because its true. iam a degenerate, you dont know what i do in my free time but trust me its fucked up. And it really hurts when people call me this or that but its true...
To be fair, when you're introverted and not ugly or attractive either, you are not labeled as a "creep" or a "mysterious guy" anymore, you just... dissappear from everyone's vision, just like Nathan did in the end of the video
Well damn, you mean when you look like a normal guy who doesn't interact with anybody and who purposefully blends in with the crowd you suddenly don't get any attention? Tell me something I don't know.
As an unattractive introvert, this is 100% true. When they say “looks don’t matter” they are 100% lying, looks do matter in pretty much everything in the social department.
As an Introvert. I said a joke out loud, nobody laughed, I felt terrible then an extroverted friend of mine repeated the same joke and everybody laughed. I was devastated how invisible I was. The only people who see me are my current friends, family and teachers, to others I am non-existent.
@@midnightblue1874 Might have been the case. Nevertheless I have came to terms with the fact that I will remain this way with no way to change. Just hope someday we will get to be happy as well 👍
I understand your pain on so many levels man I just wanna tell you that when I feel horrible, I love reading the Bible. Ecclesiastes, my favorite chapter of the Bible. I can relate to it on so many levels I think you will too. God loves you brother. He'll give you the strength you need. :)
I think its not only about introverts, its the same for extroverts too. Unattractive extroverts are often considered "talkative" and attractive extroverts are considered "social".
To be fair, when you're an "unattractive" extrovert you already have much less things to fix. That is to say, just your appearance. Which may not be an easy task, but if you take care of your physique, hair and clothing, you'll quickly hit the minimum criteria to be considered "attractive" despite not having the most attractive genes. Unattractive INTROVERTS, on the other hand...
I mean they are objective truths, you should do all of that but you can't expect things to change drastically even if you do those things. However there's literally no harm in loving yourself and having confidence
@@thismeaning9 yeah especially cause most men are doing the absolute bottom of the barrel work in society sometimes you kinda want to come home to women after all that meanwhile women just choose to be alone
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
If you have to manipulate people to like you, you're not physically attractive. Yes you can still attract people, sleep with them, etc with other things but you're not physically attractive, hence the mind tricks.
2:54 this part right here spoke so many volumes. They couldn’t see him cuz they refused to see him. A metaphor for completely ignoring the existence of others cuz they are irrelevant to them. If they’re not attractive in some way to garner someone’s attention then they’re seen as nonexistent. So many folks are like this now and sad part is they’ll continue to be this way until the end of time.
For people like Nathan, people will not see you unless you force them to acknowledge your existence. Why do you think school shooters only get famous after they commit their act? Society has become too soft, they forgot human nature has always been brutal.
Oh god. When we get rid of the fact our parents could not get us ready for this rapidly changing world. And we stop to deep and analyze everything trought the lenses and perspectives on life we learned to see life tru. We will have people cared for, we will be cared for. Before that. We can start with ourselves. We can start to value the things we actually value. Do what is to be done. To slowly get out of the States of beings we fell into
When you think about it, I guess the abundance mindset makes sense. The attractive loner has abundance of social interaction opportunity and wants to be left alone. The unattractive loner does not have abundance of social interaction opportunity, and craves it, but is always alone.
People always say "The real beauty is inside", "showing emotions is sexy", but in practice they would break all these words. World is dark enough, we don't have to feed ourselves and others with lies and fake hope.
It's human nature to judge people by physical looks. It's a survival instinct, per se. People will think of attractive people as safer ones to socialize than the ugly ones. Addtional note: Take it from me. No one wants to socialize with me because of my looks. I repel them just because of that aspect. But I also think that improving personality-wise may help. May.
Yep 100% a 1000% true it's really rare to see someone only liking personality than the looks but even if your attractive you also needs to spend sometime with an idk I'm ugly too
i’m sure you are not, probably you are located in the wrong place, let me explain. I meet canadians guys, both looking like Mclovin from that movie. They consider themselves as unattractive but when they traveled to Latinoamerica they got many well looking girls just for being from a different race. You know what i mean? I’ve seen this with asian males too, they moved to america and get girls but they weren’t considered attractive for their own people at first
I'm not socially awkward, I just can't with certain people. They do too much. I hate going out with friends and seeing someone complain about something they previously agreed with or bringing personal problems out of nowhere.
Started balding at high school. It sucks for real. I can say it gave a strong punch to my appearence (i wasn’t too ugly, but now i am). Now i’m 24 and never even kissed a girl in my entire life
So accurate. I went from fat to fit and got to experience being attractive in a compelety new social circle. It's shocking how differently people treat you and how easy your life is when you're attractive.
For me it doesn't matter much, I used to be very skinny growing up and even when I started going to the gym and packed up a lot of lean muscle mass and there isn't much difference in how people treat me. But I'm glad that I'm not 120 pound 6'2 skeleton that I used to be either way.
@@Palach624 Cuz your attractive facial features are just as visible when skinny or jacked. But being fat changes your face a lot and you can't see the jawline, cheekbones, etc. How nicely you are treated is mostly dictated by your face.
@@Mulmgott I disagree, my face looked terrible when I was skinny, I looked like a drug addict even when covering the rest of my body up with a jacket during winter. Now my face is fine by all means, nothing out of the ordinary but I have solid jawline and got rid of acne as well. Still nothing changed
@@longsteinpufferbatch4949 Fucking cockroach deserves it. All of them do. Though nowadays I prefer moths, because they have such cute faces, whereas butterflies look like soul-suckers from a lovecraftian dimension when you see their horrific visage up close.
@@bruhm0ment6000 Being unloved can create a defensive cycle where anybody wanting to be with you seems unlikely and gets treated like a threat, preventing more people from talking to you. The cycle continues, encounters become more and more rare and therefore more and more suspicious until they stop forever
in symbiotic synergi. like pottery. also ugly thinking makes your face ugly and women are hypersensitive and more psychic than men which means they know exactly what nasty toughts you have before you have them,
being a ugly introvert gets you this harsh treatment permanently. I’ve figured if people don’t want me at all, I’ll make myself more ugly, rotten and damaged.
Man I hated high school so much because of this exact shit I’ve never been able to verbally explain it but this video conveys my feelings for those past four years. Being attractive was always a massive crutch for so many guys, without it they’d be nothing just like the guy in the video.
this one girl at my school was an introvert but she was very attractive so people would invite her to sit with them at lunch and seemed interested in her but then there was this other girl who was unatractive and instead of being supported people would constanly remind her of her unatractive looks and put her down she even expressed how she wanted to take her own life but still, people showed no mercy. society can be brutal if you are unatractive
Tem uma história similar aqui. No 9° ano da tarde da minha escola tem duas gurias introvertidas, uma que é bonita e a outra não. A "bonita" ganha atenção das crianças das outras turmas no recreio (6° e 7°) e a amizade de uma guria da mesma sala. Agora a que não é bonita fica sozinha no recreio e é ignorada quase sempre
My father was that type of attractive loners. My mom often tells me and my brother that she was intrigued by his seemingly cold personality and that was what made her attracted to him. So yeah apparently women love that archetype and it's not a new thing.
my dad acts that way sober then he's a dick when he's drunk. Im more introverted than I am extroverted, but im kinda ugly/good looking, but I also dealt with some of that shit in high school but had fun nonetheless with my friends.
@@systemx6603 yeah and thats just how the world is unfortunately. there are serial killers who are loved just because they're seen as attractive. if you're attractive you're loved
"The inner you is what makes you attractive, not your face", biggest lie I was ever told. I remember on my first year of high school.I was called out by a girl for being one of the "ugliest in the class". It didn't hurt me that much because I have an iron will but I did notice that hardly any girls ever interacted with me in the class and during lunch breaks too. Again it didn't bother me because Im a loner (in the sense that I dont like socialising, not that I can't) Then on my second last year of highschool, I walked by a few girls and just said "Hi" and ofc they said "Hi" back, end of conversation. Right after that, I overheard them discussing how I was "cute" and "kinda hot". Another instance happened where the boys told me that they overheard the girls in my class say that Im "really cool". I also noticed that interaction with girls was easier than it should be and now more often, they would come talk to me. Hell I got asked out before (I turned her down). This was the same year I got facial hair, a chiseled jawline and a built up body from gym and jogging. Just from a few years of puberty evolution, I automatically won social points for the girls just for having a good face. My personality never changed in that time. Im still the same guy I was since first year of Highschool. I never put much effort into looking good. I only exercised for fun. But because I naturally grew a little sexier, I got alot more attention from girls. In summary, looks DO matter.
Lucky man with those chiseled jaw genes! There are things like chewing gum, mewing and having low body fat percentage that help but if you got genes you’re gonna look good from the start! Good to hear they worked out for you brother 🔱
@@motivationdaily1782 If you are capable of self derision it means you are more than capable to change for the better. People with insecurities and low esteem tend to lie to themselves but it just makes things worse since they dont want to change
I have read answers to the question "Women, how did you approach your boyfriend?" on Reddit and these women often wrote "He was so shy, but I had to approach him, I found him sooo cute", if you're introverted but attractive your chances of getting lucky are much higher. If youre introverted and unattractive youre pretty much screwed. You need to be fake and be extroverted, to compensate the looks, but that often leads to anxiety and misery
And when you hear a "no" just enforces your thought that being alone was the best option from the start. And you feel stupid for trying to force yourself into being an extrovert that you're not.
Definitely, You'll have to endure hundreds of rejections going that route but I've heard many stories about how someone has the short/fat/ugly friend that gets a ton of girls and every time the reason is always that he's extremely confident and outgoing to compensate.
It’s always the stories about the pretty intoverts, not the ugly ones. As an “ugly” introvert who got labelled as yandere simply for venting to someone, looks are everything.
@@SonGoku-zr9ncsomeone who is obsessive over the person they love, typically to the point of stalking or excessive possessiveness Yandere isn't even the right "term" for something like that, menhera would make more sense, but it's still pretty weird to call someone that
How ugly are we talking? Most 'ugly' people aren't as bad looking as they think. Usually there's some way of working with what you've got to make the best of it
Aesthetics and morality both make distinctions and hierarchies, draw boundaries and create bonds. so Im guessing people get them mixed up atleast at some level or the morality of individuals may be based on a value system including aesthetic effect. Edit : The moralistic and aesthetic positions are extremes. Aesthetic value is the value that an object, event, or state of affairs (most paradigmatically an artwork or the natural environment) possesses in virtue of its capacity to elicit pleasure (positive value) or displeasure (negative value) when appreciated or experienced aesthetically.
@@GloryBlazer Morality is definitely based on a value system, have you ever had friends in the past or present who have said or done fucked up shit, but you let them get away with it because they're your friends, but if that fucked up shit was done by a stranger you would condone them for it, that's because that stranger has no value to you unlike your friends. I'll admit I've caught myself doing this from time to time. Although what I'm talking about is different, not about aesthetics.
I understand. You get emotional damage every time you talk with someone, everyone wants to control you, and any good idea is ignored by them. You seem to be the lowest of the constructed social class we have made ourselves. And we want to be on the top, but tell me, how can you be on the top if you aren't pretty enough?
You dont have to necessarily "like" people like Nathan in our society. But just because they are weird doesn't mean they shouldn't receive basic human respect.
some people are wired to feel repulsion when looking at anyone that isn't of their social status. its an impulse they can't control to an extent. the only thing you can do is never let them be in control of things
@@caralho5237 When I was in Highschool I noticed myself getting angry at and avoiding the more outgoing kids for no good reason. Most of them weren't mean to me or anyone else from what I saw, they were just better at being social than me, and had normie interests. I'd always thought that I was being excluded from everything but I just wasn't putting any effort into including myself. Ironically, realizing that I was being more shallow and judgemental than I thought they were being only shot my self esteem even lower, and I'm still trying to climb out of that hole today. I still catch myself thinking like that every now and then.
"Just be more confident bro..." Oh apparently it's that simple, you just needed to ask. Thanks you very much bro, every Introvert in the world are now more confident, good job.
Give yer balls a tug, sally. Go get drunk and do push-ups in the snow ya sad sap, your soul mate is giving free handys in the Texas Roadhouse parking lot rn don’t cry on me and tell me it’s raining bud
As Ryan it's 100% real too. It's not like he has any idea what tf to do around girls either. I remember someone asking me out and I just sort of stared at them confused and said, "...why?" It made no sense at the time and I just kind of assumed they had some plan to be mean to me later. Now years later I wonder about all the opportunities I missed and all the people I hurt because I had no social skills.
I was ignored by everyone in my school,i tried my best to grab attention but i was unable to do it,one day i was crying then my brother asked me,i told him he just said one thing,that changed my perspective totally. He said, How does it matter? Initially i had many answers but when i said him i don't get attention e.t.c . He said - Is it your need or want?if it is your need then tell me why are you alive after not getting it? I was blank,first time in my life i was feeling that i am mature,cause when i think about it,attention was my want and i can control my wants therefore i focused on gaining knowledge more,and he was true now i am happy.
I’m an attractive guy with autism, my best friend is an unattractive guy with autism. I noticed despite acting almost the same there was a HUGE difference in how we were treated. Got black pilled at 12 years old
@@bakedbread7540 Well it depends on who you ask but long story short it’s the truth and really nothing but the truth now you have some people who go a little extreme with it or are saying wrong things.
@@bakedbread7540 for example you’ll be told looks doesn’t matter and it’s all what’s in your heart and let’s say you’re like 15 you ask out your crush then she’ll be like Sorry I don’t date shorter guys that would be getting blackpilled
@@guguigugu This couldnt possibly be further from the truth. Attractive people have easier lives that ugly people. Beauty and money are the only two real privileges.
its true, i have seen people trying to bail a serial killer because he was attractive and cute; "he doesn't deserve to be in jail". this man ran over a family with his car including 3 children.
I'm not attractive at all and I know it. I'm a college student and one day as I was walking to my college there three girls walking in front of me. They were younger than me probably 17 or 18 ( im on my second year) so they were probably younger. So I have very asymmetrical eyes. My one eye is smaller than the other and it looks really weird. They looked behind and just laughed at my face. Literally right in front of me. Bro that was really rude and really embarrassing. Even while walking people just stare at my face I feel embarrassed. I have good friends at college and theh are all good looking fellas but girls dont talk to them while I'm around them. Maybe they think I'm weird or something but it's just my face. Idk man I cannot change my face or something. I guess i just have live with it.
Hi I'm in High school and have the same problem (including a misaligned jaw and a deviated septum). Do you think it could be the skin around your eye that makes it asymmetrical, perhaps tight muscles? It could also be due to your face having more tissue and fat in that region but I am not sure nor am I saying any of these are true. I understand up to my knowledge the feeling when girls don't want to talk to you but you still have hope; if you get a good paying job, pass College and such, you could get appointments to see the Doctor and find the issues and maybe even fix it to relieve all that stress. I feel horrible seeing myself and I know that I can fix it, as well as fix my bad habits that make myself look worse. Do well. 🙏
The solutions I find for this are: Cover the strong eye and use your weak one Also bad posture while using mobile can make it worse don't sleep on your side sleep on your back And last but not confirmed ( it worked for me ) is going to gym and doing cardio it help to give the face energy and not the bored look eyes
I'm 35 and still feel like Nathan a lot of the time. As crazy as it sounds, it took getting deathly ill with a chronic disease to give me some perspective, and it's actually helped more than anything else. Our society is incredibly shallow today, and even the attractive, "cool" ones are often adrift without much fundamental purpose or grounding. Being ok with people not liking you seems impossible, until you distinguish your values from those of society. In short, it's ok to be a loner, and it's ok to be "unattractive" as long as you are being your authentic self. It doesn't mean it's ever easy, but being a friend to yourself is imminently more important than seeking friendship from others.
Can't help it though that no matter how comfortable we are by ourselves, we're still social animals. We seek company partly because insincere validations from others tend to register more to our psyche than any sort of honest self-evaluation could.
I'm 34 and because of my looks alone I never had a chance to get a girlfriend in my country. I focused on my career instead and am successful and earn a lot now. I also often have business trips to south east asia and the first time I stayed in Bangkok I was surprised because I not only got matches in my dating apps but also could arrange dates and had some ONS in no time. Thailand is a country in which being white is the peak of the beauty standard and women even take weird and dangerous pills to look paler. For me as somebody who gets sunburn everytime he leaves the building I suddenly became very attractive to girls just by changing the country. It was a real culture shock for me because in my own country I had 0 chances while in other countries it's so easy.
@@leenbeen3269 And thats exactly whats wrong. "Biology" is a fancy way of saying people refuse to go above their animalism and instinct. Humans are more than that, some of them at least.
this channel is perfectly describing society problems in an interesting form with internet memes its entertaining but sad and depressing at the same time when u notice these videos are sad reality of constant dopamine seeking world we live in
Confidence in most cases is built young by the parents, random pass-byers and initial interactions with girls. If all of this is positive, you'll be in a positive feedback loop. If all of this is negative (lets assume because you're ugly af) it'll be a negative feedback loop which is EXTREMELY hard to break out of. The fix is get good at something, anything doesn't have to be the gym like everyone always says lmao. But get a skill, be come great and I mean GREAT, as in world class, and the confidence will come. This doesn't mean you'll be better with girls thats a seperate issue, but you'll have tasted confidence in isolation, and then its about leveraging that confidence elsewhere OR, repeating that skill accumulation in something that aids confidence with women specifically. If you're not endowed with confidence due to lucky circumstances you have to build it with intentional action.
You’re all wrong. Confidence is derived from competence. Whether that be competent looks, or competent skills, talents etc you’re only as confident as you are competent in that area. Anything more is overconfidence, and basically boasting/hubris. This is why it’s important to be good at something that people need or want, otherwise you’ll have a hard time getting people to relate to you.
correct validation and experiences definitely build confidence but I don't think confidence is when you get attention from everyone, true confidence is when you are happy and satisfied even if you get no attention from anyone
the most real thing. my closest friend said she would've never talked to me if i was ugly and people who i heard have a crush on me don't even know/talk to me. my personality in my friend group is seen as being the pretty nice comfort friend, never the funny friend just the advice giver which is fine but it's sad when some people do know me they realize my personality isn't all they fantasize about and i wonder how it would be if i was ugly how would i even survive?
"Just be more confident" is the same as "Just cheer up". What I think really works is to write down what makes you proud of yourself, and/or hang around positive people that support you, start taking better care of your health and dress with more thought, use confident and relaxed body language and walk with confidence, be ok being alone most of the time. (Be grateful really), and open up a bit about yourself, while still listening to others.
I know how hard it is to be confident but I can guarantee you it helps a lot. Also, girls like to be chased but that doesn't mean they'll like you. If you can get a girl to chase you then that's when you know you're doing something right
Just be more confident applies to good looking -people- men and to a certain extend to normies If you only good looking (as shown in the video) it's not enough. Like you may initially get treated better and girls will be looking at you and even start the conversation once in a while but it's not like you close the deal automatically. Still plenty of ways to fuck it up the biggest one is not beeing confident.
@@saosaqii5807 I believe this is due to successful and intentional social engineering from our childhoods that prevents them from happening more often. As children we are taught that what's inside that counts, everyone is beautiful, ugly duckling... then as teens we are told that we will glow up with puberty, you are just a late bloomer, then as adults, hit the gym bro, self improvement, your time will come keep grinding... however, during this time an ugly person's emotions are being dulled by a lifetime of humiliation, rejection and isolation. Couple this with the sedetives of modernity, internet, prn, fast food, drugs, wage slavery. An ugly person is guided through there most emotional, reactive stage of there life when they are most likely to go ER and more likely sui instead, which is much more beneficial and easily explained with made up psyco babble.
@@jesuscarter4048 i was literally a quiet kid with social anxiety and depression and never even though of shooting anyone. yall people treating quiet kids like they're gonna do something Horrible but sometimes you gotta talk to them a lot or atleast try. most of quiet kids have either Problems with their family/Life or are just too scared to open up cause they think people are gonna hate them, instead People rather make the same Joke for over Years and treat them like they're some Terrorists instead Giving them a hand.
The third, sometimes overlooked, category is that of the "cute, I guess" introverts. The ones that are not unappealing to girls but not appealing either, so they are in a position where they are liked but never the first option. Basically a free friendzone acces card
Its a tier system 1. Attractive extroverts 2. Attractive introverts 3. Ugly extroverts 4. Ugly introverts Works especially till high school after that your social status also matters lol
@@gentletop8910 "no one will bother you" Bro, people always come to me to remember me that I'm ugly 😂😂 Like, "hey bro, don't forget that you are still ugly" and I'm like "alright, thanks, I almost forgot about that" 😭😂😂😂😂
I had a friend whom had similar interests as me, was extroverted and was lightly attractive and nice. When we approached girls i was seemed as a creep and a harasser but when he did the same thing he was flirty,cute. When we talked to others about stuff,he was interesting,when i did the same,i was pedantic and arrogant. When i became a confident person i was seemed as boring,resentful and arrogant,when my extroverted and attractive cousin did the same,he became "focused and down to earth".
I am only attracted to certain type of girls. I friendzone or ignore lot of girls. I am having hard time getting girl of my type. I will probably be forever alone 😢.
There's a 2 kind kf woman who always attached to me. 1. The Annoying woman kinda like those two animation girl on video. 2. The Horniest. Usually this type always have real feeling to me, but sadly the time wasn't right.
cap, personality goes a long way. would you wanna be with a hot woman who's toxic and you can't stand her for the next 30,40,50 years or a "mid" woman who you enjoy being around and genuinely look forward to seeing and being with? idk man, life's not entirely about looks...some are gonna get hotter people easier but I think finding a person you can vibe with in the long term is a crazy and rare flex that people overlook due to being obsessed with looks (how they are perceived and how they perceive others)
If you are an unattractive introvert (boy or girl) people will expect you to act friendly or even be submissive. You having your own personality and ideas will make people hate you so much. Being able to stand up for your ideas and be yourself is a modern day act of courage. Keep up boys and girls.
As an unattractive introvert this is relatable. I'm always invisible to everyone. Rejected in groups because I'm too weird and don't talk that much or they just think I'm boring. And this is why I already accept the fact that I will always be lonely no matter what. I honestly wish there's a school for all outcasts or the misunderstood ones like us.
That's a pathetic mindset. Stop it. Seek Christ and let that be your primary focus. Get strengthened in the most important area, your soul. And let things flow from there. Too much focus on social status is hollow and time wasting.
There's practically only 2 paths 1: Keep finding time trying to impress people but they just find you annoying 2: Get used to the loneliness and do whatever else that makes you happy that doesn't involves people
You just don't understand how bad society will treat an unattractive person, this video is so true, it explained everything about attractive and unattractive introverts, but it's the same thing with extroverts. When you are an attractive extrovert, you have charism and you are funny, but if you are not attractive, you are annoying This is sad but this is the truth, people always says that they care about you and all. But in reality, in your everyday life, society will always treat you based on your attractivness
Nah, I knew this guy from my nerdy friend group in my 20s. He was morbidly obese, 400 pounds. He had a lot of charisma and was very good at talking to anyone. Girls seemed to love him and dudes from all walks of life.
Three years ago, I fit right into the “weird loner” archetype. Not only I was bullied my whole class, I was a tad overweight and I had bad skin, and that lead me to idk stop taking care of myself as much as I should’ve. Quarantine came and I felt more alone than ever, so something clicked and I got obsessed with the idea of changing. That lead me to loose weight really quickly (whole ed, won’t elaborate) and actually invest on skincare and make up. Around September, we got back to school and even with masks and everything, I noticed that people started treating me differently. I no longer was diminished by the boys. I no longer got called “gross” when I went down the stairs, and mainly the quieter boys started approaching me. I know my story differs from the point of the video, but it reminded me of how much your looks truly matter. Especially as a girl, you’ll only be treated like a human as long as you’re pleasant to look at. edit- I really really do mean the last part. I don’t think it is an overstatement at all. I live in a small town on a tiny European country, so maybe there’s another cultural pressure to fit in, but I’ve seen it and lived it with my own eyes (bullying from both girls and boys) and I really think it’s hypocritical to deny that looks matter when you haven’t been subjected to the same circumstances
I once heard someone's story about how they went through their "transformation" (losing weight, clean skin, better fashion, such and such.) and they began to resent society and every person they talked to because of how differently (better) everyone treated them. It's a true, crushing thing. Good looks get you the good of life and I'm not against it. I know my place and I desire to climb the ranks. It's just how it goes. Nothing we can do about it.
The ugly reality of beauty. If one looks like a malformant, they get treated like one. In the end it comes down to investment into personal health; Nobody wants a partner with health issues that could sabotage the relationship and cause emotional strain. This applies to both men and women, though in the modern day this aspect of people has been dialed up to 11. Hencewhy a lot of people are a lot more shallow and superficial than before.
Wow. Like this just shows, that as a female you put in a little work and get huge results. As a man good luck trying to not get bullied if you were born with an ugly face. Hint: Makeup is not an option. Losing body fat is key to being seen as a human being. Women can mock you 24/7 and there won't be a pity party.
@@j.d.s.1837 True. Though there's also grooming, skincare, hygiene, hairstyle, whether your breath snells nice or awful, posture, social skills, money, and behavior. Men have it much harder, but that's what in the end makes us Men.
Look this video is nothing but bs, the truth is you can be fat not good looking but if you have charisma and know how to talk to people open body language you can get girl's and friend's no problem. You wanna a secret to a woman's heart sense of humor i realized this. Doesn't mean if a guy is good looking women are instantly going to fall in love him . I had a friend in school who was obese and kinda unatractive but he had the most girl's in school he keep changing them like sock's from week's to day's beacuse he didn't take himself seriously.
I totally relate to the unattractive introvert guy. Not even playing the victim card, just sharing my experience. As an ugly and unsocial person I had to go through a lot of stuff to the point where I literally changed my personality. I tried to interact with my classmates because it was the last year of school. But all they'd do was make fun of my looks every time I approached them. I have an online friend. He is introvert but he looks good. One day he told me that a lot of girls from his class are attracted towards him and they think that he is so cool and mysterious. So, at the end of the day I know I am kinda unlovable cause like even family and some close friends make fun of my looks. Some teachers neglect me even though I am super smart at academics. But you know they end up saying, "Looks don't matter". But they are the ones who mistreat me because of the way I look.
@@Ami-raaait doesn’t. My best friend is an attractive introvert, and a lot of people wanted to talk to him, but he almost ran away from them. Not because he wanted to be alone, but because he got too nervous. He didn’t know what to say. Most people don’t want to be alone tbh.
I can confirm that video is spot on accurate as an ugly introvert myself. Worst part about it for me is most of the stuff I can't fix(lazy/cross eye, asthma), even the stuff I can fix (unibrow, being too skinny) can never make up for it. The most annoying part is the people that straight up go "ewww" or "ick" if I look at them or the other way around(well, if they spot me, I guess all introverts have the ability to disappear). Not to mention there are some people who treat me like I'm some autistic kid or something. Thing is, I'm just some highschool kid doing ap classes as a freshman with 141 iq, and still don't even get a thank you or anything when I help anybody or anything out. At the end of the day, be thankful for who you are. You are probably better well off than most people.
The part where they plan to use the unfortunate introvert really got me cuz I can somehow relate this to my own experience. I have an attractive sibling and there were people who tried to be close to me, these people don't really give a shit about me and only see me as a bridge since my sibling is a very reserved person and doesn't prefer socializing that much
Had this with my chad cousin. Always when he was at my place all of a sudden the attractive girls from my school that never really texted me wanted to hang out with us
I'm a unattractive introvert and people used to talk to me only when they needed something like notes, or help with studies etc. But when it was my turn to seek help they used to look at me like I'd committed a huge blunder by asking them.
It’s like the whole “tell me you’re privileged without actually saying you’re privileged”, 9 times out of 10 they say things like you mentioned, or that your situation or the way you’re born or whatever is “ridiculous” or “doesn’t make sense”. Or they’ve read 1 paragraph out of a book and now they think they’re a doctor
It is true though, i was also feeling exactly like u the first time in a new school but the best way to "be more confident" is to find someone that looks like a lonely introvert and befriend him. Eventually you will be able to escalate further to more popular people and even girls! You got it 🤜🏿
i went through plastic surgery after so many years of being an unattractive introvert and I can say this is 100% accurate. Basically if you're pretty all of your negative traits can be seen as a good thing
This is correct, although exuding confidence also plays a partin it. More so for guys at least. For girls I think it's mostly about looking good yes, and then everything you do is fundamentally positive by default. If you're fat and unattractive, then everything you do and are is unappealing. Very unfair, but that's how the brain works. At least this goes mostly for first impressions and shallow relations. Looks matter a whole lot less when you get to know someone well, but of course the challenge is getting to that point in the first place.
Dw your kids would still look ugly man it's called genes and your fucked up and it fine it doesn't matter u can still do alot naturally without altering your body with plastic surgeries
And thats what keeping away beatiful people from working on themselves, on their bad habits. Because they don't have to put any effort to become better of themselves while so much people loves them unconditionally because of their looks.
@@raloon2927 that's actually a really good point and it's extremely unfair for the really good people who aren't seen as physically attractive. Many people find me physically attractive but like... I'm not the kinda person who really cares about that as much. Personally, I feel many of my friends who have trouble getting dates deserve a relationship way more than me since their just really good people and their not given a chance. Meanwhile, I really don't want to be in a relationship. I don't wanna be lonely but that's why I like spending time with friends and I want to make more friends as time goes on. Many times when I try to make friends with people, they don't want to be friends. They want more... which is why I've felt lonely for a long time before meeting my more recent group of friends. They deserve the relationships, I have a lot to work on before I jump into one of those...
Really love the unnoticeable details when Nathan was talking about how he hurt the attractive introvert and the girls in the background were sad until he was hit by the soccer ball and became happy. At least give Nathan some love.
Fr bro like no one gives a crap about him just because he's not attractive. He was kinda just doing self defences and although what he did was wrong, revenge never works, what he did made sence. Just for being unattractive people started to hate on him which lead to him building up this broken heartness which lead to him hurting others for revenge which leads to people hating him more but it all boils down to him being unattractive, depressing man
This was me in high school in the late 90s. People told me things would get better. They did but not by much. Nearly 30 years later the only advice I would give myself would be to eat healthier and keep lifting. It’s seriously the only thing that helped which also made me feel good. Also, I would tell myself to stop pursuing women who probably don’t find you attractive. If women are into some subculture where guys they find attractive look nothing like you just give up. Try to find a subculture where you fit into the best. For example if the subculture is into the scrawny tall pale guys/girls and you aren’t even close to that then stop pursuing people that idolize that.
This is excellent advice. A girl will never change her mind because you pursue her, she'll just be entertained. You might have sex eventually, but emotionally it will suck and you'll be drained. Also, she'll usually take you for all she can get before anything approaching intimacy happens. Don't accept hookup culture as a default. You do not have a chance with most women and it is not your fault 90% of the time.
I'm an average-looking introvert, and I realize that I've had a certain privilege over other introverts I've met. The main problem is that the human relationships I had in the new school started to disappear as I started getting into certain intrigues. It's "amazing" how this always happens, damn cycle.
@Jason Voorhees Some classmates were bullying, so I made fun of them back, in that one guy tried to get a fight and I defended myself. Then they started to exclude me.
@@dmasterrl Same is story of my life too, i too am just an average joe in terms of looks. Sometimes i want know what does it feel like to be super attractive tho.
I love videos about Nathan. He may be not as melancholic as Sebastian, but he is a tragic character as well. He is a great example of how his surroundings changed his mentality, and how his mentality holds him back from what he desires. It's amazing how you manage to turn silly archetypes from memes to really deep characters. Keep up the great work, but don't overwork yourself. Also 01:47 got me good
The thing is his mentally bis not holding him back. He was made like that. No matter which person it is, everyone in his situation would be the same mentally. Its like giving drugs to a kid and be mad they turn out drug addicts in adulthood.
Honestly Nathan reminds me of one of my classmates(as well as former friend)he is ugly as sin and hasn't changed mentally since 4th grade is life is pretty much built on lies(claiming he is strong patient etc)short easily scared of social interactions and a simp I could go on and on about his problems so I'll keep it like this
The archetypes were already deep, that's why they're archetypes. They're things that are so central to our natures that their stories touch us on a fundamental level.
"Don't judge a book by it's cover" said those in school who bullied me for things I can't easily change about my body. Of course the teachers only notice when somebody snaps - and so, the victim gets blamed. It's happened to so many.
I wish more people can understand that it's literally impossible to be unattractive unless you don't take care of yourself or are deformed in some way. To call someone unattractive based off things they can't change would be appealing to a beauty standard
@@Llmonty_ true god blackpill is so pathetic. i can't believe how many guys are out there just sitting there whining about women's rights instead of just using some hair reviver and taking a shower lmfao
Being ugly introvert is just such a gift . I don't want people to see me i.e i don't want their attention . I just want to be alone and enjoy my life alone .
The last part is very accurate and sad. Because maybe Ryan is the only one who can understand how Nathan feels, but at one point, probably due to the impact of society, Ryan can't even see Nathan.
As an unnatractive person overall,I kinda feel this. Usually I don't give a damn what people think of me but there's still this little part of me that gets a little hurt
no way you're unattractive i think that's insane, cause i've learned how to SEE throughout my life, and how to think, and i've learned there's really no such thing. i bet my life on it if i looked at you or even right at you in your eyes i would only see beauty
As someone who was a very clear in between of the two i can say it was rough. Being attractive enough to be trusted by others but weird and anti social enough to weird them out and push them away. Its fucking heartbreaking and no matter what you do you have to break your comforts to be understood or heard.
Wow, this description is very accurate, the words reflect perfectly. I’ve endured that for years and years, now I’m approaching 30 and at the point where I just don’t care if I weird people out. Can’t afford to care. I stick to my guns and don’t betray myself when “rejected” socially and that seems to help me a lot, both in my heart/personal wellbeing and in social circling. It helps attract the right people, even if it’s harder and takes longer
@@DonRoyalX My man, now that I've hit puberty and grown up to be in my early 20's i get treated much different. Now im closer to the "Ryan" side of the spectrum but genuinely outgoing and social with a group of adult friends (late 20s to 50s). I get treated better by people with mutual interests, people my age however are more judgemental and dismissive, trying to one up each others problems. My real friends are solid but sometimes i get treated like "Ryan" with new people.
@@RafaelMunizYT Believe it or not. I was rejected a few times by people in highschool and eventually made some friends with those i used to like. Weirdest part was hearing how im "The perfect bf, but...". And still being mostly single/uninteresting.
@@depressedpacito7024 honestly, I lost all the hope I had. I think at some point you just gotta stop caring. I don't care about a lotta stuff but I've been single my whole life and I guess I'm learning to not care about it
🤓Akthually, it is most likely your parents that have doomed you to become unattractive, by not prioritising your physical, mental, social, and psychological wellbeing early on. Because of which, you have inherited their bad habits, along with insecurities, and fears.
That part at the end really hit me hard, it's weird because Ryan and Nathan are both introverts, but everyone sees Ryan rather than Nathan. I think the message here is that if theres no obvious 'good' traits about you that stand out to others, people will just ignore you, and not even realize who you are because they're not giving you a chance.
I'm an unattractive EXTRAVERT and it's hell. Absolute hell. The only thing that keeps me going is talking to people. Last year first semester of highschool I did so well. Not only in grades but I felt like I was doing alright socially. Every class I had at least one person to talk to and it was great. I loved school for the first time. It was seriously a great time. Eventually it dawned on me that no one was actually interested in being my friend. They simply tolerated me. Second semester rolled around and to be fair, at this time I became deeply involved in music discovery and let myself go a bit. I was severely deprived of my social needs. No one to talk to. I lost sight of who I was. What I stood for. Whatever people might've wanted out of me. Whatever I wanted out of me. Still here, getting better. Been focusing more on my looks. Eventually I'll get back to where I was. Every day is made so difficult because I'm starving for conversations.
I get you bro it feels quite lonely at times being an extrovert but then realizing that a lot of people aren't even really interested in being friends with you but just like having you around
@@vezeveer still pretty bad. If not worse. I've stuck a chord of depression or something. Nothing feels good anymore and I'm always tired. My interests feel like tasks and my youtube recommendations don't even know me anymore. I've been here before though and I know the solution is prioritizing sleep quality and talking to people and going out more often but ever since I've gotten back here I've been clouded with the thought that all my efforts really don't matter because I'm just going to be back here again and again and gain nothing. Not sure what else to say.
The part about Nathan disappearing in the end and the girls being unable to see him despite him actually existing is so good, studies have shown that when men rate women on attractiveness it’s a normal distribution, perfect, but when women rate men, the top 20% of men are seen as above average, men who are low down in the looks department literally don’t even register on their radar. When women complain about all men, they’re not lying, but they’re talking about all the men they interact with, the cashier at McDonald’s, the loner kid from high school, the nerds, etc… they don’t even consider them as humans, just NPCs, background characters, fluff.
"studies have shown that when men rate women on attractiveness it’s a normal distribution, perfect, but when women rate men, the top 20% of men are seen as above average, men who are low down in the looks department literally don’t even register on their radar." Yeah you incels keep talking about the same stuff. Yet you fail to provide the source you used to gather those datas in order to backup your statement. Then, by that, you are lying to yourself.
Dude, i feel like i m watching some sort of movie. This is so cool and truthful. Keep going, also this style is kinda special. Characters feel realistic as hell .
As an ugly person i can say that i can really relate with Nathan, when i was younger i was always being called "ugly" by the girls, i was called lots of negative things, and that really let a scar on me, i stopped caring about myself, didn't want to wake up, didn't want to shower or brush teeths, and the things just got worse from there. I then decided that i would try to find an answer for me, and then i've discovered some books from Schopenhauer and Albert Camus, that's where i've found some encouragement, i started accepting my fate in the world, i started to accept that i'm never going to be like my attractive friends, but that's ok, it's easy to deal with this void within yourself once you find authors that had gone through the same as you, books and music are now my only escape from reality, but they at least teached me how i should treat myself better, and accept the sadness that comes together with existence.
My guy, no one is ugly, i would lie to you if i told you looks doesn't matter cuz it does, attractive ppl have it easy when it comes to finding friend or relationships. But your purpose in life isnt that you be attractive and girls like you, cuz even if ur attractive you're gonna have other issues.. This is just how life goes, hower knowing that god doesnt create ugly things or things with no purpose, Bcz eventually evry guy can find a girl that he likes and she will like him back its just not the right time for that 😊 I advise your to learn more about what god wants from you, why are u here? Work on yourself to improve and a human being workout read books learn new skills dont just stand there and let someone judge you for ur looks and decide your value. I used to think exactly the same as you, once i understood that this is all pointless i learned more about my purpose in life, got closer to god, now i feel all new again I recommend you read the Quran, and i invite u to islam learn about it you wont regret it. Hope u have a great day (im just tryna share my what made me a better person with you)
Ryan seems like a good dude. He doesn't have anything against the other guy, if anything he seemed worried about him than anything else. And the two dude bros invited a literal femboy to the party.
I'm 6 month late to the party but i think nathan being outside and the attractive introverts being the only one able to see does not mean he's worried or likes him or even nathan litteraly being outside but only the attractive introvert is able to see him. He sees him though a glass panel, a reflective material, it might mean he seems a part of himself in Nathan, being a loner introvert, thinking that the only thing that allows him to be wanted and treated like a human being is him being lucky enough to be considered attractive.
This exactly. This was so my high school experience. But I lost weight and got in shape and literally push the same girls away when they came back at me years later. I was happier and more confident it was only when I took my levels of attractiveness in my own hands. If you're young the answer truly is to work on yourself. The woman will come eventually but you got to like yourself first
@@nik5479 true, very true, but trust me. Money and stability will make you more attractive as well along with confidence. The sad thing is that there is not a correct answer. people like different things but When in doubt, work on your self and save your money. trust me they will come when you are not even looking, and even then you will have to filter for bad actors.
What does Nathan have to do to move up the social ladder?
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Death then people will talk about him for atleast a while
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"You know, she isn't wrong, but it still hurts"
That hits hard.
That quote reminded me of Azula from Avatar.
I laughed so fucking hard at that bit XD
Even inkwells have feelings
that lip shaking after that hit harder
because its true. iam a degenerate, you dont know what i do in my free time but trust me its fucked up. And it really hurts when people call me this or that but its true...
Attractive loner = Mysterious
Ugly loner = Creepy
Real
nah this cap
@@jpeg.600x2 frfr foo, this shit lookin like strait up cap
The sad truth
Creepy is subjective. Attractive people can be creepy too... and unattractive people can look neutral but not necessarily approachable anyway
To be fair, when you're introverted and not ugly or attractive either, you are not labeled as a "creep" or a "mysterious guy" anymore, you just... dissappear from everyone's vision, just like Nathan did in the end of the video
Same bro
Crap bro then I'm that guy
Damn, I fit in this category
this hits hard, i know the truth now
Well damn, you mean when you look like a normal guy who doesn't interact with anybody and who purposefully blends in with the crowd you suddenly don't get any attention?
Tell me something I don't know.
"You guys can't see him?"
"Whom? I don't see anybody"
Ngl, that actually hit me like a train
As an introvert I can agree
That anybody is me😭nobody sees me😭
@@ardasozer8459except when you fuck up or you get blamedand its time to shit on you
Bruh, literally hit home
Me too bro
"Its hard to face the problem when the problem is your face"-A Legend-
edit: why do i still get notifs even after 2 years bruh
Dammnn men that's hits soo hard
This is actually make me laugh so hard sorry 😭😭😭
@@Newaccount35075 Just the fact you found it funny made me laugh
😂 na this made me laugh
im 14 and this is deep
As an unattractive introvert, this is 100% true. When they say “looks don’t matter” they are 100% lying, looks do matter in pretty much everything in the social department.
Skill issue
@@MexicanCrusader skillset = looks.
@@j.d.s.1837 I don't think you understand, I'm calling him a loser
@@MexicanCrusader guess what makes the two of you.
@@gatoloco3949 here's the thing, I'm not an unattractive introvert. I have friends and have a girlfriend.
The way how accurate this is, is incredible. Great writing.
@VEGAZ I'm in fact not new here, I've been here at least for a year or two even.
I just felt like typing a comment after a while.
@VEGAZ ye, it's okay, I'm here to tell you how it really is. No hard feelings, hope you have a good day, man.
@VEGAZ most wholesome TH-cam comment thread.
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@@xxmemestar69xx82 true. Unlike some people smh
As an Introvert. I said a joke out loud, nobody laughed, I felt terrible then an extroverted friend of mine repeated the same joke and everybody laughed. I was devastated how invisible I was. The only people who see me are my current friends, family and teachers, to others I am non-existent.
Stay strong brother
Maybe he delivered joke better, some people are simply more talented then the others in that regard...
@@midnightblue1874 Might have been the case. Nevertheless I have came to terms with the fact that I will remain this way with no way to change. Just hope someday we will get to be happy as well 👍
@@BlueNova-o1x Same goes to you friend
I understand your pain on so many levels man I just wanna tell you that when I feel horrible, I love reading the Bible. Ecclesiastes, my favorite chapter of the Bible. I can relate to it on so many levels I think you will too. God loves you brother. He'll give you the strength you need. :)
I think its not only about introverts, its the same for extroverts too. Unattractive extroverts are often considered "talkative" and attractive extroverts are considered "social".
Just don't be born unattractive, bro
To be fair, when you're an "unattractive" extrovert you already have much less things to fix.
That is to say, just your appearance. Which may not be an easy task, but if you take care of your physique, hair and clothing, you'll quickly hit the minimum criteria to be considered "attractive" despite not having the most attractive genes.
Unattractive INTROVERTS, on the other hand...
@@j.d.s.1837 just don't be born.
@@narihiga9561 +1
@@j.d.s.1837 pretty much the moral of the story. attractive people can get away with a lot of things ugly people would have never been able to
“Love yourself first“
“Be confident“
“Personality matters“
- All super attractive people
I mean they are objective truths, you should do all of that but you can't expect things to change drastically even if you do those things. However there's literally no harm in loving yourself and having confidence
@@thismeaning9 yeah especially cause most men are doing the absolute bottom of the barrel work in society
sometimes you kinda want to come home to women after all that
meanwhile women just choose to be alone
@@Fantasticmrfoxisgoated yeah lets see if youll be saying that 40 years from now
@@Fantasticmrfoxisgoated of course i just knew youd say something like that lol
are you even human do you do things for pleasure or fun lol
@@Fantasticmrfoxisgoated yes you're not really much of a human if you don't want a affection from your kind.
The fact that Nathan isn’t even annoying or a bad guy, no one just really gave him a chance in the first place
Only Sebastian, Patrick and Chad seemed to care about him
bro didn’t he kidnap a reporter and tormented her in his basement
@@rg.0333 sorry I think I missed that part of Nathan lore💀 , where is it from?
@@rg.0333 that was a long time later when he is like 29 and after they were helping that monster thing
@@rg.0333 They interrogated her to reveal the location of one of the "deviants" that she did a report on.
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
If you have to manipulate people to like you, you're not physically attractive. Yes you can still attract people, sleep with them, etc with other things but you're not physically attractive, hence the mind tricks.
these bots are so funny
2:54 this part right here spoke so many volumes. They couldn’t see him cuz they refused to see him. A metaphor for completely ignoring the existence of others cuz they are irrelevant to them. If they’re not attractive in some way to garner someone’s attention then they’re seen as nonexistent. So many folks are like this now and sad part is they’ll continue to be this way until the end of time.
it also shows that he would like to be with other people
For people like Nathan, people will not see you unless you force them to acknowledge your existence. Why do you think school shooters only get famous after they commit their act? Society has become too soft, they forgot human nature has always been brutal.
or schizophrenia xdd
"i am 14 and this is deep"
Oh god. When we get rid of the fact our parents could not get us ready for this rapidly changing world. And we stop to deep and analyze everything trought the lenses and perspectives on life we learned to see life tru. We will have people cared for, we will be cared for. Before that. We can start with ourselves. We can start to value the things we actually value. Do what is to be done. To slowly get out of the States of beings we fell into
Attractive Loner: Wants to be left alone.
Unattractive Loner: Wants to experience social interaction.
When you think about it, I guess the abundance mindset makes sense. The attractive loner has abundance of social interaction opportunity and wants to be left alone. The unattractive loner does not have abundance of social interaction opportunity, and craves it, but is always alone.
@@DaGleese good point
do you even know what loners mean , if your considered a loner u want to left alone in general
You seem to have forgot attractive loner: is socially awkward
Unattractive and wants to be alone😂
People always say "The real beauty is inside", "showing emotions is sexy", but in practice they would break all these words. World is dark enough, we don't have to feed ourselves and others with lies and fake hope.
Never believe what women say. Believe in what they do
The world is not "dark", some of the humanity that inhabits it is, but our world is beautiful, incredible…dangerous? Yes, but wonderful.
Virtue signaling basically
It's human nature to judge people by physical looks. It's a survival instinct, per se. People will think of attractive people as safer ones to socialize than the ugly ones.
Addtional note: Take it from me. No one wants to socialize with me because of my looks. I repel them just because of that aspect. But I also think that improving personality-wise may help. May.
👍
"looks dont matter."
said by the person who clearly meets the beauty standard.
Yep 100% a 1000% true it's really rare to see someone only liking personality than the looks but even if your attractive you also needs to spend sometime with an idk I'm ugly too
Boowomp
So what at least they trying to help
@@yungjunkie666 Nah they just don't understand some of them just makes it to make fun of others and only a little tiny bit is saying it to help others
@@yungjunkie666 how is that helping?
As an introvert and a unattractive person this hits on an another level 🗿
As an introvert,and and average looking dude,all that sigma male stuff went right out the window🪵
Same
i’m sure you are not, probably you are located in the wrong place, let me explain. I meet canadians guys, both looking like Mclovin from that movie. They consider themselves as unattractive but when they traveled to Latinoamerica they got many well looking girls just for being from a different race. You know what i mean? I’ve seen this with asian males too, they moved to america and get girls but they weren’t considered attractive for their own people at first
as a person with Social anxiety and depression this hits different. and yeah my name is also Nathan
same
Its not just introverts, there are so many double standards with whether you’re considered attractive or ugly
Lookin' good, Susan
Then then be attractive
@@Chillikilli Not always possible nor feasible.
@@nothingtoospecial777 that’s quitters talk
@@Chillikilli No. There are facial features that objectively are unattractive.
Ugly =Creep, Socially Awkward
Good Looking=Mysterious, Interesting , Humble
😢😮
well einstein pretty much an ugly loner by that standard
Sad true
Society ☕
I'm not socially awkward, I just can't with certain people. They do too much. I hate going out with friends and seeing someone complain about something they previously agreed with or bringing personal problems out of nowhere.
That poor bastard is already bald in high school.
😭🤣
Why are u calling him a bastard
Started balding at high school. It sucks for real. I can say it gave a strong punch to my appearence (i wasn’t too ugly, but now i am).
Now i’m 24 and never even kissed a girl in my entire life
@@tommasov10 oh man I'm sorry about this I wish you a better life
@@Hk_9167 yeah like you can always get rid of yours and get a better one... right?
So accurate. I went from fat to fit and got to experience being attractive in a compelety new social circle. It's shocking how differently people treat you and how easy your life is when you're attractive.
For me it doesn't matter much, I used to be very skinny growing up and even when I started going to the gym and packed up a lot of lean muscle mass and there isn't much difference in how people treat me. But I'm glad that I'm not 120 pound 6'2 skeleton that I used to be either way.
@@Palach624 Cuz your attractive facial features are just as visible when skinny or jacked. But being fat changes your face a lot and you can't see the jawline, cheekbones, etc. How nicely you are treated is mostly dictated by your face.
went to the gym and shiit. and nothing changed
Good for you man! Just being fit and having good hygiene automatically puts you above average.
@@Mulmgott I disagree, my face looked terrible when I was skinny, I looked like a drug addict even when covering the rest of my body up with a jacket during winter. Now my face is fine by all means, nothing out of the ordinary but I have solid jawline and got rid of acne as well. Still nothing changed
If you crush a beautiful butterfly, you're a villain. Morals have aesthetic criteria. -Nietzche
Stop thinking about this b@llshit- Me
Damn
If you crush a roach you're a hero.
@@longsteinpufferbatch4949 Sure, Nietzche was right.
@@longsteinpufferbatch4949 Fucking cockroach deserves it. All of them do.
Though nowadays I prefer moths, because they have such cute faces, whereas butterflies look like soul-suckers from a lovecraftian dimension when you see their horrific visage up close.
Sad irony that being unloved can create a repulsive personality
what does repulsive mean?
@@bruhm0ment6000 arousing intense distaste or disgust
@@bruhm0ment6000 Google: causes a strong feeling of disgust
@@bruhm0ment6000 Being unloved can create a defensive cycle where anybody wanting to be with you seems unlikely and gets treated like a threat, preventing more people from talking to you. The cycle continues, encounters become more and more rare and therefore more and more suspicious until they stop forever
in symbiotic synergi. like pottery. also ugly thinking makes your face ugly and women are hypersensitive and more psychic than men which means they know exactly what nasty toughts you have before you have them,
being a ugly introvert gets you this harsh treatment permanently. I’ve figured if people don’t want me at all, I’ll make myself more ugly, rotten and damaged.
Find Allah
we are all rotten ugly and damaged because life is the same
@@c1tal0prxm Corny ass kid 😂
@@c1tal0prxm corny kid 🤣
No self improve your mind and physical body @@c1tal0prxm
Man I hated high school so much because of this exact shit
I’ve never been able to verbally explain it but this video conveys my feelings for those past four years.
Being attractive was always a massive crutch for so many guys, without it they’d be nothing just like the guy in the video.
That's facts, i have the same feelings when i was on high school dude, sometimes people are insanely mean for no reason.
True
have you not heard of blackpill b4
Chris H I'm so sorry
tbf this isnt a gender specific thing
this one girl at my school was an introvert but she was very attractive so people would invite her to sit with them at lunch and seemed interested in her but then there was this other girl who was unatractive and instead of being supported people would constanly remind her of her unatractive looks and put her down she even expressed how she wanted to take her own life but still, people showed no mercy. society can be brutal if you are unatractive
Mfs they are the ones who need to kill themselfs.
Poor soul 💔
And rn as a 20 year old I’m thankful they treated me like shit. Because now I’m better than them all.
@@bobbyhill4118 w
Tem uma história similar aqui. No 9° ano da tarde da minha escola tem duas gurias introvertidas, uma que é bonita e a outra não. A "bonita" ganha atenção das crianças das outras turmas no recreio (6° e 7°) e a amizade de uma guria da mesma sala. Agora a que não é bonita fica sozinha no recreio e é ignorada quase sempre
ok but like how u gonna be unattractive as a girl
My father was that type of attractive loners. My mom often tells me and my brother that she was intrigued by his seemingly cold personality and that was what made her attracted to him. So yeah apparently women love that archetype and it's not a new thing.
Nah, they just like attractive men, whether they're loners or not is inconsequential at the end of the day.
He was attractive and had no game. Your mom saw him as free real estate.
@@systemx6603 Agree
my dad acts that way sober then he's a dick when he's drunk. Im more introverted than I am extroverted, but im kinda ugly/good looking, but I also dealt with some of that shit in high school but had fun nonetheless with my friends.
@@systemx6603 yeah and thats just how the world is unfortunately. there are serial killers who are loved just because they're seen as attractive. if you're attractive you're loved
“Just be more confident” making it sound easy and shit😭😭
Same energy as "stop being sad"
@@mr.andrew7820 fr
"Just get a house" to someone homeless ☠️
"fake it till you make it" bitch if i knew how to fake it none of this would be a problem
@@somber087😅😂
"The inner you is what makes you attractive, not your face", biggest lie I was ever told.
I remember on my first year of high school.I was called out by a girl for being one of the "ugliest in the class". It didn't hurt me that much because I have an iron will but I did notice that hardly any girls ever interacted with me in the class and during lunch breaks too. Again it didn't bother me because Im a loner (in the sense that I dont like socialising, not that I can't)
Then on my second last year of highschool, I walked by a few girls and just said "Hi" and ofc they said "Hi" back, end of conversation. Right after that, I overheard them discussing how I was "cute" and "kinda hot". Another instance happened where the boys told me that they overheard the girls in my class say that Im "really cool". I also noticed that interaction with girls was easier than it should be and now more often, they would come talk to me. Hell I got asked out before (I turned her down). This was the same year I got facial hair, a chiseled jawline and a built up body from gym and jogging.
Just from a few years of puberty evolution, I automatically won social points for the girls just for having a good face. My personality never changed in that time. Im still the same guy I was since first year of Highschool. I never put much effort into looking good. I only exercised for fun. But because I naturally grew a little sexier, I got alot more attention from girls.
In summary, looks DO matter.
Blackpill for the win
Only 90s KoRn songs can cure my pain 🥺🥺😍
Lucky man with those chiseled jaw genes! There are things like chewing gum, mewing and having low body fat percentage that help but if you got genes you’re gonna look good from the start! Good to hear they worked out for you brother 🔱
My face looks like that of a pig. No hope for me XD
@@motivationdaily1782 If you are capable of self derision it means you are more than capable to change for the better. People with insecurities and low esteem tend to lie to themselves but it just makes things worse since they dont want to change
I have read answers to the question "Women, how did you approach your boyfriend?" on Reddit and these women often wrote "He was so shy, but I had to approach him, I found him sooo cute", if you're introverted but attractive your chances of getting lucky are much higher. If youre introverted and unattractive youre pretty much screwed. You need to be fake and be extroverted, to compensate the looks, but that often leads to anxiety and misery
Dude this coment is deep
And when you hear a "no" just enforces your thought that being alone was the best option from the start. And you feel stupid for trying to force yourself into being an extrovert that you're not.
Definitely, You'll have to endure hundreds of rejections going that route but I've heard many stories about how someone has the short/fat/ugly friend that gets a ton of girls and every time the reason is always that he's extremely confident and outgoing to compensate.
It's almost like the incels are right
@@firekoovin3347 I would say mostly
It’s always the stories about the pretty intoverts, not the ugly ones. As an “ugly” introvert who got labelled as yandere simply for venting to someone, looks are everything.
Please don’t ever tell anyone in real life this it will drop you by 3 points instantaneously
I respect you for being sane right now
dude the people labelling you as a "yandere" are the loosers dont listen to them. They seem like middle schoolers (or are)
What does yandere even mean?
@@SonGoku-zr9ncsomeone who is obsessive over the person they love, typically to the point of stalking or excessive possessiveness
Yandere isn't even the right "term" for something like that, menhera would make more sense, but it's still pretty weird to call someone that
Unfortunately, this is one of the social rules: Born ugly = game over.
Born ugly?
Be Rich game will change 💯
@@Demon-_-Ghostwhat if the life wont let you be rich bcs ugly
How ugly are we talking? Most 'ugly' people aren't as bad looking as they think. Usually there's some way of working with what you've got to make the best of it
More like
Attractive: easy difficulty
Normal: normal difficulty
Ugly: nightmare / hell difficulty
Not really
‘Morality has aesthetic standards.’
Crush a cockroach and you're a hero. Crush a butterfly and you're a sinner
wow that somehow never crossed my mind, I gotta read something about it!
Aesthetics and morality both make distinctions and hierarchies, draw boundaries and create bonds. so Im guessing people get them mixed up atleast at some level or the morality of individuals may be based on a value system including aesthetic effect.
Edit : The moralistic and aesthetic positions are extremes. Aesthetic value is the value that an object, event, or state of affairs (most paradigmatically an artwork or the natural environment) possesses in virtue of its capacity to elicit pleasure (positive value) or displeasure (negative value) when appreciated or experienced aesthetically.
@@GloryBlazer Morality is definitely based on a value system, have you ever had friends in the past or present who have said or done fucked up shit, but you let them get away with it because they're your friends, but if that fucked up shit was done by a stranger you would condone them for it, that's because that stranger has no value to you unlike your friends. I'll admit I've caught myself doing this from time to time. Although what I'm talking about is different, not about
aesthetics.
I mean even attractive serial killers get special treatment from women.
Pain is on another level when you live in a reality like Nathan's reality
I understand. You get emotional damage every time you talk with someone, everyone wants to control you, and any good idea is ignored by them. You seem to be the lowest of the constructed social class we have made ourselves.
And we want to be on the top, but tell me, how can you be on the top if you aren't pretty enough?
Yes sir
true 😭
not if you have coke
Or money
You dont have to necessarily "like" people like Nathan in our society. But just because they are weird doesn't mean they shouldn't receive basic human respect.
the future school shooters. if they don't get laid they will lose their minds.
some people are wired to feel repulsion when looking at anyone that isn't of their social status. its an impulse they can't control to an extent. the only thing you can do is never let them be in control of things
@@caralho5237 When I was in Highschool I noticed myself getting angry at and avoiding the more outgoing kids for no good reason. Most of them weren't mean to me or anyone else from what I saw, they were just better at being social than me, and had normie interests. I'd always thought that I was being excluded from everything but I just wasn't putting any effort into including myself. Ironically, realizing that I was being more shallow and judgemental than I thought they were being only shot my self esteem even lower, and I'm still trying to climb out of that hole today. I still catch myself thinking like that every now and then.
@@caralho5237 it's called natural selection, and humans are naturally discriminative towards the unfortunate.
@@caralho5237 sounds like they have a problem. That needs to be fix by their parents, but they don’t care
"Just be more confident bro..." Oh apparently it's that simple, you just needed to ask. Thanks you very much bro, every Introvert in the world are now more confident, good job.
Bro got so introverted he erased himself from reality
At most he's background noise
No one saw....
He didn't. People erased him
@@longsteinpufferbatch4949 no u erased him
That was a representation of him being invisible to others due to the fact that he's introverted and unattractive.
As an unattractive introvert who gets bullied for my looks, i can confirm every single thing in this video is true
i feel you my man
I hope it doesn't hurt you too much
Same :(
Give yer balls a tug, sally. Go get drunk and do push-ups in the snow ya sad sap, your soul mate is giving free handys in the Texas Roadhouse parking lot rn don’t cry on me and tell me it’s raining bud
i don't know your conditions bro, but could you try learn a martial art? it could be of help
As an unattractive introvert, this video is 100% real
Attractive guys attract peoples, WHO COULD HAVE GUESSED
As Ryan it's 100% real too. It's not like he has any idea what tf to do around girls either. I remember someone asking me out and I just sort of stared at them confused and said, "...why?" It made no sense at the time and I just kind of assumed they had some plan to be mean to me later. Now years later I wonder about all the opportunities I missed and all the people I hurt because I had no social skills.
As Unattractive Introvert I know I'm Ugly and will be alone.
@@arphangh5409 A Blessing and Curse, that's what people say.
Yeah same and i'm autistic.
I was ignored by everyone in my school,i tried my best to grab attention but i was unable to do it,one day i was crying then my brother asked me,i told him he just said one thing,that changed my perspective totally. He said,
How does it matter? Initially i had many answers but when i said him i don't get attention e.t.c . He said -
Is it your need or want?if it is your need then tell me why are you alive after not getting it?
I was blank,first time in my life i was feeling that i am mature,cause when i think about it,attention was my want and i can control my wants therefore i focused on gaining knowledge more,and he was true now i am happy.
Your brother really mature.. happy for u💚 hope u happiness
What a great brother 😊
I’m an attractive guy with autism, my best friend is an unattractive guy with autism.
I noticed despite acting almost the same there was a HUGE difference in how we were treated.
Got black pilled at 12 years old
bro didn’t lie. bro is majestic💀
@@yellowplate4539 look at his profile picture
what is black pilling?
@@bakedbread7540 Well it depends on who you ask but long story short it’s the truth and really nothing but the truth now you have some people who go a little extreme with it or are saying wrong things.
@@bakedbread7540 for example you’ll be told looks doesn’t matter and it’s all what’s in your heart and let’s say you’re like 15 you ask out your crush then she’ll be like Sorry I don’t date shorter guys that would be getting blackpilled
Ugly guy following you = Stalker
Attractive guy following you = Secret Admirer
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Pretty sure it's creepy regardless of who does it.
There’s double standards for sure, but this ain’t one of them 😭
okay this one aint it. If anyone stalks me that a stalker
@@eliesh3833 pretty sure it wouldn't be taken as such
As long as you’re attractive, it really doesn’t matter what else you are
this applies in high school. after that, no one cares for your looks anymore.
@@guguigugu no your looks are important throughout your life not just hs
@@guguigugu This couldnt possibly be further from the truth.
Attractive people have easier lives that ugly people. Beauty and money are the only two real privileges.
@@JarthenGreenmeadow if you truly believe this you are already fucked. do you think people care about their plumber or PC guy being handsome?
its true, i have seen people trying to bail a serial killer because he was attractive and cute; "he doesn't deserve to be in jail". this man ran over a family with his car including 3 children.
I'm not attractive at all and I know it. I'm a college student and one day as I was walking to my college there three girls walking in front of me. They were younger than me probably 17 or 18 ( im on my second year) so they were probably younger. So I have very asymmetrical eyes. My one eye is smaller than the other and it looks really weird. They looked behind and just laughed at my face. Literally right in front of me. Bro that was really rude and really embarrassing. Even while walking people just stare at my face I feel embarrassed. I have good friends at college and theh are all good looking fellas but girls dont talk to them while I'm around them. Maybe they think I'm weird or something but it's just my face. Idk man I cannot change my face or something. I guess i just have live with it.
Hi I'm in High school and have the same problem (including a misaligned jaw and a deviated septum). Do you think it could be the skin around your eye that makes it asymmetrical, perhaps tight muscles? It could also be due to your face having more tissue and fat in that region but I am not sure nor am I saying any of these are true. I understand up to my knowledge the feeling when girls don't want to talk to you but you still have hope; if you get a good paying job, pass College and such, you could get appointments to see the Doctor and find the issues and maybe even fix it to relieve all that stress. I feel horrible seeing myself and I know that I can fix it, as well as fix my bad habits that make myself look worse. Do well. 🙏
The solutions I find for this are:
Cover the strong eye and use your weak one
Also bad posture while using mobile can make it worse
don't sleep on your side sleep on your back
And last but not confirmed ( it worked for me ) is going to gym and doing cardio it help to give the face energy and not the bored look eyes
Thank you guys for the tips. I will definitely look forward to it. Really appreciated.
3 months later bro how's life
Dafaq is wrong with people staring at you like that? In our place it's rude to even stare at the disabled
I'm 35 and still feel like Nathan a lot of the time. As crazy as it sounds, it took getting deathly ill with a chronic disease to give me some perspective, and it's actually helped more than anything else. Our society is incredibly shallow today, and even the attractive, "cool" ones are often adrift without much fundamental purpose or grounding. Being ok with people not liking you seems impossible, until you distinguish your values from those of society. In short, it's ok to be a loner, and it's ok to be "unattractive" as long as you are being your authentic self. It doesn't mean it's ever easy, but being a friend to yourself is imminently more important than seeking friendship from others.
wise advice
Can't help it though that no matter how comfortable we are by ourselves, we're still social animals. We seek company partly because insincere validations from others tend to register more to our psyche than any sort of honest self-evaluation could.
Its not "shallow society" its biology
I'm 34 and because of my looks alone I never had a chance to get a girlfriend in my country.
I focused on my career instead and am successful and earn a lot now. I also often have business trips to south east asia and the first time I stayed in Bangkok I was surprised because I not only got matches in my dating apps but also could arrange dates and had some ONS in no time.
Thailand is a country in which being white is the peak of the beauty standard and women even take weird and dangerous pills to look paler.
For me as somebody who gets sunburn everytime he leaves the building I suddenly became very attractive to girls just by changing the country.
It was a real culture shock for me because in my own country I had 0 chances while in other countries it's so easy.
@@leenbeen3269 And thats exactly whats wrong. "Biology" is a fancy way of saying people refuse to go above their animalism and instinct. Humans are more than that, some of them at least.
this channel is perfectly describing society problems in an interesting form with internet memes
its entertaining but sad and depressing at the same time when u notice these videos are sad reality of constant dopamine seeking world we live in
This is a perfect portrayal of human behaviour down to the stances
why tf you call it problems? it's naturally meant to avoid uglies and weirdos
maybe we should get off youtube and all social media ahaha
@@lose8447maybe we should get off from life🤜🔪
Funny how indeed is just confidence, the part no one talks about is that confidence comes from somewhere
Exactly, it doesn't just manifest itself in one day. When an attractive guy gets attention from girls - it naturally builds confidence I think.
@@Mazxlol Duh
Confidence in most cases is built young by the parents, random pass-byers and initial interactions with girls. If all of this is positive, you'll be in a positive feedback loop. If all of this is negative (lets assume because you're ugly af) it'll be a negative feedback loop which is EXTREMELY hard to break out of. The fix is get good at something, anything doesn't have to be the gym like everyone always says lmao. But get a skill, be come great and I mean GREAT, as in world class, and the confidence will come. This doesn't mean you'll be better with girls thats a seperate issue, but you'll have tasted confidence in isolation, and then its about leveraging that confidence elsewhere OR, repeating that skill accumulation in something that aids confidence with women specifically. If you're not endowed with confidence due to lucky circumstances you have to build it with intentional action.
You’re all wrong. Confidence is derived from competence. Whether that be competent looks, or competent skills, talents etc you’re only as confident as you are competent in that area. Anything more is overconfidence, and basically boasting/hubris.
This is why it’s important to be good at something that people need or want, otherwise you’ll have a hard time getting people to relate to you.
correct validation and experiences definitely build confidence
but I don't think confidence is when you get attention from everyone, true confidence is when you are happy and satisfied even if you get no attention from anyone
"when looks are the only thing people like about you, the thought of becoming ugly one day is terrifying."
the most real thing. my closest friend said she would've never talked to me if i was ugly and people who i heard have a crush on me don't even know/talk to me. my personality in my friend group is seen as being the pretty nice comfort friend, never the funny friend just the advice giver which is fine but it's sad when some people do know me they realize my personality isn't all they fantasize about and i wonder how it would be if i was ugly how would i even survive?
Well most people never have good looks so I’d rather have them and eventually lose them like
@@coquettelasagna ++++
"Just be more confident" is the same as "Just cheer up". What I think really works is to write down what makes you proud of yourself, and/or hang around positive people that support you, start taking better care of your health and dress with more thought, use confident and relaxed body language and walk with confidence, be ok being alone most of the time. (Be grateful really), and open up a bit about yourself, while still listening to others.
I know how hard it is to be confident but I can guarantee you it helps a lot. Also, girls like to be chased but that doesn't mean they'll like you. If you can get a girl to chase you then that's when you know you're doing something right
Solid advice 👍🏻
@@MrAnsatsuken you basically complimented everything that Domi B said.
Just be more confident applies to good looking -people- men and to a certain extend to normies
If you only good looking (as shown in the video) it's not enough. Like you may initially get treated better and girls will be looking at you and even start the conversation once in a while but it's not like you close the deal automatically. Still plenty of ways to fuck it up the biggest one is not beeing confident.
Great advice
Nathan is literally just one step away from being a “quiet kid”
It's odd how there isn't enough of the "quiet kid"
There is so much suffering for everyone yet these occurrences are still relatively rare.
@@saosaqii5807 I believe this is due to successful and intentional social engineering from our childhoods that prevents them from happening more often. As children we are taught that what's inside that counts, everyone is beautiful, ugly duckling... then as teens we are told that we will glow up with puberty, you are just a late bloomer, then as adults, hit the gym bro, self improvement, your time will come keep grinding... however, during this time an ugly person's emotions are being dulled by a lifetime of humiliation, rejection and isolation. Couple this with the sedetives of modernity, internet, prn, fast food, drugs, wage slavery. An ugly person is guided through there most emotional, reactive stage of there life when they are most likely to go ER and more likely sui instead, which is much more beneficial and easily explained with made up psyco babble.
Bro just say shooter. Stop labeling quiet kid = shooter
@@saosaqii5807 you say “isnt enough” like the world needs more of them
@@jesuscarter4048 i was literally a quiet kid with social anxiety and depression and never even though of shooting anyone. yall people treating quiet kids like they're gonna do something Horrible but sometimes you gotta talk to them a lot or atleast try. most of quiet kids have either Problems with their family/Life or are just too scared to open up cause they think people are gonna hate them, instead People rather make the same Joke for over Years and treat them like they're some Terrorists instead Giving them a hand.
The third, sometimes overlooked, category is that of the "cute, I guess" introverts. The ones that are not unappealing to girls but not appealing either, so they are in a position where they are liked but never the first option. Basically a free friendzone acces card
It be like that lol
i can relate...
Yup, me to the T.
Kinda true. But I guess that would filter out some red flags.
low T
Its a tier system
1. Attractive extroverts
2. Attractive introverts
3. Ugly extroverts
4. Ugly introverts
Works especially till high school after that your social status also matters lol
As an introvert who is unattractive I can say this video is 100% true.
@There is zero pictures of earth from space. haha, what?
Go to gym
fix it
@@gentletop8910 hi
@@gentletop8910 "no one will bother you"
Bro, people always come to me to remember me that I'm ugly 😂😂
Like, "hey bro, don't forget that you are still ugly" and I'm like "alright, thanks, I almost forgot about that" 😭😂😂😂😂
I had a friend whom had similar interests as me, was extroverted and was lightly attractive and nice. When we approached girls i was seemed as a creep and a harasser but when he did the same thing he was flirty,cute. When we talked to others about stuff,he was interesting,when i did the same,i was pedantic and arrogant. When i became a confident person i was seemed as boring,resentful and arrogant,when my extroverted and attractive cousin did the same,he became "focused and down to earth".
Dude I had the same experience. It's so odd how us humans work
That so depressed as hell! :(
Inb4 some redditor tells you didn't hold frame.
when the blackpill unintentionaly hits :(
Just take care of your hygnie and groom bro
Only the one who used to be like Nathan could understand how painful it is
I am only attracted to certain type of girls. I friendzone or ignore lot of girls. I am having hard time getting girl of my type. I will probably be forever alone 😢.
@@debanikgoswami4834what kinda girl do you want
There's a 2 kind kf woman who always attached to me.
1. The Annoying woman kinda like those two animation girl on video.
2. The Horniest. Usually this type always have real feeling to me, but sadly the time wasn't right.
@@faleilham8334if she’s super horny she probably didn’t have real feelings for u no offense 😭
@@debanikgoswami4834bro you seriously passing all those opportunities just because “tHeIr nOt mY tYpE”
as long as you are attractive. nothing matters anymore.
thats a stretch but yea 💀💀
I agree with you
cap, personality goes a long way. would you wanna be with a hot woman who's toxic and you can't stand her for the next 30,40,50 years or a "mid" woman who you enjoy being around and genuinely look forward to seeing and being with?
idk man, life's not entirely about looks...some are gonna get hotter people easier but I think finding a person you can vibe with in the long term is a crazy and rare flex that people overlook due to being obsessed with looks (how they are perceived and how they perceive others)
@@IDraw99the point is 'hot toxic woman' was picked first.
@@ShineyUnderpant then find someone else 😂😂it's not a big deal. Looks are not everything
If you are an unattractive introvert (boy or girl) people will expect you to act friendly or even be submissive.
You having your own personality and ideas will make people hate you so much.
Being able to stand up for your ideas and be yourself is a modern day act of courage.
Keep up boys and girls.
Just another day in the brain of a democrat voter.
@@inq2605 this comment made me laugh uncontrollably
i hope it is satire
if I'm perceived as cute instead of handsome does that count as unattractive?
@@wifi961you're clown.
Thank you ❤
As an unattractive introvert this is relatable. I'm always invisible to everyone. Rejected in groups because I'm too weird and don't talk that much or they just think I'm boring. And this is why I already accept the fact that I will always be lonely no matter what. I honestly wish there's a school for all outcasts or the misunderstood ones like us.
That's a pathetic mindset. Stop it. Seek Christ and let that be your primary focus. Get strengthened in the most important area, your soul. And let things flow from there. Too much focus on social status is hollow and time wasting.
@trenton9 I do believe in christ.
@@randomdudekid433 Great. My comment was to the original poster. But I'm glad to hear that.
@@trenton9 Oh yea god is going to make me good looking and social thank for the shitty advice
@@oeejoeej You don't have to be good-looking to have a good life. And God can make you social.
There's practically only 2 paths
1: Keep finding time trying to impress people but they just find you annoying
2: Get used to the loneliness and do whatever else that makes you happy that doesn't involves people
imagine male reality being this way
The 2nd is almost acceptable but the 1st one is just reek of loser energy.
There's a difference between working on yourself and try to impress other
You know that people aren't always the same, right?
3. Rope
i do that. i tried to impress but u know, they just ignore me.
Step 1: be attractive
Step 2: don’t be unnatractive
Step 1:be alive
Step2: don't be alive
Step 1: Pray
Step 2 : Kind
Step 3 : wait for death to come
Step 1: Buy a rope
Step 2: Ropemaxx
Step 1 - don't be ugly
Step -2 - be handsome
You just don't understand how bad society will treat an unattractive person, this video is so true, it explained everything about attractive and unattractive introverts, but it's the same thing with extroverts. When you are an attractive extrovert, you have charism and you are funny, but if you are not attractive, you are annoying
This is sad but this is the truth, people always says that they care about you and all. But in reality, in your everyday life, society will always treat you based on your attractivness
Yes
Yep I see it within my own family
This why I exploit and don’t care about anyone anymore
Womp womp
Nah, I knew this guy from my nerdy friend group in my 20s. He was morbidly obese, 400 pounds. He had a lot of charisma and was very good at talking to anyone. Girls seemed to love him and dudes from all walks of life.
Three years ago, I fit right into the “weird loner” archetype. Not only I was bullied my whole class, I was a tad overweight and I had bad skin, and that lead me to idk stop taking care of myself as much as I should’ve. Quarantine came and I felt more alone than ever, so something clicked and I got obsessed with the idea of changing. That lead me to loose weight really quickly (whole ed, won’t elaborate) and actually invest on skincare and make up.
Around September, we got back to school and even with masks and everything, I noticed that people started treating me differently. I no longer was diminished by the boys. I no longer got called “gross” when I went down the stairs, and mainly the quieter boys started approaching me.
I know my story differs from the point of the video, but it reminded me of how much your looks truly matter. Especially as a girl, you’ll only be treated like a human as long as you’re pleasant to look at.
edit- I really really do mean the last part. I don’t think it is an overstatement at all. I live in a small town on a tiny European country, so maybe there’s another cultural pressure to fit in, but I’ve seen it and lived it with my own eyes (bullying from both girls and boys) and I really think it’s hypocritical to deny that looks matter when you haven’t been subjected to the same circumstances
I once heard someone's story about how they went through their "transformation" (losing weight, clean skin, better fashion, such and such.) and they began to resent society and every person they talked to because of how differently (better) everyone treated them.
It's a true, crushing thing. Good looks get you the good of life and I'm not against it. I know my place and I desire to climb the ranks. It's just how it goes. Nothing we can do about it.
The ugly reality of beauty. If one looks like a malformant, they get treated like one. In the end it comes down to investment into personal health; Nobody wants a partner with health issues that could sabotage the relationship and cause emotional strain. This applies to both men and women, though in the modern day this aspect of people has been dialed up to 11. Hencewhy a lot of people are a lot more shallow and superficial than before.
Wow. Like this just shows, that as a female you put in a little work and get huge results. As a man good luck trying to not get bullied if you were born with an ugly face. Hint: Makeup is not an option. Losing body fat is key to being seen as a human being. Women can mock you 24/7 and there won't be a pity party.
@@j.d.s.1837 True. Though there's also grooming, skincare, hygiene, hairstyle, whether your breath snells nice or awful, posture, social skills, money, and behavior.
Men have it much harder, but that's what in the end makes us Men.
@@j.d.s.1837 I mean if yoy wanted to wear makeup you could, I mean not to compare exactly but K-pop male artists do it
Nathan is the type of person who is a cold psychopath on the outside but in the inside he just wants to be hugged
And that's exactly why I like him
on the outside I may look like a mean sociopath but inside I'm just a sociopath who wanna be hugged
Look this video is nothing but bs, the truth is you can be fat not good looking but if you have charisma and know how to talk to people open body language you can get girl's and friend's no problem. You wanna a secret to a woman's heart sense of humor i realized this. Doesn't mean if a guy is good looking women are instantly going to fall in love him . I had a friend in school who was obese and kinda unatractive but he had the most girl's in school he keep changing them like sock's from week's to day's beacuse he didn't take himself seriously.
@@RafaelMunizYT 🤗hugs you so tightly you collapse after getting suffocated.
Wow heheh….what a sigma 🍷😈
I totally relate to the unattractive introvert guy. Not even playing the victim card, just sharing my experience. As an ugly and unsocial person I had to go through a lot of stuff to the point where I literally changed my personality. I tried to interact with my classmates because it was the last year of school. But all they'd do was make fun of my looks every time I approached them. I have an online friend. He is introvert but he looks good. One day he told me that a lot of girls from his class are attracted towards him and they think that he is so cool and mysterious. So, at the end of the day I know I am kinda unlovable cause like even family and some close friends make fun of my looks. Some teachers neglect me even though I am super smart at academics. But you know they end up saying, "Looks don't matter". But they are the ones who mistreat me because of the way I look.
Pfp checks out
Ryan: *Just wants to be alone*
Nathan: *Just wants to be loved*
It's simple, let people talk before you judge them
It doesnt work that way bro
Tf is your profile
it does unfortunately
@@Ami-raaait doesn’t. My best friend is an attractive introvert, and a lot of people wanted to talk to him, but he almost ran away from them. Not because he wanted to be alone, but because he got too nervous. He didn’t know what to say. Most people don’t want to be alone tbh.
@@tenhaaaaIf that is true, so he is shy. Being shy is different from introvert.
Nathan even tries to put himself out there.
I like him 😂
Good to know they're still inviting us doomers into their parties. Respect
😀😀
Doomer 4 lyfe
This is just a video
@@OffGridInvestor 🤯
"us doomers" yeah sure needy girl, whatever you say
I can confirm that video is spot on accurate as an ugly introvert myself. Worst part about it for me is most of the stuff I can't fix(lazy/cross eye, asthma), even the stuff I can fix (unibrow, being too skinny) can never make up for it. The most annoying part is the people that straight up go "ewww" or "ick" if I look at them or the other way around(well, if they spot me, I guess all introverts have the ability to disappear). Not to mention there are some people who treat me like I'm some autistic kid or something. Thing is, I'm just some highschool kid doing ap classes as a freshman with 141 iq, and still don't even get a thank you or anything when I help anybody or anything out. At the end of the day, be thankful for who you are. You are probably better well off than most people.
The part where they plan to use the unfortunate introvert really got me cuz I can somehow relate this to my own experience. I have an attractive sibling and there were people who tried to be close to me, these people don't really give a shit about me and only see me as a bridge since my sibling is a very reserved person and doesn't prefer socializing that much
Had this with my chad cousin. Always when he was at my place all of a sudden the attractive girls from my school that never really texted me wanted to hang out with us
I'm a unattractive introvert and people used to talk to me only when they needed something like notes, or help with studies etc. But when it was my turn to seek help they used to look at me like I'd committed a huge blunder by asking them.
Then return them the favor. Help yourself before anyone else.
You were just a career jumppad for them. An object to be used and discarded.
@@j.d.s.1837 I agree with you.
same
@@narasimhashelar6745 I remember my high school crush liked me despite me having zero confidence . It could be because of my looks LOL .
“Just be more confident bro” heard that too many times from people around me and it makes me feel so weak and down
It’s like the whole “tell me you’re privileged without actually saying you’re privileged”, 9 times out of 10 they say things like you mentioned, or that your situation or the way you’re born or whatever is “ridiculous” or “doesn’t make sense”. Or they’ve read 1 paragraph out of a book and now they think they’re a doctor
@@rooroo9216this
To a homeless person: "Just buy a house!"
they never explain how to, of course.
It is true though, i was also feeling exactly like u the first time in a new school but the best way to "be more confident" is to find someone that looks like a lonely introvert and befriend him. Eventually you will be able to escalate further to more popular people and even girls! You got it 🤜🏿
From experience I can tell you, "fat-ugly-introverted" is the most dangerous combo⚠️
i went through plastic surgery after so many years of being an unattractive introvert and I can say this is 100% accurate. Basically if you're pretty all of your negative traits can be seen as a good thing
This is correct, although exuding confidence also plays a partin it. More so for guys at least. For girls I think it's mostly about looking good yes, and then everything you do is fundamentally positive by default.
If you're fat and unattractive, then everything you do and are is unappealing.
Very unfair, but that's how the brain works. At least this goes mostly for first impressions and shallow relations. Looks matter a whole lot less when you get to know someone well, but of course the challenge is getting to that point in the first place.
What Stevie’s did you get? 🌝
Dw your kids would still look ugly man it's called genes and your fucked up and it fine it doesn't matter u can still do alot naturally without altering your body with plastic surgeries
And thats what keeping away beatiful people from working on themselves, on their bad habits. Because they don't have to put any effort to become better of themselves while so much people loves them unconditionally because of their looks.
@@raloon2927 that's actually a really good point and it's extremely unfair for the really good people who aren't seen as physically attractive. Many people find me physically attractive but like... I'm not the kinda person who really cares about that as much. Personally, I feel many of my friends who have trouble getting dates deserve a relationship way more than me since their just really good people and their not given a chance. Meanwhile, I really don't want to be in a relationship. I don't wanna be lonely but that's why I like spending time with friends and I want to make more friends as time goes on. Many times when I try to make friends with people, they don't want to be friends. They want more... which is why I've felt lonely for a long time before meeting my more recent group of friends. They deserve the relationships, I have a lot to work on before I jump into one of those...
The thing that sucks is that you never know in which category everyone puts you in.
You can check mirror and tell yourself
I'll never have an idea because I haven't left my house in 3 years
Yeah the girls I like treat me like Nathan. The girls that I am not interested treat me like Ryan😢.
@@debanikgoswami4834 what's? Everyone treat me like Nathan,you should be grateful
I'm so Ugly i hate myself
Really love the unnoticeable details when Nathan was talking about how he hurt the attractive introvert and the girls in the background were sad until he was hit by the soccer ball and became happy. At least give Nathan some love.
Fr bro like no one gives a crap about him just because he's not attractive. He was kinda just doing self defences and although what he did was wrong, revenge never works, what he did made sence. Just for being unattractive people started to hate on him which lead to him building up this broken heartness which lead to him hurting others for revenge which leads to people hating him more but it all boils down to him being unattractive, depressing man
This was me in high school in the late 90s. People told me things would get better. They did but not by much. Nearly 30 years later the only advice I would give myself would be to eat healthier and keep lifting. It’s seriously the only thing that helped which also made me feel good.
Also, I would tell myself to stop pursuing women who probably don’t find you attractive. If women are into some subculture where guys they find attractive look nothing like you just give up. Try to find a subculture where you fit into the best. For example if the subculture is into the scrawny tall pale guys/girls and you aren’t even close to that then stop pursuing people that idolize that.
This is excellent advice. A girl will never change her mind because you pursue her, she'll just be entertained. You might have sex eventually, but emotionally it will suck and you'll be drained. Also, she'll usually take you for all she can get before anything approaching intimacy happens. Don't accept hookup culture as a default. You do not have a chance with most women and it is not your fault 90% of the time.
if that's you in pfp ayy no homo man but you look kinda good😂👌🏾
I'm an average-looking introvert, and I realize that I've had a certain privilege over other introverts I've met. The main problem is that the human relationships I had in the new school started to disappear as I started getting into certain intrigues. It's "amazing" how this always happens, damn cycle.
@Jason Voorhees Some classmates were bullying, so I made fun of them back, in that one guy tried to get a fight and I defended myself. Then they started to exclude me.
@@dmasterrl Same is story of my life too, i too am just an average joe in terms of looks. Sometimes i want know what does it feel like to be super attractive tho.
Same. Having trust issues also prevent me from having friends
@@dmasterrl Same shit happend to me although I this year all my classmates changed and Im getting better, still I only got my small group of friends
@@c3sargtx97 I don't have a group of friends, only some opportunists.
I love videos about Nathan. He may be not as melancholic as Sebastian, but he is a tragic character as well. He is a great example of how his surroundings changed his mentality, and how his mentality holds him back from what he desires. It's amazing how you manage to turn silly archetypes from memes to really deep characters. Keep up the great work, but don't overwork yourself.
Also 01:47 got me good
@ThyPeasantSlayer yes that is the point
The thing is his mentally bis not holding him back. He was made like that. No matter which person it is, everyone in his situation would be the same mentally. Its like giving drugs to a kid and be mad they turn out drug addicts in adulthood.
Honestly Nathan reminds me of one of my classmates(as well as former friend)he is ugly as sin and hasn't changed mentally since 4th grade is life is pretty much built on lies(claiming he is strong patient etc)short easily scared of social interactions and a simp I could go on and on about his problems so I'll keep it like this
The archetypes were already deep, that's why they're archetypes. They're things that are so central to our natures that their stories touch us on a fundamental level.
In reality it's his looks more than his personality, which is holding him back
"Don't judge a book by it's cover" said those in school who bullied me for things I can't easily change about my body. Of course the teachers only notice when somebody snaps - and so, the victim gets blamed. It's happened to so many.
It's impossible not to judge a book by its cover, the only way to be interested in the content of the book is to like the cover first.
I wish more people can understand that it's literally impossible to be unattractive unless you don't take care of yourself or are deformed in some way. To call someone unattractive based off things they can't change would be appealing to a beauty standard
@@Llmonty_hence why called breath standards
@@ngndnd I could agree with this if maybe you have a really bad deformity, but there are even people with those that still find someone for them
@@Llmonty_ true god blackpill is so pathetic. i can't believe how many guys are out there just sitting there whining about women's rights instead of just using some hair reviver and taking a shower lmfao
Being ugly introvert is just such a gift . I don't want people to see me i.e i don't want their attention . I just want to be alone and enjoy my life alone .
yo that’s called antisocial, you just hate interacting with people
@@30regrets guess I am both ugly and antisocial.
@@abhiwryt552 you can't live your entire life without interacting with people though
Cope
If you're ugly you already not living life
The last part is very accurate and sad. Because maybe Ryan is the only one who can understand how Nathan feels, but at one point, probably due to the impact of society, Ryan can't even see Nathan.
As an unnatractive person overall,I kinda feel this. Usually I don't give a damn what people think of me but there's still this little part of me that gets a little hurt
no way you're unattractive i think that's insane, cause i've learned how to SEE throughout my life, and how to think, and i've learned there's really no such thing. i bet my life on it if i looked at you or even right at you in your eyes i would only see beauty
I get you
@@codypomeroy9040 you get me
@@DA_BEAMERRRR he get you
You aren't unattractive lmao. People are either dipshit idiots, or they have no taste. You were based, are based and will be based.
"Beauty is nothing"
- a beautiful person
As someone who was a very clear in between of the two i can say it was rough. Being attractive enough to be trusted by others but weird and anti social enough to weird them out and push them away. Its fucking heartbreaking and no matter what you do you have to break your comforts to be understood or heard.
Wow, this description is very accurate, the words reflect perfectly. I’ve endured that for years and years, now I’m approaching 30 and at the point where I just don’t care if I weird people out. Can’t afford to care. I stick to my guns and don’t betray myself when “rejected” socially and that seems to help me a lot, both in my heart/personal wellbeing and in social circling. It helps attract the right people, even if it’s harder and takes longer
@@DonRoyalX My man, now that I've hit puberty and grown up to be in my early 20's i get treated much different. Now im closer to the "Ryan" side of the spectrum but genuinely outgoing and social with a group of adult friends (late 20s to 50s).
I get treated better by people with mutual interests, people my age however are more judgemental and dismissive, trying to one up each others problems.
My real friends are solid but sometimes i get treated like "Ryan" with new people.
on god, girls be like "you're cute" but no one wanna give me a chance 💀
@@RafaelMunizYT Believe it or not. I was rejected a few times by people in highschool and eventually made some friends with those i used to like. Weirdest part was hearing how im "The perfect bf, but...". And still being mostly single/uninteresting.
@@depressedpacito7024 honestly, I lost all the hope I had. I think at some point you just gotta stop caring. I don't care about a lotta stuff but I've been single my whole life and I guess I'm learning to not care about it
Yeah it was that easy.
I wish that if I'll die and heaven exists that I could have a way to marry Ivo
A monster is not born, it is made !!!
@@pridefulobserver3807 The child that is not embraced by the tribe will warm his heart by burning the tribe to the ground.
@@pridefulobserver3807 ugly people are born not made
@@christianriddler5063 Exactly.
Plot twist, attractive introvert has a crush on Nathan
That's literally canon. Remember the speed dating episode.
@@tacticaldroidtx22 It all ties together, Nathan didn't change a bit but Introvert got fat.
WTF LOL
HA! GAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYY
It's not neccessarily that far off. Maybe attractive introvert also went through ugly introvert phases and he sees a part of himself in N.
being born ugly is just life on hardmode🗣🔥
🤓Akthually, it is most likely your parents that have doomed you to become unattractive, by not prioritising your physical, mental, social, and psychological wellbeing early on.
Because of which, you have inherited their bad habits, along with insecurities, and fears.
@@PewDiePie777 🤓
That part at the end really hit me hard, it's weird because Ryan and Nathan are both introverts, but everyone sees Ryan rather than Nathan. I think the message here is that if theres no obvious 'good' traits about you that stand out to others, people will just ignore you, and not even realize who you are because they're not giving you a chance.
@There is zero pictures of earth from space. Thats very nice
@@futekinauh what
ohhhh it was a person nvm
u corny
@@ChibiChubbyRobo nah you didn't have to remind me that I made this comment 😭
I'm an unattractive EXTRAVERT and it's hell. Absolute hell. The only thing that keeps me going is talking to people. Last year first semester of highschool I did so well. Not only in grades but I felt like I was doing alright socially. Every class I had at least one person to talk to and it was great. I loved school for the first time. It was seriously a great time.
Eventually it dawned on me that no one was actually interested in being my friend. They simply tolerated me. Second semester rolled around and to be fair, at this time I became deeply involved in music discovery and let myself go a bit. I was severely deprived of my social needs. No one to talk to. I lost sight of who I was. What I stood for. Whatever people might've wanted out of me. Whatever I wanted out of me.
Still here, getting better. Been focusing more on my looks. Eventually I'll get back to where I was. Every day is made so difficult because I'm starving for conversations.
Jesus, respect bro!
You are not alone!
How is it going now?
I get you bro it feels quite lonely at times being an extrovert but then realizing that a lot of people aren't even really interested in being friends with you but just like having you around
@@vezeveer still pretty bad. If not worse. I've stuck a chord of depression or something. Nothing feels good anymore and I'm always tired. My interests feel like tasks and my youtube recommendations don't even know me anymore. I've been here before though and I know the solution is prioritizing sleep quality and talking to people and going out more often but ever since I've gotten back here I've been clouded with the thought that all my efforts really don't matter because I'm just going to be back here again and again and gain nothing. Not sure what else to say.
The part about Nathan disappearing in the end and the girls being unable to see him despite him actually existing is so good, studies have shown that when men rate women on attractiveness it’s a normal distribution, perfect, but when women rate men, the top 20% of men are seen as above average, men who are low down in the looks department literally don’t even register on their radar.
When women complain about all men, they’re not lying, but they’re talking about all the men they interact with, the cashier at McDonald’s, the loner kid from high school, the nerds, etc… they don’t even consider them as humans, just NPCs, background characters, fluff.
"studies have shown that when men rate women on attractiveness it’s a normal distribution, perfect, but when women rate men, the top 20% of men are seen as above average, men who are low down in the looks department literally don’t even register on their radar." Yeah you incels keep talking about the same stuff.
Yet you fail to provide the source you used to gather those datas in order to backup your statement. Then, by that, you are lying to yourself.
i feel like a skyrim npc after reading this 10/10
@generalyido I have wares if you have coin. Need something to treat that arrow wound in your knee?
@@generalyido haha me too, GTA npc
@@minimalbstolerance8113 khajiit has wares if you have coin 😼
Even attractive introverts turn invisible. Once they start opening up, the mystery is dispelled.
As an attractive introvert, I can confirm that you are right and I can also confirm that nobody is ugly without face fats, diseases or unhealthy skin.
I love how he literally disappears in the end like a street light turning off. Pretty swag animations brother.
Dude, i feel like i m watching some sort of movie. This is so cool and truthful. Keep going, also this style is kinda special. Characters feel realistic as hell .
As an ugly person i can say that i can really relate with Nathan, when i was younger i was always being called "ugly" by the girls, i was called lots of negative things, and that really let a scar on me, i stopped caring about myself, didn't want to wake up, didn't want to shower or brush teeths, and the things just got worse from there. I then decided that i would try to find an answer for me, and then i've discovered some books from Schopenhauer and Albert Camus, that's where i've found some encouragement, i started accepting my fate in the world, i started to accept that i'm never going to be like my attractive friends, but that's ok, it's easy to deal with this void within yourself once you find authors that had gone through the same as you, books and music are now my only escape from reality, but they at least teached me how i should treat myself better, and accept the sadness that comes together with existence.
:(
You are not ugly. Looks is a subjective and a superficial thing.
@@manikyum unfortunately looks is not subjective at all.
My guy, no one is ugly, i would lie to you if i told you looks doesn't matter cuz it does, attractive ppl have it easy when it comes to finding friend or relationships.
But your purpose in life isnt that you be attractive and girls like you, cuz even if ur attractive you're gonna have other issues.. This is just how life goes, hower knowing that god doesnt create ugly things or things with no purpose, Bcz eventually evry guy can find a girl that he likes and she will like him back its just not the right time for that 😊
I advise your to learn more about what god wants from you, why are u here? Work on yourself to improve and a human being workout read books learn new skills dont just stand there and let someone judge you for ur looks and decide your value.
I used to think exactly the same as you, once i understood that this is all pointless i learned more about my purpose in life, got closer to god, now i feel all new again
I recommend you read the Quran, and i invite u to islam learn about it you wont regret it.
Hope u have a great day
(im just tryna share my what made me a better person with you)
@@0rtaz it's 100% subjective
"Yo bro believe in yourself and be confident it works trust me!"
Ryan seems like a good dude. He doesn't have anything against the other guy, if anything he seemed worried about him than anything else. And the two dude bros invited a literal femboy to the party.
That’s the son
I'm 6 month late to the party but i think nathan being outside and the attractive introverts being the only one able to see does not mean he's worried or likes him or even nathan litteraly being outside but only the attractive introvert is able to see him.
He sees him though a glass panel, a reflective material, it might mean he seems a part of himself in Nathan, being a loner introvert, thinking that the only thing that allows him to be wanted and treated like a human being is him being lucky enough to be considered attractive.
@BenjiFunkifemboys are cringe
@@moi1407 I am 3 months more late to the party, but oof. You have a damn point
i laughted so hard when nathan broke the 4th wall and when he unexpectedly took the ball in the face
This exactly. This was so my high school experience. But I lost weight and got in shape and literally push the same girls away when they came back at me years later. I was happier and more confident it was only when I took my levels of attractiveness in my own hands. If you're young the answer truly is to work on yourself. The woman will come eventually but you got to like yourself first
I'm fucked then
w person nice work
I rejected someone who liked me just for that reason. It sucks
no amount of work will make ur jaw better or ur nose smaller
@@nik5479 true, very true, but trust me. Money and stability will make you more attractive as well along with confidence. The sad thing is that there is not a correct answer. people like different things but When in doubt, work on your self and save your money. trust me they will come when you are not even looking, and even then you will have to filter for bad actors.
Genuinely inspired me to fix my insecurities and become more social. God bless you bro❤