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Attractive VS Unattractive Introverts
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 ก.ย. 2022
- Animation showing the fate of two introverts. For the first one, everyone forgives and excuses every mistake, the second introvert has to do it himself. But what is the cause of it?
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What does Nathan have to do to move up the social ladder?
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Death then people will talk about him for atleast a while
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"You know, she isn't wrong, but it still hurts"
That hits hard.
That quote reminded me of Azula from Avatar.
I laughed so fucking hard at that bit XD
Even inkwells have feelings
that lip shaking after that hit harder
because its true. iam a degenerate, you dont know what i do in my free time but trust me its fucked up. And it really hurts when people call me this or that but its true...
To be fair, when you're introverted and not ugly or attractive either, you are not labeled as a "creep" or a "mysterious guy" anymore, you just... dissappear from everyone's vision, just like Nathan did in the end of the video
Same bro
Crap bro then I'm that guy
Damn, I fit in this category
this hits hard, i know the truth now
Well damn, you mean when you look like a normal guy who doesn't interact with anybody and who purposefully blends in with the crowd you suddenly don't get any attention?
Tell me something I don't know.
As an Introvert. I said a joke out loud, nobody laughed, I felt terrible then an extroverted friend of mine repeated the same joke and everybody laughed. I was devastated how invisible I was. The only people who see me are my current friends, family and teachers, to others I am non-existent.
Stay strong brother
Maybe he delivered joke better, some people are simply more talented then the others in that regard...
@@midnightblue1874 Might have been the case. Nevertheless I have came to terms with the fact that I will remain this way with no way to change. Just hope someday we will get to be happy as well 👍
@@user-pn2tu8rs2b Same goes to you friend
I understand your pain on so many levels man I just wanna tell you that when I feel horrible, I love reading the Bible. Ecclesiastes, my favorite chapter of the Bible. I can relate to it on so many levels I think you will too. God loves you brother. He'll give you the strength you need. :)
Morality is based on aesthetic, when you kill a cockroach it’s fine, but when you kill a butterfly it’s wrong.
Most people believe it’s moral to eat cows and chicken but it’s wrong to eat dogs and horses
People love bumble bees but are terrified of spiders and cockroaches its sad
@@SeudXetbf, what good r cockroaches other than being food for other predators who actually r a benefit to us? Spiders r cool (I have arachnophobia but I still like them)
In fairness butterflies pollinate which is essential for life on Earth as we know it...😅
@@xa-12musk8true
"Its hard to face the problem when the problem is your face"-A Legend-
edit: why do i still get notifs even after 2 years bruh
Dammnn men that's hits soo hard
This is actually make me laugh so hard sorry 😭😭😭
@@Newaccount35075 Just the fact you found it funny made me laugh
😂 na this made me laugh
im 14 and this is deep
I think its not only about introverts, its the same for extroverts too. Unattractive extroverts are often considered "talkative" and attractive extroverts are considered "social".
Just don't be born unattractive, bro
To be fair, when you're an "unattractive" extrovert you already have much less things to fix.
That is to say, just your appearance. Which may not be an easy task, but if you take care of your physique, hair and clothing, you'll quickly hit the minimum criteria to be considered "attractive" despite not having the most attractive genes.
Unattractive INTROVERTS, on the other hand...
@@j.d.s.1837 just don't be born.
@@narihiga9561 +1
@@j.d.s.1837 pretty much the moral of the story. attractive people can get away with a lot of things ugly people would have never been able to
"looks dont matter."
said by the person who clearly meets the beauty standard.
Yep 100% a 1000% true it's really rare to see someone only liking personality than the looks but even if your attractive you also needs to spend sometime with an idk I'm ugly too
Boowomp
So what at least they trying to help
@@yungjunkie666 Nah they just don't understand some of them just makes it to make fun of others and only a little tiny bit is saying it to help others
@@yungjunkie666 how is that helping?
Ryan: *Just wants to be alone*
Nathan: *Just wants to be loved*
It's simple, let people talk before you judge them
It doesnt work that way bro
Tf is your profile
it does unfortunately
@@Ami-raaait doesn’t. My best friend is an attractive introvert, and a lot of people wanted to talk to him, but he almost ran away from them. Not because he wanted to be alone, but because he got too nervous. He didn’t know what to say. Most people don’t want to be alone tbh.
@@tenhaaaaIf that is true, so he is shy. Being shy is different from introvert.
Attractive loner = Mysterious
Ugly loner = Creepy
Real
nah this cap
@@jpeg.600x2 frfr foo, this shit lookin like strait up cap
The sad truth
Creepy is subjective. Attractive people can be creepy too... and unattractive people can look neutral but not necessarily approachable anyway
Its not just introverts, there are so many double standards with whether you’re considered attractive or ugly
Lookin' good, Susan
Then then be attractive
@@Chillikilli Not always possible nor feasible.
@@nothingtoospecial777 that’s quitters talk
@@Chillikilli No. There are facial features that objectively are unattractive.
Unfortunately, this is one of the social rules: Born ugly = game over.
Born ugly?
Be Rich game will change 💯
@@Demon-_-Ghostwhat if the life wont let you be rich bcs ugly
How ugly are we talking? Most 'ugly' people aren't as bad looking as they think. Usually there's some way of working with what you've got to make the best of it
More like
Attractive: easy difficulty
Normal: normal difficulty
Ugly: nightmare / hell difficulty
Not really
You just don't understand how bad society will treat an unattractive person, this video is so true, it explained everything about attractive and unattractive introverts, but it's the same thing with extroverts. When you are an attractive extrovert, you have charism and you are funny, but if you are not attractive, you are annoying
This is sad but this is the truth, people always says that they care about you and all. But in reality, in your everyday life, society will always treat you based on your attractivness
Yes
Yep I see it within my own family
This why I exploit and don’t care about anyone anymore
Womp womp
Nah, I knew this guy from my nerdy friend group in my 20s. He was morbidly obese, 400 pounds. He had a lot of charisma and was very good at talking to anyone. Girls seemed to love him and dudes from all walks of life.
The fact that Nathan isn’t even annoying or a bad guy, no one just really gave him a chance in the first place
Only Sebastian, Patrick and Chad seemed to care about him
bro didn’t he kidnap a reporter and tormented her in his basement
@@rg.0333 sorry I think I missed that part of Nathan lore💀 , where is it from?
@@rg.0333 that was a long time later when he is like 29 and after they were helping that monster thing
@@rg.0333 They interrogated her to reveal the location of one of the "deviants" that she did a report on.
Attractive Loner: Wants to be left alone.
Unattractive Loner: Wants to experience social interaction.
When you think about it, I guess the abundance mindset makes sense. The attractive loner has abundance of social interaction opportunity and wants to be left alone. The unattractive loner does not have abundance of social interaction opportunity, and craves it, but is always alone.
@@DaGleese good point
do you even know what loners mean , if your considered a loner u want to left alone in general
You seem to have forgot attractive loner: is socially awkward
Unattractive and wants to be alone😂
Step 1: be attractive
Step 2: don’t be unnatractive
Step 1:be alive
Step2: don't be alive
Step 1: Pray
Step 2 : Kind
Step 3 : wait for death to come
Step 1: Buy a rope
Step 2: Ropemaxx
Step 1 - don't be ugly
Step -2 - be handsome
That poor bastard is already bald in high school.
😭🤣
Why are u calling him a bastard
Started balding at high school. It sucks for real. I can say it gave a strong punch to my appearence (i wasn’t too ugly, but now i am).
Now i’m 24 and never even kissed a girl in my entire life
@@tommasov10 oh man I'm sorry about this I wish you a better life
@@Hk_9167 yeah like you can always get rid of yours and get a better one... right?
As an unattractive introvert, this is 100% true. When they say “looks don’t matter” they are 100% lying, looks do matter in pretty much everything in the social department.
Skill issue
@@MexicanCrusader skillset = looks.
@@j.d.s.1837 I don't think you understand, I'm calling him a loser
@@MexicanCrusader guess what makes the two of you.
@@gatoloco3949 here's the thing, I'm not an unattractive introvert. I have friends and have a girlfriend.
People always say "The real beauty is inside", "showing emotions is sexy", but in practice they would break all these words. World is dark enough, we don't have to feed ourselves and others with lies and fake hope.
Never believe what women say. Believe in what they do
The world is not "dark", some of the humanity that inhabits it is, but our world is beautiful, incredible…dangerous? Yes, but wonderful.
Virtue signaling basically
It's human nature to judge people by physical looks. It's a survival instinct, per se. People will think of attractive people as safer ones to socialize than the ugly ones.
Addtional note: Take it from me. No one wants to socialize with me because of my looks. I repel them just because of that aspect. But I also think that improving personality-wise may help. May.
👍
“Just be more confident” making it sound easy and shit😭😭
Same energy as "stop being sad"
@@mr.andrew7820 fr
"Just get a house" to someone homeless ☠️
"fake it till you make it" bitch if i knew how to fake it none of this would be a problem
@@somber087😅😂
"You guys can't see him?"
"Whom? I don't see anybody"
Ngl, that actually hit me like a train
As an introvert I can agree
That anybody is me😭nobody sees me😭
@@ardasozer8459except when you fuck up or you get blamedand its time to shit on you
As an introvert and a unattractive person this hits on an another level 🗿
As an introvert,and and average looking dude,all that sigma male stuff went right out the window🪵
Same
i’m sure you are not, probably you are located in the wrong place, let me explain. I meet canadians guys, both looking like Mclovin from that movie. They consider themselves as unattractive but when they traveled to Latinoamerica they got many well looking girls just for being from a different race. You know what i mean? I’ve seen this with asian males too, they moved to america and get girls but they weren’t considered attractive for their own people at first
as a person with Social anxiety and depression this hits different. and yeah my name is also Nathan
same
“Love yourself first“
“Be confident“
“Personality matters“
- All super attractive people
I mean they are objective truths, you should do all of that but you can't expect things to change drastically even if you do those things. However there's literally no harm in loving yourself and having confidence
@@thismeaning9 yeah especially cause most men are doing the absolute bottom of the barrel work in society
sometimes you kinda want to come home to women after all that
meanwhile women just choose to be alone
@@hearmlikemal3935 yeah lets see if youll be saying that 40 years from now
@@hearmlikemal3935 of course i just knew youd say something like that lol
are you even human do you do things for pleasure or fun lol
@@hearmlikemal3935 yes you're not really much of a human if you don't want a affection from your kind.
The last part is very accurate and sad. Because maybe Ryan is the only one who can understand how Nathan feels, but at one point, probably due to the impact of society, Ryan can't even see Nathan.
as long as you are attractive. nothing matters anymore.
thats a stretch but yea 💀💀
I agree with you
cap, personality goes a long way. would you wanna be with a hot woman who's toxic and you can't stand her for the next 30,40,50 years or a "mid" woman who you enjoy being around and genuinely look forward to seeing and being with?
idk man, life's not entirely about looks...some are gonna get hotter people easier but I think finding a person you can vibe with in the long term is a crazy and rare flex that people overlook due to being obsessed with looks (how they are perceived and how they perceive others)
@@IDraw99the point is 'hot toxic woman' was picked first.
@@ShineyUnderpant then find someone else 😂😂it's not a big deal. Looks are not everything
Sad irony that being unloved can create a repulsive personality
what does repulsive mean?
@@bruhm0ment6000 arousing intense distaste or disgust
@@bruhm0ment6000 Google: causes a strong feeling of disgust
@@bruhm0ment6000 Being unloved can create a defensive cycle where anybody wanting to be with you seems unlikely and gets treated like a threat, preventing more people from talking to you. The cycle continues, encounters become more and more rare and therefore more and more suspicious until they stop forever
@@bruhm0ment6000Hatred, perpetual sadness, aggressiveness, tons of self-pity. It's a vicious cycle
Stop being needy and you will break it
‘Morality has aesthetic standards.’
Crush a cockroach and you're a hero. Crush a butterfly and you're a sinner
wow that somehow never crossed my mind, I gotta read something about it!
Aesthetics and morality both make distinctions and hierarchies, draw boundaries and create bonds. so Im guessing people get them mixed up atleast at some level or the morality of individuals may be based on a value system including aesthetic effect.
Edit : The moralistic and aesthetic positions are extremes. Aesthetic value is the value that an object, event, or state of affairs (most paradigmatically an artwork or the natural environment) possesses in virtue of its capacity to elicit pleasure (positive value) or displeasure (negative value) when appreciated or experienced aesthetically.
@@GloryBlazer Morality is definitely based on a value system, have you ever had friends in the past or present who have said or done fucked up shit, but you let them get away with it because they're your friends, but if that fucked up shit was done by a stranger you would condone them for it, that's because that stranger has no value to you unlike your friends. I'll admit I've caught myself doing this from time to time. Although what I'm talking about is different, not about
aesthetics.
I mean even attractive serial killers get special treatment from women.
I was ignored by everyone in my school,i tried my best to grab attention but i was unable to do it,one day i was crying then my brother asked me,i told him he just said one thing,that changed my perspective totally. He said,
How does it matter? Initially i had many answers but when i said him i don't get attention e.t.c . He said -
Is it your need or want?if it is your need then tell me why are you alive after not getting it?
I was blank,first time in my life i was feeling that i am mature,cause when i think about it,attention was my want and i can control my wants therefore i focused on gaining knowledge more,and he was true now i am happy.
Your brother really mature.. happy for u💚 hope u happiness
What a great brother 😊
Being ugly introvert is just such a gift . I don't want people to see me i.e i don't want their attention . I just want to be alone and enjoy my life alone .
yo that’s called antisocial, you just hate interacting with people
@@30regrets guess I am both ugly and antisocial.
@@abhiwryt552 you can't live your entire life without interacting with people though
Cope
The way how accurate this is, is incredible. Great writing.
You must be new. All his Videos are quiet mind blowing and profound.
@@Jonaskampen95 I'm in fact not new here, I've been here at least for a year or two even.
I just felt like typing a comment after a while.
@@Richard-River oh, ok. I just had an assumption. No hard feelings.
@@Jonaskampen95 ye, it's okay, I'm here to tell you how it really is. No hard feelings, hope you have a good day, man.
@@Richard-River you too
this one girl at my school was an introvert but she was very attractive so people would invite her to sit with them at lunch and seemed interested in her but then there was this other girl who was unatractive and instead of being supported people would constanly remind her of her unatractive looks and put her down she even expressed how she wanted to take her own life but still, people showed no mercy. society can be brutal if you are unatractive
Mfs they are the ones who need to kill themselfs.
Poor soul 💔
And rn as a 20 year old I’m thankful they treated me like shit. Because now I’m better than them all.
@@bobbyhill4118 w
Tem uma história similar aqui. No 9° ano da tarde da minha escola tem duas gurias introvertidas, uma que é bonita e a outra não. A "bonita" ganha atenção das crianças das outras turmas no recreio (6° e 7°) e a amizade de uma guria da mesma sala. Agora a que não é bonita fica sozinha no recreio e é ignorada quase sempre
ok but like how u gonna be unattractive as a girl
"when looks are the only thing people like about you, the thought of becoming ugly one day is terrifying."
the most real thing. my closest friend said she would've never talked to me if i was ugly and people who i heard have a crush on me don't even know/talk to me. my personality in my friend group is seen as being the pretty nice comfort friend, never the funny friend just the advice giver which is fine but it's sad when some people do know me they realize my personality isn't all they fantasize about and i wonder how it would be if i was ugly how would i even survive?
Well most people never have good looks so I’d rather have them and eventually lose them like
@@coquettelasagna ++++
2:17 Dude on the left is literally me
What does that scene even mean? 2:35-2:43
@@orvos1459just some group of extrovert people chit chatting with each other
why are you there when it's obvious no one wants you around?
Bro cheer up
2:54 this part right here spoke so many volumes. They couldn’t see him cuz they refused to see him. A metaphor for completely ignoring the existence of others cuz they are irrelevant to them. If they’re not attractive in some way to garner someone’s attention then they’re seen as nonexistent. So many folks are like this now and sad part is they’ll continue to be this way until the end of time.
it also shows that he would like to be with other people
For people like Nathan, people will not see you unless you force them to acknowledge your existence. Why do you think school shooters only get famous after they commit their act? Society has become too soft, they forgot human nature has always been brutal.
or schizophrenia xdd
"i am 14 and this is deep"
Oh god. When we get rid of the fact our parents could not get us ready for this rapidly changing world. And we stop to deep and analyze everything trought the lenses and perspectives on life we learned to see life tru. We will have people cared for, we will be cared for. Before that. We can start with ourselves. We can start to value the things we actually value. Do what is to be done. To slowly get out of the States of beings we fell into
Ugly =Creep, Socially Awkward
Good Looking=Mysterious, Interesting , Humble
😢😮
well einstein pretty much an ugly loner by that standard
Sad true
Society ☕
I'm not socially awkward, I just can't with certain people. They do too much. I hate going out with friends and seeing someone complain about something they previously agreed with or bringing personal problems out of nowhere.
I'm not attractive at all and I know it. I'm a college student and one day as I was walking to my college there three girls walking in front of me. They were younger than me probably 17 or 18 ( im on my second year) so they were probably younger. So I have very asymmetrical eyes. My one eye is smaller than the other and it looks really weird. They looked behind and just laughed at my face. Literally right in front of me. Bro that was really rude and really embarrassing. Even while walking people just stare at my face I feel embarrassed. I have good friends at college and theh are all good looking fellas but girls dont talk to them while I'm around them. Maybe they think I'm weird or something but it's just my face. Idk man I cannot change my face or something. I guess i just have live with it.
Hi I'm in High school and have the same problem (including a misaligned jaw and a deviated septum). Do you think it could be the skin around your eye that makes it asymmetrical, perhaps tight muscles? It could also be due to your face having more tissue and fat in that region but I am not sure nor am I saying any of these are true. I understand up to my knowledge the feeling when girls don't want to talk to you but you still have hope; if you get a good paying job, pass College and such, you could get appointments to see the Doctor and find the issues and maybe even fix it to relieve all that stress. I feel horrible seeing myself and I know that I can fix it, as well as fix my bad habits that make myself look worse. Do well. 🙏
The solutions I find for this are:
Cover the strong eye and use your weak one
Also bad posture while using mobile can make it worse
don't sleep on your side sleep on your back
And last but not confirmed ( it worked for me ) is going to gym and doing cardio it help to give the face energy and not the bored look eyes
Thank you guys for the tips. I will definitely look forward to it. Really appreciated.
3 months later bro how's life
Dafaq is wrong with people staring at you like that? In our place it's rude to even stare at the disabled
As an attractive introvert, this is 100% true. I have the same hair as that guy. I always looked after the unattractive loners and tried to be their friend whilst growing up. It often felt like there was nothing i could do to make them fit in, or achieve popularity. I pray that everyone reading this finds their meanings in life, and learns to live at ease. I guarantee you that being attractive does not make you happy.
I would even add that sometimes its a headache cause personally I just want to spent time by my own but people want to talk every time. I’m not against sociability, I’m really thankful that I have friends that I can count on and that I love but some people don’t understand introverts and their need of space.
Some people would not understand that we complain of being « attractive » but I can assure you that it’s F draining and sometimes it makes you feel so overwhelmed by people.
So yes there are some advantages of being the « attractive introvert » but I honestly with all the modesty I can have, see more disadvantages 💀
I know right!? About the part of making them fit in.
I just want them to socialize a little, like include them in conversations and stuff, but they make it sooo difficult, or they don't even try to talk to others again anymore.
I'm one hell of a social powerhouse when I want to, but some people just don't have the ability to socialize i guess
@@lhananas8875ah yes it’s worse to be attractive because you’re annoyed about everyone loving you versus being ugly where everyone hates you???
@@PappyPit's about attractive introverts. I have this problem too. I am an attractive introvert and all my life I been struggling with the overwhelming attention and confrontation by people. It's okay if it happens every now and then and it gives you feeling of validation. But sometimes when I just want to be left alone it's so annoying when someone or group of people approaches me when I'm walking somewhere. I have social anxiety as well so that doesn't make it better. Gotten to a point where I change my path sometimes so I don't need to interact with people. I'm not saying it's worse then getting hated but then again I don't think unattractive people get hated just for existing. And I wouldn't say you get loved as an attractive person it's more like a superficial interest/curiosity/sympathy. Love and hate are too strong words.
@@4tytwo thank you 🙏
So accurate. I went from fat to fit and got to experience being attractive in a compelety new social circle. It's shocking how differently people treat you and how easy your life is when you're attractive.
For me it doesn't matter much, I used to be very skinny growing up and even when I started going to the gym and packed up a lot of lean muscle mass and there isn't much difference in how people treat me. But I'm glad that I'm not 120 pound 6'2 skeleton that I used to be either way.
@@Palach624 Cuz your attractive facial features are just as visible when skinny or jacked. But being fat changes your face a lot and you can't see the jawline, cheekbones, etc. How nicely you are treated is mostly dictated by your face.
went to the gym and shiit. and nothing changed
Good for you man! Just being fit and having good hygiene automatically puts you above average.
@@Mulmgott I disagree, my face looked terrible when I was skinny, I looked like a drug addict even when covering the rest of my body up with a jacket during winter. Now my face is fine by all means, nothing out of the ordinary but I have solid jawline and got rid of acne as well. Still nothing changed
I have read answers to the question "Women, how did you approach your boyfriend?" on Reddit and these women often wrote "He was so shy, but I had to approach him, I found him sooo cute", if you're introverted but attractive your chances of getting lucky are much higher. If youre introverted and unattractive youre pretty much screwed. You need to be fake and be extroverted, to compensate the looks, but that often leads to anxiety and misery
Dude this coment is deep
And when you hear a "no" just enforces your thought that being alone was the best option from the start. And you feel stupid for trying to force yourself into being an extrovert that you're not.
Definitely, You'll have to endure hundreds of rejections going that route but I've heard many stories about how someone has the short/fat/ugly friend that gets a ton of girls and every time the reason is always that he's extremely confident and outgoing to compensate.
It's almost like the incels are right
@@firekoovin3347 I would say mostly
This was me in high school in the late 90s. People told me things would get better. They did but not by much. Nearly 30 years later the only advice I would give myself would be to eat healthier and keep lifting. It’s seriously the only thing that helped which also made me feel good.
Also, I would tell myself to stop pursuing women who probably don’t find you attractive. If women are into some subculture where guys they find attractive look nothing like you just give up. Try to find a subculture where you fit into the best. For example if the subculture is into the scrawny tall pale guys/girls and you aren’t even close to that then stop pursuing people that idolize that.
This is excellent advice. A girl will never change her mind because you pursue her, she'll just be entertained. You might have sex eventually, but emotionally it will suck and you'll be drained. Also, she'll usually take you for all she can get before anything approaching intimacy happens. Don't accept hookup culture as a default. You do not have a chance with most women and it is not your fault 90% of the time.
if that's you in pfp ayy no homo man but you look kinda good😂👌🏾
If you crush a beautiful butterfly, you're a villain. Morals have aesthetic criteria. -Nietzche
Stop thinking about this b@llshit- Me
Damn
If you crush a roach you're a hero.
@@longsteinpufferbatch4949 Sure, Nietzche was right.
@@longsteinpufferbatch4949 Fucking cockroach deserves it. All of them do.
Though nowadays I prefer moths, because they have such cute faces, whereas butterflies look like soul-suckers from a lovecraftian dimension when you see their horrific visage up close.
It’s always the stories about the pretty intoverts, not the ugly ones. As an “ugly” introvert who got labelled as yandere simply for venting to someone, looks are everything.
Please don’t ever tell anyone in real life this it will drop you by 3 points instantaneously
I respect you for being sane right now
dude the people labelling you as a "yandere" are the loosers dont listen to them. They seem like middle schoolers (or are)
What does yandere even mean?
@@SonGoku-zr9ncsomeone who is obsessive over the person they love, typically to the point of stalking or excessive possessiveness
Yandere isn't even the right "term" for something like that, menhera would make more sense, but it's still pretty weird to call someone that
Attractive introvert: omg he is so quirky
Unattractive introvert: OMG he's wierdo
For women too. People are so mean for no reason. Like, let me sit there in peace? 💀
@van_ol1056 well pretty privilege work both ways but the difference is that man do not report this stuff to HR as sexual harassment
@@mn1907 if someone actually reports you they don't do it for no reason. Actually being nice won't let you be send to HR. I had male friend who said he was nice too and the woman was upset abt him. He was actually overstepping boundaries, making inappropriate comments and touching her. Those things are not ok.
Women rarely report harassment or even grape, there's no reason to blame it on looking ugly.
@van_ol1056 I had co worker just simply ask her out end up being force to leave his job by HR. He didn't corss the boundaries he want just attractive
@@mn1907 also you can be creepy without knowing it. I got called creepy by other women too bc I was so anxious and acted weirdly. But it still made people uncomfy that's why I had to learn to socially interact in a differnt way. It's good to get feedback, that's how I learned
This happens to me so often. As an introverted person who isn’t particularly attractive, I find that when I start talking in a group, someone inevitably interrupts me mid-sentence, changes the subject, or points something out. Everyone immediately shifts their attention to that person, completely forgetting about me. It makes my words and efforts feel meaningless and pointless, as if I don't even exist. These moments make me feel incredibly low. It deeply hurts my feelings, and I can't help but feel a surge of anger. I can almost scream and still go unnoticed. This is a pure nightmare.
You deserve it.
@@PewDiePie777 yeah, I think so
dont talk bullshits.people dont like to hear boring things
Man I hated high school so much because of this exact shit
I’ve never been able to verbally explain it but this video conveys my feelings for those past four years.
Being attractive was always a massive crutch for so many guys, without it they’d be nothing just like the guy in the video.
That's facts, i have the same feelings when i was on high school dude, sometimes people are insanely mean for no reason.
True
have you not heard of blackpill b4
Chris H I'm so sorry
tbf this isnt a gender specific thing
Ugly guy following you = Stalker
Attractive guy following you = Secret Admirer
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Pretty sure it's creepy regardless of who does it.
There’s double standards for sure, but this ain’t one of them 😭
okay this one aint it. If anyone stalks me that a stalker
@@eliesh3833 pretty sure it wouldn't be taken as such
As an unattractive men, this is so accruate for me
Nah bro your handsome
Same here.
Im crying from the inside after this Video bc it shows how unatractive and alone i am😭💔
Aww don't be sad
you can buy a cat if your too lonely idk
@@SSLPVP i alr have 3 buddy
@@ardasozer8459 then go get money to get some bitches dawg
My father was that type of attractive loners. My mom often tells me and my brother that she was intrigued by his seemingly cold personality and that was what made her attracted to him. So yeah apparently women love that archetype and it's not a new thing.
Nah, they just like attractive men, whether they're loners or not is inconsequential at the end of the day.
He was attractive and had no game. Your mom saw him as free real estate.
@@systemx6603 Agree
my dad acts that way sober then he's a dick when he's drunk. Im more introverted than I am extroverted, but im kinda ugly/good looking, but I also dealt with some of that shit in high school but had fun nonetheless with my friends.
@@systemx6603 yeah and thats just how the world is unfortunately. there are serial killers who are loved just because they're seen as attractive. if you're attractive you're loved
"The inner you is what makes you attractive, not your face", biggest lie I was ever told.
I remember on my first year of high school.I was called out by a girl for being one of the "ugliest in the class". It didn't hurt me that much because I have an iron will but I did notice that hardly any girls ever interacted with me in the class and during lunch breaks too. Again it didn't bother me because Im a loner (in the sense that I dont like socialising, not that I can't)
Then on my second last year of highschool, I walked by a few girls and just said "Hi" and ofc they said "Hi" back, end of conversation. Right after that, I overheard them discussing how I was "cute" and "kinda hot". Another instance happened where the boys told me that they overheard the girls in my class say that Im "really cool". I also noticed that interaction with girls was easier than it should be and now more often, they would come talk to me. Hell I got asked out before (I turned her down). This was the same year I got facial hair, a chiseled jawline and a built up body from gym and jogging.
Just from a few years of puberty evolution, I automatically won social points for the girls just for having a good face. My personality never changed in that time. Im still the same guy I was since first year of Highschool. I never put much effort into looking good. I only exercised for fun. But because I naturally grew a little sexier, I got alot more attention from girls.
In summary, looks DO matter.
Blackpill for the win
Only 90s KoRn songs can cure my pain 🥺🥺😍
Lucky man with those chiseled jaw genes! There are things like chewing gum, mewing and having low body fat percentage that help but if you got genes you’re gonna look good from the start! Good to hear they worked out for you brother 🔱
My face looks like that of a pig. No hope for me XD
@@motivationdaily1782 If you are capable of self derision it means you are more than capable to change for the better. People with insecurities and low esteem tend to lie to themselves but it just makes things worse since they dont want to change
I hate being ugly
I understand that unattractive introverted guy sooo good .I’m the invisible kid in class that nobody talks to,I’m alone in the breaks(sometimes )and I’m unattractive
one girl in the other class asked a other girl if she would go out with me.she said :„no not with him that weirdo“😢
They see me like a creep😢😭
Nathan stay strong buddy🤝💪
Nathan died tho go to 3:07
@@officialwolf_for_life he didn’t
As an unattractive introvert, this video is 100% real
Attractive guys attract peoples, WHO COULD HAVE GUESSED
As Ryan it's 100% real too. It's not like he has any idea what tf to do around girls either. I remember someone asking me out and I just sort of stared at them confused and said, "...why?" It made no sense at the time and I just kind of assumed they had some plan to be mean to me later. Now years later I wonder about all the opportunities I missed and all the people I hurt because I had no social skills.
As Unattractive Introvert I know I'm Ugly and will be alone.
@@arphangh5409 A Blessing and Curse, that's what people say.
Yeah same and i'm autistic.
As long as you’re attractive, it really doesn’t matter what else you are
this applies in high school. after that, no one cares for your looks anymore.
@@guguigugu no your looks are important throughout your life not just hs
@@guguigugu This couldnt possibly be further from the truth.
Attractive people have easier lives that ugly people. Beauty and money are the only two real privileges.
@@JarthenGreenmeadow if you truly believe this you are already fucked. do you think people care about their plumber or PC guy being handsome?
its true, i have seen people trying to bail a serial killer because he was attractive and cute; "he doesn't deserve to be in jail". this man ran over a family with his car including 3 children.
being born ugly is just life on hardmode🗣🔥
🤓Akthually, it is most likely your parents that have doomed you to become unattractive, by not prioritising your physical, mental, social, and psychological wellbeing early on.
Because of which, you have inherited their bad habits, along with insecurities, and fears.
@@PewDiePie777 🤓
i used to be super extroverted and then i started too notice that im being left behind and i became lonely. I got in my own head about what people thought about me but this wasnt the case when i was a kid. I could make people laugh all the time. It got so bad that i cant make eye contact anymore and dont talk anymore. I also started staying inside more. People say im attractive but thats because i have a perfect nose and hair/height and play a sport like hockey.. I think everything else sucks my mouth, and teeth sucks and i think i lossed my personality from when i was younger, i dont know what i am now. Thought i share my experience.
Bro
@mayangjsoa is that all u could say 💀 so rude
@@Naurrrrrrrrr bruh
@@silenceplays-ml stop with the "BrUh" 🙄😒
Same bro. I'm about to turn 14 and I can confidently say I am no longer the same as the younger me who is always happy and talkative. I don't know what happened but I hope I can get rid of this shyness soon. I'll try socializing more.
Pain is on another level when you live in a reality like Nathan's reality
I understand. You get emotional damage every time you talk with someone, everyone wants to control you, and any good idea is ignored by them. You seem to be the lowest of the constructed social class we have made ourselves.
And we want to be on the top, but tell me, how can you be on the top if you aren't pretty enough?
Yes sir
true 😭
not if you have coke
Or money
You dont have to necessarily "like" people like Nathan in our society. But just because they are weird doesn't mean they shouldn't receive basic human respect.
the future school shooters. if they don't get laid they will lose their minds.
some people are wired to feel repulsion when looking at anyone that isn't of their social status. its an impulse they can't control to an extent. the only thing you can do is never let them be in control of things
@@caralho5237 When I was in Highschool I noticed myself getting angry at and avoiding the more outgoing kids for no good reason. Most of them weren't mean to me or anyone else from what I saw, they were just better at being social than me, and had normie interests. I'd always thought that I was being excluded from everything but I just wasn't putting any effort into including myself. Ironically, realizing that I was being more shallow and judgemental than I thought they were being only shot my self esteem even lower, and I'm still trying to climb out of that hole today. I still catch myself thinking like that every now and then.
@@caralho5237 it's called natural selection, and humans are naturally discriminative towards the unfortunate.
@@caralho5237 sounds like they have a problem. That needs to be fix by their parents, but they don’t care
No one can just really understand how it feels when a introvert like me gets hurt when someone says about the face or body or something else..😢
All people say "love yourself first" but to love ourself we need to "be confident" and that hurtness by someone just breaks the confidence..😢😭
Tbh I find being a loner is better than socially because due to my stupid eye or questionale will of myself. I can social, talk and be friend to anyone, because of my clown skill, when i make fun of myself, and share interest with something. I can have some pretty good friend, but the more I interact, the more I bored to them. So... Yeah, i almost treat them like "he not my friend". That is the problem to me. I alway feel bored, even how much I interacting, and I find that sometimes my word can be hurt someone. I have a lot of mental health issues. But one thing I find holding me back is very sensitive tear, like wtf, I just talking something a bit emotion, and I started crying? FOR NO ABSOLUTE REASON? This put me on a very big shame. Like I very easy to cry. I did my best to get stronger, or bla bla. It still like that, so only 2 options I have is 1. Hide it and 2. Avoid it.
I also can say i have ugly look (because im fat lol) , but to my eye "It seem normal though? Doesn't look bad, but not good, just a bland face with nothing to criticize about, except fat." So my point for everyone is be better like workout, or anything that people suggestions about it. I will stick with my fatty body, and fatty look (because I find it normal). Instead, I will try improve my social skill, and my mental health.
And I chose loner path to not hurt anyone.
And also I kinda mix between introvert and extrovert. I shy, and scare at the place I not get used to. But then slowly and slowly. Omg, I talk. A LOT. And people eventually become friends to me
@@KawahaghiteiDyler Yea bro and sorry for late response. I also think that however I look is good (means I'm fat too) and my parents also want me to become a topper which is not my passion, my passions is to become a youtuber and gaming youtuber, beatbox etc. But sometimes I think that lonely is not made for me, means I'm a Introvert, but sometimes I feel very depressed without my sibling and my parents.
Yea u are right that loneliness is good but I prefer be quite towards any friends and just like u I also make friends quickly but Yea I agree with you that loneliness is more good.
@@arnavpaul1741 don't worry about replying late. At least you answer and share your thoughts to me, and that is good enough to me.
Loneliness is a way to make me not hurt other, and also not let other hurt me, but we still human after all. We still need to socialise with other, and make friend in real life. To me, internet, game, book and story fictional stuff is the home for me, when I came home, I alway feel like I'm not at my home yet. Until I use my pc, laptop or my phone, I finally actually in my home. I don't care about my parent or even any other people in my family line, I only care about my brother, grandma and my grandpa.
I want to say this to you about your dream. Don't shamed yourself just because people say bad things to you, don't lose hope about your dream. Keep going. Keep moving forward and do what you want to archive the dream.
Put all of your effort, and passion to it and its will worth it. Even if you failed it, try another way around.
You can do it, as long you put the effort into it, everything will worth it.
I know you better than me (because my gut say so), so stand tall and keep push to the end of your goal. I sure to you, one day you will be succeeded after dozen of defeated.
@@arnavpaul1741 also I hate myself a lot, but after many many hate. I feel like, hating my own body while do nothing to get better is something I should stop, because hating my own doesn't do anything to improve my self.
So accepting it, then slowly realized that accepting a weakness of yourself will help you improve the confidence of you. You don't need to love yourself, you don't need to care or love other. Understand and acceptance is enough to make you face the cruel reality of this world.
Also i considered myself a sadist because my uncontrolled behaviour in my life. So i cane up with idea that 'to not hurt other, you must and alway hurt yourself, because you is you and you can't do anything to stop yourself' that is my Loner mindset.
If you want to share your thoughts or want to let some pressure of the stress go away by typing, go ahead and comment here. I will and alway wait your comment.
Its a tier system
1. Attractive extroverts
2. Attractive introverts
3. Ugly extroverts
4. Ugly introverts
Works especially till high school after that your social status also matters lol
As an introvert who is unattractive I can say this video is 100% true.
@There is zero pictures of earth from space. haha, what?
Go to gym
fix it
@@gentletop8910 hi
@@gentletop8910 "no one will bother you"
Bro, people always come to me to remember me that I'm ugly 😂😂
Like, "hey bro, don't forget that you are still ugly" and I'm like "alright, thanks, I almost forgot about that" 😭😂😂😂😂
I’m an attractive guy with autism, my best friend is an unattractive guy with autism.
I noticed despite acting almost the same there was a HUGE difference in how we were treated.
Got black pilled at 12 years old
bro didn’t lie. bro is majestic💀
@@yellowplate4539 look at his profile picture
what is black pilling?
@@bakedbread7540 Well it depends on who you ask but long story short it’s the truth and really nothing but the truth now you have some people who go a little extreme with it or are saying wrong things.
@@bakedbread7540 for example you’ll be told looks doesn’t matter and it’s all what’s in your heart and let’s say you’re like 15 you ask out your crush then she’ll be like Sorry I don’t date shorter guys that would be getting blackpilled
me personally i grew up pretty awkward with horrible social skills n took it into my older late teen early adult years and alot of females were very intrigued by the “mysteriousness” i gave off but in reality it was just horrible social skills mixed with the shyness but ive grown out of that shyness now
Honestly, Ryan was so unrealistic. Introvert people doesn't appear around anyone especially their opposite gender. They try to avoid the opposite gender as much as they can and they watch people from far away to see if they are good for them to talk and be friends. I know it might look creepy but we introverts do everything to make sure the person we have a crush on is a good person. And it's dumb to just go and ask them"Hey, Are you a good person?". We also fight back so bad when we are bullied or in a fight. Which is ryan just cried. Joel Miller and Arthur Morgan are perfect characters to teach people what an introvert is. For the people we hate or don't trust or just... Don't know, We become like Joel Miller. We watch their every move coldly and don't talk and when they start a fight,We make sure the leave them with several broken teeths and bones. We also don't follow the person to see how they treat their families. We just sometimes glance at their actions and dialogues. And we become Arthur Morgan to the ones we love and care. We look for excuses to help them, Talk and laugh around them, Rare times tell them our problems and put up that fake smile to make them feel better. We are so sensitive when we decide to have a friend or a lover. We make sure that they are good for us by any means necessary. Because we are not so eager for another heartbreak. 🙂🥀
As an unattractive introvert who gets bullied for my looks, i can confirm every single thing in this video is true
i feel you my man
I hope it doesn't hurt you too much
Same :(
Give yer balls a tug, sally. Go get drunk and do push-ups in the snow ya sad sap, your soul mate is giving free handys in the Texas Roadhouse parking lot rn don’t cry on me and tell me it’s raining bud
i don't know your conditions bro, but could you try learn a martial art? it could be of help
Nathan is literally just one step away from being a “quiet kid”
It's odd how there isn't enough of the "quiet kid"
There is so much suffering for everyone yet these occurrences are still relatively rare.
@@saosaqii5807 I believe this is due to successful and intentional social engineering from our childhoods that prevents them from happening more often. As children we are taught that what's inside that counts, everyone is beautiful, ugly duckling... then as teens we are told that we will glow up with puberty, you are just a late bloomer, then as adults, hit the gym bro, self improvement, your time will come keep grinding... however, during this time an ugly person's emotions are being dulled by a lifetime of humiliation, rejection and isolation. Couple this with the sedetives of modernity, internet, prn, fast food, drugs, wage slavery. An ugly person is guided through there most emotional, reactive stage of there life when they are most likely to go ER and more likely sui instead, which is much more beneficial and easily explained with made up psyco babble.
Bro just say shooter. Stop labeling quiet kid = shooter
@@saosaqii5807 you say “isnt enough” like the world needs more of them
@@jesuscarter4048 i was literally a quiet kid with social anxiety and depression and never even though of shooting anyone. yall people treating quiet kids like they're gonna do something Horrible but sometimes you gotta talk to them a lot or atleast try. most of quiet kids have either Problems with their family/Life or are just too scared to open up cause they think people are gonna hate them, instead People rather make the same Joke for over Years and treat them like they're some Terrorists instead Giving them a hand.
Even attractive introverts turn invisible. Once they start opening up, the mystery is dispelled.
I totally relate to the unattractive introvert guy. Not even playing the victim card, just sharing my experience. As an ugly and unsocial person I had to go through a lot of stuff to the point where I literally changed my personality. I tried to interact with my classmates because it was the last year of school. But all they'd do was make fun of my looks every time I approached them. I have an online friend. He is introvert but he looks good. One day he told me that a lot of girls from his class are attracted towards him and they think that he is so cool and mysterious. So, at the end of the day I know I am kinda unlovable cause like even family and some close friends make fun of my looks. Some teachers neglect me even though I am super smart at academics. But you know they end up saying, "Looks don't matter". But they are the ones who mistreat me because of the way I look.
Pfp checks out
I'm 35 and still feel like Nathan a lot of the time. As crazy as it sounds, it took getting deathly ill with a chronic disease to give me some perspective, and it's actually helped more than anything else. Our society is incredibly shallow today, and even the attractive, "cool" ones are often adrift without much fundamental purpose or grounding. Being ok with people not liking you seems impossible, until you distinguish your values from those of society. In short, it's ok to be a loner, and it's ok to be "unattractive" as long as you are being your authentic self. It doesn't mean it's ever easy, but being a friend to yourself is imminently more important than seeking friendship from others.
wise advice
Can't help it though that no matter how comfortable we are by ourselves, we're still social animals. We seek company partly because insincere validations from others tend to register more to our psyche than any sort of honest self-evaluation could.
Its not "shallow society" its biology
I'm 34 and because of my looks alone I never had a chance to get a girlfriend in my country.
I focused on my career instead and am successful and earn a lot now. I also often have business trips to south east asia and the first time I stayed in Bangkok I was surprised because I not only got matches in my dating apps but also could arrange dates and had some ONS in no time.
Thailand is a country in which being white is the peak of the beauty standard and women even take weird and dangerous pills to look paler.
For me as somebody who gets sunburn everytime he leaves the building I suddenly became very attractive to girls just by changing the country.
It was a real culture shock for me because in my own country I had 0 chances while in other countries it's so easy.
@@leenbeen3269 And thats exactly whats wrong. "Biology" is a fancy way of saying people refuse to go above their animalism and instinct. Humans are more than that, some of them at least.
Bro got so introverted he erased himself from reality
At most he's background noise
No one saw....
He didn't. People erased him
@@longsteinpufferbatch4949 no u erased him
That was a representation of him being invisible to others due to the fact that he's introverted and unattractive.
"Just be more confident bro..." Oh apparently it's that simple, you just needed to ask. Thanks you very much bro, every Introvert in the world are now more confident, good job.
I think the reason why he dissapeared, is cause everybody forgot about him and nobody cared about his existence. It's like he was never there.
The thing that sucks is that you never know in which category everyone puts you in
You can check mirror and tell yourself
I'll never have an idea because I haven't left my house in 3 years
Yeah the girls I like treat me like Nathan. The girls that I am not interested treat me like Ryan😢.
@@debanikgoswami4834 what's? Everyone treat me like Nathan,you should be grateful
I'm so Ugly i hate myself
If you are an unattractive introvert (boy or girl) people will expect you to act friendly or even be submissive.
You having your own personality and ideas will make people hate you so much.
Being able to stand up for your ideas and be yourself is a modern day act of courage.
Keep up boys and girls.
Just another day in the brain of a democrat voter.
@@inq2605 this comment made me laugh uncontrollably
i hope it is satire
if I'm perceived as cute instead of handsome does that count as unattractive?
@@wifi961you're clown.
Thank you ❤
to be honest as an introvert i feel unattractive, never talk to most people and don't even try to make friends as i feel they would not want me as a friend because i just feel like i don't fit in.
Same dude
same 😢😢
Genuinely inspired me to fix my insecurities and become more social. God bless you bro❤
Good to know they're still inviting us doomers into their parties. Respect
😀😀
Doomer 4 lyfe
This is just a video
@@OffGridInvestor 🤯
"us doomers" yeah sure needy girl, whatever you say
There's practically only 2 paths
1: Keep finding time trying to impress people but they just find you annoying
2: Get used to the loneliness and do whatever else that makes you happy that doesn't involves people
imagine male reality being this way
The 2nd is almost acceptable but the 1st one is just reek of loser energy.
There's a difference between working on yourself and try to impress other
You know that people aren't always the same, right?
3. Rope
i do that. i tried to impress but u know, they just ignore me.
Confidence doesn’t solve shit. Didn’t for me. Only brought up some nasty peoples sides lmao
one thing is confidence and another thing is ego, which one did you chose
I can confirm that video is spot on accurate as an ugly introvert myself. Worst part about it for me is most of the stuff I can't fix(lazy/cross eye, asthma), even the stuff I can fix (unibrow, being too skinny) can never make up for it. The most annoying part is the people that straight up go "ewww" or "ick" if I look at them or the other way around(well, if they spot me, I guess all introverts have the ability to disappear). Not to mention there are some people who treat me like I'm some autistic kid or something. Thing is, I'm just some highschool kid doing ap classes as a freshman with 141 iq, and still don't even get a thank you or anything when I help anybody or anything out. At the end of the day, be thankful for who you are. You are probably better well off than most people.
Only the one who used to be like Nathan could understand how painful it is
I am only attracted to certain type of girls. I friendzone or ignore lot of girls. I am having hard time getting girl of my type. I will probably be forever alone 😢.
@@debanikgoswami4834what kinda girl do you want
There's a 2 kind kf woman who always attached to me.
1. The Annoying woman kinda like those two animation girl on video.
2. The Horniest. Usually this type always have real feeling to me, but sadly the time wasn't right.
@@faleilham8334if she’s super horny she probably didn’t have real feelings for u no offense 😭
@@debanikgoswami4834bro you seriously passing all those opportunities just because “tHeIr nOt mY tYpE”
Funny how indeed is just confidence, the part no one talks about is that confidence comes from somewhere
Exactly, it doesn't just manifest itself in one day. When an attractive guy gets attention from girls - it naturally builds confidence I think.
@@Mazxlol Duh
Confidence in most cases is built young by the parents, random pass-byers and initial interactions with girls. If all of this is positive, you'll be in a positive feedback loop. If all of this is negative (lets assume because you're ugly af) it'll be a negative feedback loop which is EXTREMELY hard to break out of. The fix is get good at something, anything doesn't have to be the gym like everyone always says lmao. But get a skill, be come great and I mean GREAT, as in world class, and the confidence will come. This doesn't mean you'll be better with girls thats a seperate issue, but you'll have tasted confidence in isolation, and then its about leveraging that confidence elsewhere OR, repeating that skill accumulation in something that aids confidence with women specifically. If you're not endowed with confidence due to lucky circumstances you have to build it with intentional action.
You’re all wrong. Confidence is derived from competence. Whether that be competent looks, or competent skills, talents etc you’re only as confident as you are competent in that area. Anything more is overconfidence, and basically boasting/hubris.
This is why it’s important to be good at something that people need or want, otherwise you’ll have a hard time getting people to relate to you.
correct validation and experiences definitely build confidence
but I don't think confidence is when you get attention from everyone, true confidence is when you are happy and satisfied even if you get no attention from anyone
Bro i just want to leave my comments in here, my life full of complaintments (maybe i'm ugly) , i hope yall in Phase of unattractive can become more attractive person in future
Yup!
yeah, looks, hygiene, and style are like 99% of what people will judge you on, for your entire life. theres no escaping that. work on improving all 3, you'll make it.
The third, sometimes overlooked, category is that of the "cute, I guess" introverts. The ones that are not unappealing to girls but not appealing either, so they are in a position where they are liked but never the first option. Basically a free friendzone acces card
It be like that lol
i can relate...
Yup, me to the T.
Kinda true. But I guess that would filter out some red flags.
low T
I had a friend whom had similar interests as me, was extroverted and was lightly attractive and nice. When we approached girls i was seemed as a creep and a harasser but when he did the same thing he was flirty,cute. When we talked to others about stuff,he was interesting,when i did the same,i was pedantic and arrogant. When i became a confident person i was seemed as boring,resentful and arrogant,when my extroverted and attractive cousin did the same,he became "focused and down to earth".
Dude I had the same experience. It's so odd how us humans work
That so depressed as hell! :(
Inb4 some redditor tells you didn't hold frame.
when the blackpill unintentionaly hits :(
Just take care of your hygnie and groom bro
I have also experienced some of these things (like Ryan) , but as a female it's different. I wouldn't say that i am too attractive but am definitely above avg, I have also experienced sexual harrasment (like grabbing my wrist, poking pen in my lower back by boys) and some of the male teachers pay extra attention to me, which I think is very weird bcz they think that I'm a porcelain doll or smthng and can't speak answers in class, also I have experienced this way more since my dad keeps transferring from place to place every 2,3 years or so, and everytime it feels like the same cycle is repeating all over again. Just because im a quiet person, people think that they have full control of me and can do anything they want (especially male people) it makes me so mad HOW CAN YOU DO THIS
I’m introvert, but not a complete loner. I’m not ugly, I’m not hot either. Bang down the middle. The problem is, I might as well be invisible. I try to talk and nobody even notices me. I’m having a bad day and quiet, not one person will ask if I’m alright.
same
@@fiya4444 it’s so depressing
@@Lucas26vvv fr hope it gets better for u
@@fiya4444 you too 🫡
"Just be more confident" is the same as "Just cheer up". What I think really works is to write down what makes you proud of yourself, and/or hang around positive people that support you, start taking better care of your health and dress with more thought, use confident and relaxed body language and walk with confidence, be ok being alone most of the time. (Be grateful really), and open up a bit about yourself, while still listening to others.
I know how hard it is to be confident but I can guarantee you it helps a lot. Also, girls like to be chased but that doesn't mean they'll like you. If you can get a girl to chase you then that's when you know you're doing something right
Solid advice 👍🏻
@@MrAnsatsuken you basically complimented everything that Domi B said.
Just be more confident applies to good looking -people- men and to a certain extend to normies
If you only good looking (as shown in the video) it's not enough. Like you may initially get treated better and girls will be looking at you and even start the conversation once in a while but it's not like you close the deal automatically. Still plenty of ways to fuck it up the biggest one is not beeing confident.
Great advice
this channel is perfectly describing society problems in an interesting form with internet memes
its entertaining but sad and depressing at the same time when u notice these videos are sad reality of constant dopamine seeking world we live in
This is a perfect portrayal of human behaviour down to the stances
why tf you call it problems? it's naturally meant to avoid uglies and weirdos
maybe we should get off youtube and all social media ahaha
@@lose8447maybe we should get off from life🤜🔪
in the end bro left the server
ugly + introvert = unattractive
Handsome + introvert = attractive
Noo I don't find this true
i went through plastic surgery after so many years of being an unattractive introvert and I can say this is 100% accurate. Basically if you're pretty all of your negative traits can be seen as a good thing
This is correct, although exuding confidence also plays a partin it. More so for guys at least. For girls I think it's mostly about looking good yes, and then everything you do is fundamentally positive by default.
If you're fat and unattractive, then everything you do and are is unappealing.
Very unfair, but that's how the brain works. At least this goes mostly for first impressions and shallow relations. Looks matter a whole lot less when you get to know someone well, but of course the challenge is getting to that point in the first place.
What Stevie’s did you get? 🌝
Dw your kids would still look ugly man it's called genes and your fucked up and it fine it doesn't matter u can still do alot naturally without altering your body with plastic surgeries
And thats what keeping away beatiful people from working on themselves, on their bad habits. Because they don't have to put any effort to become better of themselves while so much people loves them unconditionally because of their looks.
@@raloon2927 that's actually a really good point and it's extremely unfair for the really good people who aren't seen as physically attractive. Many people find me physically attractive but like... I'm not the kinda person who really cares about that as much. Personally, I feel many of my friends who have trouble getting dates deserve a relationship way more than me since their just really good people and their not given a chance. Meanwhile, I really don't want to be in a relationship. I don't wanna be lonely but that's why I like spending time with friends and I want to make more friends as time goes on. Many times when I try to make friends with people, they don't want to be friends. They want more... which is why I've felt lonely for a long time before meeting my more recent group of friends. They deserve the relationships, I have a lot to work on before I jump into one of those...
As an unattractive introvert this is relatable. I'm always invisible to everyone. Rejected in groups because I'm too weird and don't talk that much or they just think I'm boring. And this is why I already accept the fact that I will always be lonely no matter what. I honestly wish there's a school for all outcasts or the misunderstood ones like us.
That's a pathetic mindset. Stop it. Seek Christ and let that be your primary focus. Get strengthened in the most important area, your soul. And let things flow from there. Too much focus on social status is hollow and time wasting.
@trenton9 I do believe in christ.
@@randomdudekid433 Great. My comment was to the original poster. But I'm glad to hear that.
@@trenton9 Oh yea god is going to make me good looking and social thank for the shitty advice
@@draingangenjoyer. You don't have to be good-looking to have a good life. And God can make you social.
Yeah. I'm an ugly introvert and every girl and boy ignores me, even though I'm kind and generous inside.
Felt
Ugly or attractive, introverts are always open and kind towards another introvert, and got eachother back.
Nathan is the type of person who is a cold psychopath on the outside but in the inside he just wants to be hugged
And that's exactly why I like him
on the outside I may look like a mean sociopath but inside I'm just a sociopath who wanna be hugged
Look this video is nothing but bs, the truth is you can be fat not good looking but if you have charisma and know how to talk to people open body language you can get girl's and friend's no problem. You wanna a secret to a woman's heart sense of humor i realized this. Doesn't mean if a guy is good looking women are instantly going to fall in love him . I had a friend in school who was obese and kinda unatractive but he had the most girl's in school he keep changing them like sock's from week's to day's beacuse he didn't take himself seriously.
@@Resident4Island this is 100% true, many girls love the physically ugly bastard type fr fr. you just have to have a good personality and be charming. if you aren't attracting any women it is most likely they can sense that inner incel you have from how you behave.
@@RafaelMunizYT 🤗hugs you so tightly you collapse after getting suffocated.
Wow heheh….what a sigma 🍷😈
The reality is this we can’t help certain factors due to genetics but getting in shape and actively trying to improve yourself will be far better than chasing any girls ‘if you spend your time chasing butterflies they will fly away, if u spend ur time making a beautiful garden the butterflies will come to you’
Es que algunos son introvertidos qué ni siquiera amigos son capaces de hacer.
“Just be more confident bro…” had me dying
Yeah it was that easy.
I wish that if I'll die and heaven exists that I could have a way to marry Ivo
A monster is not born, it is made !!!
@@pridefulobserver3807 The child that is not embraced by the tribe will warm his heart by burning the tribe to the ground.
@@pridefulobserver3807 ugly people are born not made
@@christianriddler5063 Exactly.