how to influence people as an introvert(the Thomas Shelby guide)

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  • how to influence people as an introvert(the Thomas Shelby guide)
    Introverts aren’t typically popular or paid attention to, which is why Thomas Shelby stands out. Tommy Shelby has the perfect balance. He’s introverted but still respected and feared. That’s because he’s perfected that dark, steely confidence that makes people both respect and fear him.
    Even though Thomas Shelby is fictional, most of his habits can be adapted to our everyday lives. Of course not exactly the way Tommy applies it, but the psychology is real and can help you influence people and command respect in your life. So, in this video, I’ll share how you can project the Tommy Shelby type of confidence.

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  • @gladysburns35
    @gladysburns35 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Being a good listener is extremely important. When you listen you learn much about the people as well as the reality existing around you. Also when you listen to people they do seem to be drawn to you. Quite frankly it is just respectful to listen to people when they need to talk or vent about a matter.😊😊😊

  • @Night_Hawk0
    @Night_Hawk0 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Keep it up Dude, I like ur videos nd all the things related self improvement nd can see difference inside me.
    Peace.

  • @gaboogiemen5627
    @gaboogiemen5627 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    QUALITY CONTENT

  • @thomasshelby_4866
    @thomasshelby_4866 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This motivates me 😳😳

  • @ecplse
    @ecplse ปีที่แล้ว +33

    as an intj this is quite useful.

    • @HumanxHuman
      @HumanxHuman ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm an Intj also.
      Thomas Shelby is an Intj in first 2 seasons. And 3 to 5 he's an Entj.

    • @itsShadowmonarch
      @itsShadowmonarch ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good thing about us intj is we can switch to entj in very emergency situations lol

    • @tylerkonrade4474
      @tylerkonrade4474 ปีที่แล้ว

      Y’all’s problem is you apply acronyms to describe yourselves😅😅 Intj Entj blah blah who gives a fuck

    • @balaexe1510
      @balaexe1510 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I get that were intj
      That doesn't change the fact that were batj at night

    • @xjar215x
      @xjar215x ปีที่แล้ว

      That personality test is outdated and false.

  • @-xeno-5802
    @-xeno-5802 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    every man would tremble beneath another man's gun

  • @scorpionphilosophy911
    @scorpionphilosophy911 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    4:15 lol

  • @hemantsalaskar6004
    @hemantsalaskar6004 ปีที่แล้ว

    🛐

  • @jayali8392
    @jayali8392 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    And no fookin fighting

  • @LivhuWaniWisdom
    @LivhuWaniWisdom 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why am I always the one taking the shots about my height

  • @Vikas_Urn
    @Vikas_Urn 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How can i stable face expression in every feeling, please name some books or make some videos,

    • @gowshik1468
      @gowshik1468 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      be a conscious person

  • @filipdulak
    @filipdulak ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm a big fan of your youtube channel and prepared something especially for you, can i send it to you somewhere?

  • @_cartijay_
    @_cartijay_ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am literally a Shelby

  • @PhilipEngle
    @PhilipEngle 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Congratulations for saying the most obvious information about Thomas Shelby’s character. I was hoping to find something that was more in depth. This works for someone who hasn’t seen the show. I think Thomas Shelby would disagree with a lot of the content.

  • @spankey88
    @spankey88 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    He’s an actor trying to portray a ptsd soldier traumatized by war that’s leading a brutal gang that became the og mafia… so just be a sociopath and mafia boss and smoke cigs to be cool lol

    • @bluevickings1206
      @bluevickings1206 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Bruh the intelligence he used was exceptional , and smoke those days were normal. Infact you trynna be cool by commenting this shit

    • @EzraYalanBenjamin
      @EzraYalanBenjamin 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Typical surface layer weak interpretation. Try harder. He’s an extremely intelligent character and hardly traumatised. The actor does a great job or portraying somebody who had experienced terrible things and used them to become stronger. If he is traumatised, he’s certainly not bogged down in it. That makes all the difference.

    • @sludgerat666
      @sludgerat666 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@EzraYalanBenjaminHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAAAAAAA

    • @EzraYalanBenjamin
      @EzraYalanBenjamin 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@sludgerat666 thanks for your extremely in depth analysis.

    • @lov1ah
      @lov1ah 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@EzraYalanBenjaminTry rewatching the series again, but this time pay attention. Tommy tried to kill himself at least twice. If that doesn't ring any bells, I feel for your psyche...

  • @user-mu2bj7cf8h
    @user-mu2bj7cf8h 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    3:37 Wdym how would someone use a deep voice if their voice is not deep? 😂

  • @ziapalekar8106
    @ziapalekar8106 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Is thomas shelby's character really an introvert?

    • @Itan_Hillsan
      @Itan_Hillsan 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I wouldn't consider him one tbh

    • @ritikthakur4358
      @ritikthakur4358 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      To an extent he can be called an introvert but he is very confident in the way he approaches things. This confidence of his masks his introverted side.

    • @robgrant5272
      @robgrant5272 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No doubt he’s one of

  • @johnclarkson128
    @johnclarkson128 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Tommy Shelby is a not a fictional character. He is a British historical character. Cillian Murphy is an actor playing a part brilliantly reading a script portraying a personality you are describing.

  • @rome316ae3
    @rome316ae3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We should acquire the triats and qualities of thomas shelby. We should not be like or act like thomas shelby

  • @rafaelludicanti2
    @rafaelludicanti2 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes, yesterday Ibtried to warn them about it. They are so into their lies they are blind to what they have become. You fools. Why did you believe in emotions expressed by the cellphone? If you had follow my advice you would have known yoi were wrong. I have the most beautiful vouce on this earth. You had now reason to say no. It would have actually make you feel good.

  • @cyberyousef7519
    @cyberyousef7519 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Lmao if you live in London then you will at least be in 3 life and death situations in your life

    • @thirdid3067
      @thirdid3067 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Serious? Why

  • @user-bv2bu7ub7z
    @user-bv2bu7ub7z 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    JESUS loves you. JESUS died for our sins. He wants to have a closer relationship with you. JESUS is coming soon. you can have a closer relationship with JESUS by becoming a born-again Christian and also by reading your Bible daily. Heaven and hell are real. Personal relationships with Jesus will help make heaven

    • @Lux736
      @Lux736 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jesus is trash😂😂

  • @TheOutlierToday
    @TheOutlierToday 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're not an introvert. You're just scared of people.

    • @wisie707
      @wisie707 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes bro I'm so scared of them they are sooo intimidating 😱😱😱

    • @rome316ae3
      @rome316ae3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's called social anxiety

  • @user-bv2bu7ub7z
    @user-bv2bu7ub7z 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    JESUS loves you. JESUS died for our sins. He wants to have a closer relationship with you. JESUS is coming soon. you can have a closer relationship with JESUS by becoming a born-again Christian and also by reading your Bible daily. Heaven and hell are real. Personal relationships with Jesus will help make heaven