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5 THINGS THAT WONT HAPPEN UNTIL YOU HEAL BY RC Blakes

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  • @chetina912
    @chetina912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +384

    I really like RC Blake's. Never met him but he is a father figure to me. He helps me to re-learn that I am a woman and have the right to become feminine. Something I have struggled for years.

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Your words are special. Thank you 🙏🏽

    • @Dr.JudeAEMasonMD
      @Dr.JudeAEMasonMD 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Me too. He’s helping me get my queen consciousness all the way together. I had a dad RIP, who was emotionally absent so I never learned these valuable lessons. Thank you man
      Of God. 🙏🏽

    • @Destiny-pq6zd
      @Destiny-pq6zd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bleeding ppl cut ppl. I'm in a relationship we both are Christians. I know he has anger issues. Lust issues I try but I I've him. He has all female friends and I'm no introduced to certain n I feel hurt shdndcer he raises his voice. Always ready to say he's hucj to move on bed nit me

    • @guestmaker-v2m
      @guestmaker-v2m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yessssssssssss yessssssssssss ma’am he really really is like a father figure of giving us what we need to hear and not what we want

    • @NikkiBNice
      @NikkiBNice 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes he is!

  • @maqudizesunset6033
    @maqudizesunset6033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    I must HEAL first - (1)Quarantine myself from relationships.
    (2)I need a spiritual encounter to restore my soul.
    (3)I must do honest reflection- stop making excuses for my downfalls.
    (4)Face my fears
    (5)I must reconstruct my life, step into something new
    🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @jeannasmiley5712
      @jeannasmiley5712 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you!

    • @infinitylove9709
      @infinitylove9709 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you!

    • @godesslybeautifuable
      @godesslybeautifuable 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you for your time and effort to include this in the comments. May the Father bless you❤️

    • @mizzdrea99
      @mizzdrea99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you 🙏🏾❤

    • @kwezchyn
      @kwezchyn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🌹 thank you

  • @anabautista8071
    @anabautista8071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    1. You will never be able to fully respect a man due to built-up anger; 2. You will never be able to trust for fear of rejection or disappointment; 3. You'll never be able to navigate the ebbs and flows of relationships without breaking down and overreacting, until you heal; 4. You'll never be able to see a great man; 5. You will never give off a healthy feminine energy.

    • @dunsbeautifulpeople
      @dunsbeautifulpeople 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Ana, thank you for taking your time and writing this out for all of us🧎🏾‍♀️🙏🏾

    • @lala5061
      @lala5061 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And this is all facts!

    • @godesslybeautifuable
      @godesslybeautifuable 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you! Appreciate your time and efforts. May the Father bless you❤️

    • @MsLLewis77
      @MsLLewis77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ana Thank you!

    • @tensetiamckulsky9957
      @tensetiamckulsky9957 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      True words...really true

  • @blacklove804
    @blacklove804 2 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    If it wasn't for you. I would still be dealing with a man I met 11 years ago who never valued me. You speak as though you've been watching my life. Down to when I would ask my ex about marriage. You sounded just like him. I was sick to the point where I was looking at myself. I can't thank you enough💛 I let go January 9th. No looking back. I'm healing now.

    • @stefannykerr1298
      @stefannykerr1298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm so happy you took that step. You should be proud of yourself and I wish you the best of success mastering all of these areas of growth and walking in the love and self-love you deserve and desire.

    • @blacklove804
      @blacklove804 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@stefannykerr1298 thank you😊

    • @goddessglow6996
      @goddessglow6996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Better to suffer a couple of months than the rest of your life! Congratulations, it takes courage.

    • @blacklove804
      @blacklove804 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@goddessglow6996 thank you. It hasn't been easy. Because I do miss him, but he was never any good for me or to me. I formed a trauma bond to him.

    • @christinadacosta4949
      @christinadacosta4949 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God bless u sister 🙏🙏🙏💜💜💜💜

  • @JUSTNIZE
    @JUSTNIZE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    As a woman that has been broken, cheated on, and lied too, this was very powerful. It was great to hear that healing is key 🔑 and after wasting 3 years with someone that was intimidated by a woman with a voice, I’m finally taking that time. This was encouraging as I’d rather be alone than climb under another insecure man that feels good for the night. Thank God for maturity, growth, a brain 🧠 and a choice to wait until God sends you a man that knows how to love me like God intended. So glad my cousin shared this with me ~

    • @gustinahunter2161
      @gustinahunter2161 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Twenty years and realized i was better off being alone, listen to that inner voice. In a family where most of the women are NOT married.

  • @juneelle370
    @juneelle370 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    IMO ~ don’t blindly trust and don’t habitually be suspicious. Just use intuition (Creator’s whispers to you). Even after a woman is healthy and healed, she shouldn’t be blindly trusting-be intuitive. Keep your eyes/ears/heart/gut open to intuition always!

  • @quantinajones2857
    @quantinajones2857 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Thank God for you! I never met my biological Ffather....God sent you to teach me what he did not.
    I am 50 years old and until I started listening to your teachings I was in such pain.
    I now know my worth and will never be the same.
    Thank you Jesus.

  • @anabautista8071
    @anabautista8071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    How does a woman heal? A) Quarantine; B) Spiritual Encounter; C) Honest Reflections; D) Face Your Fears; E) Establish a New Normal.

  • @sylviataylor4173
    @sylviataylor4173 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Most people see me as kind, which I am. But I have this anger. And it shows up when I’m in a relationship. I didn’t even understand what why this would happen til I heard this. It makes so much sense now. I’m definitely committed to my healing and I’m forever grateful to God for leading me to Bishop RC Blakes.

  • @mariewilliams3203
    @mariewilliams3203 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Mr.Blake I just want to thank you and your wife for being so transparent with us you have opened my eyes to some of the real causes to trauma band people don’t even know it so you are spot on saving a lot of heart ache

  • @carebee6261
    @carebee6261 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I’m currently in a separation because of these issues. I self sabotaged my relationship through my alcohol addiction. I didn’t love myself so I could never fully give into my husband. I regret this terribly. I’m taking the time to heal from my past traumas and I’m alcohol free for over a month. I’m learning to get to know the real me and start to love myself. I pray that God will continue to show me the truth. This message was powerful, thank you Pastor.

    • @godesslybeautifuable
      @godesslybeautifuable 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      May the Father bless you for openness!! Hope all is well today❤️

  • @lifesjoyz4724
    @lifesjoyz4724 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I appreciate these Brother Sister talks. I'm a bit older than Bishop Blake's. God bless him he keeps me on track. No more foolish games thanks to Bishop. 🙏❤

    • @embermiller4356
      @embermiller4356 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m a little older than he is too…but omg I’ve learned so much. I’m so grateful

  • @yvette11111
    @yvette11111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I've been single for 3 years waiting to fully heal but realized I don't have the desire to ever get in another relationship. I feel like I have more peace in my life being single.

    • @lala5061
      @lala5061 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I know it is scary...at least to me

    • @yvette11111
      @yvette11111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lala5061 Yes it is, especially with all that's going on these days.

  • @broncofangj
    @broncofangj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I stumbled upon this man of God about a year ago and I am so thankful for his teachings he always speaks truth !

    • @tande0822
      @tande0822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      His ministry has been blessing me for over a year. Thank GOD

    • @broncofangj
      @broncofangj 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tande0822 Amen to that! His teachings have given me knowledge and helped me avoid making some very costly mistakes. God bless his ministry and may it continue to grow!

    • @lilimuthemba3138
      @lilimuthemba3138 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too I stumbled here about a year ago and it's been a long season of uncovering my brokenness and starting to heal

    • @pennygallagher4363
      @pennygallagher4363 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lilimuthemba3138 I am so happy that you have begun your healing process. These teachings have changed my life.

  • @kimberlyanderson2802
    @kimberlyanderson2802 2 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    I love listening to Pastor Blakes, he speaks the truth

    • @karenbailey921
      @karenbailey921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yess absolutely he does

    • @starLaSane
      @starLaSane 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙏🏽 amen 🙏🏽

    • @darawatkis7084
      @darawatkis7084 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Definitely . He is really God sent🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @jackieblue4128
    @jackieblue4128 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Theres alot of broken men that need to heal before they have a relationship with a woman
    Why is it always on the women
    Men R messed up

  • @DeDe-yh7bu
    @DeDe-yh7bu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    My ex broke me while in the relationship, he told me to "become the best version of myself" while I'm in a broken relationship with him. I had to leave 😪 because I couldn't become that if I'm broken down in that relationship with him.

    • @kw3036
      @kw3036 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Soo true, good for you ❤️

    • @kadedraatkins
      @kadedraatkins 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My ex told me the same thing. He made it seem it was all on me and I blamed myself for our failing relationship. I'm trying to heal from that right now.

  • @tomeccahamilton9087
    @tomeccahamilton9087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I waited all day to his this word.. I have been married 22 years.. We both come from a Christian Families yet Neither he or his family will acknowledge that he needs help.. Unbelievable.. Praying for God to Answer my Prayers In the Midnight Hour.. 🙏

  • @dezynedbydanai1941
    @dezynedbydanai1941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    be healed and you will be under protective custody through your connection with god

  • @womenwhodate7643
    @womenwhodate7643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    As soon as I saw the title, I knew this was good stuff.
    I’m all the way locked into this message because the spiritual warfare out here is heavy.

    • @marylewis1218
      @marylewis1218 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I Love my Pastor it seem every message he speaks on has been a part of my life all I can say that I’m much better and things are going great for me I’m on top and going higher thanks for the message from my pastor RC Blake And Lisa Blake they are true people of God The wisdom is awesome and the teachings words cannot explain or express

  • @Dr.JudeAEMasonMD
    @Dr.JudeAEMasonMD 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You can’t heal in the same system that broke you, sometimes you gotta divorce your broken family and friends and go sit down somewhere to get whole.

  • @lynking4496
    @lynking4496 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Though I was raised with a father, he did not teach me a thing about relationships. I had to navigate my way. Now at my age of should know better. I’m trying to figure it out. Thankful for these videos. Learning and working to become the best version of me.

  • @KeeMoversLLC
    @KeeMoversLLC 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had the chance to meet RC Blakes .
    His presence lit up the room. Anointed man of God. He signed my book 📕😊. Very nice Man.
    He is like a father to me. I watch his videos everyday. His teachings healed me and I am enjoying the single life . No rush for me
    Im waiting on GOD! Thank you Pastor😇
    No more poor Choices in Men !!!!!! Not ACCEPTING Less than I DESERVE!!!!

  • @scorpio03able
    @scorpio03able 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This was a great video, I decided to take a break in 2019 from dating because I wasn't healed , I just filled that void with unhealthy relationships. Now in 2022, I have learned so much by taking a break by spending more time with God and taking care of myself. I am able to see differently compared to how I used to see before in my life. Well I can go on and on, I just want to say Thank you and taking a break is need everyone should fo after a relationship has ended.

  • @healthylifestyleandhealthy2023
    @healthylifestyleandhealthy2023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I just want to thank you and Lisa for your ministry, and I truly appreciate your transparency as a father figure, your messages has allowed me to start practicing self -love and focus on healing.

    • @kathleenwilkins1803
      @kathleenwilkins1803 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thank you and your wife .I'm broking and appreciate every teaching that I've watch ..You're father figure that I never had ...So amazing that I praying asking God for guidance due to the Trama I dealt with in my life ... Thank you God..

  • @stephanies.3198
    @stephanies.3198 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Bishop RC Blakes has really been Blessing me. I wish I had this awareness sooner, after being married to a narcists for a decade. But I am finally on my way to be happy, healthy and whole again. I am doing the work and so Blessed to have these tools now.

  • @kizzythompson3135
    @kizzythompson3135 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Thank you Lord Holy Spirit for clarity and healing in my life Amen.

  • @kellynostin
    @kellynostin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I think men need these messages more than women. The focus is always on the woman healing and changing and I feel this is where the problem lies. There NEEDS to be more of a focus on the men changing and healing for their to be a balance with the feminine and masculine. If women keep healing and men don’t then where is the balance of energies.

    • @overcomerbtboj
      @overcomerbtboj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Pastor has his kingology series for men as well as the book - he agrees that both men and women need healing

  • @Classy_Lady23
    @Classy_Lady23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This man of God in this Generation is being used to bring woman back to who God has ordained them to be. Too many woman has lost their self worth which has cause men to also move out of their place. This is a big problem cause men are the head of their family and this is such a powerful important factor that many people don't see 👀 .Little by little God is restoring for many are called but few are chosen. GOD bless Dr. Blakes

    • @godesslybeautifuable
      @godesslybeautifuable 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Say it again!!! Lol. May the Father bless you. We are very well needed as women to help with the shift while helping our men🙌🏾

  • @guestmaker-v2m
    @guestmaker-v2m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I cannot wait for this anointed message because it’s going to help so many of us

  • @onevenus6040
    @onevenus6040 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bishop Blakes you always say that you aren't a counselor or a mental health professional but when I tell you that YEARS of therapy did nothing for me as much as listening to your videos for the last couple of years has is an understatement. The best thing I got from therapy was being able to vent, but listening to your plain common sense teaching has allowed me to examine myself, my surroundings, and put things in the proper perspective. I can process information instead of being reactive now. You have no idea what a difference you have made in so many people's lives.

  • @marisolrivera5255
    @marisolrivera5255 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is so true. You speak from the heart. Its sad but this teaches me to be in my feminine energy . Best to be alone than to be with an insecure man . I won't allow no man destroy me It took years to heal from abuse lied to cheated and SA . And with God and therapy i learned to love myself . Thank you Pastor Blake 🙏 God bless needed this 🙏

  • @kristinsmith5954
    @kristinsmith5954 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    You are such a comfort Pastor 💗I always feel so affirmed, just hearing your voice.

  • @jennifercarleton7550
    @jennifercarleton7550 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love you RC! You're the best. A real man protects women and society, he doesn't subject society to his aggressive and sinful nature, but resurrects the Christ-seed in him to do good and to bring God into the earthly realm. God bless you and your family

  • @littleclay1838
    @littleclay1838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Respect and submission is very very easy with a healthy relationship. Key word is respect.....and even when your trying to respect an angry individual.....they will see it as disrespect because they have not healed themselves, and their walk is paved with hate.

  • @sarahstarr
    @sarahstarr ปีที่แล้ว

    "You can never respect or trust a man fully if you get triggered by words like submission or respect because you have pent up anger that you gotta heal. Stop. Process. Heal!"
    Perfect!

  • @telishadennis3013
    @telishadennis3013 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    From watching this, it seems as if part of your wife's healing happened with you earning her trust. I love this cause healing also means stepping back out there in due time and allowing time for validity to take place and if it don't then you didn't over expose yourself to the disappointment and still able to move on still whole.

  • @vaclinciapounds8859
    @vaclinciapounds8859 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Thank you pastor blakes for your words of wisdom! I have watched about 20 segments since discovering you two months ago on TH-cam. You are truly a blessing! 🙏🏽 🙏🏽 🙏🏽

    • @lala5061
      @lala5061 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ooooh u got a lot of good content to hear 😁...once u start its hard to stop pastor on point 👏🏽!

  • @rhiannonrhiannon6285
    @rhiannonrhiannon6285 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't think I have ever heard a man talk like this. Wow!! Amazing!! Thank you for being such a amazing human being!

  • @donnajeffreys8252
    @donnajeffreys8252 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wish BISHOP BLAKE'S had a church near my home so I could go !! What a blessing his ministering is to me Thank God for you Bishop 🙏🏾🙏🏾 I've been single for many years, I'm kind of afraid to try a relationship again even though I do want my soul mate but It's so peaceful being single.,..

  • @sandragreen5146
    @sandragreen5146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Preach!!🙌🙌❤️that's what i just got through dealing with the broken man im no longer with! Im on my way to healing now🙏🙏🙏

  • @sandragreen5146
    @sandragreen5146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This video came on time🙌 i needed to hear this. I'm on my way to healing now.🙏thanks Pastor😊❤️

  • @UPMin3
    @UPMin3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Amen. Amen. Amen. Clarity and Healing, In the Name of Jesus. God bless you and your family 🙏🙏🙏

  • @patriciasydney9526
    @patriciasydney9526 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was so inspiring. Every sentence allowed me to think about my previous relationship and if I had really healed. Being single for some time has me conducting DUE DILIGENCE on myself. Bishop RC Blakes messages is really assisting me in my singleness. I thank God for using his platform as it ministers to me Spirituality. God bless this ministry.

  • @ncjp
    @ncjp 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bishop, what you said about giving out trust in small doses with inconsequential things was OUTSTANDING advice. That is a great strategy that helps with discerning people, catching red flags early and if necessary, leaving people right where you found them before you waste anymore of your time. That hit my soul. I needed to hear that, thank you! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @aliciaheard2192
    @aliciaheard2192 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Straight to the point, non-religious, non-judgmental, wise counsel is the best way I can describe Bishop Blakes. I am thankful for his authenticity. It has helped me a lot.

  • @isabelltecaxco4987
    @isabelltecaxco4987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God bless you RC Blakes, I'm a 61yrs old Hispanic lady in Tucson Ariz and I've been through trauma all my life. Two failed marriages and no children. I feel weak and out of strength, I've been abstinent since 2015 and I time is flying by. I'm a very lonely lady with a cat to talk to. I live in low income apt and one SSI ck a month . I don't think God hears me anymore, also I know that I need DELIVERANCE! Please pray for me, hurting in Tucson Ariz

    • @segalewilson7270
      @segalewilson7270 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God always hears our cry but sometimes we allow shame, pain and fear to stop us from healing. My suggestion for you is that you find a good bible based church and become a part of the women's group. Make friends. But as Bishop Blakes said you have to be intuitive and choose them wisely, let God choose them for you. Then you will have people to share you experiences with. Use what you have learned to help and guide the young folks in the church. Don't allow fear to stop you. God has not given us a spirit of fear. Fear is from the devil. God gave us power, love and sound mind. Use what you have and go be powerful, love yourself and others.

    • @patriciadavis3549
      @patriciadavis3549 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Trauma is REAL and so adversely affects our lives! I feel your pain of how it feels when you get in that place and feel like His doesn't hear you or respond to you. One thing that I find that eases things for me is to pray to God until you fall asleep. I hope you find the day to be a bit brighter when you wake up after you do this 🙏 🌞💖

    • @angiedawn-nq3tn
      @angiedawn-nq3tn 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@segalewilson7270 k

  • @lanarose2460
    @lanarose2460 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The way Bishop Blakes ministers to my spirit has immensely propelled my evolution and impacted by level of clarity. I truly appreciate hearing him say “I’m gon’ be here to guide you through it.” Therapy helped, but RC Blakes propelled my transformation and keeps me grounded/ focused.

  • @Dr.J1972
    @Dr.J1972 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I appreciate YOU Bishop Blakes. I am looking forward to the teachings. God's BLESSINGS be with you and Mrs. Lisa Blakes.

  • @hughes2victory
    @hughes2victory 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Sir. Found your channel in April last year after leaving a very toxic, spirit breaking, 3 year relationship with a super Narcissist. I know that God set me up and on course to have your video pop up out of know where...
    God has rescued my life and I am on my healing journey and have never been alone without children, grandchildren, spouse or someone in my life in 53 years so a lot of 1st happening for me...I appreciate your life changing Words!!!

  • @latoybraxton949
    @latoybraxton949 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Bishop Blake's your lessons seems to keep getting better & better. Love your wisdom & straight forth teachings.I really appreciate you & Lisa. Thank you for all that you do .

    • @vee2890
      @vee2890 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Better & Better!!

  • @mariazapata1346
    @mariazapata1346 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you, gracias, gracias, Pastor. Absolutely healing and very much needed. All my love for you and your lovely and caring family. Maria from Buenos Aires, Argentina .

  • @uniqueduffie2783
    @uniqueduffie2783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have that habit not giving myself time to heal one relationship to the next not healthy much needed to hear this message 🙌🏽

  • @godesslybeautifuable
    @godesslybeautifuable 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hallelujah Hallelujah, Glory be to God!! For Father you deserve all the praise. I thank you RC Blake’s for your wisdom and obedience. This was a phenomenal jab and jaw breaking message. Please ladies share with your circle of friends and family who are women so that we can help raise up a future generation of women who can be healthy and whole biblical women to our sons and grandsons. 🙌🏾

  • @Sojourner_TruthBW44
    @Sojourner_TruthBW44 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Lord it seem like healing may take a lifetime at this point based on what he is saying. Trust...man people lie so much for no reason til what's the point. 👊🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯💯💯💯That part; what he said. Give a little and watch and see.

    • @lala5061
      @lala5061 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes some will lie even when you have proof that's where it becomes very intolerable 😒

  • @elizabethbirdallgreer2773
    @elizabethbirdallgreer2773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank You for routing this video to me. Very good confirmation, I am healed, and now have a Godly woman’s consciousness. Stepping into divine grace after quarantine feels good that I made it. When it’s the right man, we will know because it’s God sent and all the bells and whistles line up when we doing the right things by his word.

  • @Tnc874
    @Tnc874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wasnt this on last night? I knew something wasn't right because it started at like 1:30 am. Lol. But I'll be watching again today because i fell asleep on it last night

  • @sasanewnew557
    @sasanewnew557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you so much you have helped me in my healing process. May God continue to bless you 🙏🏽

  • @sonyagutierrez1557
    @sonyagutierrez1557 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I didnt think I needed someone to teach me how to love. I thought it would come natural for me. I am 40yrs old a single women and I just want to be happy as best I can with or without a man wrather I get what I want or not. I just want to have fun as best I can. You have taught me alot and I am trying to get out this toxic relationship I got. Cuz he let me no I ain't the one. Not in those words. But he can't tell me I'm the one after he let me no I am not. Thanks so much for guiding me. You're right! 😊

  • @ntombimngomezulu2031
    @ntombimngomezulu2031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is taking to me. Anger and trust issues. Healing is a must do. Whoou each time I listen to you, I grow mentally and spiritualy. Thank you🙏🙏

  • @karenbailey921
    @karenbailey921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I truly appreciate you Bishop RC Blakes for being honest about male and female relationships. God continue to bless you and your wife.

  • @michelleleigh3739
    @michelleleigh3739 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Preach it brother - raw honesty - one must go through it / can’t rush it or get a quick fix - one must go through it and have jesus help me ( us) go through it -choosing our pain 🙏💔

  • @michaeldande
    @michaeldande 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    5 things
    Why are you in a relationship after another n another..
    Broken consciousness
    1)Built up anger
    Ref proverbs 26 23:25
    2)Never be able to trust for fear of rejection
    3)You will the never be able to navigate the relationship without the ups not downs
    Ref James 1:19
    4)You will never be able to see a great man
    5)You will never give off a healthy feminine energy
    Guard n protect your heart
    How do you heal
    A)Quarentine
    B)Spirirual encounter
    C)Honest Reflection
    D)Face your fears
    E)Establish a new Normal

  • @roxanelacy5104
    @roxanelacy5104 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you so much. This is gold! God bless you and all on here and your families!!

  • @tamarabrown7845
    @tamarabrown7845 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love this. Thank you for using your gift to sharing with us

  • @empowered3206
    @empowered3206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am sending this to my sister cause this is the reason why she can't keep a man. Thanks pastor

  • @chosen11chosen
    @chosen11chosen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    RC Said “I have a good one today” uhhhhhhh 😁
    ALLLLLL your content is a Blessing & Good!
    🙌🏽❤️💜 RC Blakes is needed and appreciated!

  • @WendyBush-rn5yy
    @WendyBush-rn5yy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I so wish I found you years ago. Bless you and your wife for helping us all realize all things.

  • @kristinandreasmith4448
    @kristinandreasmith4448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wonderful, healing message 🙏🏾. Thank you Pastor 🙌🏾!

  • @lexw.5477
    @lexw.5477 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was great !!!💯💯🙏🏾bless your and your wife for the wisdom willing to share with us, won’t go unnoticed 💯!

  • @kaleema1987
    @kaleema1987 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Healing is a must, I totally agree! I feel any individual man or woman need to take time to reflect and spend time knowing thyself and by doing that is knowing God. Whatever hurt you have not address can follow you and your going to keep attracting the same familiar spirits that’s in you. Heal before you deal! 😊🙏

  • @lucette396
    @lucette396 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank You Mr RC Blakes. You Truly are A Gift from God that Keeps on Giving. Thank You for being a Vessel in My Courageous Journey to Inner Healing, Self Discovery, and Self Love🙏🏽💙

  • @eleanortrinidad4403
    @eleanortrinidad4403 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your teaching and guidance. I began to learn about broken people and why they destroy marriages and relationships. Whenever I felt sorrow and sadness God lifted me up and I became a stronger minded woman.

  • @Sunshine-yz3rk
    @Sunshine-yz3rk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much for this RC Blakes. Stay amazing ♥️

  • @tamarag9981
    @tamarag9981 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If you keep starting new relationships or romances one immediately after the other, you'll be living in pain.

  • @gem4365
    @gem4365 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Jesus for this message. Mr. RC Blake's you are the father figure I've never had. You are anointed and truly blessed. Your messages have changed my life. I'm learning so much. Godbless you sir.

  • @avianne
    @avianne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This sermon spoke to me. Thank you, Pastor for investing in our growth. It's now up to us women to practice what you preach! ❤

  • @walkingwiththemosthighgod4507
    @walkingwiththemosthighgod4507 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was a powerhouse. 🙏

  • @jesssoreal
    @jesssoreal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God truly uses this man. God has used RC Blake’s to Father me from a distance.

  • @jean_6524
    @jean_6524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    3rd time listening to this one and all I can say is God bless you. Thank you so much

  • @sarahkennedy1481
    @sarahkennedy1481 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Single women need a group to support each other.

  • @hawaiigirl8089
    @hawaiigirl8089 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have quarantined
    for over 2 years now! No sex avoided dating.
    Going back to church Sunday & Wednesday nites! Tithing.

  • @marshalyons8056
    @marshalyons8056 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    RC Blake’s, I thank God for you and Lisa💚🙏🏾🙏

  • @cherylwiley2653
    @cherylwiley2653 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bishop Bishop Bishop, thank you for this word. This is confirmation of my healing from Anger and how to move forward in my deliverance 🙌🏾

  • @louisianaqueen
    @louisianaqueen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much Bishop 🥰this message was very helpful for me. I’m in a time of my life of healing and learning new habits, God is able. I trust in Him to keep my family and I close to Him and I just love Him so much. Thank you Heavenly Father 🥰

  • @breakthrough1019
    @breakthrough1019 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pastor Blakes .. I found healing in your videos… self love .. validation comes from within .. I realized that being covered up and taking good care of oneself is indeed a beautiful and attractive quality

  • @kjack3211
    @kjack3211 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pastor RC Blakes you're definitely like a father figure to me. My life has drastically improved and my mindset has changed when it comes to relationships and men . I'm currently healed from my past heart break thanks to my Lord and savior Jesus and therapy and your videos.

  • @mbm97r
    @mbm97r 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I appreciate you speaking on the impact of toxic masculinity, and what some of those toxic traits are.

  • @heavenbound6862
    @heavenbound6862 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pastor Blake you are so wise; I see Jesus in you.!!!

  • @meoshiabrooks4139
    @meoshiabrooks4139 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Every part of me is screaming "Thank you!!!". I appreciate you, Pastor Blakes and Mrs. Lisa. I have grown and healed tremendously because of your teachings. Thank you!!!

  • @Afterthehealing
    @Afterthehealing 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I came across Bishops Blake's messages after a break up and my life has changed completely. God is so faithful and he knew not only did I need HIM but someone in the natural to help me as I move forward into my future me. God bless you and your beautiful wife 🙏🏾 ❤️ I'm blessed by your service.

  • @humblekingg9007
    @humblekingg9007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing this message PRC Blakes Jr it's a reality, my life is so much better choosing to heal. Working to be a better person daily Jesus dying for me is my motivation hallelujah!😇🙏 No,my life perfect but I'm happy and focused not rich in material things but rich with Gods love in my heart. Blessed, to be able to take care of my self and understand the difference from living as a grown man vs a grown boy. THANK YOU GOD!

  • @thequeenmidas
    @thequeenmidas 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Every time things take a dip, you go on and flip". I just felt like rhyming there🙈

  • @chipie4318
    @chipie4318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All l can say is thank you Pastor RC Blakes 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @empowered3206
    @empowered3206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I would rather b by myself then go crawling underneath another man cause all it's going to be is the same man in a different body, with the same behavior so no thank you!

  • @carlam.474
    @carlam.474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Pastor Blakes for this clear and concise word on healing!!! It truly blessed my soul. May God continue to bless you and Mrs. Blakes richly!

  • @marisolrivera5255
    @marisolrivera5255 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sad men often say they look for committment but then they seem to be reject . That is what society seems temporary instead of healthy relationships

  • @bigbadwolf444
    @bigbadwolf444 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just found your channel when I was telling my friend that we need a queen school for the next generation of girls. I'm gonna buy your program at the end of the month and hopefully I can ripple this healing outward. 🙏🏽 I appreciate your teaching and knowledge. God bless you pastor.

  • @jennifersesley1998
    @jennifersesley1998 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank You Pastor, l love this message, l am recently going through this process. I appreciate your knowledge, Bless You and the Family ❤

  • @ceciliafrancescon7809
    @ceciliafrancescon7809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you
    Pastor Blake