4 Signs She Wants To Be More Than Friends.
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- Here are the top 4 signs to focus on. I want to be clear here. You have to observe her behaviors and it might not be all of them but see how she acts around you in regards to these 4 signs.
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#1 Becomes physical and compliments you. She finds ways to touch you and she will notice new things about you. Especially if you changed your wardrobe she will compliment and be able to notice these new things. She will also give you longer eye contact than normal.
#2 She asks a lot of questions about you. Meaning non-surface level questions about who you are as an individual. She will ask about your goals and your future. She will ask you about your values and your relationship with your family. Typically she will also talk about a relationship with you and she will want to see what you like to do in your free time and your idea of what you want in the future. When it comes to women we want to form an emotional connection with men. This is what drives our attraction sexually and mentally. So how can you make her feel?
#3 She starts doing things for you. She starts doing little things for you to take some stress or things off your plate. So she will try to help you with things that she can contribute to just as much as you should do. She will help you with things that are goals in your life. She will be your cheerleader. This is called acts of service.
#4 She compliments you. She will notice new things that you changed and will complement the way you are naturally when you show up in life. A woman that is an extrovert finds it easy to compliment men but a woman that is introverted will be a little less open about this. She wants you to know she's interested.
When a woman compliments you never reject it own the compliment and say thank you. I see so many men rejecting compliments and this deflects confidence away from you. It shows slight insecurities. So when someone gives you a compliment just simply say thank you and smile. :)
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Informative video and stunning as always you have a inner light that shows when you talk dating wisdom. loved all four tips and details, being I'm introverted male have never dated or had a relationship Sometimes signs of attraction has went over my Head.
Hi Demetruis,
Happy you enjoy the videos! Also, hope my videos help with attraction in the future.
Best,
Apollonia
@@ApolloniaPonti they do Sometimes I second guess attraction from rejection Fear. Thanks for Reply
We can tell sir. Get out there and start getting some rejections under your belt.
@@mac1bc easier said than done for a logical and analytical Person who that trait isn't a selling point, and no Degree cooking, tech self taught and learned
Love your videos...not that this question apolies to me as im in a healty loving relationship when and if she asks about your past relationships should you be honest and say you never had a girlfriend (but ONLY if its true) or would that creep her out, lol
She took her dress off in front of me and just stood there smiling...I had no idea if she wanted to be more than just friends :)
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If she's trying to help she still might just be being a good friend. Friends help each other.
I think #3 is the best one because she's taking her time and investing in you.
She did all of those signs. Still rejected me
Same here. I should've known, the body language was not genuine. It wasn't there in her eyes
She was just playing or got bored . Same happened to me . No worries mate
Women today are a complicated species. This shy woman shows me all the signs of attraction, then she just stays quiet. Maybe I should try to ask her interests and hobbies, the see if anything happens. If not, then move on.
She wants to be more than a friend.
1 she becomes physical.- she compliments you.
2 she asks a lot of questions about you.
3 she starts doing things for you- she might call, ask for lunch,coffee etc.
4 she compliments you.
my sister wants to be more than friend?
@@thierry1026 HAhAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Watch Game of Thrones in front of her to see if it's true.
@@thierry1026 Maybe she wants to be your monetary recipient.
Then she says you're my big brother!!
@@thierry1026 Bro 😂
Many coaches stress avoiding questions about past relationships, but if she starts talking about it, I enjoy listening to those experiences.
You are so informative Appolonia. Yeah, I agree that women love to offer acts of service once they begin falling tor you.
She may even begin commenting on a shoe that may look good on you or a certain suit that fits your physique, thus showing that she already understands you and what's best for you.
I always wait till Apollonia says "You.. are always.. loved" before going to her next video. It makes me smile every time! You are AWESOME Apollonia!
Your channel is super underrated. You give some of the best advice and insight I’ve ever heard. Keep it up
Damn, like I swear. I've been following you since last month.. This psychological stuff is the key to unlock the door into her heart and get past her traps and eventually finding the prize at the end of the maze.
Been taking serious notes lol and honestly, I've had this happen on recent dates. Great video Ms Ponti! The signs are there if your paying attention 😀
Yes! So happy you're here! Thank you!
Best,
Apollonia
Hi good morning love watching your videos
how many got here because shes so pretty?
This Is A Great Video!!! Thanks for sharing! I agree with all your 4 points at least it holds true in My Experience 👌👌👌💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥
WOW! Earth shaking signs! She flirts with you! Who would have thunk it! Amazing revelation!
Thank you so much for your help and support ❤️ 🙏❣️ 😊 for me to get it done
Thank you so much for your help.
Unfortunately, in my experience, the women I've encountered felt they should be the focus on my life rather than an addition to it. It's becoming more difficult to find women that can stand on their own let alone one that shares your values and interests.
All women want that from the men they choose. How come most married men cant take money out the house for something just for him without her getting pissed off and wanting a divorce. Remember one thing, women dont marry the man she marries the lifestyle he able to provide, and sex alone gets boring after the first week or so especially if you're fuckin 5x each day.
@@delljr2769 So, what do you want from women? Commitment? Well, you are then living in a wrong culture. Contract is what you are going to get, if you are from the west. If you want commitment then you can't break your own family bond (with your parents, brothers/sisters, relatives). There cannot be too much individualism. You got to compromise somewhere. India has the lowest divorce rates in the world. It is because of ancient culture/tradition of monogamy and family bonding.
If the man loses his job, wife will go to work to save the family. Husband will look after the children. Wife wakes up early in the morning, cooks for the whole family and then go to work. Neither husband nor wife cheats mostly because they know that they are violating the natural law (dharma) because it can create karma or cause and effect. So at philosophical level also India is different (even though they are also aping the west blindly nowadays). Mostly there is no blind hedonism or materialism
i think this is the first time i'm got onto your page and i think i'm looking because of a situation i have at work where the girl ( and i'm krazy for her ) compliments me like to day she said " you're killin it with the outfit i was wearing ". not the first time for that kind of compliment - she and i have been going back and forth like this for months - I keep putting myself "On Hold" because i want to make sure my "Intentions" or "Intention" is how it should be. I've been single for quite a while because i made the decision to stop picking the wrong women till i figure out what i was doing wrong. i've put myself in check with this woman so many times it came to the point i said to myself ( for the first time ever about anyone ) " i unconditionally love her " - and then i put that on hold - since i see her at work regularly we bump into each other and then i'm right back to being krazy about her.... i'm all vulnerable because i can't hide my damn feelings which means almost everyone at work sees what's going on . She's not the kind of woman who would ever say first though that she's interested she's way too smart for that at least i'm pretty sure about that. I think i accidentally and insensitively hurt her feelings once because she was gone for a month thought i'd never see her ever again. I was freeking LOOSING IT mope'n around the whole month people asked me "what's wrong are you ok". Yeah i can deal - but she showed up unexpectedly one day just dropping in and came back to see me and i was just OMFG - i was so in the moment krazy to see her i couldn't help and the only words out of my mouth were " i missed you" ....then she had to go so right back again thought i'd never see her again----. then the next day she showed up to work and i was so excited/happy/thrilled to see her show up i had to just put myself on hold completely - was the only way i get a grip on myself - so of course she comes almost running out to the yard where i work and said in the most beautiful tone of voice i've heard from her " how are you doing " and i was practically non reactive because of my state of mind and needed to have some kind of control of myself - all i said was i'm doing pretty good and didn't make a connection like i wished i had .... I think she was so excited because she took me saying the day before " i missed you " as me saying lets heat things up ..( but i can't be sure and don't want to assume anything )... Anyway she walked away and a few minutes i saw her and she was a little depressed which i've never seen her because she's always so full of joy ( what i love about her )..... Lonng story short here - watching your video here - i already realize i care for this girl more than i've ever cared for anyone in my life - mmmmm i'm telling ya ( i gota get a grip on myself ) but when you say women like to know what a guys thinking and or women look for how a guy makes them "Feel" - i felt like maybe next time i see her oor at the next opportune appropriate moment i should just tell her " i've never cared for anyone like i care for her " ----- it's so not the same as just saying " OH i LOVE YOU" which can sound like BS - but today i couldn't help myself and i walked up to her and said " your amazing " --- she was very receptve about that asked me why i thought so LOL - anyway i just told her " you just are ".. i've been trying to figure out how to break this ice with her and stick my neck out without feeling like a fool in the process or some lame ass and think if i tell her i've never cared about anyone as much it's a fairly neutral approach ............. anyway thnx for your vid has helped me think through this a bit ------ it's weird - i've put myself in check so many times with her i crossed the road that i like her so much for who she is that how i feel is UNConditional - and that's a damn first for me --------- i feel so out in unfamiliar territory with her i'm just KRAZY - anyway - thnx again
Apollonian is the best I’ve seen on advising men with understanding women.
Thanks so much!
get the series of books men are from mars women are from venus
@@49inxs great books!!!
Is it me or just every time I see a girl named Apollonia I immediately think on Godfather 1 ...
The day I want a woman is the day I find one without major entitlement issues. I'd have to go outside North America. Where most women live half way between fantasy and reality. "I'm strong and independant" they say. "Could you do this because I can't" 5 minutes later.
She does all of it. Keeps coming around etc.
Still wants to stay friends.
I must be really deep inside the friendzone 😅
How long has it been.
I love your videos an music can I have yr tune please
She just wanted your attention
You rock ! Thank you I went into rock bottom when my best friend was killed and my Girlfriend of 7 years walked out on me shortly after, but I have been watching your all videos and it makes me hopeful for the future .
Also the girl I always have had a secret crush on hit me up out of no where so (: with your help I think I got this life thing .
Hi Stonie,
Wow! That is a lot and I know it can be difficult. I'm so happy you can find support with my videos. I am here for you even if it's just a video. Stay strong and I know you got this life thing! xo
Best,
Apollonia
@@ApolloniaPonti thanks so much
Love your videos, they have been very helpful and inspirational! Continue doing what you do best!
Thank you! Will do!
She wants to be more than friends; buy She doesn’t want to be my girlfriend, she wants to be my “super friend” 😂 hell no
Yes, you should be her BFF...BEST FRIEND F@CK !
@@donaldfewell9929 - When you get this figured out, please let the rest of us slobs know!
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@@vumeopower88 BEST F@CK FRIEND you mean.
Ha Ha!! Right, she just can't tell you she likes you romantically!! Even, though the balls in her court!!
Thanks for the information Appollonia. Love the tan.....beautiful
Appreciate your great information, I’m waiting to hear more from you.
Heyyyy, you've removed the buddha head and laptop. Lol.
I really loved that background scene madame
Great advice apollonia. Very helpful
She made fun of me lmao and u say that’s a sign thankx 😂❤️
Tease me please me - yeah possible
Second video I watched of yours, and you're really honest, and realistic. I find women to be a real mystery, and usually don't like to put too much thought, or assume...let's just say I'm oblivious to signals, or find myself in denial over any signs that a girl gives me, just to spare myself possible disappointment.
I find your advice very sincere, so I suppose I'll subscribe, and see what more I can learn from you. I'm definitely not a player, and would really like to meet someone special. I'll have to watch your last video b/c my last relationship was a nightmare. :)
Hey Apollonia, huge fan after one video that I've been on a binge watching all your other videos. They've been super helpful and I appreciate everything you've done for us guys. I'm currently talking to a girl things seem to be going great. We're pretty open about liking each other but we haven't talked about a relationship or commitment. It has only been a few weeks so I think it's still early but when is a good time frame to start talking about working towards a relationship?
Hey great info.. I'd just rather die alone though 👍🏻
my crush is always looking for me and always smiling etc. i never heard her ask me any question or her being curious about me. Its like shes two different people and shes also a bit cold when she leaves work
Thank you is the Goldmine of information
4 valuable one's .. Great 👍👏👏💯
This is exactly how my GF was acting towards me when we first met💯 the same exact stuff.
Women know women like men know men!! Best 2 u 2!!
What happens now is she still acting that way?
Really good video , I recognise myself in it
That's real it's good talk about yourself.
This was solid advice. Thank you!
Perhaps a video on how Not to be constantly a woman's Second or even last choice after other guys.
How to find a sweetheart of your own?
I'm still stuck in opening a door for a lady days, so I may be in left field still. A gentleman in his late 30's is not an appeal these days.
-Comanche Nation
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Hi There!
A gentleman in his late 30's is very appealing! If you are a woman's second choice then you shouldn't be a choice at all.
Best,
Apollonia
Apollonia Ponti Your words are on point.
Although, women pride themselves on How Many choices they have these days.
They Always seem to know I am still alone and modern females want Nothing to do with a hard working man so it's a guarantee that I will be alone for when they are done with the guys they choose first.
True statement :
A man and his Mamma is More appealing than a man and his dog these days.
-Comanche Nation
Sad that I didn't check my notifications oflate. Missed you r videos badly.
Great video, so much on point and accurate
3:19 You were about to say "Men are f*cked" 😂😂😂 Tell 'em how you really feel! Lol. (Low key, I'll admit we definitely are 😉)
I rewound it to catch the gear shift away from the F bomb. It was pretty funny.
Lol u had me dying!!!! Lol i pressed 3:19 over and over again!! Lol
@@dominicbrogsdale3348 Me too! Lol
I cant believe guys actually dont know this eye contact and smiling always worked for me then the chase is on
Is called giving take be kind to each other care for each other look after each other have a laugh and a joke make each other happy simple as that
Wonderfully said.
Already know she likes me
Sign no 1. She offered to share her coffee with me after she drank it from the sipping orifice (because why am I going to be a dick and remove the entire lid)🤣
#2 She does dish out compliments with my response being a simple thank you.
#3 I show her my scars and she touches them (very important) you can implement this strategy in your conversations and find out for yourself🙂
#4 when you leave, hugs that last more than 5 seconds followed by a deep breath (she's already planning on thinking about you when you leave....imagine that!)
#5 also when you leave and no hugs are involved yet, she'll just voluntarily escort you. You'll see the way she does it and it will not feel as if it was forced.
There you go
Wow! No wonder! I was just being patronized and tolerated!
On this planet, it is prohibited to fall in love without reading Chapman's 'The five love languages'
Excellent choice. Sign up for his news letters, invaluable advice. If you don't know how you naturally want to be shown that you're loved, you'll always be looking in the wrong places.
@@farshimelt where to sign up?
This is so rare! LOL! Once you are in the friend zone you never get out unless she has aged and no longer attractive!
Unfortunately, three of these absolutely do not necessarily show that they want to be more than just friends. Only reason three, I.e., going out of their way to help/do things for you is correct in this list.
I read Gary Chapman's Five Love Languages. Good book. He talked about us having a love tank like a car has a gas tank and our love tank get filled by a good woman. My cheating former wife of 20 years was too busy shooting holes in my tank. The only 'love' I had at that time is that I LOVED telling her we were done.
Dating seems a bit daunting now a days.
Love that book. 5 love languages.
A woman who wants to be more than just friends thats what you want just tell her straight up its the only way she can talk to you
Thank you for this!
My pleasure!
And here I thought it was when she " has both legs thrown over her shoulders" (smile)!
What to do if she said she wants friendship?
Be a friend. Some people find love over time through friendship! She might warm up to you; the best part of a relationship is having your partner as your best friend 😁
Yeah I have a best friend she's a girl and one thing I don't understand she wants to hang out every weekend every weekend and when I say that I don't want to hang out with her on the weekend she goes why
Great she does that but keep saying (in friendly and respectful way)
Ms ponti can you make a video about how to handle dating a girl with male friends..it can be challenging and competitive
sure
Some people do like complimenting everyone though
Thank you👍 learning alot from you
She does every single things that you mentioned but i dont know how to have an emotional relationship actually how to tell her i want to be more than a friend please Help Me😣😣
Or like x who cheeted on me back in hi school 40yr's back and now wants to date again she has no job lives 2hrs away i found out and shes loosen her home maybe HELP!!
Ain't nobody got time for that
I know a woman who is an aries and I don't trust her she has a great personality and everything but I can't seem to keep her interest she seems to be all over the place with her energy
can you do a video about why a girl says she doesnt want a boy friend but still treats like youre in a relationship with her .
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...and she still flakes
Ernie Contreras. Lol
Ain't that some shit
friendzone??
Lol
Dude same fucking problem
What the fuck :p
What if the girl I like does some of these things but still says she wants to be friends. She does the touching and the complimenting, and sometimes ask those types of questions. I also looked at your friendzone video, and about to do those steps soon to see how she reacts. I feel like she likes me but wants to feel safe for us staying as friends
If some guy, ANY guy, didn't figure all this out before watching this video, then the cause is lost.
Men from Asian cultures don't get it. It's very complicated there.
What if she tells you she wants to be friends but she acts jealous but says she doesn't care but then ask if I'm talking to another female even tho she is talking to someone else it's crazy.
We’ve been friends for a while, but never really asked to hang out outside of school. She asked me if I wanted to take a walk with her, WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?????
My man being a beta makes you over think girls don’t typically ask a guy to do something with her if she’s not at least comfortable being close to you 🤷🏾♂️
Awesome thank you 👏
Great book! Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman is a win. Read that book back when it was first published. Highly recommended along with Love and Respect by Dr Emerson Eggerich.
0:52 throws grass at you AND ONLY YOU at soccer practice?
This is my phone, not Michael Cary's phone.
Thank you Apollonia. I think that a woman will do whatever she can to show how fun she is as a person to hook up with you.
By the way, you know what i love about you Apollonia is that you know what you are doing especially that white outfit.
I'm happy you became confident wearing it. You look fantastic and remember you ate always loved by me.
Allah bless you Apollonia.
What's wrong with just telling a woman I'm interested in her and that I want to find out more about her
You can. Nothing wrong with that.
Are this 4 rules written in stone, awesome video as always.
Is it a good sign if they send stuff to you first thing in the morning despite not having met yet?
But women also flirt just for attention. You can’t win
Thats so true man, and now we have to ask "how we know if she is just playing or flirting"
true but that's where being masculine comes into play. If you see the signs, aske her out. If she says yes then she likes you and is worth giving a shot. If she says no than she either doesn't like and is just playing games, or she likes you but not enough to date. Either way move on.
@@Shadow127534 Being masculine. lol.
Oh yeah bud you do win..Tequilla shots help matters tremendously!
Make her do the things for you. If she goes out of her way to things for you, you can probably tell she likes you.
I need your help , my ex broke up with me cause her family for bid her from seeing me or talking to me , it’s not what we both want. But she feels like she has to choose her family . I never did anything to them. Her brother was my best friend and that hurt him. But it’s just happened. Now she blocked my number . She was crying and told me this is forever for now . Idk what to do just leave her alone ? And forget about her “/ ?
what if she is very curious about my past relationship? no link showed up
I would say that her breakdown of how men and women differ in respect to attraction is more descriptive of the difference between demi sexual and normal sexual attraction. There are men and women who are both.
Karma or cause and effect based on past lives of a person is the primary decider. All the other superficial reasons and analysis are secondary. Nothing is random. Free will cannot achieve anything beyond what is pre-programmed by karma in our lives. If your karma was to come across beautiful women and get into relationships with them despite being ugly, it would happen. Despite being a tom cruise look alike if your karma was not to across beautiful women, it would also happen
I love you my sweetheart Angel KD 😘 but what are you doing
God bless you ✊🏻
You too!
Is it possible that you can like your best friend and what signs that she may show thst signifies her affection in more than just a best friend
What does it mean when your female friend has your back? When she’s willing to fight someone for you
Thank you coach Apo, you keep on opening ma eyes with beautiful teaching Apo ma Apollonia Ponti.What's the title of that Song playing in your videos?
It's at the end of my description. :)
kahama kipsoi 😲
Great advice
Thanks Apollonia!
You're welcome!
Brilliant wisdom!!
I like your videos and they are so educative. But I wanna know, is it cool to have a distance relationship???
Avoid long distance relationships! They don't work!
Your Awesome and so is she.
Can you please do a video on introverted women?
4 ladies at work hey compliment a lot. Specially about my physics and shirt. They laugh a lot.
Womans age at ny work saying that: are like 41, 60 and 63
My age 35!
What about women in the work place? There are several of my co workers, including higher ups, that find a reason or make time to come by my desk and let me know they are there. However, our office sexual harassment policy forbids me from making any compliment toward any women. My eye contact is even restricted.
How does a man handle that?
do not sh*t where you work
quit your job and work in a grocery store as a cashier
What if she says she wants to get closer but isn't sure about her feelings then?
Yes I'm confused
Hi Apollonia , wow today I got a compliment from a girl at work about my shoes,I've caught her looking at me, opened the door when I got stuck with her pass, her voice gets louder at times.. when she complemented me i said thank you . Am I exaggerating or is she into me.. Apollonia? I've meet her for 3 weeks so far and hardly see her.. she's gorgeous. 😁😁😁
Hello C N,
I would encourage you to start engaging in conversation with her. Ge to know her a bit then take it from there.
Best,
Apollonia