I love this program. I really think it gives women the ability to focus on motherhood without the outside noise and helps those with dependency issues not worry about that outlet during the most difficult time of motherhood. Most of these mothers would just turn to drugs when stressed at home but here they have the help they need while still being able to focus on that bond.
23:46 THIS is actually a wild precursor. Now her ALREADY not having custody of her other children SHOULD be the main reason why these women should be disqualified from the program.
@@RtistiqSkubie Rehabilitation is supposed to to be a big part of being incarcerated. Without outside distractions, these women are learning how to be better mothers and bonding with their children. It’s a great program. Her other children will grow up with huge issues. Maybe learning how to be a good parent will allow her to have a positive effect on her other children. Everyone “deserves” to move on and learn from their mistakes. This program is giving these mom’s that opportunity.
Exactly 💯 everyone does deserve a second chance. Why be miserable in jail without your child. At least having your child can make you a better person in the long run.
@@guest4796 Shes had many chances even her other kids are not with her. This says alot. You dont get to keep messing up and still get chances . ITs not how life works.
Excellent video. Thank you. Such an innovative program. Wish they had them for new mothers all across the Country! Bravo to those who worked so hard to get it approved in Indiana!
8 pregnancies, 2 miscarriages, 3 adoptions, one staying with family, and one still in her womb has got to be traumatizing. That’s sad. I hope she gets herself together.
It’s traumatizing for the children how can you have that many babies and then keep having more babies and more babies? Something is not right with this lady. I don’t think she’ll ever get her life back on track considering her track record.
So sad this young girl Donna. She has a soul tie to this young man. It’s not love. She’s wounded and thinks a man is her everything. I pray she grows, matures, finds Jesus. 🙏🏽
@@tamiko_8369 amen I pray for all these women in these prison for Lord to have mercy and reveal Himself to them in dreams and open visions. In Jesus name 🙏🙏🙏
Man, Heather really needs to acknowledge her wrong doing. She blames everyone but herself. She doesn’t seem to think having a meth lab is a bad thing because he never did it at home. I pray for her daughter and ALL her children.. she isn’t good for any of them :(
So emotional to watch as a mother. I couldn't imagine having my child taken from me in 24 hours. Like wow, could they at least allow them maybe a week to stay with the baby. That 24 hours seems to be very damaging mentally and emotionally. I hope they provide intense therapy and medication management when these women get back to prison with their babies
In Portugal the mothers can keep their children up to three years. I worked in one, the children looked miserable, the older ones, to tell the truth... How about stopping having babies???
Im so sad for the babies. Not saying these women are all horrible or can't take care of them, but these little ones should be playing outside under the sun, have playmates, toys, a room of their own.... They should be living their lives, not serving a sentence with their parent.
I think it's a wonderful idea.... The mothers are far more likely to turn their lives around for the sake of their baby.... Nuture that bond it's so precious. I love the nanny idea too! Gives everyone something beautiful to focus on ... What a wonderful program. Hope it becomes more widespread and more spaces too.
Im so sad for the babies. Not saying these women are all horrible or can't take care of them, but these little ones should be playing outside under the sun, have playmates, toys, a room of their own.... They should be living their lives, not serving a sentence with their parent.
This actually makes me sad. As someone who wanted more kids and couldn't keep them due to medical reasons. They just have them back to back with no way to support them and no consequences.
Yes. I'm not sure but there are nuns who run a Nursery and bring the babies in to see their mothers every day. The inmates couldn't thank them enough. Athough they have to do some overtime, they don't mind what with their other work and praying.
God Bless Tammy's Sister. Were it not for her, Savannah would be in the Foster Care System. She looks so much like Charlotte "Charli" Brooks from the UK Soap Opera Eastenders.
so the this unusual punishment is ok ?what next ? there was a time even sexual abuse was legal and accepted in prison. yes they have committed crimes, non violent crimes. how does shackling a pregnant women even in active labor and delivery justifies that ? its only happens in USA. the barbaric society and the barbaric practice. in my country women can keep upto 6 years. i dont understand the logic behind shackling and handcuffing a woman in labor and delivery. what a barbaric system.
These babies get a lot of love & affection, that's a good thing. If the mother can look after the child yes, let her keep the baby. Personally, I think Bobbie was only choosing to keep baby #8 to help her court issues & future time off prison sentence. She has none of her previous 7 children but wants #8, yea ok. Doesn't make any sense.
I was almost 2 years sober when I had my son. After 14 years of drinking and in and out of jail. Now I have almost 10 years sober. My son saved my life 100%. I may not have had him in jail but I know how much a child can save you and with God can change your entire life. ♥️
I think its a great program to keep mom,s and babies together. However i don't agree with using someone's past against them when they were 10 years old, its ridiculous i could see it if they were 16 or 17 but this was a 10 year old girl and i can say most children are guilty of fighting with other children as it's pretty common, but to use it against them as adults is boggling to me.
Because your governments are much more humane. I know they've done bad things to get where they are. But those children are completely innocent and deserve as little turmoil as possible. They're already starting way behind in life; how is shackling a mother during labor and delivery and ripping the babies away to go heavens knows where a day after the most traumatic event most people experience, and thankfully we don't remember it. Our prison system makes me sick.
This isn't 100% true. They are allowed to keep them up until the baby is 18months old and ONLY if there is space in a mother and baby unit in the country. If there isn't baby must be cared for outside of the prison
@@lindarella8456 I'm in Adelaide & when I was pregnant & locked up time in 2001 due to non violent charges I could have put in to keep my child with me. Luckily I knew charges were being dismissed & I never had to endure any of this. In Australia we have our systems geared towards rehabilitation, the US are geared towards profit. Glad I'm an Aussie
The program started in 2008. In 2023 they found that the offenders in the program were 37% less likely to reoffend than their counterparts not in a program and being separated from their babies at birth.
If only it was that easy, but it’s not, as it’s far more than just saying no to drugs. If it were just about saying no, there wouldn’t be the need for these types of programs. What lands a lot of these women into criminal activity & prison is much more systemic & complicated. Factors such as trauma/abuse, socioeconomic, environment the girls/women have been raised in, lack of education, lack of community support services, & more play a primary role into why women end up addicted, pregnant, &/or in prison. These problems have to be more effectively addressed on a systems level, if significant & lasting change is going to have a better chance to occur.
@stringerchick3650 "one mistake" You are making it sound like possession, theft, murder, and arson are just simple mistakes. Possession doesn't even land you in prison. (If its a class 3/4 you will go to prison, but that's obviously not a mistake 😐)
Heather will not get that baby back in 6 months. How you already asking the family to commit to a longer stay. She will be one of those moms who want someone else to raise and take care of her child and she will just want to see how the baby is doing.
I think it’s an excellent idea, as long as the mother isn’t a psychopath.Hopefully it helps soften the mother and build a strong bond with the child.Hopefully it can break the generational curses once these women are taught how to care for themselves and their innocent babies The Amish family was lovely, it sound bad, but it would be a beautiful placement for that little baby girl! Maybe the mum would be willing to have an open adoption, that baby deserves a loving, safe environment. And it will give her mum time to work on herself, and her other 6 children
I'm sorry but historical statistics show these precious children need to be as far away as possible from both the mother, the father and any biological family.
As much as I hate to see the babies taken away, the ladies would not be there if they made better life choices, every negative decision has a consequence. 😢
@@bekahiam1adopted children can develope stronger bonds to their adopted parents compared to their biological parents. It's all about how they are treated.
@@Dean-2006 people who were adopted also have higher rates of suicide than non adoptees, and children who stay with their birth parents generally have better outcomes in multiple areas 🙃
@eggbun1856 i don't know why you put an upside down smiley face after telling me a specific group of people have a 4 times higher chance of killing themselves. Like I said before, it's all about how the child is raised. The foster system is not good, which can lead to the increased suicide risk that you mention. But some biological parents are just as bad if not sometimes worse. It all comes down to how the child is raised, when they are transitioned, and how the parent treats the child. Personally, I believe a person who gives birth in prison (especially if they have been in there longer than a year) will not be the best mother.
Feels bad to think that some people can’t have children ever. And these ”woman” are just popping out babies that are propably gonna have miserable life because of their stupid choises 😒
I feel like Bobby was invited to participate to see if a baby can help rehabilitate a mother deemed least likely to make a turn around. I’m curious to see the impact this program will have on both mom and baby. How is it dealing with postpartum in a prison setting etc? Seems scary
@@CantHandleThisCanYaTo be really honest with you my daughter Whom I birthed at age 14, resents me because I did have an abortion when I was sixteen, I was in a situation with an older guy that had been my brother's friend, and so he was always at our house. Anyways, at 16 I got pregnant a second time and he set the app and everything so I really didn't feel I had a choice at that age I was already having anxiety attacks from having a child at 14. So it's sorta messed up. That's how it goes nobody ever said this life would be fair.
His pitiful of these babies ..it is so irresponsible for these ladies not using contraceptives-but bringing children into this world without a good stability of life .
I agree. It's disgusting that these woman have any opportunity to have a relationship with their innocent kids. This focus on the parents ensure children grow up in some form of abusive family.
Watching this makes me feel so sad because I have condonned these people that are in jail. It is true, these people have made big mistakes in life. Hope they can change for good.
That's not fair do deny her counseling when she really needs it. There needs to be more funding to create more spots since there's a waiting list for NA when she's asking for it. She had a spark, instead of being mad or upset and acting out after being denied a place, she figured out what she could do to be there for her baby.
What a brave Mothers and when it talks about their children the soft and kind heart naturally showing up. I pray that your children will inspire these mothers to have a clean start and a change persons when they all will be release someday 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Dont get it why say new two days ago when they been on youtube before more then once. I have mix feelings about they blame abusive or drugs or etc why they do what they do . Its up to them no one else
Why would you need a labor coach for a c-section?? Why would you leave your child with someone who doesn’t have a vehicle??? And, your boyfriend’s mother is NOT your mother in law.
Humans are not meant to have a liter. The fact she keeps popping them out is disgusting given the fact she can't take care of them. Stop the cycle and guys STOP PUTTING KIDS IN THERE! Wait..... she can't go because of violence...... her reply..... THAT MAKES ME ANGRY LOL
I don't know the answer here, but this isn't it. The mother's all made a choice to be a criminal, but the children didn't. There HAS to be a better option here.
@@michellewalker9348 exactly that’s what I been thinking this whole time ..like they feel like the jail is supposed to help them as far as with the babies .. well stop going back to jail and the young 20 year old is upset that she can’t do what she want and she have to put her baby up I mean it’s a messed up situation but unfortunately it is what it is 😳
but why cant they make a place where these kids can be placed n kept till the mom is released, i find it better also if the baby can be taken by a fam member n the mom can contact the child daily
Just like when they get out they blame they dont have no one or no work when we know all thats a lie there help out there there jobs like McDonald's or gas station or going to school aka college. They know not be around invirement to tempt them . Or be the better people and be around people or stuff to temp them to show they be the bigger person better person dont make excuses
After trying to understand what you wrote felons can not receive Financial Aid so there goes college. And it’s not a lie if people never even visited these folks in jail do you really think they’ll have support when they’re out? And we can not deny that when prisoners come home they are still treated like criminals.
My opinion about should female prisoners have their babies behind bars?- yes, most definitely! It’s giving women prisoners bonding with their babies like mostly never before in control environment and most likely the prisoners are motivated to correct their behaviour and live by social norms in the future . That’s just my opinion.
@@jennyrose2200 I absolutely agree but violent women in prison are not allowed into joining a program, and prison is a very controlled environment and the women there are closely observed! In prison women are observed and some have a very good chance to truly bond with their babies like never before. Also there is tuns of women who are not in prison and they are terrible mothers and shouldn’t be ideally mothers at all.
I totally disagree with your opinion. These women WILL reoffend. So that baby is going to be ripped out of the mother's arms at a later time after it's already bonded with her that's terrible
@@loulalucille8946 I appreciate your opinion and it could be valid one. Possibly that those women will reoffend but it’s not a 💯 %. I believe that they will get the chance to be mothers in such a controlled environment than they might not reoffend because they had a chance to truly bond with their children like never before, and they don’t want to take a risk by reoffending and losing their children. However if they reoffend and lose the privilege of being mothers and their children will get traumatised unfortunately. But I honestly think that prison could change some inmates but as always, not all. The prison staff and doctors will be aware what sort of inmates they have and how to roughly predict their behaviour, and if they are suitable to look after their children. If nobody can give them any chance ever, then they will be far more in risk of reoffending. This is my humble opinion and you certainly don’t have to agree.
It don't hurt to raise babies in prisons. The babies don't know the difference and seem to be treated very well. But don't necessarily agree that they should go to their mother's afterwards.
I dont think its a good idea to keep the babies in the jail because what if the baby grows up thinking its ok to do wrong and go to jail an still can be allowed to have baby in jail
The one who had the miscarriages and gave up her other kids . She clearly dont want them, she want to be in that program where its comfortable this is why she wants to keep the one baby, They should of gave Bobby's spot to someone more deserving in my opinion but for the other moms I hope when they get out of jail they stay out and raise their babies. They seem to be doing great and to the one who the Amish is keeping the baby. Id rather have the baby with an Amish couple and not muslim. The baby will be well cared for I hope that girl gets her act together
I’m sorry I don’t believe that lady with them Amish folks but for her to be having all those children and not taking care of not one is crazy she not gonna go back to pick up that baby
So you decide who “deserves” to have children & who doesn’t “deserve” to have children???? Done a lot of research have you? You must have many degrees in psychology to base your “decisions” on???? Pretty narcissistic of you.
@ You should. These children are going to grow up without their mom’s for quite a while or go into the foster care system. Their personalities are formed by the age of 4. These mom’s are conceivably learning how to parent. It’s a win-win. Most neglected or abused children grow up to be criminals. You should care. One of them could hurt someone you love. Your statement is so unnecessary and shows a huge lack of understanding by YOU! Grow up.
We have way too many people in this world breeding that shouldn't be. It needs to be harder to have a pet and kids. It's gross. People are so irresponsible and selfish. Not to mention ALL the wrong people keep breeding It's part of the reason this world is so messed up. Sad.
Aside from your comment being closed-minded in general…..if ‘men’ were so concerned about women having babies, THEY have three choices: 1) take responsibility for that which they create; 2) use a condom; 3) get snipped. When Roe v Wade was overturned, appts. at clinics for men to get snipped ‘skyrocketed.’
But everyone turns their nose up at the mere mention of abstinence. The only 100% fool proof protection from pregnancy is simply not engaging. But no. We’re all just highly evolved animals. We can’t do that.
@@sade2576Are you blind? The babies are in an environment where child killers and abusers are held captive. No child deserves to be raised in that environment to females who put their own needs first. Please don't have any child.
I'm not sure if this is a good idea. They don't need any rewards in prison. Prison isn't a long resort stay. It is punishment for crimes they have committed.
@marilynh•Its kind of easy to say this but one wonders why so many women are locked up ?Plus 12 hours locked up ?What about if they go into labour?Plus some have done violent crimes some must be far less..I don't know how anyone pregnant can talk about the woman microwaving a baby ..Or the woman that's had all the kids taken into care and adoption 😱🤦♀️
I love this program. I really think it gives women the ability to focus on motherhood without the outside noise and helps those with dependency issues not worry about that outlet during the most difficult time of motherhood. Most of these mothers would just turn to drugs when stressed at home but here they have the help they need while still being able to focus on that bond.
23:46 THIS is actually a wild precursor. Now her ALREADY not having custody of her other children SHOULD be the main reason why these women should be disqualified from the program.
@@RtistiqSkubie Rehabilitation is supposed to to be a big part of being incarcerated. Without outside distractions, these women are learning how to be better mothers and bonding with their children. It’s a great program. Her other children will grow up with huge issues. Maybe learning how to be a good parent will allow her to have a positive effect on her other children. Everyone “deserves” to move on and learn from their mistakes. This program is giving these mom’s that opportunity.
Exactly 💯 everyone does deserve a second chance. Why be miserable in jail without your child. At least having your child can make you a better person in the long run.
@@guest4796 Shes had many chances even her other kids are not with her. This says alot. You dont get to keep messing up and still get chances . ITs not how life works.
Excellent video. Thank you. Such an innovative program. Wish they had them for new mothers all across the Country! Bravo to those who worked so hard to get it approved in Indiana!
wow the Amish people are so kind and gentle!… That lady doesn’t want her child back
8 pregnancies, 2 miscarriages, 3 adoptions, one staying with family, and one still in her womb has got to be traumatizing. That’s sad. I hope she gets herself together.
@@JustShanae Traumatizing especially for the children. I hope she won't have any more kids.
It’s traumatizing for the children how can you have that many babies and then keep having more babies and more babies? Something is not right with this lady. I don’t think she’ll ever get her life back on track considering her track record.
Sorry but why does she keep having babies and giving them up and now she wants to keep this one ?
She don't she wanna be in the program where it's cool and comfortable and she got something to do
So sad this young girl Donna. She has a soul tie to this young man. It’s not love. She’s wounded and thinks a man is her everything. I pray she grows, matures, finds Jesus. 🙏🏽
@@tamiko_8369 amen I pray for all these women in these prison for Lord to have mercy and reveal Himself to them in dreams and open visions. In Jesus name 🙏🙏🙏
I am Christian.
My friends of other faiths and no faiths who have kids would rightly disagree with you.
Did she say she was 11 when she got pregnant with her twins? 😮😮😢
Pregnant in Prison:
The struggles of a baby with a criminal Mother.
It’s about the kid before it’s about the parent.
Every parent knows that.
Man, Heather really needs to acknowledge her wrong doing. She blames everyone but herself. She doesn’t seem to think having a meth lab is a bad thing because he never did it at home. I pray for her daughter and ALL her children.. she isn’t good for any of them :(
So emotional to watch as a mother. I couldn't imagine having my child taken from me in 24 hours. Like wow, could they at least allow them maybe a week to stay with the baby. That 24 hours seems to be very damaging mentally and emotionally. I hope they provide intense therapy and medication management when these women get back to prison with their babies
@@tiffaniemusgrove9753 I think anything longer would be worse cause that bond will be broken.
Where is the contraception
I’m the bag in dope
In Portugal the mothers can keep their children up to three years. I worked in one, the children looked miserable, the older ones, to tell the truth... How about stopping having babies???
@@sophiamarquis that horrible … kids get punished so the mother has it easier … ridiculous …
Im so sad for the babies. Not saying these women are all horrible or can't take care of them, but these little ones should be playing outside under the sun, have playmates, toys, a room of their own.... They should be living their lives, not serving a sentence with their parent.
I think it's a wonderful idea.... The mothers are far more likely to turn their lives around for the sake of their baby.... Nuture that bond it's so precious. I love the nanny idea too! Gives everyone something beautiful to focus on ... What a wonderful program. Hope it becomes more widespread and more spaces too.
Criminals are unfit to be parents criminals should be banned from having kids.
Im so sad for the babies. Not saying these women are all horrible or can't take care of them, but these little ones should be playing outside under the sun, have playmates, toys, a room of their own.... They should be living their lives, not serving a sentence with their parent.
@@zoorenard1101 and not living in a dirty environment.
Check the statistics about that.
This actually makes me sad. As someone who wanted more kids and couldn't keep them due to medical reasons. They just have them back to back with no way to support them and no consequences.
The Amish family is wonderful doing this for moms.
@@debibarlow8904 ✝️🙏🏻Amen
Amen
Yes. I'm not sure but there are nuns who run a Nursery and bring the babies in to see their mothers every day. The inmates couldn't thank them enough. Athough they have to do some overtime, they don't mind what with their other work and praying.
On UK Soaps they have characters who go to prison and they have what is known as the MUBU Unit. Mothers Unit Baby Unit. 😊
God Bless Tammy's Sister. Were it not for her, Savannah would be in the Foster Care System. She looks so much like Charlotte "Charli" Brooks from the UK Soap Opera Eastenders.
1st Time Watching & This Is Heartbreaking!
Why commit crimes while having young children at the same time seems shortsighted 😔
These people aren't intelligent
@@CantHandleThisCanYa yeah fair enough you can’t fix stupid
Because no is perfect. Did your parents make all the right decisions in life probably not.
@@sade2576 By your comments your parents failed to bring you up right with the comments you have made.
so the this unusual punishment is ok ?what next ? there was a time even sexual abuse was legal and accepted in prison. yes they have committed crimes, non violent crimes. how does shackling a pregnant women even in active labor and delivery justifies that ? its only happens in USA. the barbaric society and the barbaric practice. in my country women can keep upto 6 years.
i dont understand the logic behind shackling and handcuffing a woman in labor and delivery. what a barbaric system.
These babies get a lot of love & affection, that's a good thing. If the mother can look after the child yes, let her keep the baby. Personally, I think Bobbie was only choosing to keep baby #8 to help her court issues & future time off prison sentence. She has none of her previous 7 children but wants #8, yea ok. Doesn't make any sense.
I was almost 2 years sober when I had my son. After 14 years of drinking and in and out of jail. Now I have almost 10 years sober. My son saved my life 100%. I may not have had him in jail but I know how much a child can save you and with God can change your entire life. ♥️
Bobbi...3 children adopted out, 1 with cousin, other with baby daddy and now pregnant again. #absolutelydlsgusting
@@moondancer334 how is she getting pregnant
I think its a great program to keep mom,s and babies together. However i don't agree with using someone's past against them when they were 10 years old, its ridiculous i could see it if they were 16 or 17 but this was a 10 year old girl and i can say most children are guilty of fighting with other children as it's pretty common, but to use it against them as adults is boggling to me.
Indiana is also the location for Girls Inc. on Netflix and UK Reporter Trevor McDonald visited the Prison and was blown away.
In the UK they can keep the babies till they are 2
Criminals are unfit to be parents criminals should be banned from having kids.
@sambooth6920 Im Victoria, Australia you can keep the baby with you until it's 3 years old
Because your governments are much more humane. I know they've done bad things to get where they are. But those children are completely innocent and deserve as little turmoil as possible. They're already starting way behind in life; how is shackling a mother during labor and delivery and ripping the babies away to go heavens knows where a day after the most traumatic event most people experience, and thankfully we don't remember it. Our prison system makes me sick.
This isn't 100% true. They are allowed to keep them up until the baby is 18months old and ONLY if there is space in a mother and baby unit in the country. If there isn't baby must be cared for outside of the prison
@@lindarella8456 I'm in Adelaide & when I was pregnant & locked up time in 2001 due to non violent charges I could have put in to keep my child with me. Luckily I knew charges were being dismissed & I never had to endure any of this. In Australia we have our systems geared towards rehabilitation, the US are geared towards profit. Glad I'm an Aussie
Does anybody know when this was first aired? I remember seeing it years ago
@@alisoncarroll they keep on re uploading to re ignite views😂
@@moderator5566t lol got me hook line and sinker
Musta been before 2012 because at the end of the programme they said one of the would be released in 2012
The program started in 2008. In 2023 they found that the offenders in the program were 37% less likely to reoffend than their counterparts not in a program and being separated from their babies at birth.
Pro-tip, don't do anything wrong to get to sent to prison in the first place.
@@IntrinsicPalomides my exact thoughts!!
If only it was that easy, but it’s not, as it’s far more than just saying no to drugs. If it were just about saying no, there wouldn’t be the need for these types of programs.
What lands a lot of these women into criminal activity & prison is much more systemic & complicated. Factors such as trauma/abuse, socioeconomic, environment the girls/women have been raised in, lack of education, lack of community support services, & more play a primary role into why women end up addicted, pregnant, &/or in prison. These problems have to be more effectively addressed on a systems level, if significant & lasting change is going to have a better chance to occur.
@@liseklerekoper2441All of the above are CHOICES.
Only takes one mistake to end up in prison. So your tip is lame
@stringerchick3650 "one mistake" You are making it sound like possession, theft, murder, and arson are just simple mistakes.
Possession doesn't even land you in prison. (If its a class 3/4 you will go to prison, but that's obviously not a mistake 😐)
Good video the reality of women having babies in prison is sad and what the out come is
Heather will not get that baby back in 6 months. How you already asking the family to commit to a longer stay. She will be one of those moms who want someone else to raise and take care of her child and she will just want to see how the baby is doing.
I think it’s an excellent idea, as long as the mother isn’t a psychopath.Hopefully it helps soften the mother and build a strong bond with the child.Hopefully it can break the generational curses once these women are taught how to care for themselves and their innocent babies
The Amish family was lovely, it sound bad, but it would be a beautiful placement for that little baby girl! Maybe the mum would be willing to have an open adoption, that baby deserves a loving, safe environment. And it will give her mum time to work on herself, and her other 6 children
I'm sorry but historical statistics show these precious children need to be as far away as possible from both the mother, the father and any biological family.
I love this!!!!
As much as I hate to see the babies taken away, the ladies would not be there if they made better life choices, every negative decision has a consequence. 😢
I agree and it's the babies needs that should come first.
It is more about the babies having a loving bond with their mothers. A lack of a secure attachment can really hurt the children later on in life.
@@bekahiam1adopted children can develope stronger bonds to their adopted parents compared to their biological parents. It's all about how they are treated.
@@Dean-2006 people who were adopted also have higher rates of suicide than non adoptees, and children who stay with their birth parents generally have better outcomes in multiple areas 🙃
@eggbun1856 i don't know why you put an upside down smiley face after telling me a specific group of people have a 4 times higher chance of killing themselves.
Like I said before, it's all about how the child is raised. The foster system is not good, which can lead to the increased suicide risk that you mention. But some biological parents are just as bad if not sometimes worse. It all comes down to how the child is raised, when they are transitioned, and how the parent treats the child.
Personally, I believe a person who gives birth in prison (especially if they have been in there longer than a year) will not be the best mother.
Feels bad to think that some people can’t have children ever. And these ”woman” are just popping out babies that are propably gonna have miserable life because of their stupid choises 😒
None of these babies deserve a mother who has been placed in jail. The mothers should not have that opportunity full stop.
Adoption from the get go would be the best chance for a normal life for these babies.
@@amyrivers4093 well good thing God saw different.
1st Time Watching & Subscribe.
This part 4:36 needs to come with a trigger warning. How could anyone do those things to a baby?! 💔💔💔💔💔
I agree. It was really disturbing.
The last thing you want to hear growing up is you being in prison as a baby. That would be embarrassing.
This is sad and unfortunate. I wish best for the mothers and most importantly for the babies.
In my country Papua New Guinea, women prisoners can keep their babies until they are 3 years old. Speaking here as a correctional officer myself.
Heather does not deserve to raise any child and I hope that she does not get any of her kids back into her care once she leaves jail.
I doubt she’ll even try to get any of them back, she’ll be too busy making more and getting locked up again.
Babies. Shouldn't. Have. To. Live. In. Prison. !
I feel like Bobby was invited to participate to see if a baby can help rehabilitate a mother deemed least likely to make a turn around. I’m curious to see the impact this program will have on both mom and baby. How is it dealing with postpartum in a prison setting etc? Seems scary
Have daddy raise the kids.
What? Dad's not reliable?
wow having twins at 11 years old, I thought I was young at 14 that is so young and to have twins that is so very young, woah.
Abortion access is extremely important
@@CantHandleThisCanYa I do not regret my daughter but I agree in some cases.
@@CantHandleThisCanYaTo be really honest with you my daughter Whom I birthed at age 14, resents me because I did have an abortion when I was sixteen, I was in a situation with an older guy that had been my brother's friend, and so he was always at our house. Anyways, at 16 I got pregnant a second time and he set the app and everything so I really didn't feel I had a choice at that age I was already having anxiety attacks from having a child at 14. So it's sorta messed up. That's how it goes nobody ever said this life would be fair.
She's damaged beyond repair.
Lol Yall Both Chopped Then
His pitiful of these babies ..it is so irresponsible for these ladies not using contraceptives-but bringing children into
this world without a good stability of life .
I can't believe that about still being held accountable 21 years later for a juvenile crime. Ridiculous !
WHY IS HEATHER CRYING? SHE'S GOT 8 KIDS CYCLE REPEATING NO SYMPATHY
Muy Fácil!!!
Cometes un crimen y el estado te mantiene durante el embazo y además no tienes que trabajar para mantener a su hijo.
Es insano...
I agree. It's disgusting that these woman have any opportunity to have a relationship with their innocent kids. This focus on the parents ensure children grow up in some form of abusive family.
@@amyrivers4093you should sign up like the Amish family and agree to board these kids or become a foster parent.
Watching this makes me feel so sad because I have condonned these people that are in jail. It is true, these people have made big mistakes in life. Hope they can change for good.
That's not fair do deny her counseling when she really needs it. There needs to be more funding to create more spots since there's a waiting list for NA when she's asking for it. She had a spark, instead of being mad or upset and acting out after being denied a place, she figured out what she could do to be there for her baby.
Wonderful Amish family to care for babies ❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏
These babies do not deserve this
What a brave Mothers and when it talks about their children the soft and kind heart naturally showing up. I pray that your children will inspire these mothers to have a clean start and a change persons when they all will be release someday 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Not the daughter in jail with the mother. 😂 Way to keep up generational wealth.
If a chick is in jail with 3 kids and 3 fathers, they should be forced to get fixed.
4:59 how??? 😢
8th
Dont get it why say new two days ago when they been on youtube before more then once. I have mix feelings about they blame abusive or drugs or etc why they do what they do . Its up to them no one else
No. Babies. Shouldn't. Have. To. Stay. In. Prison. ! They. Should. Have. A. Good. Save. Family!
He's great when u get to meet him.. he is a con man he will fluff anything up to make him sound or seem good 👍
Your child is innocent they dont deserve prison too, its selfish give them to a family member till your free
Why would you need a labor coach for a c-section?? Why would you leave your child with someone who doesn’t have a vehicle??? And, your boyfriend’s mother is NOT your mother in law.
I just feel bad for the kids that they have to go through this but for these criminals I don’t have any sympathy
This makes me embarrassed to be a white female
Humans are not meant to have a liter. The fact she keeps popping them out is disgusting given the fact she can't take care of them. Stop the cycle and guys STOP PUTTING KIDS IN THERE!
Wait..... she can't go because of violence...... her reply.....
THAT MAKES ME ANGRY LOL
Humans are meant to have as many babies that God blesses them with. Bible says clearly be fruitful and multiply.
@@Purpleloveme I don’t think the Bible meant that for drug users and criminals to multiply
@ the Bible said what if said and did not specify.
I don't know the answer here, but this isn't it. The mother's all made a choice to be a criminal, but the children didn't. There HAS to be a better option here.
so what’s the real answer then Sherlock?
How did they conceive in prison.
They didn’t. The were pregnant when they were sent to prison! 😮
Don't do the crime and you don't gotta do the time!
@@michellewalker9348 exactly that’s what I been thinking this whole time ..like they feel like the jail is supposed to help them as far as with the babies .. well stop going back to jail and the young 20 year old is upset that she can’t do what she want and she have to put her baby up I mean it’s a messed up situation but unfortunately it is what it is 😳
Nice. Kids growing up in prison. What an upbringing
Any updates on Heather?
All he got is stabbed is CRAZY!
When they are in jail.,how are they become pregnant?
@@padmathalamarla8246 - they came into the system pregnant
but why cant they make a place where these kids can be placed n kept till the mom is released, i find it better also if the baby can be taken by a fam member n the mom can contact the child daily
Babies behind bars is just wrong. I would rather be aborted than be behind bars.
I think this is a repeat vidoe so whu say new in two days etc
Just like when they get out they blame they dont have no one or no work when we know all thats a lie there help out there there jobs like McDonald's or gas station or going to school aka college. They know not be around invirement to tempt them . Or be the better people and be around people or stuff to temp them to show they be the bigger person better person dont make excuses
After trying to understand what you wrote felons can not receive Financial Aid so there goes college. And it’s not a lie if people never even visited these folks in jail do you really think they’ll have support when they’re out? And we can not deny that when prisoners come home they are still treated like criminals.
My opinion about should female prisoners have their babies behind bars?- yes, most definitely! It’s giving women prisoners bonding with their babies like mostly never before in control environment and most likely the prisoners are motivated to correct their behaviour and live by social norms in the future . That’s just my opinion.
Not all pregnant women make good mothers and violent women don't need to be around children.
@@jennyrose2200 I absolutely agree but violent women in prison are not allowed into joining a program, and prison is a very controlled environment and the women there are closely observed! In prison women are observed and some have a very good chance to truly bond with their babies like never before. Also there is tuns of women who are not in prison and they are terrible mothers and shouldn’t be ideally mothers at all.
I totally disagree with your opinion. These women WILL reoffend. So that baby is going to be ripped out of the mother's arms at a later time after it's already bonded with her that's terrible
@@loulalucille8946 I appreciate your opinion and it could be valid one. Possibly that those women will reoffend but it’s not a 💯 %. I believe that they will get the chance to be mothers in such a controlled environment than they might not reoffend because they had a chance to truly bond with their children like never before, and they don’t want to take a risk by reoffending and losing their children. However if they reoffend and lose the privilege of being mothers and their children will get traumatised unfortunately. But I honestly think that prison could change some inmates but as always, not all. The prison staff and doctors will be aware what sort of inmates they have and how to roughly predict their behaviour, and if they are suitable to look after their children. If nobody can give them any chance ever, then they will be far more in risk of reoffending. This is my humble opinion and you certainly don’t have to agree.
You don't have nothing now..well, you have a life, air to breathe materialistic things can be replaced, but you can never get another life.
The security officer is playing her cross word puzzle while she's having her baby 😅
Nope who's paying for these baby's. The tax payer?
It don't hurt to raise babies in prisons. The babies don't know the difference and seem to be treated very well. But don't necessarily agree that they should go to their mother's afterwards.
I dont think its a good idea to keep the babies in the jail because what if the baby grows up thinking its ok to do wrong and go to jail an still can be allowed to have baby in jail
The one who had the miscarriages and gave up her other kids . She clearly dont want them, she want to be in that program where its comfortable this is why she wants to keep the one baby, They should of gave Bobby's spot to someone more deserving in my opinion but for the other moms I hope when they get out of jail they stay out and raise their babies. They seem to be doing great and to the one who the Amish is keeping the baby. Id rather have the baby with an Amish couple and not muslim. The baby will be well cared for I hope that girl gets her act together
she was happy but what about the other 6 she dosent have it's crazy that should make you exempt 6 kìds!!! 😊
Is too dangerous
I’m sorry I don’t believe that lady with them Amish folks but for her to be having all those children and not taking care of not one is crazy she not gonna go back to pick up that baby
This is old seria...you need a film new one
Some of these women are not mature!!!! They don't deserve children.
So you decide who “deserves” to have children & who doesn’t “deserve” to have children???? Done a lot of research have you? You must have many degrees in psychology to base your “decisions” on???? Pretty narcissistic of you.
who cares
@ You should. These children are going to grow up without their mom’s for quite a while or go into the foster care system. Their personalities are formed by the age of 4. These mom’s are conceivably learning how to parent. It’s a win-win. Most neglected or abused children grow up to be criminals. You should care. One of them could hurt someone you love. Your statement is so unnecessary and shows a huge lack of understanding by YOU! Grow up.
How have u measured their maturing???
prison
We have way too many people in this world breeding that shouldn't be. It needs to be harder to have a pet and kids. It's gross. People are so irresponsible and selfish. Not to mention ALL the wrong people keep breeding
It's part of the reason this world is so messed up. Sad.
Aside from your comment being closed-minded in general…..if ‘men’ were so concerned about women having babies, THEY have three choices:
1) take responsibility for that which they create;
2) use a condom;
3) get snipped. When Roe v Wade was overturned, appts. at clinics for men to get snipped ‘skyrocketed.’
But everyone turns their nose up at the mere mention of abstinence. The only 100% fool proof protection from pregnancy is simply not engaging. But no. We’re all just highly evolved animals. We can’t do that.
No sympathy...shameless..these kids mostly will become antisocial.
This is not safe for the babies
Why not? The babies haven’t been harmed
@@sade2576Are you blind? The babies are in an environment where child killers and abusers are held captive. No child deserves to be raised in that environment to females who put their own needs first. Please don't have any child.
No
Like that "Hawk Tuah" woman says..."What is good for the hole might not be good for the soul!!"
Don't commit crimes.
Animals also have children then...
Your point?
Don't disrespect animals!!!
Are we meant tomfeel sorry for these woman because they opened their legs to some male. These children deserve better.
Visit africa n do such interviews
I think indiana prison are more better that some homes
these subtitles need help omfg
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I'm not sure if this is a good idea.
They don't need any rewards in prison.
Prison isn't a long resort stay. It is punishment for crimes they have committed.
@marilynh•Its kind of easy to say this but one wonders why so many women are locked up ?Plus 12 hours locked up ?What about if they go into labour?Plus some have done violent crimes some must be far less..I don't know how anyone pregnant can talk about the woman microwaving a baby ..Or the woman that's had all the kids taken into care and adoption 😱🤦♀️
They should not be allowed to keep their babies, how sad is that for a child to be locked born and locked up in jail. 😢💔💔💔
My.E xHusband. Got. Away. From. Hitting. Myself. In. The. Stomach. When. I. Was. Pregnant. And. Cop's. Didn't. Do. Nothing. !