This Is How He Got an Ex-Wife Last Time

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ความคิดเห็น • 533

  • @baysideharpy8350
    @baysideharpy8350 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +194

    I’d love to hear the husbands side of the story. This caller swung from sobbing victim to combative pretty quick.

    • @8literbeater
      @8literbeater 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well she's a woman so...

    • @propergarage4249
      @propergarage4249 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I live in Lincoln, NE lol something isn’t right here

    • @propergarage4249
      @propergarage4249 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I live in Lincoln NE lol making $6/7 a month here is good great money! He lost the job because of most likely doing stupid stuff ! I know few power companies

    • @dominicd7610
      @dominicd7610 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Women are notorious for not taking accountability.

    • @14elvira14
      @14elvira14 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Trauma is real.

  • @dannyh9010
    @dannyh9010 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +199

    This call has addiction written all over it. Both husband and wife.

    • @adamseidel9780
      @adamseidel9780 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      A hundred million percent.

    • @knicholas8768
      @knicholas8768 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That’s exactly what I was thinking.

    • @MoMitup1
      @MoMitup1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yep, for sure.

    • @eileenkolar5065
      @eileenkolar5065 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Spot it a mile away

    • @breezyveezy1
      @breezyveezy1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That’s what I was thinking

  • @rcairforceone
    @rcairforceone 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +198

    Some stuff ain't adding up on this call, and it's not about the money.

  • @kbere4142
    @kbere4142 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +123

    When people have to be secretive about their “accidents” it’s because they don’t want solutions. They don’t want you putting 2 and 2 together and finding out there’s more they could do in their situation.

    • @mysticquetzal87
      @mysticquetzal87 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Exactly. If you can call the show, you can probably at least work in a call center.

    • @heatherc2203
      @heatherc2203 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      An "accident" could be she tried to commit suicide due to mental health problems or did something stupid and doesn't want everyone to know. Try not to be so judgemental without any factual basis.

    • @mysticquetzal87
      @mysticquetzal87 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@heatherc2203 It’s hard because once you’ve worked in the healthcare system for a long time, you see so many more people with made up disabilities (that are often really more laziness/obesity-related issues/personality disorders…) abusing the system rather than people with valid issues, that after a while you get distrustful and suspicious of everyone 🤷‍♀️.

    • @sierra7534
      @sierra7534 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      We've got all these TH-cam armchair experts chiming in. She sounds traumatized. If they're reconstructing the right side of her body then she probably got pulled into farm equipment or had an accident at a factory. I probably wouldn't want to go there either if I didn't get any therapy after all of that.

  • @KENTUCKYUSA1
    @KENTUCKYUSA1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +112

    Now everyone want to know what the accident entailed. Me too, since it sounds a bit fishy that she refuses to say what happened. Too much self pity here.

    • @Gingerrrrsnapps
      @Gingerrrrsnapps 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I’m thinking an attempt on her own life and so the husband is resentful that she put herself out of work.

    • @Excalibur2
      @Excalibur2 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      ​@@GingerrrrsnappsI was thinking that or a drunk driving accident.

    • @SnifferSock
      @SnifferSock 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@Gingerrrrsnapps that would be something you wouldn't want to discuss but calling that an accident would be scummy

    • @barbthegreat586
      @barbthegreat586 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It did sound fishy but it also sounded like domestic violence.

    • @Excalibur2
      @Excalibur2 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@barbthegreat586 how would that work?

  • @bravotrades5614
    @bravotrades5614 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +311

    Wait... $2400 a month with a free house, no car, and 1 kid... In Nebraska, where cost of living is 10% below national average... on a farm, that produces food... Get a grip...

    • @bernadette573
      @bernadette573 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

      I didn't understand. It sounded like he was in a good place at an important time: growing food, helping elderly dad, being worthy of inheritance.
      What bills cannot be paid when you have almost no expenses?
      Wish that kid was in school though.
      He needs to be outside her depression wheel.

    • @barbarahansen5353
      @barbarahansen5353 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

      @@bernadette573I agree about the kid needing to be in school. I worry about someone homeschooling who doesn’t have a car “no more.”

    • @marcusarelius
      @marcusarelius 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      $2400 / month is below poverty in Nebraska. That's not enough for 3 people

    • @1stLtDavis
      @1stLtDavis 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      He doesn't make 2400. He makes at least 3400 because he's also getting free housing and living on what sounds like an acreage is worth at least 1000 per month to have, Even in Nebraska. Also, we don't know if he's being paid cash under the table or actually paying even a few grand in taxes on that amount annually etc etc.

    • @montymython754
      @montymython754 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I’m having trouble following this one

  • @JustinCase780
    @JustinCase780 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +193

    Show: What was your accident keeping you from working?
    Caller: Not going there because that's my cover. Let's keep piling on Bubba.

    • @garykeith1048
      @garykeith1048 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Drama queen. Enough said. Ms. Piss and moan. What is she doing to help her husband/boyfriend?

    • @brucefredrickson9677
      @brucefredrickson9677 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Bubba is a BAAAAAAD man

    • @adamseidel9780
      @adamseidel9780 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Two minutes later: oh I’m able to work, I just homeschool and stay at home

    • @Luis-mz6dx
      @Luis-mz6dx 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sounds like she just lazy and using her "disability" as an excuse

    • @sierra7534
      @sierra7534 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Well it sounds pretty traumatic if they had to repair the right side of her body. She probably got pulled into farm equipment and needs serious therapy.

  • @beaniemac
    @beaniemac 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    If she had an accident, she's needs to either work at home or collect disability social security. This makes no sense.

    • @wufflerdance9481
      @wufflerdance9481 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      disability and social are not always a option especially at certain ages

    • @suen5006
      @suen5006 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      She had to sell the car. Disability is not that easy to get, takes years. And she thinks she can do something, she just has to figure out what.

    • @catherinewilke5583
      @catherinewilke5583 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      She’s lazy that’s the main problem. Lazy and playing at sick. She thinks her husband owes her a free ride. He doesn’t.

    • @justinecorrington4106
      @justinecorrington4106 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@catherinewilke55838 surgeries; with reconstructing her right side of her body; doesn’t sound like she’s faking.

  • @singlesightart
    @singlesightart 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    The wife could totally work a remote job as a disabled person, especially if she can swing a government job and get a Schedule A letter. So many people who become disabled as adults have NO idea what kind of resources there are for us.
    I am legally blind and have cerebral palsy (can only use one hand). Been working for the government for 13 years and currently have a remote job).

  • @kendrapratt2098
    @kendrapratt2098 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +171

    Amazing how her crying just stopped…

    • @fauxbro1983
      @fauxbro1983 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      crocodile tears.

    • @Payday-ky7mb
      @Payday-ky7mb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      Y’all know she’s lying right?

    • @BrianW211
      @BrianW211 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      @@Payday-ky7mb Yeah, even if she's not outright lying, she's definitely lying by omission.

    • @kc-il4sb
      @kc-il4sb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Just like Behavior Panel!!

    • @marcenelj
      @marcenelj 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      She just Wants Dave to feel pity and cut her a check

  • @ryanviningtube
    @ryanviningtube 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    There is a lot of missing information here

  • @ayo_k32
    @ayo_k32 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    This was a bizarre call.

  • @wahinepaddler4
    @wahinepaddler4 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +124

    'The ex wife wanted him to earn more money.. '
    'I dont think shes evil..you came here asking the same thing..'
    Shes a drama queen.

    • @marie-joseepaulzak1936
      @marie-joseepaulzak1936 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Did she say the ex wife was evil? I didn’t hear that.

    • @Tehui1974
      @Tehui1974 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I don't think she's a drama queen at all. It sounds like she's under serious stress and pressure because her man is pretending they don't have any serious financial problems. It's hard rowing a boat when the other person refuses to grab a paddle.

    • @TheDoggmom
      @TheDoggmom 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Loved that response!

  • @privateinfo1711
    @privateinfo1711 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    The accident is a very important detail in this situation and she doesn't want to go there?

    • @sableann4255
      @sableann4255 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      probably because she caused her issue....

    • @Excalibur2
      @Excalibur2 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I bet it was addiction related, drove under the influence and lost her license

    • @Treerootz1
      @Treerootz1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      She was probably driving drunk

    • @sierra7534
      @sierra7534 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We've got all these TH-cam armchair experts chiming in. She sounds traumatized. If they're reconstructing the right side of her body then she probably got pulled into farm equipment or had an accident at a factory. Could have been a suicide attempt, domestic violence, or a horrible robbery- fact is, we probably shouldn't assume she's hiding something for not wanting to talk about something so traumatic on a national radio show. I probably wouldn't want to go there either if I didn't get any therapy after all of that.

    • @sierra7534
      @sierra7534 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Excalibur2 Wow, what gave you that impression? She even said it wasn't auto related so would love to hear your crystal ball's take. We've got all these TH-cam armchair experts chiming in. She sounds traumatized. If they're reconstructing the right side of her body then she probably got pulled into farm equipment or had an accident at a factory. Could have been a suicide attempt, domestic violence, or a horrible robbery- fact is, we probably shouldn't assume she's hiding something for not wanting to talk about something so traumatic on a national radio show. I probably wouldn't want to go there either if I didn't get any therapy after all of that.

  • @jimroscovius
    @jimroscovius 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Forget the homeschooling. Put the kid in public school and get to work. There's definitely something you can do. And you need to work together on these issues.

    • @AuroraDAmico
      @AuroraDAmico 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And getting a semi proper education will benefit those kids immensely.

  • @BrianW211
    @BrianW211 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    I feel sorry for the husband that Dave is beating up based on the very suspicious hearsay. His one ray of hope is that he will inherit that farm in a few years and he can keep it as as sole and separate property from his marital assets with Carol.

    • @anacorreia8058
      @anacorreia8058 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think they’re both equally stupid. The wife is worse for not working at all. But the husband should work a way higher paying job rather than what’s “fun”. Both are dumb

  • @yaya14every81
    @yaya14every81 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    Why homeschool when you’re too sick to work? Plus, why be shady over the accident? This call is suspicious. Send the kid to high school and she could find online work. Since she’s being shady over the accident, we don’t know why the husband is acting the way he is.

    • @annt2685
      @annt2685 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I agree with you on all that!!

    • @happyinparis
      @happyinparis 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Disagree! Public schools are rotten!

    • @Amalie.x7fv
      @Amalie.x7fv 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It could also be she has some ptsd and doesn’t want to relive what happened

    • @SapphirePrimrose
      @SapphirePrimrose 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That would have to be a really smart 11 year old. 😂

  • @GAFB1122
    @GAFB1122 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    "Don't want to go there" is a red flag to me.
    And unlike many on here, I don't want to hate on the caller. So it's a legit red flag.

    • @lisajane4330
      @lisajane4330 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      💯

    • @darinherrick9224
      @darinherrick9224 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Trauma is a thing you know. A victim can be so traumatized they can’t talk. Accident could be a near-death experience.

    • @malenejensen2995
      @malenejensen2995 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@darinherrick9224If you can call the show, then it would be appropriate to be able to say 'I cannot talk about the accident because it is difficult for me'. Her comment was deflecting and compounding - not the type of comment you use when you are honest and responsible.

    • @fabbz94
      @fabbz94 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh stop it! Why you calling a show that millions listen to. She sounds like she is going through withdrawal ​@@darinherrick9224

    • @hadenanderson563
      @hadenanderson563 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Deflecting and compounding. Is that basically saying it was far too difficult to explain and even if I did, the horror surpasses your ability to understand?
      If it were a good enough story that caused trauma, she would have expounded more.

  • @rickm6076
    @rickm6076 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Farming is incredibly expensive to get into, so if he gets to use somebody else's equipment, you all live in somebody else's house as part of compensation, 2400 is actually maybe still a little low but not that bad depending on how much he's farming. Do you want to pay 1000+ dollars per month in housing?

  • @1stLtDavis
    @1stLtDavis 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    She's the loss of income. Yeah, he makes a little bit less, but he's got free housing. Housing is a value. Making 2400 with free housing is not so bad. Her 3500 missing from the equation or whatever is the bigger problem

    • @melita524e
      @melita524e 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes.

  • @montymython754
    @montymython754 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I don’t understand how this call kept coming back to the husband being delusional and lazy.

  • @susanbrush280
    @susanbrush280 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The real discussion needs to happen between him and his father. At 84 it’s time for his father to give over the reins of the farm to him. The same thing happened to my brother. My dad saw him as a cheap farm hand, and it didn’t change until my dad was unable to farm anymore and my brother finally took it over. Those old farmers know they have total control, because their sons would give anything to farm. There’s an old saying that goes you can take the boy off the farm, but you can’t take the farm out of the boy, and it’s very true.

  • @ICantSpellDawg
    @ICantSpellDawg 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Why are you guys writing off any accountability for her? She can physically work

    • @FrankS111
      @FrankS111 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Because she’s a woman. That’s what they do now. They must have gotten that the demographics of people who watch this show are bitter middle aged women

    • @janelleg597
      @janelleg597 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@FrankS111 then you haven't been listening. Ken literally told her to start working

    • @AuschwitzMyPants
      @AuschwitzMyPants 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Dave and his employees always blame the men in every situation. They never have the women take accountability for anything. She didn’t want to go into the accident because it was a herself getting a DUI. That’s why she lost her car and license.

    • @dudeorduuude5211
      @dudeorduuude5211 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@AuschwitzMyPantsdoubt it. You are biased and hear what you want to hear.

  • @krobdawg
    @krobdawg 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +190

    Not wanting to talk about the nature of the accident is one thing but "let's not go there" seems suspicious 🤔

    • @MrTmenzo
      @MrTmenzo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Disability fraud probably

    • @CarlaQuattlebaum
      @CarlaQuattlebaum 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Yeah, what caused the accident if it wasn't a car accident? Some kind of industrial accident? Sounds like she would have gotten some type of disability if it happened on the job.

    • @ricana1160
      @ricana1160 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Could have been a S attempt

    • @KathleenMcNe
      @KathleenMcNe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree.

    • @debbieholoquist2059
      @debbieholoquist2059 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@ricana1160 Or an incident of DV

  • @JoshuaaColin
    @JoshuaaColin 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    Would love to hear the husbands side of the story.

    • @Chet_24
      @Chet_24 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Yeah..i have a strong suspicion we'd get the actual, real story.

  • @chuckiedavidson719
    @chuckiedavidson719 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I can’t feel sorry for someone who is struggling by choice. She can work and he can make more money.

    • @FrankS111
      @FrankS111 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Bingo. She’s strong and independent. She can get a job sitting at a computer

  • @janicewright4007
    @janicewright4007 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    So they have no mortgage and made a budget last night that showed they could pay all the bills.

  • @samryan7954
    @samryan7954 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    $2,050.00 pre tax a month here. SS on Medicare. I'm elderly and get by fine on it because I have no debt. What's wrong with people ??

  • @angooredcow157
    @angooredcow157 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    The 11 year old child should go to a public school not homeschooled. This will free up time to enable her to financially help the household. She can work online or bake cakes, cookies, and bread to sell or work somewhere.
    Dave was too hard on her husband. There is an incomplete picture of what is truly going on.
    Free house. Free food from the land. Wow, I sure wish I have some of that. No one gave me a free house or free food.

    • @felisleo101
      @felisleo101 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So they are entirely dependent on the husband’s father for both the husband’s meager income which barely covers the costs and the roof over their head.

    • @prakash.srn.17
      @prakash.srn.17 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Public schools are glorified dat care centers. Mostly crap. I'd rather have the kid home schooled

    • @malenejensen2995
      @malenejensen2995 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@prakash.srn.17Yeah, but if you cannot afford home schooling, then it is option. Otherwise she has to accept the sacrifice of having very little money when doing the home schooling.

    • @shells500tutubo
      @shells500tutubo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@prakash.srn.17 They actually are not day care centers. The problem is parents who treat the schools that way and then complain about their kids without putting the time in to see what they are doing. Just attending school is not enough. You have to know what their assignments are and make sure they do them unless you have a miracle kid who is the perfect student.

    • @patriciamalone3553
      @patriciamalone3553 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She sounds a bit naive. Even if her husband’s father gave them more money, what about retirement, medicare, social security.? You have to pay into this for a future or get yourself an IRA.

  • @deed449
    @deed449 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    They are throwing this guy under the bus just from her side of the story. They have no clue what’s really going on in that household. She seems shady!

    • @betsylongoria8916
      @betsylongoria8916 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sounds like they might have run up some bills together they need to reevaluate.

    • @betsylongoria8916
      @betsylongoria8916 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No rent, and they get $2400 a month, and she's not working so maybe she has time to grow a garden and freeze some veggies for winter months, have a few chickens .... If he wants to farm, maybe he could show her how you kitchen garden well enough to save money on groceries.

  • @cutehumor
    @cutehumor 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    the husband checked out because the wife doesn't work. husband is like "we got no money because you don't work!"

  • @davecopp9356
    @davecopp9356 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Tears that can be turned on and off like with a switch.

  • @meggold3422
    @meggold3422 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I'm very concerned that the caller didn't divulge the cause of her accident. I don't know if there is addiction, or abuse, or something, but it's enough that she's being evasive. It's possible that she's just embarrassed about what happened, as I was about my injury, but there's a whole lot wrong even without taking the accident into account. I hope they agree to counseling, because I don't think either spouse will be listening to the other in any meaningful way without it.

  • @luckylib
    @luckylib 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    She's lying. We need the husband's side

  • @HollowNotes
    @HollowNotes 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    If she can homeschool her child, she could be a virtual teacher or tutor. A lot of places have programs where you can earn your credintials while you work due to shortages. Some private schools don’t have degree requirements at all. Or she could get a phone job. They really didn’t have any solutions for this other than talk to your husband again and I don’t know what she wanted other than to make her husband earn more.

  • @warrensloan3467
    @warrensloan3467 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    If I’m the only person in the house working, I’m not going to react well to someone telling me they’re not going to be the only adult in the room anymore. If you can push a button, you can do something.

  • @LegalMind-ds4wr
    @LegalMind-ds4wr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +103

    Another call where the husband may be wrongly villainized by Dave because the woman refuses to divulge what happened. My bet is the woman is playing the fake victim here.

    • @MichaelSavage-zq6gv
      @MichaelSavage-zq6gv 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dave is such a simp weakling

    • @tduck828
      @tduck828 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Rightttt!!! I want some follow-up and the other side!!

    • @JasonGroom
      @JasonGroom 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Exactly, she said she is able to work, just not doing what she did. She needs to get a damn job

    • @pamelastoesz733
      @pamelastoesz733 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@JasonGroom she is working. She's homeschooling their kids.

    • @jjkatz
      @jjkatz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@pamelastoesz733only one kid. She can get a part time job. She likes to act the victim.

  • @larose6551
    @larose6551 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    It’s not adding up.
    $2,400 is good monthly income in rural areas.
    I suspect addiction issues…. Shopping too much to keep up with Jones’s, alcohol or something else.

    • @shells500tutubo
      @shells500tutubo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      A rural area AND they have no housing expense. Maybe that is why the father doesn't pay the husband more because he knows it will go up their noses. Pops has figured out the salary accounting for the "free" rent.

    • @Nrustica
      @Nrustica 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Food and obesity

    • @hadenanderson563
      @hadenanderson563 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Especially if it is 1983.

  • @emoney1231
    @emoney1231 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    They are both to blame. They go from $10k a month to 1/4 of that and they don't have a plan to get the income back up? Did it really take Dave Ramsey to tell them they need more money?

    • @jaybah836
      @jaybah836 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lol

  • @elizabethpoley6882
    @elizabethpoley6882 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    You can't live on $2,400/mo.?! I'm living in Los Angeles on $1,200/mo. Someone's pissing funds away somewhere. Time to grow up people!

    • @sousous31
      @sousous31 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I live in the SF area its do-able to live on less here. People just have to stop wasting money on going out, partying, alcohol, restaurants, and new iphones 😂

    • @davecopp9356
      @davecopp9356 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      How do you manage living on 1200 in LA? Living with your parents? I am serious and need some advice. Thanks.

    • @insure4cheap
      @insure4cheap 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      How are you living on $1200 in LA???

    • @HOLDXSTEEL
      @HOLDXSTEEL 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@davecopp9356um be content with what you have ?😂

    • @lot2196
      @lot2196 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@insure4cheapcardboard box under a highway overpass

  • @n.w.414
    @n.w.414 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I feel sorry for the husband. I can’t believe she wrote to his dad, that is awful. He loves farming, he has been beat up in the past already. My guess is he doesn’t trust women much anymore. This is a mess. Hope they make it through. She need some counselling.

  • @0mnilegacy
    @0mnilegacy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    The husband could be stuck in an inheritance hostage situation with his father. The farm could be worth millions. I can imagine his father saying “If you don’t help me with the farm, “I’m leaving you out of my will!” Probably a possible reason he keeps coming back to this farm thing.

    • @BeyondTigerMilk
      @BeyondTigerMilk 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Much more likely that they're just trashy drug addicts

  • @bethford6884
    @bethford6884 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    "I don't want to go there, let's not go there" I'm pretty sure means her accident was likely a drunk driving accident or drug related. She went from crying to defensive on a dime. She's not giving the entire picture.

    • @Kim-bv3xn
      @Kim-bv3xn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      my first thought

    • @femckay
      @femckay หลายเดือนก่อน

      Accident could mean a lot of things. Maybe a DUI but maybe she was beat up by her husband, maybe she got raped. Don’t assume when you don’t know. Many things are hard to talk about, especially with strangers.

  • @thomasfranco5997
    @thomasfranco5997 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I live in Los Angeles, California, I always worked hard in my twenties and worked 7 days a week. I teach my Nieces now, work hard in your 20's and save every penny. Now all 4 have 2 jobs. first the youngest ones are twins, one does nails, and the other is a party planner. The two older ones, one works in Fast Food and then works at a clothing store in the mall. The oldest one is a Manager at Panera. My father always told me when you are young and able, work 2 jobs and save every penny. That way when your older you will not have to struggle. Amen!

    • @GAFB1122
      @GAFB1122 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You sound like you love and care for your nieces, that's great.
      What do you think of those on here that will insult, denigrate, demean and otherwise look down on your nieces just because they are women?

    • @thomasfranco5997
      @thomasfranco5997 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@GAFB1122I do the same with the oldest one's husband, I got him a job at an Auto and Home Insurance Co. that I retired from after 32 years of service. I only have nieces and no nephews and Thank You! My father just turned 92 years old and is a Korean War Veteran.

    • @elizabethpoley6882
      @elizabethpoley6882 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @thomasfranco5997 Absolutely. And, if they're 18 or in their early 20s, the financial planner Suze Orman recommends getting an account at a discount broker, like Charles Schwab, investing $100/mo in something like Vanguard Total Stock Index. You never touch it til retirement. You would have over $1 million to pay off a home mortgage. I wish I had known this when I was younger.

  • @BrianW211
    @BrianW211 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Dave called it out. She said, "I'M out of savings, I'M out of money completely, I'M barely making MY bills." but I don't think the reason is simply because the husband is not involved. There's something else going on. She is being subversive about her accident and why she can't (or won't) work. If she's not getting disability payments, then she CAN work. She was quick to point out that she homeschools her 11-year-old and there are a lot of parents that use homeschooling as an excuse to _not_ work.
    My money is on the "accident" being her fault due to DUI. It would also be the reason she doesn't have a car, and the real reason she "can't" work is because she also no longer has a driver's license.

  • @marcenelj
    @marcenelj 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Made up story. Crocodile tears. Just want Dave to feel pity to write her a check.

  • @tennysoneffie6943
    @tennysoneffie6943 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Is she having a glass of wine while on this call???

    • @seantookit
      @seantookit 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yeah with a Percocet

  • @abcdlilbit11
    @abcdlilbit11 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I laughed when Ken told her to get self-sufficient. That lady don’t have a tough bone in her body.

  • @mrs.bdaycare5530
    @mrs.bdaycare5530 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Let’s not go there!! Umm ok lady why can’t you answer?

  • @Chet_24
    @Chet_24 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Seriously, wtf? She contradicts herself in the first 2-3 mins, "i can't work because of the accident....don't go there" and then when pressed by dave if she's physically incapable of working "no"
    We dont know the other side of the story (like what's really going on), but im going to assume the caller is mostly at fault for everything that's wrong. Especially the DUI wreck she caused.
    Lol! She can't handle the bills...well she doesn't work, so yeah. Everything this lady says, the opposite is likely true.

  • @analyticalchick3064
    @analyticalchick3064 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    She said of her husband, "he didn't never wanted to go into the power company." I'm sorry what is that grammar? Why is she homeschooling an 11 year old when she can't speak proper English herself?

    • @barbieblue3336
      @barbieblue3336 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ny or NJ lingo

  • @beaniemac
    @beaniemac 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Can the kid go to public school while she works customer service from home in addition to him getting a job?

  • @JustinCase780
    @JustinCase780 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    The guy was probably miserable and unhealthy at the power company. He's a farmer at heart and definitely in much better shape now mentally and physically.

    • @alqoshgirl
      @alqoshgirl 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That’s fine. I think it’s important to do what you love. But you don’t forsake your family for your own comfort. He has is not providing for his family. That’s called selfishness. Plenty of farmers that make good money and taking care of their family. He’s not

    • @JustinCase780
      @JustinCase780 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@alqoshgirl And, it's not just what he likes it is who he is as a person. She isn't doing jack. He should dump her because he is taking care and she is not. He's the one getting them free housing.

    • @alexreyes7237
      @alexreyes7237 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@alqoshgirl either is the mom she’s not doing shit

  • @fauxbro1983
    @fauxbro1983 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    women and thier "waterworks" cry me a river. and trying to control the narrative by "not wanting to go there." lol the audacity.

    • @HOLDXSTEEL
      @HOLDXSTEEL 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It’s all bull

    • @tjmcavoy-jensen871
      @tjmcavoy-jensen871 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah These women are awful bro, every single thing they do is some form of manipulation

  • @wahinepaddler4
    @wahinepaddler4 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Oh Ken.. the husband isnt playing farmer.. stop it.

  • @alexyokiel4493
    @alexyokiel4493 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    Accident = DUI 100%

    • @floresnashvilledrummer
      @floresnashvilledrummer 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Gangbang.

    • @suen5006
      @suen5006 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Maybe, but she had 8 surgeries. So she still needs to survive.

    • @mle011
      @mle011 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That was my immediate thought. Dave was about to give her sympathy about being a victim of a horrible accident, meanwhile it was her that caused it because of drinking problems. Which she might still have.

    • @riner9
      @riner9 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bingo

    • @Nrustica
      @Nrustica 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's related to her obesity

  • @ICantSpellDawg
    @ICantSpellDawg 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I'm confused. If she didn't homeschool, she could work like most Americans and earn a living. At least part time.
    I disagree, it is her. Homeschooling only works with a husband who provides

  • @Ckb5991
    @Ckb5991 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Dave screwed this one up. Dudes being taken advantage of by a wife who is “unable” to work. Get off your ass and work if you want more. This didn’t add up.

  • @arleneliftschrist6240
    @arleneliftschrist6240 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    When she didn’t want to say how she got injured red flags

  • @sglacf
    @sglacf 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Something does not add up about this lady and the whole situation.

    • @larose6551
      @larose6551 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Not adding up at all.
      $2,400 is good income especially in rural America. I smell an addiction?

    • @sglacf
      @sglacf 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @larose6551 that's what I was thinking, and manipulation

  • @jasonleatherwood2172
    @jasonleatherwood2172 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Lets not go there means she scammed someone and got a settlement and cant talk about it

    • @patriciamalone3553
      @patriciamalone3553 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Or she was drunk and ran into something or someone.

  • @carnivoreRon
    @carnivoreRon 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Let's not go there??? They don't communicate about money.

  • @emilyandersen8963
    @emilyandersen8963 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Farm kid from Nebraska. There is a reason why we have a saying, "behind every successful farmer is a wife who works in town."

  • @FrankS111
    @FrankS111 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    I would have hung up the moment she said “let’s not go there”. Sorry if you don’t want to give me information into why you cannot work then I cannot help you *click*

    • @CarlaQuattlebaum
      @CarlaQuattlebaum 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I remember Dave doing that with one caller. He asked the lady about household income. The lady said her husband wouldn't want her giving that out. Dave said he couldn't help her and ended the call.

    • @ST-rj8iu
      @ST-rj8iu 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      no. she was in an accident and can no longer work. that is all you need to know. how the accident happened doesn't change the outcome.

    • @FrankS111
      @FrankS111 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ST-rj8iu wrong. That tells me the nature of her disability and if she’s full of BS.

    • @Chet_24
      @Chet_24 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@ST-rj8iu a minute later when asked if she was physically able to work, she said she could.

    • @ST-rj8iu
      @ST-rj8iu 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Chet_24 she also said she doesn't have feeling in her hands. The work she can do is probably limited. Either way. Maybe they should just get divorced.

  • @Jayhoodcleaning
    @Jayhoodcleaning 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Girl is cappin lol

  • @brucefredrickson9677
    @brucefredrickson9677 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    "Let's not go there" when asked about the accident. She seems to be hiding something and is so scattered in her conversation.

  • @penguinistas
    @penguinistas 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Maybe she wants $10,000 a month but that is a want and not a need. I doubt that electric, water and internet is running $2,400 a month. Food is getting more expensive but not that much more expensive.
    It seems that Dave decided to latch on to a neat, tidy, easy to pigeon hole narrative, which I believe is a huge mistake. Dave should have asked the husband his side of the story. I would delve a lot deeper into what else "the bills" entails. I have trouble believing that "she" is the only one making adult decisions in their house.

  • @susanbrush280
    @susanbrush280 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If his dad is 84 years old, the discussion they should be having is when is his dad going to retire and let him run the farm. I am from a farm family in Iowa, and the same thing happened to my brother. Luckily he was also a CPA. And once my dad finally gave over the reins, then my brother could start making decisions for himself for the farm. at 84 the guy has been hanging on too long. He expects basically a low paid farm hand from his son, and it’s not gonna change until the sun takes over complete complete control of the farm.

  • @mwhe3111
    @mwhe3111 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    The whole accident thing is the weirdest/sketchiest thing about this whole call. Eight surgeries but you don't wanna talk about it?

    • @CarlaQuattlebaum
      @CarlaQuattlebaum 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yup, that made it more mysterious.

    • @Chet_24
      @Chet_24 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1 of them was probably to remove a bottle from her hand. No idea what the other 7 were 😉

  • @MichaelJones-rn2pq
    @MichaelJones-rn2pq 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am from Nebraska. Farmers and people who think they are farmers oft times think that the normal rules of finance, debt, and income shouldn't apply to them. It's like they think it's a calling, not a job or profession. That's fine if they aren't going broke.

  • @dudeorduuude5211
    @dudeorduuude5211 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    She sounds like a smoker. Cut out thw cigarettes to save some money.

  • @EAAAA1505
    @EAAAA1505 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    10k a month and they have nothing now. The importance of saving and investing and prepare for when things change.

  • @kathykobos8980
    @kathykobos8980 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    She speaks in the singular about the bills.

  • @christinehopping5040
    @christinehopping5040 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Calls like this make me happy to be single and independent. It never ceases to amaze me how many ladies get married, so that they can be taken care of by their husband. You've got to take care of yourself, your health, your finances. Stop the pity party and get off the couch. Exercise, get a job, and live a productive life that serves others.

  • @ronp-eb9bh
    @ronp-eb9bh 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    A cigarette 🚬 smoking, beer 🍺 drinking ol lady Cyber Begging for a handout from Poppa Dave 🤣

  • @Frank-d6b
    @Frank-d6b 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +146

    Amazing video, A friend of mine referred me to a financial adviser sometime ago and we got to talking about investment and money. I started investing with $150k and in the first 2 months, my portfolio was reading $274,800. Crazy right!, I decided to reinvest my profit and get more interesting. For over a year we have been working together making consistent profit just bought my second home 2 weeks ago and care for my family.

    • @Mary-h2w
      @Mary-h2w 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi. I’ve been forced to find additional sources of income as I got retrenched. I barely have time to continue trading and watch my investments since I had my second child. Do you think I should take a break for a while from the market and focus on other things or return whenever I have free time or is it a continuous process? Thanks

    • @Frank-d6b
      @Frank-d6b 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Mary-h2w However, if you do not have access to a professional like Clementina Abate Russo, quitting your job to focus on trading may not be the best approach. It is important to consider all options and seek guidance from reliable sources before making any major decisions. Consulting with an AI or using automated trading systems can also be helpful in managing investments while balancing other commitment

    • @Mary-h2w
      @Mary-h2w 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Frank-d6b Oh please I’d love that. Thanks!

    • @Frank-d6b
      @Frank-d6b 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Mary-h2w Clementina Abate Russo is her name

    • @Frank-d6b
      @Frank-d6b 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lookup with her name on the webpage.

  • @tubenachos
    @tubenachos 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    There are more red flags here than a Chinese Communist parade 😂.

  • @Zero-gh9lp
    @Zero-gh9lp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    There is a degree of her not communicating, like they asked her "what was his response?" more than once and she did not answer or engage with question at all. If shes not great at communicating something that happened last night, she may be a bad communicator overall. Also, tons if info left out here.

  • @CarlaQuattlebaum
    @CarlaQuattlebaum 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I couldn't understand why she kept saying, "I can't pay MY bills" when she's married. How are they only be HER bills when she's talking about things like utilities?

  • @KathleenMcNe
    @KathleenMcNe 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "I don't want to go there ... Let's not go there": there's a reason she doesn't want to specify the nature of her accident. She and her husband make their own misfortune.

  • @rory644
    @rory644 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    She sounds like she’s had a few beers 🍺

  • @stt5v2002
    @stt5v2002 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    “God is providing, we are so thankful.”
    Really, then why are you calling a radio show in tears having sold all of your possessions?
    It’s just sad that people have to say things as if they think god is listening and will throw them down the stairs again if he is displeased.

  • @a.miller8316
    @a.miller8316 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wife CAN work... Refuses to acknowledge that. This whole call is a lie.

  • @Britty0189
    @Britty0189 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Sounds like she was looking for a donation not help lol

    • @carpediem6431
      @carpediem6431 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That’s what I thought too

    • @janelleg597
      @janelleg597 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They don't give out donations ever on the air

    • @CarlaQuattlebaum
      @CarlaQuattlebaum 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@janelleg597 Yup, I guess she didn't know that Dave doesn't do that, but he WILL get you into Financial Peace University for free.

    • @ziggywalsh5562
      @ziggywalsh5562 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She probably has a Gofundme for the «Let’sNotGoThere»

    • @analyticalchick3064
      @analyticalchick3064 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      We've had a number of callers like that. Did you hear the girl who kept saying she needed 20k to repair her house but she lived with her mom and grandma?

  • @Torqued_to_Spec
    @Torqued_to_Spec 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    “Let’s not go there” was covering for a damn lie.

  • @user-nd3tg5zn1b
    @user-nd3tg5zn1b 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I think they have credit card 💳 debt and they want their old life back. What is the accident? She must have been at fault,because she doesn’t want to talk about it!

  • @Sable1837
    @Sable1837 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The minute I realize a call isn’t adding up and we are being taken for an emotional, manipulative ride I move to the next video. I’m done wasting my time on liars and manipulators playing the “woe is me” card.

  • @Geletin911
    @Geletin911 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Definitely a DUI…also, sounds drunk on the call

  • @Seromontis
    @Seromontis 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    AA is a good program if you take it seriously lady.

  • @Pablo-cs5sc
    @Pablo-cs5sc 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    dave: "no you didnt"
    caller: "yes i did"
    dave: "no you didnt"
    caller: "well i did"
    defensive much?

  • @jimmymcgill6778
    @jimmymcgill6778 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Dave is assuming a lot about this guy.
    Telling the husband what to do, will lead to divorce.
    Where's her disability check? SSDI?
    There's more that is not being said.

  • @patriciacatlinbrown3804
    @patriciacatlinbrown3804 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I side with the husband on this. If this woman wants more money, she needs to get a job! Her husband has been able to provide the family with a free place to live and $2400 per month doing something he loves. She’s using that accident as an excuse. Husband is taking care of her and his aging father and she wants to complain because she no longer has her $10,000 per month lifestyle? She needs a reality check.

  • @pinkyshoes22
    @pinkyshoes22 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sounds like she tried to off herself and is in deep severe depression. She needs to go to counseling, maybe take medicine, get her kid back in school- it’s not healthy for the child to be with her full time, and she needs to get a job. It will take time but she needs to make steps or she will stay where she’s at

  • @f_b8158
    @f_b8158 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Something is very off here

  • @rethinkcps2116
    @rethinkcps2116 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Pain killer RX addiction -

  • @Alyssasue222
    @Alyssasue222 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Men need to understand that security is a woman’s #1 love language and when she has it his life will be infinitely better!!

    • @Chet_24
      @Chet_24 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Or he gets rid of the complaining woman and focuses on improving himself.

    • @Alyssasue222
      @Alyssasue222 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Chet_24 regardless of whether he breaks his vows and kicks out his disabled wife and child or not. In order to succeed in any relationship with a female understanding that she needs to feel safe with you is important (if you love her and desire her happiness.) Emotional safety, physical safety and financial safety will give her the peace she needs and desires.

  • @NovelNovelist
    @NovelNovelist 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Everything else aside, it's so hard to adapt to price increases over time. I go through the drive through and I'm still shocked every time the bill is more than $5 or $6 because in my head I'm still expecting 90s pricing.

  • @Aki_Lesbrinco
    @Aki_Lesbrinco 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They're screwed and she's desperate and she still says God provides. This insanity needs to stop. They have to provide for themselves and not depend on "God providing".

  • @larose6551
    @larose6551 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    As my grandmother would say “something’s rotten in the cotton” 😮

    • @woodywoowoo
      @woodywoowoo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Such a great phrase.

  • @pentrubarbati
    @pentrubarbati 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Another example why is not a good deal for a man to marry ...