1000% agree that chemistry is overrated. When you’re being authentic you’ll find you connect with many people. Women and men everywhere you go. It’s not a sign of longevity. Its bare minimum and expected. You and your besties have chemistry. That’s why you’re friends. Doesn’t mean you’re getting married 😅
It's true. There have been MANY times when I've experienced great chemistry with a man initially but it never goes any deeper. The chemistry is fun and makes you think there's a significant connection. But it becomes clear that there's no substance - which becomes very boring very quickly.
I tried bumble only for a few wks & I didn't care for it..I was trying to be more in my feminine but I felt masculine using that site..I couldn't get use to always initiating ALL the time..something I'm tryin to get out of lol..& I just got the feeling if I cont to date from there I'd end up dating myself with whoever I ended up with...
Bingo..it leads men into their feminine and women into their masculine. Wasn’t for me. After you initiate it sets a dynamic that is hard to undo. Your power is gone. I used it and every guy was beta. And then i slid in a guys dm’s once and same dynamic. He never entered chase mode. I don’t initiate. I signal at best.
I don't feel like I'm in my feminine on any dating sites but I do appreciate the idea of having a strategy. Loving that this has landed in my TH-cam lap now. 🙂 #divine
Thanks for sharing. What’s a slow burn? Can others chime in on what a slow burn looks like beyond being calm? How does it feel compared to being with a nice guy you might be settling for?
It’s like how it used to be for us in junior high school/high school; where each little thing was anticipated and overwrought with sexual tension before becoming a reality. Then that new level is explored and enjoyed to the fullest until the next time YOU are incapable of standing the tension and allow them to escalate again. There’s usually weeks/months between these things. We usually push the timeline outta fear that they will lose interest ❤ Hope this helps
Regarding the nice guy thing: it’s allowing the curiosity for his PIE to show through and allow him the opportunity to show the other facets that may make him more physically attractive to. It’s like after a certain conversation, you see them differently. But if you’re constantly assessing whether or not it’s developing, there’s no oxygen for the fire to burn 🔥
Wow, Mr. Anwar!!! This video was AMAZING and opened my mind to the possibilities. I enjoy your honesty and openness in ALL your messages, and this one didn’t disappoint. I am in a period of healing and, quite honestly, mourning right now. I have not dated or had a romantic relationship in over a year. My last relationship was steeped in co-dependency. When I decide I’m ready to date, I most definitely will seek your services. I feel I can learn much from you. Take care!
What I find fascinating about this channel is not only are you serving as a behavioral interpreter cross culturally but also across gender and sexual preferences. It’s like you’re trilingual or quadrilingual!
❤ I''m at a point in my life, I'm not interested in dating(at least at the moment), but for some reason you were on my feed, I subscribed because of the love that radiates from you, it's seen and felt. It's refreshing. I appreciate you for sharing❤, we (the world) need it, thank you... Black woman❤
1000% agree that chemistry is overrated. When you’re being authentic you’ll find you connect with many people. Women and men everywhere you go. It’s not a sign of longevity. Its bare minimum and expected. You and your besties have chemistry. That’s why you’re friends. Doesn’t mean you’re getting married 😅
It's true. There have been MANY times when I've experienced great chemistry with a man initially but it never goes any deeper. The chemistry is fun and makes you think there's a significant connection. But it becomes clear that there's no substance - which becomes very boring very quickly.
I tried bumble only for a few wks & I didn't care for it..I was trying to be more in my feminine but I felt masculine using that site..I couldn't get use to always initiating ALL the time..something I'm tryin to get out of lol..& I just got the feeling if I cont to date from there I'd end up dating myself with whoever I ended up with...
Bingo..it leads men into their feminine and women into their masculine. Wasn’t for me. After you initiate it sets a dynamic that is hard to undo. Your power is gone. I used it and every guy was beta. And then i slid in a guys dm’s once and same dynamic. He never entered chase mode. I don’t initiate. I signal at best.
I actually had more dates on bumble then any other dating sites. Still no match yet but I think ppl on bumble are more intentional in my experience.
I don't like bumble. I agree, I don't feel like I'm in my feminine energy when I'm initiating.
I don't feel like I'm in my feminine on any dating sites but I do appreciate the idea of having a strategy. Loving that this has landed in my TH-cam lap now. 🙂 #divine
This was great, a lot of very spot on things, especially for black women 🤗
I want a man with a good income. Especially if he wants me to have his children.
Thank you. I’ve revised my dating profiles.
Thanks for sharing. What’s a slow burn? Can others chime in on what a slow burn looks like beyond being calm? How does it feel compared to being with a nice guy you might be settling for?
It’s like how it used to be for us in junior high school/high school; where each little thing was anticipated and overwrought with sexual tension before becoming a reality. Then that new level is explored and enjoyed to the fullest until the next time YOU are incapable of standing the tension and allow them to escalate again. There’s usually weeks/months between these things. We usually push the timeline outta fear that they will lose interest ❤ Hope this helps
Regarding the nice guy thing: it’s allowing the curiosity for his PIE to show through and allow him the opportunity to show the other facets that may make him more physically attractive to. It’s like after a certain conversation, you see them differently. But if you’re constantly assessing whether or not it’s developing, there’s no oxygen for the fire to burn 🔥
@TheModernAlchemix well said!
Wow, Mr. Anwar!!! This video was AMAZING and opened my mind to the possibilities. I enjoy your honesty and openness in ALL your messages, and this one didn’t disappoint. I am in a period of healing and, quite honestly, mourning right now. I have not dated or had a romantic relationship in over a year. My last relationship was steeped in co-dependency.
When I decide I’m ready to date, I most definitely will seek your services. I feel I can learn much from you. Take care!
What I find fascinating about this channel is not only are you serving as a behavioral interpreter cross culturally but also across gender and sexual preferences. It’s like you’re trilingual or quadrilingual!
I'm so inspired by one who searches for Etymology of a subject.
❤ I''m at a point in my life, I'm not interested in dating(at least at the moment), but for some reason you were on my feed, I subscribed because of the love that radiates from you, it's seen and felt. It's refreshing. I appreciate you for sharing❤, we (the world) need it, thank you... Black woman❤
Love the stock portfolio analogy! ❤
Excellent advice❤️💯‼️
This was amazing ❤
Perfect. Thank you.
Hi: Is there some way I can sign up for trip to Turkey? Thank you.
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I need to become an Olympian and sign up for Hinged!!!
This was great! 💫
If we want someone that’s a full provider then yes, it’s important that the man makes 6 figures.
loved it!