She Gave No Response At All

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  • @elsquibbs
    @elsquibbs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    It is essential to learn to get rejected but not dejected. Each time you get turned down, it hurts less than the last time. Once you realize that it's her loss, you won't care one bit.
    Getting rejected isn't the worst thing that can happen. Regretting not taking that chance? THAT'S the worst.

  • @vriendelijkegroet
    @vriendelijkegroet 7 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    I ask many woman out and get often rejected. It was scary but I changed my mindset years ago, "Rejection is the second best thing that can happen", at least you had the balls to ask! And woman like it, even if they say no!

    • @starseed855
      @starseed855 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Daar heb je zeker gelijk in. Alleen de reden dat ze het leuk vinden is meestal wel omdat hun ego gestreeld wordt

  • @marcusjhamat2400
    @marcusjhamat2400 8 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    my ex was someone who didn't want the same things out of life as me. I chased when we broke up and I realised, "why chase after something which is awful?" so I concentrated on myself and I found someone else who wants the exactly same things as me out of life!

  • @kemsteinotof5935
    @kemsteinotof5935 8 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I swear, this guy is so fucking good he makes other "Relationship Experts" out there sound like empty vessels. I stumbled upon a video two weeks ago, bought the book and I've read it 6 times now, it fucking works like magic. Women can't figure out why they're really attracted to me and the "James Bond" in me has finally emerged from the inside. I've never been so confident in my entire life. Corey your work is priceless. Thanks for being awesome and God bless you, man.

    • @johnbingaman3645
      @johnbingaman3645 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're absolutely right it will change your whole approach and the women just come,, like he says like a waterfall, you'll meet the right one I'll just knock your socks off... you applied and you got full success, other people don't believe to read that big book 6 to 10 times, knowledge is power money is power

  • @Champ1988
    @Champ1988 8 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    I appreciate your dedication, Coach. You literally could have just took a "break" since you're visiting family. You couldn't even get the scenery you wanted; and you still took the time to record. It's your job, sure. But you had every excuse not to make a video and you did anyway. Again, I appreciate your dedication.
    For the other men; no response is all the response you need. You see Coach making a vid in 100 degree weather, on travel, without his usual blazer. Most people would say "forget that! I'll wait til I get home. They have 2000 other videos to watch." My point is that any reason you try to rationalize why a girl is not responsive; other than her not being interested is utter denial. For example, I've dated ER nurses, grad students and top level executives that would text me at work and in class! And sometimes sexy pics! And I've dated girls in the past that were soooo busy with laundry and babysitting their cousin's-niece's-best friend's-sister's pet frog that they couldn't text me for days at a time. At day's end, there's interest level. And there's also the Reality Factor. For example, if a girl kisses you on a date but then never returns your call; no matter how long you dwell on that kiss, the Reality Factor is that her non-responsiveness indicates low interest, period. Those that know the book know what signs to look for to know where it'll go with a woman. Sometimes, the vibe is not there and men will try and force it due to physical attraction; while the woman sees no future and let's it fade. A 3% man picks up on the signs and he himself knows when to fold 'em. Always look at the Reality Factor.

  • @theofficialgreenkane
    @theofficialgreenkane ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm telling you fellas, regret is the worst feeling. Especially if you find an attractive girl who seems cool & you don't muster up the courage? Your gonna regret it. And even if she rejects you or gives you the number then ghosts, you don't feel AS upset. You feel proud of yourself you atleast tried. You can walk away with your head held high. Embarrassment is temporary. It goes away.

  • @famglaminvegas-KvlAngel
    @famglaminvegas-KvlAngel 8 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    if they make no real effort...I don't respond...a text is NOT effort

  • @sj8801
    @sj8801 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Honestly this shit drives me nuts. Women will offer me their IG/contact and even ask ME OUT and then don’t reply when I follow up. This happens to me most the the time. I follow up with something simple, nothing creepy and I get flaked on constantly. It’s having an affect on my mental health, I feel like a social pariah. Women have no idea how hard it is to be a man today.

  • @danielpv1763
    @danielpv1763 8 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I met a fantastic girl 2 months ago, attracted her with your techniques, stopped reading your book thinking the job was done, then clueless fell into a self-destructive spiral and eventually lost her due to my neediness and insecurities. I left the correct path but I am back. I look backwards to the other women in my life and see that I have been the only responsible for every loss. I know that if I lower my guard again I will lose another great girl down the road. No more mistakes, I am already 30 and I am the kind of man who wants to get married someday.

    • @bottlewaddle6677
      @bottlewaddle6677 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Daniel Patino Vieito exactly the same bro

  • @OiVinn-eq1ml
    @OiVinn-eq1ml ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Women are complicated AF. No need to torture ourselves to cheufer them & put all this energy into them. Work on yourself, make money, travel, work out, & the right one will come. Never chase a woman. The right one will Chase you!

  • @CaliSwagAustin
    @CaliSwagAustin 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This video just makes me smile. I've followed you for the last three years and it's really cool to see you just hanging out and enjoying your vacation but still dedicating your time to your followers. Idk man. I just really look up to you. You're almost like a father figure to me at this point to be honest. So drink a margarita or two for the fans, and keep on keepin' on :)

  • @FrozenMammothMusic
    @FrozenMammothMusic 8 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I kind of like this background better. It's more personal and honest and doesn't seem like I'm being sold something with the logos etc. Great vid.

  • @kamouzy
    @kamouzy 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Corey, ALL your teachings are so powerful.
    NOW I am 100% SURE women do have a 6TH SENSE. They can feel your masculin core 1000 miles away. I never had such feminine beauties all over me. Also my ex is now all over me AGAIN. It's so powerful you have no idea.
    All I did is bought your book, workout at the gym, radiate that masculin warrior, watch your videos, apply what you teach. And most importing I'm having a lot of fun. This process is amazing and it continues getting better. #LifeChanging

  • @T.Sullivan
    @T.Sullivan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I definitely get the vibe that coach has definitely done some psychedelics and has been enlightened

    • @realbobbyfilet
      @realbobbyfilet 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      T Sulli he wrote the book then read it 15-20,000 times 🤙🏻

    • @jossell911
      @jossell911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts💯

  • @zechariahtlee
    @zechariahtlee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks, Coach. I really needed this. I know how i should react but the hurt feelings still remained.

  • @haseo8162
    @haseo8162 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what corey says is the truth. Haven't bought your book but from what I've learned from watching your videos have helped me a lot. thanks bro.

  • @AlexanderLopez-oj4wg
    @AlexanderLopez-oj4wg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Corey Wayne is underrated, he should have at least 4 million subscribers by now minimum. YOU ARE THE MAN.

  • @omarsanchez9885
    @omarsanchez9885 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Tell yourself it's ok to get rejected. Wish I read the book more often. I bought it a couple years ago. Only read it once.

    • @Exotic_St4rxxx
      @Exotic_St4rxxx ปีที่แล้ว

      Rejected once I’d like alright but twice is a different story lol

  • @nebulae10
    @nebulae10 8 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    hey Corey read your book 25× sometimes i feel like a master and get complacent. . so i never stop☺

    • @kevincook8632
      @kevincook8632 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You should also try, How win friends & influence people. It is a great book. It is on audible.

    • @lorraineqxonthughesaokox3548
      @lorraineqxonthughesaokox3548 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have bought this book recently...how does it relate to dating/women though?

    • @Orgizo08
      @Orgizo08 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lorraineqxonthughesaokox3548 not sure if you’ll see this, but the principles in that book translate well to dating. If you’re haven’t yet just apply the book and see for yourself.

  • @timothyjoseph3867
    @timothyjoseph3867 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    That last story had me smiling like crazy.
    I'm going to do this shit!!

  • @mattriedle8902
    @mattriedle8902 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Why would he have to respond to “have a great weekend” after setting the date? Seems like his apologetic response the next morning might have been worse than not responding.

    • @Adrian-wh2ts
      @Adrian-wh2ts 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly what i was thinking. Its not like shes asking a question and phone texting is to set dates only?

  • @rockgnomemusicanddiy4670
    @rockgnomemusicanddiy4670 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Cory, I know your out on the boat right now, but I just gotta say, besides getting tons of knowledge from your book, on my 5th read right now, and watching your youtube video's many times, there are times when your humor just catches me off guard, keep up the great work man.

  • @RockwildazFamily
    @RockwildazFamily 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Corey, and everyone... women do that same read and don't reply until next day or 2 days or week or never. If you want to read it and not reply or not yet or you genuinely not busy, do YOU. If she is interested it doesn't matter when you reply or if you read and don't reply until next day. They themselves do it on purpose, some times it happens, they read, they read and not reply, they say they got busy. It all goes right back to how interested she is and if she is highly interested, it won't matter to her. Plus, you need her to think you're busy and not all about giving her all your time, and she will then crave your time. Make no sense giving your time to a women with low level of interest.

  • @shanewilliams8467
    @shanewilliams8467 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Done a phone session with the coach recently and his work is pretty spot on.. You got to get through the no's to get to the yess's. I would also like to add to that, that you got to get to and through the uglies to get to the hotties.. For some inexperienced guys out there to start off with some maybe 5s or 6s and will give you confidence to go after the 9s and 10s.. Something to think about in my opinion and experience

    • @telepathy7757
      @telepathy7757 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes once your getting 9s 10s consistency the 6s and 7s are always chomping at the bit we always get flakes and ghosts for what ever reason if you’ve played it right and follow the book they have a good chance of coming back stay cool calm and confident it’s all a game

  • @Orgizo08
    @Orgizo08 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love that Corey offers no short cuts.

  • @carlosmarquina6082
    @carlosmarquina6082 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That last one was encouraging as fuuuuuuck

  • @aleksandarandreev6451
    @aleksandarandreev6451 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Corey for all the work you have shared with us! Your book and videos have really changed my life to better! Continue being great!

  • @wolfs_Hobby
    @wolfs_Hobby 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    COACH COREY WAYNE Love your book. Read it 4 times i am currently on my 5th read!

    • @daver1161
      @daver1161 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      10 - 15? Did you reach it yet?

  • @vadim6921
    @vadim6921 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Corey, is your second book coming out next year? I read 3% man 7 time and listened to it 8 times, actively practicing and still learning the book. This knowledge should be in every high school as the required course "how to be a 3%", so man become unpussified from all the shit they show in movies etc and live the badass life :)

  • @bluetexastrucking5232
    @bluetexastrucking5232 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Aww I am getting Corey's book will read it 10-15 times game on!!!

    • @dannydhall5379
      @dannydhall5379 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too it arrives tomorrow I'm ready for a new start. Let's get it.

    • @mattrich1986
      @mattrich1986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Can’t lie it’s all good repetition with all different stories, I get it now you have to embed this new info, it changes you for the good. I don’t even care about the rejection, because when it happens I say to myself every girl isn’t for me which is ok. Imagine life if all girls said yes, it would be a boring life.

    • @dannydhall5379
      @dannydhall5379 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mattrich1986 awesome bro thanks for the advice.

  • @geoffreycurrie9582
    @geoffreycurrie9582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dont ask for a num straight up. Just find common interests. Chat about them intelligentlt. Funnily. And say let's go...... some time. Num naturally follows.

  • @Ma-yb9zt
    @Ma-yb9zt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I will never ask any girl to go out on a date i m just done with that

  • @do-uc6xj
    @do-uc6xj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If you meet a woman somewhere you know you will get a chance to talk to a second time, then I don't see why that would be creepy or weird to ask her out the second time you talk to her. If you only talk to someone one time for a few mins, if you know you will run into her again, it looks like you are just trying to ask out as many women as you can. That's fine too. But I don't see a problem with waiting till you have become a little more acquainted.

  • @aldawkins9517
    @aldawkins9517 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    her : hey
    me : hey ??

  • @arorajivlogs1641
    @arorajivlogs1641 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    girls themselves do this a lot, leave the msg on seen and reply 10 hours later.

  • @juliengonzales5473
    @juliengonzales5473 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dude. You are the best. i got alot of action this last weekend! 2 dates both successful! lile i been reading your book and on my tenth read through. i have applied it and now have my dance card all filled up each weekend.

    • @Rvu72
      @Rvu72 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      trur story?can you elaborate more?

    • @juliengonzales5473
      @juliengonzales5473 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i have dates set every weekend. just read the book. Apply the principals he teaches. I had a lot of failures. Mainly i would take the friend approach but i don't get friend zoned. Simply walking away. i have been fallowing Coach for 3 years now and still feel like i can learn more. i don't know how i can elaborate anymore because your question is too vague.. The Audio book is pretty good, he reads it himself. If i get stuck on somethings i always read or look up a on the topic so i don't f up my chances of getting layed. i have 2 girlfriends. Always room for one more lol

    • @Dan01-01
      @Dan01-01 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Julien Gonzales "2 girlfriends" lol

  • @mateocarlos2674
    @mateocarlos2674 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    You're either the confident alpha male, or not. Anything less will get you nothing, or table scraps.

    • @Exotic_St4rxxx
      @Exotic_St4rxxx ปีที่แล้ว

      No thank you on the table scraps. PASS.

  • @richarddawson671
    @richarddawson671 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I met a beautiful women at the start of December when I applied myself to the task of retaking my numeracy and literacy,
    For the first time in my life since turning sixteen and I thought I had success, she approached me (which never has happened before).
    I had previously decided that I wanted to walk away from the subject of finding someone due to my countless failures with women,
    But I was so excited as she brung all my walls down and made me think it could happen and that I could trust again.
    I spent time when I could getting to know her and giving her pieces of me here and there,
    I then decided to ask her out for valentine's as I had heard that she had never had a proper valentines and had been hurt in the past during an overheard conversation.
    She said yes with what I appeared was enthusiasm, so I arranged the date and spent a decent amount of money on gifts and flowers and then met up with her.
    It felt so good to be building up trust and positive mutual interest with this person, she made me feel amazing.
    I was then asked to arrive at hers the next day to have lunch at her mums house, I told her I would be able to make, however first I had I wanted to attend a funeral of a very close friend of mine who had recently passed away.
    She said it was fine and that she would see me when I got back,
    I can tell you now despite what I had felt for a number of days, the one thing that made me happy was the thought of seeing her again.
    I had lunch with her and then offered to accompany her to an appointment for the lucky lady's nails, she then proceeded to say (and I quote) "this isn't going to work, you can go now and I won't be needing you anymore".
    I immediately challenged her on her behaviour and explained my issues that I had with the situation, namely that I had come from a funeral and that I felt there weren't many words to describe what I was feeling in the moment.
    The words "lack of self esteem", "I'm afraid" and "it's not you, it's me" were used.
    To which I said, no you can tell me what I did wrong if you want, as I would prefer to know this so I may improve upon it.
    She had her back to me while saying all of this and then ignored me and entered the shop.
    I decided once I had time to think about it, to text her to explain that I forgive her and wont hold her decision against her and offers to walk her to and from work whenever I had free time, she replied "No the only time we will see each other is at numeracy". asked for an explanation as I want women to tell me what I do wrong so I can learn from my mistakes.
    I got no reply, and now everytime I see her in numeracy course lessons she won't work with me, acknowledge me but keeps giving me quick sideways looks.
    I asked her one final time what the problem was and if she just wanted to be friends and if she even wanted me next to her,
    The reply I got was " we are fine as we are".
    Having no idea what to make of this i decided to delete her number, delete her from Facebook and messenger as It occurred she wanted her own space, I happily obliged and said "well you know where to find me if you change your mind and walked away.
    I still feel that I like this one,
    And if there's a chance,
    What do I do?, and is it worth it?.

  • @berineayala4767
    @berineayala4767 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for you advice Corey you’ve changed my life!

  • @formulaeightyeight6202
    @formulaeightyeight6202 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Found this looking for ways to stop flaking from a girl! Met a girl online & called her to feel her out. We got along well. She even texted me after in a long message saying how it was great talking and that she looked forward to hearing from me. Texted her as promised once I "had a plan" (the next am). Fairly long text but well planned date wise. Time place and even told her the attire to wear. She replies, "ok, sounds good lol." I reply "great. see you then" and no response from her. Shud I be worried?

    • @formulaeightyeight6202
      @formulaeightyeight6202 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I did reach out. After re-reading it sje,definitely agreed. I just think I read into it 2 much. Basically told her I was looking forward to talking more in person. She said me too" with an emoji. She responded wirhin minutes, so I'll take it for what it is but I'll have 2 see when the,day comes. Bro she is SMOKING

    • @formulaeightyeight6202
      @formulaeightyeight6202 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      So when I reached out on Sunday I got a fast reply. Said I was looking forward to talking more in person & she said her too. Haven't heard from her since. I'm such a noob. Date is tomorrow. Been reading forums and it looks like flaking is common. Day of do I just show up? And not even text beforehand pretending I'll be late?

    • @formulaeightyeight6202
      @formulaeightyeight6202 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kast Thurs, I hit her up an hr before and she said she forgot! Right then, I knew it was a goner. But she insisted on meeting Friday and promised shed be there. She did show up. But she was constantly looking around and barely asked any questions. Ay the end of it I went for the kiss and she clised her lips saying she didn't kiss on first date. Told me to let her know I made it home, flipped it on her and haven't taljed since. That is a done deal un my eyes. Such a draining date and a waste of money. My gut even told me not to even bother rescheduling. Oh and shr was late.

    • @formulaeightyeight6202
      @formulaeightyeight6202 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Even if she does reach out there's an 8 out of 10 chance I'll do nothing. After she curved my kiss attempt I got turned off. Look she's a 7.7. Great ass and all. But even then my gut won't leave me alone whenever I think about her. She just gives me an uneasy distrusing feeling that i can't shake and i promise i was close to not even rescheduling. Online dating is a pain dude. They are either 10 to 20 lbs fatter in person or they still look cute but they suck. Can't win for losing ha

  • @Hahja234
    @Hahja234 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Text her "Stop it!"
    Her: "stop what?"
    You: thinking of me🤣🤣

  • @0626anime
    @0626anime 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My only problem is conversation. I don't know how to lead or start a conversation. I'm going through the book for the second time. I'm about halfway through.

  • @rodrigobecerril7267
    @rodrigobecerril7267 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video!!
    Thanks so much for the work you're doing Coach!

  • @BorislavVartigorov
    @BorislavVartigorov 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great Video,i can't stop learning from you, thanks you for all the knowledge !

  • @Sasa-rr9zf
    @Sasa-rr9zf 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love your work Mr Corey keep it coming...I have noticed however that the things you teach works more on more mature ladies, young girls seem to be all over the place its bit of hit and miss lol

  • @codename47c
    @codename47c 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i like the change of backgorund and casual clothing looks more fresh. great video coach.

  • @illstateofmind
    @illstateofmind 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That last letter was funny AF.

  • @williamheinsinger7390
    @williamheinsinger7390 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You Rock Coach ,keep up the good work 👍

  • @NoisySheep7
    @NoisySheep7 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I do well with women, they live me,... but this one girl I want doesnt know how well I do with other women, its frustrating because she just dont know what shes missing and I dont know how to show her.

  • @reeceholland2796
    @reeceholland2796 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Still can't get over my confidence issues due to my acne problems. What is the best way to get over this limiting belief?

    • @zukoher
      @zukoher 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Oddly enough, if you act like it doesn't matter and really believe this with confidence, it doesn't matter. Just gotta believe.

    • @jayjayriley816
      @jayjayriley816 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alpha male

    • @OXBULLSPC
      @OXBULLSPC 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      work out bro....drink water...quit the fat boy slob diet...scrub your back hard on that back acne during showers...dont pick on your acne...move with a purpose

    • @macioluko9484
      @macioluko9484 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I had a major acne issue in HS and College. It bothered me but I got through it by focusing on my soccer and studies. Looking back the acne was a result of the insane pressure of being popular in HS and not knowing how to stay centered at a time when big decisions had to be made in my life and the lack of experience and guidance at the time. Your passions will be your best bet to get through this.

    • @Dan01-01
      @Dan01-01 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      eat less pork meat. pork worsens acne. also. pretty much everyone has it so don't bother with your appearance. just don't eat as much pork if that is what you're doing

  • @pc-notprimaryemail2743
    @pc-notprimaryemail2743 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Coach, can you please cover what to do when you have walked away and are in the no contact zone, where your ex may reach out just to tell you that she has put some of your stuff somewhere for you to collect etc. She is not asking questions about how I am etc. But do I respond at all?

  • @miguelfloriano9039
    @miguelfloriano9039 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Coach how come in online dating you reach out to a girl and they don't respond like just to say they're not interested and just leaves you hang ...what gives. I know i know if they don't respond they aren't interested but communicate that to us..

    • @juliusknuckles46
      @juliusknuckles46 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I used online dating in the past. I set up a profile using Corey's template and I didn't contact any women. The one's that were interested contacted me first.

    • @pennydean7956
      @pennydean7956 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I do online dating and to me it is a pure confidence thing. When I log on I get probably about 5 messages from new men and then around 3 or 4 from men I have had 'chats' with before, who are saying hello. But I have a life and I only really want to spend 30 - 60 minutes max online twice a week, give out my number to the alpha's and get me some dates, so the new guys have to stand out and the 'chat' guys have to up their game.
      Women who have confidence themselves, and this shows in their profile, will be inundated with messages and regardless as to if they are a nice person or not they just can't message them all back, it gets very time consuming (and actually pretty boring) to start a conversation with several men then try and 'get to know' each other online. And it gets tricky as if you give some men an inch they will ask for a mile. As you know 97% of men can turn into needy creatures under such circumstances. For example one guy I actually went on a date with then decided not to see anymore blew up my phone so much I had to say no really strongly to him 4 times over a period of a month! This was then followed by another guy who took 3 no's! So as a consequence I became very wary of who I flirted with online (I am saying this to give you a insight into a confident woman experience).
      Confidence shows in the content of your message. Men that seem to be interviewing me usually get a reply (very alpha). Men that just give me a compliment without anything else.. usually also get reply. I mean he has noticed me and likes my profile picture but then not implied we are a match and I should check out his profile.. who is this guy.. I need to go find out. I consider this the equivalent of the across the crowded room flirt.
      Also just like a guy that is very assured of himself, his likes and his life. If he tells me in a couple of sentences what kind of man he is by explaining his passions and successes as though he has slayed a dragon then I will definitely reply to him. love this level of confidence and assurance.
      hope this helped a little.

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @pennydean thanks for sharing. Good comment

    • @pennydean7956
      @pennydean7956 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Daimonon,
      I really like your support of Miguel from a man’s point of view. You make some very good points and reminded him the best thing to do is set up an awesome profile and let the girls come to him. Which is solid Corey advice and comes back to the make your own life awesome principle.
      I also can concede to the truth that online dating does not represent real life and anyone can get an inflated confidence boost when getting likes or messages through these applications. This is a very good point and all online dating should be taken with a grain of salt until you meet the person and find out what they are really like. Solid don’t invest to soon strategy.
      However I do feel a need to defend against the board brush stroke you have applied to all women in that a man’s looks are ultimately important. Maybe it is true for younger woman who don’t really know what makes a good quality man but I disagree it is true for all woman. If a man has total confidence, a strong sense of self worth (including an acceptance about how he looks) and owns his universe then this is the most important thing to make him attractive. Personally I would never use a rating system on a man when thinking about his looks. To me it doesn’t serve a purpose and it would be extremely dishonoring and disrespectful to him to even assume I had a right to do so. Also I just don’t know how I would do it as it is the entire package that I am attracted to not just the parts.
      Finally on the rules of engagement thing - I can see how my message might have read like this but to be honest it was just because I was trying to make a point to Miguel about how to write with confidence. But if it is not done with true confidence then it will come across as a bit gamesy.
      The truth is that I don’t have a mental rulebook for dating, I have never really thought about it much before this post. I am a much more fly by the seat of my pants girl and I let my feelings, desire for pleasure and desire for fun guide me towards or away from men. These feeling decisions are based on a lot of internal work I have done on my own self esteem and my goals for the future to figure out what I need and want from a partner and an extraordinary relationship. A masculine confident man is a must, so I naturally answer messages with this type of energy… and then I literally run out of time for some of the other messages. When I do have quieter visits to the dating site then I also happily message men on the site and risk the rejection like everyone else here.
      I hope Miguel takes what he needs from both our view points. I believe we both had the same positive intention to help him, which is great. Just two slightly different points of view. ; )
      Best.

    • @pennydean7956
      @pennydean7956 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks @CoachCoreyWayne. You are very inspiring by the way. Made me rethink many many of my behaviours and now I consider myself a lot more giving and a less structured woman to be around. : ). Also need to thank for putting me back onto Tony Robbins. Just did the Sydney UPW and it totally transformed me. What a party!!! What a life experience!!!

  • @juzzblaze9116
    @juzzblaze9116 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just cant seem to get this right , i go on a date witha female and i did nothing to make her uncomfortable and she act like she is sooooo uniterested maybe its because i didn't make a move on her?

  • @pvpat92
    @pvpat92 ปีที่แล้ว

    There is absolutely NO reason to EVER have read receipts on.

  • @kathryndavidson4239
    @kathryndavidson4239 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Do you help females understand men as well? I'm guessing no but I thought I'd ask.

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  8 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Of course. I answer questions from women in videos all the time.

  • @MasterChief-ht9pg
    @MasterChief-ht9pg 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey fellas so I've been reading a watching coach for a while now and used what he says with this girl that I met at my MMA gym and things are going really well with her so far but she's going off to school for a few months overseas. What should I do about this? I don't think I should be the one to bring it up but if it is brought up by her, what should my response be?

  • @bransoh12
    @bransoh12 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you corey for your insights yet again :)

  • @ZeusMegabeard
    @ZeusMegabeard 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Only read the book 9 times in 5 months??? I read it 10 times in 1 month and I reckon I could do it in a few hours now as I'm flirting with speed reading.

  • @RanySemaan
    @RanySemaan 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello corey
    What does it mean when a coworker tells she is not ready for a relation. she said she just got out of one (4 years).
    On the other hand, should I buy her a gift on her birthday or is it considered a bribe ?

  • @gp5
    @gp5 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Corey, I want to know if what you teach applies only to American women or all women from around the world? I ask because cultures around the world differ along with women's mentality.

  • @MohawkFlippinMike
    @MohawkFlippinMike 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We text Sunday...she normally text me after her work on afternoons...then on Wednesday she commented back and forth with me on fb...today is Friday...do I text and ask what she is doing this weekend or to make some dinner?

    • @lankdup
      @lankdup 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      how did this work out? its been 2 years, please tell me you didnt ask her out through text, call her on FaceTime, tell her you want to see her and when she is available.

    • @MohawkFlippinMike
      @MohawkFlippinMike 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lankdup lol wow I remember this, she ended up thinking I was avoiding her. I text her and she was mad then I explained I wasn’t trying to avoid her and we ended up going on dates after, long story short I moved away but we had many great dates and still keep in contact

  • @mr.dccomics9018
    @mr.dccomics9018 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Could you make a video on how to read faster. Or refer them to some kind of speed reading technique you use to read faster.

  • @caesar1307
    @caesar1307 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your videos @CoreyWayne. I dont want to put my whole life here, but what is your advice for a man who is mid 30s that didn't too much work in gaming and I only based my success on my looks. Now that I am getting older, I lost my confidence after me and my ex fiancee breakup. I've tried to compensate after with many other women but it seems my vibe is not there anymore and I feel like I damaged my brain and act like a b..ch or I suffer from trauma. Any advice for similar experiences would be appreciated.

    • @s.y.6932
      @s.y.6932 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Take your time, you don't need to jump into another relationship right away. I am a 40 year old woman and I have learned that most of the time we rush things thinking that our time is running out, I remember when I was 17 I wanted to finish my degree as fast as could, and I ended up picking the wrong career , then when I was in my mid twenties I was desperate to get married, and I ended up settling, when I was in my thirties I was in a hurry to have babies thinking that I was not going to be fertile later on, so all my life has been like a competition trying to finish as fast as I can, and now I realized that there is plenty of time to do everything, therefore, don't rush anything, you're very young, embrace your look, now you are a mature man, that's very attractive for women, dress nicely and enjoy your time.

  • @galojames2380
    @galojames2380 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    But what if she played the game first?

    • @Xcoming2
      @Xcoming2 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      tell her - GAME OVER!!

  • @a531031
    @a531031 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Coach Cory is the fucking truth! My ex of two years. Has come back around. We broke up in May 2016 she's reached out couple times and wasn't able to set a date because of my situation with my business.so in August she reached out made a fucking date. I get there we did at the house stay at her place she was almost naked panties and a shirt I bought her from Boston tight fucking V-neck white T-shirt literally just telling me a come fuck me big boy. Second day we go to a couple restaurants couple bars have a great time get that car place come to a little resistance pull back a little bit go to talking and then she comes on and says hey look you know I've been dating somebody that's it OK that's fine he can keep you busy when you're not with me LOL. End up having the indoor Olympics. And to speed things up now this is September she has told me that she told the other Guy that basically she doesn't want to see him anymore so the moral of this story is if you read the book which I've read the book at least50+ times within the last three years watch hundreds maybe thousands of videos of coaches videos I live and die by this fucking routine he's got for us there is no motherfucking way to do it if you try to make your own game I should call the game if you try to make your own system when you hardly have assistant coach you just going to fucking fail you have to do everything in the beginning exactly what he says it . And I know you might feel like a fucking robot but this what you got to do you got to do it that way and then once you start to see results and you can loosen up a little bit as far as you know Megan everything you know into your own words but in the beginning don't be shy you since fucking words used exactly what he said and do exactly as he sends and you will have no fucking problem. When I found coaches work my first relationship didn't go well because I wasn't you know fully committed and I wasn't absorbing all the information that you had with the second relationship I was still and I was still on board I was still focusing on what needed to be done as far as my as far as my training with the system but I was still not in a good place as far as need not be in a good place and you know you know my job my Business and if those things are not in fucking order is not going to work you got to have you should together man glad to have you shoot together you can't make somebody else happy unless you are happy and you are successful just the way it is. But yeah just want to say thank you Coach man I have the woman of my dreams I have the woman of my life woman I love all cause you just want to say thanks man I love you

  • @DatBoyJames
    @DatBoyJames 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The Motherfucking Coach! Eversince my success story and you going over it in a video, I've been one of your biggest fans man. Would love to meet you one day. But you've really changed my life. Thank you so much for giving your wisdom to us young cats who really don't have a clue about nothing even we say we do. You're the man!

    • @Blodia1990
      @Blodia1990 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What's the video's title brother

    • @DatBoyJames
      @DatBoyJames 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Seduction: Crash and burn to success!! I'm the third email!

  • @Miha9355
    @Miha9355 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a question. I was on the bus few days ago, and I saw this hot girl checking me out, great eye contact haha, she exited at the same station as me, so I approached her (this was my first time approaching a girl on the street btw), and I was like "hey, I could not let you walk away without introducing myself", she gave a great respond, I asked few basic questions (name, where is she from) and said "hey, I'm in a rush right now, just give me your number so we can talk" and she did.
    I sent her a text day after that "hey, I'm the guy who made your day yesterday, add me on facebook" and she responded "Okay, I will" , few days passed but she didn't and I didn't send any more texts after that. She gave me IOI's in person, her respond to my approach was good and she gave me the number right of the bat.
    So my question is, should I text her something again and what?

    • @DualityofManLimited
      @DualityofManLimited 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Cut the Facebook bullshit. You CALL once and ask her out. She says anything but yes forget her and move on.

    • @marcoRTpolo
      @marcoRTpolo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Never double text, think of texting like tennis, the balls in her court.

    • @Monaleen85
      @Monaleen85 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You had her number, why ask for FB request? You should have asked her out either on the day you met her or called her to set up a date. Get straight to the point, no beating around the bush👍🏻

  • @Ma-yb9zt
    @Ma-yb9zt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My reputation is not so good and people percieve me bad and girl i like allways go eith other guy my whole life and i dont want to go through that again i just want peace

  • @baxolelebusakwe7005
    @baxolelebusakwe7005 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My gf and I have been dating for almost 2 years. We met in varsity. I finished my degree last year and moved to a city 1000 miles from her for work & so I havent seen her for 5 months. For the past 3 months things have been rough, I guess the distance was interfering a little. About a week ago, I insulted her and said messed up stuff that I now regret. This wasn't the first time. Since then, she hasn't been picking up my calls, and so I got desperate sent her a bunch of sms's apologising . Also sent an e-mail and she replied and it wasnt good, she dumped me over an e-mail. However, when I called her a few days ago, she auto rejected my number but later on, her phone rang again meaning she removed my number from the reject list but still didn't pick up. Saturday she picked up but was really cold. Her voice was down , she sounded sick. When she picked up, it was a damn miracle. I started to say every line from all the romantic movies I've seen my entire life, telling her how sorry I was and that she shouldn't leave me. She replied,"The e-mail I sent u, has everything u need to hear, please stop calling me, stop making things hard for me. I have joined psychology classes coz of all the messed up stuff u say when u angry at me, I love u but we cant be together." She then hung up :/. I tried to call again and again. She then picked up and i just said, "Hey i just wanna say Gudnyt", she replied,"Gudnyt to u too". I realise that i hurt the girl and i wanna make things right. I know she loves me and I really love that gal, I've never chased after a gal before but she's worth it. I don't know what my next step should be coz the calling every 2 hours doesnt work. I'm planning to see her next month coz I feel like things would be much better face2face. Yesterday I called her and she made it clear that she hates me and she'll forever block my number and that she doesnt want to see me ever again. If anyone has a good idea on what my next step should be, help me out coz im losing sleep.
    PS Im currently working on my personal issues with a social worker

    • @harh275
      @harh275 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Baxolele Busakwe just use no contact as ccw tells... in the meantime go for other girls.. u sitting there crying feeling miserable is not going to help u anyway..

    • @baxolelebusakwe7005
      @baxolelebusakwe7005 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alkaiser Thnx. That's what I've been going and I gotta say I do miss her but I'm happier.

    • @f.lashby8298
      @f.lashby8298 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Baxolele Busakwe man...let her go. There's so many beautiful women out there. Don't put her on a pedestal

  • @lappoo5875
    @lappoo5875 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    text her back and say " C U Next Tuesday :) "

  • @kamalkapoor9932
    @kamalkapoor9932 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    hey coach which is your favourite dating fragrance?

  • @nebakanezaforevermore2452
    @nebakanezaforevermore2452 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    lol dude in the email said "most of your books and videos are about relationships and dealing with women" lol he probably just discovered the coach

  • @ebidash
    @ebidash 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bought your audio version!!

  • @spaceghostpurpz4744
    @spaceghostpurpz4744 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    nice to see a different backround

  • @daniy8771
    @daniy8771 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I wonder if it's a good idea to give his book to someone I've been dating for a while? Or is that a no no. I want him to have it without knowing it was me who gave it to him

  • @OXBULLSPC
    @OXBULLSPC 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mr Wayne what do you think of sandmans videos?

  • @pideri
    @pideri 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish you would do a video with Brent Smith, you 2, are my guides:)

  • @jrguitar1552
    @jrguitar1552 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That's an "ozzy quote " man! Lol

    • @jrguitar1552
      @jrguitar1552 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      "You've got to believe in yourself , or no one will believe in you "

  • @CJVIagic
    @CJVIagic 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks coach, you're the man. From across the pond. Keep it up!

  • @jleo2707
    @jleo2707 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    We love you coach, but the old backdrop was better 😚

  • @bobbydrives7012
    @bobbydrives7012 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you do a video on how to play it cool?

    • @bharris0619
      @bharris0619 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      well, if you follow Coreys directions you dont have to act cool, you'll be cool.

  • @Cybraxas
    @Cybraxas 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great vid Corey, thanks

  • @Skycube100
    @Skycube100 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just gonna ask, what if you are talking with this girl for like everyday online, and then suddenly the next day you haven't started a conversation, is it still fine? Or she'll going to take that personally? I'd bet that she will but I hope not XD

    • @DualityofManLimited
      @DualityofManLimited 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If you're talking to her everyday online you are killing challenge and will come to be seen as routine and then boring. Use phone/online to set dates, that's it.

  • @MrVman202
    @MrVman202 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    great success story

  • @Reviewscentral2
    @Reviewscentral2 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    No joke here, but a woman I dated and broke it off with me contacted me 6 years later. Couldn't believe it.

    • @sandwich-breath
      @sandwich-breath 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s something. How’d it go?

    • @Reviewscentral2
      @Reviewscentral2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sandwich-breath when she contacted after 6 years, I had got married and moved on. I didn't tell her that, but declined her offer in a nice way. That's life.

    • @sandwich-breath
      @sandwich-breath 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Reviewscentral2 good on you for moving on. I would have told her, either way it’s a good ending

  • @shanefanon
    @shanefanon 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Do a video on WHEN YOUR GIRLFTIRND GIVES YOU THE SILENT TREATMENT ... Thanks.

  • @worldominiongames6208
    @worldominiongames6208 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    hey coach, what's your opinion on ghosting?

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  8 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      it's rude

    • @cindiheaton1048
      @cindiheaton1048 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@CoachCoreyWayne It is rude. I think it shows fear and insecurity of the person doing it like they are too afraid to speak their truth, which could be done in a nice manner.
      Kind of like someone who lies to avoid hurting your feelings but when you find out they lied it hurts worse!

  • @jesseglace4301
    @jesseglace4301 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The last email was the bomb 😂😂😂

  • @yethboth7873
    @yethboth7873 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Coach, I'm from the UK originally from Portsmouth, Hampshire which is in the bottom centre of England. Out of curiosity, whereabouts in the UK was your girlfriend from that you dated for a long time?

  • @ebidash
    @ebidash 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome!!!

  • @naijakem
    @naijakem 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    coach, what happened to the background...and the blazer? what's up, man?!

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You obviously were not paying attention to anything I said in the video because I explained in the video why.

    • @naijakem
      @naijakem 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I jumped the gun, Coach. I realized what happened Right after I sent the question you had explained why the set-up was different.

    • @JRogersTV
      @JRogersTV 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Damn bro Coach Corey's getting snappy these days. Must be tired of these wimpy ass dudes emailing him and not reading the book.

  • @LRF49
    @LRF49 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Text kill relationships or possible dates.

  • @Ma-yb9zt
    @Ma-yb9zt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alone but i will be at peace

  • @rik-keymusic160
    @rik-keymusic160 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    But i mostely don’t meet high Quality woman…

  • @olflatop
    @olflatop 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That last guy's story is kinda gross. Sounds a bit sketchy. Not judging, just saying value your health and have some boundaries dude. The ones that are worth it will wait a couple of dates.

  • @gcor1952
    @gcor1952 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I used to be fast! Now I am half fast.........

  • @yousraadly7341
    @yousraadly7341 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ignoring a person is my way to yell them you mean s***t to me but nicely and that happens after a mess they cause or tried to they turn from hero to zerro like that to me and so i use that to get rid off them but also nicely ,time is gold 😂

    • @yousraadly7341
      @yousraadly7341 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@skyfall1481 excatly it is self/others respect is what diffrenciate those who from came Desent healthy families/environments from punks/scum or earth types , i dont even check these types activities/up to notice weather they send me or nor not to block them at first place , block or fight could be much of a value you give to these types . To me they dont exists, idont see /notice them & from my mental/emotional system is were i really block these because they normally use troll accounts to re impose their self on you .

    • @yousraadly7341
      @yousraadly7341 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@skyfall1481 capable of walk way is one of my skills, that never been the issue for me, is allowing in is the issue it is difficult to trust people honestly & soul is sweet .😁

    • @yousraadly7341
      @yousraadly7341 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@skyfall1481 thank you .

  • @shth-le6li
    @shth-le6li 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So I met this girl a month after I Moved to California. She worked next door to where I worked so after seeing her come in once to ask to split a bill for her I immediately thought "who is this girl and I need to go ask her out". It took me a week to get it together enough and went and asked her out( made some dumb jokes and she loved it)
    well we went out found out she had a boyfriend and said it was OK , I just want to be friends.
    2 dates later and we are laying on the beach and having a lot of fun together , dancing, picking her up and spinning around etc. Right as we were going to kiss i stopped myself since I remember she had a BF. ( she cheats on him probably cheat on me)
    I chose to leave it alone after she flaked 3 times for dates .
    I wanted a relationship and she just wanted to feel something other than her BF.
    I wish I had just fucking kissed her if I knew it wouldnt have worked out.
    now she's chasing her ex after he dumped her.

    • @shth-le6li
      @shth-le6li 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      "split a bill as in needed change for three 20$ bills. "

    • @thenarcissistsscapegoat5091
      @thenarcissistsscapegoat5091 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You did the right thing. She wanted someone to make her BF jealous and you held back. Imagine you'd have kissed her and thought shit was going to go your way and then she blew you off. Now she's still in your inventory for a future time.

  • @acollier325
    @acollier325 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why haven't you talked about the national anthem protest? please make a video coach

  • @emmanuelroswell9464
    @emmanuelroswell9464 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    new background. on vacation?