I've often stated that this is the plight of certain types of Narcissists. They choose dysfunction because not only does it grant them what they want (in the moment) but also the rejection of people feeds into their self-fulfilling prophecy that the world is against them. This is not a place for their victims to get stuck lthinking of the cause of their malignancy) but rather the place where their therapist could explore.' For their victims, point blank period they are UNSAFE.
Its automatic for me to I know that no matter what He is speaking about my Soul is sho nuff gone get fed!!!! He is a true blessing and a Man of God totally transparent!!!♥️
"SAFE People" do what they say and say what they mean . Too bad they are far and few in between. When you happen upon one , hold on too them. You may never find another.
I hear you Shayla Fitzgerald. I've been that 'Safe Person' for many especially in my family but no-one has been there for me. I hope & pray that I will meet my 'Safe Person' someday.
I agree wholeheartedly. The problem for many is that when you are trying to move away from the person who has brought brokenness into your life, you are then faced with feelings of loneliness. To pull yourself away from someone you once loved is a difficult process. It takes time to heal and not everyone heals at the same pace, some longer than others. During this process there is a need to contact the person whom you once loved, as an attachment was formed. It takes time to let go during this difficult process. It is important to have support from either family or close friends, but not everyone has support. It helps if you have a personal relationship with God, as in solitude, He will lead you through the pain. God bless!
This is right on time... I feel that I took a blow so strong that I feel that it disconnected my soul from my physical body, And I can't figure out how to rejoin the two. I have been walking through life numb, l got so bad that I have worked jobs that I don't even remember going to. I just wanted to get back to myself and begin to live again.
I had this same experience. It was so awful. I think it was like what the Bible says about being cast into outer darkness. I am in the process with the help and grace of God to have my soul restored. God bless you on your journey and may He fill you with all the spiritual blessings He promised. I would not wish this experience on anyone. He promised that He will not snuff out a smoldering wick and He is faithful. Restoration is not possible in my own power, but with God all things are possible!
Sounds like dissociation or dissociative identity disorder. Y'all should look into it. I am not saying I have it but I definitely can relate to working jobs and not remembering what happened there. This literally juet happened to me. Never before in my life I experienced this. www.webmd.com/mental-health/dissociative-identity-disorder-multiple-personality-disorder
I am not even halfway through this video and have written notes of about 2 pages. I'm currently on this journey of my soul being healed. It's painful because you have to be truly honest with yourself and purge, get to the deep root of the matter. I cried, I shaked, I fasted, I prayed. I forced myself to dig deeper than I ever have before. Holy Spirit revealed and I dealt with it and the healing process began. Repentance, Forgiveness, Obedience, was key to my healing. I had to learn that "Life and Death are in the Power of the Tongue" is not a quote from the bible but it holds true to what I speak into my life and who I allow to speak into my life. Who those words are coming into agreement with. God (Elohiym) or Satan and the Demonic realm. I hope this will help someone. Much Love to you and your wife for all the work and love that you do to help women around the world heal and become whole again.
@@sdpr251 Thank you! This year I turned that quote, because that was how I used it for the past few years, so unfortunate, but the Lord showed me just how power it is for me to watch what I had been speaking not so much to others but to myself. I am so mindful now of the things I say.
Betrayal is defined by an individual. No one's story is the same or worse than others. Betrayal is still betrayal. God bless everyone. I have been betrayed on so many levels but I know someone else feels different about their own experience.
Wow RC you are describing me to a tea. Please keep me in prayer to rid myself 100 percent from this nonstop hurt from the father wound of molestation at 5 years old. I’m so sick of carrying this. Thank God I NO LONGER WANT TO LIVE IN THIS. I know also it has caused digestive issues which I’ve discussed with my gastroenterologist. He told me the gut is ur second brain and a documentary I watched called Gut on Amazon Prime the French gastrointestinal Doctors said this is related to our damaged nervous system. I know this is all connected.
It is quite challenging to overcome the gaslighting, the love bombing, the emotional / psychological games these demonic spirits play on individuals. It’s a cycle of abuse perpetuated on us empaths for the sport of it as they manipulate sex, money, ego strokes, and power. We must grieve the love we thought we had, learn about ourselves and Narcissist, and learn also why / how we allowed these snakes into our lives in the first place! What void did the snake sniff in us and then PRETEND to fulfill. It is spiritual warfare at its best and will take the Holy Spirit to empower us to fight and win the battle!! It will be a painful process. No shortcuts allowed! View Pastor R C Blake’s You Tube videos on the Narcissist and how to break the soul ties left in their wake! It’s been 2 years of No Contact (easier since no children involved). Having a closer walk with God, along with two supportive godly friends has helped with healing. Carmen, I pray you are further along on your healing path.
@@phanda7877 i have pain so excrushiating in my soul ive been suffering for such a long time i havent been able to do anything my life is like hell i really need help fr God
@@rennesmith7300 : I'm not sure where the Bishop is, however, I have some family who are up north in Wisconsin and they said that they have been getting snow. I'm guessing places up north, maybe East.
classyt20f7 I didn’t fully understand the spiritual battle as well. Until a messenger was sent to me (narcissist) he showed me how far off track. I kicked him out my life and surrendered/submitted my soul to Christ. I am working on releasing all my trash. Retraining my mind. And surrendering my soul to God.
Thank you brother Blakes. I have chosen you as my psychologist and counselor. I left Az and moved to Alaska because it had been a desire of mine for many years and also served to get far away from narcissistic abuse of a spouse. Ur programs have helped lead me onto the road of total healing. U are a man for the times. Thank you
“What good would it do to get everything you want and lose you, the real you?” 😳 Very well said.... Thank you Pastor for these effective, meaningful words...
Emotionally broken by spouse, betrayed by family and close friends, financially broken by colleagues betrayal, broken by bad health and broken by other external factors including homelessness---all has happened for several years. THE INJURY IS BEYOND, the intent by the enemy is to LEAVE US BROKEN FOREVER. "What good is to gain the world but to lose your soul." I GET IT ALL NOW. By early 2019 the PAIN WAS THE WORST EVER. I reached out to God, the Holy Spirit to cleanse me, to empower me. My soul is recovering now BETTER THAN EVER for I'm FINALLY INTO ME. In the past, I thought I knew me until I recently realized the REAL SOURCE of my pain since childhood. And THIS AN-ALL BROKENNESS OF MY SOUL HAS HELPED ME HOLISTICALLY and for a better now and the future. Thank you Pastor RC Blakes for ALL your videos on pain. PRAISE BE TO GOD.
Honestly I felt like crap after having my soul damage I wanted to live in Pain because I didn't feel like working up to being who I was before. I felt as if there is no hope. I felt terrible that I promised God one thing and broke my promise I kept for many years..... this video helped me realize where I am I just need healing and a willingness to allow healing in my life..... thanks :)
RC Blakes sin that is not confessed can never be forgiven. You could have spoke with God only, but when you exposed yourself (PUTTING YOURSELF ON A CROSS) broken hearts are set free......THE PAIN OF A BROKEN HEART, MY GOD....I have been to a lot of different churches, and this is the honest to God Truth. You are the only man I have known to begin with truth that starts in the mirror. Because of that, you are the Truest Preacher I have ever known. Thankyou Sir. God gave you a Beautiful wife, both inside and out. Only God can give that gift. Be blessed 🤗🤗🤗
I have really been going THROUGH IT. And after praying today this message came on. It's NOBODY BUT GOD USING YOU TO SPEAK TO ME. PEACE AND BLESSINGS. ALWAYS.... AMEN
Pastor blake i came across your channel and I believe it was for a reason your videos have helped me so much and I just want to tell you that you are very appreciated
Same here if I have not came upon this channel. I would be insane. I had No clue. What a Narcissist was. And how dangerous they are. Had No clue what I was dealing with or how to get away. Especially when unconsciously I was dating men like my dad.
Pastor Blake has also helped me . I had never heard of a narcissist until 2 yrs ago from a friend . When I started seeing narcissist traits in my (2 weeks now) ex boyfriend I began doing research on Narcissism and my ex fits a lot of it . Pastor Blake has help me to understand so much about this sickness. I want to say thank you Pastor and keep doing these awesome works God has called you to do... You are a blessing in my life . I also have many more questions about this sickness .
it is because you speak your truth that your messages resonate with me so well. I love that you share your personal failures as much as you do ... I love your hats ... I love that you keep it real ... you are the best preacher to have. You absolutely should share your personal life as you do. That's the kind of preacher or leader that I want ... your transparency is the best. I think to myself ... If Pastor Blakes overcame his addictions and challenges, then so too can I.
I ABSOLUTELY love that you share your shortcomings and your old ways. It makes you even more human in my eyes and brings hope for us individuals who are now struggling with what you overcame! It seems some people Idolize their pastors and they can do no wrong when in fact, even the man in the bible called Jesus "Good teacher" and Jesus responded why do you call me good? Only God is good! (Luke 18:18-19)
Pastor don’t you let these devils stop your ability to be able to relate to all of us ....Let it flow your doing just fine blessings to you your wife & family 🙏🏾
I am so grateful for this message Pastor Blake!! May God continue to richly bless you and your family! 🙌🙌 I am in the healing process right now and with God he is seeing me through.
I respect you more because of your truth. It's needed to help others get FREE! Growing up all I heard was "do as I say not as I do" or "just pray about it and you'll make it." My struggles with staying celibate were real and prayer alone didn't work. Accountability partner helped, staying occupied with other things helped, new surroundings and new outlets all helped. I make better choices now. If I see the relationship isn't going anywhere, I no longer stay just for companionship, that's a waste of time. I have a full life as a single now. I'm thankful I'm free! And excited about my journey! Be Blessed! I'm waiting for you to come back to NC.
I have a desire to be hold that has been my life to a few months ago but I felt and knew it was not right I’ve been praying for a new no one has put it the way you have I am free and now I know not to walk that journey anymore I m going to make it now Have been listening to you since the passing by listening to you another came alone and I saw what you teach about right away and was able to tell them to get to stepping even know it’s been yrs but still not in a hurry I pray that God continue to keep me like he did when I was married before he pass thank God he kept me and my body Keep telling the true We all need this young and old Thank God for you
Sharing your personal failures is a good thing because people need to know that you are human with human failings... People lose faith in the church due to hypocrisy
Thank you Mr. Blakes.as I always say.. thanks for your wisdom, transparency and prayers.. My soul has truly been broken.. but I'm praying and fighting daily to heal, not become bitter but BETTER.,, please keep me in your prayers.. I will continue to pray for discernment in every area of my life.. this truly blessed me and I WILL come out on the other side of this stronger, wiser and "BETTER".. ""This too shall pass."....Blessings..💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
It has taken me years to heal from a heartbreak from relatives I've helped that has turned against me. I was there for them, but that one time changed it all. I forgive them, yet the pain is still there. 😢
This talk you just gave is SO timely. I asked God to help me because I don't know what the problem is right now. I found your video and it explained me to a tee. Everything you said was bang on. No words can express how grateful I am to you. Further more I am grateful that you talk about how your life was before. It gives me hope for myself. I can't relate to people who haven't been through some really heavy stuff. God bless you and your family always.❤❤❤❤❤
Respect you so much pastor Blake’s Your videos are all I’ve been watching and listening too for a long time now and it’s helping me to break free and expose my hurt to begin my healing story . Thanks 🙏
Thank you Pastor, for sharing your young life experiences, because it helps others to learn from it and how God did turn your life around. God bless you
"When your Soul is Broken, the Person is Divorced from him or herself." Thank you for that insightful information. Now, we must utilize new skills of Love, Patience, Wisdom, Strength, Etc, to heal ourselves. Mend our Shattered Hearts, Sew the Torn Frabric of Our Spirit.
Right Pastor, I always said, my stories does not belong to me.. I cannot keep it, because someone else can be healed too. When you share your imperfections and God’s deliverance, He can deliver them too... Be blessed...
Is it snowing? ☺️ Oh my. Just got to the end of this and I had to cry.... this was truly for me. Time to be made whole and stop talking like I am a victim. Thank you!!!
I think that it is easier to repair when the opposition moves on, but they can't because they are accustomed to hvg this fly in his jar. My day of true freedom to be me is on the way, recovery is a long process and I am taking it one hour at a time. He knows what he is doing and I have to stop giving it the time of day. I know the signs, I should work harder to ignore them. My children and I have been separated so I am hvg to move forward with that as well. Happiness is elusive I think, and I have to move forward happy or not. I will move forward with whatever I am feeling, but there are days that I have to spend time with my pain. I thank you for your words, your love for humans, I respect everything that you stand for. This is a powerful video. Lastly, as long as I am not sitting around peering into the lives of others and finding ways to destroy them or do harm to their loved ones, or out shooting up workplaces or Synagogues I am doing just fine. Yes, a part of me is broken but the rest of me loves life, I love my children, and I am not out to harm others. God bless.
I am not waiting on anyone to help me get into the pool when the hand of God has already been exstended to me and at anytime the comforter who is able to lead me into all truth which causes the lies of the enemy to desapate forever in Jesus name
God bless you as well may God continue to use you to heal others I am so thankful to hear all of your messages and I take heed to your messages may God continue to bless you and your beautiful wife take care
pastor, thank you. i am crushed, stressed, and overwhelmed. i am saved; i know the Lord; i know He loves me. but after some crushing professional & personal blows, i feel stuck. thru tears, i heard u today. i know God is my Father, but i long for my absent earthly father. i wish u were my dad. ur so spiritually wise & i feel like i cood tell u everything. thank u for ur advice, words of wisdom, and prayers. hopefully u will come to los angeles. if so, i will be there to learn, to grow, and to hug u & lisa. ❤️🙏🏾🌻
You are so right it did damage my life I told someone today that I had to forgive so God will forgive me when I mess up God allowed you to talk to me/ my spirit and mind to help me move forward
This was so profound, so full of wisdom. I am going through healing after relationship with a narcissist. Your words are so helpful towards healing. Thank you!
Right timing Pastor! All of a sudden I feel broken all over again even though I thought it’s behind me. Old triggers came up to the surface I need to heal on a deeper level. Thank you for your words of comfort, wisdom and your prayers. God bless you. Merci 🙏🏻
You have helped me so much Bishop. I thank you for allowing God to use you. Your wife also. Her story is my story but worse. I’m so grateful for the teaching & how God is blessing me.
In agreement with this whole message and proverbs 18:14, mark 8:36, john 5:5-9, 1 john 4:1, hebrews 12:15, john 8:32, 2 corinthians 6:14-15, matthew 6:24, 1 john 3:10 I loosen myself of every crushed spirit in my life, the lives of my family and friends, the lives of my colleagues, acquintances, my opponents, those around me and the body of Christ, while loosening myself of every unequal yoke and common share with those with a crushed spirit, loosening myself from those with a crushed spirit, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!
This is for me, I thought this guy loved me and he used me and lead me on and tonight things came to a halt I'm so hurt because he played on my vulnerability and I didn't know it til it was over but I was having doubts early on , thing started to soon I didn't know him well, but the devil did.
It is sooo awful how they can do this to a person....I had the same kind of thing happen ...i felt so used and heartbroken .. It is very hard . .but you are very pretty and in time youll get better and be stronger for it and you wont get burned again ...still right now it hurts like hell and that is the hard part to get thru . God bless you 🙏💝
If you desire a safe relationship with people,you must start with being a safe individual yourself! It's hypocritical to have a expectation of something that you're not walking in yourself! And, this is why it is critical that you get healing in the parts of your life that you know are deeply wounded! I can speak on this because this is what I have done myself in my own life!
Excellent video and thank you for that much needed, heartfelt prayer. It’s taken many years of hard work to free myself from that snake. Blessings to you and yours.
I SOOOOO needed to hear this one....I couldn't understand why I wasn't moving forward and he explained me to the tee.....................thank you for another great one
You couldn't be more right about this word, to the point I've been shackled bound and locked away now I am too start all over pick up the pieces hasn't been a year and yet it feels like a lifetime thank you so much for loving us enough to tell us how to get rid of the hurt you have much love for us to show us how to get it right, to you and yours keep up the good work still listening to this wisdom can't thank God enough for you help us women to heal.🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️💚💛💜.
You are such a blessing, and I appreciate your transparency, because "FREE people help other people become FREE." Thank you for your ministry. It's truly appreciated by MANY, myself included.
Pastor Blakes, sir, sharing about your past and how you have grown and overcome with God's power makes your teaching, your testimony CREDITABLE. Honestly, that is what has won me over & continues to keep me following you. Your sharing is of God. ☺❤
Thank you Pastor for transparency, for obeying our Heavenly Father in our healing process! Your Narcissist videos continue empowering me! Thank you Pastor for addressing the spiritual component, the physical component and emotional / heart component! God bless you!
This is so powerful & so true 💔 ~ What really hurts is when you can't even 'explain' ~ To your own children...Especially when they are treating you like the narc taught them to ~ It's painful stuff ~ But HOLD ON! ...They may retreat from you ...But God will help them to resurface...Keep Praying♥️♥️♥️ Pray, heal & let God work in your children's lives...Much Love💌
Now you're preaching pastor, this is some good meat thank you thank you thank you for everything that you do because of you and Lisa we women that have been abused by narcissist are being healed 🙏🏾❤
I thank God for Pastor Blakes empowerment of wisdom, understanding and patience to support the needs of God's people to know your worth and value. My hope is to meet you soon. Respectfully, your God sent spiritual daughter you have not met yet. To God be the glory!
"As painful as dysfunction is, it becomes a comfort zone when it's all you've known".
I've often stated that this is the plight of certain types of Narcissists. They choose dysfunction because not only does it grant them what they want (in the moment) but also the rejection of people feeds into their self-fulfilling prophecy that the world is against them.
This is not a place for their victims to get stuck lthinking of the cause of their malignancy) but rather the place where their therapist could explore.' For their victims, point blank period they are UNSAFE.
Safe people has No hidden agenda or ulterior motive. So true.
When you automatically hit the like button. God bless you and yours
Thank you 🙏🏽
No, thank you. Tell Mrs. Lisa I said hello
Its automatic for me to I know that no matter what He is speaking about my Soul is sho nuff gone get fed!!!! He is a true blessing and a Man of God totally transparent!!!♥️
"SAFE People" do what they say and say what they mean . Too bad they are far and few in between. When you happen upon one , hold on too them. You may never find another.
I hear you Shayla Fitzgerald. I've been that 'Safe Person' for many especially in my family but no-one has been there for me. I hope & pray that I will meet my 'Safe Person' someday.
So true!
I want to be one
Beautiful!!! Blessings!!🙏😘💞👣👣👸👸
I agree wholeheartedly. The problem for many is that when you are trying to move away from the person who has brought brokenness into your life, you are then faced with feelings of loneliness. To pull yourself away from someone you once loved is a difficult process. It takes time to heal and not everyone heals at the same pace, some longer than others. During this process there is a need to contact the person whom you once loved, as an attachment was formed. It takes time to let go during this difficult process. It is important to have support from either family or close friends, but not everyone has support. It helps if you have a personal relationship with God, as in solitude, He will lead you through the pain. God bless!
The attack of the soul is to strangle the future. (Profound)
Moriti Molapo Amen! I felt it was a revelation.
Yesss
that line just rocked my entired life. It's life changing
Never lose yourself in any relationship or marriage...have an open mind that people can change at any time not relative to narcissists...
That's right.
Right
This is right on time... I feel that I took a blow so strong that I feel that it disconnected my soul from my physical body, And I can't figure out how to rejoin the two. I have been walking through life numb, l got so bad that I have worked jobs that I don't even remember going to. I just wanted to get back to myself and begin to live again.
I had this same experience. It was so awful. I think it was like what the Bible says about being cast into outer darkness. I am in the process with the help and grace of God to have my soul restored. God bless you on your journey and may He fill you with all the spiritual blessings He promised. I would not wish this experience on anyone. He promised that He will not snuff out a smoldering wick and He is faithful. Restoration is not possible in my own power, but with God all things are possible!
I've seen soul disconnection, actually seen a soul outside of the body with a guy I know
I know that feeling
I used to call this the fragmented soul. I wrote a poem concerning this very thing.
Sounds like dissociation or dissociative identity disorder. Y'all should look into it. I am not saying I have it but I definitely can relate to working jobs and not remembering what happened there. This literally juet happened to me. Never before in my life I experienced this.
www.webmd.com/mental-health/dissociative-identity-disorder-multiple-personality-disorder
I am not even halfway through this video and have written notes of about 2 pages. I'm currently on this journey of my soul being healed. It's painful because you have to be truly honest with yourself and purge, get to the deep root of the matter. I cried, I shaked, I fasted, I prayed. I forced myself to dig deeper than I ever have before. Holy Spirit revealed and I dealt with it and the healing process began. Repentance, Forgiveness, Obedience, was key to my healing. I had to learn that "Life and Death are in the Power of the Tongue" is not a quote from the bible but it holds true to what I speak into my life and who I allow to speak into my life. Who those words are coming into agreement with. God (Elohiym) or Satan and the Demonic realm. I hope this will help someone. Much Love to you and your wife for all the work and love that you do to help women around the world heal and become whole again.
Proverbs 18:21 king James version
@@sdpr251 Thank you! This year I turned that quote, because that was how I used it for the past few years, so unfortunate, but the Lord showed me just how power it is for me to watch what I had been speaking not so much to others but to myself. I am so mindful now of the things I say.
Perfect timing. I've experienced the worst betrayal possible. But I'm healing.
Kenyatta I doubt it sweetheart I guarantee someone has experience worse betrayal that you couldn't even imagine
That's very possible. We all have a story. I pray for healing for all.
Betrayal is defined by an individual. No one's story is the same or worse than others. Betrayal is still betrayal. God bless everyone. I have been betrayed on so many levels but I know someone else feels different about their own experience.
Wow RC you are describing me to a tea. Please keep me in prayer to rid myself 100 percent from this nonstop hurt from the father wound of molestation at 5 years old. I’m so sick of carrying this. Thank God I NO LONGER WANT TO LIVE IN THIS. I know also it has caused digestive issues which I’ve discussed with my gastroenterologist. He told me the gut is ur second brain and a documentary I watched called Gut on Amazon Prime the French gastrointestinal Doctors said this is related to our damaged nervous system. I know this is all connected.
It's very hard when you get ur heart and soul broken by a narcissist. That's a total different story and state of mind.
So true
Carmen Nieves “I can do ALL things through Christ Jesus”
Oh yea
It is quite challenging to overcome the gaslighting, the love bombing, the emotional / psychological games these demonic spirits play on individuals. It’s a cycle of abuse perpetuated on us empaths for the sport of it as they manipulate sex, money, ego strokes, and power.
We must grieve the love we thought we had, learn about ourselves and Narcissist, and learn also why / how we allowed these snakes into our lives in the first place! What void did the snake sniff in us and then PRETEND to fulfill. It is spiritual warfare at its best and will take the Holy Spirit to empower us to fight and win the battle!!
It will be a painful process. No shortcuts allowed! View Pastor R C Blake’s You Tube videos on the Narcissist and how to break the soul ties left in their wake! It’s been 2 years of No Contact (easier since no children involved). Having a closer walk with God, along with two supportive godly friends has helped with healing. Carmen, I pray you are further along on your healing path.
@@phanda7877 i have pain so excrushiating in my soul ive been suffering for such a long time i havent been able to do anything my life is like hell i really need help fr God
Love the snow in the background!
Crystal Grose where is it snowing this late in April?
@@rennesmith7300 : I'm not sure where the Bishop is, however, I have some family who are up north in Wisconsin and they said that they have been getting snow. I'm guessing places up north, maybe East.
I was just about to make this comment 🙃 I was watching the snow the whole time that I was listening. We don't get snow here 😑
This came right on time....It’s been a hard journey for me but I’ve been trying my hardest to heal my soul......It’s taking time.....
Hold on....
You will be healed
classyt20f7 I didn’t fully understand the spiritual battle as well. Until a messenger was sent to me (narcissist) he showed me how far off track. I kicked him out my life and surrendered/submitted my soul to Christ. I am working on releasing all my trash. Retraining my mind. And surrendering my soul to God.
"A healthy soul lives forward!" ~RC Blakes, Jr 🙌🙌🙌
"God will provide all the people that are safe. Sometimes all you need is one" ~ ♥️
Thank you brother Blakes. I have chosen you as my psychologist and counselor. I left Az and moved to Alaska because it had been a desire of mine for many years and also served to get far away from narcissistic abuse of a spouse. Ur programs have helped lead me onto the road of total healing. U are a man for the times. Thank you
Lord please put me in the path of people that will add to my life lord
AMEN
“What good would it do to get everything you want and lose you, the real you?” 😳 Very well said.... Thank you Pastor for these effective, meaningful words...
It's been 2 years but the tears won't stop as I listen to this😢
Emotionally broken by spouse, betrayed by family and close friends, financially broken by colleagues betrayal, broken by bad health and broken by other external factors including homelessness---all has happened for several years. THE INJURY IS BEYOND, the intent by the enemy is to LEAVE US BROKEN FOREVER. "What good is to gain the world but to lose your soul." I GET IT ALL NOW. By early 2019 the PAIN WAS THE WORST EVER. I reached out to God, the Holy Spirit to cleanse me, to empower me. My soul is recovering now BETTER THAN EVER for I'm FINALLY INTO ME. In the past, I thought I knew me until I recently realized the REAL SOURCE of my pain since childhood. And THIS AN-ALL BROKENNESS OF MY SOUL HAS HELPED ME HOLISTICALLY and for a better now and the future. Thank you Pastor RC Blakes for ALL your videos on pain. PRAISE BE TO GOD.
Honestly I felt like crap after having my soul damage I wanted to live in Pain because I didn't feel like working up to being who I was before. I felt as if there is no hope. I felt terrible that I promised God one thing and broke my promise I kept for many years..... this video helped me realize where I am I just need healing and a willingness to allow healing in my life..... thanks :)
This conversation has me in tears, because I know it is TRUTH.
RC Blakes sin that is not confessed can never be forgiven. You could have spoke with God only, but when you exposed yourself (PUTTING YOURSELF ON A CROSS) broken hearts are set free......THE PAIN OF A BROKEN HEART, MY GOD....I have been to a lot of different churches, and this is the honest to God Truth. You are the only man I have known to begin with truth that starts in the mirror. Because of that, you are the Truest Preacher I have ever known. Thankyou Sir. God gave you a Beautiful wife, both inside and out. Only God can give that gift. Be blessed 🤗🤗🤗
I have really been going THROUGH IT. And after praying today this message came on. It's NOBODY BUT GOD USING YOU TO SPEAK TO ME. PEACE AND BLESSINGS. ALWAYS.... AMEN
Pastor blake i came across your channel and I believe it was for a reason your videos have helped me so much and I just want to tell you that you are very appreciated
Same here if I have not came upon this channel. I would be insane. I had No clue. What a Narcissist was. And how dangerous they are. Had No clue what I was dealing with or how to get away. Especially when unconsciously I was dating men like my dad.
Pastor Blake has also helped me . I had never heard of a narcissist until 2 yrs ago from a friend . When I started seeing narcissist traits in my (2 weeks now) ex boyfriend I began doing research on Narcissism and my ex fits a lot of it . Pastor Blake has help me to understand so much about this sickness. I want to say thank you Pastor and keep doing these awesome works God has called you to do... You are a blessing in my life . I also have many more questions about this sickness .
Good video.... After two years.... Not one dislike thumps down!!!!! Everyone can relate to this video. All glory to yahawashi Jesus
Studying this daily for 7 days Because it’s best for me and the ones around me I’m exposed to truth everyday it’s time work on me
I needed this tonight.
SOUL PAIN IS THE WORST PAIN !!
it is because you speak your truth that your messages resonate with me so well. I love that you share your personal failures as much as you do ... I love your hats ... I love that you keep it real ... you are the best preacher to have. You absolutely should share your personal life as you do. That's the kind of preacher or leader that I want ... your transparency is the best. I think to myself ... If Pastor Blakes overcame his addictions and challenges, then so too can I.
I ABSOLUTELY love that you share your shortcomings and your old ways. It makes you even more human in my eyes and brings hope for us individuals who are now struggling with what you overcame!
It seems some people Idolize their pastors and they can do no wrong when in fact, even the man in the bible called Jesus "Good teacher" and Jesus responded why do you call me good? Only God is good!
(Luke 18:18-19)
Keep your eyes forward and on God. I got through it you can get through it. Don't look back..ever!
You ain’t got a key to Heaven or Hell to keep me out of one or let me in the other.....Hallelujah praise God. Bishop Blakes you the real deal♥️
R.C. Blake's...♥️ Thank You ~ For All That You Share With Us ~ I'm So Grateful...🙏
Pastor don’t you let these devils stop your ability to be able to relate to all of us ....Let it flow your doing just fine blessings to you your wife & family 🙏🏾
Some people say your crazy if you talk to yourself. I say your crazy if you don't. Amen say it again.!!👌👌
Conversation is the cleanser of the soul.
I am so grateful for this message Pastor Blake!! May God continue to richly bless you and your family! 🙌🙌 I am in the healing process right now and with God he is seeing me through.
I respect you more because of your truth. It's needed to help others get FREE! Growing up all I heard was "do as I say not as I do" or "just pray about it and you'll make it." My struggles with staying celibate were real and prayer alone didn't work. Accountability partner helped, staying occupied with other things helped, new surroundings and new outlets all helped. I make better choices now. If I see the relationship isn't going anywhere, I no longer stay just for companionship, that's a waste of time. I have a full life as a single now. I'm thankful I'm free! And excited about my journey! Be Blessed! I'm waiting for you to come back to NC.
Our voice is so soothing. Such a great voice of ministering deeply. Thanks for this w many truths in it.
I have a desire to be hold that has been my life to a few months ago but I felt and knew it was not right I’ve been praying for a new no one has put it the way you have
I am free and now I know not to walk that journey anymore I m going to make it now
Have been listening to you since the passing by listening to you another came alone and I saw what you teach about right away and was able to tell them to get to stepping even know it’s been yrs but still not in a hurry I pray that God continue to keep me like he did when I was married before he pass thank God he kept me and my body
Keep telling the true
We all need this young and old
Thank God for you
I'm glad you talk your truth. It shows your human and not this Statue
Sharing your personal failures is a good thing because people need to know that you are human with human failings... People lose faith in the church due to hypocrisy
Thank you Mr. Blakes.as I always say.. thanks for your wisdom, transparency and prayers.. My soul has truly been broken.. but I'm praying and fighting daily to heal, not become bitter but BETTER.,, please keep me in your prayers.. I will continue to pray for discernment in every area of my life.. this truly blessed me and I WILL come out on the other side of this stronger, wiser and "BETTER".. ""This too shall pass."....Blessings..💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Beautiful message! Thank you, RC Blakes! God bless you always! 💯🙏❤️
It has taken me years to heal from a heartbreak from relatives I've helped that has turned against me. I was there for them, but that one time changed it all. I forgive them, yet the pain is still there. 😢
You are transparent Bishop, and that’s good in the sight of the lord
You are the most beautiful teacher ❤ I know. Thank you and Lisa and Member Gang. Lv d
This talk you just gave is SO timely. I asked God to help me because I don't know what the problem is right now. I found your video and it explained me to a tee. Everything you said was bang on. No words can express how grateful I am to you. Further more I am grateful that you talk about how your life was before. It gives me hope for myself. I can't relate to people who haven't been through some really heavy stuff. God bless you and your family always.❤❤❤❤❤
This was very helpful thanks for shining the light.
Respect you so much pastor Blake’s
Your videos are all I’ve been watching and listening too for a long time now and it’s helping me to break free and expose my hurt to begin my healing story . Thanks 🙏
Thank you for being real and upfront.
Thank you Pastor, for sharing your young life experiences, because it helps others to learn from it and how God did turn your life around. God bless you
Amen! Healing begins at point of exposure....thats my word! I believe this word is timely for me Dad..my healing has begun! Praise the LORD
"When your Soul is Broken, the Person is Divorced from him or herself." Thank you for that insightful information. Now, we must utilize new skills of Love, Patience, Wisdom, Strength, Etc, to heal ourselves. Mend our Shattered Hearts, Sew the Torn Frabric of Our Spirit.
Right Pastor, I always said, my stories does not belong to me.. I cannot keep it, because someone else can be healed too. When you share your imperfections and God’s deliverance, He can deliver them too... Be blessed...
Is it snowing? ☺️
Oh my. Just got to the end of this and I had to cry.... this was truly for me. Time to be made whole and stop talking like I am a victim. Thank you!!!
I think that it is easier to repair when the opposition moves on, but they can't because they are accustomed to hvg this fly in his jar. My day of true freedom to be me is on the way, recovery is a long process and I am taking it one hour at a time. He knows what he is doing and I have to stop giving it the time of day. I know the signs, I should work harder to ignore them. My children and I have been separated so I am hvg to move forward with that as well. Happiness is elusive I think, and I have to move forward happy or not. I will move forward with whatever I am feeling, but there are days that I have to spend time with my pain. I thank you for your words, your love for humans, I respect everything that you stand for. This is a powerful video. Lastly, as long as I am not sitting around peering into the lives of others and finding ways to destroy them or do harm to their loved ones, or out shooting up workplaces or Synagogues I am doing just fine. Yes, a part of me is broken but the rest of me loves life, I love my children, and I am not out to harm others. God bless.
I am not waiting on anyone to help me get into the pool when the hand of God has already been exstended to me and at anytime the comforter who is able to lead me into all truth which causes the lies of the enemy to desapate forever in Jesus name
Mr.Blake’s got me crying in front of this phone
Very powerful word Pastor I thank you❤🙌 "broken people break people" spoke volumes!
Everything u say makes perfect sense
God bless you as well may God continue to use you to heal others I am so thankful to hear all of your messages and I take heed to your messages may God continue to bless you and your beautiful wife take care
This is so so real I can't move my I heart just hurts.,
Bless you Bishop Blakes
Your wisdom is balm
pastor, thank you. i am crushed, stressed, and overwhelmed. i am saved; i know the Lord; i know He loves me. but after some crushing professional & personal blows, i feel stuck. thru tears, i heard u today. i know God is my Father, but i long for my absent earthly father. i wish u were my dad. ur so spiritually wise & i feel like i cood tell u everything. thank u for ur advice, words of wisdom, and prayers. hopefully u will come to los angeles. if so, i will be there to learn, to grow, and to hug u & lisa. ❤️🙏🏾🌻
God bless you bishop blakes
Thank you for telling your secrets. It encourages me to do the same!
You are so right it did damage my life I told someone today that I had to forgive so God will forgive me when I mess up
God allowed you to talk to me/ my spirit and mind to help me move forward
A long journey of healing... then I hear this word and I get the last piece of revelation. My God, suddenly happened today!! Thank you Bishop! 🙏🏽
I love it when you pray it for us. Thank you!
This was so profound, so full of wisdom. I am going through healing after relationship with a narcissist. Your words are so helpful towards healing. Thank you!
Love it! "Safe people"...And you better talk to yourself Amen Pastor Blakes ❤
Glad I stumbled on this today and prayers for each person listening, commenting.
Right timing Pastor! All of a sudden I feel broken all over again even though I thought it’s behind me. Old triggers came up to the surface I need to heal on a deeper level. Thank you for your words of comfort, wisdom and your prayers. God bless you. Merci 🙏🏻
You're free and you set us free! Praise God! Thank you, Pastor!
You have helped me so much Bishop. I thank you for allowing God to use you. Your wife also. Her story is my story but worse. I’m so grateful for the teaching & how God is blessing me.
In agreement with this whole message and proverbs 18:14, mark 8:36, john 5:5-9, 1 john 4:1, hebrews 12:15, john 8:32, 2 corinthians 6:14-15, matthew 6:24, 1 john 3:10 I loosen myself of every crushed spirit in my life, the lives of my family and friends, the lives of my colleagues, acquintances, my opponents, those around me and the body of Christ, while loosening myself of every unequal yoke and common share with those with a crushed spirit, loosening myself from those with a crushed spirit, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!
This is for me, I thought this guy loved me and he used me and lead me on and tonight things came to a halt I'm so hurt because he played on my vulnerability and I didn't know it til it was over but I was having doubts early on , thing started to soon I didn't know him well, but the devil did.
It is sooo awful how they can do this to a person....I had the same kind of thing happen ...i felt so used and heartbroken .. It is very hard . .but you are very pretty and in time youll get better and be stronger for it and you wont get burned again ...still right now it hurts like hell and that is the hard part to get thru . God bless you 🙏💝
@@ChristiansPrayingTogether thanks beautiful for taking the time to give me that encouragement I needed to hear it, God bless you sis always 💞
Sad this just happened to me and he ghost me the same day. I am gradually picking myself up from it.
Girl they take I'll breathe away but im much better at peace
I am one of the safe people. I have paid the price for it, severely. The Lord must have a Mighty Blessing for me.
Amen He does!
I felt this in my soul..thank you @RcBlakes..
!! I am ready to be healed..my past failures are under the blood..In the name of Jesus Christ AMEN!!
This message is definitely for me today!!
If you desire a safe relationship with people,you must start with being a safe individual yourself! It's hypocritical to have a expectation of something that you're not walking in yourself! And, this is why it is critical that you get healing in the parts of your life that you know are deeply wounded! I can speak on this because this is what I have done myself in my own life!
"A healthy soul lives forward" ~ very powerful...♥️
Excellent video and thank you for that much needed, heartfelt prayer. It’s taken many years of hard work to free myself from that snake. Blessings to you and yours.
I SOOOOO needed to hear this one....I couldn't understand why I wasn't moving forward and he explained me to the tee.....................thank you for another great one
You couldn't be more right about this word, to the point I've been shackled bound and locked away now I am too start all over pick up the pieces hasn't been a year and yet it feels like a lifetime thank you so much for loving us enough to tell us how to get rid of the hurt you have much love for us to show us how to get it right, to you and yours keep up the good work still listening to this wisdom can't thank God enough for you help us women to heal.🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️💚💛💜.
May the spirit of Love bless you. You are a beautiful soul.
You are such a blessing, and I appreciate your transparency, because "FREE people help other people become FREE."
Thank you for your ministry. It's truly appreciated by MANY, myself included.
💕💕💕 I always love your topic and being transparent is being truly free💕💕💕
You are truly my gift. Thank you for all your educational videos.
Pastor Blakes, sir, sharing about your past and how you have grown and overcome with God's power makes your teaching, your testimony CREDITABLE. Honestly, that is what has won me over & continues to keep me following you. Your sharing is of God. ☺❤
Keep talking about your issues its helping and comforting so many people. God bless you Pastor.
Thank you Pastor for transparency, for obeying our Heavenly Father in our healing process! Your Narcissist videos continue empowering me! Thank you Pastor for addressing the spiritual component, the physical component and emotional / heart component! God bless you!
This is so powerful & so true 💔 ~ What really hurts is when you can't even 'explain' ~ To your own children...Especially when they are treating you like the narc taught them to ~ It's painful stuff ~ But HOLD ON! ...They may retreat from you ...But God will help them to resurface...Keep Praying♥️♥️♥️ Pray, heal & let God work in your children's lives...Much Love💌
Now you're preaching pastor, this is some good meat thank you thank you thank you for everything that you do because of you and Lisa we women that have been abused by narcissist are being healed 🙏🏾❤
Preeeeach!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You better preach sir !!!! "The snake did what snakes do and the man, he had the snake inside the house" 💯🙌🙌🙌
I thank God for Pastor Blakes empowerment of wisdom, understanding and patience to support the needs of God's people to know your worth and value. My hope is to meet you soon. Respectfully, your God sent spiritual daughter you have not met yet. To God be the glory!