Honey, so true!!!
    Thanx for the tip😊😊😊

  • @jessxxy
    @jessxxy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    No disrespect to you Candace, I know that you mean well, I respect you for that, but my life at the best of times is a solitary one because people think I'm totally nuts and so therefore cut me off.... be it family or friends old or new.. my life is an absolute fucking joke! I am the most kindest honest person I know yet all I get for that is never ending crap ..... I am so lonely.... I don't see as being this way a blessing in the slightest... it's a curse because just look at what sacrifice you have to make.. I have no one to call my own... everything I have ever loved has been taken away from me in some way over the years... how on earth is such a lonely existence a blessing when you are treated as though you come from an unwanted planet.... being born xxy on the top of it didn't do me any favours either... Look at what you have to give of yourself... My existence is shit. If only ever trying to be your best earns you the worst... just who exactly is benefiting what here?! I fail miserably to understand the shoddy set up

    • @glorytothealmightycreator
      @glorytothealmightycreator 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      jessxxy , you are not alone. All I loved was taken from me too in a way or another. Let' s start to think that God will help us and we have a hope in the story of Job from the Bible. I give you a hug. I pray that God have the willingness to show both of us and others like us that He loves us and to repair our lifes ( I need a physical healing too) for His glory and for us giving Him praises with joyful hearts for His mercy, love and power manifested in our lifes. Hugs, prayers, love

    • @helmsfere123
      @helmsfere123 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      jessxxy Pain can't last forever. nothing can. We can use pain to become powerful and although it may not seen significant now, you can use the pain to learn to help others when they inevitabley find themselves in painful times. You are just having an annoyingly long bad trip right now but try to remain present; NOTHING can last forever, you are fine. Love yourself.

    • @djdiablo93
      @djdiablo93 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      jessxxy Sounds like you have trouble loving unconditionally. Maybe accepting yourself more and not taking other peoples opinion as absolute will allow you to live more freely. Focusing on your problems without positive transmutation of that energy only amplifies that energy into your life. If someone doesnt appreciate you, and you get mad about it, you are essentially admitting that they are right, that you are not worthy of their love, etc. Accept yourself first, only your opinion about yourself can empower or disempower and that is what ultimately matters most.

    • @trehugr4life
      @trehugr4life 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      change your thinking, change your life (Dr Dyer).. I once felt like that..I looked at my choices... suicide-not an option; continue to exist like that-not for me.. so what could I do? I worked on my thinking, started practicing daily gratitude, meditating, energy work... yes, life is still challenging sometimes, that's why I'm here, listening to this video.. but I'm going to do the best I can, every single day, with what I'm given; and I must say, my life is pretty great these days! I hope you can say the same one day! sending love to you.

    • @ricardodelrey6419
      @ricardodelrey6419 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Go to the gym, put on your headphones, close your eyes and press the stresses of your life into the machines or free weights. Breathe in deeply, exhale fully. The soreness will make you feel alive, learn to love that. Life has it's ugly sides, never let that slow you down. I know you hurt reading your words. Your life has meaning and value... Find your inner power. Talk to strangers as ice breakers, admit to being a bit out there up front. Joke about it. It can help prepare "normal" people For what you have to say about whatever you're going to say. Be true to your self. I know you will find happiness in the most unlikely places. Peace be with you.

  • @bonniedunbar6717
    @bonniedunbar6717 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know I am different and don't fit in. I don't understand why I care what other people think about me but I can't even start a small business without thinking about how it will look to others if I fail. I am afraid of letting go of my adult chiild because right now its the only friend I have that keeps telling me to just move forward.

  • @monikaburzova7767
    @monikaburzova7767 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Candace. Love you babe. XX 💖

  • @EarlyForgaen
    @EarlyForgaen 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    goosebumps too... known me my whole life, you must be my guardian angel hahaha!!!!

  • @Rawreyezhungry
    @Rawreyezhungry 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I already knew I was a indigo. It tears me up , that I can't be me without being the person people want me to be "me". I'm a wacky individual , who loves animals. But , I portray a serious guy.

    • @WhisperingNightmares92
      @WhisperingNightmares92 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      man i feel you its so hars to survive in this world with this fear of being judged.

  • @levikingacadien9573
    @levikingacadien9573 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great message and awesome videos.

  • @_cr8ive_
    @_cr8ive_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I couldn't even spell ADHD when I was at school...this just changed my life...

  • @GungfuRichard
    @GungfuRichard 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    No one's world is letting them be free and inpowered. Every one has to fight to self actualize.

  • @deecee4760
    @deecee4760 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finally something makes sense

  • @00ddub
    @00ddub 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your message, Love your energy! Thank you

  • @EnergyDynamics
    @EnergyDynamics 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Candace!!! I need to start making videos again. been to long and to many people have asked me to return... (quietly fades away).....

  • @xDRxGreenthumb
    @xDRxGreenthumb 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Agape ~ Namaste ~ Namaji ~ Much Love To And For You!

  • @justyncousins7468
    @justyncousins7468 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wtf.. I thought I was crazy.. it all makes sense now

  • @ciaratabacheck8905
    @ciaratabacheck8905 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This has helped me a lot. Thank you very much.

  • @mileswallace4321
    @mileswallace4321 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hell Candace and everyone I'm a Indigo trying to keep up with the rest so I can more understand more about us indigos

  • @ingridpudaruth8725
    @ingridpudaruth8725 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Totally relate to this video

  • @brookenelson0415
    @brookenelson0415 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for truth!

  • @edio8835
    @edio8835 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    My sister

  • @sarahswetlik1034
    @sarahswetlik1034 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg you rock! Lol.. this is so me.. it's like nobody gets me

  • @ellooku
    @ellooku 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    The first person to understand my feelings. You talk like my future Wife. I will like to know more. Thanks sweet dreams.

  • @kulturestreets
    @kulturestreets 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you so much for this video! it answered alot of my questions