I feel bad for Tamera..they know she's a Christian so they automatically think she's out of touch with reality...but I admire her to sticking to her convictions and trying to prove her point with the hormone thing.
Khadija Newell YAAAAS!!! I was thinking the same thing!! Its because she's a Christian that they persecute her. "They think she's out of touch with reality. " Very well put
I know. I hate that they assume because she's a Christian and when she says anything that's not "holy" or "Christian-like", they look at her like she's got a tumor growing out of her face!! I hope she sets them straight this upcoming season 😡😤
You talking about when she said she had a freakum dress yeah that kind of peed me off too! I was like she is a grown MARRIED women not a teenager or a child like seriously like what is she gone do walk around in gowns all day. Like come on!!
Right that what I'm saying she was just letting them know how she felt about I mean I agree with Jeannie and Tamera. See some people wanna oh now you judging me but hello u said something I voice my opinion and feel as though in stands that everybody not like she letting them know. So the other three is on FOOLISHNESS!!!
Both in a way. They were projecting their own insecurities onto her by lowkey shaming her / judging her. Tamera being who she is confronts the others with their own 'shortcomings in their chastity
bearraaaaTV Are you mad ? There’s NOTHING wrong with being traditional and conservative. I guess in this society everyone’s allowed to have an opinion UNLESS it contradicts what you’re saying. You obviously don’t value yourself.
Jeanie was gently supporting Tam here it was really nice to see. Every group of friends goes to far sometimes, it was nice to see Jeanie handle some of it
@maxine porter I normally don't reply in defense of someone I don't know but felt compelled to say something here. Loni doesn't have children because of a traumatic experience she endured, not as a lifestyle choice. I highly doubt that her poor choice of joke can be attributed to jealousy. Loni actually was once pregnant and sadly miscarried. That experience, in her words, traumatized her. From then on, out of fear of experiencing that again, she CHOSE not to get pregnant again so she wouldn't have to risk potentially miscarrying once more. Her not having children was her choice borne of fear from a traumatic experience. We as humans should really learn some more compassion. Instead of spreading false narratives and spending time trying to project or judge others, maybe we can try to practice refrain and not speak on people's motives and reasons for being if we have no personal knowledge of who they are.
+natasha275 because Tamera is naïve and only sees the world through her eyes...idealistic eyes. No one has a problem with Tamera's lifestyle...but I ALWAYS notice an air of judgement Tamera has when it comes to certain choices women make about their sex life. You should have seen Tia and Tamer's reality show when they were discussing the Wills, Tamera actually told Tia that she would not want Tia to be her children's mother..in case she died. Tamera said she did not agree with the way Tia and her husband raised their children. It was VERY weird and awkward...suffice to say Tia was crushed and cried, because Tia wanted Tamera to be the mother of her children...if she died.
Indigo Girl ahhh okay now i kind of see why people may be a little put off by Tamera's opinions. I actually started to notice what you said when i watched more episodes after this one.
+Indigo Girl Your response sums this up perfectly! I love and respect Tamera's opinion along with all the other ladies, for I believe they each bring unique and valuable opinions to the table. However, with that being said, I do think Tamera sees the world through "idealistic eyes" as you said, and can sometimes forget that when it comes to dating every woman does not always get a fairytale story. I am a Christian, so I understand and respect that her views come from biblical principles, but I also know that we live in an imperfect society, and what is ideal often times is not reality. If a woman finds herself being single for a number of years, whether it be by choice or due to circumstances, I deem it unrealistic to expect her to not be sexually active for the duration of her singleness. Most people don't find themselves being celibate for years or even decades at a time. I typically find Tamera to be very understanding of those who may have a different background than her, but unfortunately, when it comes to sex and dating, I think because Tamera can only pull from her experience, which fortunately for her was ideal, she can't relate to those who had less than ideal circumstances, thus I do think she comes across as slightly judgmental and has a lack of understanding towards women who had a different path. I think it sometimes frustrates the other ladies on the panel because they may feel like they are being shamed or judge because they have a different perspective due to just having less ideal experiences. Sadly, many religious people say we should not judge, but ultimately they end up judging the most, which can be very off putting.
I wish they will allow Tamera and Jeannie state their point of views and the other can state theirs. I always find myself agreeing with Tamera and Jeannie
@@mariadefeo5621 Bless your heart🙏🏽! U might not have been sleeping with him, and u two might not have been sleeping together…but I assure u he was having sex with another woman. U just didn’t know! Men aren’t built like that. Trust‼️
I’m late on this but damn... Loni asking Tamara if she gets hot and bothered while breastfeeding her son was MAD disrespectful. You don’t say that to a mama like that. No.
Yea I felt that was super wrong even if she's joking. That's just disgusting... mothers see it as one thing and one thing only, that they are feeding their child. For anyone to see it as anything other than that is super disrespectful.
I’m so glad Tamerra has grown so much from this video cause the way Tamar and loni kept shutting her down was hard to watch. Now tam be telling them off ! Go tamm !
Right?! I had friends when I was in college who would occasionally tease me and treat me like I was a child/ naive because of my more conservative views on dating (which weren't even ridiculously conservative, I just have standards). It was kind of annoying...
Loni talks soooo much she cant even understand what Tamera's saying 😠😠😠😠... Lol all Tamera was saying is she doesnt go on booty calls....it wasnt that deep
Yes true. But as Loni has unresolved issues and is old with no man no kids no husband. She thinks she can live a life of booty Calls and this will fill the gap. The void. Obviously she's sensitive about it. It's almost like a failure. And when Tamera who is happily married living a happy life with her kids and hubby starts talking about having standards ( which you don't need to have with booty calls) Loni fires off. It touched a raw nerve. It's almost a reminder of what Loni doesn't have. Standard. I should have been a shrink. I would charge Loni double for a session.
I hate how they keep making fun of Tamera. She's got morals. I hate how some of the others sometimes glorify being easy!!! There are other women like Tamera in the world!! Stop making like shes stupid. She knows what she doing!!! And she a Christian woman. And i completely agree with her. She got her head screwed on right!!!
+Delmaine Donson GIRLLLLLLL I HAD TO STAND UP FORTHIS!!!! BUTT YOU WANNA KNOW WHATS FUNNY WHO IS HAPPILY MARRIED WITH A MAN THAT LOVES HER ANNNNNNNNNNNNND A CHILDDD >>>>TAMERA
girl your so right.....I'm not Christian however I relate so much to Tamera. Everyone has their own opinion on how they feel and what they can do and not do and be fine with afterwards.
I usually like Loni but honestly she was pissing me off in this video. She was being hella rude and trying to make Tamera look like an idiot just because she is more conservative and classy. Like shut up and let Tamera talk! Loni and Tamar were acting ratchet in this segment. I couldn't even watch the whole thing from how annoyed I was with the disrespect.
maryse sanou she’s using that scientific “fact” incorrectly. If Tamera was correct, it would be like that for every woman and it’s not. So Tamar is right on this one.
You know things are twisted when the married girl with the beautiful family is getting shade for being 'antiquated'. This conversation was so sad actually.
I feel so sorry for Tamera, I've been watching the dynamic closely and I think she is stereotyped and because others THINK that they are being judged by her, they treat her differently. All the women in the group are likable and have a lot to give, but it's kind of off putting to see her being treated that way. Spread kindness! :)
I feel that tamera usually represents my point of view and I would like to hear what she has to say. Also, I LOVED the test season but I feel like the dynamics have drastically changed now that they've gotten picked up. I hope it gets better because I want all 5 women to succeed and this show to succeed!
IMO, I think it can be looked at that way but in reality all it is, the other 4 women are agreeing w/ each other, which singles 1 person by themselves. Basically, every1 has their own opinion, they def get along.
Who else is seeing this in 2019. Kinda of cool to see where they started and how they have evolved. I notice they don’t let tam tam talk. I’m happy that now she demands her time to talk.
Tamera NEVER said that un married people can't have booty calls.. Loni too busy twisting her words outta apparent insecurity. Sit down Loni. Ain't everybody the exact same as you.
It's slick pissing me off to see them basically ganging up on Tamera for having values. Like - what? They always use the excuse that "that doesn't work for everybody" to say that she's out of the loop or "lame" and then start explaining whatever term or subject is in discussion. But if they actually LISTENED to her - she's just saying what SHE did. Not what everyone else should do. Real spit - WHO CALLS/TEXTS TO SCHEDULE A DATE (1) AFTER 8 P.M. (2) THE SAME DAY (3) WITHOUT SEXUAL INTENT??? I hate that they go out of their way to make her seem like the prude of the group when she just has her own morals. I know they love Tamera but I think they need to check the way they ALL (except Jeannie) slick gang up on her for having an opinion that is contrary to POPULAR opinion. What's popular isn't always RIGHT.
This just proves why women are not made to do bootycalls. Their emotions will some how get caught up. What Tamera and Jennie said was true. Soul ties and exchange of hormones are real. Also, there was nothing wrong with Tamera having times she considered respectable hours. You teach men let alone people how to approach/treat you. I'm sorry but i didn't like how Loni was coming at her on this episode. She started putting words in Tamera's mouth.
@john smith Good to hear, but that hasn't been my experience at all. lol Most of the men I've encountered have been territorial and possessive, even if we're not officially together.
Tamera is so drop dead gorgeous here wow! Her innocence makes her look even more beautiful ! Love her .... Side note Doja cat looks like Tia and Tamera.
Agree with Tamara standards as a woman. And Texting me 9 and 10 at night saying What are you doing / I wanna see you... I'm not going! So disrespectful to even try it.
They need to stop talking down to Tamera because she has higher standards and doesn't just give away easy sex like they do. They always unintentionally gang up on her because she's not this wild woman and has a lot of respect for herself and her body. That's HER. Let her do her and have her views without judging her. She was only giving her opinion. I could feel her getting frustrated by this conversation. Hell, I was getting angry for her
I completely stand with Tamera on this one. Bonding chemicals are released when you *hug* someone for 30 seconds, and these women act like its the more absurd thing that bonding chemicals are released after you have sex with someone. Tamar obviously proved this right after she said that no other girls in her circle can have sex with her booty call partner. If she didnt feel bonded to him, it wouldnt matter who he chooses to have sex with after her. Hed simply be another random guy. Stop treating Tamera like shes stupid and too pure to have any valuable opinions. Its so condescending.
That's not necessarily true. Many people believe that men can have sex and not be emotionally attached to a woman, but even if a man is not emotionally attached he still does NOT want his homeboy smashing the same girl that he is sleeping with.
At this rate, I may actually begin to dislike Loni. This is the third time I've seen her disregard Tamera's opinion. What she said about Aiden was just nasty. I love Tamera, one of the reasons I watch the show is because they have a levelheaded person who shares my views and morals and also has class. I hope it gets better and they don't just push her views aside.
I agree.. I'm not even mad that Loni and Tamar had differing opinions its just how they reacted to Tamera's opinions. It's almost as if she's seen as this girl who has no experience and is naive and "ignorant" to the real world.. but her opinion is just as valid as anyone else's..
Ohh I see😑that woman is a low down shame. She also says a bootycal at 12am is the same as tamera rolling over to have sex with her husband. No Loni, that man is committed to tam but yours may not be there when u wake up
I am soooo disgusted by Loni's personality in this clip!! She was SOOO rude to Tamera and such a bully!!! That comment that she made when Tam was talking about nursing her son was disgusting and low!!!! Newsflash Loni.....some women still respect themselves enough not to let everything that offers to take them out run up on them!!
Tasha Mack yeah that was lowest level of low going after someone's kids and she caught herself too so she's tried to apologize but it was too late she can be ignorant at times
Sleeping around affects both men and women. Even if you say no, something psychological happens. Don't kid yourself. There are studies. Do your own research.
Why were they putting words in Tamera's mouth? She wasn't judging anybody and was saying what she personally did. She didn't say nobody was a ho or throw in shade at people who have booty calls. smh
Seriously what the hell are u supposed to be discussing after 12 am midnight like really except for booty call. I agree with Tamera. After 10 pm I don't want a call from any guy except we dating.
I think Tamera has some of the best advice on this show!!!!! It just seems weird to some people who are so used to living in there dysfunction!!! I like her advice because its always bases on a functioning relationship and mindset !!! After 8 pm YOU ARE A BOOTY CALL! Just because you gave him the booty that does not delete you from booty call category. That just mean your the CERTIFIED AND STAMPED BOOTY CALL!!
loni needs to stop..Tam didn't say that ur wrong for having sex outside of marriage even though that's her beliefs.. she didn't judge anyone. they putting words in her mouth.
Loni was crossing the line when she talked about Aiden. Let Tamera speak and stop singling her out. I agreed with Tamera but wish she could've spoke more. Tamera isn't just gossiping...she's trying to have a conversation!
she a christian girl. God said they persecuted me they will persecute you. and thats the attitude of many people who are nonbelivers or not strong in their faith. Tamera has them feeling convicted because they know deep down inside the idea of having a booty call in general is wrong, and its sinful. people act like "well i got needs." learn some self control. learn to wait. have some patience. and if u find a man that could be a husband, marry him instead of giving excuses of why u shouldnt marry him but think that having premarital sex with em is a lesser sin.
Shaun M Tia has a stronger personality than Tamera but, I believe she would handle Lonnie in a classy way without the ghetto slapping the u know what out of Lonnie. This is not Jerry Springer, and to insinuate that Tia would behave that way is far from anything I have seen in her character. Tamera should have used the good sense not to get on a show like this. I believe Tamera took this show because she was desperate for work and Tia was getting a lot of work, so she seemed kind of jealous cause Tia was outdoing her. I do agree they are so hard on her and I feel bad for her. Tamera may need to grow up a little more. She is a beautiful and intelligent lady but she is getting a little bit too old to act so naive. Lonnie need much prayer for saying the things she said about going to hell and about little Aden.
Blanco Jennings I so agree with that! I've watched a few episodes of Tia & Tamera and it was clear to me that Tamera was jealous of her sister outdoing her which is why she took this show. But I don't think she'll stay much longer... And you're right again about Loni, the comment she made about Aden was rude and disgusting.
I'm with Tamera on this one. If I'm not leaving my house at 8/9 or before I'm not leaving. After 10 pm and what not to just be leaving your house to meet with a man for a "date" how much time are we really gonna spend together? Because respectable ladies get in at respectable times. It must be a booty call.
Tamera was the only smart one on there honestly. That's why he remarriage is the only one that is lasting. The others around her always wanna be dirty bc they think sex sells. Adrienne only changed bc she's married to a Christian man but if he didn't save her, she'd still be the same. Loni is depressed and sleeps with everyone.
They are so rude, obnoxious, & condescending towards Tamera...I can't even stand to watch. Every time she opens her mouth, they (Loni) are so ready to hate on her opinion. I think there's some low key jealousy on that panel.
Well I wouldn't say jealousy but I will say so u stand what u saying. And also feel like Tamera been taught some chritsin values and some people can't handle hearing what she say but I will say this they better hear and listen to what she's saying because she be on point!!! Like for real though
I just found this show on TV the other day and I'm sooooo sad I didn't find it sooner !! I absolutely love this show !! The show has a vibe that reminds me of the Tyra show.. I love it ! :) I'm a loyal watcher now
so im new to your show and im low key mad that i didnt know about this show untill now!! what i love is i watched most of you as a kid all the time and i think about these shows all the time and its so nice to ssee you all so happy, keeping it real and giving amazing advise.
I agree with Tamera! She has certain standards and don’t want to do those things in a worldly sense. I want to be comfortable and do things the way God wants me to do them.
Loni stop attacking Tamera everytime. She has values that does not mean you should find every means to ridicule her every second you get. You are funny but leave Tamera alone.
I agree with Tamera .. sometimes it’s hard to have relations because you do start to catch feelings even if you’re not trying! But everyone can agree to disagree
Tamera looked like she wanted to cry with frustration & I wanted to cry for her. That must be sooo annoying trying to state your OWN opinion & it being disregarded even before she finishes her sentence. Like it's The REAL so she's station what she believes in, people don't have to agree but to shut someone down all the time like that, laugh at them is embarrassing
I love tamera for staying true to her beliefs they were making her seem like she was wrong or uneducated but I think she has the most wisdom out of everyone. Also it always seems like whatever Loni says goes and that's not cool all the time. and side note I miss this jeannie from season 1 ):
***** I agree, I think because everyone else was trying to get their point across Tamera lost hers... You could definitely tell she was starting to get a bit annoyed. But I agree with her, I'm old-school lol.
I blame Loni...she's taking things too far with her criticizing. I used to like Loni and watched her all of the time on Ellen. But she's being a hypocrite...she doesn't want people to criticize her lifestyle when she is the biggest critic at the table. She seems bitter and dissatisfied with her life, even though she claims to be "happy." :/
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I feel bad for Tamera..they know she's a Christian so they automatically think she's out of touch with reality...but I admire her to sticking to her convictions and trying to prove her point with the hormone thing.
Khadija Newell YAAAAS!!! I was thinking the same thing!! Its because she's a Christian that they persecute her. "They think she's out of touch with reality. " Very well put
I know. I hate that they assume because she's a Christian and when she says anything that's not "holy" or "Christian-like", they look at her like she's got a tumor growing out of her face!! I hope she sets them straight this upcoming season 😡😤
So they HAVE been renewed?
You talking about when she said she had a freakum dress yeah that kind of peed me off too! I was like she is a grown MARRIED women not a teenager or a child like seriously like what is she gone do walk around in gowns all day. Like come on!!
Now I will say on tameras part the drinking thing is not chritsin like but umm hey I'll keep her prayer
Omg this was terrible to watch, because Tamera wasn't even judging them.
Ikr. Her & Tamar reaction 😥 (5:58)
Right that what I'm saying she was just letting them know how she felt about I mean I agree with Jeannie and Tamera. See some people wanna oh now you judging me but hello u said something I voice my opinion and feel as though in stands that everybody not like she letting them know. So the other three is on FOOLISHNESS!!!
I don't know. All I know is that is that I agree with Tamera and Jeannie!!
I felt so bad honestly
Yeah I just felt upset
I loveeeeeee that Tamera stands out with integrity, and uncompromised 👆🏾
I feel like they felt judged by Tamera when in reality they were the ones judging her.
Both in a way. They were projecting their own insecurities onto her by lowkey shaming her / judging her. Tamera being who she is confronts the others with their own 'shortcomings in their chastity
Omg Facts sorry I have values
Yes!! Plus they we’re putting words in her mouth! Things she didn’t even say!
Tamera comes off that way sometimes. Tbh they’ve all judged each other at some point. Everyone does it.
They also knew it's the wrong thing they are doing. People don't like hearing the truth
Loni was so disrespectful to Tamera especially with that question about Aiden
daisy v Loni was very insecure during this time and still is a bit.
What did she say exactly? I keep going back but don’t seem to fully understand her comment
Lauren Westerman oh ok. smh that was way out of line!
@Lauren Westerman wowww. Disrespectful
Dajia Star right though? The insecurity was written all over her
Let's pause and admire how beautiful Tamera looked here 😍😩
Gemalucha Exactlyyyyyyyy, girllllll, lol.....
Because she court-shipped and is blessed. Not making herself cheap and sleeping around with e'rybody
I was about to say thattt
yes and adriene... but shes better looking.
I meant Tam is better looking.
Tamera doesn't need to be school. She's respected and valued. She's also married because she's respected.
+siamsa69 AMEN TO THAT
Of course she does. One should educate themselves on numerous things whether or not they agree on said topic. 📚
Oh yes, Adam knows what kind of woman he has , he even said that she has access to all his stuff. Real men are valuing women like her
@siamsa69 Agreed!
Jillian Mallory I love how your name is Jillian Mallory and mine is Jalen Mallory!! so cool!
they completely twisted tamera's words and made fun of her like sorry she has morals
+ZizYoubizHERE what a world we live in, right
bearraaaaTV Are you mad ? There’s NOTHING wrong with being traditional and conservative. I guess in this society everyone’s allowed to have an opinion UNLESS it contradicts what you’re saying. You obviously don’t value yourself.
Exactly!
@bearraaaaTV those are HER standards. Shut up and respect them
Jeanie was gently supporting Tam here it was really nice to see. Every group of friends goes to far sometimes, it was nice to see Jeanie handle some of it
Amen
I'm all for a good joke, but what Loni said about Tamera and her son is highly inappropriate
@maxine porter I normally don't reply in defense of someone I don't know but felt compelled to say something here. Loni doesn't have children because of a traumatic experience she endured, not as a lifestyle choice. I highly doubt that her poor choice of joke can be attributed to jealousy.
Loni actually was once pregnant and sadly miscarried. That experience, in her words, traumatized her. From then on, out of fear of experiencing that again, she CHOSE not to get pregnant again so she wouldn't have to risk potentially miscarrying once more. Her not having children was her choice borne of fear from a traumatic experience.
We as humans should really learn some more compassion. Instead of spreading false narratives and spending time trying to project or judge others, maybe we can try to practice refrain and not speak on people's motives and reasons for being if we have no personal knowledge of who they are.
@@rootedbyj Though Loni went through that traumatic experience does not excuse her to say inappropriate comments about children and their mother's.
Why do they try to make Tamera into someone that needs to be schooled. They always put words in her mouth
+natasha275 because Tamera is naïve and only sees the world through her eyes...idealistic eyes. No one has a problem with Tamera's lifestyle...but I ALWAYS notice an air of judgement Tamera has when it comes to certain choices women make about their sex life. You should have seen Tia and Tamer's reality show when they were discussing the Wills, Tamera actually told Tia that she would not want Tia to be her children's mother..in case she died. Tamera said she did not agree with the way Tia and her husband raised their children. It was VERY weird and awkward...suffice to say Tia was crushed and cried, because Tia wanted Tamera to be the mother of her children...if she died.
Indigo Girl ahhh okay now i kind of see why people may be a little put off by Tamera's opinions. I actually started to notice what you said when i watched more episodes after this one.
Tamera herself said school me.
+Indigo Girl Your response sums this up perfectly! I love and respect Tamera's opinion along with all the other ladies, for I believe they each bring unique and valuable opinions to the table. However, with that being said, I do think Tamera sees the world through "idealistic eyes" as you said, and can sometimes forget that when it comes to dating every woman does not always get a fairytale story. I am a Christian, so I understand and respect that her views come from biblical principles, but I also know that we live in an imperfect society, and what is ideal often times is not reality. If a woman finds herself being single for a number of years, whether it be by choice or due to circumstances, I deem it unrealistic to expect her to not be sexually active for the duration of her singleness. Most people don't find themselves being celibate for years or even decades at a time. I typically find Tamera to be very understanding of those who may have a different background than her, but unfortunately, when it comes to sex and dating, I think because Tamera can only pull from her experience, which fortunately for her was ideal, she can't relate to those who had less than ideal circumstances, thus I do think she comes across as slightly judgmental and has a lack of understanding towards women who had a different path. I think it sometimes frustrates the other ladies on the panel because they may feel like they are being shamed or judge because they have a different perspective due to just having less ideal experiences. Sadly, many religious people say we should not judge, but ultimately they end up judging the most, which can be very off putting.
Indigo Girl thats called having an opinion. You dont have to like everything. It was about her kids, not about the sibling bond between the 2 women
I wish they will allow Tamera and Jeannie state their point of views and the other can state theirs. I always find myself agreeing with Tamera and Jeannie
Absolutely!
+QueenJasmine1991 loni really annoying
I go out with my man for 3 years WE have done it yet I been wait to get married but he trying you know
Maria DeFeo
Hang in there! :-)
@@mariadefeo5621 Bless your heart🙏🏽! U might not have been sleeping with him, and u two might not have been sleeping together…but I assure u he was having sex with another woman. U just didn’t know! Men aren’t built like that. Trust‼️
I 100% agree with Tamera!!! These women are making fun of her for having standards. This world is sad.
:-)
Amen
I don’t think Jeannie was..
What's nasty is what people like
I’m late on this but damn... Loni asking Tamara if she gets hot and bothered while breastfeeding her son was MAD disrespectful. You don’t say that to a mama like that. No.
Yea I felt that was super wrong even if she's joking. That's just disgusting... mothers see it as one thing and one thing only, that they are feeding their child. For anyone to see it as anything other than that is super disrespectful.
I’m so glad Tamerra has grown so much from this video cause the way Tamar and loni kept shutting her down was hard to watch. Now tam be telling them off ! Go tamm !
First of all dont come for tamar she wasnt shutting her down at all so get your facts right
@@msbossyjewell Girl she was rude asf. Get your facts straight
@@msbossyjewellexactly she was rude get your life 🙄👋🏾
I can't stand how they treat Tamara like a baby just bc she's a conservative woman
"It'a a scientific fact!" -"I just disagree with you..."
She’s not conservative she’s liberalish I think lol doesn’t like the orange guy) just Christian
Right?! I had friends when I was in college who would occasionally tease me and treat me like I was a child/ naive because of my more conservative views on dating (which weren't even ridiculously conservative, I just have standards). It was kind of annoying...
@@violinplayer101 I agree, and I hate when they say "your standards are unrealistic" or "you have too much of a high standard"
I AGREE.
Loni talks soooo much she cant even understand what Tamera's saying 😠😠😠😠... Lol all Tamera was saying is she doesnt go on booty calls....it wasnt that deep
Yes true. But as Loni has unresolved issues and is old with no man no kids no husband. She thinks she can live a life of booty Calls and this will fill the gap. The void. Obviously she's sensitive about it. It's almost like a failure. And when Tamera who is happily married living a happy life with her kids and hubby starts talking about having standards ( which you don't need to have with booty calls) Loni fires off. It touched a raw nerve. It's almost a reminder of what Loni doesn't have. Standard. I should have been a shrink. I would charge Loni double for a session.
+ifunanya24 lmao so true
Loni does not have any sense lol... she just living without a purpose right now
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She's fucking annoying
Rach C Loni is just being herself, which is the only way to be. I think she is great. I certainly don't want to see someone fake on the Real.
Tamera is the only one right on this topic. Same for Jeannie
To a certain extent
Exactly all women get attached
Not all women get emotinally attached, including me.
+A.C Diamonds Some people need to believe that BS, lol. Smh.
+Tracey Kralik I disagree. I think that anyone who is completely honest with themselves can always separate the two.
That's why the rest of these girls have failed relationships except for tamera PERIODT
island _Empire17 true
@@roxjnie9028 girl smh,good luck listening to them!
ummm..Adrienne is happily married.
girlsixdiva she wasn’t at the time this episode was shot
Tamera has failed relationships too.
Tamera thank you for being a good example of a lady who has standards. Dont fold for none of them! Much respect!
Well she's married it's kinda easy for her lol
I hate how they keep making fun of Tamera. She's got morals. I hate how some of the others sometimes glorify being easy!!! There are other women like Tamera in the world!! Stop making like shes stupid. She knows what she doing!!! And she a Christian woman. And i completely agree with her. She got her head screwed on right!!!
Absolutely!
+Delmaine Donson GIRLLLLLLL I HAD TO STAND UP FORTHIS!!!!
BUTT YOU WANNA KNOW WHATS FUNNY WHO IS HAPPILY MARRIED WITH A MAN THAT LOVES HER ANNNNNNNNNNNNND A CHILDDD >>>>TAMERA
+Delmaine Donson just because someone likes casual sex doesn't mean they lack morals...
+LadyChaos101 it does actually. It means you lack the moral to not be easy like that. But if you think it's ok do you girl no hate
girl your so right.....I'm not Christian however I relate so much to Tamera. Everyone has their own opinion on how they feel and what they can do and not do and be fine with afterwards.
I usually like Loni but honestly she was pissing me off in this video. She was being hella rude and trying to make Tamera look like an idiot just because she is more conservative and classy. Like shut up and let Tamera talk! Loni and Tamar were acting ratchet in this segment. I couldn't even watch the whole thing from how annoyed I was with the disrespect.
Loni is gonna end up alone with 50 cats and box wine
Funny how they're giving tamera crap about dating yet they're the one still single. Tamera got married. She got standards
Rochelle Rive 👏👏👏👏
She got married to a racist lol better off just being single
Except that Jeannie and Tamar were both married in his clip
@@rtmusicvideos431 Who said she go married to a racist?!
Sonata Shinome I think all the racist talk came when Adam worked for CNN. I think he made some bad comments about the Trayvon Martin case.
Tamera: it’s a scientific fact
Tamar: I don’t agree with you
maryse sanou she’s using that scientific “fact” incorrectly. If Tamera was correct, it would be like that for every woman and it’s not. So Tamar is right on this one.
@@EllePlowPlow you're wrong lol not people can choose to ignore their bodies lol
@@EllePlowPlow And where’s the scientific evidence to prove this nonsensical point of yours and Tamar’s?
Loni has always gotten on my nerves. She talks way to much like she’s got all the answers and the other girls are just there to ask questions.
She is the type of wife a man doesn't want to go home and meet haha.
Yes I wonder why she doesn't just go off and have her own show with just her on it.
You know things are twisted when the married girl with the beautiful family is getting shade for being 'antiquated'. This conversation was so sad actually.
Jessica Varona it really was
I feel so sorry for Tamera, I've been watching the dynamic closely and I think she is stereotyped and because others THINK that they are being judged by her, they treat her differently. All the women in the group are likable and have a lot to give, but it's kind of off putting to see her being treated that way. Spread kindness! :)
Agree!
I feel that tamera usually represents my point of view and I would like to hear what she has to say. Also, I LOVED the test season but I feel like the dynamics have drastically changed now that they've gotten picked up. I hope it gets better because I want all 5 women to succeed and this show to succeed!
IMO, I think it can be looked at that way but in reality all it is, the other 4 women are agreeing w/ each other, which singles 1 person by themselves. Basically, every1 has their own opinion, they def get along.
***** Agreed! I like hearing what she has to say.
bjenkins2012 Me too! I love her! :)
Who the hell goes out to dinner after 8pm!! Guess Tamera is the only one with standards!!
I do sometimes :p
exactly
Exactly
Lol every european,
+Cyrielle Agbo lol..... To be fair in Europe, I was going out at that time!! But here in America, restaurants are almost closed at that time!!
Awww Tamera I’m a Christian too so I feel you with the marriage thing 😂😂 Stand strong girl
Who else is seeing this in 2019. Kinda of cool to see where they started and how they have evolved. I notice they don’t let tam tam talk. I’m happy that now she demands her time to talk.
Tamera NEVER said that un married people can't have booty calls.. Loni too busy twisting her words outta apparent insecurity. Sit down Loni. Ain't everybody the exact same as you.
It's slick pissing me off to see them basically ganging up on Tamera for having values. Like - what? They always use the excuse that "that doesn't work for everybody" to say that she's out of the loop or "lame" and then start explaining whatever term or subject is in discussion. But if they actually LISTENED to her - she's just saying what SHE did. Not what everyone else should do. Real spit - WHO CALLS/TEXTS TO SCHEDULE A DATE (1) AFTER 8 P.M. (2) THE SAME DAY (3) WITHOUT SEXUAL INTENT??? I hate that they go out of their way to make her seem like the prude of the group when she just has her own morals. I know they love Tamera but I think they need to check the way they ALL (except Jeannie) slick gang up on her for having an opinion that is contrary to POPULAR opinion. What's popular isn't always RIGHT.
U r right about this, tho.
EXACTLY!!👏🏻
Agree
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
yes especially Toni she always interrupts and talks over everyone
I agree with Jeannie and Tamera. And plus, even when you're single, doesn't mean you have to go sleeping around.
Agreed!
i agree
+Tiffany Ruan
I agree
+Tiffany Ruan I agree
100% agree
Tamera couldn’t get a damn word in because Loni kept over talking her. Jeannie the real one for allowing Tamera to finish 🔥👏🏽
that kind of thinking that is why we have so many baby mama and baby daddy
but not husband and wife
Scientifically, Tamera is right. She's talking about the hormone oxytocin.
Lol long said endorphins
This just proves why women are not made to do bootycalls. Their emotions will some how get caught up. What Tamera and Jennie said was true. Soul ties and exchange of hormones are real. Also, there was nothing wrong with Tamera having times she considered respectable hours. You teach men let alone people how to approach/treat you. I'm sorry but i didn't like how Loni was coming at her on this episode. She started putting words in Tamera's mouth.
rigggghhhhttttttt........keep telling yourself that!
Thanks will do darling! Now run along!
That's what run along means sweetie!
I don't have too this my post.
Make me.
Jeannie lowkey got Tamar with that last point though
oh yeahhhhh
Yesssss!
True
@Michelle Appiah people want to see Tamar fail so bad
@john smith Good to hear, but that hasn't been my experience at all. lol Most of the men I've encountered have been territorial and possessive, even if we're not officially together.
Tamera is so drop dead gorgeous here wow! Her innocence makes her look even more beautiful ! Love her .... Side note Doja cat looks like Tia and Tamera.
Agree with Tamara standards as a woman. And Texting me 9 and 10 at night saying What are you doing / I wanna see you... I'm not going! So disrespectful to even try it.
They need to stop talking down to Tamera because she has higher standards and doesn't just give away easy sex like they do. They always unintentionally gang up on her because she's not this wild woman and has a lot of respect for herself and her body. That's HER. Let her do her and have her views without judging her. She was only giving her opinion. I could feel her getting frustrated by this conversation. Hell, I was getting angry for her
Anisa Antoinette excuse me, it is a low standard being free to have sex with whoever you want whenever you want???? are you kidding me???
Marina Mas never said that but it sounds like you're taking this personal. Hey, if the shoe fits ...😂
For real tho 😂
Anisa Antoinette Um, yes you did say that.
Say it louder👏👏👏
I completely stand with Tamera on this one. Bonding chemicals are released when you *hug* someone for 30 seconds, and these women act like its the more absurd thing that bonding chemicals are released after you have sex with someone. Tamar obviously proved this right after she said that no other girls in her circle can have sex with her booty call partner. If she didnt feel bonded to him, it wouldnt matter who he chooses to have sex with after her. Hed simply be another random guy. Stop treating Tamera like shes stupid and too pure to have any valuable opinions. Its so condescending.
Agreed.
Yes!! Yes!! A thousand times yes! 🙌🏻👏🏻
That's not necessarily true. Many people believe that men can have sex and not be emotionally attached to a woman, but even if a man is not emotionally attached he still does NOT want his homeboy smashing the same girl that he is sleeping with.
Tamar right booty call has rules and you break them punch in the forehead.
see no, i dont care if hes having sex with other women. ust not my friends. that wierd
At this rate, I may actually begin to dislike Loni. This is the third time I've seen her disregard Tamera's opinion. What she said about Aiden was just nasty. I love Tamera, one of the reasons I watch the show is because they have a levelheaded person who shares my views and morals and also has class. I hope it gets better and they don't just push her views aside.
Yes - she didn't even judge them, she simply stated her opinion.
I agree.. I'm not even mad that Loni and Tamar had differing opinions its just how they reacted to Tamera's opinions. It's almost as if she's seen as this girl who has no experience and is naive and "ignorant" to the real world.. but her opinion is just as valid as anyone else's..
When did she say something about Aiden?
Ohh I see😑that woman is a low down shame. She also says a bootycal at 12am is the same as tamera rolling over to have sex with her husband. No Loni, that man is committed to tam but yours may not be there when u wake up
I agree with you. Tamera is the level-headed person and everyone else just treats her like she is a child .
Tamera was such a GREAT REPRESENTATION 💯💯💯
These segments were SO toxic back in the day omg. I feel like Tamar and Loni were always ganging up on Tamer and Jeannie....not cool
The Pink Print it’s still toxic. I’d argue it’s even worse now with Amanda Seales.
Nothing about this was toxic. You guys make up stuff in your heads.
@@Shalayah2010 it’s my opinion. From what I saw, it was toxic.
they're the ones judging tamera. smh
Judgement is also toward Jeannie, too.
Oxytocin is the hormone she is talking about. It makes you emotionally attatched.
Yup, it's fact!
yup
BTW, Loni's comment to Tamera was disgusting; Tamera's immediate response was perfect!
Tiny Towz It was weird and uncalled for
***** what's bs?
Seeing loni talking Tamera down like that reminded me of Tamar talking Jeannie down
+Cyrah Laird totally agree
+iam flabiaax B) cool that there is someone else who notices things in a similar way
I noticed it too :(
just cos they have different views - they are probably a bit jealous
They grown woman they need to speak up if that’s how they feel
This still remains the craziest Girl Chat of all time😂😂
Tamera has so much structure..love it LOL 😘😘
Why they gotta be like that to Tamera :( I appreciate and admire her old school ways
6:34 that joke was disgusting Loni. I love you, I love this show, but PLEASE don't ever say anything like that again.
I completely agree!
Even Tamera, herself, said that was disgusting.
(Loni did tell her she was messing with her right after she said it. Yet, still -- SMH.)
I don't quite catch it. What did she say exactly?
+Bad Feminist "so did you get hot and bothered when you were nursing Aden?" -Loni
Hana Jama
Loni WAS disgusting there!
I am soooo disgusted by Loni's personality in this clip!! She was SOOO rude to Tamera and such a bully!!! That comment that she made when Tam was talking about nursing her son was disgusting and low!!!!
Newsflash Loni.....some women still respect themselves enough not to let everything that offers to take them out run up on them!!
Tasha Mack yeah that was lowest level of low going after someone's kids and she caught herself too so she's tried to apologize but it was too late she can be ignorant at times
You take a person out of the gutter. However you cant take the gutter out of that person
That was so fucking low
and notice how she's playing it off as a joke when you can see it in her face that her intention is to hurt Tamera
Soo Ghetto and unclassy and low
I love how Jeanie called out Tamar’s perspectives on bootycalls!!
Sleeping around affects both men and women. Even if you say no, something psychological happens. Don't kid yourself. There are studies. Do your own research.
"That's disgusting, Loni" I love how Tamera is telling it how it is!
Why were they putting words in Tamera's mouth? She wasn't judging anybody and was saying what she personally did. She didn't say nobody was a ho or throw in shade at people who have booty calls. smh
Jeannie and Tamera looked gorgeous
Definitely.😊
They look like old ass white woman from back in the day🤷🏾♀️
Because of the bangs?
Can't help but admire Tamera's look on here. She looking fabulous.
Loni was way too disrespectful in this.
And they're putting words in her mouth. She was not judging, they didn't even give her a chance to explain, its a communication issue.
exactly. and it's always been that way. I feel like they're always picking on her
I'm starting to not like Loni. She wouldn't even let Tamera talk. I don't really like Loni on this show or Tamar. Replace them please!
Tamar should be replaced with someone like Brandy.
seriously though, She's so level headed. Which Tamar is not
Tamar is annoying
exactly! for someone who's suppose to be 37, she acts like a kid.
Agreed!
Seriously what the hell are u supposed to be discussing after 12 am midnight like really except for booty call. I agree with Tamera. After 10 pm I don't want a call from any guy except we dating.
Damn. Loni needed to shut up and listen here.
This cast was the best… 🥺. This group of ladies is what made this show even more interesting.
Tamera is just soooooo gorgeous with this hair and that dress!
I think Tamera has some of the best advice on this show!!!!! It just seems weird to some people who are so used to living in there dysfunction!!! I like her advice because its always bases on a functioning relationship and mindset !!! After 8 pm YOU ARE A BOOTY CALL! Just because you gave him the booty that does not delete you from booty call category. That just mean your the CERTIFIED AND STAMPED BOOTY CALL!!
Hahahhahahah you right
IIT! U R RIGHT!
Danggg, can Tamera talk???!!!
I will never get tired of watching this.😅😅😂😂
"That's just disgusting, Loni!" I felt that. It was out of line & if Loni had said it NOW, she'd be under so much fire.
Tamara is the only one with morals.
Same for Jeannie.😊
Your morals don’t fit everyone else’s morals. Quiet down
Its either you got morals or you dont its that simple!
@@kimmy9204 really? Because where I'm from that cleavage is definitely immoral..
loni needs to stop..Tam didn't say that ur wrong for having sex outside of marriage even though that's her beliefs.. she didn't judge anyone. they putting words in her mouth.
Agreed!
ikr
Loni was crossing the line when she talked about Aiden. Let Tamera speak and stop singling her out. I agreed with Tamera but wish she could've spoke more. Tamera isn't just gossiping...she's trying to have a conversation!
The amount of times “booty call” has been said😂
They treated Tamera horribly in this segment
Why are they always talking down to tamera? :/
she a christian girl. God said they persecuted me they will persecute you. and thats the attitude of many people who are nonbelivers or not strong in their faith. Tamera has them feeling convicted because they know deep down inside the idea of having a booty call in general is wrong, and its sinful. people act like "well i got needs." learn some self control. learn to wait. have some patience. and if u find a man that could be a husband, marry him instead of giving excuses of why u shouldnt marry him but think that having premarital sex with em is a lesser sin.
Tamera is the only one on that panel with class and they can't handle it a lot of times.
I agree with Tamera :) Well I always do... she usually comes from a wise Christian view :)
Breeny Lee after 8 not good can come if it
someone's trying to hook up with you 😑
Dat dress aint Christian!!! I like!
Breeny Lee same Christian who said she wouldn't even date a man if he had no car yeah that's a righteous women for ya ass.
Wise?
ohh please
Tamara rocks, hope she never changes...the best role model❤❤
I agree with Tamara,its all about setting boundaties, respecting yourself..
longest the real clip in history
Tia would smack the shit outta Loni is it was her on the show
SO TRUUEEE Tamera's sweet but Tia don't play lol
45mo4528 Yep Tia needs to be a guest on this show and then we just wait till loni iinterruptsher more than twice
Really? LOL I never payed attention to how different they are.
Shaun M Tia has a stronger personality than Tamera but, I believe she would handle Lonnie in a classy way without the ghetto slapping the u know what out of Lonnie. This is not Jerry Springer, and to insinuate that Tia would behave that way is far from anything I have seen in her character. Tamera should have used the good sense not to get on a show like this. I believe Tamera took this show because she was desperate for work and Tia was getting a lot of work, so she seemed kind of jealous cause Tia was outdoing her. I do agree they are so hard on her and I feel bad for her. Tamera may need to grow up a little more. She is a beautiful and intelligent lady but she is getting a little bit too old to act so naive. Lonnie need much prayer for saying the things she said about going to hell and about little Aden.
Blanco Jennings I so agree with that! I've watched a few episodes of Tia & Tamera and it was clear to me that Tamera was jealous of her sister outdoing her which is why she took this show. But I don't think she'll stay much longer...
And you're right again about Loni, the comment she made about Aden was rude and disgusting.
I'm with Tamera on this one. If I'm not leaving my house at 8/9 or before I'm not leaving. After 10 pm and what not to just be leaving your house to meet with a man for a "date" how much time are we really gonna spend together? Because respectable ladies get in at respectable times. It must be a booty call.
Tamera was the only smart one on there honestly. That's why he remarriage is the only one that is lasting. The others around her always wanna be dirty bc they think sex sells. Adrienne only changed bc she's married to a Christian man but if he didn't save her, she'd still be the same. Loni is depressed and sleeps with everyone.
I love tamera 😂🥰🥰
What loni said at 6:35 is straight up disgusting
ROMILLY she said ‘did you get hot & bothered when you was nursing Aidan’ basically asking did she get turned on while nursing her child
You could the feel the tension .. Awkward
They are so rude, obnoxious, & condescending towards Tamera...I can't even stand to watch. Every time she opens her mouth, they (Loni) are so ready to hate on her opinion. I think there's some low key jealousy on that panel.
Well I wouldn't say jealousy but I will say so u stand what u saying. And also feel like Tamera been taught some chritsin values and some people can't handle hearing what she say but I will say this they better hear and listen to what she's saying because she be on point!!! Like for real though
And she can be a help to some of they boots too
+Airreona El-Amin True.
Loni is so rude
LizBiz Ldn
Always 👌
She annoying
I love Loni. She's real!
I just found this show on TV the other day and I'm sooooo sad I didn't find it sooner !! I absolutely love this show !! The show has a vibe that reminds me of the Tyra show.. I love it ! :) I'm a loyal watcher now
Gen C Thanks for tuning in!! Don't forget to get your REAL on with us, every weekday!
+The Real Daytime The real
+The Real Daytime hay girl
I watched this
I love ur name😄😃
so im new to your show and im low key mad that i didnt know about this show untill now!! what i love is i watched most of you as a kid all the time and i think about these shows all the time and its so nice to ssee you all so happy, keeping it real and giving amazing advise.
I agree with Tamera! She has certain standards and don’t want to do those things in a worldly sense. I want to be comfortable and do things the way God wants me to do them.
they're always picking on Tamera because well, she has high standards for herself basically :/ (no shade)
God, I love Tamara. She was like, "What I gotta go to work the next day." Tamara is the definition of a classy lady.
Loni stop attacking Tamera everytime. She has values that does not mean you should find every means to ridicule her every second you get. You are funny but leave Tamera alone.
Right, I agree with Tamera and Jeannie. It just made sense, but I guess Loni felt some type of way.
I agree with Tamera. A date is between 2-8 pm. I have to work the next day.
I agree with Tamera .. sometimes it’s hard to have relations because you do start to catch feelings even if you’re not trying! But everyone can agree to disagree
tamera is so pretty
I don't like how Tamera is treated in this. She didn't say anything wrong
Tamera looked like she wanted to cry with frustration & I wanted to cry for her. That must be sooo annoying trying to state your OWN opinion & it being disregarded even before she finishes her sentence. Like it's The REAL so she's station what she believes in, people don't have to agree but to shut someone down all the time like that, laugh at them is embarrassing
Loni needs to chill. Tamera wasn't judging AT ALL!!!
I love tamera for staying true to her beliefs they were making her seem like she was wrong or uneducated but I think she has the most wisdom out of everyone. Also it always seems like whatever Loni says goes and that's not cool all the time. and side note I miss this jeannie from season 1 ):
Is it me or does it seem like Tamera isn't really into the show anymore? Like she's not happy.
well when you have Tamar and Loni talking over you, i think you'd get pissed off too
***** I agree, I think because everyone else was trying to get their point across Tamera lost hers... You could definitely tell she was starting to get a bit annoyed. But I agree with her, I'm old-school lol.
***** not Jeannie..its sad...those two are thee only ones that like try to understand everyones opinion. Tamar shuts Jeannie down quickly 24/7
I blame Loni...she's taking things too far with her criticizing. I used to like Loni and watched her all of the time on Ellen. But she's being a hypocrite...she doesn't want people to criticize her lifestyle when she is the biggest critic at the table. She seems bitter and dissatisfied with her life, even though she claims to be "happy." :/
roter13 Agreed