Girl Chat: Eavesdropping and Breakup Blues
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 พ.ย. 2018
- Adrienne Houghton, Jeannie Mai, Loni Love, and Tamera Mowry-Housley share their best stories of overhearing strangers’ conversations. They also discuss how they’ve gotten over bad breakups. Have you ever eavesdropped on a juicy conversation? Spill the tea!
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I think I'm like Addriene... When I'm really hurt, I don't tell people. I only tell people after I've healed.
Me too I thought I was the only one like this, cause all my friends love talking about there heart break right away
Definitely me
Same
I do that too.
i think i've developed into doing this, but i don't really like it. I more so feel like no one really cares what i'm going through because we all have our problems. Who am I to tell someone to help me with my problem first if they're going through their own thing? It sucks feeling like I'd just be a damper on other people, even though talking it out really helps. **shrugs**
When Jeannie said when you open your eyes after sleeping and that breakup is the first thing that hits you when you wake..Damn.. I've been there Jeannie 😢 #theblues
Brooklyn Elliman I’m so sorry you’re going through a hard time. Hopefully each day gets a bit better, and congratulations on your new baby!!
Brooklyn Elliman congratulations on your precious bundle of joy and also so sorry for what you're going through. you got this tho❤ You're a Mom❤ Stay Strong❤ Things will get better❤
Happened to me this morning I was holding it together last night then boom the morning feels came in but Im good now ❤
Brooklyn Elliman Im sorry love just be happy with ur baby and love yourself this here is going to make you so much stronger I promise you are going to look back one day and wish you didnt shed a tear Im going threw a break up its not easy I know 100% but we got that mama Lion power lets use it
It's almost like you want to believe the breakup was just a dream, kind of like how you think of your dream first thing when you wake up.
I had a former coworker said to me "Always look your best, when you're at your worst". I live by this motto.
fernanda what is your ig
Yup...words to live by.
Me too - for years.
That’s literally me 💀
My momma always tells me this!!!
Adrienne is an introvert, thats why she deals with her problems alone. Some people need time to themselves, some don't. Knowing how and when to properly heal yourself is the real answer.
Chloe yes everyone is different, there is no right or wrong way..as long as no one is hurting another person
Great point friends ruin ur head more for me anyway I need hibernation to heal alone for while.
@M Muss How the hell do you know her personality type lmao. Did you take the quiz for her? Or did she reveal it?
Oh that's why i could relate to her so much. I also don't talk about the things that make me sad because i feel that i'm the one that understands it. As a fellow introvert, this makes so much sense.
@@christylouis2611 she literally said she is an introvert in other videos
When Adrienne said " you not that heartbroken if you on Instagram" had me weak😂😂😂😂😂😂
No se quien es Adriana Gonzales como siempre e dicho no me gustan las mentiras y para los que les gusta mentir y andar cambiando de nombre esos son ellos y para los que me conoces mi nombre es francisco Bastidas y ese es mi nombre verdadero odios las injusticia y las mentira y el cambio de identidad así que es mejor que busquen por hotro lado
Francisco Bastidas Diaz que?
😆🤣😂😅😁
Jeannie gone be an inspirational speaker one day.
Right! she's already preaching to me in every one of these videos.
I agree MsFears.
She ain't getting any younger
@@Franskie266 What does her age have to with anything?
I had the exact same thought, she commands attention.
Jeannie always has the best stories. She knows how to story tell.
I kind feel like they are made up stories just to stay in the conversation.
Goosebumps Tamera!! "You are the princess of the Most High" Some of us never had anyone tell us that.
That is so sweet! .... and @Sara Sounds - you are too!! (whether anybody has told you or not) - Keep Rockin it!!
“Do you know who YOU ARE? - You are the princess of the MOST high.”
I felttt That! That woke me up so much I’ve been cured automatically for all my future breakups💯
So powerful!
You are a precious beautiful and important person much love.
I'm like Adrienne. When I am dealing with heartbreak, don't coddle me, and I like my own space. And when I am really hurt, I do not talk about it. I prefer to process it on my own. I heal myself. I am very private.
Alma Mariposa she is a Scorpio and so am I, I am a private person too and although I never had relationships I am still like that when I am mad or upset
Team scorpio here💪🏻.we sooo private thou...
My misery does not like company.
Estrella Millonaria I thought I was the only one.
a vibe
My name is Bennett and I aint in it...My name is Paul thats between yall! -Tamar lol shes still with Tam Tam on the inside.
I looked through the comments to see if anyone else remembered lol
It’s from the Jefferson’s. The maid used to say that. It’s an old sitcom.
My name is Les, and I ain't in this mess lol
I'ma have to use that Paul one lol Neva heard thatone b4!
Im using this from now on lmaoooo
I know these are old clips but it makes me happy they are reposting a bunch of long girl chats (;
For real.
@Melanie X Tamar would make a scene. It's best if they won't.
I could listen to Jeannie tell her stories all day.
Introverts need to be alone to regain strength. Extroverts need to express themselves to the world. Ambiverts will do both things...
I do both. I am private person and I like to deal with things by myself but after I am on the process of healing, I talk it out
I will do both
I do both! I express myself to close friends and do a lot of work on my own.
I'm an ambivert as well :)
@@squidwardtentacles7144 same
Hearing Jeannie talk about Freddie morning his father reminds me a bit of Freddie's girlfriend's rant. It seems like Freddie and Jeannie didn't connect for a long time and instead of coming to Jeannie he went to this girl. Their marriage was broken for such a long time. I'm happy Jeannie is taking care of herself right now and having fun.
ivy lala ooo
john smith haters r gonna hate.. He left her so let her live her life. Y’all just create accounts just to defame her. I see y’all.. it isn’t worth it.
@john smith Want love happiness and a family? They were a family. They were married...
@john smith Except they agreed to not have kids before they got married? It was Freddy who changed his mind, not Jeannie...
@john smith until you give birth.... Stfu abt having kids....
Jeannie’s story was ENTERTAINING AF she should act lol 😂😂😂
“PURPLE!” 😂😂😂
My mum has always said if you look good, you feel good. So when I lived at home and whenever I was down, she would tell me to wash my hair. Because there is something about washing your hair that just makes you feel like a fresh new person. Love you girls so much! I grew up watching Tam and Adrienne on Disney, Twitches was my childhood along with Cheetah girls. I love you guys!!
Right when your hair is freshly shampooed and curled or combed you head feels really lightweight and clean. then you feel really good about yourself and what goes with new hairdo "wait for it "shopping" yes yes yes. Just being silly blessings
My mum used to say the same thing :) These mums and their wisdom eh!
That’s why many women get a new haircut or style after a break up, makes you feel completely new, speaking from experience.
Washing my hair is therapy for me as well, especially something with aloe vera or eucalyptus in it; so soothing😍
This is actually true
I like long vids like this, instead of the choppy 1 or 2 min ones
"The princess of the most high!" I know that's right, Tamera! 💕🙏
Jeannie’s stories are always so great haha, she’s so good at her job.
If your going through a breakup adele or beyonce is always there 😂😂
Brah am currently going through one I listened to alllll and I mean allllllllll of Adele's albums
Adrienne looks so damn good here. She lookssss soooo 😍😍 with darker hair, especially when her hair is up too.
Yes
I don’t like to call it eavesdropping. More like aware of my surroundings lol. BUT definitely mind ya business. Do not butt in. You’d be surprised how things will turn on you when you being nosy.
ObeyYourMommieNowPlease ***** All Grandma’s are inherently nosy. It’s apart of the job description 😂
ObeyYourMommieNowPlease ***** mine too 😂 I can’t take my grandma anywhere!!
Yessss Tamera!!! The WORD OF GOD!!!
Yes the Princess of the MOST HIGH!!!! 👏
Everybody deals with a broken heart differently!
i feel adrienne. when I'm truly heart broken, I'm not talking about it to anyone cause i dont even wanna think about it. i just wanna be alone.
My mom always asks me why I get ready, and do my hair, and put on eyelashes.. when I don't have anywhere to go. And I always tell her because getting ready makes me feel better. And then if I have somewhere to go later I'm already ready. It doesn't feel good to sit in your house all day unshowered and gross.
I used to do this when I was younger. I'm 29 now. I'm going to start doing this again
@@nai-lahkristasimone5161 same almost 29 I’m starting to get myself together again even post more pics
Yes. I use to not understand why bother fixing yourself up if you're just going to be home. After having a baby, I understand wanting to feel back like yourself. I do my hair and makeup whether I'm home or going out bc it makes me feel better and it's true when you look good, you feel good and your smile and laugh is genuine.
That's very true, plus when i wake up late and haven't showered or dressed up nice then i feel less inclined to go anywhere or do much of anything useful
Jeanne's innocent little stories give me life 😂
I’m like addriene, I like to cope and heal all by myself, ppl don’t really understand what you go thru. So why rather just criticize and uplift myself.
I agree with Adrienne, you have to be about your own happiness and move on.
@M Muss umm no it's called self-efficacy, the ability to care for oneself and fix your own issues. Most people that are mentally strong and resilient have high self-efficacy. Next time be like Tam and be Bennett and stay out of it lol.
@M Muss I wasn't clapping back I was educating you. If you do not understand or dont agree with how someone addresses their own issue the best course of action is to mind your business. You called her preferred method sad (hella rude) so I also educated you on the benefits of such method. Sensitive much.? Be blessed sis
itsshevyb whoa I think you misread M Muss’s message completely! They said it s kind of sad and they hope they’re okay. It wasn’t mean or rude at all......
@@NashvilleBraids sighhhh I read and understood her perfectly again my point was there is nothing sad about it therefore there was no need to be worried about them. Self reflection is 100% healthy. I'm done though yall win.
"When you're dreaming w a broken heart, waking up is the hardest part." 😪
I love Jeannie's impression of her mom. I always get a kick out that. 😆
I’m with Adrienne here. I disappear from the face of the earth.
Not telling people when your hurt sounds like a true SCORPIO traits. My sister is just like this, love you guys!
It is. My mom is a Scorpio
Loni lookn like the fourth member of TLC
Yesss! 🤣
I love how Jeannie has a whole introduction before she answers the question.
I’m like Adrienne if I’m going through something I keep my mouth shut and mourn til later. After I’ll tell whatever I was going through.
I completely feel Adrienne. When I’m going through a heart break which I am now I stay clear from social media but for some reason watching these girl chats are really therapeutic for me. But other than that I rather not be bothered with other media sites, phone calls/ texts, company. I drown myself in the word of God and prayer and alone time until I’m strong enough to face the world again
kkr
Amen
We need more cousins like Tamera's..."you are the princess of the MOST HIGH!" Thank you cuz! ♥
Jeannie has evolved so much. In every way. I'm so happy she found true love.
Yea…. This comment didn’t age well 😅
I'm like Adrienne. I feel through my emotions but when I'm really going through something I can't talk about it to people. Once I'm on the other side then I'll open up. I don't need someone to give me their two cents when they aren't going through what I am. Being comfortable alone and knowing how to heal yourself is def a positive trait to me
i agree with adrienne, sometimes talking about it with someone gets me even more sad. i rather deal with it by myself & reflect with myself.
It’s the middle of the night I busted out laughing at Jeannie’s story about eavesdropping 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I like Adrienne in this one bcuz she rly is sticking with her opinion. Usually (and no malicious intentions here) she changes her opinions so easily whenever one of the other girls has an opposing opinion. I just like the way she stood her ground towards the end of this girl chat.
When I used to work on retail, I was sitting in some bench at the mall during my lunch break. A girl and a boy sat right behind me and she started talking about a girl she doesn't like and how annoying she is, etc. Turned out the girl she was talking about was a close friend of mine.
Sometimes a breakup can feel as intense as if you're grieving because at the end of the day you're still suffering a loss. I've even heard that grieving someone is hardest when they're still alive...
I 100% agree with Adrienne, I hate telling people whats going on if I'm really upset. And i hate how people be puttin their drama all over social media just to post the next day about how happy they are, omg soooooooo annoying!!!
I’m with Adrienne on this one. When I am really hurt I don’t say anything. I just think about it , pray and cry then try to move on by myself
This show has brought me through my lowest of lows and I am so grateful to see / hear women who I can relate to. Your different perspectives open my minds and keeps me thinking. Thank your for helping me though postpartum, separation from my husband, depression, the loss of one of my closest friends, etc. Thank you bringing me to a place where I can find happiness within
I feel like jeannie is the only one that can see outside her own
Now Tamera, your hair/makeup artist is on fire 🔥- you look your best💯
Im 100% with Adrienne. People be hella extra on insta and fb to the point where its annoying and im not here for it.
I never had breakup blues. Usually by the time we breakup I have been crying about the dying relationship for some time. The breakup is the last thing ...like a confirmation of my sad thoughts.
Wow so true. Like relived in a way to not have to cry anymore actually
I’m exactly like Adrienne I get what she means🌸
I love Tamera's way of dealing with a break up. Rember who you really are
Im with Adrienne on this one.
Even eves dropping on a conversation between loved ones, I think cutting into any conversation is bad news, unless someone in the conversation looks at you and asks "What do you think?"
I stay out of other people's business, because I want people to stay out of mine.
Jeannie's eavesdropping story was so good I almost believed it.😒😒
That was a big ass lie
Franskie Salif better believe it!
Right!!
i could of sworn that i heard that story before. Like the part about falling over on her...
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m with Adrienne!! I deleted all my social media when I broke up with my ex and took 4 months off before coming back. People that attention seek get on MY NERVES!!!!!
I'm absolutely like Adrienne.... when I'm hurt I don't tell people I self sooth and I tell people when I'm healed and feel better 💗💙❤️💗
the second half of this video changed my life, thank you.
I don’t get why it says “it’s better to look good than feel good” when you are looking good to feel good, doesn’t that make feeling good better than looking good. It should say “look good to feel good”
confusion
exactly girl i see u
i think that she miss spoke
VIRGELEY P. I think it ties into it... because once you look good and yourself again , you’ll start to feel good and yourself again
I'm just like Adrienne I keep to myself and don't talk to no one when I'm hurt . Time to your self is sometimes the best remedy.
Adrienne said “I be all in the conversations”🤣🤣🤣 facts
I love that you guys always wind up talking about your faith, how it inspires you, and motivates you. Thank you for being fearless and letting God's glory shine through you. Love you ladies!
2019 and watching this I love y’all talks I promise it helps out so much with my life situations
I'm with Tam, I DO counsel my friends and family when it comes to breakups and I ALWAYS bring spirituality into what I have to say. Because in those moments when someone is/has broken up with someone, they feel like that one person is the only one on the planet for them. And sometimes it takes someone you trust to remind you the universe a big place and God brought you to him/her for a reason, and is now pulling that person away for a reason. Focus on understanding why you didn't work out more than the fact that your partner isn't there anymore.
When Jeannie said “To wake up and before your eyes even open you remember your heart is broken” I will never forget it bc its the realest way to explain heart ache
Thanks for the reminder, today I was having a day of not looking good because of the feelings I keep sorting through, in cycles. When u look good you do feel better....
Adrienne I think it's a scorpio thing cause I like to be alone too, like you said in gonna take this time to renew myself
Im the same
Same ♏️
I think she is lol
Scorpio same
Same here♏♏♏
Mama Mai is an intelligent woman. Her personality is so funny I think a lot of people don’t see how smart she really is.
Jeannie is so under appreciated. Always dropping gems.
All good points with many areas of life. it almost destroyed me not giving myself the right to be sad, keeping everything to myself, so I do grieve now over rough times and I’m a much happier person, and I stand up for myself in some way no matter who it is. I’m not the kind to post things but I talk to friends about it 😊
I agree with Adrienne! I like being on my own when I am sad..
Jeannie is so fun to listen to
The fact Jeannie knew that scandal story word for word is crazy, she’s super smart
It’s best to go through breakups by yourself because most people don’t understand and people get tired of hearing people cry and complain but it feels good to vent when you’re hurt & it makes you feel better sometimes
It's amazing what you over hear sitting in a Starbucks with ear buds in and or laptop open. People expect that you are like Jeannie and not listening. Truth I just don't want to small talk. I've over heard some of the most scandals awful conversations just sitting there sipping my coffee
Do telllllll
Spill that tea Victor
vick you are nosey but now we wanna know
Lechiffresix six lol right
Gurl, YAHS.
I do admit I do like to ease drop especially when neighbors argue under me... I be having my ear to the floor and listening to the argument ! I should feel bad but I didn’t... I was like oooh this is juicy
lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Eavesdrop
Dead
*Eavesdrop
I am currently going through a break up and I’m trying to figure out what’s working for me. I do like talking about it because it helps me see why it happened or how can I move on. I need to figure out how to be alone with this. It’s hard right now because he just left me and I think being alone will reinforce that sadness and loneliness.
After watching this, y’all have helped me find some light and a path out of my sadness even just a little. So thank you!
I agree with everything Adrienne said. Especially, renewing myself with time alone. That is essential for me. Essential.
Jeanie is such a great story-teller
I love this topic it's very entertaining and I like each reaction especially on Jeannie she's so brutally honest and I like it.
I agree with Adrienne, I like my alone time, it’s the best therapy.
I personally feel like social media is one of the things that helps after a heartbreak. Coz it lets u forget stuff.
Breakup Blues : for me actually I’m going through this right now , my friend is in a really bad breakup right now and it hurts for me to see them like this but I keep talking and trying to encourage them to do something that gets their mind off of it ! I’m making sure they feel better and to keep things in good spirits... they’re starting to get better but geez going through breakups can be rough
Yes, just give them time and don't force conversations. Just be there when you are needed.
I agree with Adrienne you need time alone to get to know and love yourself.
I also feel Jeannie. You know you really hurt when before you even open your eyes good enough you feel everything. Heart and mind just flood with emotion 💔
Tamera wanted to ask “How did you get over Rob” but she thought “let me not”
I agree with Adrianne 🙌 sometimes I need space for myself to process it when I go through things
ADRIENNE, our here preaching!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I binge watch you tube videos so I am listening and learning it is super helpful
adrienne i completely agree, you can tell whoever you want to tell after youve given yourself time to heal...
Repression leads to depression Adrienne. We are humans who need interaction with others. It's okay to communicate in a time of need.
Some people will throw it back in your face one way or the other. I also like to assess things myself and think it through then I get better. Not everything has to be shared with others.
Not my business to 'butt in'...but IF you chose to make your decibel public, I am listening. And if someone is asking for help, I am calling 911.
It’s always good to get that biblical perspective on the Real Show. Love Tamara for always sharing!
This was my favourite. Loved all of their points
Tamera looks so pretty with her hair down and her lipstick
As a part time Uber driver I hear all sorts of things
Thanks for this Ladies!!!
Yes Adrian! I am the same way, the more hurt I am the less I wanna talk, and I value my alone time to process and heal although sometimes I would numb myself...but Tamera is right, we need to allow ourselves to feel and go thru the emotions.