INFJ / Advocate personality explained in 3 minutes
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ส.ค. 2024
- INFJ personalities are an interesting mix of traits. While INFJs are idealistic, they also have an equally strong instinct to act, to work toward a more egalitarian future. They are often mistakenly regarded as extroverts by their family and friends who rely upon them for sympathy and advice. INFJs have a vivid inner life and sometimes act different personas in different situations. Know more about INFJ traits, strengths, and interpersonal relations.
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Being an INFJ is exhausting
Quite agreeable.
True
Yes I agree I'm one.
I can relate to that
@Edgar Ahmed scam
Question for INFJ’s: Do you often find you procrastinate projects until the last minute? You always meet your deadlines, but you often spend a long time thinking about it before actually starting the project. Often the day or night before it’s due, you sit down and crank out a project that takes most people days, weeks, or even months in just a few hours. It’s almost like you did your project in your head, then it just takes you a few hours or a day to bring it into the real world. Can anyone else relate?
Yes! I’ve done this loads. Pulled it out of the bag at the eleventh hour. Its bizarre but it’s happened so many times now I’m used to it in a way.
Yes.. especially at exams...I just procrastinate thinking about it...and just learn in few hours near dead line
I can totally relate!
YES, that’s so true, I always plan what I’m gonna do for a project before doing it. & I feel like it makes my work so much easier because I already know what I’m gonna do, but I sometimes change it a little while “___” working on it.
Edit: I didn’t mean to say “lol”
That's pretty much how I function. It drives my wife nuts!
Does anyone feel proud that they’re an advocate, but awkward because they don’t believe they actually are the rarest personality? Or acting different to live up to that :/
Same 😂
I think theres a lot of folks who are protagonist or others similar but not quite like us. We’re a rare breed.
Same :(
Same
Those statements just proofed that you are INFJ lol.
I've taken the test multiple times and I've come up INFJ every single time. People often open up to me and I can read them like a book. I'm usually very quiet yet my brain is constantly buzzing with thought.
Same here, but it’s a really difficult thing (at least for me) to live with.
You just described me..also when I hang out ppl flock to me..yet I'm cool sitting alone..
Exact same thing 💭
I think you’ll verbalize more in your old years...I do and I used to not so much at all. Always tested INFJ since teen years. Now I’m Half P instead of nearly all J. It makes for a bit more peace and relaxation. I think I developed it for peace of mind.
I think it is the same for me. I had to take it multiple times as well. Now there is also -a or -t which makes a big difference. I found out that I am the emotional sponge type.
As an INFJ I wish there were more INFJs out there in the world. I hate the fact this personality type is "rare/special" because it makes me feel more alone :(
Sis... 1 percent of 7 billion is still 70 million....
Dosen't mean your special you would know that if you're actually a infj and know commenting dosen't matter
hey! you're not alone, we, other INFJs feel the same and are here haha
HEY :))
@@hahahahaccb haha so true... and only 17 mil in the Netherlands....
why don't you just move over here?!
Its wild how accurate this is
INFJ-T Squad where ya at?
I’m here 🥰
The 16 personalities test ISNT good and is not accurate try another test
Me too
@@britneymybeloved2979 it’s the best one i’ve done actually. the questions are harder but results are more accurate if you answered truly
Here !🖐🏼☺️
Just taken the test and mine is INFJ-T. I'm quite surprise when I get to know it's the rarest personality in the world.
Same
Same!
Same!
I now know i am officially weird ... and i am proud
Same, it's very nice to meet you I'm also INFJ-T 😊
Hey fellow INFJ’s. Just learned why it’s so hard making friends these days 😭
Its because we don’t tend to settle for just what’s around us. On top of being introverted. We’re friendly we just ain’t social.
We have a lot of thoughts.
😩
I agree, it is hard. I haven’t made a single friend in middle school, even though people often talk to me. I used to wonder why making friends was so hard for me before taking the personality test.
I can easily make friends in school but when covid hits it feels like i have no friends lol maybe its because i dont reply to some for some reason.
Its frustrating i want someone to talk to about my passion and hobbies likes.
Although i have 1 best friend whose been there for me in like 3 yrs now. We dont share the same interests in something just likes.
It's not wearing a mask, I just like to relate to others on their level. I have a genuine interest in other's welfare. ❤
You put it in better words than us. Maybe you should help us with our next script :)
I work in IT, all my friends are thinking about making side projects to earn more money, I’m thinking about how might we make something(app/platform) to make a better world, like raise the awareness of certain social problems or help ppl to heal their emotional trauma etc. Earning more money has never been my priority tho I love to be rich.
I don't know why some categorize this as fake, it's just genuine interest 😅
Yesss for sure
You wear a mask to show your interest in others. They trust us more when we pretend we're the same as them for them to open up because we care, and prefer their trust to prove that. Infjs are known to be social chameleons after all, that's not really a bad thing.
1:55 holy shit that is so me. I change so much around people, but I never do it to manipulate or anything, I do it for my own comfort and because I seem to be able to adapt with people I like. I always thought I was crazy but maybe am not..
I do feel rather alone knowing I am INFJ:/
... totally feel you on that, a chameleon in any social setting
Same here. I have so many different social "personas" depending on the persons I am with. It always made me feel weird like I'm not truly myself but through these videos I've come to understand that it's just a mechanism to integrate myself better.
@@norati402 Totally agree
I just did the test and everything says we are the rarest. Like, that makes me kind of proud, but then I feel like if I claim it, then I'm bragging about being special. But then again, it's not like being different has to be a "good" thing, so maybe I can tell people I'm weird instead of special. Anyone else feel this way?
It's a very INFJ way to think. We hate show offs and superficial people and don't like to brag. We want to be real and reachable, not brag and make ourselves unliked. Also, we desire to be understood, so we don't like being labelled as the "different" or "rare" type.
@Ella’s page so true... I wanted to tell my bestfriend tht I'm an infj bcoz I was very excited tht I fall under such a rare personality type but then I didn't bcoz I didn't want to see like a braggart.... Also I feel tht if we are really THAT rare then it will mean there will be really not many people who will truly understand us thoroughly... Apart from other fellow infjs ofc
Sometimes just by reading comments, you can really tell that hmm... this seems like something I would comment also🤔which I feel an INFJ don’t have to speak explicitly such as “As an INFJ.....”(saw it under many videos related to MBTI and INFJ). If you’re an INFJ, it will be quite a self-explanatory when other INFJs read about your comments even without you claiming it to be.
nothing to brag about. it also means we r lonely since no one is there to understand us. isnt it?
Can relate tho. Now I know why it's hard for others including my family to understand me.
I wish I didn't found out that I am an INFJ. Because now that I know I feel like I'm just going to fake it to maintain it. Knowing my traits now is not good because I became aware. I don't think I am not doing it naturally.
Omfgg same
Omg thts so true... I am behaving so awkwardly these past few days bcoz whatever I do I feel like I'm doing it as I now know my traits n its not me anymore... Ughh😞
Same...some people let the rarity thing get to their head...
LITERALLY
Damn
I’m in my fifties and I’m only just discovering who I am and why I do the things I do. I’ve learned I’m an INFJ, that explains a lot. Even as a child I sought out the lonely, the needy, the misfits for friends, to uplift them and support them. I had a very compassionate heart and lots of empathy for others. I didn’t want to associate with the popular, attention seeking.
Same!!!
I'm an INFJ and whatever you think you know about me is basically what I want you to know.
1000% accurate
Exactly!
True
Hahaha best quote ever to sum up INFJs! Love it!
What size is it then?
It seems like I switch between INFJ and INTJ depending on the person. I do care about peoples feelings, but sometimes logic makes more sense
I used to think the same thing, it really comes down to our functions. We are feelers, but also have introverted thinking. Like a nice peanut butter and jelly sandwich of facts and emotions. Also I don't know about you, but I seem to understand concsiousness too well. sometimes lose that perspective when I'm in stress while socializing, forcing me to switch from function to function. seeing Seeing some people as robots, and some as the concsiousness that they are. BEING INFJ IS WEIRD
me too! there is 2 different infj the assertive and the turbulent although i am more the turbulent i can be also the assertive
So do I! In a corporate context I am an INTJ, but self-employed I 'mellow' into an INFJ ... kinda cool.
Actually what makes the INFJ very unique is our ability to balance both the feeling and thinking function. They say we can be too sensitive for T’s and too logical for F’s.
Me too. ISTJ, INTJ, or INFJ. I dont know who i am anymore ):
I always wondered if the INFJs were diagnosed with inattentive ADD because we are quiet but our minds are constantly observing our surroundings.
yes same with autism. i feel like so many infj’s have autism and inattentive adhd without even knowing it lol i have both
as an infj-t, its pretty accurateeee
Me too
I am a Clinical Psychologist with 30 years of experience dealing with people. I was branded a INFJ quite sometime ago. I never really accepted that evaluation because placing 'labels' on people puts them into a box. It limits their potentiality and personal growth. At worse, it can destroy a individual's self determination and freedom. I have never encountered a 'classical' INFJ before. Why? Because certain characteristics of this personality type have many subgroups some of which overlap other MBTI personality types. That being said I will describe the characteristics of how a 'orthodox' INFJ thinks, behaves and responds in strict accordance with the MBTI Personalty Test. Be forewarned, I find some INFJ 'stereotypes' rather funny. And will approach such in a humorous fashion. INFJ's posess a wonderfully unique sense irony and will immediately recognize the silly 'stereotypes' others have attrubuted to them.....So lts break some myths about INFJ Personalty Types.
When a INFJ gives you the dreaded 'Death Stair' they are not sttempting to understand you. They are wondering if you're carrying a gun. Killing INFJ's is a pleasurable experience. Why? Because everyone hates a smart ass.
INFJ's frequently experience 'Sensory Overload' issues. They love Forests, Parks and Woodland areas to recharge their batteries. Why? Because trees don't talk! A squirrel cannot complain it has 'Daddy Issues'. Pine trees do not suffer from 'gender identity' problems. And I have never seen a bunny rabbit strung out Crack Cocaine. Solitude is bliss.
Never say to a INFJ, 'I do not understad', They will run away screaming or jump infront of a bus. No one understands them. INFJ's sometimes don't even understand themselves.
Why do a INFJ 'Door Slam' people? Because it's called a Coping Mechanism. They dislike being emotionally hurt. There is nothing strangebecome acholics others pill poppers. INFJ's will just run away and per you never existed. It never works.
INFJ's have the psychic ability to absorb people's emotions. No. This is phenomen is called 'Transference'. If you continuously talk about your problems, a INFJ will unconsciously adopt some aspects of your emotional state. However, INFJ's posess strong identities which prevents them from going completely insane.
INFJ's are the most honest, compassionate and sensative people on Earth. Not really. Mother Nature just screwed them up genetically. They're brains are hard wired to respond during crisis situations. A 'diehard' INFJ will instinctively sacrifice their life attempting to save yours. No questions asked. Why? I have no freaking idea. I didn't invent the rules. Ask God. I'm sure She knows.
INFJ's think differently than others. Yes. They think outside the box. They live outside the box. They have never actually seen the box. What does it look like? Does it contain groceries?
INFJ types are occasionally arrogant, cold towards others and aloof. This is actually true. Being omnipotent has its drawbacks. INFJ's have a difficult time sugar-coating the truth. Being overtly honest is their trademark. However, if they sense someone cannot handle the truth, they lie to protect that person's feelings.
INFJ's are stubborn yet will openly admit to errors in judgment and making mistakes.
INFJ's think too deeply. They want to solve everyone's problems. They get frustrated when people ask for advice, then completely ignore their recommendations. They do not understand why everyone keeps making the same mistakes over and over again. Eventually, a INFJ will simply give up. The phrase 'People need to learn the hard way' was invented by a INFJ. So was the 'unfriendl' button on Facebook.
INFJ's do not respect authority because they have developed their own Moral, Ethical, Spiritual and Cognative belief systems. Mature (older) INFJ's care very little about how people perceive them and less about the impressions they make upon others. INFJ's enjoy approval and acceptance (like everyone else) but infrequently compromise their princepals to simply fit in.
Do not mistake a INJ's confidence as egocentrism. There is a difference.
INFJ hate themselves. They feel alone within the world and misunderstood. Being a INFJ a curse. Consequently, a small minority INFJ's often experience psychological Depression, Alienation issues and Avoident Behavior problems. The phrase 'You are your own worst enemy' accurately describes a INFJ's perception of themselves.
The most admirable personality traits of the INFJ are (1) INFJ's care more about other people than themselves which makes them a easy targets for emotional exploitation and abuse. Never play 'Guilt Games' with a INFJ. They already persecute themselves (subconsciously) for being different. They don't have the ability to forgive themselves for past mistakes, A INFJ's unforgiving 'Guilt Complex' is an integral part of their personality. INFJ's have occasionally been known to slowly kill themselves over time, believing they deserve such suffering. 'Hell on Earth' is their punishment and they willing accept it....sometimes. Not always. (2) Once you secure the trust of a INFJ, everything about them suddenly becomes clear. The stereotypes vanish. They are people you want within your life. They have incredible insight into human nature and will identify your weaknesses and lift you up from darkness. Seeing the world through a INFJ eyes is the greatest gift they can offer.
It would be impossible to understand a MBTI typology without stating the negative traits of a specific personality group.
The 'Dark Side' of a INFJ is rather frightening. Never test their 'Authenticity' or personal dignity. Do not play games with a INFJ. They have limitations like everyone else. A INFJ can determine your intentions or plans within minutes. Literally. This Hyperobservient behavior is quite unique. Avoid getting into heated arguments with a INFJ unless you are prepared to be intellectually, emotionally or psychologically castrated. They have cognitive resources almost beyond understanding. A vindictive INFJ will never stop until they destroy your life (this has nothing to do with physical murder). Such behavior is almost Psychopathic in nature (hence the concern INFJ's may be catorgized as possessing a Psychological disorder rather than a Personality dysfunction). INFJ's are not prone violent behavior. The good news is they give up easily, This is where the Door Slam or simply walking away from a argument comes from.
If a INFJ loves you, be prepared for lengthy romantic rituals. Box's of candy, flowers, poems, lovely e-cards, teddy bears and such. But be careful. A INFJ understands how to manipulate situations to their advantage. Including the human heart. Once they reveal their true inner nature however, you will begin to understand why only 2% of the world's population are INFJ's. They are just so dam charming.
INFJ's dislike small talk, idle conversations, superficial people and hypocrites. Life is too short talking to such individuals (but they understand its occasionally necessary to be socially accepted)
INFJ's are not spontaneous. They just pretend to be spontaneous. Their minds are always attempting to 'connect the dots' even when there are no dots.
Avoid getting into deep conversations with a INFJ. They are walking encyclopedias. They will jump from topic to topic then back again to support a idea or theory. Male INFJ's are 'scattered brained' in the worst way possible. But there is method to such madness. The are searching for the correct answer to a specific problem. And 95% of the time they will discover it... or have a complete nervous breakdown trying.
Occasionally, you will notice them acting rather mysterious, doing unusual things or just behaving weird. Get used to this behavior. It has absolutely nothing to do with you. The INFJ is just going through a 'stage' or experimenting with something that interests them. Like building a Thermonuclear Bomb or discovering a cure for Herpes.
Never tell a INFJ they possess a 'Old Soul'. They are terrified of being reincarnated again. INFJ's are aware that neither Heaven or Hell wants them. Why? Because God doesn't want the extra competition or deciding who should run the Universe (Him or a INFJ) and Satan can't deal with a INFJ pestering him for all eternity. That would be considered cruel and unusual punishment.
Aliens will never abduct a INFJ. There are some things too bizarre even for Extraterrestrials.
So next time you accidentally encounter a INFJ, break all COVID 'Social Distancing' issues and hug them. They are a endangered species. Literally. Whatever purpose they were created for has already been accomplished. I like to think they represent the noblest form of humanity. A personality type which everyone aspires to immulate....Intelligent, Wise, Caring, Altruistic and Protective.
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Brilliant❤
Oh hey good news. I’m an advocate INFJ and I relate with everything you said. My friend called me stubborn and I love knowledge and I like this anime called beyblade burst and if I have a friend, I can talk non stop. When someone tells me they don’t understand, I wanna explode but I manage to be rational and keep calm and tell myself that I just need to break it down or they just don’t understand me! 😢
I came across a narcissistic friend and I don’t know how to react to it but I had mental breakdowns, burnouts and smiling depression for some months because of that evil woman 💀 I went crazy but luckily I have a few friends who I can talk to and 2 of them are already scared of me ^v^
I don’t know why I was happy hearing that. I also don’t think it’s wrong to be different at all! I wanted justice against that narcissist and it didn’t work out so well ;-; okay, I admit I thought of like follow her to her house just to find out where she lives so I can plan something to make her feel pain so she wouldn’t dare mess with anyone else. She’s currently manipulating my friend and I was so mad when I found out 😡 I’m learning how to avoid her because she’s been a trigger because I had a Huge emotional mental breakdown in school right after she threw pieces of papers at me which represents the pain she caused me and “HOW DARE SHE?!” I’m learning how to live my life peacefully and I’m happy about it and I’m back to my cheerful self but I changed from the narcissistic abuse. I told her everything is resolve but not really… I still wanna teach her pain and show her how it feels like but she’s off my radar for now 😊
And I’m super random because I always switched from topic to topic and suddenly gets out of point ;-;
(I’m crazy sometimes and I have friend who calls me weird in a bad way and literally tried to anger me and thinks it’s so much fun but she knows I’m serious when my form teacher find out because I took action 😊)
My twin brother got me to take this test and I wasn't surprised to get this advocate personality. I always told him I can read through someone in a second and can spot whether someone is genuine. I feel very lonely and alone but I'm happy because I have such deep thought :) all I want is people who are also genuine
Same here
@@debbiesoldaini4709 aw bless :)
We have a gift
@@thealtruist3564 😎
I feel like many of you regret being this personality type. Please know that (for the most part) people with this personality type are normally people that others look up to. You’re not alone and you most definitely should take pride in all of the positives. I’m an INFJ-A, so naturally, I care about others. But, you don’t always have to suit their needs. You’re still a human being and you need time to just be yourself.
I’m a INFJ and I’m proud of it in a way because I like being different and it doesn’t affect me much. I like not to do inappropriate and bad things others like to do. I think a lot and it’s a problem 😢 but it’s good in a way
Yes, it sucks sometimes, i can't even understand myself. But i'm accept and appreciate the person i am more and more. We should stop trying, to find an answer for everything and better love ourselves and just be😊
So true.
I am INTJ and my girlfriend is INFJ and it's amazing to have a loving person like that specially when you are super socially awkward.
My boyfriend is INFJ and I totally love the side of him that it's hard for me (F and J), I'm INTP.
Me INFJ :oh! i want to volunteer, help out at this event, and talk with people are feeling down
Family: thats great!
also family: You're too nice, stop and focus on yourself
Me: ok I suppose * hermit mode*
My brain: I hate having to pick between pleasing people around me and potentially find a future in it versus please family
Also my brain: let's go down a rabbit hole about how obstacles are preventing you achieving your goals when it might actually be yourself
Just learnt about the hermit mode and boyy I do it all the time from time to time! Pretty accurate about my personality, many people don't understand and expect to behave certain way what is very challenging! But learning to express myself better and be more comfortable in my own skin. Good stuff :)
this 3:00 minute video understood me better than my people
People think we INFJ are proud of being rare, but we want to be anybody but us. Being overly empathic and an introvert at the same time is terrible, bc people want to be with you and you can't say no, but you just want to be alone with your perfectly crafted inner world. Everybody wants your advice, everybody wants your help, everybody wants you to predict their goddammed future. And after, out of manners they ask about you, and you realize you don't want to share so you make up something relatable that will encourage them to talk more about themselves. At this point in my life I just socialize when I'm drunk.
You spoke my mind!🙆💯
As an adult in my late 30’s, I am finally secure with who I am as a person and I absolutely love having an INFJ-A personality type. The problem in our society is that we want everybody to be a damn extrovert but screw them because everyone has their own distinctive personality❤️❤️❤️
Couldn’t agree more!
I've taken the test a few times and I always come up as INFJ. I haven't done a lot or research on it. But for most of my life I've felt misunderstood. I wonder sometimes if something is wrong with me. I'm usually no one's favourite person or closest friend. I often feel lonely or like I'm missing out. I want close meaningful relationships..... But I often feel like I lack something naturally that draws people close to me in an unforced way. People giggle and have a good time when we have convos and they don't seem perplexed or bothered by me so I'm not sure why I feel so alone. I am quite friendly. I have a natural ability to discern personality types from body language, comments and tones and just general vibes from just being around a person for a few moments, so I identify with that part, but socially, I just feel isolated, and I don't think it's in my head. All my life I've noticed that pattern with people and myself. Can anyone relate?
I can relate. Exactly. All of it. Its a struggle. I want to connect yet am self conscious about how awkward I can come across. It doesn't exactly make for a people magnet. lol
@@jeffklay2857 Darn. I get that. Since this comment months ago I realize that I can learn about connecting with others. I still won't force or manipulate my way into a friendship though. I'd rather a natural connection from both sides. Is more meaningful that way and facades are hard to keep up long term.
This describes me so spot on it's insane. What really got me was the "putting on a different mask for different people". I don't love it about myself, but I do it so often.
Im an INFJ. I just like to help people, even the smallest thing. Even if I dont know, I'm willing to learn about several things just to help them. My friends called me their personal consular, I am like an old sould trapped in a young age body, they said. It is so hard to find friends that I really close to, I dont know why. People at my age somehow dont think the way i think. I need someone to discuss about something deep and important, but they always said “I havent think about that” and its soooo hard to find someone that really motivates you to grow.
My wife is an INFJ, what a ride ! Still, the gratest mom, the best partner, a friend. My love for ever.
Well, go on and spill all of my secrets then! I FEEL SO NAKED.😅
Different personas yup, me at home, me at work, me while streaming video games. Different versions of me, but all 100% me!!
Act different with different people unintentionally..... OK Found my friends here🖐HI NICE TO MEET U
Lol, hey bud.
How do I change from being an infj? I feel everything too deeply. It's so hard.
change takes time. take the time for yourself, away from everything, and breathe for a little bit. life is shitty and hard and doesn't make sense most of the time. but in order to change, if that's what you're striving for, you need to take the time to better yourself. breathe.
@@bolang6921 I forget I made this comment two months ago. In fact I have been making changes you mentioned for the last two months and it has transformed my life. I learnt about psychology and the cognitive functions, and I basically came up with a plan on how to deal with the different personality types, while not feeling exhausted after dealing with them. My change in thinking has transformed my life!!
Don't push it away , embrace who you are , you are an Infj , be proud of that we are good ,kind considerate ppl.
@@kcmn0089 I’m glad to hear that.
This is true, sometimes I just want a whole chunk of the year to think about things and to try and focus on things that aren't so depressing all the time. I also think of things that are good but it depends.
It's a gift to have this personality and to see the world and people as they are, but also frustrating as this world could be such a better place. Most with this personality probably see the world this way too. If we come together as a society we can solve most of the problems we see today, yet we are growing apart with the main driver of our lives being a paycheck.. Interesting times we live in.
I am an introvert, that everyone thinks us an extrovert.
first i thought i was an ambivert. i asked my closest friends if i am an extrovert or an ambivert or an introvert. they all said that i was the most introverted person in the room. im still not sure if im an INFJ or an INFP. i can relate to both a lot.
@@sola0690 SAMEEE SKSKSK i got infp & infj .
Me and my class which consist of 80 people took the Myers-Brigs test, and I was the only one who came out as INFJ-A. Another fellow stundent came out as INFJ-T. It was so suprising to see, but i also learned alot about myself and others.
Deep topics is the entire reason I created a TH-cam channel dedicated to sharing thoughts on social and philosophical topics.
I'm more an introvert and people are lowkey scared when I show this more active side hahah
Did a couple of tests and found out I'm most likely an INFJ, the description fits perfectly. This video is also spot on. But the really scary part was reading all the comments... it was like they were all written by me
I mean... you know what I mean :)
I love personality classifications, but after reading all the comments and some intuitive contemplation, I’ve realized that we must put our differences aside no matter the personality type, and ultimately agree to disagree. Because in the end, every personality makes up this beautiful world we all live in today. Let’s all be advocates and live honest, lovely, and adventurous lives!
The most relatable thing was they have vivid inner self like exactly ..i have different personas according to different situations amd people ...and also no matter how mature they are and how high thier level of thinking is, they become like the person they are talking to , if they're talking to a dumb person so they adjust themselves according to them and mold themselves according to the person to make them feel comfortable ...
Hey, to all you Advocate INFJ’s, you are awesome. Don’t change. We need more of these people in the world to fight real problems because let’s face it, everyone else around don’t give a damn and take action like we do. Keep fighting the good fight my fellow INFJ’s. ❤️😊
I second that! 💜
I hear everyone saying how being this rare personality types makes them feel lonely and misunderstood. What you must connect with is that our ability to have introverted intuition allows us to plumb the depth of ourselves much further than many others would. And hence could never be understood by many as most other people don’t spend their energy doing this. The beauty of this is you can love and appreciate yourself for how well you know yourself. Only you will know yourself and that is the path we walk, (assumption) to know thy self. You are only stuck with one person your whole life and that’s you. It’s integral you develop a sense of self love in order to develop properly. To recognise this you can stare at yourself in the mirror and observe the judgements of yourself. Split yourself into “higher” and “lower” self. God and mortal, Father and son. The higher self sets expectations on the lower self and berates it if it fails. The lower self is the child toiling to live up to its fathers wishes and is lazy. You need to unify these opposites. The father needs to give the boys some appreciation for his effort and the boy must become the man by taking responsibility for his life by embodying his ideals and taking action (the lower self is the one who takes action). I hope this helps someone cos it helped me ALOT! I know many will have external variables and trauma that will make this harder. Just ask yourself which one prevents you from loving yourself? the Father or the Child in you?
Also to strengthen the relationship with the higher self do something that is hard to do but feels good after. Cold showers after a hot shower works wonders. The higher self says do it and the lower self resists it. when you complete it you actualise the higher self
We really need to start an INFJ support group
Like a braziers ?
You really have to fight for your choices sometimes, it seems as though everyone else just slots in with the hum drum. They don’t question their motives or their ethics. They just do it because everyone else is. My life is VERY different to most however I am just a regular person. It’s hard to see both points of view, it’s hard to deal with negativity as a result of other people’s frustration with their own lives. It’s definitely hard to see through fake people and pretend you like them as much as everyone else does!
Wearing different masks with different people is exactly what I do. I'm friends with really different people. And when I invite them to my birthday it's like a meet up with people that wouldn't be friends, because of their different lifestyle.
Bruh i always unconsciously do this and sometimes i feel like a fake person.
Help
@@swiar_d7057 Yes, but you're not. You're just someone that really cares for people. And there are not many people that care about about people they don't know much about.
Creepy how spot on this is. 😳
An interesting take on this INFP type! Thanks for sharing. Randomly discovered your channel through the TH-cam algorithm! 🤟🤟🤟
I've been familiar with the Zodiac sign I fall under (Virgo) since I was a kid. I can honestly say that I am a very typical Virgo on paper. There were some things that I didn't quite agree with, enough that I didn't put to much stock into it.
I took the quiz. Several different versions. All came back infj-a. Reading and watching descriptions of the type really hit hard. And then I figured out that I am a Sigma male. So reading all three together is literally a description of me as a person.
I hate to admit that, but it's the truth. I'm still learning more about myself and the world and universe we live in, so I'll keep searching for myself, help others if I can, and continue to march to the beat of my own drum.
I am all 3 of those, too.
Please to meet you.
I also use fake TH-cam names.
@Patience O'Bon-go (of Niger) pleased to meet you as well. Not exactly a fake name, though.
a few years ago, upon getting INFJ-T as my MBTI, i tried to change my mindset so i could be more on the extroverted and positive side. but today, i took the test again, and my Turbulent raised by 20%. guess i won’t be able to escape that.
p/s: I’ve always hated it because i thought i feel and think too much, to the point that i’d always feel alone.
yo i just took it. not only am i a redhead, i also have a rare personality
*i feel special*
That explains my sudden urge to completely break off from everyone and everything.
I mean that could just be introversion but yes, especially among advocates. Gotta get some time by yourself. My room is my own little realm, not simply where I sleep.
I did the personality test today. Got to know I am INFJ-T Advocate. And then I searched more about it. And as am going through everything, I feel like why my personality is revealed to the world. It's me. Yes I care more about you, that I tend to forget about myself. I am grateful I'm among the weird/rare one's. I was born weird. :)
I care for the peopoe and environment 🙁
It seems that the animations just get better and better 😱
I just did a test, and it’s INFJ-A. Thank you for this!
I was very surprised when I knew it was rare personality type....me and my cousin is infj it's no wonder we always together even for simple talks we never got bored of each other that mostly I feel when I'm with others...good to have her.
I really feel bad when I get in to Hermit Mode. My friends think I'm shutting them out especially when I don't reply or don't go out with them when all I really do is recharge myself with some alone time. I am also all out when it comes to helping people but in the end I burn out. I can talk in front of the class, really likes to make a change, and be a comfort to someone that's why people often thought of me as an extrovert but what's true is I'm an introvert. I hate it when I can't work on my goals. I also have this ridiculous high expectations on myself and people around me esp when it comes to a partner. And oh, my personality depends on whom I am with so sometimes they think I have mulitple personas when I just really use that to be comfortable. But worse? I can't explain this to people because most of them don't believe that this personality exist because my behaviours are contradicting. I'm like an extrovert-introvert but not an ambivert. I took the test and got INFJ. I hope people would be aware of this personality😢
Btw, when I'm in a good mood, I am INFJ but when I'm in a bad mood, I become very logical into INTJ😂
hermit mode, thats actually a great way to describe it. someone asked me why i was shy today, my friends know im not shy (definately not outside of school) and i said i dont mean to be i just dont have the confidence to talk a lot in class. and now i regret everything i said because i am overthinking it
Hermit mode... Yeah it is hard to explain to my friends and especially to my bf. It makes him really sad when I want to be alone...
I took a personality test. I got Advocate INFJ personality types. This straight up accurate for me and my daily life. I love this video. Please make more 🥺♥️💯
Hey welcome to infj a gang
Now I understand why people find me weird. Have found that often being aware of people's (ill) intentions quicker than they prefer to show them does not make you popular either. (Just the way I prefer it, honestly.) Funny thing, when I took the test in my 20s I got ENFP. Funny how things can change almost a decade later.
I have no idea why people suggest to be a counselor for INFJs. Totally exhausted to do so because we catch so much negative energy from clients. It’s killing me!
I would love to be an extroverted person with a mind more oriented to logic than feelings, not caring about philosophical matters, having a lot of friends, even not necessarily deep connections, as I would love to be more selfish and not caring more for others than myself.
But above all I would love not having the certainty that I will never find someone like me in my lifetime. I would love to be less naive, to avoid being targeted by narcissists, and I would love to stop feeling like I'm always inappropriate to life
I've done about 6 tests, from 3 different sources, at different times and always got infj, and yet I'm still not sure about it... just some stuff that I read about the type doesn't resonate with me.
Any one else feel this way?
I had the feeling when I first took the test several time and got ENFP as a result constantly. It just didn't feel wuite right. Until this physical therapist performed the motor test on me and I got INFJ. it truly resonated with me. I suggest looking at the other capaigners and reading their strengths and weaknesses, might be easier to relate that way to your true type.
My infj babies.. We are RARE
This is my personality. How we INFJ's are only 1% of the population is mind blowing. x_x
well im glad i find out what is wrong with my head before smash it open just to have a moment of peace
This was an amazing description of us ! Everything is spot on ! Thank your for the great work on this one ❤
Another INFJ Nina. Wow
just took a test and found out this is my personality, holy cow everything that was explained in this video is so ACCURATE
Yes! This is me! Introvert, like alone time, & an empath....some people think I'm weird. They just don't know me
"Due to their ability to make connections easily."
I want a refund on my INFJ module. I think it is broken.
im here bcs i just knew that infj is the rarest type of personality. I've taken the test 3 times and i got infj everytime. Time to learn abt me !
i wish i could come across more in real life, it feels weird that this is so accurate.
The accuracy is really crazy.
We are like Paladins.
We can fight for ourselves and are highly independant people, but we love supporting others and making an example for everyone else around us.
When we stop healing you, you are in big trouble.
By the way, the 08/15 INFJ is an easy target for Narcissism because we love to help people by nature and we don't naturally see the bad in others.
But a matured, Sigma INFJ is in fact, the worst enemy of Narcissts. We see them for what they are and shred their ego in seconds.
We are like a mirror, showing them everything thats wrong about them. It's like seeing a monster for the first time.
I’ve just tested as an INFJ :)
Very good for 3 minutes.
I have a Natural Instinct to Progress; and when I don't ― I feel bad because of it. It's the main thing for me.
Same personality my friends were surprise bcoz they thought that I'm extrovert but I'm Introvert so damp true
turn that perspective of understanding inside and come to a wholly understanding
Older INFJ - T, here and I gotta tell you it’s been exhausting. They call us “special” & “rare” but I argue that we all fall under those labels!
And no, I’m not saying this because of my traits, I’m saying this because it’s true!
Personally, having INFJ traits has been a pain in the backside. We put so much in and usually get left out. SO! Fellow INFJ’ers perhaps we could all chill a little and stop worrying about how we come across and being so bloody polite all the time.
Perhaps we could rebel and let the odd burp or flatulence appear 😬✊
Thoughts?!
The way you create videos very well, from graphics to sound, but I think you should have more topics for the channel, do great 👍🏻
honestly I'm very scared because I can not look into people's eyes properly. I'm also tired of wearing masks on different people.
Windows to the soul that’s why. We have a knack of seeing straight through people good and bad.
i am either great or terrible, there is no inbetween lol
Same I look down sometimes and can’t breathe properly it’s so annoying u know
I did a personality test and said I was an advocate, sounds like a cool type of person to be, but I don't think I am 100% sure I am one.
No one else would be as happy as infj to know this for the first time .now they can understand everything clearly 😁😀😀😂🤣.but good thing is it is not for wrong but for better world.
I can relate to a lot of these comments 😂 let’s start an INTJ community
This hits hard. It’s like I was read here.
I also confused my self whether I'm an Infj or Infp for I relate to both the types so much.. I'm gonna do more research, thank you for this.!
I’m a INFJ and it’s so cool being the rarest personality type!
I hade my doubts about being this but I’ve checked everything and i fit this perfectly like no joke
Took the test yesterday evening; this seems way to kind
different personas in different situations. dude i am shy in school and like to work by myself or choose to help others. loud and crazy to my close friends, average to my new friends. and crazy confident in dance.
As an infj, anybody want to switch personality types? But let me keep my intuition, and my empathy. Also my drive for success, and my ways of thinking.
I can meet someone and get there life experiences within minutes of talking. I don't mind that at all, I want to help. But it does take a lot of energy.
I’ve just found out this is my personality type. I’ve never felt so heard and seen ❤️
Of course I’m rare. I always knew I was different from others, often judged and viewed negatively.
Took a few mbti tests. I was looking for more information on the 1% shinannigans, thank you for the information ☺️👌🏽🤙🏽
We walk the road less travelled that's for sure .
Just took mine. INFJ-A. Had no idea it was considered rare but it makes alot of sense.
I'm just a Protagonist... Advocates are basically perfect and I'm kinda jealous
Nah don’t think of it like that. You got your lane and your way of helping people. Personally I’m a little jealous because Protagonists I feel in general have a higher likelihood of going down in the history books as great leaders who can give a damn fine speech and actually mean every word of it.
Wow i never thought my personality is rare