Why are Indian men LIKE THIS?
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- While on a walk at the beach or on the way to work, we see men holding hands all the time. This happens all around us and hence is not something that peaks our attention. But when Vincent Dolman, a British photographer noticed this on his trip to India, he found it to be very interesting and started documenting the same. It was something very alien to him and where he was from. So it begs the question, why do Indian Men hold hands and why is it not a universal phenomenon?
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You should make another video on "why western people sexualise every kind of physical contact"😂😂
True
True 💯
Exactly. They are insecure and homophobic. That's why.
Yess 🤦
So damn true.....
Simple reason : Because we are soo much addicted to Kabaddi we can't live without forming chain ⛓️
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Good one
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@@inmymind41 wok🤨
It's not sexuality, but it's brotherhood.
Father holds son's hand, brother holds brothers hands ,this not sexuality.
its awkward & uncomfortable
@@Comrade_Harsh Cricket me celebration hota hai wo kya 6 feet doori bana ke hota hai?
I think this is why western world is going crazy over RRR. The kind of bromance Indian films bring out is way too aspirational. They crave for somethimg like that, not being judged for showing affection. Friends had many scenes where Joey and Chandler hug, which is one of the reasons why the show crosses boundaries and generations and speaks to a larger audience. The whole non-sexual affection thing is so wholesome. Its great that such things are promoted in India.
So true
their love was neither sexual nor romantic, it was PURELY platonic! it was just lovely seeing it in big screen. a fresh breath of air
I'm pro hugging. Just not holding hands while walking. That shit's weird to me man..
Same was for the West, but things changed during the cultural revolution of 60s, 70s, 80s, and 90s.
I need to pull my homies aside sometimes because those idiots might fall in some gutter while walking sober
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IMO, More than holding hands... Theres more about laying hands on each others shoulders or side hugs. Every group of boys you see..there wld be atleast two guys who lay hands on their bros shoulders.
It express unity and trust we have on each other.
Ya, i haven't seen two boys holding their hands...generally it's dome by two girls
saddam hussian 😳
This Holding hands only happens with Rural Based Guys I've never seen Urban City Residing Men even touching each other ( Same as west )
Its just that Rural Men are just Unaware and Uninformed of these concepts and perceptions.
Indian rural population is so behind the curve they cant even approve normal Heterosexual PDA.. Let alone Homosexual PDA..
They are just Ignorant
Thats it 😂😂😂😂😂
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Growing up I never realised that how unique this small gesture of showing affection and a bond with your friend is. And how this bring us far more close to our friends .I hope our country don't loose this ☮️🤗
It's going to lose it soon
@@dishwasher69 IKR! sadly, our country is now being influenced by the "woke" culture of America
Holding hands is a great representation of our brotherhood in south Asian countries. We should definitely keep up this practice.
Thanks Mohak for focusing on this interesting topic
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It wasn't just South Asian, this was also very common in the West till the cultural revolutions of the late 20th century (Hippie movements, sexual revolution, etc... of 60s, 70s, and 80s)
It's no more gender specific. Nowadays anyone who's attached to someone emotionally hold their hands
Western folks have weird culture
yes
Yes
Yes as I hold his sister hand 🤣
Maybe in big cities but not in villages
Mohak literally comes up so unique ideas and topics
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Absolutely!!
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@@akshadchavan5528 he came here from 3 I'd 's 😆 just kidding
Girls are seen kissing each other even in India then there's no problem man😂
Truee ladkiyon ko koi lesbian nhi kehta aur ladko ko ulta seedha kehne lagte h
Kissing on cheeks you mean ladke bhi karte hai haan ye zaroor hai ab jab jitna western ho rahe hai toh waha ki cheeze bhi laa rahe hai apne yaha
I'm always impressed by the great topics you pick! I've always wondered about this, but never thought someone would research a topic like this one, let alone explain it so well!
It's pretty common here but I've observed that it's gradually ending as people are getting aware about homosexuality. It makes them conscious.
Trueeeeee. My social circle even though is very homophobic but knows about homosexuality unlike older generations so I haven't seen men holding hands ever.
@@sakshamtyagi9652 Exactly! People don't want other people to assume 'stuff' about them because they were holding hands so they don't do it at the first place.
Trueeeee
So trueee just now I was talking to my friend and asked him about this and he said no we don't do that who will hold hands when I asked him do he hold hands with his sister or gf he said yes
It's the downsides of being progressive. As we break some barriers, we create new ones. We went from "sex is a taboo" to "everything is about sex".
I never thought holding friend's hand is a weird thing untill i heard it from western stand up comedians nd media😳😳
True me too
Didn't care man We should Make our own Standards ❤️.
Bhai hai tu bhi 🧑🤝🧑
@@devd851 sahi bola. Yeh westerners har cheez ko se xualise karte hai, our brotherhood should remain still.
fr, but i still don't think its weird
@@devd851 our prime minister is prime example about how to hold your friend's arm😁😁😁
Because its a symbol of care.
And showing trust and unbreakable bond between brothers/freindship.
5:20 my father cooks food for the entire family. My mother also cooks but my father always helps.
same my dad is in the army and whenever he comes home he does most of the household chore and honestly he does a better job than my mom lol
Didn't thought this would be a matter of discussion 😂 Hostel boys literally pile up on each other.
And as strange it sound but after all we boys sleep together in hostel 😛
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You are the only one that think like that
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Exactly western countries should learn brotherhood From us❤️🇮🇳
Yes, we are free in our brotherhood so we have permission to hold hands, hug, kiss, and have sex. The west wishes it could know such freedom of loving.
Lol no, this is a very disturbing practice.
@@EdwinTylerholding hands really? pls tell me you're joking
No, we should learn from western
This video is so beautifully made ! Such an open minded and pure representation of love everyone needs to understand and just live and let live .
Indian girls also hold each other's hands. Now that you made a video on this topic I realized that I and a lot of people I know almost SUB-CONSCIOUSLY hold the hands of their friends
There are no restrictions for women to hold hands each other hands in western also in India. So I dont know why r u bringing women's thing.
@@nknkannadiga9742 typical womens
@Abhay +1
It's normal in western countries as well. 2 women holding hands and cuddles
In west, women hold kiss hug each other
*Love without being sexual exists* because we Indian men hold hands of our bro-friends .
Thinking of western culture is narrow minded in thier own ways . How can holding hands be homosexual 😂 ? We are bros , so we act like bros .
@@anurag02075 in America, when they hold hands, it means something else🤣🤣
@@anurag02075 sirf hat nhi me to gale pakad ke e rehta hu pure wakt unke shoulders pe dard ho jata h
@@atikurrahaman2529 wahi toh bro , dost ke sath sharam kesi ✌🏻😄
@Netaji-The British Slayer ikr , every culture have some believes which are narrow minded for the rest .
This was a very important and needed to be highlighted topic.
Thanks for coming up with this topic. This is the first video of yours that I liked as I felt to be quite ambidextrous i.e. neither left or right leaning. Kudos
last year when i would sleep, through my bedroom window, i would see a truck parked on the road every night. there used to be two men who would sleep in the lorry of that truck, most probably daily wage labourers. they would sleep and cuddle together, maybe they used to do it unknowingly in their sleep, or maybe they were actually in a relationship(which is quite rare) but the most probable reason i thought would be was loneliness,since they were here in the city, away from their homes and families, and the only love and affection that they could get could be from their friends. thank youu for making a video on this unique topic and helping to break the stereotypes of toxic masculinity.
Quite a observation.....
no bro i myself cuddle with my cousin brother and i am not in any form of relationship and its actually comfortable when you keep your legs on someone's waist
literally it's very comfortable just give a try
In school I have seen this as anyone including myself didn't had knowledge of homosexuality I feel it was normal
Cuddling while sleeping for Indian man is also very common. Generally it is seen in case of Two brothers who share same bed. In my hostel life I have seen and also experienced this. We ware 3 roommates in a room. After few days of staying together we became closer to each other. We had jointed our 3 beds to make it a bigger one. While sleeping it is very common for us to put hands on other. Sometime we put legs on each other but unknowingly. We had shared blankets in winters and also cuddling each other. Though we avoid these practices in summer. These things are very very common for other hoteliers also. It is not at all sexual.. it is called "Bhai Bhai wala Pyar"....
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Once in my lifetime i felt like we are ahead of western society
@@randomstuff0069 hmm
I don't think so, in the west physical touch between opposite genders is considered normal were as in india its opposite, I think being comfortable with two opposite genders showing affection in public makes far more sense than being comfortable with same genders showing affection (fyi, I am not a homophobe).
@@mindhunter91 that's right too
Actually if we watch his whole video, at various points he talks about how Indians view masculinity and homosexuality and it's very toxic.
@@mindhunter91 No I don't think so. You know mostly opposite gender attract eachother sexually(Specially in teenage time). So it can't be seen as normal (Unless they are from family). While Two same gender do not attract sexually (if they are not from LGBTQ community) so it can not be seen as normal.
Your editing skills are amazing 👍🏻👍🏻
love that you highlighted this unique and wonderful thing
Wow, the most unique topic from you till now.
There are Bangladeshi who watches his video?
আরে বস দেখি এইখানে
I've seen my father hold his best friends hands so many times. Earlier I used to think it was weird but it's actually very true that Indian men show affection among their friends through touch.
Eww.. it looks so gross!
Your father also walks hand in hand with his friends with fingers interlocked??
@@rikishi555 ya and gen gap is to blame on old people
@@rikishi555 Yes, it is written in our holy books to do that.......
not
What about girls??
8:36 "what a writing." WOW✌️
What a wonderfully explained video!
Holding hands between friends was way more common about 10 years ago.
Vindeshi logo ko to har cheez sexual karna jaruri hi hai 😒
Holding hands has nothing to do with homosexuality, smh 🤦♂️🤷♂️
exactly 😂😂
Sign of Brotherhood among Indian guys
it's bromance
Holding hands is a way to show care whether that be holding with parents , siblings , or Friend of sane ir opposite gender tbh
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You are just amazing 🙂❤️ Thank youu so much! Keep making more
Not be offending someone, but I really sometimes feel ppl question sexuality with mere physical affection.
And what's wrong with that?
That's the reason lol
Agreed lmao
@Longus what do you mean "if you're not sure.. " , I thought holding hands and simple touch is to show affection.
Mohak bhai.. those who hold hands in public are so innocent.. they don't even know what is bromance or homo...
And learning new/ modern / Western things is sometime harmful..
We should let it be innocent...
Could lead to mis information and harasment
The innocence could backfire if they happen to move to a different culture 🙄
@@anujkr4226 so yoi blindly follow everything for west
@@ganeshreddy5939 so (yoi) want to be blind to everything from West 😂
Don't worry! Kuch nai hone vala, most of the modern indians are bootlickers of westerners. They just want western midset should apply to everyone in this world!!
What you said was absolutely true, the place where people are generally more openminded (like Mumbai or Bengaluru) you would find less men holding each others hands, as they have more interaction with females, with whom they can share their emotions, while in place like Delhi or some north Indian city there would be a lot of men holding hands( based on personal observations as being a mumbaikar I haven't seen many men holding each others hand while it was opposite in delhi)
So according to you, men should only share all emotions and interactions with females? That's another crap thought.
This has always intrigued me so much. Such an amazing video.
Now I can't hold hands with my friends or hug them without thinking about this video once😂😂
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The topic is out of the box and unique one. Loved it... Really I like your explanation that makes me learn different things as well and get to know many customs we are surrounded by. ❤️ Thank you Mr. Mangal.
Keep going mohak ! You're doing an amazing job !!!!♥️♥️❤lots of love
I like how you mentioned our films for bromance because it really shows and support strong and affectionate bond with your friends like jai-veeru munna- cercit,3 idiots etc
I never thought that holding hands or hugging a bff can be interpreted as homosexuality 😆.
Well researched content as always. ✌️
Keep up the good work.
@Souven Tudu Same lol
On the other hand holding hands and hugging female counterparts is considered sexual in our society which is so ingrained in our brains that boys mostly feel awkward around girls.
it's because of the growing popularity of western culture in India (homophobia is increasing)
At the end of the day do what you want cuz different people hv different perspectives
@Souven Tudu same lol
He is so precious for bringing such intensive research based videos and perspectives to us and the cherry on the top is the fact that's its in hindi for the general indian public to understand to. Please never stop doing what you are doing. The way he concluded the video was absolutely beautiful.
Hindi is understood by about 46% of Indian public.
@@samuraijosh1595 i get it but i mean good hindi content is comparatively less on the platform as compared to the good english content. In addition we have the west and other countries putting in the work in same language so yeah. Not saying other languages in india aren't that important, they need to be promoted too like Tamil, punjabi and others.
@@samuraijosh1595 Then you can read subtitles to understand the video.
Hm
@@samuraijosh1595 are u stupid?? Are u making up this percentage on your own? Even tamil people who hate hindi can understand hindi a little bit..
What a content man....it couldn't be find anywhere on the net ..thank you❤️
Western countries need to adjust their lenses. This practice is absolutely fine... Us boys cannot think of our lives without same gender bffs.
Until 2008, we friends used to walk with hands on each others shoulders. After travelling to UK, everything changed. Many guys there even frown upon you if you casually touch their arm or shoulder during a conversation, or be it just a friendly pat on the back, which are very common and positive way of showing appreciation in India. 😐
It is sick and disappointing.
We must preserve this little innocent human interaction. 🙁
No one likes unwanted physical touch.
Hand touch is also common in most of Asian countries epically South East Asian
It's not only in India
Yeah
More than just hand touch you can see men holding hands and walking together or sitting while holding hands everywhere in states like Jharkhand, Bihar, Up. A level of intimacy as such between male friends can't be seen in East Asian cultures in counties like Japan or Korea.
@@victorkash4718 don't know about Japan but in korea also this is common
Nope, not at all common in SE Asia…lived in Thailand for 3 years and haven’t witnessed such instances except for some openly homosexual persons.
@@mobjectivems7652 it's common in Burma, Indonesia etc but i don't know about Thailand
Yes ,this practice is proud for we Indians.🥰
Only one thing that's called bromance and we are proud of it.
And u got 69 likes😂😂😂😂
@@mystic8418 lmao
I’m so happy that the gender segregation was mentioned. It’s such a common sight but we need to acknowledge it’s so harmful.
Arre pokhraj bhai pehchana mujhe?
@@tripathiashutosh874 I don’t want to say no, but are you from TISS?
So what?
Men and women are different and their Roles in society also different.
Gender segregation existed in all the mammals. The degree can be more or less.
@@ultimate6243 Your sources: (none)
Great research and lucid analysis
Amazing views thru this video & completely align on your thoughts to be what we r rather than thinking what west thinks.
Kudos 😀
I'm from Nagaland. I've been in Delhi for 2 years. I used to find quite weird seeing grown up men holding hands.
Thank you! You have answer my lifelong question 😁
Bro, can you tell me what is the tourist attraction in nagaland.
I am planning to go there and want to enjoy the culture.
Don't men hold hands in Nagaland? Is homosexuality this much acceptable in Nagaland?
@@AS-jo8qh Men don't really hold hands like u think. But, we do sholder chain as a form of friendship.
@@joshuatheunkownuniverse.2475 Well, literally anywhere in Nagaland. It's mostly Mountainous. Most popular tourist attraction place is Kohima because of the Hornbill festival which starts every year from December.
Mr intern manipur boy hold hands in finale
I have seen many friends holding hand during crossing road both genders do that with same gender from childhood we are taught to hold hands in order to not get lost in order to not lose people like that if our hands are hold by our friends it makes us feel much safer and as we all know india is very crowded so if u hold hands u won't be separated by crowd
Well this explanation isn't the exact explanation but holding hands for not losing someone has been in our mind or taught to us since childhood
Very true
Just watched 2 videos and i'm your fan👏👏🙌 amazing work mahn🔥
The fact that I had been noticing this thing of holding hands right now and I i totally needed this video thank you !
5:10 meanwhile if I tell my mom I love to cook she will sprint away from kitchen and ask me to cook everyday.. 😅
True😂😭
True
True 👏👏 this happen to me sometimes
Good one, you should have to include the first time a boy learn to walk holding his dad hands. The holding the hand give him the felling of being secure. Friends also give the feeling of being safe. That's why teenager and men under the age of 30 do this more often.
thats a good point . this is were the hand holding starts
@@raviyadav-py6no Yes
In West sons don't even touch their mom
Only girls
It's like brothers holding hands. Together they are strong enough.
Great work man!
Its pretty common in other South Asian countries like Pakistan too. It has something to do with our culture. There was a research done on films like Sholay etc and they were described to be having "homoerotic undertones". Obviously we see it only as a sign of strong friendship, companionship or camaraderie I should say.
I think the reason Sholay was described have homoerotic undertones because in west any kind male male interaction is considered to subtle hints of homosexuality in it.
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@@siddharthmehta4663 Correct Biased they are
@@siddharthmehta4663 yes you get it.
@Rishabh Chaudhary yes 👍
I can't even hold my homie's hand anymore. Sad😢
Real homies kiss goodnight before going to bed
@@trolllovindaddy sus
@@trolllovindaddy true ..a real one
@@trolllovindaddy saying No homo ofc
LOVE YOU BRO, FOR MAKING THIS.
Not only your content is unique your way of explaining the content is very unique and great keep it up keep doing your job
It's not only in males. When I and my sister hold hands or hug each other in public, nobody turns their necks
Sanjana tum jake sagar me noka chalao
Girls holding hands is common in every culture. Even in west
Cuz for public it's normal wheter in west or east
because all womens are lesbians
@@Agent-ik1ui yes its normal for women, cause everyone knows all womens are lesbians
Parents hold our hands when
We learn to walk
Friends hold hands when we need them or they need us
It's not about sexuality every time
Why are you saying that
Damn, those lines😊
Yeah the people around us have sexualized everything around us
Exactly i am still nervous while crossing so we do hold hands or i deliberately keep a dude next to me and match his pace.
@@motherisape i want to know why are you just putting non reasionable questions in comment box..
Your videos are so well made👍
सर आपकी हर विडिओ बहुत ही logical होती है धन्यवाद सर
i do think it's normal, i am a straight and Hold hands with my male as well as female friends. Sign of Brotherhood among Indian guys
ma boi holdin female friends hands when they are sad and then holding something else in bed lol😂
@@madhavmathur4008 true
@@motherisape i see u r a man of culture
@@madhavmathur4008 bro not the right place to say this😂
@@madhavmathur4008 Chill hai bhai! I am not someone who gets easily offended.
It's a good thing about Indian culture we should preserve it
We shouldn't look to the west as ideal
We should reform our society as well
By learning from what other societies have done
So that other countries too can learn from us
Exactly. Too many people learning bad things from the west. Especially their insecurities.
Yes 💯
Even girls hold hands
boys also of 20 to30 age
Finally someone who did some research for my confusion .
I'm an Indian and I see guys hugging each other while riding a bike or holding hands and it took me by surprise all the time .
It's not that I have any issue with that .
Same goes for me , like out of nowhere while crossing roads or walking through busy street my friends and sometimes I would instinctively would held each other's hand .
Awesome content bro
in high school we used to have a teacher from Germany ....he always scolded the boys for holding hands together ...he said tht in the West such things r find weird n tells a lot about ur personality .....he might know the West well but he didnt know anything about India
Why he used to tell about what is acceptable or not in west if he was in India?
Did he teach German on something?
I would like to share my experience: So I belong to a small village and it was very common to hold hands in my friend circle. When I came to big towns I got to know about homosexuality. Knowing about intimate relationship between men, I was so awkward after remembering those hand holding. When next time I went to my village, I was uncomfortable with them holding hands.
Thanks for clearing this Mohak bro. Now I know that it's ok.🤭
Will you hold my hands... Let's do bromance
We shouldn't be learning bad things from the west. For Westerners everything is sex. For Indians everything is spirituality. We should preserve that. And human contact like handshakes and hugs are very important to make bonds. Western men are insecure in their sexuality so make fun of everyone who is confident.
@@Pillowlips77 i'm from western and i can't even more agree with you.
@@Pillowlips77handshakes are OK but holding hands with interlocked fingers, absolutely disgusting.
Wow, very different topic well explained!
Never knew holding hands was a serious issue for someone
It's also a kind of bond we create within friendship that in tough times this hand will never lose.
Anybody who has been to the US will actually know what Mohak is trying to say here.
I see everybody saying that it's normal, it's just being good friends.
But that's not the case in America, I have worked in the Hotel Industry there and found that no 2 guy friends will share a bed how much ever close they are. Even a father and son also are not willing to share a bed.
It's something very common. They just don't touch each other for no reason. They might shake hands formally and give a hug but if that exceeds by a second they are too uncomfortable.
The problem with this video is that it should be made in English, so that Americans/others come to know. It doesn't even has English subtitles. Hume bata ke kya hi karoge 😂
Indians are mostly codependent and enmeshed group of people, that’s why holding hands is okay. White folks are independent individuals, they don’t have that “NEED” for touch of assurance. India is a poor nation with billion people, life is tough and Indians need moral support in the form of bromance.
@@Priya-rf7ov But it doesn't look like it's helping them that much.With suicides , depression and mental disorders touching record levels in the West.
@@Priya-rf7ov they are so independent that they have maximum cases of depressed people & almost everyone is undergoing some or the other form of therapy. I hope Indians don't go to that level of independence.
Agree. In West no guys will share bed. A guy sharing bed with girl is more normal here.
Uh Explained Amazingly 👌
Extremely good selection of topic ✨🌷
In my house me and my brother have to do all our household chores. Be it washing clothes or washing your plates after eating. I have been doing this from 12 years of age. I think every man should know how to do household chores because it is important in life.
No one asked
its cool buddy. nothing wrong if men do it. But people judge when it comes to helping your "better half" in household chores. This is due to patriarchy. Lots of boomer generation parents don't teach their boys this, as they have this mentality, that household chores are for girls, which is very wrong.
abey tune video ka title dekha hai?
Friendship is a another level feeling and emotion and it can be in between two persons and hearts now it doesn't matter that they are male or female
I love the way u explain the things in detail with research prove in both Indian & western aspects 👏🏻👏🏻.....Vvv informative 👌🏻......aapko professor hona chahiye tha 🤓....keep it up sir 🙌🏻
Bhai hum toh kabhi kabhi apne doston ka daba bhi dete h mazak me 😂😂😂😂to use dekh kar angrez kya sochenge
Yes india do accept same gender interactions (hug and holding hand) .... Just hope that we will accept the same for opposite gender in future...in public areas...(without associating it with any sexual context) .same level of comfort and acceptance....
Husband and wife allowed to hold hand in public places.
In trains and bus It can be seen that wife is sleeping on the shoulder of Husband.
Premarital relationship is not accepted in India
@@ultimate6243 that's why I'm saying.. It's the need of the hour to normalize it... A girl and boy can have relationship other then love relation... Like marriage and dating relation....if they are holding hand or hugging each other that doesn't mean they are dating... If a married women if roaming around with a men by holding his hand... That doesn't mean he is her husband... He can share a relationship of brother or friend or any other relation.. You need not to relate that with sexual interactive...
@@NehaSingh-tj8ng even in most of the developed countries if you roam around holding hand or share too much physical affection with other men whom you are not married or dating you will be seen suspiciously specially by guy you are in relationships
@@akashpatel8410 so what... Why are you saying this to me... Why should I feel worry about other countries... Rather I'm happy to focus on my own...other then that... Here we are not talking about TOO MUCH... We are talking about simple normal hug and holding of hand... Without having any kind of sexual intend...im not saying start making out in public.. 🤣🤣🤣.... That will going to be seen an crime.. Everywhere.. Irrespective of the country
My favourite thing about Hindi Songs is that there’s a song that goes: ‘Aadmi Hoon Aadmi se pyaar karta Hoon.”
Nice
Or pokhraj bhai ki hal chal 🙌
@@khatriatul I’m just kidding lol
@@tripathiashutosh874 Hello!
@@khatriatul lmao watch the movie
Why not?
6:24 it's not mythology bhaiya it's history !
Bruh come all religions are mythology and supernatural can't be proven like ravan wasn't real hanuman wasn't real Mohammad and Jesus are real but at all god's but normal people.
@@indianfortniter1464 please read real history first with proofs... nanak ji , Jesus & Mohommad were son and messangers of God ...god is Hari Vishnu..... All things happens in real when the whole world was not developed , Bharat was only civilized. !
@@indianfortniter1464 I have sent the video, its birth certificate of Shri Ram you'll know who's Mythology who's not mate :)
@@indianfortniter1464 Jesus did exist though, historians unanimously agree upon that and Muhammad did too most likely. And we can make some conclusions upon them which tend towards supernaturality than the rather.
@@4work.n.progress not true, Muhammad never claimed to be the son of God, let him speak for himself, Jesus did but not of Vishnu, Vishnu never called Jesus his son. Not just India but the Greeks, Romans, Babylonians, Chinese, Mesopotamians, Egyptians, Arabs and many other also really advanced.
Lemme confess this before watching the video. This sight has been one most of funniest and the most uncomfortable view for many North eastern men. Thank you so much for making this video.
lol
Same here😅 from Assam here n I'll have to admit I've never seen any of my male friends hold hands, maybe it's more of a north Indian man thing
@@003_kusarigama5 i don' t think it is . I'm from Delhi . Nobody gets more north indian than me .... But i'm not in the habit of holding my male friends hands . I might put an arm over their shoulder but that's about it . I was thinking maybe guys holding hands is something that's common in south india and maharashtra
@@prabhavbhagat292 im from south india (bengaluru), we don't hold hands with male friends either...but we do arm over their shoulder when we get together.
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but after watching this video i think we all should hold hands if we want to, its nothing to be ashamed of. we should not look down upon who hold hands in public. Its brotherly love. and we should spread love to the world! :)
I m from up we do this thing as brother its kind of common with good friend.🥸🥸
I truly appreciate your effort explaining about the relationship between two men's ...
Very unique topic loved it❤️
Well, I have a condition called hyperhidrosis which makes my palm sweaty most of the time. This is the reason why I am very conscious of where my hands are and I totally avoid holding them with anyone.
I have the same condition 🙌
Bro I'm 16 year old and my palm are like flowing tap too much sweat all time and cuz of this I've become extreme introvert because most of friends can't what's this problem is, you have any clue or know medicine to reduce or cure it
Come join my hands brothers.
@@sagarkumarsaf5300 get into the habit of keeping a tissue paper in your pockets.
@@sagarkumarsaf5300 I haven't tried it but someone said there's an electric therapy for this. I'll make an appointment with a dermatologist soon.
from our childhood we are taught to hold hands of elders whom you are connected may it also have some connections
Me, who sleeping with my room partner 🙂🤝
Indian culture is very very great there are lot more things which world need to learn from us. But currently vice-versa is happening.
Am I the only one, who doesn't hold hands of their friends?! 🤔🧐
Yes
No you are not only one. Same with me because I have only 1 friend and she is girl
Even I don't, but we keep our hands on each other's shoulders to show brotherhood
You're not alone
Am I The Only One Who Don't Have Friends 😂
Sad!! I’m happy we can hug our friends without inviting any stares.