well what would the ego gain if it had to be trimmed back realistically .... its terrible to be drawn in to their story then discarded. relieved it ended.
I spent 34 years chasing rainbows with my narc searching for the thing that was going to make him happy. It was exhausting!!! He never found it and I guess he is still looking , but he lost me three years ago, and I am enjoying a drama free life. Oh with a continual restraining order on him of course!
This is spot on! One way they cause drama is when you confront them with something they did and suddenly they go off topic and dig up a past argument that you already settled MONTHS ago that you thought was done and dusted. Be rest assured you will hear that same past argument come up like 500 times to deflect from whatever you caught them doing. Anything to not be held accountable!
My (ex) female covert narcissist would constantly “bait and switch”. Bait me into a steamy argument, and then switch it to me being cruel, meaning she was the victim…. It happened daily/weekly. Chaos!
I gave my brothers narcissistic wife a narcissistic injury for Christmas... She left my parents house screaming in a rage and forgot to take my brother with her so we all had a awesome day without her lol. Merry Christmas ❄🍻⛄🎄🤣
My covert narc ex gobbled up supply from me by executing ridiculous, preventable drama. Here is a great example: When selling the house, we needed to do some touch up paint in the formal dining room. The carpet was an ivory color and the paint was dark. He brings out the big ladder. He puts the full paint can on the very top step of this tall ladder. You can see where this is going. The old me would have said, "Why are you putting the can on the top step, what if it falls....blah, blah, blah. By this time I understood Grey Rock. What I did do, is walk away and went into another room. Within minutes, you guessed it, the full paint can fell on the carpet. Now here was my Oscar worthy Grey Rock moment: I looked at the spill with no emotion. I looked at him with no emotion. I dialed our realtor on my cell phone without moving from where I was standing and said, "It looks like we might need replace the carpet in the dining room. Where can I get that same carpet?". This was the first time that it hit home, how my displeasure at his ridiculous antics like this was part of his supply game. He looked at me with a face that can be described only as pure evil. I saw then that if I didn't react, did Grey Rock, and provided him with no emotional response, then the crazy of what he did avoided me and went straight back to him. Funny, after that, the ridiculous antics stopped as he saw clearly, he wasn't going to get supply from me. I would like to thank the academy, Jess, and all the narc recovery You Tube channels for providing me with that amazing dialogue. I would also like to thank the director, crew and cast, and not to forget, the carpet cleaner! LOL!
He would tell me about the constant drama caused by his ex and use that as an excuse for being late for dates, etc. Now I know it was all smoke and mirrors. He would tell me how horrible she was to him, etc. He'd always be in a bad mood because of things she was "doing to him." Yeah, ok!! Not only was he triangulating but was also creating his own drama for both attention and to deflect off of the REAL reason he would cancel and or be late for plans. Sick, sick, sick!!
With the ex narc it was opposite land. He’d say I don’t care when he did care a lot. He’d say I never want to see you again when in fact he wanted to move back in. The calm after they’re gone is truly a blessing. 🙏🏼❤️🩹
I almost died from "issues" and he didn't want to take me to the hospital until I threatened to take the bus. I believe he would have gotten a lot of supply if I had died, and I felt he was a little disappointed....
She had left her sun glasses at home several times when we left home. I was tired of going back every time to get the glasses. Then one time when we were getting ready to leave home I told her 5 times “Dont forget your glasses!” She answered “Why do you repeat it like I was a child?!” We left home, in 3 minutes she said “I forgot the glasses, lets go back”…. I know that to people who do not have experiences with narcs this story seems to be minor issue but the ones who know narcs can understand how this was used to get me out of balance.
Covert Narcissists Are More The Type To Ghost & Block You Everywhere. Then Never Return. Then When You Chase They Get Off On That But Never Reciprocate.
My ex who I haven’t been with now for 4 years still does this through my daughter. I have now cut all ties with this man - to me he is a sleek donor , only wanted to spend 4 hours a week with his daughter so he could say he was being the worlds best father. During our relationship he would gaslight me , put me down and tell me I’m worthless and no one would love me Well fuck him , I’m here 4 years on stronger than ever , have a great job and a very close bond with my daughter and this is why I choose to stay single.
My ex would mirror me when I would say I wanted a quiet and peaceful life, he would say he wanted the same thing. I used to look at him and think you are so mad, you are the one that creates all the drama 🤦♀️
I was out hiking and this needy narcissist was looking for supply...his German Shepard attacked my dog, and he stood there not saying a word- yet staring at me to see my reaction...then my dog got away ran towards me...keep in mine I have a deaf dog 15 months old....so he runs to me for cover, and the Shepard attack's him some more...the guy is still not doing or saying anything like STOP ...so I clap my hands trying to distract the dog, and the dog bit me in the leg. I had 3 rips in my leggings and blood & skin pouring out...I said nicely...Sir your dog bit me I need you to cooperate I have to call the police & emergency...He says to me " My dog would never bite anyone!" I could tell by the look on his face he was a sick narc watching the whole thing happen waiting for my reaction. I didn't give him any chaos or drama like he was starving for....I was cool as a cucumber. He took off in a hurry down the side of the hill...he didn't even get back on the trail. Paramedics showed up I ended up in the hospital had to get rabies shots and that went on for weeks. I have 5000k in medical bills because I don't have ins. ( I'm not trying act like poor me victim - looking for attention) no, I'm forewarning people to carry mace with you, or a shock walking stick...cell phone to take pictures.. There's a rampant disease of narcs out there and narcs would do anything to get attention. If I would of screamed, yelled and got emotional he would of gotten his rocks off. A real sicko.
Drama seems to come from the advocacy of boredom in a mind virtually inaccessible to their true self. Often why more the merrier until they burn out or vaguely become distracted. Misery is their most intrusive thought they'd care not to admit yet most likely are inclined to participate others to share in. Self neglect seems to be the issue they are trying to compensate for, they may be highly rooted to it by the absence of mind. 🙏
The drama statement confuses me cause the narcissist I was with definitely liked drama and I’ve caught myself now saying I don’t want extra drama in my life. If I meet someone who says that and says he’s been with someone who was full of drama, I can relate so how to tell the difference between a narcissist fake comment and the person who dealt with a drama filled narcissist
i believe that the real issue is ego and immaturity, not narcisism. Look at covert narcisist, or borderline personality disorder, or someone with PTSD yet psychopathic traits they might have genuine empathy, yet at times can behave like true monsters. They are basically terribly wounded toddlers, childrens, teens, who never healed and never grew up. So the more experiences i have with narcisistic people and the more i study narcisism the more i am convinced that it is not at all black and white thing. And that there are many shades of gray of narcisism. Is like Ego is the black hole, it just TAKES TAKES TAKES , and empathy/heart is the sun, it just gives gives gives and we all are somewhere on the scale , in the gray-ish zone. Almost no narc is fully egoistic without any real emotional or mental empathy. Plus look at autistic people, they dont tend to have emotional empathy, yet they tend to have tons of mental empathy. And they can be easily misunderstood as narcs.
My Nex would create drama by involving her friends in our business and lives all the time, she would call them every time we got into disagreement to tell them she needed help because I was acting "Crazy" again. Then when it all blew over a day or two later tell me not to reach out to any of them or try to speak with any of them about it so that they would let it be forgotten and we could move forward without their interference, of course I wasn't reaching out buy she would spend the next several days reaching out to them and complaining and adding to the drams lol. I found this out because I would message some of her friends at times asking them to mind their own business and stay out of our affairs only for them to say, I didn't say a word, why don't you ask your GF how I know what's going on? She is the one who keeps bringing us into it all the time "we would honestly like to be left alone about ya'lls jacked up relationship" and then they would send me screen shots proving that it WAS in fact her bringing the drama and friends into our business. She was telling me to not reach out to them to apologize etc. because she didn't want my side of the story to be heard, NOT that she wanted their approval of me or for them to forget what a POS I was.
I'm 7 months NC. It's disturbing when a Narc targets you and pretends to be your friend - it took me 6 months to work out what the problem was. Narc free💗💗
@@MrSnake9419 No. I refuse to have any contact with it. I've set a clear boundary don't come anywhere the f..k near me. It's a coward. It's found a new Narc supply. I don't care I'm living my best life without it. Revenge is show them your happy away from them, they can't stand losing power and control. It's sustained a Narc injury and could seek revenge. If it does only option is full exposure although it's dangerous to do that. It was also an energy vampire even more dangerous to expose. It would dump negative energy and get a kick out of watching people argue, there would be a dense heavy atmosphere and low vibration. I'm thinking Demonic.
@@MrSnake9419 yes. I have been hoovered once by this friend but it didn’t took long for her to discard me again..but now it’s been 7 months since we have last spoken to each other and in our last conversation she blamed me for the failed friendship. There are still moments I miss our friendship but then again, I don’t deserve the way how she treated me
They do, and I am so sick of it. Watching Murray show, such low class and waste if time listening to the same thing yelling and screaming. There is nothing positive comes out of his mouth. Every word is criticizing, or complaining, or moaning, or bad mouthing, or accusing, or blaming....he would even complain about the 2 letters - O. K.
I know a few, ex and family members. Mr.fling said that to me before he left me in tears. He did me a favor by deleting me from Facebook, lil did I know he had other Facebook page to watch me or stalking me. I just deleted my page all together. I feel much better now. Thank God it was only a summer fling.
Yeah he also used to state how he was always 110% into the person he was with and he could never cheat. He said he couldn't cheat because of the thought of letting me down! Not because he loved me enough and wouldn't want to lol. Just purely to not let me down or disappoint me. This was another of those comments with a hidden confession.
From a deep symbolic prospective they operate like a smart watch perhaps in every single way imaginable. A real physical attribute. The watch typically sits in the center of the wrist. Sits closest or next to the hand symbolic for control. As you dive deeper into the watch it processes information 0's and 1's and its all about number 1. It's constantly moving forward in time always searching for external happiness due to lack of internal joy an emptiness believed to be based on the external purely due to internal. As the degree of sell increases the more destructive they become despite the indirect enrichment not necessarily what they trade in physicality but expansion, growth, change. Any movement on acknowledgement towards it's screen lights up. Needs an external source of power in order to feel like it can effectively operate... like a charger. It would be interesting to find out if the person that manifested it is one of them!??!?!?!?!
Hi Jess ! Just want to say a BIG THANKYOU for all the wise advice and support you have provided through your content on this empowering channel ! You have NO IDEA how much you have helped me like SO MANY others to find the strength to move on to a better place , and it means so much ! From all of us here on this channel , ..MERRY CHRISTMAS , QUEEN OF THE EMPATHS XXX
I disagree, sorry. My (ex) female covert narcissist would constantly “bait and switch”. Bait me into a steamy argument, and then switch it to me being cruel, meaning she was the victim…. It happened daily/weekly.
That's what my ex said. "I don't like fights and I don't like drama"
He would covertly create the drama.
When I put "I hate drama" in the narc's Semantic Phrase Decoder it comes back 'I hate being called out for the shit storms I create"
They need outside chaos to distract them from looking within.
Exactly! 🧊🧊🧊
well what would the ego gain if it had to be trimmed back realistically .... its terrible to be drawn in to their story then discarded. relieved it ended.
Right!
Exactly. My wife says she hates drama as I do. But she continually starts it.
I spent 34 years chasing rainbows with my narc searching for the thing that was going to make him happy. It was exhausting!!! He never found it and I guess he is still looking , but he lost me three years ago, and I am enjoying a drama free life. Oh with a continual restraining order on him of course!
This is spot on! One way they cause drama is when you confront them with something they did and suddenly they go off topic and dig up a past argument that you already settled MONTHS ago that you thought was done and dusted. Be rest assured you will hear that same past argument come up like 500 times to deflect from whatever you caught them doing. Anything to not be held accountable!
Omg my ex did this to me alot and the more I showed I was confident the more it would make him say things I said that I actually didn't say .
I can't stand how childish these people are.
My (ex) female covert narcissist would constantly “bait and switch”. Bait me into a steamy argument, and then switch it to me being cruel, meaning she was the victim…. It happened daily/weekly. Chaos!
May I ask what zodiac sign she was? ?
@@GreeneyezIntuitions sure: Virgo
That sucks! 🧊🧊
I've heard that term. Wasn't sure what it meant. Ty for explaining.
My mother was an overt narc. ♍virgo & wanted to turn everything into an argument.
I gave my brothers narcissistic wife a narcissistic injury for Christmas... She left my parents house screaming in a rage and forgot to take my brother with her so we all had a awesome day without her lol. Merry Christmas ❄🍻⛄🎄🤣
😂😂😂
My covert narc ex gobbled up supply from me by executing ridiculous, preventable drama. Here is a great example: When selling the house, we needed to do some touch up paint in the formal dining room. The carpet was an ivory color and the paint was dark. He brings out the big ladder. He puts the full paint can on the very top step of this tall ladder. You can see where this is going. The old me would have said, "Why are you putting the can on the top step, what if it falls....blah, blah, blah. By this time I understood Grey Rock. What I did do, is walk away and went into another room. Within minutes, you guessed it, the full paint can fell on the carpet. Now here was my Oscar worthy Grey Rock moment: I looked at the spill with no emotion. I looked at him with no emotion. I dialed our realtor on my cell phone without moving from where I was standing and said, "It looks like we might need replace the carpet in the dining room. Where can I get that same carpet?". This was the first time that it hit home, how my displeasure at his ridiculous antics like this was part of his supply game. He looked at me with a face that can be described only as pure evil. I saw then that if I didn't react, did Grey Rock, and provided him with no emotional response, then the crazy of what he did avoided me and went straight back to him. Funny, after that, the ridiculous antics stopped as he saw clearly, he wasn't going to get supply from me. I would like to thank the academy, Jess, and all the narc recovery You Tube channels for providing me with that amazing dialogue. I would also like to thank the director, crew and cast, and not to forget, the carpet cleaner! LOL!
Good for You, 🤣🤣🤣
Well done a brilliant reaction.
Yes indeed no more supply for any of them
Hahahha well done!! Soo hard to do but you did it!
He would tell me about the constant drama caused by his ex and use that as an excuse for being late for dates, etc. Now I know it was all smoke and mirrors. He would tell me how horrible she was to him, etc. He'd always be in a bad mood because of things she was "doing to him." Yeah, ok!! Not only was he triangulating but was also creating his own drama for both attention and to deflect off of the REAL reason he would cancel and or be late for plans. Sick, sick, sick!!
My ex triangulated me with my friend and when I got naturally jealous, this was used to create an excuse to break up with me... All about control...
My narc loves to tell lies about me
"They've stirred the 'shit pot'....." love that - it must be a new 'Americanism'........ Great stuff, Jess! XD
With the ex narc it was opposite land. He’d say I don’t care when he did care a lot. He’d say I never want to see you again when in fact he wanted to move back in. The calm after they’re gone is truly a blessing. 🙏🏼❤️🩹
My ex would pull the exact same bs. “Goodbye forever!”
Followed by messages later as if nothing happened...
@@agent_exodus same! The messages like nothing happened after the bad behavior was such a mind f**k. Glad he’s your ex. ❤️🩹
You have a way of making them look pathetic. I like that !
?? They are pathetic
I almost died from "issues" and he didn't want to take me to the hospital
until I threatened to take the bus. I believe he would have gotten a lot of
supply if I had died, and I felt he was a little disappointed....
She had left her sun glasses at home several times when we left home. I was tired of going back every time to get the glasses. Then one time when we were getting ready to leave home I told her 5 times “Dont forget your glasses!” She answered “Why do you repeat it like I was a child?!” We left home, in 3 minutes she said “I forgot the glasses, lets go back”…. I know that to people who do not have experiences with narcs this story seems to be minor issue but the ones who know narcs can understand how this was used to get me out of balance.
Covert Narcissists Are More The Type To Ghost & Block You Everywhere. Then Never Return. Then When You Chase They Get Off On That But Never Reciprocate.
My ex who I haven’t been with now for 4 years still does this through my daughter. I have now cut all ties with this man - to me he is a sleek donor , only wanted to spend 4 hours a week with his daughter so he could say he was being the worlds best father. During our relationship he would gaslight me , put me down and tell me I’m worthless and no one would love me
Well fuck him , I’m here 4 years on stronger than ever , have a great job and a very close bond with my daughter and this is why I choose to stay single.
My ex would mirror me when I would say I wanted a quiet and peaceful life, he would say he wanted the same thing. I used to look at him and think you are so mad, you are the one that creates all the drama 🤦♀️
YEEEESSSSSSS! They want to appear peaceful to disguise the malicious trouble makers they really are
"The other one..."I hate people who play games!"
When you spoke about the heat lamp. So true. I don't know any narc that can be alone.
I was out hiking and this needy narcissist was looking for supply...his German Shepard attacked my dog, and he stood there not saying a word- yet staring at me to see my reaction...then my dog got away ran towards me...keep in mine I have a deaf dog 15 months old....so he runs to me for cover, and the Shepard attack's him some more...the guy is still not doing or saying anything like STOP ...so I clap my hands trying to distract the dog, and the dog bit me in the leg. I had 3 rips in my leggings and blood & skin pouring out...I said nicely...Sir your dog bit me I need you to cooperate I have to call the police & emergency...He says to me " My dog would never bite anyone!" I could tell by the look on his face he was a sick narc watching the whole thing happen waiting for my reaction. I didn't give him any chaos or drama like he was starving for....I was cool as a cucumber. He took off in a hurry down the side of the hill...he didn't even get back on the trail. Paramedics showed up I ended up in the hospital had to get rabies shots and that went on for weeks. I have 5000k in medical bills because I don't have ins. ( I'm not trying act like poor me victim - looking for attention) no, I'm forewarning people to carry mace with you, or a shock walking stick...cell phone to take pictures.. There's a rampant disease of narcs out there and narcs would do anything to get attention. If I would of screamed, yelled and got emotional he would of gotten his rocks off. A real sicko.
I hope Karma gets his ass.
@@cymbolichuman433 my medical bill(s) are $5,000. so his karma will be 10 folds ....him losing $50,000. ( so be it!)
Yup,...mine always told me he doesn't like drama but I see it now how he always caused it,..nuts.
Wow Jess this is so true 👍 the victim and the drama bs lie's we all fall for, and it's free supply, those who stir the sht pot can lick the spoon 🥣🥄.
Drama seems to come from the advocacy of boredom in a mind virtually inaccessible to their true self.
Often why more the merrier until they burn out or vaguely become distracted.
Misery is their most intrusive thought they'd care not to admit yet most likely are inclined to participate others to share in. Self neglect seems to be the issue they are trying to compensate for, they may be highly rooted to it by the absence of mind. 🙏
Jess I really enjoy you and especially calmly listing specific traits of the narc.
You are helping me 😊
its like the celebrity dilemma, "bad press is better than no press"
The drama statement confuses me cause the narcissist I was with definitely liked drama and I’ve caught myself now saying I don’t want extra drama in my life. If I meet someone who says that and says he’s been with someone who was full of drama, I can relate so how to tell the difference between a narcissist fake comment and the person who dealt with a drama filled narcissist
i believe that the real issue is ego and immaturity, not narcisism.
Look at covert narcisist, or borderline personality disorder, or someone with PTSD yet psychopathic traits
they might have genuine empathy, yet at times can behave like true monsters.
They are basically terribly wounded toddlers, childrens, teens, who never healed and never grew up.
So the more experiences i have with narcisistic people and the more i study narcisism
the more i am convinced that it is not at all black and white thing.
And that there are many shades of gray of narcisism.
Is like Ego is the black hole, it just TAKES TAKES TAKES , and empathy/heart is the sun, it just gives gives gives
and we all are somewhere on the scale , in the gray-ish zone.
Almost no narc is fully egoistic without any real emotional or mental empathy.
Plus look at autistic people, they dont tend to have emotional empathy, yet they tend to have tons of mental empathy.
And they can be easily misunderstood as narcs.
My Nex would create drama by involving her friends in our business and lives all the time, she would call them every time we got into disagreement to tell them she needed help because I was acting "Crazy" again. Then when it all blew over a day or two later tell me not to reach out to any of them or try to speak with any of them about it so that they would let it be forgotten and we could move forward without their interference, of course I wasn't reaching out buy she would spend the next several days reaching out to them and complaining and adding to the drams lol. I found this out because I would message some of her friends at times asking them to mind their own business and stay out of our affairs only for them to say, I didn't say a word, why don't you ask your GF how I know what's going on? She is the one who keeps bringing us into it all the time "we would honestly like to be left alone about ya'lls jacked up relationship" and then they would send me screen shots proving that it WAS in fact her bringing the drama and friends into our business. She was telling me to not reach out to them to apologize etc. because she didn't want my side of the story to be heard, NOT that she wanted their approval of me or for them to forget what a POS I was.
They should come with a public health warning attached to them because they can and will ruin your health if YOU let them. Just subscribed- thank you.
Yep and they can all stay away from me. I don't care about their feelings or need any of narcs bs in my life.
Mine says this as much as he says "All you wanna do is Argue" followed by I ignored you because " I didn't wanna argue"
Damn, this exactly describes a friendship I was in..now 7 months of NC🙏🏽
I'm 7 months NC. It's disturbing when a Narc targets you and pretends to be your friend - it took me 6 months to work out what the problem was. Narc free💗💗
have you been hoovered at all?
@@MrSnake9419 No. I refuse to have any contact with it. I've set a clear boundary don't come anywhere the f..k near me. It's a coward. It's found a new Narc supply. I don't care I'm living my best life without it. Revenge is show them your happy away from them, they can't stand losing power and control. It's sustained a Narc injury and could seek revenge. If it does only option is full exposure although it's dangerous to do that. It was also an energy vampire even more dangerous to expose. It would dump negative energy and get a kick out of watching people argue, there would be a dense heavy atmosphere and low vibration. I'm thinking Demonic.
@@MrSnake9419 yes. I have been hoovered once by this friend but it didn’t took long for her to discard me again..but now it’s been 7 months since we have last spoken to each other and in our last conversation she blamed me for the failed friendship. There are still moments I miss our friendship but then again, I don’t deserve the way how she treated me
They do, and I am so sick of it. Watching Murray show, such low class and waste if time listening to the same thing yelling and screaming. There is nothing positive comes out of his mouth. Every word is criticizing, or complaining, or moaning, or bad mouthing, or accusing, or blaming....he would even complain about the 2 letters - O. K.
I know a few, ex and family members. Mr.fling said that to me before he left me in tears. He did me a favor by deleting me from Facebook, lil did I know he had other Facebook page to watch me or stalking me. I just deleted my page all together. I feel much better now. Thank God it was only a summer fling.
All I can say is yes yes yes! It’s their oxygen sort of say. 👍🏽
Yeah he also used to state how he was always 110% into the person he was with and he could never cheat. He said he couldn't cheat because of the thought of letting me down!
Not because he loved me enough and wouldn't want to lol. Just purely to not let me down or disappoint me. This was another of those comments with a hidden confession.
From a deep symbolic prospective they operate like a smart watch perhaps in every single way imaginable. A real physical attribute. The watch typically sits in the center of the wrist. Sits closest or next to the hand symbolic for control. As you dive deeper into the watch it processes information 0's and 1's and its all about number 1. It's constantly moving forward in time always searching for external happiness due to lack of internal joy an emptiness believed to be based on the external purely due to internal. As the degree of sell increases the more destructive they become despite the indirect enrichment not necessarily what they trade in physicality but expansion, growth, change. Any movement on acknowledgement towards it's screen lights up. Needs an external source of power in order to feel like it can effectively operate... like a charger. It would be interesting to find out if the person that manifested it is one of them!??!?!?!?!
good analysis 👍
Brilliant video Jess ! Live with a narcissist in a capsule !
Absolutely spot on and informative video! I needed this to expose and destroy one of my co-workers...
My ex listed things he wouldn't tolerate, and both of them he ended up doing himself- causing drama and trying to make him jealous. 🤣🤣🤣
Me and my narc got in and out of the relationship she came in left a shit storm and left and it was always my fault
Hi Jess ! Just want to say a BIG THANKYOU for all the wise advice and support you have provided through your content on this empowering channel ! You have NO IDEA how much you have helped me like SO MANY others to find the strength to move on to a better place , and it means so much ! From all of us here on this channel , ..MERRY CHRISTMAS , QUEEN OF THE EMPATHS XXX
Great video. Thanks for sharing 👍
Thank you Jess, for a great chat, really helps to get another perspective
That You You have help me escape the pits of hell
@James Eslick funny
🪱🐍🪱🐍 cold blooded
Poke, poke, poke, hoping for our reaction, yep, our fault
“You love drama” 🤣
Lol heat lamp.
Pretty sure i was used purely to make the baby daddy jealous... which is insane to use a child like that
Thanx Jess! 🤍🧊💎🤍
Yep all true.
true
So true and good. 😊
My ex would say I hate arguing. I hate drama. I never argued with my ex. Hmm surely you did 🤔
Answer- They come from hell and that's all they know.
Stir the shit pot hahahaaa!!!
Can you comment on a Nacassist who promotes herself as a life coach. Cost me a shit load.
Boredom 💯👍🏼
Very sad, sick disease 🦠
I would say Covert Narcissists don't need Chaos..
I disagree, sorry. My (ex) female covert narcissist would constantly “bait and switch”. Bait me into a steamy argument, and then switch it to me being cruel, meaning she was the victim…. It happened daily/weekly.
@@deanokay666 yeah same with my covert narc ex wife
👍♥️🙏