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I believe this! I took an ex back only for him to break up with me and said he realized I wasn’t the one for him 🫠

I had a "friend" who called me every single day. would call me at work, after work on the way to the gym and right after he got out the gym . one time he called me mid workout and stayed on the phone until he went to sleep(ate dinner, showered then layed down) anyways pretty sure he was just lonely or something.

Matching energies is actually a depletion of your authenticity, energy, and time. I don't match energy, I will remove myself from the person or the situation.

This seems inverse to the question written at the top. I think I know how to tell lack of interest. I’m more interested in knowing when they are interested. That’s tough to tell!

And you are correct!

Thank you, Anwar!!🧡

Pretty men should always be avoided. Best case scenario, there's no personal development. This is why I'm not interested in them. Pretty women *do* have character development, because the world doesn't hand them things. It's easy to believe the same of men, but their lives are soft. Not manly.

I think the US is headed in that direction in general, leaving the racial element on the burner. Men sort of need war and struggle to reach their final form, and there are maybe one in a hundred men who have done that. The rest of them enjoy reddit, porn, dino nuggies, and complaining about modern women. They want barefoot women with long hair and sourdough. Women, on the other hand, want a man who's seen death. Even if that wasn't the case, the Amish are pacifists and extremely masculine. They're not dependent on people for things and can do it all themselves. Life used to weed out weak men. I think we should bring back that tradition.

I can say I’ve experienced this with a military man and that relationship was so traumatic never again and I was dating a police offer 🤦🏾‍♀️ I can’t speak on the complexions but I can confirm on the professions

they want to be the princess in the relationship

i know you're being so serious but "mid ugly men" is hilarious to me

Talking to all those people! I can barely keep up with myself, this sounds exhausting! I don’t think I want to deal with guys that operate like this.

100% 🤷🏾‍♀️

I appreciate this advice but why are we still acting like we need marriage to be happy?

My fairy godbrother always coming with the truth! ❤

me looking for ticket to Hawaii lol

😮 OMG you make me questioning my calls from men 😅

Never been into mixed men what I used to call browny boys in the Caribbean. Nope they are always some sort of narcissistic traits going on

Nothing but the truth is spoken here, a lesson I learned the hard way…. Thank you for speaking in this 💐

I agree with the maybe once .. maybe twice .. but never so much that you're not giving yourself a chance to see if he actually wants to talk to YOU

It's true... being in both worlds creates identity issues for alot of them.... and if women treat them like they're the prize it often goes to their head

I'm a dark skinned woman. I DO NOT treat or teach any of my children differently. From day 1 you know you are black. I will not sugar coat that fact at all. I tell you the real from jump. There is no privilege because you will know that we work 2 to 4x's harder than everyone else because of the American biases and perpetuated propaganda spewed forth for generations by not just whites but even in our own community.

They think that they’re the prize. Nope.

😂😂😂 this is the dumbest crap I’ve ever heard

Yeeeaah... I was with your page until this... like that's not cool... yall gotta stop putting light skinned people in a box.. when you expect a light skinned person to be a certain way, YOU create a self fulfilling prophecy because you've created that narrative in your head...I can't get with this one.. you're making it more than what it is when these men just are jerks that just so happen to be light skinned/ biracial..smh.. and you ain't that far from light skinned... shame on you

You just described my child’s father and it makes a lot of sense. And yeah, he is very aware of the privilege of his lighter skin color. He is Jamaican, so he comes from a racially classist culture. They are obsessed with skin color and the upper hierarchy of the country tend to be fair skinned. 😒

Both my exs said i love you first 😅❤

Love the new slide in text ☺️

Those are great examples. Another I've seen is the groom putting no effort into the vows and acting like it's a joke. He's sitting that he's either too immature for the bravery and vulnerability of heartfelt vows, or that he thinks he's doing her a favor by agreeing to marry her/there against his will. He wants her to know she's not worth the effort. For many men, it's literally the ONLY thing they have to put effort into for the wedding.

5. Phoenix 4. Miami 3. LA 2. Houston 1. Atlanta

My son’s dad is biracial, has green eyes, well built & overall really good looking & that’s one way he got me hooked when I was a lot younger. He is everything you mentioned except the enmeshment part. His mom walked out on him as a baby so that brought its own issues.

Such good advice! My husband has always wanted me to win. He's successful, but he always enjoyed watching me achieve as well.

Oooo....you said a word. Makes you think. 🤔

Why we whispering? Lol Dammit was thinking maybe I should date biracial or white hispanic men but now idk 😐

pseudo-psychology

This is definitely an under rated episode. This gave me so much value! I can’t believe this doesn’t have more views.

Im still recovering from the biracial narcissist, verbal abuse. Nose high in the air untill they want some 😽 😂.

🗣📢 "Biracial or lighter skinned men have the entitlement of a white man, but the trauma of a black man." 💯

God complex: BINGO!!! There was one I dated 10 years ago and it’s because of him I know what narcissism, narcissistic supply, narcissistic injury, & etc is. While some of them genuinely appreciate BSW, some of them use BSW as means to feel superior within theirselves. ….0 interest in them.

My son is light skin. And i look forward to smacking him if and when I see him acting up like light skins do. Lol

Truth!!

I agree .. except for the men that are talking on their way home from work before they see their families 😂 be careful of those too

When i just say my mind is 🤯 thank you. I was married to a bi-racial pretty boy who was definitely a narcissist.

I can and can’t agree. I am in a family with lots of light-skinned men, and it so greatly depends on the person. I guess it helped for my brothers that my mom is dark-skinned (dad is extremely fair but still black and is old-school Civil Rights Southern so not passing in the slightest) so they were raised just as black people, fully aware of their privilege within the world, but conscientious and kind. Not all of the cousins are so kind, though. We’re Creole, and some of us were raised to be God’s gift, but some were raised to be actual good people. At least in my experience, light-skinned men isn’t a monolithic group, it really depends on the individual.

This is great! I’m a therapist too

Y’all are mad that he said dark skin women ? Understand he is speaking on the perception of a man. And again we know sadly that most dark skin men does not prefer darker skin women in the black community. So yes, unfortunately most black men would place darker skin women in the layer over zone

Mine tried a few weeks ago and I blocked him!

How is it, when you're dating a doctor and the only free time is at 10 pm? Sometimes 8pm or 4pm... Is that different?

I remember there was some old tiktok video of a ww talking about how ww will love their BR sons, but hate their daughters bcuz their sons give them access to the patriarchy (as if wm don't already do that?) and ww "have never had any power" so this is their way of receiving it.🙄 Anyways, I can kinda see how that shows through their offspring, like with Drake, Doja Cat, and Jeremy Meeks.

Has been my experience