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That is absolutely DEMONIC!!
A team actually. Have to rebuke them.
Exactly
The toddler brain in an adult.
The ex narc blew a rage fit bc he thought I didn’t clean the toilets good enough. That was it for me. Clean them yourself then. Bye narcie.
Yup..... bye bye narc freak... good call
Yep....I got all that....and the shower etc etc.
My ex husband did this bs, I’m thankful for TH-cam so I could learn about what was happening to me. I married a man that they make Lifetime movies about
Girl me too. I understand the shame and guilt of marrying an individual like your husband!! I married a narcissist also And after this court shit he might end up being one. Because of what he did to his own fucking daughter!!! 😢😢😰😳😰
Omg! You said it perfectly without TH-cam we could not wrap our heads around it. I could have never thought this way until hearing a narcissist say it. It was so hard for me to understand as a severe empathy. Now I’m beyond scared!
Try being directly related to one.... ignoring them at the moment :P
Why is this behavior so prevalent these days. Decades ago, you'd have to search far and wide to find these types of people, and if you did stumble across someone like this, you could easily walk away and have 1000 sane conversations with 1000 sane people, and those 1000 sane people would be shocked about their behavior along with you. Now it's almost like there's a revolving door of them. As soon as you get rid of one like that, another one knocks at your door and life devolves into nothing more than survival mode
Your question...why are there so many narcs now? I believe this world is breeding them. More and more people are being raised in environments like 2 Tim 3:1-5 describes for our times. We need the to be with those who truly follow John 13:34,35.
True! It's like there's something in the water, air or food?!
@@bttrflyjoy7374 I agree but where are they? They wasn't even in my local church community! Sadly & unfortunately these like minded folk are few! Disappointed the leaders at church weren't knowledgeable about NPD clearly abuse and DV but advised to just fast & pray, endure stay put in the marriage. There's narcissists everywhere in every institution.
Cos slapping someone out of their tantrum is now frowned upon.
Social media life opened a whole pandora box of these pathetic losers. Now you can cheat and get people so easily by creating a whole double life.
I dated a narcissistic man years ago who found fault with just about everything. When I started to question him why he was starting arguments over the most ridiculous things he denied, denied and denied. I’ve never met anyone so in love with themselves in my entire life. No thanks!
THAT smile at the end… 😳 I’ve seen that many times. Three emotions come to mind: belittled, nervous, vulnerable. In him I see vengeance.
My ex did this, I made coffee wrong. I asked her 3x "Is this where I put the coffee?" and she said yes, I even said "I've only ever made coffee with a Keurig coffee maker" and she still said yes.
I proceeded to incorrectly make the coffee, it came out wrong and got her to help me.
Dude she FLIPPED OUT, I've never seen her that mad PERIOD. She acted like I did the dumbest thing in the world.
100%
I have PTSD because of the coffee.and
He never fcken finished it either, after I went thru all the stress of making it.
So glad I don't have to start my morning this way any more.
I know it's not funny when it's happening, but really, it sure is hilarious after they are gone. Good riddens!
@@bttrflyjoy7374 it is SO hilarioius later, for the survivors, when we start healing.. and realizing all these stupid, evil little MF'ers went to the exact same Toxic Idiot Academy and learned the same half dozen tricks! The only reason it's worked for so long, is that normal people could never ever IMAGINE or try to pre-empt what these sickos do all day every day - we just literally do NOT have the wiring for it - we actually have intact humanity, morality and ethics, and emotional capacity plus ability to be rational much of the time. But look back, and it's like.. "wow. And they are still getting away with it!" with some one else, who was not privy to the info I was at the start of our relationship that she was in therapy for BPD. I had NO idea what the literal F that meant - but she was/is (posing as) a Professional, so I thought whatever it was, must be in the far distant past - they wouldn't let anyone practice therapy who had severe mental health issues, would they? Oh boy, they would in fact.. well, she also lied about all her supervision hours and had a few well-placed Flying Monkeys to do her bidding, including faking her hours!
You can't figure out how to put the coffee in the machine yourself?
That you needed to ask 3 times and still needs her help to figure out how to make the coffee and after her help you still did it wrong?
Let me guess she was also very busy doing something else of importance and the tiny little thing you needed to do was fucking coffee and you couldn't do it without bothering her?
Good job trying to play the victim
Coffee makers are common sense. Did you put the coffee grounds in the water reservoir? ❤
Omg! This truth! This is what was done to me! I was always struggling to prove I was a good person. The lies that were spewed at me were exactly on this line.
The accusations. To keep you proving yourself
The lies! You can't keep up there are so many and then they think they've got away with them cos you didn't refute every single point!
Strong boundaries are the key.
He didn’t attack me, he attacked his mother. She was crying. He started a huge fight with that poor lady. I bet she’s been through a lot, and of course his first order of business was to denigrate her when we met. Since he’s a government psychologist, I believed it. I figured a psychologist with a seminary degree would be a wonderful person
SO f*****g TRUE, utterly unbalanced reactions and responses, just crazy. Yeah, maybe "I did something wrong," but it wasn't SO wrong as to warrant the whacked out, dysregulated onslaught which ensued.
I just used to shout back harder. Then I'd have a chuckle and roll my eyes.
Reminds me of when my ex was living at my house for free with no contributions and when I asked for one day alone after 6 months of no privacy he told me I’m selfish and I’m acting like I have all the resources and I’m just kicking him out to the curb to die and I should’ve known better regarding his situation. His situation being having no job not trying to get one and living on a couch for over a year. He had 8 months of my support and changed nothing about his living situation then acted entitled to my house and called me selfish for wanting one day to myself. It’s fucking exhausting trying to justify the abuse
Asking to check silverware and not put away dirty silverware was the worst absolute thing I could do to him, he flipped out, threw the dog, how could I put him down like that, after all he’s done for me and all he’s sacrificed how dare I. 😒😒😒 then he stormed out of the house and left because he “wasn’t safe here” and “can’t live with someone who’s going to treat him that way” I definitely would go to shock in those moments and be completely baffled and question if I was out of line for ever saying anything.
I lived this until I was in total shutdown, not eating sleeping unable to know my own name 😔
Don't let them win! Stay strong! 💪❤️
I know they're happiest when we're at our weakest! Demonic behaviour!
Jesus you women will literally stop at nothing for abuse. I have even see women destroy children chasing abuse. Women just will not accept any accountability it seems.
I’m so glad that I don’t fall for this shit anymore.. if I see this red flag or other narcissist traits, I am bolting and never looking back. Thank you for bringing awareness! Your definitely opening up eyes on these situations
This is 100% true. After over weeks of repeatedly being told no one in the family including himself liked me or wanted me around and to leave, I said fine I'll go find another family...he flipped out and said how could I say such a cruel thing and said it was so horrible he couldn't even repeat it everyone because how could you give up and abandon your family. I'm like WTF!
I put up with my ex for decades with this abuse. WHY? Because my mom was a narcissist- so I always thought I was wrong, unable to grasp idas, something wrong with me
I had this happen and thought ARE YOU FN KIDDING ME. YOU'RE A SOCIOPATH AND I HAVE TO STOP CARING. In my head. And the next time he said he's just going to move out, I said go ahead I don't care. And that stopped, then I kept calling him out until I finally told him to leave. It took seven years but that first time he turned his 🐂💩on me I made him uncomfortable too
I accidentally interrupted him whilst he was speaking... 😱👹
My mother does this.
Omg straight facts!
THANK YOU for being honest and explain this. My life had been hell and still in the aftermath.
Accidentally pulled the wrong plug out of a box of like ten. Was mad at and aggressive with me for two days, then "forgave me for being too dim to follow his instruction", said I couldn't help being "slow".
Accurate. This guy has suffered too.❤
Bahaha 😂 good one! 😅
The life of these narcs lol 😂😅
As shocking and horrifying as they are in every dimension, it’s almost more surprising years later, after comparing notes and studying the crap out of these disorders… It’s like they all went to the same school for toxic shit, stains, and learned six or eight tricks. And all of them pull the same things over and over and over on normal people. Because normal people would never suspect or think in these ways of“how can I get away with hurting somebody? How can I do the maximum damage with the least possibility of getting caught?“ it’s just not part of our mental landscape. And even when we’re forced into trying to figure out what’s going on in their head for survival reasons, we are rarely right or ever able to compete at the same level with them.
@@theoriginal7727 totally agree with this. Also enjoying reading all of your comments. Thanks for sharing it's encouraging me to hear what you've experienced /discovered.
@@theoriginal7727 😂lol! Same toxicity school for real!!
OMG YES YESSSSSSS
Exactly 100% TRUE
I recall these conversations so well sadly.
Thankfully I saw the light and left the Narc to rot in his darkness,and may he burn in hell for the torment he put me through.
🎉🎉🎉 they really need a special division of their own in hell. Probably a whole separate dimension that is 1 million times more hellish than the normal hell could ever be. The fact that they are completely awake and aware of what they are doing, and it is a game to them. Pure pleasure of inflicting, hatred and chaos on unsuspecting people, or children. There is no excuse for these things to exist anymore.
I can imagine pwNPD being sent to hell and being clearly and simply told why -with hard evidence- Even after multiple human lifetimes, the pwNPD would still be: “this intolerable torture is YOUR fault !! Look at what you {or y’all} are doing to ME !!” Blaming the person who’s caught them while still zero accountability for what THEY themselves did !
@@miahconnell23 Fkn vomitoriums
That's exactly what happens. There is tiny voice unfortunately that saying thats not true he needs to take that back. But they have you trapped in the vicious circle.
Keep healthy people who value you around you. Do not keep silent about their conduct. Get the validation you need, and consider how you can create distance or get completely away from all truly toxic people.
VERY familiar. And the long term implications of this is you find yourself constantly questioning everything you do and walking on eggshells because you never know what will set them off. And the reality is it's not that you're doing something wrong, it's that they're willing to lie their asses off to maintain control at any cost.
It is much better to be alone in life, than to be with a person who makes you feel bad.
Solitude is wonderful, when we know how to enjoy it. Being alone doesn't mean we feel alone ...❤
It is always better to be alone, than with a person who tries to control you.
Wow...this is so on point. Like....seriously 💯 I had no idea what was happening when these things would happen. One time he told me I was possessive and couldn't say or even think I owned anything bc I told him we could just look at something in the car later and he choose to do it as I was holding all the bags and I asked to come back after we unlock the house door, so I could put them away and we could come back to fiddle with a handle in my cargo area. He was so offended and accused me of trying to control what he was doing bc I am possessive and selfish to think I can tell him to stop doing anything bc its MY car...I never even thought that or said it was my car!! Literally this is so accurate I was like whaaa????? You DO question yourself bc it's SO disproportionate to what even happened!! The smallest thing could be such a horrible offense to these perverse people-I just wanted to put grocery bags in the house...makes you crazy.
Utter crazy speak. The tiniest thing is like an attack to them. Their game is to blow things out of proportion, while normalizing it. Little temper-prone toddlers.
Oh yes, the grocery bags! Mine would do anything to NOT help with that as if it was so beneath him. He'd notice neighbors and strangers judging though how come little mama has to shop and take in all those bags and teen boys and dad don't do anything. So he'd start to yell at the boys to help me but he never would and when we were RVing it was very noticeable to others and if it was raining he wouldn't even put out the awning for me as I pulled in or when I texted I was on my way. Someone said something at some point I guess. Then one time it was out but the wind was picking up or so he later explained and I was on the last bag. He started rolling it in and I was standing on the steps, but he wouldn't let me by and inside while pushing the button, so basically the awning rolling up dumped a ton of water on my head and down my back like as if I had been Gatoraded like a winning coach and I was like how stupid are you!! I laughed and changed but thought he was such an idiot! Once I realized what covert/ vulnerable NPD and Dark Triad was I knew he was not stupid he was evil and had done it and much more on purpose. He did crazy stuff like that all the time on purpose to me and I just took so much in stride I probably pissed him off so bad so many times for NOT getting into a fight. I thought he was oblivious and too emotional about bizarre things more like Autism spectrum and ADHD but NOPE it was he couldn't be bothered to lower himself to do certain things and he'd punish me and get revenge if I accidentally outmaneuvered him and he was pressured to do those things or did it because he didn't want others to see behind his mask. I was literally just trying to bring him groceries and get through life without getting soaked is ALL. Didn't realize it was 3D chess matches over everyday chores...that's something I'd never have signed up for and once I knew I was like OHHHH, aha moment light. Bulbs then I laughed and then I cried and got scared because that's totally nuts and wasted sooo much of my time and energy and that's the epitome of disrespectful so I was DONE just trying to find a way to get educated now and leave with as few scars and problems as possible but NOPE, the moment they realize you have it figured out they get worse. Play dumb as long as you can to get your ducks in a row. Its Hard but try because I wish I had done that and No Contact better from beginning
@@naiyalexic 🤯🤬🤯🤬🤯🤬😳😳😳🤫🫠🤥🫠😶🫥🫥🫡
They will get sent into a rage for absolutely anything, or nothing. It has nothing to do with circumstances, or the external world, with which they don’t have any kind of meaningful connection. It’s just their internal chaos, shit, storms, and hurricanes of utter contempt, for all of humanity … When that starts getting unbearable for whatever reason, or just the length of time it’s been. They are going to go into a rage. If you do some thing they will scream at you for it. If you don’t do it, they will say you’re the worst person that ever existed and also screaming for it. That’s their favorite thing to do is inflict shock. Grateful that I have done so many years of work on myself through sobriety and (AA) when I’m at mine. The insanity and not getting anything to line up was excruciating, and she is really smart. I understand why most people on the outside don’t even get it or see it with her! The elaborateness of her lies and professional personas are pretty convincing. Luckily, so come over, we started dating she told me about the BPD. Six months into the nuclear meltdown in the middle of my life, I remembered about that, and how she had quit going shortly after we started dating. And read the book stop walking on eggshells… As though they had pulled the entire thing out of my life, page for page! But also with the little bit of extra evil of narcissism, and severe histrionics. Hyper emotionalism, but no real feelings.
@@amandachilds5290 omg… that’s the distressing thing, when you realize after months or years, that every single fucking piece of it is on purpose and intentional. The smirk and the obvious pleasure they get from hurting people, you will never see a normal human being with those looks on their face. Especially when somebody else is suffering, regardless of who it is.
@@amandachilds5290 Girl reading your comment, everything you went through was like someone telling my story! Wow! I've only just understood what the dark triad is. When I met him over 20yrs ago I'd never heard of NPD. After two of our sons were diagnosed with ADHD & Autism I started to think their dad has it too but now I'm understanding it's more along the lines of Malignant Narcissistic personality disorder. I can relate with everything you wrote. He has tried to cause my demise and suffering in every way possible. He has enjoyed watching my near death experiences. Hurts me so much to think that he never truly loved me just loved how I could serve/service/support/supply for him. What stage are you at now sis? Have you escaped? I hope you're safe and able to live without fear. I'm still living with him at arms length. Trying to get myself stronger, head straight. Get the ducks in a row. Sad & frustrated feeling conned & trapped.
Narcissists are exhausting the childish drama they create, I just ignore them, once they start crap like that I leave
Thank you for making these informative videos. You’ve given me insight about the gaslighting. The more I know, the less I tolerate this crazy making.
Facts on facts.
If you’re trying to present a case and them acting with a nonchalant response, you know they are narcissists; Especially if they are impeccable with their proper answers yet they dismiss every logical explanation you say.
They don’t need any help torturing thier victims and they wouldn’t be here looking for advice because they’re above everyone and everything 😢
Very true. Figuring out how WE can respond to this shit without adding to the drama and damage is what's really needed though.
This is letting us know how they operate. Knowing EXACTLY what they do is very helpful for pattern recognition.
@@gabrielcotebrockman3220 Richard just did a Livestream on this... grey rock, no contact, boundaries, poker face, abandon sincere communication with the insincere, etc.,
@@gabrielcotebrockman3220 You're right about knowing their patterns, I add to a list as I notice them. 😎🚩 It's interesting to notice the pattern of abuse when narcissists become comfortable and complacent thinking they've got you and you're not going anywhere.
A sign that the narcissist is testing the waters is that they begin abusing you in subtle to increasingly more obvious ways.
If a narcissist is abusing you, withdraw. Don't tell them why, simply disappear then calmly reappear when you're ready and think enough time has passed to interrupt their predictable pattern. This will leave them feeling uneasy, insecure, their paranoia will take over ...
“Did they see me?” 🤔🎭👻
The narcissist likes to imagine that they understand everyone, but nobody understands them, or what they're plotting, scheming and doing to stay on top, so it's highly embarrassing when someone is on to their petty “I'm betterer ‘n you" game of tit-for-tat one-upmanship and it gives them quite a fright.
Even worse is if you seem to see them at times and not at others. It's a dangerous game though, rather like prey playing 'possum-peekaboo' when a predator is about.
The narcissist's grandiosity constantly reassures them they are invincible, invisible, omnipotent, and yet, every now and then you go and say or do something that bursts their bubble. They have you, they don't have you, they have you, they don't have you in this peculiar type of emotional violence. It's part of their repertoire against us so it's best to stay unpredictable, use this tactically and innocently, ideally say nothing just smile; or chuckle good naturedly and casually respond "I felt like a run", "Just checking the mail and ran into the neighbour, why?" whatever applies.
In truth, you understand them but they don't understand you ... 🙃🐛 if you're willing to play the game 🎶🔗🎮 just silently plan, dream and create an effective escape plan while you're at it ... ⛓️🤫🦋
@@louisegarner8888 my favourite response to the games was just ignoring the behavior, kinda like what you would do when a 3 year old throws a temper tantrum over not being allowed a cookie before supper. Of course, the advantage I had during my time was I didn't live with him, so it worked well to expose him. When he acted out, I would suddenly become "too busy" to go out of my way for him. It would drive him squirrely, even if he would fire a shot like standing me up to make me feel worthless - those were my favourite, most fun filled tests. It happened so often that one time when we were supposed to go out for the night, and I would spend HOURS getting ready just for him not to show up, or even call and cancel, I would call him and ask what was up. Most times he wouldn't answer his phone, which told me he decided to cut me out of the evening and go without me (later confirmed when I saw a concert ticket I paid for that he could have ONLY gotten by going to the venue to pick up that I had on reserve at the place). So I got fed up. Next time he stood me up, I texted him, asking if he was going to show. He immediately jumped to attack mode and made like I was being completely unreasonable for asking what was going on, when HE was over an hour late showing, so I calmly explained that since he wasn't there, I would be making a quick supper before going out with my friends. Lol THAT made him out himself! He was always acting in those little nitpicky evil ways but he never lost it fully to out himself as the total control freak narc he was til I came out with the full out no I'm taking my life back for the night and not wallowing like you wanted me to do, and going to enjoy myself without you. Want a response to their dumbass games? Take back your life and take away their ability to strip your freedom - so long as you have a safe space to do that. If you're living together, that may be dangerous if they're prone to violence
That was a flash light to my mind. Thank you
You are amazing mate. Thanks for this
Bang on!!!
I remember I took a hike with a girl friend and she invited a guy friend of hers and later that night when I told my new fling about the hike with friends he blew a gasket because he I did not invite him and there was another guy present that I didn't invite either. It was a huge red flag that shocked me to the core, 9 years later we are finally separating for good and I am happy to not walk on eggshells any longer. Non narcissistic people do not behave in this way, save yourself time and hold onto your freedom. ❤
😂😂😂 👍👍👍 love that smile at the end. Perfect finale mate
Love this!
Triggered!
I love your channel so much ❤️
I have witnessed this firsthand on many occasions, but the best was when I witnessed a narc attorney come across the table at the “soon to be ex” husband of a female friend. The guy was whining that he couldn’t work due to health problems, and that he, therefore, would not be able to support his kids with anything except a paltry amount of money each month….you know, the typical deadbeat dad. I though the lawyer was going to take his head off…leaned all the way across the table, screaming in his face just as soon as the judge left the room. He told him he was going to take him apart in court. Five mins later, we are in the elevator with the attorney, going down to the ground floor, and he’s all chatty and happy, calming discussing where he’s going for lunch. Biggest flip of emotions ever.
Holy heck... that's what started chipping away at my soul. I'd ask him if he was going to help with bills and housework. Next minute, I'm being accused of cheating. Made me immediately comfort him and question if I was making him feel that way. Forgot he wasn't paying for anything or cleaning after himself. Went for almost three years before I went to therapy and broke free.
Ending with freeze framing in on that smile with almost vampire-like teeth is just perfect! 😆 Really well done.
Absolutely! AND after many times, I began to see that he was louder and meaner when it was trumped up. No, I never questioned myself.
1000% agree
Wow, well articulated! My dad did that to me at a young age & jacked me up! Thanks sometime acting stuff out helps people heal❤
My ex tried this. I stared her dead in the eyes and said “hmmmmm that’s not a normal human reaction” 🤣
What makes it worse is when their flying monkeys not only enable this behaviour but turn on the target too. Creates a vicious cycle
Thank you for sharing. Sometimes the journey can be very hard one. Hopefully your story can help others who may currently be in same situation. Looking forward to hearing more and how you were able to heal.
I just asked him "about done?" His temper was over board
This is like a scene from the entanglement I endured! Especially towards the end... I actually said to him 'I Dont recognise you any more😮' his reply 'yeah I don't recognise YOU any more!' it made no sense and this was the moment I knew there was no going back 🤷♀️
Ye had this
Yep, 100% correct, based on my experience.
This is my mom, exactly
I've seen people go into shock when I was talking to them before, but I had no idea I had CPTSD. It was usually just a look I gave them. How dare you criticise something I've done. How dare you put me in a box I don't like. Because I thought that bring shamed for something I did meant that I no longer had value I could never let someone shame me. Learning to be imperfect and to accept my flaws, while also pushing myself to be more responsible, has brought me to the other side.
The morally outrageous thing I did was say “if you want to text women, you can text me”
Sounds like you learned a lifetime lesson, and that you are starting to love yourself more. You go girl!!
Liars will always scream the loudest!
True ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I recall my dad violently blowing up when my mother had to add an extra postage stamp to a bill. No lie - she used a two-cent stamp rather than a one-cent stamp. He's extremely well off financially, but this "mistake" meant she was a gold-digging whore who wastes all his money and doesn't care about how hard he works. They're still together (married 45 years) and she's terminally ill and he's gotten no better.
Hold on, someone cheats, the person who gets cheated on finds out and decides to leave or stay. If they leave, great, if they stay, there is no point trying to 'punish' afterwards. By staying, you are sending messages like: a) I forgive you or b) that behaviour is okay with me or c) I somehow deserved it and will work harder to be a better partner. If we could all be a bit more logical.......
No, the person who stayed is getting screamed and raged at for doing something annoying or trivial. The narc is getting even for getting found out and for the person wanting to discuss it or hold them accountable so they find some thing else and act like it is the worst thing anyone could do...worse than cheating. The cheated on is not the narc in this video. A couple others got confused too because this is actually an edited version of a longer, better video he explains all better. Hope that helps clarify
It's all logical and accurate only if you're not trauma bonded. Sometimes the cheating is only texting and that's when most people who in fact don't even have a chance to see full conversation - because let's be real, most people can't even see narcissist phoneS and thry got to know by partial evidence. Same with physical cheating, many people in fact got half evidence and they are in trauma bond so they question themselves once the narcissist deny and guilt trip you. It's not fully conscious choice in those moments that's why we should really talk about trauma bond and all the manipulation tactics way more often.
💯 % Thank you!!!
I swear by documentation these days.
I used to have to do it at work: date, time, location, what was said, etc.
Now, there are also screenshots, if applicable.
When my ex would flip out without provocation, I'd note it in a handheld calendar using an acronym, so I'd know it but he wouldn't if he found it.
I saw a pattern & it got me better prepared for next time - not in arguing but in observing until I could get away.
I can't tell you how well this works in dealing with people, in general, who try to mess with your reality to confuse & dominate you.
Once you know they're full of 💩, everything they say is subject to self-protective scrutiny.
Spot on!!!!
So accurate. Except, because of you, I just watched.
I like these series of shorts from a narc perspective
Brings back memories that I wanted to forget! Remember this to well..... keep smiling & stay single untill you meet some one who's decent pure hearted & won't do this.....🌏🕊🙏
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It is very sad, what they are doing
Yes this is how it works
Isn't it interesting that they feed off good people who have good qualities and light and they all have the same patterns of operation and destruction. Their disorder may have started from a trauma but not healing it has left them an empty vessel filled with Legion.
OH, YEAH ... DEMONIC !
Ding ding ding
Good point ! To me they are toddlers teaming up with a demon/entity.
I see this in society now
One day you will find someone who doesn't give a shit they took your last chip and when you go crazy they will too.
Lol. He tried. Also said I can't communicate. Quietly said, no employer, family or friend ever said that. You need to evaluate you. 🎤
I was only shocked the first time. Because I have an inclination to make things right. Then I saw right through him and his manipulation. Took me a while to stop caring about him though. And I find it very difficult to trust someone new now.
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Yep. Checks out. I hope they all get caught.
This is so good! Feels scary but quite real
My wife did this to me after I found out for the whole ten years we were together she was speaking to her ex the whole time. She waited until I finally snapped after lie after lie after lie uncovered and I called her a bitch, narcissistic can't. After lying for a decade and then more after the fact, after taking my daughter without a word she was angry I called her names and she wouldn't let it go even though she betrayed me on every level. She was even talking to him right after the birth of our daughter.
parking the car in
True story.
Caught my husband in an emotional affair with his old girlfriend, from 25 years ago.This is exactly what he did to me, over and over again. He came up with the most ludicrous accusations against me. It's taken several years to realize what he was and is doing. I just now what he's doing and don't get sucked in by it.
Mmhmm. Exactly how it goes. For mine, he's not as extreme, but this is hiw it plays oit every time I catch him.
Omg he is completely aware of what he has done! Gasp!!! 😢I see so much hatred but love for the game. I seriously feel sad that his personality is this distorted and can’t be changed. But I’m also scared shitless. I am absolutely sure that I am married to a narcissist. He has admitted it. But I never understood it. When it’s good, it’s good, they love bomb you really well. Because I have a conscience, I think we are connecting. I couldn’t figure out why he was doing this to me randomly we could be amazing for three months straight, then boom!! The rage!! The rage lasted 3 months last time!!! He does this!! I did a ton of research on that last couple months, but nothing has scared me more than this video!!!!!! After all the research, seeing what this man is saying, first hand and he is smiling about the victim, makes me want to move out today!!!
No matter how much i'm in shock. I do not question myself in those moments. I very well know what is right and wrong. And if i'm wrong, i'm not affraid to admit it and apoligize. In general if you treat me right, i'm just easy going... because i'm just happy/greatful for having a good time or a good day.
But if it comes to (trying) to cheat on me. That is wrong, and no-one is gonna convince me otherwise.
The narci wants to act like i stepped on a landmine? They want to blow things up? Sure, can do that... you just watch me. Because my counter blowup gonna be the worst the narci has ever seen... it leaves them confused and afraid... and from what i'm used to i'm the one getting an apoligy. A fake one ofcourse, because a narci will never apoligize for (trying to) cheating, It's more down the lines of "i'm sorry i upset you"...
Yeah, they are very sorry for themselfs that their BS didn't fly with me.
I'm not reccomanding this to anyone. I have CPTSD and borderline because i was raised by a narci mother... showing equal (or worse) of the same behaviour can very easy become downright dangerous.
But it brings the narci to a point where their ways of asserting control doesn't work. It creates the oppisite for them. If they want to have things their way, then treat me right. But that doesnt give any supply to feed of. It renders them in a place in where they are stuck, and are constantly reminded of their own behaviour...
But after all the abuse i had to endure my opinion on things is. I treat you with love and respect. I am open to hear when my PTSD or borderline flaws getting too much for the other person.
But if you start to treat me badly, i have the right to treat you equal to that.
The narci certainly doesn't want to be treated like they treat others. So either way stop treating me bad, and we can be "happy". Or accept that every shitty thing you pull on me you will get thrown right back at ya in tenfold. It's up to them...
Usually the narci doesnt know how fast they have to run from me...
Which is a good thing, i'm never ever gonna put up with more abuse.
If your goal is to constant hurt or upset me so you can feed of that. Then there is no space for you in my life...
I'm perfectly fine "miserable" without you. And with certainty a lot less miserable then toghether with the narci.
This is insanity
He cheated but when we argued and I broke up with him he told me that over 3.5 years I didn’t say “thank you” 52 times.
Amen
Make videos about sadistic personality disorder.
He should get into acting. Maybe one of the few things he hasn't done yet. jk This method is effective and entertaining. Just saying. :P
❤❤ I also see a spot for him in a German Hardcore techno band. He has not come out with it more than once, or twice on video, but I know he can get the fuck down. Certainly he was all up in the mosh pits over on that side of the pond in the 90s. 😂😂🎉
@@theoriginal7727 that's awesome 🤣
Jesus, my wife just did this to me. Wtf
Mommie dearest has my family acting in her LIES!
I'm leaving my FAMILY to attract my mommie dearest!
I had My X,,Followed after his work day ()he called me from work to say he'd been Invited to friends house After work for Dinner n i said Ok🙄😏)). I hired a 'Starving College Student',lol
to Follow Him 2-times an paid her $50 cash,Both times She Followed Him to Same Woman's House though!¿. She Filmed Him parking his truck an Getn Out n walking to/Into Woman's House! Busted 🤣. He Accused Me of seeing someone...Nope!
Epic move!! I live near a college 🙃😉
And is where strong boundaries are important to begin with... Once you get over the shock of how infantile their reaction is, being able to stand up and say "you're such a dick head, wah wah wah, get over yourself"
My Ex had become a BA Christian & was constantly after my unchristian behavior, comparing me to the neighbors wife (the person that converted him). I'd finally had enough & left for the day..leaving my wedding ring on the kitchen counter. The next day, she came after me screaming how horrible what I'd done to him... Found out later, they were having an affair...😳😖🤦
Yes!