I know this video is harsh. Thank you for putting up with all my rants. They come from a place of love. xoxo My links: / jennaanne1026 / jennaanne01 / jennaanne01 / jennaannefans Instragram: @jennaanne01
I’m seeing a lot of comments asking what to do if you have to see that person every day. Despite the pain that it will cause you, despite the fact that they are close to your circle, you still cannot interact with them. Because the second you begin engaging with them any progress you have made will be undone. The literal only way to fully heal is to avoid contact. It will take longer if they happen to be around you because of something like school, but you will still heal so long as you are not continuing some sort of verbal or physical contact with them. Hang in there.
I extremely sorry because you're on Rights angrnes showing love you're having I didn't say That I wanna to go forever only for short time because still spiritual words breaking evils spirits which they mostly through humen
my ex cheated on me and I took him back. then 2 months later he left me for the person he cheated on me with. 😭 I was sooooo sad omg. I thought I was gonna die and I cried myself to sleep soooo many nights. but now I just feel numb
LETS CREATE JULIA BRODA with me I have my first interracial couple female I was with her for 15 months on the 4th of July would have been 16 months is she dumped me she been playing games I lost a lot of friends behind her and it just really hurt so I never have friends ever talk to about it what is your advice
I watched this six years ago when I had to see it. At the time, I think I saw it 100 times or something. I revisited your channel as I was clearing up my TH-cam. Just let me say thank you Jenna, you helped me a lot in those dark times! Here's a promise from a stranger on the internet for anyone seeing this right now: things will improve. Even though you may feel like it's impossible right now, all it takes is time to get back to normal.
I just pretend that the person died and that I can't talk to them anymore. Then when they bump into me years later, it is like they were raised from the dead. Hallelujah!
the person who broke my heart, I thought they were the best person on earth, but it turns out they didn't understand how they treated other people. I allowed them to bring me so far up. that was my fault and then they dropped me so hard. it hurts so fucking bad.
that's exactly what it feels like. it's mildly comforting to know i'm not alone at least but it still hurts. at least now i know for sure that i just need to stop seeing this person at least for a few weeks or maybe months to see how my heart manages to heal itself
i know how that feels. i tried to stay away from them but number 1 i don't know how number 2 every time after i do that to someone else i feel really bad for that person and started the whole relationship again. then get dumped again. PLZ HELP ME I NEED SOME ADVICE SORRY IF I HAVE BAD ENGLISH
21centuryg trust me you're not alone. I'm going through the exact same thing. I can't even explain the numbness I've been feeling lately. IT WILL PASS.
I m was facing it until i finally finished my highschool. I knw it hurts like hell but trust me once you get over this person you will be very happy. You don't need a person who dosen't need you. I feel you i have gone through that you knw at the end of the day you just have to focus on your studies. Build a successful career lead a great life. People don't care when you are sad but they burn whn you are happy . All the best😊
This made me cry. Nots because it's harsh but this showed up in my recommended when I've been feeling so confused on what to do. I love him and I really cared about him, but he kept on going and liking other people even though he said he only liked me. Oh god, the things I've told him. I feel sick to my stomach. I told him so many secrets. I'm so scared he will tell other people about my secrets if I leave him. And he's like my only friend. I don't really talk to anyone else. I'm such an idiot for letting someone in like that....
KatYT I know how you feel it's like hard to find people who are empathic and won't use your past against you I watched a video of A Hindu monk explaining true love and he said true love is when the other person wants to relieve your suffering it's so true because if you love someone when you see them suffer it hurts you worse than your own suffering
I had true love on someone but she has taken me for granted even if I caught her cheating 3 time I gave her chance to improve but then also she's hard headed....I'm tired of her explanations
+Abbie Riedeman Ikr.Like seriously how the hell does that even work? Smh i dont understand how a person can be that way... And then you got the ones who go around playing like they're a victim or innocent, when they are the cause of the failure/heartbreak.
My crush told me that she wasn’t ready for a relationship when I asked her out But a week later she said yes to a different girl She refers to me as her “shista” but I’m still broken-hearted
Is not about forgetting dude... It’s about moving on!! You can have good memories... Or remember the good times, but this is the truth... Time doesn’t go back. You have to endure and keep forward. You own that to yourself. GL bro!!
Bro i know that it hurts .. my gf cheat on me recently. . We broke up like 4 month ago.. keep your mind busy and invest your time on improving yourself... life continues if you give it a chance..!!! (Sorry for my bad English, lost some practice xD)
I needed this. The passed month of my life has sucked major balls. I used to be best friends with my ex, and she was there for me during my first real heartbreak. We ended up dating (for 6 months), losing our virginities to each other, etc. I was there for her at the lowest points in her life (she was touched by her father as a child, and was depressed) and she was there for me at my lowest points. Then one day she told me her mom found out we had sex and that I'm never allowed to see her again. It was terrible because I couldn't control anything. Then people started telling me that she faked the breakup, even though I got texts from her moms phone. 2 weeks later she was already dating another guy and I got pissed and somehow I ended up beating the shit out of the guy. Today's my last day of oss. And it just sucks because not only did I lose my best friend, but I lost someone who I genuinely loved, even though I don't think they ever loved me back.
I can't agree no more. It hurts losing your one and only best friend whom you thought would always be there for you but a lot of sketchy shit happens and they end up moving on so quickly. You aren't alone in this.
Queen POTATO Same just with me we broke up and he got with someone else like if we didn’t matter it was betrayal what he did ... I honestly want to cry but I’m tired of crying and trusting people I just want to die in a hole alone because honestly I think my life will be happy alone I been with 3 relationships each one broke bits of my heart one said I love u didn’t mean it second said I care for u didn’t mean it and finally the third one said I will always be there for u till we grow old .... sorry I just ugh that hurt me so much what he’s doing rn
I feel like I am going to die now. I am so 9999% sad. I have been cheated on. And he told me that the reason why he went on a dating site is because there is something missing----I do not socialize with his family, I am immature, I always get irritated. I know these are my flaws but that is not ENOUGH reason to fuck somebody. What hurts the most is that, he's doing it for over a year, he told me that he always go home after work, saying goodnights with "i love you" every single day. He have been with guys on grindr. He confessed everything to me when the time we went out and I feel like he is cold. I was just wondering if he is just telling me that he fucked many guys OR he already found someone. Because I begged for him and told him I would accept the cheating part, but then he REJECTED ME. I am so fucking confused. Help me please 🥺😢😢😢😢
@@RobAngeles I am very sorry you had to go through this My update: It’s been close to 3 years, I still sometimes wonder what went wrong but I would say to some extend it doesn’t hurt anymore. However I haven’t dated anyone in that timeframe. And he (my ex) did comeback but it wasn’t anything serious. My advice for you, cry as much as you want because you are sad you need to let it out. I know this sounds cliche but focusing on yourself will divert your mind. Like go for walks, learn some new skills, have a glow up. And don’t just jump into a relationship, not only will you bring out the trauma from the previous connection but you cannot give 100 percent either Take atleast some time off If I was to go back I would advice myself to focus on myself instead of crying and being depressed in bed. Also ps, your ex is a fuckboy and a manipulative liar. Don’t let him get to you Take care. It’s so strange, I was 17 when I had my breakup now I am a 20 year old female it still affects me at times
I'm 26 and she's the first girl I've ever found love with. No one ever told me that it would feel this heavy if she ever left... and for that I feel mislead in a sense... because no, I've never experienced a mutual love before... but it was built up to be this amazing, beautiful, justifying, worthy, and worth while thing... But then she left... and in the end it wasn't any of those things... that alone killed off all of the hope I had left. I have experienced a great deal of pain in my life- physical, emotional, mental... but never this much amount of pain. Honestly, I don't know how to be okay again 😔💔
I even had that but now I got to know that she is not the person anymore she used to show herself Her thoughts and the things she talk or say anymore sounds so fake to me I don't know why But I think I loved her so much
feel you so much... i'm so sorry... what makes my life sad is that, excluding heartbreaks, my few friends are nice and fun to hang out with but that's just that. i only wish i had a friend that could listen to me and be there for me when i needed them the most. of course i'll be there for them, fight me. i only want to love and to be loved, as a bestfriend or girlfriend, that doesn't matter.
Block her from your life, from you social networkings.. Bcoz if someone trully loves someone.. No matter what they never ever leave each other heart broken.. Its so painful.. Move on and start to love yourself.. Focus on your future.. And never let her get back to your life.. She's just a life sucker..
Same for you and it's fine it was stupid so I'm not mad or heart broken its just awkward because we were friends for a while and our families are close
there's this guy who I love. he confuses me so much that now I want all this to end and wanna get my old life back. but on the same time I don't wanna leave him.. I don't want all what we had to end like this.. I just wanna be on his side and love him forever.. however deep inside I know I need to let it go UGHH I'M SO CONFUSED!
Kinsey McElhaney i gett broken hearted from some of my own family members i does keep distance cus i will get myself in serrious trouble i cant take it more
a whole year? omg, that must be hell, ive been like that for 4 months now i cant even imagine what it would be like if i still feel like this after a year. I send my hopes to you!
Asen Karadimov omg I'm just now seeing this. and thank you. I think I'm good now. I hope. but so much happier now that I've moved on. and I hope you can to. you got this!!
This video didnt help me mucch... my heart broke my dad... he got drunk, and beat me up and tried to choke me, im 15 yrs old. and the words he said that night broke my heart. he didnt even feel guilty after. now im living with my mom, my parents devorced when i was 4, i staid with my dad for 10 years, these past 3 months have been hard for me, new school, miss my old friends, so hard for me... hope u have a better childhood. love you all
This.. your story.. you background, breaks my heart. I wish that you'd never have to go through that. For what it's worth, I'm sorry. But please, don't be defined by what happened to you, use it to your advantage. Be whatever you wanted your parents to be. I love you. And may you be well
My girl said the same. She needed time she said. Then after 2 day she slept with a guy when I was calling her and crying like a shitty kid. I don't get their logic. Assholes
my girlfriend dumped me becuse she wanted someone else but then when i got together whit a new girl and her boyfriend dumped her she wanted me back but i told her that im no ones second chioce either you want me or not
Don't get back with her!! I had the same experience with ex and the biggest mistake is to go back with them tell her to leave you alone and move on with your life
Mona Persaud thats when you have to say no if you say yes then she and those around will just play whit your fellings like some sick game and Control you like some robot and you dont want that.
I agree, she gives forcefully spoken truth, but in a kind and loving way! Almost humorous, makes you feel good. Motivates and empowers me to do what I must do to move on create space for new relationship... No more Contact with the Ex!
Thank you for not deleting this video eventho it's already 8 years old. Tbh, everytime i go through the stage of break up/move on from my s/o, I'll come back to this video again. This time isn't because I'm in relationship with them, but they're in love with my best friend but at the same time treats me like I'm the queen of their heart. I'm tired of holding onto something that are unsure and blurry. I'm ready to move on. I'm tired of being the second choice. I'm tired being treated unfairly. If they want me, show me the efforts. Aligned their words with their actions. Stop giving me continuous mixed signs whether they have feelings for me or not. STOP MAKING ME CRY TO SLEEP AND WAKE UP IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT WITH REPEATED SAME DREAM OF ME LOSING THEM! thank you again for your wonderful video, you ease my unstable emotions :)
My dear, I know how you feel about that.. I was so sad when my ex leave me for the past 6 years... Then on this faithful day I came across a video on TH-cam there was this friend of mine that drop a message on my email, and she explained perfectly well to me that there is this great powerful man that can help me with my situation.. Then for that moment I was doubting her but I was having these mind set let me try if it is going to work for me know then and I message him on his WhatsApp number Know and behold the man told me that I should give him only three days that my ex is going to come back to me.. On that faithful day my ex text me on first place I was so very excited and now my ex is with me now i am so great full to him. You can text him on his WhatsApp +2349058821669
Beautiful! I started No Contact 2 days after the breakup. It killed me. It's weird how you can miss some one so much when you know they were just using you. I just kept going one more day. Keepomg myself preoccupied, evem checking the blocked message folder (she tried contacting me a week later) but I NEVER RESPONDED! I don't plan to either. Best thing you can do is realize they took your love for granted and there's someone out there who will cherish it. Just focus on yourself, improving. moving forward, looking inside. and letting it go. Seems impossible in the moment, but eventually you'll think of them less and less and feel better about yourself. This video is awesome. I'm still dealing with the sting 3 weeks later but I'm actually EXCITED to move on without her. They missed out on you, not the other way around. It just doesn't feel like it now.
Over a year ago now, I came across this video. I watched it at least 3-4 times a week or whenever I felt the urge to text my ex shortly after our breakup (which happened due to his insatiable need/desire to cheat incessantly). This video was a kick in the pants but I needed to hear it. It changed my life by changing the way I viewed the situation and finally realized I needed to stop making excuses for his behavior which only served to justify his actions that caused me so much pain. Thanks for making this video and posting it. It saved me from so much heartache in the future. 😊
It sounds like they made you favour. Move on with your life, such guys doesn't deserve to be called a man. Only weak people cheat in their relationship. I've been through a breakup lately(almost 3 months ago), she suddenly said she has no feeling and some other bullshit after 3 years together, but it only helped me progress in life and understand that the relationship was toxic towards my self improvement. came to conclusions that it wasn't what I wanted and I was just in it because I got used to the psychological security, even though I wanted to leave her few times but didn't feel like hurting her. How are you now Krys?
Well, you get the higher step, and the higher spot because if she obviously doesn't have to courage to tell you at all, then you didn't deserve that, and she shouldn't have ended it like that because if you feel this way, then she didnt do it right. It still might of hurt if she did it correctly, but at least you would have known how to cope more. And sorry, I ramble a lot
I also think that if you really want to be with someone you have to push them out of your life in order to discover who you are. Focus on work, school, and volunteering and if you find something wrong with yourself get help. In other words dont sit and around and cry over the memories. Memories happen cause there suppose to. Also if you feel bored or tired take a break. And whatever you dont write a long letter admitting that you were the only one at fault. There had to be something in the relationship that you didnt like or made you unhappy. Every girl or guy likes a gift so after awhile open up the door for conversation and if they feel toxic give them time to provide themselves with an " antidote". There is over a billion people in the world so try to make it work but if they reject the conversation then say good bye for good. In england they do this all the time its called reconciliation vs farewell. Give them the choice between leaving and starting over. Love is beautiful but pain is also gorgeous.
Damn, i really needed this. I spent a year & a half talking to a girl who keeps having a thing with me after she's done with her relationships, I'm a rebound and I found out yesterday. It broke my heart knowing I'm in love with someone who is in love with someone else while I'm just a second option. I put my priorities up, I promised myself I will either be someone's first choice or nothing at all.
Unknown Name my crush left town... i only got to see her for 3 month on vacation every year. last 2 years she didnt . her number aint working and i cant find her on social media. lmao fuck this she was the only1. and we were so close we could not go through a day without seein eachother. now im depressed as hell please call the ambulance my heart broke
turn to your self listen to meditation videos ... it helps you find your self again ... also you can send me a message if you want when you feel like shit
I've fucking had enough, I AM A MALE AND I GO THROUGH THIS STUFF TOO. To all the females saying stuff like "A boy's biggest lie is.." or " Boys always say they'll never ... Then do!" I am tired. I experience this stuff too. Sure it might not have been a relationship, but it meant more. I was best friends with a girl that meant so much to me and when i was sad she would say she loves me and she cares about me and she always made me happier. She would remind me that she loves me and that i matter to her and i would say these things to her at random times. We would send each other paragraphs every now and then when we are asleep so when we wake up we have something to look forward too. She was the only thing i cared about and the only thing keeping me stable. Then, Instead of saying "i love you too" in texts, she would respond "ilyt", then she stopped responding to "i love you" Until she stopped talking to me all together. I'm heartbroken and i feel like i'm not myself anymore, I want to try and keep her but I know there is nothing I can do, and it sucks when i see her in the hallway and pretend like i never knew her and that she never meant anything in my life even though she took up so much of my life and her leaving me was the biggest impact i've ever felt hit me. No, I don't want to get over the pain, No i do not want to forget her. I'm used to the pain. I just want her and she still means so much to me even though she probably forgot about me. Just because we don't talk anymore, doesn't mean I forgot about her. I really do. I do my best to check up on her, he hows she is doing, when it suddenly hits me that, we're strangers, you don't want me in your life, hence the reason i'm no longer part of her. But even though everything has changed, I just want her to know that i'm still here, i'll still be here for her. I'll still lend my shoulders and ears, I don't want her to hesitate to talk to me, because half the time, I wish that she was talking to me. I just miss her presence, I miss being her best friend. I miss her. You know what sucks? I don't know how to tell her that.
this is exactly me right now. he's in every single one of my classes. I see him all day long and he is completely fine he told me he loved me but then broke me and I have to face him every day
we just broke up recently and she doesn't wanna make up anymore. luckily 2 days from now is summer break so i cannot see her for 2 months. maybe this time hopefully i can move on. 3 years together but just 2 words and its gone :(
I feel you 😔 been cheated on 3 times. Get back to him. And being dumped as he told me that he loved another girl. His reason? 'Cant stand long distance relationship'
***** oh I thought you were a homophobe so why are you on this video with a TH-camr called lesbian answers and why are you calling people slut because I'm pretty sure that's not the godly thing to do
My best guy friend stopped talking to me and hanging out with me, and I didn't think I cared so much about him the way I do. I feel physical pain and as if I'm lost without his presence.
I know how you feel. I have a guy friend who is always there for me, and I like him but he has a crush on a girl named Artie and he used to like me but not anymore. He still flirts with me though.
+Ashlyn Campbell Believe it or not the reason I said asked that was because I felt the same way bout a girl for years and she's quick to jump onto any other guy when I've been with her for years helped her whenever I could. I'm literally torturing myself mentally over her and she barely notices my efforts. She just reassures me of our closeness just so I don't start feeling resentment towards her or starting distancing myself cause she kinda missed when I was, but now I'm still back to where I was with her. Just her friend whom she can replace in future when she's bored.
Heartbreak really sucks, it affects you for your next relationship, especially qhen you betrayed, it makes you think that your new relationship will not last long just like the first, because it makes you think that this one will betray you too, but still I hoping that someday ill find the right person, we ould love each other, and wint betray each other, trust is so important in a relationship, I always want to be loyal to my future partner, who ever that person is,
Ever since this video was uploaded, I have lived by this advice. I'm watching this video again today because I have just had my heart broken. It's nice to be able to come back here after heartbreaks because it's supportive. This is the 4th true heartbreak I've gone through and it's the 4th time I've followed Jenna's advice. I'll never do anything different. She's honestly made my life so much easier just by uploading this video!
It happened 1 year ago after 5 years together, I still feel sad and broken and I can’t believe anyone anymore, I feel like no one will ever stay with you forever, but I’m gonna listen to this everyday and I’m gonna be better, to all people who their heart is broken I LOVE YOU ALL , YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL INSIDE ❤️💕
It takes around twice the time you were together to get over someone you were with. You are on the right path and it’s ok to still feel it. Hope ur doing better
Hi, idk if you will even read this but, I'm 17, had my first love 3 months ago, everything was picture perfect. We were relationship goals, she was my first girlfriend, and I thought she would be the last. I treated her like a princess, I was the confident nice guy. Then one day she called me and told me she still loved someone else. I didn't eat, or sleep for 2 days straight. I ugly cried everywhere over her. I was demolished. Then we try to make it work, everything was good and back to normal in a week, the she tells me she doesn't know what she wants. I didn't cry in front of her. I told her that one day she will realise she made a mistake to throw me away and that she blew her second chance. I don't want to be back with her agian, ever. Only bc I know something like this would happen again. I'm still hurting, but I know I'll find someone that deserves the way I treat them and appreciate me and love me for me. I'm at my friends house rn and we burned everything she had written me or made me. Felt good to let go. I give it a month before she texts back, but it won't matter, I'll already be over it and I'll already be stronger. Anyway your video really helped me. So thank you for putting this vid up👍
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I've also been manipulated many times by an individual, and you know everything you said was absolutely correct. At the time I was so blindsided by my love for that person that I always ended up making excuses up *for* them in order for me to justify their own faults. It was wrong for me to do so and I know that now. It sucks being manipulated because then you feel like you're the phoney one when it happens. Especially when they play the pity card. It's hard to let go, but there's no point in staying with somebody who obviously wouldn't treat you the way you'd treat them back. It just causes more stress and frustration and I'm here saying this after only four days of me breaking it off with that person. In all honesty it does get better and like this young woman said "everything happens for a reason". Let your heart heal and eventually you'll find somebody new and most likely better since you can use your past experiences to better yourself and your choices.
Jamal Manzano aye. It’ll be okay, dude. I found somebody new and honestly I’ve literally never connected with somebody better and I’m 101% sure you can do the same. I’ve never been happier with somebody and I hope you find somebody who can make you feel the same!
Wow I wish I had you as a friend. I feel attacked in the best way. Thank you for this. I literally felt like you were talking to me because you knew me so well lmao
+Leon Hawkins i can't laugh i have made te biggest mistake ever in my life and it wasn't them it was my breaking my own heart i will always have a scar becuase i was in school but i had to leave becuase my parents broke up for a while and came back together thx to them !!!!! they broke my hear multiple times not even knowing that they are leaving a trauma behind on me i can't sleep becuase i'm thinking about my love pls help me
Thank you, I kinda had a crush on this guy for awhile, and he’s been telling me about a girls he thinks are cute,, short Asian girls, with flat chests, and I’m the total opposite of that. So I felt kinda heart broken, I really liked this guy. I keep messaging him everyday tho, we never talk irl tho, we just never hangout, he’s even in my class. Idk what too do.. I can’t stop messaging him everyday. I’m thinking of just stopping to message him, and see what happens. I just need a break, even tho it will hard. But theirs this girl... I’m pretty sure she likes me. She confessed to me, but said it was a dare after, I told her about this problem and she told me to forget about it, and that she loves me. Idk if she meant that in a friendly way or not,. Idk if I should give her a try?. Give it time to forget about this boy?? I’m just so confused and lost...
I just found this video in my TH-cam home page. And I remember 3 years ago, I was broken hearted. Didnt want to leave my bed and feeling so fckng anxious all the time. This video helped me a lot to understand that life still goes on. And here I am, 2020 still alive. Now I just have to worry about the Covid-19
I cant accept things that she did to me. I know its done I dont wanna her back, maybe I do, cant admit. Im not sure but I didnt deserve this treat by her. I wasted my 2 years to wait her, making our relationship well and stuff but then she s gone.puff. she did mistakes, she broke my heart and I never let her go cause I loved. I loved her like my sister, like my mom, like my best friend, like my everything in this world and her response I dont love you anymore. I cant get on this one. Cant forget and blame for everything her in my head. morning or night, sleep or woke up. stalking overthinking hurts me and I cant stop. Anyone give me an advice. How can I forget her
+Ouz I personally think pathetic would be more like not seeking help and festering when you could be healing. I don't think there is an easy way to forget her. Occupy your time with activity. Work. Hobbies. Learn a new trade. Give yourself something to do and then commit to it. Thoughts will always be there but they'll begin to drift as you think of her less and less. Allow your feelings to arise. Acknowledge how you feel, accept your feelings basically and then allow them to pass as you live your life (or continue your work). Just my two cents. Time will help you. Take care! Never pathetic for seeking help.
Thank you for your care, really depth words that can help me. I hope time will cure the wounds she did :C (btw sorry for my bad english, I sold my ex for internet)
I’m seeing a lot of comments asking what to do if you have to see that person every day. Despite the pain that it will cause you, despite the fact that they are close to your circle, you still cannot interact with them. Because the second you begin engaging with them any progress you have made will be undone. The literal only way to fully heal is to avoid contact. It will take longer if they happen to be around you because of something like school, but you will still heal so long as you are not continuing some sort of verbal or physical contact with them. Hang in there.
I needed this thank you
I've watched this video on and off for 5 years. I always come back to it. Thanks Jenna, you're an underrated icon.
Now im a guy who like girls but you got a point here my story please it in the comments
I extremely sorry because you're on Rights angrnes showing love you're having I didn't say That I wanna to go forever only for short time because still spiritual words breaking evils spirits which they mostly through humen
Please be Careful and don't make crazy than you can't stand here momit
It hurts when someone breaks your heart, but never was yours to beginning with.
I know exactly what you mean!
Right
I know that feeling
Exactly why I clicked on this video
Nice suspense
who else got dumped?
mee
me
how did u guys get dumped?
my ex cheated on me and I took him back. then 2 months later he left me for the person he cheated on me with. 😭 I was sooooo sad omg. I thought I was gonna die and I cried myself to sleep soooo many nights. but now I just feel numb
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*how am I meant to forget him if I see him everyday😥*
Dang ik how u feel
Right???
Ikr
I see him every day too it really hurts but just brented his not here
Ikr😓😕
he broke my heart without even knowing it
Omg true😭😭
uf, same funny and sad at the same time lol
who's listing to this whilst looking through the comments
me
Holdeee Gaming idk cos that's what most ppl do
LETS CREATE JULIA BRODA with me I have my first interracial couple female I was with her for 15 months on the 4th of July would have been 16 months is she dumped me she been playing games I lost a lot of friends behind her and it just really hurt so I never have friends ever talk to about it what is your advice
LETS CREATE JULIA BRODA ~ Me me me
LETS CREATE JULIA BRODA me
just binge watching this type of videos and hoping to forget him...
Ilijana Katic omg sameeee, I'm just waiting for months go by to get over him
Me too it's been like 4 days now
Don't worry it'll come
There is someone better
Ilijana Katic me too
7 mos.. still hurts
Its not an easy thing to move on, its really hard. Espacially when you loved that person so much.
Hikari Sakura True.
Exactly
Feels impossible....
Hikari Sakura yea
Hikari Sakura mine sent ne vids if him kissing his ex when we were dating
I watched this six years ago when I had to see it. At the time, I think I saw it 100 times or something. I revisited your channel as I was clearing up my TH-cam. Just let me say thank you Jenna, you helped me a lot in those dark times!
Here's a promise from a stranger on the internet for anyone seeing this right now: things will improve. Even though you may feel like it's impossible right now, all it takes is time to get back to normal.
I just pretend that the person died and that I can't talk to them anymore. Then when they bump into me years later, it is like they were raised from the dead. Hallelujah!
thanks man...now imma do the same.
Helps
This is the best advice I've ever been given my entire life.
I'm going to try that
+Kevin Bergey this is just best!, best!, best!
the person who broke my heart, I thought they were the best person on earth, but it turns out they didn't understand how they treated other people. I allowed them to bring me so far up. that was my fault and then they dropped me so hard. it hurts so fucking bad.
that's exactly what it feels like. it's mildly comforting to know i'm not alone at least but it still hurts. at least now i know for sure that i just need to stop seeing this person at least for a few weeks or maybe months to see how my heart manages to heal itself
i know how that feels. i tried to stay away from them but number 1 i don't know how number 2 every time after i do that to someone else i feel really bad for that person and started the whole relationship again. then get dumped again. PLZ HELP ME I NEED SOME ADVICE SORRY IF I HAVE BAD ENGLISH
i am sorry for your feeling be well soon
21centuryg :((( i feel ya
21centuryg trust me you're not alone. I'm going through the exact same thing. I can't even explain the numbness I've been feeling lately. IT WILL PASS.
I needed this today!😢
same !!
+LOLGirl12 draw Now it's time to stunt on my ex lmao. 🤘🏾
😆
I love this I just broke up
me too
What if I will see that person in class everyday for three years...
Ur in high school u will be fine
@@gilby202 u don't understand though.
@@814x6 i do though, iv been there.
I m was facing it until i finally finished my highschool. I knw it hurts like hell but trust me once you get over this person you will be very happy. You don't need a person who dosen't need you. I feel you i have gone through that you knw at the end of the day you just have to focus on your studies. Build a successful career lead a great life. People don't care when you are sad but they burn whn you are happy . All the best😊
@@marziadiba1063 that last line though ! 👌🔥
I still don't want forget him. 😔
she was so perfect :(
I'm so sad DEPRESSED because of HIM MY EX
he's a douchbag
Lol no hes not :'( I am
Stellaa Lisovskaya who broke up with who?
This video should be in the bible
lmAo
Ikr it should be in the bible because it is really helpful.
Lol..true
YESSSSSSSS!!! LOL
Preach🙌🏽🙏🏽
I'm a victim of unrequited love. I'm heartbroken cause of a person who I've never been with. And 4 last words are the point.
Menime don't worry I'm going through the same thing
Me too. Sucks I swear
Same it’s heartbreaking
Me too, it's killing me inside
Same
This made me cry. Nots because it's harsh but this showed up in my recommended when I've been feeling so confused on what to do. I love him and I really cared about him, but he kept on going and liking other people even though he said he only liked me. Oh god, the things I've told him. I feel sick to my stomach. I told him so many secrets. I'm so scared he will tell other people about my secrets if I leave him. And he's like my only friend. I don't really talk to anyone else. I'm such an idiot for letting someone in like that....
KatYT I know how you feel it's like hard to find people who are empathic and won't use your past against you I watched a video of A Hindu monk explaining true love and he said true love is when the other person wants to relieve your suffering it's so true because if you love someone when you see them suffer it hurts you worse than your own suffering
I had true love on someone but she has taken me for granted even if I caught her cheating 3 time I gave her chance to improve but then also she's hard headed....I'm tired of her explanations
Anurag Kumar I know how you feel. It'll take time, but sometimes holding on hurts more than letting go.
sorry to hear about that
KatYT I know how you feel told a friend a personal and I mean personal thing next day everyone found out
What hurts the most is when someone says you are 'just friends' and will be nothing more ever
I felt that 😔
I felt that too
Just… got it today (7/9/2020)
For the 3rd time in this now friendship
I felt that
the thing that hurts the most is how exes can ignore you/move on and make it look so easy.
Suzannah Le omg so true! :o i thought that i was the only one. I miss him so much but i have the feeling that he does'nt care :o
Suzannah Le ppl can be so cold and heartless
+Abbie Riedeman Ikr.Like seriously how the hell does that even work? Smh i dont understand how a person can be that way... And then you got the ones who go around playing like they're a victim or innocent, when they are the cause of the failure/heartbreak.
this is so fucking true. it hurts like hell.
+Suzannah Le it's so fucking true
Why couldn’t I find this shit in 2012 instead of at the end of 2018
Joshua Pierre if you need help buzz me
If you need help buzz me
Sofia hello just buzz me it will be fine
Same
I am here in august 2019😂😪
i have no real friends... i have no one to talk to.
LOL..same bro....am dying ._.
Me to
Man I have the same. We should all be friends.
Me too
yeah we should all talk about that, amiright
she's right....
I see him everyday 😞 how am I supposed to forget him.
Uyen Phan,You are beautiful 🌹🌺🌺,you don't need a narc 😈 in your life!!
Have you heard her full video may be she has realaized whom she touched its OK she pretty girl and did attack but with love I accepted her feelings
My crush told me that she wasn’t ready for a relationship when I asked her out
But a week later she said yes to a different girl
She refers to me as her “shista” but I’m still broken-hearted
:(
Is she lesbian? I’m not making fun of you I’m just sad too because I got heartbroken 😔
L Lawliet We have same story 😂 wth
Master Diamond 627 she was bisexual
L Lawliet same only with a boy
A boys biggest lie is
"I would never leave you"
"I love you”
Preach
no
completely true
Girls say the same thing
+ᏚᎻᏆFᎪ ᎪᏴᎠᏌᏞ If he is saying this just after the sex, or during the sex time, then it's probably lie.
its been 1 year 2 months still i cannot forget !!!!!
Is not about forgetting dude... It’s about moving on!! You can have good memories... Or remember the good times, but this is the truth... Time doesn’t go back. You have to endure and keep forward. You own that to yourself. GL bro!!
It's been 4 years same shit here :(
Bro i know that it hurts .. my gf cheat on me recently. . We broke up like 4 month ago.. keep your mind busy and invest your time on improving yourself... life continues if you give it a chance..!!! (Sorry for my bad English, lost some practice xD)
thank u brother i am keeping my self busy but some how it comes back but ya its better then 1st day.
dont be sad bro be strong there are many good human in this world.
I needed this. The passed month of my life has sucked major balls. I used to be best friends with my ex, and she was there for me during my first real heartbreak. We ended up dating (for 6 months), losing our virginities to each other, etc. I was there for her at the lowest points in her life (she was touched by her father as a child, and was depressed) and she was there for me at my lowest points. Then one day she told me her mom found out we had sex and that I'm never allowed to see her again. It was terrible because I couldn't control anything. Then people started telling me that she faked the breakup, even though I got texts from her moms phone. 2 weeks later she was already dating another guy and I got pissed and somehow I ended up beating the shit out of the guy. Today's my last day of oss. And it just sucks because not only did I lose my best friend, but I lost someone who I genuinely loved, even though I don't think they ever loved me back.
I can't agree no more. It hurts losing your one and only best friend whom you thought would always be there for you but a lot of sketchy shit happens and they end up moving on so quickly. You aren't alone in this.
I would have told her to date this douchebag guy that is only in it for the.
+roloxrox123 my ex simply used me as a toy and hates me and was a prick to me afterwards. Then he made ME look bad
He left me because I was too much immature for him
And gave him headache
Cutting him off is the hardest thing
Queen POTATO
Same just with me we broke up and he got with someone else like if we didn’t matter it was betrayal what he did ... I honestly want to cry but I’m tired of crying and trusting people I just want to die in a hole alone because honestly I think my life will be happy alone
I been with 3 relationships each one broke bits of my heart one said I love u didn’t mean it second said I care for u didn’t mean it and finally the third one said I will always be there for u till we grow old .... sorry I just ugh that hurt me so much what he’s doing rn
How are you? We have the same scenario. 😔 Can you help me what did you do to get over this
I feel like I am going to die now. I am so 9999% sad. I have been cheated on. And he told me that the reason why he went on a dating site is because there is something missing----I do not socialize with his family, I am immature, I always get irritated. I know these are my flaws but that is not ENOUGH reason to fuck somebody. What hurts the most is that, he's doing it for over a year, he told me that he always go home after work, saying goodnights with "i love you" every single day. He have been with guys on grindr. He confessed everything to me when the time we went out and I feel like he is cold. I was just wondering if he is just telling me that he fucked many guys OR he already found someone. Because I begged for him and told him I would accept the cheating part, but then he REJECTED ME. I am so fucking confused. Help me please 🥺😢😢😢😢
@@RobAngeles I am very sorry you had to go through this
My update: It’s been close to 3 years, I still sometimes wonder what went wrong but I would say to some extend it doesn’t hurt anymore. However I haven’t dated anyone in that timeframe.
And he (my ex) did comeback but it wasn’t anything serious.
My advice for you, cry as much as you want because you are sad you need to let it out.
I know this sounds cliche but focusing on yourself will divert your mind.
Like go for walks, learn some new skills, have a glow up.
And don’t just jump into a relationship, not only will you bring out the trauma from the previous connection but you cannot give 100 percent either
Take atleast some time off
If I was to go back I would advice myself to focus on myself instead of crying and being depressed in bed.
Also ps, your ex is a fuckboy and a manipulative liar. Don’t let him get to you
Take care.
It’s so strange, I was 17 when I had my breakup now I am a 20 year old female it still affects me at times
I'm 26 and she's the first girl I've ever found love with. No one ever told me that it would feel this heavy if she ever left... and for that I feel mislead in a sense... because no, I've never experienced a mutual love before... but it was built up to be this amazing, beautiful, justifying, worthy, and worth while thing... But then she left... and in the end it wasn't any of those things... that alone killed off all of the hope I had left. I have experienced a great deal of pain in my life- physical, emotional, mental... but never this much amount of pain. Honestly, I don't know how to be okay again 😔💔
I even had that but now I got to know that she is not the person anymore she used to show herself
Her thoughts and the things she talk or say anymore sounds so fake to me
I don't know why
But I think I loved her so much
feel you so much... i'm so sorry... what makes my life sad is that, excluding heartbreaks, my few friends are nice and fun to hang out with but that's just that. i only wish i had a friend that could listen to me and be there for me when i needed them the most. of course i'll be there for them, fight me. i only want to love and to be loved, as a bestfriend or girlfriend, that doesn't matter.
you got a futur in you
i hope your better now
Who is watching this in 2017
Unicorn Face am watching this in 2012
Unicorn Face me
Unicorn Face me
you of course, what made you to comment? :D
Unicorn Face me
I needed this so much. shout out to you!!!
so did too 😁😅
i feel much better 😁😅
Somebody broke my heart.
Now I’m dead.
LM10 Ru Reh I may have gotten the joke 🤔
listen my hart was broken to
It’s not a actual joke that’s how we feel..
@@theoforest6463 an*
I broke my heart cuz i realised that england isnt a city
😂 😂😂😂
That just broke my heart.. HEARTBREAKER
VeroZ YT lol
Wow so deep 🤪
this helped me more than the video
My girlfriend moved away didn't tell me we didn't have any problems but I still love her but i want to move on but i cant any advice
Yeah my girl moved away too and im broken
Block her from your life, from you social networkings.. Bcoz if someone trully loves someone.. No matter what they never ever leave each other heart broken.. Its so painful.. Move on and start to love yourself.. Focus on your future.. And never let her get back to your life.. She's just a life sucker..
yeah agreed mohit singh
I was broken up with today. Long distance...
Infrequently Same happened to me about 4 months ago. I'm sorry /:
Hey Jenna...
I know it's been seven years since you posted this video...but it helped me a lot..thank you so much... you're amazing ❤️
you never stop loving someone you either never did or you always will
Sure why not
my Instagram is a_as_a_la I just followed you
I sent a message
okey
Ãss Âlä we do. depends on the situation. mine just faded. (._.)
I just broke up with my boyfriend on New Year's Eve. . . I needed this, thank you.
Merenemo 97 omg same but he broke up with me
rayrayanna I'm so sorry 😞
Same for you and it's fine it was stupid so I'm not mad or heart broken its just awkward because we were friends for a while and our families are close
Ahh, that's got to be hard. We'll get through it
Merenemo 97 True thanks for your support and hopefully things go well for you also
there's this guy who I love. he confuses me so much that now I want all this to end and wanna get my old life back. but on the same time I don't wanna leave him.. I don't want all what we had to end like this.. I just wanna be on his side and love him forever.. however deep inside I know I need to let it go UGHH I'M SO CONFUSED!
dude I facing exact same situation..Pls let me know what u did and how did it went
Nishra..?
Neon Girl im right there with you right now. Extremely broken hearted but still missing him and wAnting him. But knowing its not going to happen
Me too!
Neon Girl youre like my girlfriend you'll gonna leave that guy like every girl does
" I'm never going to leave you"
Seriously the biggest lie anyone has ever told me..
I will see you're concentrate how long you can go because lots of people say these kind's of emotional sentence
I don't know what she want to me
Its your 2 years later picture and message here
Or “I would never hurt you” big ass lie
What I did with you so why are you showing angrnes?
probably the best motivational video ever
Berke yücetas
Berke yücetas I think it should be recognized more
A hue thank you, i cried and this video is helping me a lot
Same
Yeah true!
Thank you so much
M
This was hard to hear but I needed to hear it.
Kinsey McElhaney i gett broken hearted from some of my own family members i does keep distance cus i will get myself in serrious trouble i cant take it more
Kinsey McElhaney Same
Same
Yeah.
Kinsey McElhaney same
who here had a "No-label relationship"??
Me
The hardest part is rebuilding yourself
This video seems to be made for me
Lide Gonzalez no, its made for all of us “heartbroken” community
been a year and it still hurts. this helped so much
a whole year? omg, that must be hell, ive been like that for 4 months now i cant even imagine what it would be like if i still feel like this after a year. I send my hopes to you!
I know the feeling. It's been a year and a half and still hurts. I have problems LOL.
Asen Karadimov omg I'm just now seeing this. and thank you. I think I'm good now. I hope. but so much happier now that I've moved on. and I hope you can to. you got this!!
rraem awe love. you got this. I hope you can move on. you're a strong person!!
This video didnt help me mucch... my heart broke my dad... he got drunk, and beat me up and tried to choke me, im 15 yrs old. and the words he said that night broke my heart. he didnt even feel guilty after. now im living with my mom, my parents devorced when i was 4, i staid with my dad for 10 years, these past 3 months have been hard for me, new school, miss my old friends, so hard for me... hope u have a better childhood. love you all
This.. your story.. you background, breaks my heart. I wish that you'd never have to go through that. For what it's worth, I'm sorry.
But please, don't be defined by what happened to you, use it to your advantage. Be whatever you wanted your parents to be. I love you. And may you be well
I'm not even 15 and my father died this year. my boyfriend dumped me yesterday... whats next..?
NickOBS This video is for romantic break ups, a family situation is completely different. Stay strong.
@@JennaEmbers yea i think he just comment to the wrong chanel
He said he needed a break and a day later he got another girlfriend 💔
Just Leslie fuck him he doesn't deserve you. You go on with your life you deserve someone much better.
Just Leslie i feel u
I'm so sorry :-(
lifes a B....
My girl said the same. She needed time she said. Then after 2 day she slept with a guy when I was calling her and crying like a shitty kid. I don't get their logic. Assholes
my girlfriend dumped me becuse she wanted someone else but then when i got together whit a new girl and her boyfriend dumped her she wanted me back but i told her that im no ones second chioce either you want me or not
Don't get back with her!! I had the same experience with ex and the biggest mistake is to go back with them tell her to leave you alone and move on with your life
LAIDY Msd i acctuly told her to fuck off and now shes an emo and Cuts herself and stuff becuse i dident get back together whit her
+LAIDY Msd
You think going back to them is wrong? What happens if you still love the person and cannot love anyone else the same way what do you do?
Mona Persaud thats when you have to say no if you say yes then she and those around will just play whit your fellings like some sick game and Control you like some robot and you dont want that.
+Mona Persaud i feel the exact same thing but i cant because hes in another school
We need more people like u in this world
I agree, she gives forcefully spoken truth, but in a kind and loving way! Almost humorous, makes you feel good. Motivates and empowers me to do what I must do to move on create space for new relationship... No more Contact with the Ex!
Thank you for not deleting this video eventho it's already 8 years old. Tbh, everytime i go through the stage of break up/move on from my s/o, I'll come back to this video again.
This time isn't because I'm in relationship with them, but they're in love with my best friend but at the same time treats me like I'm the queen of their heart. I'm tired of holding onto something that are unsure and blurry. I'm ready to move on. I'm tired of being the second choice. I'm tired being treated unfairly.
If they want me, show me the efforts. Aligned their words with their actions. Stop giving me continuous mixed signs whether they have feelings for me or not.
STOP MAKING ME CRY TO SLEEP AND WAKE UP IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT WITH REPEATED SAME DREAM OF ME LOSING THEM!
thank you again for your wonderful video, you ease my unstable emotions :)
My dear, I know how you feel about that.. I was so sad when my ex leave me for the past 6 years... Then on this faithful day I came across a video on TH-cam there was this friend of mine that drop a message on my email, and she explained perfectly well to me that there is this great powerful man that can help me with my situation.. Then for that moment I was doubting her but I was having these mind set let me try if it is going to work for me know then and I message him on his WhatsApp number
Know and behold the man told me that I should give him only three days that my ex is going to come back to me.. On that faithful day my ex text me on first place I was so very excited and now my ex is with me now i am so great full to him.
You can text him on his WhatsApp
+2349058821669
"Shut up! Just Shut up!"
Subscribed ;)
I just realized you're a lesbian, I found someone like me finally.
PepsiPony gay
Beautiful! I started No Contact 2 days after the breakup. It killed me. It's weird how you can miss some one so much when you know they were just using you. I just kept going one more day. Keepomg myself preoccupied, evem checking the blocked message folder (she tried contacting me a week later) but I NEVER RESPONDED! I don't plan to either. Best thing you can do is realize they took your love for granted and there's someone out there who will cherish it. Just focus on yourself, improving. moving forward, looking inside. and letting it go. Seems impossible in the moment, but eventually you'll think of them less and less and feel better about yourself. This video is awesome. I'm still dealing with the sting 3 weeks later but I'm actually EXCITED to move on without her. They missed out on you, not the other way around. It just doesn't feel like it now.
+Ashley Richardt This comment along with the whole video really helped me. Thank you.
Over a year ago now, I came across this video. I watched it at least 3-4 times a week or whenever I felt the urge to text my ex shortly after our breakup (which happened due to his insatiable need/desire to cheat incessantly). This video was a kick in the pants but I needed to hear it. It changed my life by changing the way I viewed the situation and finally realized I needed to stop making excuses for his behavior which only served to justify his actions that caused me so much pain. Thanks for making this video and posting it. It saved me from so much heartache in the future. 😊
KrysDlite I'm still watching it. It's been 2 month.
It sounds like they made you favour.
Move on with your life, such guys doesn't deserve to be called a man.
Only weak people cheat in their relationship.
I've been through a breakup lately(almost 3 months ago), she suddenly said she has no feeling and some other bullshit after 3 years together, but it only helped me progress in life and understand that the relationship was toxic towards my self improvement. came to conclusions that it wasn't what I wanted and I was just in it because I got used to the psychological security, even though I wanted to leave her few times but didn't feel like hurting her.
How are you now Krys?
My ex girlfriend left me by blocking me~
She stopped talking to me- and just...left me alone...
thats low...
Well, you get the higher step, and the higher spot because if she obviously doesn't have to courage to tell you at all, then you didn't deserve that, and she shouldn't have ended it like that because if you feel this way, then she didnt do it right. It still might of hurt if she did it correctly, but at least you would have known how to cope more. And sorry, I ramble a lot
my boyfriend did that to me out of NOWHERE. no explanation. no reason.
Same here but if they walk out they was never meant for you
Hey be strong, I know how it feels it's happened to me too!
Does it count if I had a crush on him and he never knew I exist? Fml
Youshra Yoush it does
let him go there is too much men over this world
+frankie freddie your grammar is the reason aliens won't talk to us
its seem sarcasm urh
omg that is exacly my problem ):
I also think that if you really want to be with someone you have to push them out of your life in order to discover who you are. Focus on work, school, and volunteering and if you find something wrong with yourself get help. In other words dont sit and around and cry over the memories. Memories happen cause there suppose to. Also if you feel bored or tired take a break. And whatever you dont write a long letter admitting that you were the only one at fault. There had to be something in the relationship that you didnt like or made you unhappy. Every girl or guy likes a gift so after awhile open up the door for conversation and if they feel toxic give them time to provide themselves with an " antidote". There is over a billion people in the world so try to make it work but if they reject the conversation then say good bye for good. In england they do this all the time its called reconciliation vs farewell. Give them the choice between leaving and starting over. Love is beautiful but pain is also gorgeous.
Your welcome
Damn, i really needed this. I spent a year & a half talking to a girl who keeps having a thing with me after she's done with her relationships, I'm a rebound and I found out yesterday. It broke my heart knowing I'm in love with someone who is in love with someone else while I'm just a second option. I put my priorities up, I promised myself I will either be someone's first choice or nothing at all.
Thats what happened to me. I found out on my birthday, of all days.
It happens to me now..hmmmm
same with me like wth! why am i always the second choice...???
preach it.
I-i still love him......
me too😢😢😢
same..
Saaaaaaame
I still love her....Its painfull
@@chrismots6479 Yes, same
Who else just watch this because, but still never had a bf/gf?
Unknown Name me
me
Unknown Name me
Unknown Name my crush left town... i only got to see her for 3 month on vacation every year. last 2 years she didnt . her number aint working and i cant find her on social media. lmao fuck this she was the only1. and we were so close we could not go through a day without seein eachother. now im depressed as hell please call the ambulance my heart broke
Unknown Name Me, but I still got my heart broken, fml
I watch this more than 10 times/day.
I need to keep this in mind.
I will get better !
MissYaiJin19 ikr I watch it so much
Did it get better?
The worst thing is I have no friends to turn to 😭
I'll be you're friend :)
That's me too he were my best friend and my everything but we hurt eachother so so much
me too. lets help each other lol
turn to your self listen to meditation videos ... it helps you find your self again ... also you can send me a message if you want when you feel like shit
I'll be your friend.
I’ve been cheated on twice lied to and she only dated me because she wanted attention thinking nothing would help but this did thank you
I've fucking had enough, I AM A MALE AND I GO THROUGH THIS STUFF TOO. To all the females saying stuff like "A boy's biggest lie is.." or " Boys always say they'll never ... Then do!" I am tired. I experience this stuff too. Sure it might not have been a relationship, but it meant more. I was best friends with a girl that meant so much to me and when i was sad she would say she loves me and she cares about me and she always made me happier. She would remind me that she loves me and that i matter to her and i would say these things to her at random times. We would send each other paragraphs every now and then when we are asleep so when we wake up we have something to look forward too. She was the only thing i cared about and the only thing keeping me stable. Then, Instead of saying "i love you too" in texts, she would respond "ilyt", then she stopped responding to "i love you" Until she stopped talking to me all together. I'm heartbroken and i feel like i'm not myself anymore, I want to try and keep her but I know there is nothing I can do, and it sucks when i see her in the hallway and pretend like i never knew her and that she never meant anything in my life even though she took up so much of my life and her leaving me was the biggest impact i've ever felt hit me. No, I don't want to get over the pain, No i do not want to forget her. I'm used to the pain. I just want her and she still means so much to me even though she probably forgot about me. Just because we don't talk anymore, doesn't mean I forgot about her. I really do. I do my best to check up on her, he hows she is doing, when it suddenly hits me that, we're strangers, you don't want me in your life, hence the reason i'm no longer part of her. But even though everything has changed, I just want her to know that i'm still here, i'll still be here for her. I'll still lend my shoulders and ears, I don't want her to hesitate to talk to me, because half the time, I wish that she was talking to me. I just miss her presence, I miss being her best friend. I miss her. You know what sucks? I don't know how to tell her that.
okx._.tyler you are right man but see why boys choose weak girl to break them more. Or break anyone???
You could send her what you wrote here. But to me she doesnt sound like a good trustworthy person..
Just go for it...
Rosie rangad Since when do guys always go for weak girls?
party rockers in the hou I know right?
I see the person every day though
Justin Zay avoid them, don't make eye contact.
Justin Zay haha he's in my class
I see him the wholeee day. He's in the class with me and the best thing it's that he's happy. Like nothing happend and then here I am, heartbroken. :)
this is exactly me right now. he's in every single one of my classes. I see him all day long and he is completely fine he told me he loved me but then broke me and I have to face him every day
we just broke up recently and she doesn't wanna make up anymore. luckily 2 days from now is summer break so i cannot see her for 2 months. maybe this time hopefully i can move on. 3 years together but just 2 words and its gone :(
I love her so much I just love her 😭😭 I miss her... she hurt me twice i’m over it. I can’t believe it. I fell for it twice.
Charz YT yo I feel u
infinite_ gamer 60 rainbow six only I’m still broken...
Are you okay now?
Charz YT Me too man me too...
Same shit happened here my guy. It will all be ok eventually. It takes time, nobody is rushing you. You take the time you need one day at a time.
I hope one day he’ll realise how much I cared about him and how much I loved him.. 💔
DePrEsSiOn AnXiEtY it’s so hard when you are absolutely in love with someone that isn’t even yours.
Kiwi Styles Yᴇᴘ. ʜᴇ ᴅᴏᴇsɴᴛ ᴇᴠᴇɴ ᴡᴀɴᴛ ᴛᴏ ʙᴇ ғʀɪᴇɴᴅs. ɪ ʟᴏᴠᴇ ʜɪᴍ sᴍ ʙᴜᴛ ɪ ᴅᴏɴᴛ ᴛʜɪɴᴋ ʜᴇ ᴡɪʟʟ ᴜɴᴅᴇʀsᴛᴀɴᴅ ʜᴏᴡ ᴍᴜᴄʜ.
Fuck, I needed that
me too!
So did I.
so did I 💔
omg thank u so much I so needed this
I love u
U made me feel like I can do anything once again
thank u so so so much
Inayah noor I'm so happy now that I can move but never love again
The best way to heal a broken heart is to give God all the pieces
💜Anyone whose heartbroken 💔
It will get better. Hang in there. It may be ⛈️stormy ⚡ now but it never ☔rains 🌞foreverr 🌈 💜
Jenn Jones,You are beautiful 🌹🌹🥀
Cheated on 3 times. Went back to her... She left me and is now dating other guys.
I feel you 😔 been cheated on 3 times. Get back to him. And being dumped as he told me that he loved another girl. His reason? 'Cant stand long distance relationship'
Friely WATP me too :(
Dumped me on the first day 😢😢
***** oh I thought you were a homophobe so why are you on this video with a TH-camr called lesbian answers and why are you calling people slut because I'm pretty sure that's not the godly thing to do
***** what you said didn't even make sense
My best guy friend stopped talking to me and hanging out with me, and I didn't think I cared so much about him the way I do. I feel physical pain and as if I'm lost without his presence.
I feel you
Was it because he loved you but you weren't into him?
I know how you feel. I have a guy friend who is always there for me, and I like him but he has a crush on a girl named Artie and he used to like me but not anymore. He still flirts with me though.
+Ashlyn Campbell Believe it or not the reason I said asked that was because I felt the same way bout a girl for years and she's quick to jump onto any other guy when I've been with her for years helped her whenever I could. I'm literally torturing myself mentally over her and she barely notices my efforts. She just reassures me of our closeness just so I don't start feeling resentment towards her or starting distancing myself cause she kinda missed when I was, but now I'm still back to where I was with her. Just her friend whom she can replace in future when she's bored.
That is exactly why I am here too 😞
Heartbreak really sucks, it affects you for your next relationship, especially qhen you betrayed, it makes you think that your new relationship will not last long just like the first, because it makes you think that this one will betray you too, but still I hoping that someday ill find the right person, we ould love each other, and wint betray each other, trust is so important in a relationship, I always want to be loyal to my future partner, who ever that person is,
I've never been in a relationship, but Im watching this to prepare myself for the inevitable future.
Ever since this video was uploaded, I have lived by this advice. I'm watching this video again today because I have just had my heart broken. It's nice to be able to come back here after heartbreaks because it's supportive. This is the 4th true heartbreak I've gone through and it's the 4th time I've followed Jenna's advice. I'll never do anything different. She's honestly made my life so much easier just by uploading this video!
It happened 1 year ago after 5 years together, I still feel sad and broken and I can’t believe anyone anymore, I feel like no one will ever stay with you forever, but I’m gonna listen to this everyday and I’m gonna be better, to all people who their heart is broken I LOVE YOU ALL , YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL INSIDE ❤️💕
It takes around twice the time you were together to get over someone you were with. You are on the right path and it’s ok to still feel it. Hope ur doing better
Hi, idk if you will even read this but, I'm 17, had my first love 3 months ago, everything was picture perfect. We were relationship goals, she was my first girlfriend, and I thought she would be the last. I treated her like a princess, I was the confident nice guy. Then one day she called me and told me she still loved someone else. I didn't eat, or sleep for 2 days straight. I ugly cried everywhere over her. I was demolished. Then we try to make it work, everything was good and back to normal in a week, the she tells me she doesn't know what she wants. I didn't cry in front of her. I told her that one day she will realise she made a mistake to throw me away and that she blew her second chance. I don't want to be back with her agian, ever. Only bc I know something like this would happen again. I'm still hurting, but I know I'll find someone that deserves the way I treat them and appreciate me and love me for me. I'm at my friends house rn and we burned everything she had written me or made me. Felt good to let go. I give it a month before she texts back, but it won't matter, I'll already be over it and I'll already be stronger. Anyway your video really helped me. So thank you for putting this vid up👍
We are the most confused when we try to convince our head something that our heart knows is a lie
so fuckin true
Cassandra Wendehake yeah💔🖕🏻
I had almost a month With My heart broken, but this vídeo made me believe that I have more oportunities. I recomend this vídeo!!!
I miss him😔
Simply Darcy I miss her :/
I miss him 😪💔
It hurts
josh orlando Aww are you okay?
Queen Hyuna I can't tell if your being genuine or not
I'm just watching this to prepare for the day I may get heart broken..
Jacob It sucks bro..
I watched this sooo many times back in 2017 when I was broken-hearted over my ex and it was so damn helpful. Truer words could not have been spoken!!
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i'am totally broken but i ended up being relax myself ,not by watching video but by seeing u .. u are soo beautiful ❤❤❤
Seriously 😂😂😂
ishwar choudhari just stfu!
😔 thinking about him hurts my heart😔
Kelly Liu I know exactly how you feel😭😭
you saved my life damn it thanks. that is exactly what i need to hear right now.
When she said “Shut up!” I lost it😂
I've also been manipulated many times by an individual, and you know everything you said was absolutely correct. At the time I was so blindsided by my love for that person that I always ended up making excuses up *for* them in order for me to justify their own faults. It was wrong for me to do so and I know that now. It sucks being manipulated because then you feel like you're the phoney one when it happens. Especially when they play the pity card. It's hard to let go, but there's no point in staying with somebody who obviously wouldn't treat you the way you'd treat them back. It just causes more stress and frustration and I'm here saying this after only four days of me breaking it off with that person. In all honesty it does get better and like this young woman said "everything happens for a reason". Let your heart heal and eventually you'll find somebody new and most likely better since you can use your past experiences to better yourself and your choices.
this is so motivational, i hope you healed and moved on by now!
So Gay ShiDae yes! I'm a much happier person now. I found another guy I'm interested in and I've let go of the past. :D
Haha a month later and my ex actually tried to get back into my life. And I'm like:
"D E N I E D but at least you t r I e d"
Dispirited Donuts i feel what u coming from
Jamal Manzano aye. It’ll be okay, dude. I found somebody new and honestly I’ve literally never connected with somebody better and I’m 101% sure you can do the same. I’ve never been happier with somebody and I hope you find somebody who can make you feel the same!
I've been in love for 4 and a half yrs and he has hurt me so much and I cant stop crying
Wow I wish I had you as a friend. I feel attacked in the best way. Thank you for this. I literally felt like you were talking to me because you knew me so well lmao
Kristina Massa hello.nice
This girl is a natural motivator lol great
Started watching this video with pain, ended up laughing about it lol.
+Leon Hawkins i can't laugh i have made te biggest mistake ever in my life and it wasn't them it was my breaking my own heart i will always have a scar becuase i was in school but i had to leave becuase my parents broke up for a while and came back together thx to them !!!!! they broke my hear multiple times not even knowing that they are leaving a trauma behind on me i can't sleep becuase i'm thinking about my love pls help me
dammmmm she's good!!!, wise words!!, the yelling helps a lot
this is the second time i am watching this video it really helps ....
Praveen Chaubey same here
Thank you, I kinda had a crush on this guy for awhile, and he’s been telling me about a girls he thinks are cute,, short Asian girls, with flat chests, and I’m the total opposite of that.
So I felt kinda heart broken, I really liked this guy.
I keep messaging him everyday tho, we never talk irl tho, we just never hangout, he’s even in my class.
Idk what too do..
I can’t stop messaging him everyday.
I’m thinking of just stopping to message him, and see what happens.
I just need a break, even tho it will hard.
But theirs this girl...
I’m pretty sure she likes me.
She confessed to me, but said it was a dare after,
I told her about this problem and she told me to forget about it, and that she loves me.
Idk if she meant that in a friendly way or not,.
Idk if I should give her a try?.
Give it time to forget about this boy??
I’m just so confused and lost...
I related to this so fucking much, I love you girl!!
I have officially been heart broken for 2 days. But you gave me the truth.. The truth hurts.. Therefore I am even more heartbroken. Thanks a lot..
+Li'den Katarn It's better to face the harsh truth and learn then to live in a lie and go through the same thing again.
It is okay to be heartbroken and it happens to mostly all of us.
Hahahaha
I wasnt being able to delete our pics
This video made me do it😂😂
Thanks
Fuck all the memories
Thanks dude 😘
Veronic Lee thats true
I just found this video in my TH-cam home page. And I remember 3 years ago, I was broken hearted. Didnt want to leave my bed and feeling so fckng anxious all the time. This video helped me a lot to understand that life still goes on. And here I am, 2020 still alive. Now I just have to worry about the Covid-19
I cant accept things that she did to me. I know its done I dont wanna her back, maybe I do, cant admit. Im not sure but I didnt deserve this treat by her. I wasted my 2 years to wait her, making our relationship well and stuff but then she s gone.puff. she did mistakes, she broke my heart and I never let her go cause I loved.
I loved her like my sister, like my mom, like my best friend, like my everything in this world and her response I dont love you anymore. I cant get on this one. Cant forget and blame for everything her in my head. morning or night, sleep or woke up. stalking overthinking hurts me and I cant stop. Anyone give me an advice. How can I forget her
and trying to find a way from a girl in a lesbian channel. how pathetic me
+Ouz
I personally think pathetic would be more like not seeking help and festering when you could be healing.
I don't think there is an easy way to forget her. Occupy your time with activity. Work. Hobbies. Learn a new trade. Give yourself something to do and then commit to it. Thoughts will always be there but they'll begin to drift as you think of her less and less.
Allow your feelings to arise. Acknowledge how you feel, accept your feelings basically and then allow them to pass as you live your life (or continue your work). Just my two cents.
Time will help you. Take care! Never pathetic for seeking help.
Thank you for your care, really depth words that can help me. I hope time will cure the wounds she did :C (btw sorry for my bad english, I sold my ex for internet)