The Worst Dad Ever... (AITA #10)
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reply and i'll eat the dad
eat the dad
Do it
Feast
No, I don't think I will.
Ask for consent first
The only reason adults are not picky eaters is because they chose to not buy the things they don't like and use alternatives
yes
my mom doesnt like eating bananas because of the "texture" and calls me a picky eater because every food i dont eat is because of that
i hated when me & my siblings werent allowed to get something bc my parents didnt like it but when they bought something we didnt like we got yelled at lol
My parents made me eat peas even though I've told them I hate them
Yep. As a picky eater myself I can definitely tell you that this is 100% the case. Whenever I go to my Uni room for the week I have to buy enough food to last until I get picked up and taken home. As a result I get to choose everything - breakfast, lunch and dinner. The chances of me getting food I don't like are slim to none.
The mom in the second story is definitely one of those moms that won’t listen to you unless it’s an argument.
Even if
I hate babies that's why I'm not married.
Yeah the mom is the real asshole. The guy is in the right
and that mom is my mom,
both the mom and the 24 year old son are the assholes
7:10 The parents should be the one dealing with the baby if they're in the house. Not some random kid imo
Not an opinion, a fact
with the baby AITA, i can understand why the kid was mad that his mom kinda pushed the baby onto him without really talking with him about it (acording to the story) and why didnt the parents just take the baby in their room, why are they trusting this random kid with their child?
true
yeah I honestly think that too, but he shouldn't have called the baby's parents "bad parents" for that
If I were in their situation I'd be pretty pissed too, but probably would've taken another child of the neighbours in my room instead of the baby( I don't like babies that much). And the neighbours should've taken their baby with them only. The person didn't act very nice but compromise from both sides could've been done to resolve this
That random 'kid' is actually 24 years old
but dont call them the b word
that usually ages bad for me
i call her names like the immature dumbass i was when im pissed but that changes when she does stuff like cook me bacon
I have this friend and her parents had the same rule as in "if you don't finish your dinner, it will be breakfast the next day, and if you don't eat breakfast it will be lunch and so on"
she didn't eat for 5 days-
@doldres then the parents gave up and let her eat good food 😂
Oh goodness!
@@mannimations5950 damn
oh god I feel so bad for her, I hope her parents get some sense
@@mannimations5950 man this type of thing can lead to unhealthy relationship with food
I like how AITA is often either "AITA for stealing my boyfriends wallet cause he forgot to get my makeup?" or "AITA for delaying my meet-up with my friends to go see my dying mother?"
No sh!t sherlock
r/aita is just a place to go to feel better about all the terrible things you've done.
Among us
@@Ben-zh4hh idk man thats kinda sussy
'Hey, i killed my friends parents. AITA?'
@@Black_Knight_-BK- NTA, it is okay to kill your friend’s parents for not letting your friend have a sleepover.
@@Ben-zh4hh Oh thank god. Glad i'm not a bad person!
Next episode:
I committed several warcrimes in czechoslovakia, but the people called me a poopyhead, am I the asshole?
No, you’re not, how dare they call you a poopyhead?!
Is this an avengers reference?
You need to commit more in order to be considered a...hole
hmmm, its only a country
Dude Czechoslovakia was broken apart in 1992 so you should be saying Czech Republic
Hearing him bash the dad in the first story hurt. When I was younger at my dads house him and my stepmom would force feed me every day, almost every meal. I had no say in what I ate or how much, and I had to finish everything, no matter how much I hated it. There had been foods that I hated so much I gagged and threw up, but I still had to finish everything. If I didn't finish food fast enough, then I would have a timer set, and if the timer ended before I was done, I got punished. Now I can eat almost any food with little to no reaction, no matter how much, or how much I hate it, and I can eat very quickly, because I would get threatened with the timer if I didn't. Even now I get laughed at and ignored if I ask for a smaller portion of food or something different next time, and I'm force fed even though I protest. Now I struggle with overeating, undereating, and not knowing when to stop on a daily basis and nothing was ever said or done about the way I was treated during meals. I've been yelled at for not drinking sour orange juice with bugs in it, and punished by not being allowed medicine I needed when I was so sick it was agony to talk or even swallow. I'm required to go to my dads alone in a different state for a two weeks soon and around a month every year, and idk how I'll handle it, since I can barely stand being in the same room with them without feeling anxious or terrified and wanting to leave. When I'm there all methods of communicating with anyone except them or my young siblings are taken away for absolutely zero reason. (TW: SH) I already have had my phone taken since early September for cutting, so idk what I'll do there.
Thanks for coming to my tedtalk, I hope u enjoyed my venting :)
I'm so sorry you went through all that, I hope you're doing better now
I hope you can cut all contact with them soon. I trust you can learn how much you need to eat. If you're not in the US, you should maybe seek a doctor to help you and to tell you how much you'll need to eat so you can learn how to figure out how much you need.
I wish you all the best ❤️🩹
Just try to enjoy your life and cut them out of your life as soon and as much as you can.
i completely forgot about this comment, thank you so much❤️🩹
thank you🫶🏼
Dad’s logic: If they do something I don’t like, STARVE THEM
Starve*
god damnit.
*stave*
no its *STAVE*
guys please don’t stave yourself ‼️
@@koukellll too late I already staved myself
I'm sick of people saying that the kid is the bad one, just imagine having a baby that's not your family in your room without having a say in anything plus knowing that the parents can just easily take the crib to their room
It’s mainly because of his attitude people think of him as the A-hole. He could’ve approach the situation better. But besides that he was totally right.
@@centaur6605 but he was a kid. Do you expect a kid to deal with the situation like an adult?
@@AlFredo-sx2yy he was a 24 year old 😂. Man I never knew 24 year olds are kids. At least everyone is saying he was a 24 year old.Even if he was a “kid” that’s not an excuse. I’m a kid and I wouldn’t act like the way he did.
@@AlFredo-sx2yy why are u assuming he’s a kid?
@@AlFredo-sx2yy u act like all “kids” misbehave and can’t deal with situations responsibly.
7:01 putting a baby in someone’s room without asking is something that deserves some type of correction. His attitude was awful, but I’d still say the parents here are in the wrong
I have to disagree with the second story, I would say ESH. The mom was wrong for not telling anyone, especially since they're going to be affected by it too. The parents were wrong for not having the baby with them. I mean, at least try not to be any more of an inconvenience than the situation already is? The baby belongs with the parents. What would've happened had the baby started choking or something? They wouldn't know unless she was loud and they wouldn't be able to immediately fix it. OP was wrong for expressing themself in that manner, but right on how they felt. I would be pissed too if there was a noisy baby and people coming into MY room, disturbing me in MY space. That's why OP was mad. I think the situation could've been prevented had the mom had a conversation with her household beforehand instead of shutting people down. It sounds like some borderline narcissistic behavior to me.
Exactly my thoughts, they legit pawned their kid to someone else.
you get it
if he didn't put the kid in the bathroom I would say his mom was completely in the wrong
@@Monkemonke223 him putting the kid in the bathroom was the smartest strat ever. The parents dont want to deal with their own baby's annoyance, why should he? So, if nobody wants to be annoyed, lets put the kid in a place where nobody will hear it. That way, if something bad happens to it, the parents will learn their fucking lesson and learn to take care of their own child.
@@AlFredo-sx2yy Your right because if something happens to the baby. He wont know what to do
For the baby one, what was there to compromise? He didn't get anything he wanted in that deal. His opinion was just ignored and that lead to him not getting good sleep because of the baby. It would have been better if the baby slept with the parents, because that should be their responsibility.
The parents?Comon it was the kid`s mother`s fault not the parents
@@waqasyounus4399 Well after all they are responsible for their children so yes, is the prents fault too, I mean if i had children i wouldn't let them sleep with an stranger
Y E S S S
So you would rather have the adults have no sleep
@@Bacon2000. they are the parents so I suppose yes
For the second story (the one with the baby sleeping in the kid's room) I don't think the kid is spoiled, I think the kid's mother wants brownie points for "being a good person" but doesn't want to actually deal with compromising. I think the crib with the baby should either be in the same room the parents are sleeping in (whether it be a guest room or the living room couch) or in the bedrom of the OP's mother because she is the one wbo offered that family a place to stay the night. You can't volunteer other people's personal space when they are not involved in the decision. If you are able to volunteer other people's personal spaces then I volunteer Pegasus's room for the whole US homeless population.
If OP had offered his room then changed his mind and started moving the crib to other rooms, I'd be be calling him the asshole but seeing as the mother offered for the neighbors to spend the night, she's the one who should have been compromising, not OP.
Excuse me but why was the baby not in the parents' room? I absolutely cannot deal with crying babies/children, it's the number 1 thing to give me anxiety attacks, so I'd probably either yeet the child out of my room or jump out the window if I were in that situation
Same
bro imagine waking up to a crying child i would be so annoyed at everyone even if they had nothing to do with it
same
Stop the cap or get help
Same, i'm pretty sure I have horrible anger issues- Certain noises, like people chewing food with their mouth open and making noise would be enough for me to rip my paper in half in the middle of class, I almost did it today, actually-
The person in the baby story had every right to be upset. No way I’m letting a strangers baby in my room.
and then if something happens to it they will blame you 1000%
@@squirrel670 fax
@@Xurt So what should`ve done?
@@waqasyounus4399 the child has a pair of 24/7 caregivers
@@waqasyounus4399
Initially I would've asked the parents to take the kid to their room. If the parents can have a room of their own, why can't the baby join them?
I am 100% on the second OP's side. Exept I would just go sleep in the living room floor or something
Some people said they would move the baby out the room or *kill* the baby
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Nah you’re tripping about the second story. The guy has every right to be mad about those strangers baby especially the circumstances he’s been in. The mom was also in the wrong in that story too honestly I’m confused on how you managed to side with the mom and neighbors😂
but the kid was being a massive prick and being hypocrite too. hes mad that he has no say in it, but then moves it to the sisters room when she has no say in it
Seems like the bf is the a-hole, he said "you can't have friends that I don't like"
it seems like all he does is nag nag nag and complain complain complain especially the bathroom situation cmon man
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@@strife6034 no
@@strife6034 based
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Isn’t it weird that a huge chunk of the AITA Reddit is related to family issues
Not everyone's family is great
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@@strife6034 uhh thx??
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Me who made a post related to family issues on the AITA subreddit: o.o
6:50
I don’t see compromise, he wasn’t asked if he was ok with it. And the baby should always be with the parents, not with another kid. I think everyone is wrong in this story.
I love how some people would go as far as to force their children to eat the food they don’t like (basically torture as you said) and they ask Reddit if they’re the a-hole.
yeah lmao they're so stupid
You understand that eating food like that may create problems for you in the future right?
Yeah, that hit very close to home.
I remember when my parents were together they would force me to eat food i didn't like by not allowing me to leave the kitchen (with force) and threatening me with taking things away from me and not allowing we to visit my cousin, even on birthdays, saying the day after they "Didn't mean it" and "Were concerned for my health" when they could literally make some food i actually liked.
Sorry for ranting but needless to say i resented food after.
unpopular opinion but i don’t think they’re too much of a a-hole but they’re just really mean. I understand what they’re trying to do because i personally experienced this and it was fine but come on... leftovers should’ve been for lunch
honestly you can't even question whether your the a whole or not
I kinda agree with the guy complaining that the baby being in his room, I absolutely cannot sleep with any sound, and if i wake up, I can't fall asleep after waking up. And the fact that the parents didn't get THEIR OWN baby in their room, is just pissing me off. I would be able to have a baby in my room, if it were mine, sure, I'm taking full responsibility, but if not it ain't happening.
late but omg same
6:40 i get her point though, where are the parents staying in the house? you can't be telling me they put 2 adults in a room so small or cramped that it can't even fit a crib. the idea that the parents just didn't wanna deal with the child making noise all night would've definitely popped into my head.
We need a Worst Of All Time where we compile the award winners for the biggest a-holes in any category!
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Yes
Winner of the A Hole who caused severe mental health issues to daughter: that guy who, because of his daughter's grades being bad, cut off her therapy which was helping her a lot.
@@malekahmedsamir1337 chimkin and coke
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all of us:
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i liked when he said being a fussy eater is a "condition"
the people who ask if they are the a-hole be like: "i kidnapped a baby and threw it away because it keeps crying. AITA?"
then the neckbeards say: nah, that baby deserved to go in the trash
Imagine you guys are in OP’s position you are a light sleeper and the people like op and you are trying to sleep but can’t due to random noises you cannot say you would not be irritated did not throw the baby away in the trash he just simply moved it to a room where he can get some decent sleep -_-
no there are good ones
@@Yuritsissymaid 1. it was a joke we werent talking about that one 2. what is that pfp
@@Yuritsissymaid r/whoosh
What my parents did was not let us eat any snacks after dinner if we didn’t finish. It was way more effective and didn’t force us to eat unhealthy amounts of food.
my parents will put the food in the container and into the fridge and have it for the next meal and if we don't finish, they will not cook anything new (they will if we have very little food leftover). do take note, the food is put in the middle of the table and everyone shares it
same
Ironically, I often feel like the a-hole for not making my daughter eat more foods. She's extremely picky and because of that she only has a few things to choose between, I feel like I don't have much to offer her and it sucks.
I'll get her to try new things but she's just revolted by certain foods, smells and textures... I just couldn't ever force anything on her because I was also once a picky eater and I know how it feels. Thankfully it changed for me one day and now I'll eat just about anything other then seafood. My husband on the other hand is just as limited as she is, how can I tell her she has to eat stuff when her father won't even do it?
So on the other hand, she needs food with better nutritional value and as a parent it's up to me to give that to her, so what's the compromise here? What would you guys do?
For the story with the people in Dallas, I disagree with you. While I don’t think he should have called his mother that or moved the baby out of his room, but goddamn imagine trying to get through a harsh freaking winter with usually no power, you finally get it back on, now you can’t sleep. Keep in mind, he said his mother didn’t warn anyone that they were coming, and out of the blue told him that the baby will be in his room, and when he did try to debate her on it, she shut him down. From what I tell, it’s more just someone venting because their mom is ticking them off (I do think he should just deal with it for the baby’s sake though)
The fact that they dont want the baby in their rooms shows how much of a pain sleeping with a baby is and later they r mad for someone not complying
yeah the baby story is clearly ESh here in my opinion the mother didn't consult the son
Tbh, they could have told the parents to sleep in their room or smt. And the mom could have let the baby in her room because it was her who invited the neighbors. They didn't talk to each other, so problem got worse.
He might have actually saved the baby. If he has anger issues like me the kid might have made him lose control of himself and kill the bad in a fit of rage.
This whole arguement was mostly OP's mothers fault. She cant say 'Oh no, i invited our guests to stay in our house without consulting my other family members'. Also, the mom is kind of an asshole for shutting him down and not listening to him. Plus, its not right to just force ur kid to share his room with a baby without asking him for consent. Speaking of which, shouldnt the baby be sleeping with its parents and not in the room of another kid, whom he's not related to? This just goes to show what kinda parents they are. Ig OP was right about them being shitty parents. Some a' the blame goes to the babys parents as well for making OP the unpaid sleeper babysitter
Up until now, My mom uses to guilt trip us if we dont eat what we dont want to eat. I hate fish because it has a lot of bones and one time I accidentally swallowed one. If she brings home one, she would say that I should be ashamed because there are a lot of starving kids out there. That guilt tripping is now applied to everything including in studies where even though Im super unhappy of my course, I think of myself as a bad person when thinking of wanting to open up to her about my school problems
Like why can parents just ask what their kids want to eat?
@@kimkardashi-un2.051 i doubt theyll listen
they would say they are right for most of the time. answering back or explaining your side would be seen as being rude
@@AllyInReality yup
Same here smh
@@kimkardashi-un2.051 This is really weird to me because you guys just suggesting that everyone can just eat whatever they want is really fucking stuck up. Coming from a family where food is what you can afford and not eating means you go hungry, you guys are really children. Just suck it up and fucking eat it, if you aren't allergic its really not that bad.
6:51 as someone with misophonia i can say that i mostly agree with the person in this
The "A" people was the parents that punish their kids with leftovers, the girl who backstab her friend cus of ransom guy and the mother who will let her daughter all alone around strangers just to spend time with her husband
E chain go
@@strife6034 chain go oзo ?
@@selin6389 ok
@@strife6034 idk what's that ;w;
@@selin6389 oki doki
I hate it so much when i see parents doing selfish acts towards their children then give the "i'm doing this to teach you a lesson about *blank*" excuse
I was so scared for my first sleepover. It was at the neighbors house down the street and I ended up walking home at 10:00 as an 8yr. Had to wake up the parents to tell them tho AITA
The second person is definitelly not the ashole
How is he spoilt?
Why doesnt the baby sleep with its parents?Its their baby.
I would definitelly not want baby in my room
Also
Why are they even sleeping there?If there is no power,What do you need power for while sleeping?
From the second I heard that his mom didn't consult him before putting the baby in the room I knew he wasn't the a hole
i guess the power part could be to power a heater or something, who the fuck knows, the second story makes 0 fucking sense, and that poor kid had to put up with the baby of some parents who dont care enough to take it into their own room.
Exactly like they don’t have blankets to use? Or they can just sleep close to eachother to stay warm
@@AlFredo-sx2yy 24 year old man actually
@@IrisXen Kid can be used to refer to a young person.
Does his exact age justify the fact that the parents arent taking care of their own baby tho?
I honestly think with the second story that the kid wasnt entirely in the wrong, sure they couldve handled it better but the fact that the mom didnt talk to the family about the neighbors is completely wrong. Its important for families to communicate with each other and not just decide things on their own. It the same deal with the baby being in the kids room. Also the mother should have had a more open mind and try to understand their child. In the case of that story I think the mother/neighbors were more in the wrong, the baby should have been in their room. Also Erika is in the right
Its not a kid though apparently. if it was a kid i'd probably understand but apparently they 24 years old. that kind of makes me judge them harder.
@@itshunni8346 oh ok, that makes more sense
@@itshunni8346 yeah exactly whats the guy gonna do after he has children,agreed he wasnt fully at fault the baby should be with the parents but i think one should compromise /bear with it for one night
@@itshunni8346 old Or not if my mother literally forced me to sleep in the same room with a baby I would be pissed af
@@itshunni8346 If you hated sleeping with a dog how would you feel if suddenly your mom went "Hey I invited some distant friends to stay and their dog will sleep in your room" out of nonewhere and refuses to change her plans how would you feel
Nah, the second person was completely in the right, except when they put the baby in the bathroom. That was too far, but everything else was justified.
As someone who hates sleepovers it would be hell if my parents never picked me up.
In the second one, she wasn't spoiled for filling to live with compromise, there was no compromise. Your room is your private place and it's not fair to make someone give up the one spot where they can be alone without even letting them have a say. I used to share a room with my brother and I know that if their is someone in your room constantly waking you up and being loud it's reasonable to get pretty pissed about it.
Bruh it was a 24 year old man lol
@@IrisXen How did you know that?
@@IrisXen then it's even f***ing worse
@@IrisXen imagine what he could've done to the baby.
@@IrisXen then is the fking parents fault for allowing their baby into the same room alone with a stranger 24 year old
12:23 This makes me feel warm inside knowing i have such loving parents that would literally do anything for me at anytime (within reason for the "anything" part)
I'm a pretty sensitive person ngl and once I was feeling uncomfortable being at some sleepover or something like that and my mom came to pick me up, once even in boston, in the middle of the rain!(those two were in about 4th or third grade) My dad would also do this stuff but he did it much less since my mom likes to take charge of things because she feels responsible to do it a lot of times. in sixth grade i went through a lot of stuff including loneliness, i have matured a lot during these past years but even if this were to happen now (9th grade) my parents would still comfort me, its not likely ill be anywhere near as sensitive as i was and i know id atleast be brave in trying to get out of my comfort zone but its nice to know i have parents like this
Edit: I forgot to mention that im not justifying the mother i am just glad that my parents aren't like them
id get why the kid would be upset with the baby in their room BUT they should've handeld it better anyways the baby should've been in the baby's parents room not their room
I agree that the kid handled it really bad and he shouldn't do that, BUT its rude of the fucking parents to move in their neighbors house and make theyre children a fucking burden on other people. Its rude to sleep in silence while your child is screaming in someones ear.
@Brian Takam weirdo
@@karliskalvans8739 agreed
@@helloisitmeurlookingfor5898 I think that he's being sarcastic
My thoughts completely
Last time i was this early my dad still had the milk.
mine had a bottle
@@birdsayshello Mine paid child support
@@xennid1926 mine had paper
@@birdsayshello dew
@@MtnDew4828 bro you cant say that that cokeist
For the 1st story, i think a better tactic for no food waste is let the kids choose when to eat leftovers. If they don't like the food, then the parents/guests could eat it.
Story number one: good kid deserves French toast for doing so well usually, and should have had to follow the rule at lunch instead.
Story two: anyone who has had to sleep with a baby in the room knows how hard that is. The kid was right that the parents shouldn’t have pawned the baby off on the kid, especially after the first, much less second time the baby woke up crying. The kid shouldn’t have said so, but it still was true. This kid can’t sleep for the baby, but also for the parents who have to come in and comfort the baby. It’s their baby. They know their baby better than anyone. The kid might not have felt quite so negative about the situation if the mom had at least talked to them about it first too. No one ever likes people just arbitrarily making decisions for them.
Story three: boyfriend thinks roommate is gross cause she farted loudly, probably in her sleep, and blows her nose too often on one occasion. He hates the smell of curry and boiled eggs. Even if it isn’t an excuse, this guy seems gross. Like he never farts, and maybe he never bothers to blow his nose. He calls the roommate gross? The girlfriend is not a good friend at all. She should have told the guy that he wasn’t dating her friend and he wouldn’t appreciate her judging his friends that way.
Story four: quality time for a married couple with children can be extremely hard to come by. Kids are always interrupting. Moms never get to watch a movie from beginning to end. That being said, that child did not ask to be born. She was left in a situation that was extremely uncomfortable. She could not have known ahead of time what it would be like. Any good parent could think that through. The lesson of sticking with a decision was a lame excuse to have a “reason” to leave the daughter in an uncomfortable place. Safe or not, that was wrong.
JMO
@satirical man well the story (maybe) and pegaSus said he was a kid
Ye
@satirical man it’s still creepy to put ur baby with a 24 year old man dude 👁👄👁
@@Kyrusisgone parent's fault tbh.
I have never agreed this much b4.
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with the food one, I didn’t think it was a big deal until I got it clinically diagnosed that I was extra picky lmao
i know the kid in the second story is the a hole, but i understand why he feels that way. he suddenly had to have a noisy baby in his room without question, the situation sucks and he was an a hole but the feeling is very understandable.
He was only the A hole for putting the baby in his sisters room and in the toilet. Imo, the parents of the baby and OP's mother were the A holes. Why dont those shitty parents just sleep with their own baby and not make some random kid their unpaid babysitter? And why was the mom shutting down OP's concerns? That shows shes a controlling mother. I give OP a 2.5/5, the babys parents and OP's mother a 4/5
@satirical man OP making a big brain move
@@Black_Knight_-BK- dababy
6:10 Some mothers do deserve to be called the B word. While mine isn't a B but is _another,_ there are many parents out who make fools of themselves and the child is left there learning from their mistakes upfront.
That's how I have dealt with my irresponsible parents.
So with the second story, I both agree and disagree. You have to take care of your own baby, and handing over the responsibility to another person is not cool, especially when you're visitng that person's house. Although the kid in the story is very rude to his mom and everyone, I also think it was rude of the neighbors to just ignore the kid's opinion and keep THEIR baby in his room.
You’re wrong about the kid with the baby, you don’t know his home situation and his relationship with his mother, so how can you call him a spoiled brat and tell him to compromise when she didn’t talk to anyone in the family about the neighbors beforehand? She’s the one who made the decision she should take care of the responsibility, not push it on the other people in the family, i guarantee no kids were in her room that night, just her own kids rooms. Yes, you shouldn’t call your mom names, but again you don’t know the situation, she seems like the type of mom that does whatever she wants to the children and doesn’t allow them any kind of opinion on any situation, she just says “because i said so” and gets mad at any opposition, at that point i’d say it’s fair to not like your mother. Just don’t assume things about people when you don’t know what they’re going through.
are you the spoiled brat?
@@alina9772 you’re right, my bad for empathizing with people with horrible parents, i’ll just make fun of them next time
I really do agree with you.
Exactly it’s like “being nice” and paying for someone’s meal but instead you don’t have money and so you’re forcing your friend to pay
I agree. I feel like they could've dealt with it better, but I don't blame them for being salty and the mother did seem irresponsible.
I accidentally read it as "I forced my son to overheat" and remembered that my dad it to me :/
What?
Watdafak
But....that's what it says
Bruh wat happened
@@thisisahumanlol8255 I was having fever 39°C
And my dad simply grabbed my arms and put me under 5 blankets saying that I could only go out once 1 hour passed
Then I remember waking up in the hospital
I was 12 when that happened
My throat closes up when I try to eat something I dont like, I also gag uncontrollably but my parents think I'm being dramatic, so I try to cover the gag up.
I was actually a really picky eater when I was younger. my grandma didn't make me eat what I didn't like unless I actually had to eat it. I'm not as picky now, I even ate a few stuff that I hated before. honestly the op of the first AITA was really dumb, like saving the leftovers to eat later is fine but forcing ur children to eat it...that's just gross.
... My parents made me eat leftovers all the time and they tasted fine
@@iwontlikeyourcomment5487 yeah I said that in my comment too, it's fine if you save leftovers to eat later but if there's a perfectly good breakfast waiting for your child, don't force them to eat their leftovers
@@swain-Ix1tv yea like imagine you had meat for dinner and didn’t finish it who tf eats that for breakfast (ik bacon but I’ve never had it so that’s an exception ig)
@@swain-Ix1tv the breakfast was for everyone else not the kid he had leftovers
@@iwontlikeyourcomment5487 you don't get it then. that kind of parenting is just cruel.
My Dad left me thanks to my mom. But I have an awesome stepdad now. :D
That's good ^_^
@@gachakittypepper694 Thank you :3
@@serenity5702 :)
For me it's the other way around :(
epic :D
I wouldn't want a random baby waking me up in the middle of the night either, but the person could have just moved and slept somewhere else
Whoever doesn’t like the smell of curry deserves to be put in a room. Curry smells like life, especially with the spicy chili’s and the goat. Bro, if you don’t like curry then you aren’t living life right.
lmao agreed
@@gangstasteve5753 yeah
i love curry,especially the indina curry. so delicious, i wish i could have curry for every meal
The baby one kinda makes sense to me because the parents in both families literally placed a baby in that kids room
Not even a kid
24 year old man
@@IrisXen even worse
@@IrisXen think what OP could have done to the baby while everyone was asleep
While I am not defending, this just makes it super clear how the wrong the baby's "parents" were
Erica is a boss, stood up fir herself and left her in tears
Like we say in the Philippines: “Yesterday’s food is todays breakfast”
Yesterday's food is today's breakfast but with an egg
@@sweatyjesus6211 and curry
But for some reason- its not even that bad-
I feel like when your a kid everything other than pizza and chicken nuggets is an acquired taste.
Maybe I’m being biased because my family is basically like that, but I think that in the second story, the Mom was a bi-ch.
I just don’t like people who always do things that need to involve the second party’s thoughts about it but never ask for the second’s feelings at all, and are always assuming they know everything and are not to be questioned. It’s just really annoying, since with guardians like that, you barely get to speak out your feelings throughout your life, if not never at all, and you become compliant thinking if you just listen to them and do what they want you to do it’ll be over soon, like with the mind set to “just let them do that to get it over with.”
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Pegasus: YES! Yes you are.
he's right
bruh you literally said the guy who had the baby in his room should learn to compromise, but in the next story you said that erika shouldn't have to make compromises in her own home.
I mean, we don't know if the guy was paying for the house, it was his mother's 💀
@@blossomile it's still his home though he just doesn't own it
My friend's mom forces her to eat everything. Like after a long time we met, her mom was there with us and ate lunch together. The mom ordered the food for us. And she ordered a lot. we ate and had a pot of rice and curry left. We were like stuffed to the brim. And then her mom was like finish it. To her. And she ate it ALL. And then this "mother" has the nerve to say "you are getting too fat I am not going to let you eat dinner tonight, loose some weight." AFTER SHE LITERALLY FORCED HER TO FINISH EVERYTHING. And its actually quite sad because we met multiple times after that and she is very insecure about her weight, calling herself fat and stuff each and every time we meet.
I think the second person wasn't the asshole, I couldn't stand having to sleep in the same room as a baby.
For the last story of the mother (??) leaving her daughter at the sleepover, couldn’t she just pick her up and then spend time with BOTH of them?? It’s not that hard
Or just go pick her daughter up with her husband
I literally shiver and spasm when trying to eat food I don’t like. My mom tried forcing a hot dog down my throat and I literally projectile vomited on her
Serves her right in my opinion.
"the worst dad ever"
people with single mothers : damn you guys got dads?
orphans: damn you guys got parents?
People who can't produce: Damn you have kids
people: damn?
@@chaosdromanah8620 People being isolated from society: What are parents?
People who hasn't even born yet : ...
Finally! Someone (besides my mom who has the same pickiness problems as me) who actually understands that food doesn't have to be eaten if you don't like it.
for the final one, they could’ve just watched the movie when the kids were asleep lmao
Someone uploads to subreddit AITA:
I killed my best friend for a penny AITA
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Yes. Yes u are.
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me an asian that eats leftover dinner for lunch at school: really guys? i think you're being overdramatic about the first one
African parents over here 😂🙌
I don't see what is wrong with eating leftovers. people who thinks it wrong/disgusting to eat leftovers are spoilt.if i don't finish my food, my parent will ask me why i took so much when i can't finish it and the slippers might get involved 🤣 (they only did this when i was younger, i have more control now. lol)
@@GiveMeThatCat it wasn’t about eating left overs it was forcing them to watch everyone but them eat their favorite food and not letting them eat it
No cuz I can't eat dinner food for breakfast or I will feel gross
@@manialord1699 it's leftovers you ate it yesterday what's the difference?
I wouldn't want a little child making weird noises in my room either like imagine waking up and you see eyes staring at you in the dark and making noises
Nah the kid was such a spoiled brat becuase the baby was only temporaryly in his room he'd probably leave after 2 days
@@sabooo it's not like the baby is his problem anyways..
It's parents should've kept it with them...
@@victornikiforov2259 true but the kid also acted so spoiled
Story 2 I say YTA for putting the kid in your sisters room, but NTA for wanting it out if your room.
Yeah, u cant just leave a baby in a toilet or in ur sisters room. OP's mother and the babys parents are the ones who caused this entire fiasco (mostly OP's mother)
nah i disagree with you. The kid was being a spoiled bitch. Literally, his mother did something nice and invited people with no power into her house. The baby's health is prob the most important. All the kid had to do was man up and just go through the night. Troubled sleep for one or two nights isn't going to kill you.
@@alcaponeenthusiast5610 then his mom should have to deal with it rather than make her child suffer. The kid isn't his responsibility nor should he be expected to put up with it.
@@insertedgynamehere I can agree that the mother should've been with the child, but even if she wasn't, the child still acted up way too much. In this type of situation, it is understandable to get annoyed, but you just have to trudge through it. It's literally one or two days. She's part of the family. For all we know, the mother could've been handling with different things.
@@alcaponeenthusiast5610 not at ALL! his mom didn't warn anyone, the room is HIS, he's the one sleeping there, not her, she has no right to shove a baby in his room and expect him not to complain about it, I would have done the same, it's MY room, he even told his mom he didn't want the baby to stay there, but guess what? she didn't listen f*ck OP's mom honestly, I would've never put up with that. if you want to invite a family into your house without warning anyone the least you can do is have the baby in your own room.
The title already makes me know that he's the asshole.
Parents should NEVER use food as a punishment/reward!
Also this is the earliest I've ever been- Mushroom man pls notice me I love you.
To reward I say: Yes, please.
reward is ok
My parents would make me overeat just so that I could use the internet and sometimes I even had to swallow the food with water because I just couldn't eat it. I got sick a few sometimes so they stopped doing it thankfully but I really didn't like it
;-;
@@exceptionallyriso ouch
Notice me, senpai.
9:13, let me explain, no he’s not the type of guy that complains about everything, he just doesn’t like certain things, same as me, I can think of a few things are icky gross and make me want to vomit and I’m not one of those people. You probably are not like that considering you didn’t understand so I’m not mad, not that I’d matter I’m one person on the internet.
For the baby crib one, honestly the kid was kinda right. I can understand him not wanting his sleep disturbed who does? Honestly the parents and the baby should have been kept in the same room for everyone's sake. Peace
I can confirm, as a fussy eater that it's also physically for me to eat something I don't like. So you're in the.clear, pegachad.
Trust me babies are LOUD like you cannot fall asleep with them 😅
But i do agree they did ovearreact i would just deal with it but trust me they are load
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Second guy is not the a hole and the mom does sound like a b word
5:24 i can sympathize with them. Hearing babies cry when you are so very desperate for actual sleep is super annoying. If the neighbors would put a baby somewhere they should prolly put it where they're sleeping. The family doesnt owe the neighbor to make the baby sleep in the persons room. I mean they're already all doing them a huge favor. To take their sleep away too is just annoying especially when you dont owe them anything. I dont really think you should obligated to always be nice especially when it causes you more stress and problems. If the parents can hear the baby crying from the other room they can definitely hear if the babies in their room. It doesnt matter if it wakes them up or its hard to sleep because its going to cry regardless. Unless this person owes them something they are completely in the right and arent an A hole.
In other terms, yes they are an A hole though. Calling people words like that over a BABY crying is just petty.
7:15 If the parents are in the same house why dont they let the kid stay with them ?? No reason to put the baby in some random neighbors kid room, they will have to stand up if the baby is crying anyways, why let it wake up someone additionaly for no reason?
I thought about the same thing
There must not have been enough space there
ah yes, the serious medical condition: *picky eating*
1:20 I’ve gotta disagree with you on this one, when I was a kid there were plenty of foods I didn’t like, and would just refuse to go down my throat. However because my parents did something along the lines of, “if you don’t have 10 more bites of ___ you can’t leave the dinner table” and eventually I stopped hating the foods and now I’m perfectly fine with eating them. I’m grateful my parents did this and I’m probably much less picky and more healthy because of it
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Sometimes I over eat even though I’m full because the food I’m eating tastes so good.
They really be asking "AITA for killing everyone in my family"
no?
You mean "They're soon to be asking,", right?
.....
But they need mangekyo sharingan
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*Put a bed time for your 10 year old daughter: 9 pm*
*After nine: Quality time*
*LIKE DUDE*
Literally the parents from hotel for dogs.
The first one is so relatable, when I was living with my aunt and uncle.
the second one was not the asshole. as a person who hates babies the mom was the asshole actually. imagine having say..a stereo that simply plays noises at night which does not let you sleep and you get yelled at if you move it. the lack of rest made him irrational,that is why he was so aggresive with the mom. plus why did could the sister not let the baby sllep in her room if it ws not that bad. the kid was right about the pawning thing.
Why didnt it sleep with the parents?
nah i disagree with you. The kid was being a spoiled bitch. Literally, his mother did something nice and invited people with no power into her house. The baby's health is prob the most important. All the kid had to do was man up and just go through the night. Troubled sleep for one or two nights isn't going to kill you.
@@alcaponeenthusiast5610 Nah.
@@alcaponeenthusiast5610 well, the mom did not consult the kid first before making the baby sleep with them and why did they not make the baby sleep with the parents in the first place.
@@alcaponeenthusiast5610 can you stop copying pasting? What are you the mom or something?
i myself am a very picky eater and if i have to eat something that i hate, i stop breathing, pinch my nose and start chewing. And then i swallow. You wont be able to taste the disgusting crap. do not hold your breath till the point you pass out.
Yeah for that baby one i kinda think that everyone is an asshole
1. The op for not dealing with it correctly he could have just slept on the couch, he shouldn't have moved the baby.
2. The parents for just leaving their crying baby with a random kid instead of having the baby with them.
3. The mom for deciding everything, like having the baby on the ops room and not letting them at least talk about it with her.
You can disagree but thats what i think.
Ahem
He was actually a 24 year old man, which makes it significantly worse
@@IrisXen oh i thought he was like 16 or something, yeah the fact that he's 24 makes it worse
@@waysidetundra3352 yeah like bruh who dumps their child on a random 24 year old man they don't know
@@IrisXen bad parents
@@waysidetundra3352 Limited space- the parents are sleeping on an air mattress rn and the only room big enough to house the crib was OP’s bedroom.