STOP LETTING PEOPLE DISRESPECT YOU | TRENT SHELTON

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  • What you keep allowing will continue. You are always in control of what YOU ACCEPT! Straight up!
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  • @TravelWitMi
    @TravelWitMi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    At this point, everyone has been taken advantage of in their lives. I’ve been encouraging, supporting and listening to people for a while until I decided to focus on myself.

  • @MRSAJUAREZ123
    @MRSAJUAREZ123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    That is SO true! Now I’m selfish because I do not tolerate their BS

    • @amandakropen3273
      @amandakropen3273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm hearing the "selfish" card too. :(

    • @gwill3097
      @gwill3097 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yep! I'm learning when people attack and call me "selfish" it reveals who they really are and is confirmation I made the right decision!

    • @Rodogg7787
      @Rodogg7787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too! But I don't care what they say anymore!

    • @Onelove858
      @Onelove858 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      4 realllll

  • @MRSAJUAREZ123
    @MRSAJUAREZ123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Love them from a distance

  • @TonyaJeanSkillman
    @TonyaJeanSkillman 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hallelujah! Amen! That there wS a beautiful sermon my man!

  • @LizaJane761
    @LizaJane761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Yes my mom was one of the strongest Christian women always giving God praise and glory. She had many many struggles, addictions she overcame. But she never stopped believing in God and never stopped praying.

    • @Rodogg7787
      @Rodogg7787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's what it's all about

    • @GSDKXV
      @GSDKXV 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If Israel is the land of gods chosen people, why didn’t he use his power to stop the holocaust? He was either able to prevent it, or he was unwilling.
      Why would you worship a god that has the power to stop suffering but doesn’t? Why would he design bone cancer in children?
      How can there be intelligent design when people need glasses?

  • @marilyndafeta3064
    @marilyndafeta3064 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I don’t tolerate it any longer..not even by a long shot..from anyone

  • @williamrobinson4513
    @williamrobinson4513 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm already experiencing this today. As far as I'm concerned, I HAVE TO LIMIT MY TIME AROUND THOSE KIND OF PEOPLE. They're NOT GOING TO LIKE THIS.

  • @MRSAJUAREZ123
    @MRSAJUAREZ123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I am trying harder day after day! When it’s your own children it is difficult but not impossible. I’m working on me and my peace day by day

    • @LizaJane761
      @LizaJane761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙏🏻

    • @terriehouston2058
      @terriehouston2058 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm sorry but if you're kid's is not respecting you on all level it's time to stand your ground alone if needed.that's what I did months ago and still doing it. And there's so much peace in my life now I miss them sometime but I had choose me because after so long they take advantage of your kindness as that old saying go if I don't stand for something I'll fall for anything.not saying walk away for good but let them see you love yourself just as much as they love themselves. Walk out on Faith God got ya🐑🕊️🕊️🕊️⚓⚓⚓

    • @Onelove858
      @Onelove858 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@terriehouston2058 amen. I'm doing the same. 💝

  • @ladylaura93
    @ladylaura93 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I have been there before...not this year!! I'd rather eat a small meal on the corner of a roof, alone!! Then, to enjoy a 5 course meal with a group full of drama!! I'm enjoying my time with me...no more settling:)

  • @SundayCookingRemix
    @SundayCookingRemix 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amen
    Life isn't a tupac song
    I have no problem with ppl believing I'm cold hearted

  • @jordanbird5617
    @jordanbird5617 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    When you really love someone so much. You will do absolutely anything to help them out in a jam without asking for nothing in return. Also being totally proud of the success they are right now. THE REAL LOVE IS TO ALWAYS DO THINGS BY THE KINDNESS OF YOUR HEART AND NOT TO DO THINGS JUST TO GET SOMETHING OUT OF THEM!

  • @joannegillen8157
    @joannegillen8157 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Trent, Your Momma is very PROUD OF YOU &Angels are watching over You 🙏 Keep the Faith & keep doing what your doing 🙏🙏🙏

  • @LizaJane761
    @LizaJane761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I really needed this. I struggle with relationship with my dad and brother. I try and try and try but they don’t want it. I’m tired of being let down and hurt and feeling unloved, unworthy, and unwanted. I lost my Mama almost two years ago to lung cancer and she was really the only person I had as far as immediate family. I know what I need to do. Please pray strength for me.

    • @amyhicks2837
      @amyhicks2837 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stop trying. Give this to the Lord. That's what he wants us to do. Have faith that He's got this! He will lead, you must follow. He's the Shepherd were the sheep. God loves you we all love you. Never doubt yourself. Let them know your feelings and let them know you've from this point forward placed your concerns in the hands of our Maker. God's blessings to you. I'll keep you in my daily prayers.

  • @jillginter5699
    @jillginter5699 ปีที่แล้ว

    God is still with you in the hardest of time. Settling leads to suffering. It leads to suffering in your life. People will call you difficult if they don't want to keep their word.

  • @MsSeptember15
    @MsSeptember15 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sorry for your loss.

  • @mybestlifefortherestofmyli7137
    @mybestlifefortherestofmyli7137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can tell Trent is a good person who ran Into pple taking Advantage of his kindness. I so understand!!! I'm healing now from a narcissist ex and a narcissist sister. Smh.
    I love them from a distance, but never again will I let them in my space. Pple made me feel like I should be in contact with these pple. Nah, I'm better off without them they were toxic as I don't know what. Seriously. I'm not tolerating less than what I deserve.

  • @TonyaJeanSkillman
    @TonyaJeanSkillman 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well said. I'm just learning boundaries and this solidifies my weaknesses in this. It makes me more confident, stronger...and more valuable. Thank you my friend...keep it up

  • @Halfcrowindian
    @Halfcrowindian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My circle is nearly zero🤷🏽‍♀️. Once I get the reality check I’m done. Unfortunately it takes a lot for me to realize; work in progress... Thank you!! Needed this!! Every word!!! Blessings to you Trent🤗❤️

  • @3D3LIA
    @3D3LIA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    God bless you Trent! You’ve been through so much in the past almost 2 years. I really hope you’ve been taking things one day at a time. I hope for Peace over your mind and life! 🙌🏽🙏🏽💛

  • @jordanbird5617
    @jordanbird5617 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thanks for always being the vioce for the voiceless out there Trent. You are going even higher with the Good Lord work you always do.

  • @lindagooden1359
    @lindagooden1359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I don't resonate with this personally, I love from a distance. People will steal from you and you need to let them go.

  • @daniellemiller9164
    @daniellemiller9164 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yes yes Amen ..Yes sir God bless you love 💕...

  • @LutherLewis-si6ek
    @LutherLewis-si6ek 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Trent I spent the last 4 years being manipulated by a wolf sheep clothing I couldn't believe someone can be that evil I Alllow my heart to be used you have set Me freed

  • @tee6690
    @tee6690 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am learning when l let people go that isn't adding anything in my life besides taking from me ... I am at my best mental health and strength as well happy because im letting the dust shake off my feet and letting the dust settle. l have a great heart for people... l am learning l can't be a people pleaser but a God pleaser... l am learning to chosse his way before people agenda for my life. this message definitely was for me.... Jesus was bold he spoke with authority he had power behind his words and followed through on his words... so l don't believe God wants us to let people walk over us when we have power that Jesus has to command the enemy to flee by our words and actions.... so we should not let disrespect over come us but allow the spirit of God to help us to know when to speak. or let God give us the wisdom to remove ourselves from situation .... right on time trent ..... thx again

  • @karenmyers5936
    @karenmyers5936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can't seem to find any LOVE to give them !! PERIOD !!

  • @tui_kowhai9096
    @tui_kowhai9096 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes Sir,so true,living this right now...

  • @gwill3097
    @gwill3097 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It took a series of unfortunate events for me to realize I had surrounded myself with toxic people, presumably because I too was toxic and broken at one point. Praise God I'm not who or where I was, now I'm doing life alone but I believe it's only for a season ❤️

  • @Chains-of-faith
    @Chains-of-faith 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    In the End. When you stand your ground you see them waveing goodbye. Stand your ground.

  • @ministerginamfrancis6264
    @ministerginamfrancis6264 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is SO REAL. IT AFFECTS THE SOUL.

  • @jillginter5699
    @jillginter5699 ปีที่แล้ว

    The facts and truth will reveal
    itself.

  • @DC-xp4bl
    @DC-xp4bl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Couldn’t agree more Trent

  • @meme-zv7kw
    @meme-zv7kw 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Self love and Self respect put yourself first

  • @amandafevrier6717
    @amandafevrier6717 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Especially through family members

  • @RavenNl403
    @RavenNl403 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awe, my Mom and I have the same connection with the red bird. Sweet. Thank you Trent. Happy weekend to you and your family. ✌️❤️

  • @pinessaskipper5634
    @pinessaskipper5634 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This message is for me. I truly Appreciate. Thank You 💯🙏

  • @ministerginamfrancis6264
    @ministerginamfrancis6264 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Exhausted... Taking a year off. U saying the same thing I've been saying.. exhausted. REAL TALK AND FACTS...

  • @Annabee399
    @Annabee399 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Man of God. My family and coworkers took my kindness for granted for years. Many would verbally abuse me, and took it in pain. However, I decided last year to speak up/ out to defend myself and gave them six months of distant. Now these people respect me.

  • @janiah423
    @janiah423 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I most definitely feel you on that, because there were people in my life just like that.

  • @maggieedwards3951
    @maggieedwards3951 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I doing . God bless you and family Trent , setbacks happen , as long as we rise and continue move forward , embracing any changes that bring growth ,
    You have been instrumental in many ways Trent Shelton your words have not gone in vain , big up you and family .bless up it all starts with us .

  • @ministerginamfrancis6264
    @ministerginamfrancis6264 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Setting and managing EXPECTATIONS 💚

  • @burnamfleming3025
    @burnamfleming3025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Promises and more promises....empty

  • @AFAskygoddess
    @AFAskygoddess 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Trent, you are such a blessing ❤ Thank you for caring and sharing.

  • @nancyP7448
    @nancyP7448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this Trent. Thank YOU for all you do!!

  • @jillginter5699
    @jillginter5699 ปีที่แล้ว

    His trilogy, Peace on earth, Peace of mind, Peace of soul.
    You are successful when you decide to be. Nature heals.

  • @emscappi3329
    @emscappi3329 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This sure speaks to me about what I've allowed .You said it right

  • @brittianyhyer9644
    @brittianyhyer9644 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good message need to always hear

  • @msghost9919
    @msghost9919 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I choose to love MYSELF... WHETHER I'M DOWN OR HIGH.

  • @jillginter5699
    @jillginter5699 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hold people accountable!
    Demand your worth. What you tolerate in your life, will
    keep you you there.

  • @amyhicks2837
    @amyhicks2837 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank God I clicked on this. Thank you for sharing this video, it hit home. I certainly needed the eye opening message. Thank you again. Keep up the Lord's work. Your mom did a amazing job and her beliefs installed in you. I look forward to seeing her in heaven. God be with you as you carry out your messages, you've got a message to share with the world! Shine!! Great Job! God bless you.

  • @beybuildingbey
    @beybuildingbey ปีที่แล้ว

    ABSOLUTELY On Time. 4 me.
    Thank you PEACE and BLESSINGS

  • @tracyhowell235
    @tracyhowell235 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ty, Trent!

  • @tammypeters5961
    @tammypeters5961 ปีที่แล้ว

    Exactly what I have needed to hear for some time now,BIG HUG,Thank You Mr.Shelton,and God Bless your heart...tammy...

  • @ya4144
    @ya4144 ปีที่แล้ว

    I felt like you are directly talking to me. God bless you brother. It’s God speaking using you as a messenger. That’s how I received it.

  • @artemisappollo1491
    @artemisappollo1491 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you, I definitely needed to hear this 💯...oh, I live in New Orleans, Louisiana 🤟

  • @dannydollarz6706
    @dannydollarz6706 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    😤🥶🌬️ *Trent-Be🆒Brother* 💪🏻🏋🏽‍♀️👍👀

  • @MRSAJUAREZ123
    @MRSAJUAREZ123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amen🙌🏻

  • @oneofthemanyfew
    @oneofthemanyfew 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    “I don’t have no time for no misunderstanding” -drake

  • @stevenk3221
    @stevenk3221 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The best and most loving thing you can do is walk away from a toxic person in grace. You're only enabling them tolerating the BS

  • @damonpitt2528
    @damonpitt2528 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really appreciate you Trent my boy Darius m has been a good coach on women but you're teaching Tactical survival and putting hope back into us guys that's priceless big bro

  • @MRSAJUAREZ123
    @MRSAJUAREZ123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel you!

  • @marycooper6593
    @marycooper6593 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen on what you said about everything .. is so true on other people whom love to use and being disrespect to other people too.

  • @dc9291
    @dc9291 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this message is for me for sure.

  • @karenmyers5936
    @karenmyers5936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SO TRUE I SO dislike TOXIX PEOPLE !!

  • @mathisalonzo
    @mathisalonzo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have to stay away from my Dad for the same reasons. Thanks 🙏🏽 for the message .

  • @christa5344
    @christa5344 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    WOW!!! Going through this now and I see it I say it I get told I'm crazy and I still question it but I still stay around it I miss it when it's gone you're saying some real stuff and these videos here lately they're hitting close to home it's just how do you move on when you have nothing to move on with how do you do that... thank you for sharing all of your videos they really help me expand my mind and my thinking

  • @darcyswanson7287
    @darcyswanson7287 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    so so true!!

  • @MRSAJUAREZ123
    @MRSAJUAREZ123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello Sunshine, waiting to hear your message once again❤️🙏🏼😁👍🏻💪🏼💪🏾

  • @marythecommutegirl284
    @marythecommutegirl284 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the problem with lifelong commitments - especially within belief systems. You give up control of access to yourself. Self-love means control of access to self.

  • @MRSAJUAREZ123
    @MRSAJUAREZ123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes I have been there for too long! No longer accepted!

  • @MRSAJUAREZ123
    @MRSAJUAREZ123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    YES

  • @LizaJane761
    @LizaJane761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My mom sends us butterflies 😀🦋

  • @chirastewart5682
    @chirastewart5682 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, this was beautiful ❤

  • @Rodogg7787
    @Rodogg7787 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had to get over the whole "stepping on toes" thing! Bc I was being a stepping stone, and I had to quit and I learned to love them from a distance!

  • @beautifulisraelite4579
    @beautifulisraelite4579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing, I needed to here this,

  • @ogbgang5253
    @ogbgang5253 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Trent. Hope is not far, after your thoughts. # truly blessed to know what u speak. I pray that I break my cycle. 4 Year follower and still stuck. But I won't give up. Thank God for your words. Heather Sisco

  • @rhondaaustin569
    @rhondaaustin569 ปีที่แล้ว

    When you choose you you find out who is really for you

  • @gregyum888winbush5
    @gregyum888winbush5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Trent, I agree with you. People will use you only when it benefits them
    Greg Winbush

  • @ministerginamfrancis6264
    @ministerginamfrancis6264 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This IS WHY STARTING, AND BUILDING FROM SMALL....knowing we go as sheep amongst wolves...

  • @lettiepayton23
    @lettiepayton23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Preach mr.man

  • @ellepatrice
    @ellepatrice 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow‼️ Definitely needed this‼️

  • @ministerginamfrancis6264
    @ministerginamfrancis6264 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    UNITY W SELF AND GOD IS SUPPOSED TO POSITION US SO THAT WE CAN BE A BLESSING TO OTHERS. SELF DEFINITION...is SO KEY... YOU HEARD MY VENT...I WAS VENTING LAST WEEK. THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I SHARING..

  • @ministerginamfrancis6264
    @ministerginamfrancis6264 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Days like this I miss my Rory, and my brother... I was bout to call my counsellor. You came on time. AND ONTOPIC💚

  • @lindaramirez5132
    @lindaramirez5132 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes.

  • @dangelochristian7039
    @dangelochristian7039 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks brother! I needed to hear this.

  • @theleader5439
    @theleader5439 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed this message today. Like this literally my situation.

  • @DogStarAstrology
    @DogStarAstrology 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The only time I’m afraid is when it’s with my sons. And I know I need to do it.

    • @MRSAJUAREZ123
      @MRSAJUAREZ123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too! It’s difficult but I’m doing my best to stop him from walking all over me

    • @DogStarAstrology
      @DogStarAstrology 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MRSAJUAREZ123 💗

  • @jenn7975
    @jenn7975 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this! I sure needed to hear this especially!

  • @ivonadcfl5960
    @ivonadcfl5960 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    True facts

  • @sadiepellew3493
    @sadiepellew3493 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this message. Needed this today and be reminded daily of it. Blessings to you Trent and your family!🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @amygradybsw
    @amygradybsw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dude....I have been doing so well with that....my "surgeries" went very well BTW.. more to go...and thank you again for reminding me...

  • @jillginter5699
    @jillginter5699 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Don't allow people to disrespect you. Let the Lord fight your battles.

    • @GSDKXV
      @GSDKXV 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The same lord who took a nap during the holocaust?

  • @jillginter5699
    @jillginter5699 ปีที่แล้ว

    You can unconditionally love someone from a distance.
    Don't give someone multiple chances. You have to protect your worth. You don't have
    to stay in toxic environments.

  • @sadangel7334
    @sadangel7334 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 😭❤️

  • @deloresalexander3196
    @deloresalexander3196 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen 🙌

  • @leobarthelemyjr6063
    @leobarthelemyjr6063 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow thank you bro I needed to hear this!!

  • @hugopc05
    @hugopc05 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wooo God continues blessings you ..this is so true 👍🏼 tanks for Sharing this message He blessed me man. I walk away for so many people... Yeah I see a result 👍🏼👍🏼

  • @rhondaaustin569
    @rhondaaustin569 ปีที่แล้ว

    What you give and what except is in my control

    • @rhondaaustin569
      @rhondaaustin569 ปีที่แล้ว

      The 2 things thats always in my control is what I give and what I except

    • @rhondaaustin569
      @rhondaaustin569 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't let the history keep you in misery

  • @heidikleu7591
    @heidikleu7591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is such a good message, thank you sir🙌🤗

  • @scherkethabarnett1171
    @scherkethabarnett1171 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You really speaking to me today.

  • @meaganvoss882
    @meaganvoss882 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Let them call u cold hearted! God knows your heart!