ARE YOU READY FOR LOVE- (As in a relationship) by RC BLAKES
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- In this discussion we talk about 5 questions you should ask yourself before going into a relationship. We are not always ready for a relationship.
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1. Have you processed the example of your parents relationship?
2. Have you grown past the pain of your previous situation?
3. Are you whole enough to be honest about your personal shortcomings?
4. Are you mature enough to handle another’s personal truth?
5. Are you established in who you are to the point you know who fits* (i.e. self awareness)?
=Are you ready for love?
Thank you 🙏
Thank you, you are a great note taker.
Thank you 🙏 I
Amen! Thanks Pastor!
Thank you @ Quin Tessa
"People cannot fully love you when you hide yourself."
Today I've learned that if they cannot handle my truth then they are not designed for my future! Bye bye!
Thank you Pastor. Your words of wisdom are making me wise and strong.
So true
Exactly. Enough said. ✌🏽👋🏽💪🏽💃🏾
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Well said...,🙏🙏🙏
When a person knows your struggle and it “scares” them off, they won’t be there in hard times. If they only love the perfect view and not the total person, they don’t have it in themselves to be supportive. But then, what are they afraid of facing in their lives? No need to go any further.
So well stated.
RC Blakes, Jr Thank you. I hope women, and men, really listen to your videos.
Thank you that was a profound insight and friendship evaluation
Doing the work to prepare for the love of my life Thankyou for this message
Yes! When a boy told me I had gone through too many problems, I immediately ended our situation. He let me know right there that he wasn’t strong enough to handle “for better or for worse”. He just wanted “for better”.
I definitely did" the me work"....10 years worth, of pruning, reflecting, and learning. . I'm ready and God has brought me a beautiful man. During those 10 years, I had to Learn me, love me and appreciate me. Letting go of past hurts, and bad relationships. Then I had to Learn selfless love, agape love, how not to bring singleness in a relationship. There came a point, I wanted my one, so I had to Learn us... Putting the pieces of the puzzle together. Who I am as a wife in Christ... Surrendering it all...surrendering bitterness, unforgiveness, low self esteem, my independent woman ways. God has shown me My God given position as a wife, to be a suit to my love. To a man who loves and appreciates me for whom I am. It took a lot of love lessons, great
videos like this one( Gby) , on my knees and surrendering it all. It's a process, but worth it in the end. Amen🙏
Amen! God bless! Thanks for sharing your testimony.
Wasn't easy but all I can say is trust God... And listen to RC. Blake's, I been using his steps this year. I decided to do things differently, and it's actually working. 😊
Thanks for sharing your story💖. It's very encouraging!🙌🏽⚓⚓⚓
Amen,
Inspiring!
"If you can't support someone emotionally, you're not ready..... having empathy." Yes! That's the key.
Trying to break generational curses and building a positive legacy.
I'm with ya!!! It is HARD but will be worth it! You got this sis!
AMEN! Same here!
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Lucy Kalunde I feel u
Same here
We ARE breaking generational curses so our loved ones can help us build a legacy. I'm with you on this journey
" Because everybody wants it doesn't mean that everybody is ready for it. "
Thank you pastor RC Blakes, Jr !
I can't even put into words how grateful I am for your videos. I didn't know how deeply I craved father guidance until I started listening to you talk about relationships, love and self-love. I grew up without conscious guidance from a father or father figure, and now that I see the profound impact that had on me, I understand why I have not been able to choose the right relationship for me, and why I am single at 43 years old. As I listen to your videos, part of my child self is growing up, getting the spiritual food I have always needed. I know now that I'm on my way to my best relationship, because I'm learning what I needed 30 years ago.
Your work is so appreciated.
Melissa, I feel the same way, I had no God father figure. My dad left my mom after 10 years (cheating) . All my life I've been looking for that father figure and love and made so many bad bad choices. At the age of 49 I finally married again but it took 10 years to get us together, we've been married for almost 15 now. I wasn't really ready for marriage then. Wished I would have waited but God gave me grace and now peace. We work on our marriage but He had financial issues that he didn't tell me about due to his bitter divorce. He didn't put all his issues on the table. If I knew about them, I would have never married him due to me being debt free. And he also smoked weed which i didn't know about. He hid that well. But we finally are addressing that issue. He's working on it. Mind you he's a good provider and took care of his 2 girls until the age when child supports stop.
I pray for his soul. Mind you his parents was together but didn't care about each other, they finally divorced when he went to college, he came back home to visit and was shocked to see them spilt up. But he have no memories of them doing things together as a family. He wasn't really raised as doing husband and father responsibilities. But I continue to pray for his soul. We have more Good days than bad days though.
You have spoken my truth as well. I feel like I missed out.
"See life through the lenses of wisdom and not impulse " Pastor RC Blakes, Jr👏👍🙏
I'm not ready. Too much to process all these emotions I'm going through. Just making rash decisions and not really taking the time to think things through. Thank you Pastor 🙏🏾
Take your time. You’ll be fine. Let everything balance out.
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"You persue relationship before Self discovery" RC Blakes Jr......you are 💯 correct.
"I am ready for loveeee. Y are u hiding from me" ☺🙏😇 India Irie
Love that song!!!
I am 45 years old and it took me until now to work on myself to get here and I am still not healed and ready for a relationship. I will take the time it needs.
I have yet to find a man who can love unconditionally, they're out there, but very few and far between. And you always have to compete with something.
Exactly... 💯💯
Not if you make up your mind not to and stand firm in that! I am overqualified and feel that no woman is competition for me!
Men will try to make you think you have to compete. But what God has for you is for you. You have to believe there’s a man out there that will see you stand out among all other women. It will just be something about you.
Yes what I meant was that we have to compete for their time, they're always giving it away to the wrong projects or people. I never will compete with another woman because I know my value and if he cannot see that, then he doesn't deserve me!
Not even worth it!
Christ completes it all🙏🙏🙏
1. Have you processed the example of your parents? 2. Have you grown past the pain of your previous situation? 3. Are you whole enough to be honest about your insecurities? 4. Are you mature enough to handle another person's truth? 5. Are you established in who you are, to the point you know who fits?
This is so true I had to go back to my child hood a figure out why I kept ending up in the same place with men. And I discovered it was my father WOW! that catapulted me to really really begin to do the work within get closer to GOD look at my self in the mirror and start to check ME and not anyone else. I don't mean no harm but I DO NOT want a man like my father! Anymore! and this self work is an ongoing everyday thing everyday you wake up you have to choose you and change you!
So true! Same here my dad is deceased he didn't teach me anything about males if I only knew my past relationships have not been good and I see why I'm continually Praying I don't make the same repetitive mistakes again
LaToya Frazier Amen sis I’m in the same boat. I’ve learned from my mistakes and pray that I won’t make the same ones again !
@@MsParisiandoll Amen!! That's all we can do is Pray direct and guide us and give us Discernment that's keen and sharp.🙏🏾💕
LaToya Frazier Amen 🙏🏽
It's interesting. I saw a FB post that asked how long does it take to know if the relationship will work. Some said years 🤦🏽♀️ oh no.. doesn't take that long... I present myself upfront and I want to see him upfront. No pretending. No acting. Let's go ahead and weed this thing out 😂
Pastor my father was never in my life even had a small child and my father was abusive to my mother he was an alcoholic I have no memory of my childhood I was not supported in school because during school hours my mother always was working but I was blessed to have a wonderful stepfather that helped peer of us my brothers they all took after my father I never had the opportunity to even have a conversation with my father I have started working on myself with the end and I will not go into another relationship until I am free from all my mistakes after my heart has been broken I stayed single for five years I didn’t want a relationship and I stayed single no boyfriend no dating no nothing and I met this guy through my sister and we started talking he would call a lot we talk over the phone sometime he would come over but in my spirit I felt like something just wasn’t right about this person and after I begin to pay attention to the things that he would say or talk about I begin to analyze everything he would say we kind of dated about three months and this guy turned out to be a habitual liar I don’t need that in my life so I’m mediately cut it off but I need to be now where I’m at where I can move on and except who I really am and know who I am and let God use me in my heart I know when God get ready for me to have that special person in my life he will do just that but I’m not in a rush I need time for myself I carry my own burdens in my own household single life is not so bad because it comes a time you need to be single and give God your time and let him use you when you recognize it because God works in your life every day I am very grateful and just to let you know you and your wife is truly truly a blessing in my life it’s not a day go by as I get my phone and go to TH-cam I got he has the word past Blakes what you were saying and teaching is soaking in my soul no matter the rub is too strong but the truth is the truth because we all need it as women and yes I know within me I am a queen I make mistakes like everybody else but at the same time God is a forgiving God but I think you thank you so much for the word thatYou have shared with me in my personal life may God continue to bless you and your family every day all day you are doing a wonderful wonderful job because your messages is moving in my soul as
well take care
Hey !! Girl That's me too lol. What you see is what you get period.
I was raised by my grand parents and mother I have never seen him disrespect them so why have I allowed men to disrespect me lord i have some work to do
May be because your dad wasn't there to guide you. Dads are our first example of relating to men
My grandfather was my dad I was raised in the house with him I seen what a good man is and still I have allowed opposite of that in my life
I understand. I'm not saying that your grandad wasn't good or anything, but your subconscious still knows that something was missing. Sometimes in situations like that we still deal with rejection. And because of that we allow substandard situations as a way of reclaiming what we feel we could/ would/ should have had. Again this wouldn't be conscious thinking
Sometimes we lack self love. Sometimes along the way we develop a codependent spirit. You will do anything to try to get love from an outside source. The Lord have been advising me to get counseling. I plan on using better help or talk spacs. It is online therapy.
May God bless you on this new journey of self awareness and self love in Jesus name. I heard about codependency on TH-cam. I realized that every man that I dated were narcissist for the most part. I used to ask myself. Why am I dating the same type of man over and over? Now I know why.
Please do not ever stop making these videos. 💫🤞🏼 I recently found your page and have been so grateful. 👏 Keep doing your thing!
Pastor I walk by your church on my work break walks every day in NOLA. Listening to you and learning from you has been an honor. I'm deeply blessed by you and being witnessed to by you has changed me.
I did not have parents but i had an uncle and aunt and i studied them and applied some of those things in my own life....they are both now deceased but they were truly an inspiration to me n they love the LORD.
Hi Pastor Blakes, Jr. I am Odette from Jamaica. I came upon your feed while researching narcissists and am glad I found you. Stay blessed, stay safe, stay real.
👍👍👍👍🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗Amen
Love this! 💕 When I went through my season of heartache, I watched EVERY. SINGLE. VIDEO that you had out! It helped me to heal and become whole! Everything that you speak of in this video are the same things that I analyzed when I was doing my self work! I really appreciate all of the wisdom that you have imparted to me personally! You have definitely helped make a difference in my life, the way I see myself and the way I handle relationships going forward! Thank you 🙏🏾
Beautiful and brilliant as always - Thank you!!! As an almost-50 year old who's caught her fair share of "Catfish" and still not found love, I can't help wishing that someone had taught me this when I was just a young girl😔. I believe that this wisdom should definitely be imparted to young people who are starting out on their life journey, so that they are equipped with such powerful tools from the outset BEFORE they start becoming romantically involved with anyone. So much damage and heartache could be prevented if we prepared young people to relate to themselves and others in a healthy God-centered way...to embody and practise love in the way it is defined and described in 1 Cor. 13:1-13. God bless you Pastor.❤
It's funny how I was just asking myself this weekend "Am I ready for love" because I felt some things festering inside of me because of something someone did. Then I saw this video last night as I went to bed disappointed because of this person's actions and knew God wanted me to watch it. The crazy thing is, I'm not even sure if the person realized how I offended I am. That's how I know it's me still dealing with untreated areas in my life. This video was definitely confirmation, thanks Pastor RC Blake's. God bless 💞
I have learnt to Observe and not to absorb people's negative behaviour, especially if it is behaviour pointed at me.
This has helped me not to be upset for too long. I will get upset, even angry but not often, I purpose to let it go and sometimes let some people go or lessen my interaction with them.
I will not waste energy on people, I need these energy and also time to work on myself, to make ME a better, happier more productive person.
To make my walk in life and also with God, happier, successful.
@@thetwinklegg8121 "This has helped me not to be upset for too long", yes I agree and do the same. It's too much energy for me to hold on to it or them. Thank God this does not happen often but I definitely recognize when it does. Thanks!
I'm ready for love it's been eight years since I've been divorced and I know all the pros and cons of choosing a man and thank you for what you contribute to my life mister Blake I admire you because you're nothing but the truth my dad used to say that you're nothing but the truth Debbie I thank you for the Divine in you
I love that, discerning, analyzing, and doing the background check in order to discern who can be in your life or not. Also, establishing in who you are to know who fits in your life or not.
Thank you Pastor, you're a blessing especially to the fatherless. God bless you some more. Love from South Africa🙏
Great wisdom Pastor
I can not describe how much your messages have strengthened me & helped me stand firm against the confusion. When I listen, I am immensely aware of how much life experience and preparation has allowed you to put out such a powerful & biblically sound messages of encouragement. Of course, remind me to like, as that is the least I can do yo express my appreciation for your time & effort. May others follow... in Jesus name
I have been listening now every day tor about a month and I must say all your messages are inspiring to me. It makes me wish I had heard or learned all this when I was younger. I find myself in all of these. I have really made a mistake when it comes to myself and relationships. Father/Daughter talks are necessary and every girl needs them.
Ha, I told an ex that what he was doing had nothing to do with me. That issue was his alone. Jealousy and controlling. So happy to be free and have learned so much from my past.
Yes! I am ready! Please help us meet soon Lord, while we still have a little time ! 😇🙏
Pastor blakes you are my mentor its like this video was made for me im going through the same situation and just hearing this has helped me to make the right decision the most high is definitely working through you
Thank you for your wisdom, father. I’m from Russia and we have so many inside broken people. Thank you for helping me building my self. God bless you
I've started doing the work after I started listening to you for the past 4 months. I wish I heard you at the start of covid. So much of time wasted sitting alone in isolation. I could've sat and spent my time edifying my self life and spirit. But well better late than never
I'm so grateful for the wisdom of this man!!! Watching and listening to someone that I don't even know FILLS ME so much more than the people around me. Thank you God! Thank you Sir! 🙏🏾❤🙏🏾
What an amazing compliment.😊🙏 Thank you.
Perfectly said Emilia! Pastor Blakes always on point. Man of true love, pertinent substance. Food for the soul.
Notice how he says "Adam was ABLE to PROVIDE the resources for his woman" will the Providers please step forward??? Haven't seen any...
They are out there. It's also interesting when the woman is so independent that she constantly gives off an I Don't Need You attitude
@@joyricherson4570 the whole I'm independent thing is a coping mechanism. Especially when it comes to black women. We generally feel as though we have to have our own back.
@@ladennayoung2939 right. But no one wants to feel like they have no place or purpose. I feel the same way...if you can do it all, do it all
Joy Richerson-Colston that attitude is because she’s been hurt and disappointed over and over again. I rarely meet a man that is a provider. And too many married woman I know feel they can’t depend on their husband. I also believe women who NEED a man are needy. Needing a man implies I’m not whole without a man. But it’s human to WANT a man. A whole woman wants a man to build with. And when men think you NEED them they often take advantage. I don’t know when independence got such a bad rep. A whole woman knows how to show a man he has purpose in her life.
As women we need to let them be the providers. I tell my girls let the man be the man. Stand there until he opens the door. Stand there until he gets your chair. And to whomever that was provision is just what it is, especially the basics.
So true Pastor, I started writing a book and realized all the stuff I carried that has been passed down to me....alot of me work to do. Thank you for this confirmation.
Good evening Pastor Blake, every subject you bring to u-tube is a thump up spiritual mentally. I have never experience unconditional love from a man. I am Humble as a single woman and willing to wait on God plan for my life. My father is a very controlling man to his wife, I don't want a husband like was I seen from my father and my mother was kill. My unconditional love only came from my children. Please keep me in your pray. Not everyone had good example parent. God being good to me,whereas I didn't carry that curse to my children.
Amen my sister.
Wow 😳 I actually spoke on this in my prayers to god that I’ve never experienced unconditional love from a man before only my children... I asked god every day what do you need me to see, show me Me in a way I can’t see
Pastor Blakes, this was really insightful and this really allowed me to ask myself some real authentic questions within myself. Continue to be a blessing. You have truly blessed me with your teaches and continue to allow God to utilize you. I enjoy your transparency and keeping it real with us. Thank you. Blessings and Love, N’Black
My spiritual Father !!! you always come through with ways for me to evaluate myself through christ!
You are an awesome man of God and so needed for these times!
(LUV FYI) I adore the shout outs! Never stop the crowd involvement as well as one on one acknowledements ....its vital to connect on a personal level with us. Love your channel Spiritual Papa! Thank you.
Exactly. 😊 We can’t please everybody.
Reciprocity - it's just good TH-cam etiquette. Hit that button! Lol 😄
Yes maam, it's the least we can do.
Hello KingBrother. I have listening to you none stop for One week. I haven't been religiously or spiritually inclined for 10 years. So You know I've been Dead. Thanks for waking ME.!!! The Soul-tie knot is loosening!!#
God bless this man and pastor for all his advice and videos! He is truly making a difference in the world. Keep em coming Pastor. Thank you.
Pastor Blakes, I love your teachings about real-life issues. God bless you.❤🙏
I have just recently discovered your talks and sure appreciate your insight and teachings. Not growing up with a healthy father figure for guidance, I stubbled a lot with make bad choices and at times created my own heart ache. Since then, God has done some great healing and created a healthier mindset in me. I walk in freedom. These talks help empower my "Queenology"...SO BEAUTIFUL! it gives me hope that my "King" is still waiting for his Queen. Thank you
It is extremly powerful when you do know your not ready. And know you still have much more work to do. Its healthy not discouraging.
Continuing to work on you and to truly figure out what you need. I am grateful for this time. No need to rush only to be sure that you are ready.
I'm so not Ready For Love. Working on myself. I'm a damaged woman on the road of healing. Mentally Emotionally, Spiritually
Thank you 🌻 I always take notes to go through them later and ponder, meditate and pray for God's understanding and wisdom so I may not only walk in His path but also be the person for whom He made me to be the ideal helper. .
"If you dont fully love yourself you will hide yourself from others." That's me. I hide. I'm learning to expose myself and show all my flaws and the man accepts me. I dont know why he accepts me with all my challenges and past.
Extremely good message! I’ve worked for years now on myself or rather yielded and allowed the lord to work on me. Very few people are willing to do this in my opinion and experience.
Everybody just wants it now and can’t see that they themselves need a ton of work
True intimacy goes way beyond the physical. You have to know yourself first and like yourself. Then and only then can you truly love someone and find the right person who fits with you and wants a similar life with you. I pray for this.
Thank -ypu RC Jakes.
Your teachings are golden 🌟
Good day sir, I follow you from the UK. Its always a blessing listening to your messages. You say it as it is , may God strengthen and empower you always in Jesus name Amen.
JESUS JESUS JESUS🙏🙏🙏!!! THANK YOU PASTOR BLAKES FOR THIS WORD & SERMON ON THIS TOPIC!!!💞💞💞 I AM DEFINITELY WELL IN POSITION WITH GOD; ACCORDING TO THIS MESSAGE CONVEYED THROUGH THIS TEACHING💞🙏💞🙏!!! THANK YOU SOO MUCH!!! MAY GOD BLESS YOU 100 FOLD FOR THIS VIDEO!!!🙏💞🔥
That is such a good point “RC,” about swimming out in the deep with each other and find out we both have issues, so we will “sink” each other!
Pastor Blake’s your really touch my heart with your kind and wise words. Big hug and thanks 💕💕💕
Halleluja Jehovah n Jesus sent you to me at the right time because I needed this now. I was facing this in a new relationship n was analyzing myself if I was ready for a relationship n love. Thank God for you being there when we need you and can show us the way to go when we are walking in darkness. Stay blessed and thank you for helping us. Amen and amen.
Lord knows I've learned from generational revolution. This was great!
Absolutely
I appreciate you RC Blakes, Jr. Thank you!
25:00 Perfect VERSE about owning up to our own imperfections, flaws to know if both persons can Accept each...
Unconditionally 🌈
The BEST
(pre therapy)
for couples,,,
Hoping To Be
United🙏
Thank You God💠
Thank You,,
Pastor Blakes 🌿
My parents are in denial of the bad habits they have, it's hard to even get them to discuss it with me without the defense mechanism coming up from them. How can I strike this conversation
It's not for you to strike a conversation about it, it's your job to heal yourself.
@@blessedandfavored3208 I always felt things needed to be talked about since they were silenced so long. But that was confirmation for my chapter right now
Same here BUT I decided to move forward with counseling and healing myself. I have to get WHOLE then come back and ATTEMPT to help them IF they want the help
@@kizzyrock I use to go to therapy and been highly considering going again, that's confirmation too
@@DivineMotherMessages You are more than welcome. What really has help ME is I ASKED God to bring someone in my life who has a HAPPY marriage so I could watch and learn. Sadly, it was a stranger he sent me because happy marriages don't exist in my family. So that the person he bought into my life as an example has embraced me and willing to help. She is honest enough to say it took ALOT of HARD work to arrive to their happy place. Becoming WHOLE first is def the key! Best wishes doll! U are the chosen one to break the generational curse and to set the tone the correct way so the next generational can have a chance and example 😇
Great video pastor! I thank you for sharing your knowledge about relationships. More pastors need to teach on this. Whether it be on how to develop a healthy relationship with self or others. God bless you. May God continue to give you strength to share His wisdom and knowledge with the world in Jesus name.
My issue is a discerning empathy and trauma bonding. I'm too quick to cling, and so by watching this video. I know I am not ready, however I'm very much on my way. And this video gives me hope.
Rev!! Can I be honest here.... when you first married your wife and she married you. Can you honestly say you had ALL of these qualities. Most men are not established by 35 nevertheless earlier than 30 or even 20’s. So do you really need all of these at first or can you grow into this person as life allows you to grow??! Thanks Rev for your knowledge.
Maybe if the woman or partner grows together with you. We all have shortcomings that can be strengthened or at least find someone who is okay with them.
Thank you pastor Blakes for this message. My fiancé and I listened together, we both have to work through some brokenness before marriage. It’s not easy, however your message helped us. I learned that you can accept the person for who they are flaws and all however both parties should accept. Continue to stay blessed.
All five of these questions are awesome questions to ask yourself. Within the past year and a half, I've been doing real hard work on myself and I will add these questions to my spiritual cleanse! Thank you for your word.
Hello Pastor Blake's..My name is Racquel.. I can't thank you enough for always coming through with exceptional advice.. This one in particular hit home for me, especially since I've had to question wether or not I am ready for a relationship after my past experiences.. Everything you've advised us on right here, I will take with me wherever I go.. YOU definitely are the Dad I didn't have while growing up and as much as I know my Dad would've given me advice, but it's unfortunate that he wasn't fully present in my siblings and i's lives after my Mom and His divorce.. Nevertheless, they are both deceased and GOD rest their souls,🕊️🙏 but I always feel like my DAD speaks to me through you and I am forever humbled and thankful for your time, patience, Love and ability to reach out and do what you do.. I wish all of GOD'S richest blessings to both you and your BEAUTIFUL wife Lisa and family.. Thank you.. Thank you.. Thank you.. 🙏🙏🙏
Kind regards
Racquel from SA🇿🇦
This is exactly what I'm dealing with!! Wise enough to know who I am and what I expect...I needed this message to know that I'm on the right path.(not perfect) but aware...I love how you always have the right words at the right time.my God continue to pour into you so you can share with other's.
I have heard as well that to succeed in your couple you have to try it rather than work on yourself alone and stay alone for years trying to improve yourself.
Thank you. This post has been extremely beneficial to me as an eye opener. I truly thank God for you and this minister.
I'm glad you talked about this. Sometimes a relationship can be familliar and abnormal, the abnormal can be normal.
All I can say is I love you and I thank God so very much for your teachings!!
I say this with much respect and thankfulness, I love the truth and depth in which you explain and dissect things!
I so needed this Pastor! I've just had an "Ah ha" moment! Now i get it! I realize that alot of my failed relationships are because of me! I've never dealt with my upbringing and never gave myself a chance to heal from pushing men away and causing hurt for myself and the men i've chosen! Thank u so much!
I thought I was ready for love and my past issues, I thought I was healed. This new relationship showed me I am not. I shut down during hard talks and arguments.
Pastor you Emphasized a lot that we pursue relationships before we have completely discovered ourselves. I would love for you to make a video on showing us steps on how to discover ourselves .
He has... go to his channel... Blessings my sis
Love Felix yes I found it 🙂
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All I could say is "no" to each question. I got a lot of growing to do. Thank you.
You are a gift to the body of Christ.
I actually gained alot of good INSIGHT and PERSPECTIVE from this video. Thanks
When he said confess your faults one to another,,, that doesn’t mean go around talking to any and everybody some people won’t hold what you’ve confided in them and now your business is being spread. Be mindful... God bless. Awesome teaching Pastor
Love from South Africa Tata(meaning of Father in Xhosa)!thank you very much,everything in me is in perspective,I am sound in my mind and very much at liberty and am greatful.Information corrects everything even before the actual action or planning.thank you
I need your wisdom of life everyday THANK YOU JESUS
This is so true Sir. I constantly recall my parent’s relationship. I dealt with the behavior I needed to eradicate . My father was a great husband/father, but not perfect. He really loved and respected my mom and she did him as well.
Man, you have alot of material ! I thought i was caught up but im still doscivering new videos!! I need a new notebook!! Lol Love you
We thank God for your guiding wisdom in our life❤🙏❤
Yes and yes. Jumping in before we are actually ready. Good point about Adam and Eve. Glory Hallelujah! Thank you Jesus! God have been telling me that I have to work on me first, and I'm grateful for that. Initially I was upset to be honest. But I'm happy and grateful at this point and time.
You are expressing love of the breathen by sharing biblical truth. Thank you for exposing the Wolf.
This has really provided me a certain level of peace this morning. Thank you!
I am in a place in my life that I have also been working through this process as well. God has put me on a self journey looking at me. Even my Dad has been sharing why he and my Mom's marriage fell. This video comes as confirmation
Bless you MOG
Both parents were emotionally unavailable...generational curse.
I attracted most takers in friendships and emotionally unavailable partners
So glad to be healed and aware🙏🙏🙏
Hi Rev. Blake!!! Im Angell just wanted to say thks for All you do for the Kingdom. And for allowing Jehovah to use use you. I pray that the Lord pours back into you All that you have exuded to us. What are your actual times and days of airing, I love to have on time chats with you all. Thx again, I love you in Jesus name😘😘😘
Lots of 💡's turned on. You provide such clarity. I needed this.
My ex’s dating profile said “ I want a woman with no drama in her life” That should have been a major red flag. Who doesn’t have some kind of drama in their life?
The only check I was needing alot more support was more financially.
Praise the Lord!🙌🏽♥️
I learned alot from alot of people my experience in life made me better.
I felt that was I still believe in more support.
“Be whole within yourself to be open and honest about your own insecurities “ Soo goood🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Hello Pastor and First Lady Blakes Jr! Hello Everyone!😊
Hmm.maybe im living out all their areas they couldn't show out. Wow! I can run with that. That is very uplifting! They deserved this healing. And so do each of us. With Christ...is how ive been doing it. Emotionally, i was a man ..with my dad. I saw him cry a few times too before doing that.