harry complaining about being judged for his past actions when he's done absolutely nothing to indicate with his actions that he has even slightly changed simultaneously cracks me up and makes me incredibly concerned about the state of delusion he is in.
Wdymmmm he's gone to therapy and he's trying to change, you can't get mad at him bc of his past actions and bc he literally just cheated on Jess and completely manipulated her and therefore HASNT changed! /s
My brain refuses to put this stuff to my memory, so despite probably watching a bunch of these videos, I've no memory of anyone in them. I also don't care to watch the actual shows, so that helps as well.
I will say with Dominique she did a tiktok talking about the fact that they were truly fighting because he was sexist, homophobic, and transphobic and the show just edited it out
very "convenient" "oh errr no I'm not the bad person, he was totally...ummm...just saying everything that disagrees with THE MESSAGE and I totally support THE MESSAGE but they just errrr.... edited out anything he said which didn't CONFORM TO THE MESSAGE"
Harry not being the loser of the season after lying to and playing different two women then trying to gaslight a girl and turning the entire cast against her bc she was “lying” is wild
@@erloum1775THANK YOU! Watching him tell everyone the other girl was lying on Too Hot to Handle was already enough, and then watching him do the EXACT SAME thing to Melinda??? This man is evil!!! I truly hate him!!! I know she did wrong but I feel bad for her, it's such a terrible thing to not be believed!
Despite how much you said against Harry, you still went pretty easy. He was on some INSANE manipulation tactics this season. He was weaponizing therapy terms left and right. It was my theory Jess was only putting up with it for the screen time (clout=$$$) until I saw she gave him the time of day after the show. Idk what she was doing.
28:18 “period” and “speak your truth” isn’t online lingo. It’s aave. This is the issue with people taking the shit and rebranding it, people who don’t know what it is get confused. I’m from atl, people been saying shit like this since I could remember, way before it became mainstream online
i'm really glad someone said this because that bothered me and generally it really bothers me to see people refer to AAVE as online lingo or gen z speak or whatever
And Dylan being a public figure and saying stuff like “this is 14 year old online lingo” definitely doesn’t make it any better and helps with people getting confused :/
in the end stevan ghosts alara literally a week after the show ends and the only couple that lasted a while was christise and nigel (they dated for like 6 months) surprisingly
@@irisamelia9787 i’m sorry if my reply sounded rude, that wasn’t how i intended it to be 😭 also i agree i don’t really know what i was thinking when i commented that so im sorry
I'm still on Melinda's side when she told everyone Harry kissed her. Bc Harry is a huge manipulator and had already started to get people on his side and told everyone Melinda lied about the kiss and just wants clout. So Melinda had to clean her name! And I don't believe in the concept of a third person being a homewrecker who should be ashamed bc the only homewrecker is the one living in the home aka Harry and he got away with many people believing his side and supporting him. He did the same on his season THTH when he kissed his partner (and therefore lost money) and told everyone she was the one who persuaded him so everyone in the house litterally bullied her and made her the villain and he let it happen with a cheeky grin. I don't like him
She deservd ALOT of apologies because they drug her through the mud! And then for those same men to witness, be informed or know Harry did it and still manipulate/lie to Jess ontop of lie of the bombshells and attack melinda. This is a shameful season frfr
Sure the way Harry was blaming ot all on her was shitty BUT you still don't make out with people's boyfriend, it's a messy and just shitty thing to do.
To be fair Melinda using "online language" in real life is not odd to me because a lot of "online language" is just AAVE and she is a black woman. So many words that people consider to be online or gen Z language I watched the older people in my life use
Dylan’s part job is TH-cam. People don’t realize his full time job is being a magician with how often he does a disappearing act. It’s brilliant honestly. Also not the singing Matt Damon 😂
Plus she didn't want to believe any of the girls, but if any guys said something about Harry that's when she would pause. Doesn't sound like much of a girls girl in that regard.
Melinda is using AAVE (african american vernacular English). people on the internet just copy those phrases and it has become “online/gen z slang” but it’s actually commonly used words and phrases in the black community which Melinda is apart of.
Saw this type of comment a couple of times, but I really appreciate that you defined the acronym AAVE because I was unfamiliar with the term. I also really appreciate the phrasing you used - it was easy to interpret this comment as trying to help educate rather than aggressively correct. Anyway great job and thanks for teaching me something.
Thank you for educating without being mean about it. I've seen other comments tearing him down instead of just explaining. This is a fact that I have never heard before so thank you.
did anyone else see dominique’s tiktok? she basically exposed the behavior of her matches during the show… which makes sense because i thought some of her reactions to things seemed so overdone… but the show just wanted to make her seem dramatic
Possibly an unpopular opinion. To preface: I don't necessarily enjoy Melinda as a reality TV show "character." I think she tries entirely too hard, and it's a little too cringe for my liking. But, I just have to say this: Melinda got way too much smoke for doing what everyone else does on these ridiculous dating shows. So, she "tempted" Harry. Not to be callous, but ok? Was that not the entire reason that lineup was brought in-to wreak havoc, stir up drama, and shake the foundation of the established couples? Christine was intent on kissing Kaz, and went about it in the most relentless way possible. In front of the whole group, she was on that man like white on rice. He was in a solid relationship with Micah, was he not? Yet, no one treated Christine the way the whole house treated Melinda. Also, when Christine was all over Kaz and the other guys were watching, I remember Harry saying something like, "I would've folded already, even if I had a wife and kids." The man is an absolute menace, yet was able to convince the whole house that Melinda was the problem? Also, to my recollection, Jess asked Melinda-in front of all the other women-to explain what transpired between Melinda and Harry. Then, after Melinda explained, Jess became upset that Melinda did what she asked her to do? Lol. Jessica's anger was completely misdirected. She should've saved some of that energy for the man who was telling her he loved her and wanted to be a father to her daughter. The whole thing was just so irritating to me. When it was finally revealed that Harry did, in fact, kiss Melinda and even went as far as saying that he "wanted to f her so bad," and create tall/athletic children with her (which was a super weird "get out" type of thing to say, btw), no one even acknowledged the fact that they'd all stood in solidarity with Harry and accused Melinda of lying for clout. Typical misogynoir for these types of shows. Disappointing, but not unsurprising. Side note: Melinda wasn't speaking in "trendy" internet lingo. She was using AAVE, like many black people do. Most of these so-called "internet phrases" are simply AAVE gone viral. You know, like "whew, chile," "spill the tea," "on fleek," etc? It's not "internet slang," it's just the hijacking of black culture/black culture becoming mainstream 🙄 Edit: typo.
@@DovesEyes623 Yes, girl! Had to speak on it. It's just so frustrating how often these microaggressions occur on these types of shows, and they always go completely unnoticed by the masses.
Yeah, I instantly saw and understood Melinda’s defeated posture change when Harry boldfaced lied to everyone while looking in her eyes. That clip grossed me out. His entitlement, the racial power dynamics at play. It crossed my mind he may have purposefully chose her to fool around with because of how easily he could discredit her. I didn’t tie that to lowkey racism, until hearing the type of gaslighting used. It was different than his manipulation style and lies he used on the blonde and the brunette with highlights.
I'm not disagreeing about Melinda's behaviour being cringe but she's black using black American slang. Slang black grandparents use. It's not just 'online' lingo
dylan, i disagree. jess had ASKED melinda what happened at the table in that public setting. there’s no reason she got mad at melinda because melinda simply did…what she asked her to do
i didnt watch the show but even if she asked she could havae kept it for some minutes to not embarass her in front of everyone, at the end jess (maybe) didnt ask to know if harry cheated and it isnt anyone else’s business neither
Jess asked Melinda what happened publicly infront of all the girls and she answered. Jess was doing too much and was showing some mirco aggressions and she didn’t have any of that energy for Harry.
28:19 the online lingo thing is not valid criticism imo... correct me if i'm wrong but she's just using aave (african american vernacular english), and often aave terms get picked up by ppl on social media. black ppl literally came up with these phrases first before social media took them and made them cringe
Melinda is the douche of the season over Harry?? Melinda was upset that Chris didn’t choose her because he implied on the date that he was going to. Also, Harry seriously downplayed his relationship to Melinda plus the girls were supposed to flirt with guys to try and get the guys to choose them over their current partner. She’s not a homewrecker, she was just doing what she was supposed to do
Melinda was just doing what production wanted her to be doing. She was a host on another reality show so is aware of producer shenanigans. It just seems more playing the character/role because she knows this stuff is not that serious. She'll keep getting on these shows because production will find her easy to work with and delivers what they want.
Exactly- Harry leaves a girl, lies about kissing another girl but she’s the douche of the season? Forget her being called a liar until the footage was released.
In regards to 28:13 online lingo is pretty heavily influenced by AAVE so Melinda isn't speaking like a 14 year old and that's not a fair statement to make. As not an African American that's all I'll say but like yeah.
the onlyyy thing i disagree with is all this melinda hate. she definitely wasnt my favorite especially after seeing her on thth but “people who talk like they’re online in real life” when she was just using aave kinda had me like ???
@@christina8866 yes i agree. she was doing a lot of weird shit this season which is why i said she wasnt my favorite this season. i just meant that critique alone
Did we forget that Jessica asked Melinda what happened and then got mad when she told her? Like what? That’s what they all sat down to do. I don’t buy this innocent Jess thing. They are on a tv show, what convo would have been private. All the girls were “telling” on the men. That was the point for bringing the other folks back. Melinda got too much heat for doing exactly what she was paid to do, create drama. Harry boldly lying would be more troubling than a girl telling the truth at a table full of girls who were all there to start mess.
Hey Dylan please don’t confuse a black woman using her own language of AAVE as “online lingo”. Your criticism didn’t come from a bad place but it’s not right to reduce AAVE to 14 year old online lingo simply because it has been co-opted by others. The terms used by her are still used by Black Americans.
Dylan, I love you and all, but shifting blame on Melinda for the kiss is an L take. She did her part as a bombshell, it was entirely on Harry to stay loyal to Jess. She said that Harry had kissed her first and then mentioned about being worried about the cameras so she reassured him that there was no cameras around and that he could kiss her again. I believe her because she's been honest about the occurrence since she first brought it up. Giving her the douche award when Harry was right there is a low blow.
Harry even went and checked with the crew to make sure they didn't get it on camera and make excuses. But Dylan is over here giving him a pass and dogging on Melinda
Agreed! That was literally her role and her only way to get in the house which was the point of the game show. Plus all the gaslighting and lying by Harry and other guys saying that Melinda must have lied was insane
Huuuge L take. Imagine blaming the person who’s job it is to be a bombshell. I’m so disappointed in that take. Harry was “committed” but Melinda didn’t even know that.
Jess wanted to embarrass, exspose and put melinda on the spot by instigating the convo the way she did the "they already told us so YOU tell us yours"....what upset and triggered her was that she (for some reason) was stupid and chose to believe Harry 🙄 she was upset harry embarrassed her during her gotcha moment by not telling her everything and that it was melinda, a black woman, who "pulled her man" Harry has a similar issue because it was disgusting the way he and the others talked about her. They trid to erase her femininity as well with her credibility. Then a majority of the guys knew he was wrong and continud to defend him and and say problematic and prejudice shxt about her. Melinda was a bombshell....just like Hollie, Britan and Christina....they were doing heir jobs and following the rules. The point is that the relationships are bing tested but it difficult to do that when all the guys are playing mindgames, being childish, devious and thinking with their 🍆. This was rougher than season one imo
Btw the 'online lingo' Melinda was using was mostly AAVE (African American vernacular English) that has just been taken and overused online by white people. She's likely using those terms because she was raised around them, not because she's online too much. She's annoying but that specifically wasn't really her fault
I'll eternally be confused as to where this massive respect for her comes from. That Epi pen speech on LIB was just narcissism and cringe. Was not surprised at all that she would be interested in someone like Harry.
@@lallana2882 right like all these men saying she is sooo mature and an inspiration lmao the girlie continued dating that nasty man after knowing he cheated on her, the self respect bar is so low crying
? LIB literally has people getting married on the show .. Consistently year after year ? & willing to marry Harry ? Where do you all get that notion from?
I agree with Jess abt Malinda not needing to say it like it was a funny joke. But I don’t think she understood how deep they were into their “relationship”. Like the point of the show is to get into the house. She’s not thinking she’s ruining a marriage, she’s just doing her job.
@@tomatosoup4618Jesus Christ. Or… maybe…. Juuuust maybe. This guy has heard more 14 yr olds online talking like that and some of the billion jokes abt 14 yr olds talking that and has rarely heard a black person talk like that. Because I have rarely heard a black person talk like that, I’m sure that’s a thing in a lotta places, but I’ve heard hundreds of teens use that sort of slang. “Micro aggression” is just too much To be clear, racism is still a massive problem in our country and micro aggressions absolutely exist and happen constantly. But annoying little kids using as many slang words as possible is also a massive problem in our country and people who heard them more than those who originally made it absolutely exist too
@leynieie1483 you can't just put a woke sentence together and decide it makes sense. I'm not invalidating a black woman's feelings, this person is saying that a random youtuber who made a joke that's been made a million times, making fun of annoying little kids, was being racist. That's just wrong. If people start deciding that simply not knowing abt a culture is racist this is never gonna end. You can fight against racism without just yelling "micro aggression" at sht without actually taking a second to think if it's a micro aggression.
@@frenchgirl5878 to be fair white people who really don't know many black/brown people outside of a few really don't understand that it's not "gen z slang" or "internet talk" They think all of these words and phrases are new and don't understand it's a complex dialect (more complext than the English he speaks) studied by linguists that goes back decades if not centuries. They think it's all new and a phase because that IS what it is for young white people.
dylan, i love you, but i think melinda being in the wrong about the harry situation is uncalled for and goes way deeper than that. i do agree that melinda came in strong and i didn’t care for it either (same with christine, but why she didn’t get the same smoke is because of her lightskin privilege), but also that’s kind of the point of them coming in. they’re trying to get a man/woman. everyone was doing the exact same thing melinda was doing so how come it’s not ok when she does it? and jess should really be mad at harry because he was the one who owed her the loyalty. also, jess outright asked her in front of the rest of the girls what happened, so for her to say that it wasn’t respectful of melinda to speak her truth in front of the others is out of pocket. and how come harry got to walk away with no consequences but melinda was being talked down to that whole time?? furthermore, harry straight up gaslit melinda and lied to everyone in the house about what went down, and was STILL commemorated at the finale for finally telling the truth that he had been denying this whole time. and they never gave melinda an apology. to my next point, melinda using this “online/trendy” language is just her using aave that people took and made mainstream. and i’m sorry, but as a black girl, i strongly dislike jess because when melinda was using aave during the finale, she tried to silence her and acted like she was doing too much. she did same thing with tolu in the post-show interviews and rolled her eyes and was being a racist mean girl. and what annoys me about it even more is that it’s ok for her to use our vernacular, but when an actual black person does, she catches the fattest attitude. honestly and truthfully, black people, especially black women, aren’t treated fairly by most cast members and producers in reality tv (tbh, in tv period), so this whole topic about melinda just triggers me, especially considering that i am a black woman who has been discriminated against on several occasions. some people may claim that this has absolutely nothing to do with race, but the sad reality is that it absolutely does.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I don’t watch reality tv unless it’s wholesome (so almost never). So thank you for filling in all that about Jess. I noticed her rolling her eyes in those finale clips while Melinda was speaking. I’m curious how the other Black women were with Melinda. She looked so defeated by the end of that gaslighting scene in front of the group.
It was the first time I've felt so disappointed by Dylan. Blow after after blow. "Internet lingo", feeding into the race dynamics of that whole kiss debacle then giving HER the douche award over the very obvious douche, I feel as defeated as Melinda was at that table.
I’m definitely interested in your opinion on the Melinda situation so this isn’t to disagree but at one point you talk about her overuse of “online lingo” Just to be clear her language in the clips you showed (ex. period) aren’t “online lingo” it’s AAVE and referring to it as such is disrespectful. I understand the point you were making but it’s important to know the difference between actual online terms and AAVE especially if you’re going to refer to its overuse as cringe.
it is absolutely insane to call anyone but harry the douche of the season he is the most clear case of psycho master manipulator i’ve ever seen on reality tv… it’s giving misogyny
Mel, Jess, and Harry break down: - I have the biggest problem with how Jessica and Harry went about the situation with Mel. I didn't like it. Harry uses weaponized incompetence, he's literally a 3-year-old and Jess falls for a baby. She acts like his mother. When all the girls were at the table, Jess said she knew everything, and with that, Mel thought Jess knew about the kiss. It all goes back to Harry, he lied to Jess, and Jess thought she knew everything, so Mel started talking about what happened, jess got mad even though Mel thought she knew everything. Then Jess said you could've told me privately, even though Jess noted she knew EVERYTHING. How was Mel supposed to know she didn't know about the kiss if Jess said she knew ABOUT EVERYTHING? Jess got mad at Mel because she didn't like what she was hearing about the man she was with. So she attacked Mel even though she should've been getting mad at Harry for being a compulsive liar, yet she attacked the woman even though it Perfect Match, the women and men were going to have to step on someone else toes. Plus Mel most likely had no clue Jess and Harry were saying "I love you" to each other. Harry didn't communicate that to any of the girls. Harry is one of the worst men on reality TV.
I giggled at the end because i think he was about to say toodles to wrap up the video, and then he remembered this wasn't the place for it... I missed him shouting at my face OOGA BOOGA
Oh nah not too Much on Melinda she came and did what she was suppose to do. I feel like we watched a different show. How is Harry and Jess commited it's been like 3 days. Melinda is the second biggest person on the show. And that's how black people talk the internet stole it.... How Melinda get more bashed than Harry who was the one who did the most and then lied on the black woman and got her even more bashed in real life. Idk this video rubbed me the wrong way....
Giving Melinda the “douche” award instead of Harry was… a choice. She instigated things but at least she didn’t lie and lovebomb the way he did. Also Stephen and allora aren’t together bc he ghosted her right after the show
I heavily disagree with the “14 year old on twitter” thing, it’s clear that Melinda as a black woman is just using aaave which has been colonised by the internet . You can dislike Melinda for whatever reason but Dylan saying that rlly rubbed me the wrong way.
@@esikazemese says...a white woman. sigh. if you don't get it, then fine. why invalidate other people's feelings. thats like a man telling a woman to "stop being sensitive" when someone is making snide sexist comments. dylan didn't do that but as of this video he's obviously ignorant to how some (not all cus i don't speak like that) speak in real life.
Hmmm idk about Melinda being the worst of the season. Yes she wasn’t great but Harry was the one in the relationship and still decided to kiss her 🤷🏽♀️ idk how the hell folks didn’t get on him for it and just blaming Melinda. Also that’s AAVE not internet slang :/ like Black folks do talk like that irl
And he kept love bombing and manipulating Jess (the person who HE has an obligation to be faithful to NOT Melinda) BUT MELINDA IS THE WORST???? And NOT Harry??? The one who was instigating everything??? And INSTANTLY ran back to the producers to see if they’d caught anything on camera??? AND WAS ONLY CRYING AT THE HOUSE BECAUSE HE HAD FOOD POISONING??? NOT BECAUSE HE FELT BAD ABOUT AHYTHING TO DO WITH JESS??? But yes sure, Melinda is the worst of the season…… I’m not sure this was Dylan’s best take
Saying a black women is a loser because she uses "online lingo in the real world" is a very weird take. She is a black women using african american vernacular language. AAVE been around for ages, even before the internet was created. Non black people are just appropriating the language without even knowing its history or grammar. The only reason why you think it's internet lingo is because AAVE gets a lot of exposure thanks to black culture going mainstream, but then being copied by other communities.
DYLANNNN i love you so much ive been watching your vids for about 7 years and recently started showing my mum (52yrs old) your vids and she really enjoys them 😭 which was surprising to me since me and her don't often share the same humour but she now considers herself a troublemaker😁 she also said you have amazing teeth😍 she's now updated with all the fandoms inside jokes too, U ALSO INSPIRED HER TO BUY LAMPS LIKE YOURS FOR HER BEDROOM!!! love u Dylan!
A few points Dylan probably missed: -Stevan ghosted Alara after the season -The nobodies won because the "rejects" had an alliance of voting for a "reject" couple if any made it to the end
I know you said you were cooking something for this show in the last Bridgerton video, but DAMN, I wasn't expecting this early... thank you for making my WEEK
You're being way too easy on Jessica and hard on Melinda. Jessica asked what happened. Melinda answered. If Jessica didn't want an answer, then she shouldn't have asked a question. I also think you're being too easy on Harry. He kissed someone else. He's just as culpable. He doesn't get a pass
Hmm, not Ok with Dylan labeling Melinda as a homewrecker and a douchebag. It would be one thing if this was first and last and he didn't get any context, but he watched this entire season. It not OK for Harry to paint her as a liar and a desperate woman looking for "clout" when he was the one who wasn't being honest. It was especially problematic that neither Harry nor Jess apologized to Melinda when the truth was revealed. He was willing to go along with the lie he concocted if Netflix hadn't called him out. Melinda also is the only person who Netflix paid to be a host of one of their reality shows. So she didn't need Harry for "clout." She also doesn't speak in "Internet lingo," that's her authentic personality.
Dylan's Bridgerton season 3 was so confusingly amazing that i spent the whole night binging the season... mind you, i didn't want to watch the show anymore because I'm not too fond of period pieces lol.... shows the power that Dylan hold over my viewing habits 😅😅😊
nooooo Melinda speaks like a black woman and like most black women do, it’s the way we speak, and it’d a part of aave, which for some reason has been known as internet slang, TikTok slang, gen z slang, bc they have adopted the way of speaking from black culture. it’s one of the many ways we uplift each other, but it is deems as such or degraded for multiple reasons.
troublemakers/boogies, i'm pleasantly surprised by this comment section! i was feeling a bit icky about the stuff dylan was saying in this video about melinda (referring to her using AAVE as internet lingo, general lack of sympathy and slight double standards towards the way he viewed her actions compared to other lighter/whiter contestants) but didn't really think i'd see that many others expressing that sentiment and i'm glad i was wrong. i do think it comes from a place of ignorance, not malice, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't call him out on it anyway! also dylan if you see this i hope you don't take it as hate because i see it as a respectful critique/an attempt to educate. i have watched you for almost seven years now and am a big fan, so this is not me trying to tear you down at all. hope you're having a good day!
rt I love Dylan’s videos like many of us, but that part i was taken aback by I even watched it back and was like am I missing something or is it just aave. and I agree I hope he doesn’t take it as disrespect or hate, just want him to acknowledge that!
knowing from his past videos im sure he'll take the feedback genuinely and not as hate...i was surprised at his takes as well but im used to it atp because of his am i the asshole videos lol
okay but harry is so deeply manipulative it's scary. the man uses that similar to therapist speech sometimes, and if anyone finds themself in a situation like that, PLEASE run. that man is horrid.
dominique came out and said that Bryton was being very homophobic (which is important because she’s bisexual) and that their arguments were pretty major but the edits made it seem like she was getting mad over nothing. also the edits made it seem like she liked toxic guys but they cut out some pretty major stuff.
One piece of feedback on the vid (otherwise a banger as always) is that “internet speak” majority of the time is actually AAVE (African American Vernacular English) or something that a black woman in her amazing/funny nature said that became viral. Therefore, the internet clings on to it and people over use it out of context, which makes it feel annoying to hear over and over again. So her using AAVE-originated phrases is very justifiable and okay. Just a note! ❤
harry complaining about being judged for his past actions when he's done absolutely nothing to indicate with his actions that he has even slightly changed simultaneously cracks me up and makes me incredibly concerned about the state of delusion he is in.
it makes me laugh with rage
Wdymmmm he's gone to therapy and he's trying to change, you can't get mad at him bc of his past actions and bc he literally just cheated on Jess and completely manipulated her and therefore HASNT changed! /s
I actually watched this season recently myself and he is so infuriating it's actually entertaining
At least he stopped throwing rocks at people like he did in high school
7g276😢😅@@gooodmorning4526
"If you know more than half of the people I've introduced seek help" 😭😭
I'm so hit by this, I knew liek 70% of them 😅
My brain refuses to put this stuff to my memory, so despite probably watching a bunch of these videos, I've no memory of anyone in them. I also don't care to watch the actual shows, so that helps as well.
@@elezeiaz *like
@@LittleBite-wow really nobody knew like should've been written like that
I'm seriously about to cancel all my streaming services because of this call out
Dylan being so offended that someone so mid was compared to his doppelgänger 😂
Dylan has the Flynn Rider viiiiiibe which flob robber doesn't have. No competition
@@Miriam-ky3iq facts
HAHAHAHAHA FRRRR
16:17 16:18 16:19 16:19 16:19 16:19
@@Miriam-ky3iqFalse
i swear this man will go missing and then come back like nothing happened😭
@@ivanauhh yeah, but then i think of all the trials and tribulations he must be going through at the tender age of 20 .. can’t be easy. 😕
He uploaded here only two weeks ago.
What are you even talking about
@@micryt.And yesterday on the main channel
@@alicedalexandritethis is his only channel…. 👀 i know ppl keep confusing him with the Dylan is in trouble guy, but they’re two diff ppl.
Not Dylan getting offended that another man got the Flynn Rider compliment 😭😭😭
Dylan personality is a lot more like Flynn, though, than Chris 😂
A Dylan AND an Ooga Booga video in one week? Father is FEEDING US
Father is MOTHERING✨
Just to leave us dry for another month 😭😭
@@Serenityy08gonna have to watch this video in 5 minute increments per day until his next video release to keep myself hydrated
We ain't getting another vid till December 💀
@@AyDeeAichDee we better start rationalizing our portions, hunger is near
I will say with Dominique she did a tiktok talking about the fact that they were truly fighting because he was sexist, homophobic, and transphobic and the show just edited it out
TY people gloss over this too much and im tired of this "toxic Dominique" narrative
I saw her crying and I wondered wth where they fighting about to make her cry, like, a line must have been crossed
very "convenient"
"oh errr no I'm not the bad person, he was totally...ummm...just saying everything that disagrees with THE MESSAGE and I totally support THE MESSAGE but they just errrr.... edited out anything he said which didn't CONFORM TO THE MESSAGE"
Her comments about liking toxicity and going on about interesting but horrible compared to boring still confirms her as toxic though
@@Savikelle one thing doesnt annul the other, no one said she isnt toxic. But she was shown as such while the man was not...
I seriously admire Dylan’s dedication to being hostile toward Nick Lachey
I should have learned by now not to drink while watching Dylan cause I choked on my coffee when he said “singing Matt Damon”
him and aaron and jo should collab 😭
@@fkacoolgrlI WAS THINKING THE SAME THINGGGGGG
Kennie JD can agree 😂
Harry not being the loser of the season after lying to and playing different two women then trying to gaslight a girl and turning the entire cast against her bc she was “lying” is wild
I think that was cuz he wasn’t worth enough to get any price from Dylan. As if the girl wasn’t the loser it was going to be the other random guy.
lmao kaz too
Yeah I’m really surprised he gave Melinda the “douche” award when Harry was 10x worse
Almost to a T with what he does on his Netflix debut on Too Hot to Handle…. ARE WE SENSING A PATTERN????
@@erloum1775THANK YOU! Watching him tell everyone the other girl was lying on Too Hot to Handle was already enough, and then watching him do the EXACT SAME thing to Melinda??? This man is evil!!! I truly hate him!!! I know she did wrong but I feel bad for her, it's such a terrible thing to not be believed!
I love he transitioned from foot fetish to sock sponsorship. Cleannn
Giggling. Twirling my hair. Kicking my feet. Ooga booga videoooooo
Oi oi
literally me 😭
no literally hahahahaha
I love this, yes.
*gorilla noises*
Despite how much you said against Harry, you still went pretty easy. He was on some INSANE manipulation tactics this season. He was weaponizing therapy terms left and right. It was my theory Jess was only putting up with it for the screen time (clout=$$$) until I saw she gave him the time of day after the show. Idk what she was doing.
He went absolutely too easy on Harry when he was using therapy tactics and manipulative tears to excuse his behavior
He also looks like he's an alcoholic, like whoever he talks to any of the women he looks drunk all the time. Dude has issues.
28:18 “period” and “speak your truth” isn’t online lingo. It’s aave. This is the issue with people taking the shit and rebranding it, people who don’t know what it is get confused. I’m from atl, people been saying shit like this since I could remember, way before it became mainstream online
Period! Haha had to do it but I fully agree.
I thought the same... She's not being cringe with talking in her dialect
i'm really glad someone said this because that bothered me and generally it really bothers me to see people refer to AAVE as online lingo or gen z speak or whatever
right that is her natural dialect
And Dylan being a public figure and saying stuff like “this is 14 year old online lingo” definitely doesn’t make it any better and helps with people getting confused :/
in the end stevan ghosts alara literally a week after the show ends and the only couple that lasted a while was christise and nigel (they dated for like 6 months) surprisingly
that’s crazy 😭
Why did he even bother putting all that energy in just to ghost
Wow
what the fuck. love has died.
@@alexisbas10wondering the same thing!!! i guess to look good on tv??
we know these Netflix shows are your guilty pleasure Dylan
Along w Twilight😭
This is like if Survivor and Love Island had a really hideous baby.
the down syndrome of reality TV shows if you will 🤣
Perfect description 👌
survivor doesn’t deserve that level of disrespect
@@zoeytwice I'm a gigantic survivor fan. I meant no disrespect towards it. That's why I said "hideous" baby.
@@irisamelia9787 i’m sorry if my reply sounded rude, that wasn’t how i intended it to be 😭 also i agree i don’t really know what i was thinking when i commented that so im sorry
I'm still on Melinda's side when she told everyone Harry kissed her. Bc Harry is a huge manipulator and had already started to get people on his side and told everyone Melinda lied about the kiss and just wants clout. So Melinda had to clean her name! And I don't believe in the concept of a third person being a homewrecker who should be ashamed bc the only homewrecker is the one living in the home aka Harry and he got away with many people believing his side and supporting him. He did the same on his season THTH when he kissed his partner (and therefore lost money) and told everyone she was the one who persuaded him so everyone in the house litterally bullied her and made her the villain and he let it happen with a cheeky grin. I don't like him
She deservd ALOT of apologies because they drug her through the mud! And then for those same men to witness, be informed or know Harry did it and still manipulate/lie to Jess ontop of lie of the bombshells and attack melinda. This is a shameful season frfr
!!!!!!!!
Literally and to try and paint her as messy or wrong for that was odd
Sure the way Harry was blaming ot all on her was shitty BUT you still don't make out with people's boyfriend, it's a messy and just shitty thing to do.
To be fair Melinda using "online language" in real life is not odd to me because a lot of "online language" is just AAVE and she is a black woman. So many words that people consider to be online or gen Z language I watched the older people in my life use
Yooo let’s go guys thanks for the likes
This point bothered me too 😭 like wdym "online language"?? That's AAVE
I just came looking for this comment! That bothered me so much!
What is AAVE?
@@awkwardotter13 African American Vernacular English
Dylan’s part job is TH-cam. People don’t realize his full time job is being a magician with how often he does a disappearing act. It’s brilliant honestly.
Also not the singing Matt Damon 😂
Words can not explain how much disdain I have for Harry. That man is red flag #1. His entire person and soul are just a giant red flag.
i really tried to believe him fr but he´s such a bad liar idk how he manages to get away with everything
Yeahhhh, that take on Jessica was so inaccurate. Her believing Harry for no reason knowing how grimy he is is the opposite of no-nonsense.
Plus she didn't want to believe any of the girls, but if any guys said something about Harry that's when she would pause. Doesn't sound like much of a girls girl in that regard.
Melinda is using AAVE (african american vernacular English). people on the internet just copy those phrases and it has become “online/gen z slang” but it’s actually commonly used words and phrases in the black community which Melinda is apart of.
Saw this type of comment a couple of times, but I really appreciate that you defined the acronym AAVE because I was unfamiliar with the term. I also really appreciate the phrasing you used - it was easy to interpret this comment as trying to help educate rather than aggressively correct.
Anyway great job and thanks for teaching me something.
Thank you for saying what AAVE was unlike the other comments, cause I was confused but wanted to know
It still makes her sound stupid
Thank you for educating without being mean about it. I've seen other comments tearing him down instead of just explaining. This is a fact that I have never heard before so thank you.
It's a fair reaction, no need to play victim@@mandimcdowell15
did anyone else see dominique’s tiktok? she basically exposed the behavior of her matches during the show… which makes sense because i thought some of her reactions to things seemed so overdone… but the show just wanted to make her seem dramatic
Cut to her saying she's turned on by the drama, which was tasteless and she fell for the trap. She definitely got a bad edit.
All joke aside, a lot of internet lingo like "period" originates from black culture. I dunno if that was the most earned critique of Melinda.
Melinda is not using “online language,” she’s speaking AAVE. AAVE has just been co-opted by the internet.
Possibly an unpopular opinion.
To preface: I don't necessarily enjoy Melinda as a reality TV show "character." I think she tries entirely too hard, and it's a little too cringe for my liking. But, I just have to say this: Melinda got way too much smoke for doing what everyone else does on these ridiculous dating shows.
So, she "tempted" Harry. Not to be callous, but ok? Was that not the entire reason that lineup was brought in-to wreak havoc, stir up drama, and shake the foundation of the established couples?
Christine was intent on kissing Kaz, and went about it in the most relentless way possible. In front of the whole group, she was on that man like white on rice. He was in a solid relationship with Micah, was he not? Yet, no one treated Christine the way the whole house treated Melinda. Also, when Christine was all over Kaz and the other guys were watching, I remember Harry saying something like, "I would've folded already, even if I had a wife and kids." The man is an absolute menace, yet was able to convince the whole house that Melinda was the problem?
Also, to my recollection, Jess asked Melinda-in front of all the other women-to explain what transpired between Melinda and Harry. Then, after Melinda explained, Jess became upset that Melinda did what she asked her to do? Lol. Jessica's anger was completely misdirected. She should've saved some of that energy for the man who was telling her he loved her and wanted to be a father to her daughter.
The whole thing was just so irritating to me. When it was finally revealed that Harry did, in fact, kiss Melinda and even went as far as saying that he "wanted to f her so bad," and create tall/athletic children with her (which was a super weird "get out" type of thing to say, btw), no one even acknowledged the fact that they'd all stood in solidarity with Harry and accused Melinda of lying for clout. Typical misogynoir for these types of shows. Disappointing, but not unsurprising.
Side note: Melinda wasn't speaking in "trendy" internet lingo. She was using AAVE, like many black people do. Most of these so-called "internet phrases" are simply AAVE gone viral. You know, like "whew, chile," "spill the tea," "on fleek," etc? It's not "internet slang," it's just the hijacking of black culture/black culture becoming mainstream 🙄
Edit: typo.
Whew!! All this!! Thank you for your service. I was growing weary 😥
@@DovesEyes623 Yes, girl! Had to speak on it. It's just so frustrating how often these microaggressions occur on these types of shows, and they always go completely unnoticed by the masses.
yes to everything you said
Yeah, I instantly saw and understood Melinda’s defeated posture change when Harry boldfaced lied to everyone while looking in her eyes. That clip grossed me out. His entitlement, the racial power dynamics at play.
It crossed my mind he may have purposefully chose her to fool around with because of how easily he could discredit her. I didn’t tie that to lowkey racism, until hearing the type of gaslighting used. It was different than his manipulation style and lies he used on the blonde and the brunette with highlights.
the way you explained everything i was thinking so well ! thank youuuu. hope more people see this and hopefully dylan does too :)
I'm not disagreeing about Melinda's behaviour being cringe but she's black using black American slang. Slang black grandparents use. It's not just 'online' lingo
dylan, i disagree. jess had ASKED melinda what happened at the table in that public setting. there’s no reason she got mad at melinda because melinda simply did…what she asked her to do
i didnt watch the show but even if she asked she could havae kept it for some minutes to not embarass her in front of everyone, at the end jess (maybe) didnt ask to know if harry cheated and it isnt anyone else’s business neither
Jess asked Melinda what happened publicly infront of all the girls and she answered. Jess was doing too much and was showing some mirco aggressions and she didn’t have any of that energy for Harry.
28:19 the online lingo thing is not valid criticism imo... correct me if i'm wrong but she's just using aave (african american vernacular english), and often aave terms get picked up by ppl on social media. black ppl literally came up with these phrases first before social media took them and made them cringe
no you are right, it is aave its just been misused and overused now unfortunately
Melinda is the douche of the season over Harry?? Melinda was upset that Chris didn’t choose her because he implied on the date that he was going to. Also, Harry seriously downplayed his relationship to Melinda plus the girls were supposed to flirt with guys to try and get the guys to choose them over their current partner. She’s not a homewrecker, she was just doing what she was supposed to do
Melinda was just doing what production wanted her to be doing. She was a host on another reality show so is aware of producer shenanigans. It just seems more playing the character/role because she knows this stuff is not that serious. She'll keep getting on these shows because production will find her easy to work with and delivers what they want.
Exactly- Harry leaves a girl, lies about kissing another girl but she’s the douche of the season? Forget her being called a liar until the footage was released.
Yeah Harry was a million times douchier
In regards to 28:13 online lingo is pretty heavily influenced by AAVE so Melinda isn't speaking like a 14 year old and that's not a fair statement to make. As not an African American that's all I'll say but like yeah.
the onlyyy thing i disagree with is all this melinda hate. she definitely wasnt my favorite especially after seeing her on thth but “people who talk like they’re online in real life” when she was just using aave kinda had me like ???
that was not the only critique of her tho she was still being bitchy
@@christina8866 yes i agree. she was doing a lot of weird shit this season which is why i said she wasnt my favorite this season. i just meant that critique alone
Genuinely I think this man just straight up does not have black friends if he thinks that was online lingo lmao
Did we forget that Jessica asked Melinda what happened and then got mad when she told her? Like what? That’s what they all sat down to do. I don’t buy this innocent Jess thing. They are on a tv show, what convo would have been private. All the girls were “telling” on the men. That was the point for bringing the other folks back. Melinda got too much heat for doing exactly what she was paid to do, create drama. Harry boldly lying would be more troubling than a girl telling the truth at a table full of girls who were all there to start mess.
Exactly! This video really is letting Harry off so easily and then demonizing Melinda for answering Jessica's question
Why doesn’t this comment have many more likes?
wow ur so hip and young dylan! watching the same shows as the youth!!
wdym, he IS the youth.
Ofc he just turned 20!!!
he's just 20, remember?
Not the old jokes smh
@@daanyasobhan7732 what is he a vampire to always be 20 😑
but also ! Black woman and black ppl in general have been saying ‘period’ and other slang for years before it became a ‘teenager slang’ !! 😭🙇♀️
Hey Dylan please don’t confuse a black woman using her own language of AAVE as “online lingo”. Your criticism didn’t come from a bad place but it’s not right to reduce AAVE to 14 year old online lingo simply because it has been co-opted by others. The terms used by her are still used by Black Americans.
Yeah, no, none of these people are in reality tv because they are very smart and it shows.
Just had my wisdom teeth taken out and shouldn't be laughing because it hurts but 'Singing Matt Damon' really got me
Dylan, I love you and all, but shifting blame on Melinda for the kiss is an L take. She did her part as a bombshell, it was entirely on Harry to stay loyal to Jess. She said that Harry had kissed her first and then mentioned about being worried about the cameras so she reassured him that there was no cameras around and that he could kiss her again. I believe her because she's been honest about the occurrence since she first brought it up. Giving her the douche award when Harry was right there is a low blow.
Harry even went and checked with the crew to make sure they didn't get it on camera and make excuses. But Dylan is over here giving him a pass and dogging on Melinda
Literally, she was sent in there to do that. Even if you wanna call her an instigator, Harry was 100x douchier
Agreed! That was literally her role and her only way to get in the house which was the point of the game show. Plus all the gaslighting and lying by Harry and other guys saying that Melinda must have lied was insane
They are both exhausting both Melinda & Harry. Prime examples of exhausting individuals
Huuuge L take. Imagine blaming the person who’s job it is to be a bombshell. I’m so disappointed in that take. Harry was “committed” but Melinda didn’t even know that.
0:10 never related to anything more in my entire life
"singing Matt Damon" actually took me out lolololol
Jess wanted to embarrass, exspose and put melinda on the spot by instigating the convo the way she did the "they already told us so YOU tell us yours"....what upset and triggered her was that she (for some reason) was stupid and chose to believe Harry 🙄 she was upset harry embarrassed her during her gotcha moment by not telling her everything and that it was melinda, a black woman, who "pulled her man"
Harry has a similar issue because it was disgusting the way he and the others talked about her. They trid to erase her femininity as well with her credibility. Then a majority of the guys knew he was wrong and continud to defend him and and say problematic and prejudice shxt about her.
Melinda was a bombshell....just like Hollie, Britan and Christina....they were doing heir jobs and following the rules. The point is that the relationships are bing tested but it difficult to do that when all the guys are playing mindgames, being childish, devious and thinking with their 🍆. This was rougher than season one imo
I usually like Dylan but AAVE is not "internet lingo" you can dislike Melinda but her lingo was Black American
Btw the 'online lingo' Melinda was using was mostly AAVE (African American vernacular English) that has just been taken and overused online by white people. She's likely using those terms because she was raised around them, not because she's online too much. She's annoying but that specifically wasn't really her fault
i was literally abt to comment the same thing 😭 bc yeah.. he lost me there
Jessica. A mom who spent several months on 2 different joke dating shows. And was willing to marry someone her kid never met. She is such a joke.
I'll eternally be confused as to where this massive respect for her comes from. That Epi pen speech on LIB was just narcissism and cringe. Was not surprised at all that she would be interested in someone like Harry.
@@lallana2882 right like all these men saying she is sooo mature and an inspiration lmao the girlie continued dating that nasty man after knowing he cheated on her, the self respect bar is so low crying
? LIB literally has people getting married on the show .. Consistently year after year ?
& willing to marry Harry ? Where do you all get that notion from?
I watched Aaron and Jo react to this show and they joked that her nanny is making bank 😂
3:54 we created a monster😭 (In the best way)
He eventually accepted it and now he won't allow anyone in his territory
I agree with Jess abt Malinda not needing to say it like it was a funny joke. But I don’t think she understood how deep they were into their “relationship”. Like the point of the show is to get into the house. She’s not thinking she’s ruining a marriage, she’s just doing her job.
dylan…online lingo? she was using aave..?
He’s from Wisconsin yall be gentle 😂😂😂😂😂
melinda isn’t talking like a 14 year old on twitter, 14 year olds on twitter are imitating black women. that’s how black women talk in the real world.
This video is giving ignorance and a microaggression against Melinda
@@tomatosoup4618Jesus Christ. Or… maybe…. Juuuust maybe. This guy has heard more 14 yr olds online talking like that and some of the billion jokes abt 14 yr olds talking that and has rarely heard a black person talk like that. Because I have rarely heard a black person talk like that, I’m sure that’s a thing in a lotta places, but I’ve heard hundreds of teens use that sort of slang. “Micro aggression” is just too much
To be clear, racism is still a massive problem in our country and micro aggressions absolutely exist and happen constantly. But annoying little kids using as many slang words as possible is also a massive problem in our country and people who heard them more than those who originally made it absolutely exist too
@@Oliverf-ej8klinvalidating the feelings of black women is certainly a choice
@leynieie1483 you can't just put a woke sentence together and decide it makes sense. I'm not invalidating a black woman's feelings, this person is saying that a random youtuber who made a joke that's been made a million times, making fun of annoying little kids, was being racist. That's just wrong.
If people start deciding that simply not knowing abt a culture is racist this is never gonna end. You can fight against racism without just yelling "micro aggression" at sht without actually taking a second to think if it's a micro aggression.
@@Oliverf-ej8kl you’re acting like they’re trying to crucify him for correcting and educating him. they are literally right that it is microaggressive
Online lingo is just AAVE 😂
"people who over use online lingo in the real world" Dylan... That's AAVE spoken by a Black woman. Please that was the yt-est thing you've said ever 😭
Most racist thing he’s ever said.
@@frenchgirl5878 to be fair white people who really don't know many black/brown people outside of a few really don't understand that it's not "gen z slang" or "internet talk"
They think all of these words and phrases are new and don't understand it's a complex dialect (more complext than the English he speaks) studied by linguists that goes back decades if not centuries. They think it's all new and a phase because that IS what it is for young white people.
omg it's not that serious
@@lustruhs3170 it's pretty harmful tbh but go off
@@lustruhs3170it was kind of a microagression but go off
dylan, i love you, but i think melinda being in the wrong about the harry situation is uncalled for and goes way deeper than that. i do agree that melinda came in strong and i didn’t care for it either (same with christine, but why she didn’t get the same smoke is because of her lightskin privilege), but also that’s kind of the point of them coming in. they’re trying to get a man/woman. everyone was doing the exact same thing melinda was doing so how come it’s not ok when she does it? and jess should really be mad at harry because he was the one who owed her the loyalty. also, jess outright asked her in front of the rest of the girls what happened, so for her to say that it wasn’t respectful of melinda to speak her truth in front of the others is out of pocket. and how come harry got to walk away with no consequences but melinda was being talked down to that whole time??
furthermore, harry straight up gaslit melinda and lied to everyone in the house about what went down, and was STILL commemorated at the finale for finally telling the truth that he had been denying this whole time. and they never gave melinda an apology.
to my next point, melinda using this “online/trendy” language is just her using aave that people took and made mainstream. and i’m sorry, but as a black girl, i strongly dislike jess because when melinda was using aave during the finale, she tried to silence her and acted like she was doing too much. she did same thing with tolu in the post-show interviews and rolled her eyes and was being a racist mean girl. and what annoys me about it even more is that it’s ok for her to use our vernacular, but when an actual black person does, she catches the fattest attitude.
honestly and truthfully, black people, especially black women, aren’t treated fairly by most cast members and producers in reality tv (tbh, in tv period), so this whole topic about melinda just triggers me, especially considering that i am a black woman who has been discriminated against on several occasions. some people may claim that this has absolutely nothing to do with race, but the sad reality is that it absolutely does.
im glad you wrote this comment because i definitely disagreed with the "trendy" language comment when it was really just aave
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I don’t watch reality tv unless it’s wholesome (so almost never). So thank you for filling in all that about Jess. I noticed her rolling her eyes in those finale clips while Melinda was speaking. I’m curious how the other Black women were with Melinda. She looked so defeated by the end of that gaslighting scene in front of the group.
It was the first time I've felt so disappointed by Dylan. Blow after after blow. "Internet lingo", feeding into the race dynamics of that whole kiss debacle then giving HER the douche award over the very obvious douche, I feel as defeated as Melinda was at that table.
@@ojs5988completely agree. There were microaggressions here. Let Harry off way too easily
I wonder why y’all feel the need to preface your comments by « I love you but » to explain to Dylan why he’s in the wrong.
Now I feel like a stalker bc this came out 9 seconds ago 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
I knoww and now he’ll think we have his notifications on 🙄
@@maryam-nusathe thing is I don’t 😪 I’m just always online which is way worse
I envy you 😭
@@ephrataleulseged4689 please dont 😭 i long touch grass but alas here I am
dylan is getting increasingly creative with his word choice and I love it
I’m definitely interested in your opinion on the Melinda situation so this isn’t to disagree but at one point you talk about her overuse of “online lingo” Just to be clear her language in the clips you showed (ex. period) aren’t “online lingo” it’s AAVE and referring to it as such is disrespectful. I understand the point you were making but it’s important to know the difference between actual online terms and AAVE especially if you’re going to refer to its overuse as cringe.
Came to the comments to say this, thank you!!
it is absolutely insane to call anyone but harry the douche of the season he is the most clear case of psycho master manipulator i’ve ever seen on reality tv… it’s giving misogyny
Definitely misogynoir peaking through
@@MissUnderstoodOfficialglad others clocked it😭
thank god ppl are pointing out the “online lingo” part bc…lets be fr
I ain’t even gonna feel bad for Jess. Melinda tried to warn her 🤷🏼♀️
She wanted to be the prize, but Harry treats everything like a toy 🤷🏿♀️
Didn't she also want Jimmy on Love is Blind? While he was with someone else? Why does she like cheaters?
I love how he watches only the first & last eps of amazing shows but then watches the most shitiest series to ever exist all the way through. 😭 Props.
Mel, Jess, and Harry break down: - I have the biggest problem with how Jessica and Harry went about the situation with Mel. I didn't like it. Harry uses weaponized incompetence, he's literally a 3-year-old and Jess falls for a baby. She acts like his mother. When all the girls were at the table, Jess said she knew everything, and with that, Mel thought Jess knew about the kiss. It all goes back to Harry, he lied to Jess, and Jess thought she knew everything, so Mel started talking about what happened, jess got mad even though Mel thought she knew everything. Then Jess said you could've told me privately, even though Jess noted she knew EVERYTHING. How was Mel supposed to know she didn't know about the kiss if Jess said she knew ABOUT EVERYTHING? Jess got mad at Mel because she didn't like what she was hearing about the man she was with. So she attacked Mel even though she should've been getting mad at Harry for being a compulsive liar, yet she attacked the woman even though it Perfect Match, the women and men were going to have to step on someone else toes. Plus Mel most likely had no clue Jess and Harry were saying "I love you" to each other. Harry didn't communicate that to any of the girls. Harry is one of the worst men on reality TV.
I giggled at the end because i think he was about to say toodles to wrap up the video, and then he remembered this wasn't the place for it... I missed him shouting at my face OOGA BOOGA
I'm so sad he doesn't go OOGA BOOGA at the end any more :(
Oh nah not too Much on Melinda she came and did what she was suppose to do.
I feel like we watched a different show. How is Harry and Jess commited it's been like 3 days.
Melinda is the second biggest person on the show.
And that's how black people talk the internet stole it....
How Melinda get more bashed than Harry who was the one who did the most and then lied on the black woman and got her even more bashed in real life.
Idk this video rubbed me the wrong way....
Giving Melinda the “douche” award instead of Harry was… a choice. She instigated things but at least she didn’t lie and lovebomb the way he did.
Also Stephen and allora aren’t together bc he ghosted her right after the show
I heavily disagree with the “14 year old on twitter” thing, it’s clear that Melinda as a black woman is just using aaave which has been colonised by the internet . You can dislike Melinda for whatever reason but Dylan saying that rlly rubbed me the wrong way.
It was really disappointing honestly
@@blessingsjoseph3973super
Everything rubs people the wrong way these days. You will live.
😂😂😂@@esikazemese
@@esikazemese says...a white woman. sigh. if you don't get it, then fine. why invalidate other people's feelings. thats like a man telling a woman to "stop being sensitive" when someone is making snide sexist comments. dylan didn't do that but as of this video he's obviously ignorant to how some (not all cus i don't speak like that) speak in real life.
The fact that Dylan says “pick up a book” and “you need therapy” and this video is sponsored by neither Audible or Better Help is crazy
Melinda was asked. Jess made a complete ass out of herself attacking Melinda.
Hmmm idk about Melinda being the worst of the season. Yes she wasn’t great but Harry was the one in the relationship and still decided to kiss her 🤷🏽♀️ idk how the hell folks didn’t get on him for it and just blaming Melinda. Also that’s AAVE not internet slang :/ like Black folks do talk like that irl
And he kept love bombing and manipulating Jess (the person who HE has an obligation to be faithful to NOT Melinda) BUT MELINDA IS THE WORST???? And NOT Harry??? The one who was instigating everything??? And INSTANTLY ran back to the producers to see if they’d caught anything on camera??? AND WAS ONLY CRYING AT THE HOUSE BECAUSE HE HAD FOOD POISONING??? NOT BECAUSE HE FELT BAD ABOUT AHYTHING TO DO WITH JESS??? But yes sure, Melinda is the worst of the season…… I’m not sure this was Dylan’s best take
Nigel and Christine were actually together for 8 months after filming, but obviously by the time it came out they were broken up.
Saying a black women is a loser because she uses "online lingo in the real world" is a very weird take. She is a black women using african american vernacular language. AAVE been around for ages, even before the internet was created. Non black people are just appropriating the language without even knowing its history or grammar. The only reason why you think it's internet lingo is because AAVE gets a lot of exposure thanks to black culture going mainstream, but then being copied by other communities.
is language something that can be appropriated?(taken without the owners permission) Language naturally moves and spreads.
Okay but there’s sooo much drama and context outside of the way the producers edited it especially for Dominique and Brytons situtiaion
DYLANNNN i love you so much ive been watching your vids for about 7 years and recently started showing my mum (52yrs old) your vids and she really enjoys them 😭 which was surprising to me since me and her don't often share the same humour but she now considers herself a troublemaker😁 she also said you have amazing teeth😍 she's now updated with all the fandoms inside jokes too, U ALSO INSPIRED HER TO BUY LAMPS LIKE YOURS FOR HER BEDROOM!!! love u Dylan!
Aww
Crazy that Melinda is the villian when Harry lied, gaslit her and said she was lying for clout.
A few points Dylan probably missed:
-Stevan ghosted Alara after the season
-The nobodies won because the "rejects" had an alliance of voting for a "reject" couple if any made it to the end
I know you said you were cooking something for this show in the last Bridgerton video, but DAMN, I wasn't expecting this early... thank you for making my WEEK
You're being way too easy on Jessica and hard on Melinda. Jessica asked what happened. Melinda answered. If Jessica didn't want an answer, then she shouldn't have asked a question. I also think you're being too easy on Harry. He kissed someone else. He's just as culpable. He doesn't get a pass
Pretty sure Melinda was a strategic play for the show. She’s probably not really a homewrecker but they’re definitely paying her to be.
Hmm, not Ok with Dylan labeling Melinda as a homewrecker and a douchebag. It would be one thing if this was first and last and he didn't get any context, but he watched this entire season. It not OK for Harry to paint her as a liar and a desperate woman looking for "clout" when he was the one who wasn't being honest. It was especially problematic that neither Harry nor Jess apologized to Melinda when the truth was revealed. He was willing to go along with the lie he concocted if Netflix hadn't called him out. Melinda also is the only person who Netflix paid to be a host of one of their reality shows. So she didn't need Harry for "clout." She also doesn't speak in "Internet lingo," that's her authentic personality.
28:15 … online language ? you mean aave.
Have i watched this show? no. will i watch it with Dylan? yes i will.
Melinda only mentioned the kiss on the table cuz Jess asked I think
Dylan's Bridgerton season 3 was so confusingly amazing that i spent the whole night binging the season... mind you, i didn't want to watch the show anymore because I'm not too fond of period pieces lol.... shows the power that Dylan hold over my viewing habits 😅😅😊
Heh. What did you end up thinking of season 3?
@checksanity uhmmm it was pretty good. Thanks for asking. I always get lost they start saying, "Thee, thine, thou" I get so confuseth lol 😆 😂
Stevan ended up ghosting Alaura right after the show 😂....
nooooo Melinda speaks like a black woman and like most black women do, it’s the way we speak, and it’d a part of aave, which for some reason has been known as internet slang, TikTok slang, gen z slang, bc they have adopted the way of speaking from black culture. it’s one of the many ways we uplift each other, but it is deems as such or degraded for multiple reasons.
It is scary how Harry can just look someone in the eyes and lie to them so many times.
I strongly recommend looking into Dominique’s reflections on this season. Chris talking about her bisexuality gave me war flashbacks if I’m being fr
oh boy even just that without knowing any more is giving me war flashbacks too
troublemakers/boogies, i'm pleasantly surprised by this comment section! i was feeling a bit icky about the stuff dylan was saying in this video about melinda (referring to her using AAVE as internet lingo, general lack of sympathy and slight double standards towards the way he viewed her actions compared to other lighter/whiter contestants) but didn't really think i'd see that many others expressing that sentiment and i'm glad i was wrong. i do think it comes from a place of ignorance, not malice, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't call him out on it anyway! also dylan if you see this i hope you don't take it as hate because i see it as a respectful critique/an attempt to educate. i have watched you for almost seven years now and am a big fan, so this is not me trying to tear you down at all. hope you're having a good day!
rt I love Dylan’s videos like many of us, but that part i was taken aback by I even watched it back and was like am I missing something or is it just aave. and I agree I hope he doesn’t take it as disrespect or hate, just want him to acknowledge that!
knowing from his past videos im sure he'll take the feedback genuinely and not as hate...i was surprised at his takes as well but im used to it atp because of his am i the asshole videos lol
Giving Melinda the “douche” award instead of Harry was… a choice
Also Stephen ghosted allora right after the show
Dylan and reality tvs shows are the perfect match 💀😭
"it brings out brightons ALPHA side" has me rolling
too much internet speak is really annoying but i feel like it’s important to acknowledge that melinda was using AAVE not internet speak
thisss I was like wait what when he said that🤨
“online lingo” baby… that’s AAVE lol
how is melinda the loser when harry the serial cheater is RIGHT there. you're off. melinda ate and she's the actual star of the season
okay but harry is so deeply manipulative it's scary. the man uses that similar to therapist speech sometimes, and if anyone finds themself in a situation like that, PLEASE run. that man is horrid.
The CLEANEST transition to the sponsor 😂
6:04 the pale man pans labyrinth
Nick Lachey = singing Matt Damon got me 😂😂
Dylan's consistency is GIVING
dylan showing that he has no black friends by calling AAVE, "online lingo" lmao...
fr lol
dominique came out and said that Bryton was being very homophobic (which is important because she’s bisexual) and that their arguments were pretty major but the edits made it seem like she was getting mad over nothing. also the edits made it seem like she liked toxic guys but they cut out some pretty major stuff.
One piece of feedback on the vid (otherwise a banger as always) is that “internet speak” majority of the time is actually AAVE (African American Vernacular English) or something that a black woman in her amazing/funny nature said that became viral. Therefore, the internet clings on to it and people over use it out of context, which makes it feel annoying to hear over and over again. So her using AAVE-originated phrases is very justifiable and okay. Just a note! ❤