Second dates! What to do on a second date with a girl?

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    Hi Guys it's Hannah and Iain and today we're going to talk about second dates.
    Many guys enjoy their first dates, and cannot wait for their second one. Although it feels almost magical, especially if you did connect well with the other person, surviving the second date can sometimes be challenging. The reason is is that it's down to how the date prevails at this time, which dictates whether you'll last any longer. Under most circumstances, many guys are not well aware of what to say or do during their second dates, and are often more nervous than the last time. If you survive the first and second date, it's much more likely that you will last a long time, but only if the both of you are acting natural and true.
    A second date means a lot to any woman, and this means that the man has to do all the homework to dictate what will happen during the date, where it will be etc... The best advice you can get from me is to not be too predictable with the date. Outdoor activities for example are perfect for people who want to get to know each other better, and also helps them learn how they may live with this person. A hiking experience creates more time for the two of you, where you can hold a picnic at a remote place, tell stories, share jokes and laugh together.
    Believe me, most relationships end during the second date, because of what I previously mentioned - the higher expectations. It's also the time when you will find someone, especially ladies, dreaming about their future. Some of them have made their decisions at this stage, and will start having expectations of what the man should be doing... To be on the safer side, just avail yourself during the date; be present both physically and mentally. This is the only way you will be lively and participate in most of the conversations. If you start day dreaming at this point, you will only leave the other person feeling unwanted and this doesn't build that spark !
    Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He's highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating.
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  • @lordlucan7655
    @lordlucan7655 6 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    second date ? wtf you're optimistic ...

  • @jacksugden8190
    @jacksugden8190 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    These days lucky to get a first date, it’s like a second interview of fact and diplomacy, go with the flow, try not to be someone your not, don’t get overfamiliar, and if your the man, don’t talk too much about yourself,

  • @dezsiodon6621
    @dezsiodon6621 5 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Hiking.... Bru I'm only 14💀💀

    • @siu9590
      @siu9590 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Go for it yu're now 15

    • @dezsiodon6621
      @dezsiodon6621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@siu9590 lmao

    • @dezsiodon6621
      @dezsiodon6621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@siu9590 im 16 and idk how

    • @siu9590
      @siu9590 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dezsiodon6621 i,m 14 now man and i struggle a lot just do maximum push ups 3 sets maximum sit ups 3 sets maximum pull ups 3 sets maximum squats 3 sets and if you can maximum pull ups 3 sets and dips 3 sets that's for begginning 10 hours of sleep and eat a lot healthy calories but a lot to stimulate muscle growth trust me if you dont eat right you wont see big results

    • @dezsiodon6621
      @dezsiodon6621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@siu9590 thats an 9ld picture on my profile pic,check my instragram@odikeeee i lost about 30kilograms.I worked out for 2 years,just simple lifting,nothing crazy,now i stopped and i feel realy good. And of course i changed my diet:no dairy,less salt(stuff like that)im very proud of myself

  • @dodoshlodo
    @dodoshlodo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Lol why is this video framing dating as dating as "the guy surviving" or "being unaware what to do?"
    Have some confidence fellas. Be yourself. Impressing on a date is a two way street

  • @matthalo89
    @matthalo89 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    “Never be judgmental about her life and what she’s gone through.” This is all good and well but I have been judged harshly by women I’ve gone on dates with about my life and what I’ve gone through. This should apply to both the guy and the girl.

    • @rickjohnson1719
      @rickjohnson1719 ปีที่แล้ว

      Then split the bill and ditch them, simple as

    • @matthalo89
      @matthalo89 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rickjohnson1719 my new strategy….

  • @jblasutavario9549
    @jblasutavario9549 6 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    What to do on the second date?
    The same thing you did on the first date:
    FUCK

  • @jonb8633
    @jonb8633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    first date aim for the kiss otherwise touch at least. second date: kiss on cheek when arrives, touch and do it early, sit next to girl not in front, good eye contact, flirt if possible, if a good window appears kiss early otherwise kiss at the end. if able to land kiss tell girl you don't want to end night like this and suggest going to your or her home

    • @leonyberg3732
      @leonyberg3732 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks bro..👍😁

    • @brandonb7496
      @brandonb7496 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Kinda fast, dont you think?

    • @dodoguy
      @dodoguy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nahh fam there's no way

    • @jonb8633
      @jonb8633 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@brandonb7496 I know is fast but can be done IF and only IF she is having burning desire

    • @jonb8633
      @jonb8633 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@leonyberg3732 good luck

  • @JayJay-on4gj
    @JayJay-on4gj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This advice is largely based on logic, whereas strong attraction is based on looks and the exciting, dominating sexual energy that a man brings to the table.

  • @joostvanbruggen
    @joostvanbruggen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Are you on speed? What an extreme hurry.. good info though..

  • @jonjames4522
    @jonjames4522 6 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    get your wallet out.

  • @joellim7010
    @joellim7010 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    i asked about her past and ex on the first date and i think it went well, LOL. now im hoping for a 2nd date. Not sure if i will have it though. haha! May God be with me

    • @younghustla8714
      @younghustla8714 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      little big big so what happened bro?

    • @mianbh8706
      @mianbh8706 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      May that girl be with you.

    • @DMRCapitalHill
      @DMRCapitalHill 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You never talk about ex’s on a date.... period.

  • @user-yk7yv8rb5i
    @user-yk7yv8rb5i 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can't even one date let alone a second

  • @kratkidokumentarci224
    @kratkidokumentarci224 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Ok tomorrow is long day for me :D uhh man i can't wait..

    • @ivyglum
      @ivyglum 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      how it went?

  • @mark-1rc502
    @mark-1rc502 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Knob it💪

  • @alphas5334
    @alphas5334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If this guy knows how to survive Im sure I will. Hahhahah

  • @anonyfamous42
    @anonyfamous42 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "be confident" lol

  • @linafelina
    @linafelina 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    but i asked him for the second date... he said yes...now its all confusing, why cant guys just take the lead in the beginning :'(

    • @celestegagnon1581
      @celestegagnon1581 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      linafelina Feminism, current climate of hatred and witch hunts of men, pursuit of equality, trying not to be a predator, Harvey Weinstein. Take your pick my dear, we neutered their ability to still be men in this world, what’d you think would happen?

    • @linafelina
      @linafelina 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I didn't think fighting for equal pay and any issue women face (and trust me there are loads) would mean that men can't still be romantic when it comes to dating... and please don't call me dear

    • @celestegagnon1581
      @celestegagnon1581 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      linafelina from a mans perspective pursuit of EQUALITY could mean no longer ascribing to old patriarchal practices, SUCH AS ALWAYS APPROACHING A WOMAN FIRST. Or not wanting to come off aggressive or move in any way unwanted without consent, or to respect the woman as a friend UNTIL SHE make it clear she would appreciate an advance.whine whine whine, why doesn’t the guuuuy take the lead-equality would mean treating each other the same, that means you should approach him too. You really don’t get it? And fine I won’t call you dear, I’ll call you an ignorant bitch-the man should be romantic? Why don’t YOU be romantic, quit expecting special treatment. Don’t sass me girl I was trying to help your ass. You got offended by me saying dear, or the content of my original comment? It’s VERY TRUE. Sorry it struck a nerve for you, see how defensive you got about women’s struggles toward me, another woman more educated on the subject than you? THATS WHY, YOUR WHY! That hostility, men aren’t going for it anymore-like I said, feminist neutering of men. Congrats. You’ll stay single another 5 years.

    • @williewill1237
      @williewill1237 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      He knows your on his jock. That might be a good place for you.

    • @apple1234iou
      @apple1234iou ปีที่แล้ว

      Linafelina comes across as combative.

  • @usamamaood9197
    @usamamaood9197 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Hannah ur gorgeous

    • @piqqeh
      @piqqeh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cool boy ur a simp

  • @reikoleci4303
    @reikoleci4303 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Force her lol

  • @joeyhandeland983
    @joeyhandeland983 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For me, I, dont have confidence. So, I, will do the opposite!