Loss of libido after having children?

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 พ.ย. 2024

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  • @Gamer_Mama_0611
    @Gamer_Mama_0611 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Glad I watched. I will be booking a doctors appointment now. I was worried it was psychological & my husband & I have been very open in discussing this issue. He & I are both exhausted new parents. I do extra because i have no village of help, & he works exra because of the lovely economy. Crazy thing is we really love, understand, & respect each other more now...but my libido just randomly turned off once I got pregnant. Now Im worried im spotting hormonal changes in myself. Its been 16 months after having our baby, I wonder if any other women have had this exact shock because most of the women ive spoken to admit to feeling emotionally distanced but for me its like i hit backwards puberty. 😭

  • @masonldn8647
    @masonldn8647 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dont say couples, say women lose it

    • @Gamer_Mama_0611
      @Gamer_Mama_0611 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You can't speak for all men. I knew some guys who weren't that sexual. Some men are even Asexual. Hell, some men are just overworked & freakin exhausted.
      ✨️The more you know✨️

  • @imjustjoshing550
    @imjustjoshing550 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The Host did not enjoy being corrected for calling Men out at the end that way! #WayToGoDoctor

  • @brotherted9212
    @brotherted9212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This was too politically correct to ask the real question: Yes, wives should be free to say no whenever they want, but if they do that *always* or even just *too often* after having kids, how much damage does that do to the relationship?
    Many wives, particularly feminists, believe their right to an infinite number of "no's" therefore also ought to mean it'll have no negative effect on the man, presuming he's evolved and modern. That any feminist husband, in other words, will celebrate the beautiful feminism of a wife agreeing to sex once/year -- because the more her needs become primary -- the bigger blow to toxic sexism & the more forward-thinking they both are. But they don't say it that way of course -- what they say is that "consent" is the only issue, and fully respecting consent literally makes infinite "no's" not a problem.
    That conversation ought to be had. Instead, this skirted the real issues behind loss of libido.

    • @Gamer_Mama_0611
      @Gamer_Mama_0611 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You made no sense.
      Look dude the Oxford Definition of Feminism: The advocacy of women's rights in terms of equality. This does not give us power to trap you in a one sided relationship. Ask any therapist, psychologist, or relationship counselor & they will tell you that you have options (sane consenting options). You can discuss your needs, options or alternatives to fulfilling those needs, & if your needs aren't a concern to your partner you have the God given free will to walk out of the relationship. No one is trapping you there. You simply have irreconcilable differences. You also have options to see her as person who may be going through something & maybe you never understood that relationships have seasons. We aren't always in our summer dating phase. Maybe someday you could face a tragic loss & wouldn't be your normally chipper self & her being supportive & patience, by your side is a gift to your relationship. Look bro being a male feminist doesn't mean you gotta worship her & become some influencer on TH-cam, it's about supporting equal rights in terms of all aspects of life. If you feel immaculated or less than a man because she doesn't live for your male validation then I'm sorry your girl's got a brain in her head. Not to worry tho lazy lad, there are still women out there who's Love Language is Touch. Just stop looking at smart ambitious women as conquests to try & tame. Let that pony run way ahead into the horizons. Stop posing as good guys who want to be boy scout leaders. There are literally tons of thirsty people out there, stop looking down upon them. They are your people.

  • @ultrakoolyvibes7505
    @ultrakoolyvibes7505 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice show #ultrakooly

  • @Americana-ec
    @Americana-ec 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Female equivalent of bro science