Do This Before Cheating
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ก.ย. 2024
- The aftermath of infidelity is devastating.
The kindest thing to do if you've fallen out of love with your person is to tell them. Sharing that your feelings have changed gives you an opportunity to rebuild or, at the least, end the relationship with respect and dignity...
@Loveronnielittlewood
Most people are to afraid to be honest about this. But instead of just throwing away the marriage you should talk to your partner and try working it out. My late wife and I did that and we did role playing together. It was a lot of fun and we loved each other for being open to each other.
@@user-fi7rf8nk7z that’s amazing. I’m sorry for your loss. I can still tell you love her. I always say that grief is love with no place to go. ❤️
I've always maintained that if you're considering cheating, you should break up with your current partner first (or at least talk to them and get their consent). To do otherwise is not only disrespectful and deeply damaging to your partner, it's selfish and childish - trying to have your fun while keeping the trappings your partner has provided (male or female).
Destroying someone's ability to trust - perhaps for the rest of their lives - is a despicable thing to do to someone you once loved. Even if you've grown apart and you don't love them anymore, they don't deserve the trauma that cheating inflicts.
Be an adult and talk to your partner.
@@bobagorof truer words have never been more spoken. Ty for sharing 💕
So this is what Rose is doing after "Two and a Half Men" show...😄
Just don’t get married, that’s a big plus if that stupid piece of paper. You’re a lot better off. And think about what they have brought to the relationship. What is the one thing they have to offer? Exactly, think about it. It’s not worth it. My favorite saying
Is 23.5 hours (day)
Of drama and bs worth a half hour of happy? That’s a great way of achieving happiness. Nope not in today’s world.
@@user-ur2gp5zv3i awe my friend. Partnership can be a beautiful thing when it’s built on trust and love. Whether there is a piece of paper or not. In the old days they called it hand fasting. But it’s the same thing. It’s an eternal pledge to have someone’s back.
@@Loveronnielittlewood
Sorry mam maybe you are the exception. But the feminism thing just doesn’t work for most biological males. And it isn’t worth the risk. I have been married and I won’t do it again. 10 years. I have dated and short little relationships. And don’t think I will buy the cow when you can get the milk for free. I enjoy the quiet and not getting stressed out every day. Thank you for your kind reply.
People are growing up to be perpetual children. Don't get married unless you both mean forever. Marriage is something you have to work on when it quits working right. If you want a marriage of any value, you have to go into it, understanding that quitting is not an option.
It is a "toss away" society. We don't repair anything. We break something, and then throw it away. Toasters, husbands, wives, ect. It's funny too because we all want to feel safe, and to feel loved. But we can only create safety and love, through trust, and commitment. NO ONE EVER SAID THAT THERE IS NO PAIN IN MARRIAGE. There is such a bullshit fallacy belief that marriage is happily ever after with no pain. The moment they have pain, they cheat or bail. But it is the very concept of working through the pain, that CREATES SAFETY AND TRUST AND COMMITMENT. I BELIEVE in marriage. I BELIEVE in love. I BELIEVE in Forgiveness. I BELIEVE that we are meant to be with each other and grow together. I believe it so much because I see a world of unhappy, sad, rejected lonely people who are alone, and don't understand why they are alone, when everyone else looks happy, and it's this. Because those people DIDN'T GIVE UP. Okay rant over. I love to find people who are on the same page as me in life. But truly friend, we are a drying breed. Just me crazy ranting on a youtube comment with the hopes that someone reads this, and makes a choice to deal with the pain in their marriage, instead of making other choices that will only incur them more pain. :(