Eddie Mojela ON his wife's cheating , Violence and Fighting for his moms house

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  • @chicomateus2051
    @chicomateus2051 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +176

    "The most important advice I have is about family dynamics. I have 8 sisters who were troubling my wife with hurtful words. I stood by my wife's side and protected her throughout, despite knowing about my sisters' behaviour. It's crucial to stop protecting your family and focus on fixing your marriage. Your family might not support your marriage, especially if you are the main provider at home; they may try to alienate your wife. It's time to realize the reality of the situation."

    • @RosaMabotja
      @RosaMabotja 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      They can even lie ijo, men like you are so scarce.

    • @chicomateus2051
      @chicomateus2051 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @user-ok9kw9kk4r Yes, they create stories and lies, and if you are a provider, you need to stand your ground. I stood by her until they all made peace with it. Now we are one happy family

    • @rnk236
      @rnk236 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @chicomateus2051 Hmm…🥃 God bless you and your wife.

    • @chicomateus2051
      @chicomateus2051 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rnk236 I'm blessed to have her in my life

    • @chicomateus2051
      @chicomateus2051 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rnk236 I'm blessed to have her in my life

  • @patricianwandule5798
    @patricianwandule5798 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +109

    May this kind of man never locate me ...God refuse ka naa please😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @SM-mh1kq
      @SM-mh1kq 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 wena stoutu...ene ba tla o locater 😅😅😅😅....I'm joking...May God give you humble, Godly man

    • @ntombidayimani8178
      @ntombidayimani8178 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me and you both 😢😢😢

    • @kamogelokoloane5182
      @kamogelokoloane5182 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen.. Amen...Amen

    • @suzanmputle
      @suzanmputle หลายเดือนก่อน

      This one is useless yeer.
      Stupid yeer...

  • @PulengTshabalala-n3k
    @PulengTshabalala-n3k 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +206

    May this kind of man never locate me😢modimo hana kanna

    • @ladyb5843
      @ladyb5843 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      In the name of Jesus

    • @ladyb5843
      @ladyb5843 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      In the name of Jesus

    • @anastheciasebela6460
      @anastheciasebela6460 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      😂😂❤

    • @nthabelengmohlala3175
      @nthabelengmohlala3175 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Same😂 yho he said I can't let my wife get between me & my family 😮😭

    • @LoratoPeters
      @LoratoPeters 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂

  • @PemmyTshikovhele
    @PemmyTshikovhele 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +180

    He came here to say nothing n confirm portia story 😊

    • @Thembi-jb5br
      @Thembi-jb5br 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Comprehension is very important. Apply logic not emotions.

    • @Lungelo911
      @Lungelo911 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      And prove that he's a mama's boy 😅

    • @ratanangmatjila261
      @ratanangmatjila261 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@PemmyTshikovhele stru🤞

    • @pearltebogo2708
      @pearltebogo2708 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Danki sesi..​@@Thembi-jb5br

    • @manthobamamabolo6976
      @manthobamamabolo6976 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yhooo the 1st 8 minutes😩😩😩 Kante why go senyiwa nako.

  • @thattswanagirl5615
    @thattswanagirl5615 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +148

    The use of “that lady” says a lot about this guy’s character. That lady referred to him as husband throughout her interview.

    • @KaraboKalauba
      @KaraboKalauba 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      And Portia kept on saying my husband through out the interview

    • @Deli.N
      @Deli.N 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Remember she said he initiated the divorce so I think he's so over her that's why he refers to her as that lady

    • @CharmaineKgatla
      @CharmaineKgatla 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Mean he moved on long time ago, this guy must just go n marry his mom n siblings ​@Deli.N

    • @chicomateus2051
      @chicomateus2051 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @@thattswanagirl5615
      He didn't listen to the whole podcast
      His family told him about it

    • @blackwoman_015
      @blackwoman_015 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I said it !!!

  • @chloebadass9526
    @chloebadass9526 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    Your next girlfriend must not see this interview. “You can’t allow your wife to come between you and your family”? Some mothers hates their sons😢they make sure that they don’t marry.

  • @silindilenxumalo9541
    @silindilenxumalo9541 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    This guy is protecting is family. For as long as he does this, he will never have a wife. Not this one and no one else ever. Because he is their lotto, abamthandi.

    • @TebohoMonyamane
      @TebohoMonyamane 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      U Bua nnete

    • @becomingrebotile9496
      @becomingrebotile9496 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Being a breadwinner is hectic.

    • @Vv-fl2rm
      @Vv-fl2rm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      He must marry one of his sisters

    • @pheladitau6762
      @pheladitau6762 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Truth​@@Vv-fl2rmtruth....they must also make lots of babies since mma wants the kids😊

    • @princesstshilidziramabulan7772
      @princesstshilidziramabulan7772 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you, truth be told

  • @kms708
    @kms708 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    I was ready to find out how Portia lied only for this guy to Prove her right😂.

    • @rudzanikharivhe6294
      @rudzanikharivhe6294 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Nna I saw it from the word go...

    • @malidirbth7100
      @malidirbth7100 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      How right because the man has proof that the house was built b4 they got married. He also mentioned that porch was not working from 2016 if not 2015.
      Come with proof MoGirl to show that you are working and bought all what you claim.

    • @mariaduduzile3576
      @mariaduduzile3576 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@malidirbth7100 I remember her saying gore they built the house while they were still dating before getting married.

    • @cynthiaseanego3607
      @cynthiaseanego3607 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mariaduduzile3576yep I also heard her

  • @TinaYoung_kaMangethe
    @TinaYoung_kaMangethe 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    This man is full of lies and he keeps running away from answering questions properly coz he knows he is lying, 🚮

  • @lekgatlanehellenmoshidi62
    @lekgatlanehellenmoshidi62 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    he confirmed everything Porche mentioned,he is just worried about his family reputation.

    • @murielmoyahabo6078
      @murielmoyahabo6078 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeyi confirmed without confirming. Guy is a real definition of a narcissist

    • @nonomk2444
      @nonomk2444 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@murielmoyahabo6078true they sent him to clear their name

  • @gilliannkomi406
    @gilliannkomi406 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    Ge osa protect your wife obviously ur siblings batlo mo namela bamo fologa.. "protect your wife with all cost"

    • @nthabelengmohlala3175
      @nthabelengmohlala3175 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Exactly! Yena he's point is that he can't be a referee meaning he doesn't have the natural instinct to protect mosadi wa gagwe

    • @tinnylesetja8330
      @tinnylesetja8330 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly

  • @lebogangkutu-c2g
    @lebogangkutu-c2g 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    I feel so for the next victim 😢. Portia thank God you are out, wishing you healing.

  • @phutimaifo9635
    @phutimaifo9635 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    She is not working she is a business woman she is self employed

    • @TebohoMonyamane
      @TebohoMonyamane 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stupid lier says Potia is not working so stupid 🙄 Potia works because she is self employed

  • @vikeliwendlovu
    @vikeliwendlovu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    He shouldn't have come here 😅😆 we were not born yesterday

    • @sharonmaluleke4618
      @sharonmaluleke4618 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂😂He shoukd have stayed wherever he was, Yhoooo he's a narcissist

  • @mashadimokgata871
    @mashadimokgata871 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Tlang ke le botjeng hle they are bith right in their own way 😮
    Sadly their marriage involved lots of unnecessary people. Guys marriage is for 2people hle.
    ❤🎉Marriage is beautiful🎉❤

    • @marciamohale6720
      @marciamohale6720 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Too many passangers in the merriage

    • @pheladitau6762
      @pheladitau6762 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If this can reach the inlaws....if ur son is getting married.. plzzzzzzz he is marrying for himself not for mamazala....

    • @pleasurethema5110
      @pleasurethema5110 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      My mother warned me me against banna baga malebogo 😂😂😂tats all i can say

  • @poppymatshidiso7292
    @poppymatshidiso7292 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +113

    Promise mama , what a waste of your time and ours Yoh .
    Typical bomma , narcissist of note.
    ‘I cheated with reasons’ what a joke sana 😂

    • @nthabelengmohlala3175
      @nthabelengmohlala3175 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Typical Pedi man😂 can't protect/ defend his wife. His family was/is overly involved in their marriage

    • @lumkamsingizana7360
      @lumkamsingizana7360 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Rha this guy! 🚮

    • @TebohoMonyamane
      @TebohoMonyamane 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      😂gal am so pissed,,,,real narcissist 😢

    • @kgaogelomarakalala-jz6vh
      @kgaogelomarakalala-jz6vh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Imagine sies😂😂😂😂😢😢

    • @thembikgwebu7873
      @thembikgwebu7873 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm just as pissed..I've been waiting to hear his side of the story but nah he was here to defend his family

  • @MaMwelaseMvelase
    @MaMwelaseMvelase 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Mina what I've learnt in life is that if you're falsely accused just keep quite, somehow the person making noise about you will be exposed. But if you try defending yourself, even if you're right you become questionable. But then that's just me.

    • @dumisanindlovu4396
      @dumisanindlovu4396 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      This is so true...people always say two sides of a story...it's rare in these kind of situation for the man to be equally heard😢

  • @reneilwekgatle8988
    @reneilwekgatle8988 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This guy is not a man, he just confirmed everything his wife said, he needs to be able to stand up to his family

  • @leratomamabolo
    @leratomamabolo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Let’s be honest to each other guys Porsche ha a kgaogane le ntlo ela and focus on the other assets that her husband has. That house does not form part of her joint estate with her husband. If she bought furniture and she has slips or bank statements to prove it she can claim them but she should leave the house issue.

    • @leratomamabolo
      @leratomamabolo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      She’s basically wasting her time with the house

    • @BabyHope-js5gx
      @BabyHope-js5gx 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      N DE guy is not refusing to share 50/50 on whatever is in His name hle. Divorce e bohloko.

    • @leratomamabolo
      @leratomamabolo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@BabyHope-js5gx too much shame it’s painful

    • @rudzanikharivhe6294
      @rudzanikharivhe6294 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      She's fulling herself.....the house she's not goner get

    • @hildamashilo5037
      @hildamashilo5037 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@BabyHope-js5gxPorch seems like she likes show off..she should just accept that the guy he's not refusing with 50%

  • @katlegokgolane182
    @katlegokgolane182 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

    Lord protect me from this mentally of bringing my personal issues in social media😢😢, this is insane

    • @lucynchabeleng1643
      @lucynchabeleng1643 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nnete fela

    • @mememabuya8161
      @mememabuya8161 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen

    • @ledwabakayg7369
      @ledwabakayg7369 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      so thina what must we watch?

    • @ephraimmotho887
      @ephraimmotho887 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ngwana o sa lleng o swela tharing 😭

    • @katlegokgolane182
      @katlegokgolane182 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ledwabakayg7369 ppl are dancing watch Dem🤣🤣

  • @lifeisbetterwithjesuschris9161
    @lifeisbetterwithjesuschris9161 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    I applaud the man for coming and saying his side of story. We turn to support women more than man without hearing their side of story. Men endure pain and abuse as much as we do.

    • @lucyteffomooi.
      @lucyteffomooi. 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      One thing about men,can be on the side of their family or side of the wife,never between,they hate being between they choose side

    • @silindilenxumalo9541
      @silindilenxumalo9541 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      I'm not saying the wife was perfect, but judging from the way he speaks,he sided with his family.

    • @sulezinyembezigqeba
      @sulezinyembezigqeba 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯

    • @zandiletshehla2877
      @zandiletshehla2877 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@lucyteffomooi.theres no need to choose he needs them both just like us women we need both family and partners we dnt have to choose they can co-exist

    • @MalefaMadihlaba
      @MalefaMadihlaba 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly ...women always put their family and children before their men ..but when men do it its an issue for them .....i think he is right ..no relationship should break down family bonds ..and if thats what women want..then its completely wrong ....learn to co..exist ...​@zandiletshehla2877

  • @MidyMcD
    @MidyMcD 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Narcissists are reserved...

  • @thabangmalepe1663
    @thabangmalepe1663 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    Go to fix your marriage there is no issue here excluding 3rd person

    • @katlegomonyamane9653
      @katlegomonyamane9653 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      That's true,the only problems is the in-law and Portia need to see therapy to deal with stress of not having baby

    • @ladyb5843
      @ladyb5843 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nnete fela

    • @marciamohale6720
      @marciamohale6720 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yazi

    • @lucyteffomooi.
      @lucyteffomooi. 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      True,he didnt even need to come here,i feel like he is lying he didnt even try to bring them together en ask what is what

    • @ramolokoanemakhafola1284
      @ramolokoanemakhafola1284 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      ​@@lucyteffomooi.I stand with you. This guy o bolela maaka. O yemella family ya gabo

  • @Maps_Machaba
    @Maps_Machaba 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Its just heartbreaking seeing marriages falling apart 🙆‍♂️. May God intervene 💔💔💔

    • @nthabelengkubeka5073
      @nthabelengkubeka5073 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m actually tired. 😢the devil is after marriages yoh.

  • @Vhushavhelo
    @Vhushavhelo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    She might have lied but man, this man came and said nothing 😟😟

    • @mpulemailula3225
      @mpulemailula3225 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      💯

    • @anastheciasebela6460
      @anastheciasebela6460 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I mean what a waste of resources 😢

    • @chicomateus2051
      @chicomateus2051 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@Vhushavhelo
      Protecting his family

    • @philamaphanga7502
      @philamaphanga7502 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ay...in glad I'm not the only one.....except for the joling

    • @makgokamokgalapa
      @makgokamokgalapa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nothing at all

  • @isurviveditrixongile
    @isurviveditrixongile 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    My advise to Promise: Allow the guest to explain his side, then ask. The probing is is slightly linear to the one you 'potentially' believe, removing the mutual stance you'd like to have in such a scenario. Apart from that, Well done sisi, you are doing so well. Will keep watching

  • @princessskosana1372
    @princessskosana1372 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Give Portia what’s rightfully hers, I don’t think I’ll even finish watching this podcast cause I’m sure this guy was forcefully sent by his family to come and clear their family name.

  • @Lebogang-dy3zx
    @Lebogang-dy3zx 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Red flag number 1,he failed to protect his wife, weak man 🚩

    • @noxologeralds7591
      @noxologeralds7591 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very true a husband should protect his wife.

    • @Mohlala18Karabo-xc1wd
      @Mohlala18Karabo-xc1wd 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lea mo nyela ngwana batho😂😂😂
      Portia is a liar

    • @rudzanikharivhe6294
      @rudzanikharivhe6294 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You viewing it from distance, be in his boots and let's see if you will still say that

    • @elvismagongoa4175
      @elvismagongoa4175 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Mohlala18Karabo-xc1wd ka nnete people are just protecting her cause ke mosadi, she says she built the house for Mamazala yet Google proves the house was built 2 years before she was married. People will just take sides because they can.

  • @rachelshabangu4253
    @rachelshabangu4253 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    He's scared of his family this one, ladies stay away from this kind, Bomma😮

    • @tinnylesetja8330
      @tinnylesetja8330 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We are going through a lot ka bomma💔😭

    • @emelymoleko3205
      @emelymoleko3205 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      His family come first obviously I hope Portia knew this

    • @MemoryRamothwala
      @MemoryRamothwala 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @murielmoyahabo6078
      @murielmoyahabo6078 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They use him this 1

  • @SelekaKgoale
    @SelekaKgoale 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Being married to a breadwinner its a problem especially with sisters with kids and not married..otlo bona mathata stru

  • @pertuniamosa4773
    @pertuniamosa4773 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Arg xem Mmatswale le dikgaetsedi ba mo apeetse ka meetse a di panty tsa bona, he contributed a lot to Posh's behaviour. She made her feel like an outsider ko ga bo. If you marry her then you must be ready to protect her. Otla mo kgala lele 2 in ur room nd not infront of ur family

  • @wespeakthetruthhere7413
    @wespeakthetruthhere7413 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Not him calling her “that lady” 😭

  • @kagisoEskaYy-no9jt
    @kagisoEskaYy-no9jt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    He's now blaming his mamazala but doesn't want his mother to be blamed

    • @nhlanhlathwala3282
      @nhlanhlathwala3282 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      But it honestly raises eyebrows on the Mamazala..why would she hide all this? Unless she knew ukuthi her child was in the wrong.

  • @Bee-zl2gq
    @Bee-zl2gq 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    He lost me in the 1st 15 minutes…” you can never allow a woman to get in between you and your family “

    • @nthabelengmohlala3175
      @nthabelengmohlala3175 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Same- when he said that, I knew that Portia was telling the truth. Because he's basically saying that he'd protect his family over his wife. Even when Promise asked him gore but you're the one who bought her into the family

    • @meisiezazaskosana6667
      @meisiezazaskosana6667 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Right there. I knew that girl was right.. Yhooo angeke

    • @tinnylesetja8330
      @tinnylesetja8330 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Very true

    • @kedifentsetaljaart5222
      @kedifentsetaljaart5222 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He said “you must not allow your wife to come between you and your family or your family to come between you and your wife”

    • @esthersambo6119
      @esthersambo6119 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Imagine 😢bomma

  • @shokimasha2389
    @shokimasha2389 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Nna ke Shap banna ba Mapedi, these men literally live for Bomma mxm. This touched me because somehow it reminded of my ex family in law treatment of me. And having a husband this weak will make you have a mental breakdown.

  • @KaraboKalauba
    @KaraboKalauba 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    I feel like sesi promised also failed with this interview. She didnt put pressure on relevant questions

    • @sibongilenkwana8835
      @sibongilenkwana8835 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I think he is a lost case this guy. He can't even get to the point

    • @DataService-e6o
      @DataService-e6o 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Same, I feel like she wanted him to believe she's on his side.

    • @Lebo_Mathibela
      @Lebo_Mathibela 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True, she even said she is challenged. By what exactly, long answers while he contradict himself?eg, He says he never cheated he was flirting with the gal along the way says he cheated and so what🤣🤣

    • @kgomotsogaosenkwe335
      @kgomotsogaosenkwe335 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@DataService-e6oVery True

  • @matekedigojane571
    @matekedigojane571 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    He came well prepared and listened to her podcast and attacked her according to it... Moghal had her flaws but the arrogance is too much 😢

  • @Ladydee510
    @Ladydee510 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    I believe Portia has been through psychological trauma, she needs to get help, heal and let it go. Husband loved her, but a lot happened including third parties and that led to the end of their marriage. Life happened

  • @KatlegoYaBatswadi
    @KatlegoYaBatswadi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    😢😢This Guy Is Protecting His Family

    • @LebogangMoabelo
      @LebogangMoabelo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Too much 😭yooh may this kind of man never locate me 😩

    • @lucyteffomooi.
      @lucyteffomooi. 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@LebogangMoabelotoo much tog yho he irritates me

    • @busisiwequeen670
      @busisiwequeen670 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They are like that even my baby daddy! His family comes before his own daughter!

    • @openmindedfairy9691
      @openmindedfairy9691 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Skaya bochum by all it mean😂​@@LebogangMoabelo

    • @meisiezazaskosana6667
      @meisiezazaskosana6667 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I lost it when he said bring them together.... Nagana his fam against me 😢I need my father in that meeting too

  • @zandiletshehla2877
    @zandiletshehla2877 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    We need to be honest about our fellow sister she was not an angel in this relationship she needs to be accountable and stop playing a victim and blaming other people she also contributed to this toxicity🚮

    • @portiawarroomreshoketswe3028
      @portiawarroomreshoketswe3028 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True heyyy

    • @Mamaofthree792
      @Mamaofthree792 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I am with you, when she told her story I did not hear her say what her mistakes were. I am married and I would never let my husband cause a rift between me and my family same way I would never let them do the same it’s my job to manage both

    • @zandiletshehla2877
      @zandiletshehla2877 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Mamaofthree792exactly all she did was to blame and accuse other people but not owning up to her flaws this guy is owning up to his mistakes, i am married too and i will never allow my partner to get between me and my family if they dnt like each other its okay they can co-exist but tht does not mean i have to choose, when he says something about 1 of my family member i must believe him coz we are couple.

    • @TebogoRahab
      @TebogoRahab 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@zandiletshehla2877 Amen ..True .

    • @pearltebogo2708
      @pearltebogo2708 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Danki

  • @Sticks......................
    @Sticks...................... 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This interview is pure testimony that interviewing someone is a skill which needs to be fully and carefully developed l

    • @debrancube1984
      @debrancube1984 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Felt that way too.

  • @katlehokoote8066
    @katlehokoote8066 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    24 minutes in and this man has said absolutely NOTHING… ho ntso thweng mara mo!!!??

  • @tshwarelomontjane5738
    @tshwarelomontjane5738 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Let’s not take sides guys all relationships has problems 😢problem ya bona they gave up too quick and bringing it on social media Where else it could be fixed both of them are wrong period
    Ge taba ele so just move on and learn from your mistakes

  • @lungilenjokweni
    @lungilenjokweni 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Marriage isn't pap &vleis guys. That's why it's important to attend pre marital counseling. Love, sex and attraction don't build up a strong relationship. But good communication is the key to a healthy relationship. A marriage certificate doesn't guarantee anything, build a solid foundation from the beginning. My wife and I have been through all such challenges and we've conquered All. We've just celebrated our 18th anniversary. Life is a journey not a destination. Forgiveness, tolerance, love, understanding, long suffering are but a few keys to a strong marriage. We're not perfect 👌🏿

  • @KeituForever
    @KeituForever 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Promise bo menemene mara??? Portia told you that she is currently unemployed, why are you acting brand new?

    • @nhlanhlathwala3282
      @nhlanhlathwala3282 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      She did say that she is CURRENTLY unemployed but not that she's been unemployed since the early stages of the relationship. I think that's why Promise is ''shocked''.

  • @asandasithonga970
    @asandasithonga970 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Man was asked “why did you cheat” and he flipped the conversation to how Porsche he was suspecting Porsche of cheating 😭

  • @keorapetsemotau5318
    @keorapetsemotau5318 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Its so hard to listen to him because he is so defensive, Portia was so clear in her explanation and addressed him with respect.

    • @TebohoMonyamane
      @TebohoMonyamane 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He can't be clear because he is a lier and manipulater

    • @evansmangena121
      @evansmangena121 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Problems with this guy he not good storie tell

    • @friedajason8678
      @friedajason8678 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Portia was only accommodating South Africans, us Namibians understood nothing. We feel left out.

    • @Siba_Vee
      @Siba_Vee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not everyone is a good story teller, and that doesn't mean that they are lying

  • @anastheciasebela6460
    @anastheciasebela6460 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    Indoda that cant stand up for his wife ⛳⛳⛳⛳⛳⛳

    • @kgaogeloleseka7941
      @kgaogeloleseka7941 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      "You must never let your wife to come in-between you and your family"!!!!😮😮😮😮

    • @anastheciasebela6460
      @anastheciasebela6460 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@kgaogeloleseka7941 Imagine 😂😂

    • @cindyrambau4476
      @cindyrambau4476 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Is not all the time where you stand for shit,, am a wife and I will put my husband in a awkward situation just because I feel he owes me loyalty, y’all should be fair to your husbands and do the right thing,, don’t marry someone who don’t or will never respect

    • @rudzanikharivhe6294
      @rudzanikharivhe6294 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You want him to stand for someone like Portia, who can threaten a men with the knife and here we are watching them, you can't be serious

    • @emelymoleko3205
      @emelymoleko3205 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's the main problem....he has forgotten his position as a husband

  • @mashadimokgata871
    @mashadimokgata871 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Number ine stupidity is "never let your wife to come between you and your family"
    By the way this guy is a married man.😮

    • @JoyceMabote
      @JoyceMabote 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That comment, i shifted on the chair were i was sitting...ibfekt cold.

    • @kananelomolosioa6404
      @kananelomolosioa6404 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This happens when you get conflicted between your family and extended family

  • @pulengmoatshe9985
    @pulengmoatshe9985 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    He said a bunch of nothing.what a waste of time

  • @siba92
    @siba92 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    His family probably forced him to come for damage control but unfortunately it didn't work. What a narcissistic man

    • @nicolamailola8391
      @nicolamailola8391 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He is defending himself

    • @siba92
      @siba92 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nicolamailola8391 it's actually not working.
      WE BELIEVE HER . 🙂

  • @RelebogilePrudence
    @RelebogilePrudence 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    So he can't even say my ex wife or Portia,he just say this lady

    • @mokgohloentsoane7607
      @mokgohloentsoane7607 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But he has been saying my wife then jumps to addressing her as that lady.

  • @EbusMb
    @EbusMb 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Lets not turn a blind on the fact that portia was physically abusive

  • @GetrudeTendani
    @GetrudeTendani 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The fact that he came to defend his family,confirms everything that portia said.this man fail his wife

  • @Hlaps
    @Hlaps 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The lady mentioned they started building the house while she was girlfriend

  • @beejjjj4106
    @beejjjj4106 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Yoh Promise, lets talk about your hair and how beautiful you look.. Because ha e le interview e yona. Ga ke tlhaloganye why we here, struu..

    • @pulengmoatshe9985
      @pulengmoatshe9985 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      😅😅😅😅😅oooh Boi I laughed

    • @mapulamodiba6777
      @mapulamodiba6777 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hahaha 😂😂 mara wena

  • @Lisaaa_1992
    @Lisaaa_1992 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Truth or not, well articulated. This guy has a solid head on his shoulders.. It’s refreshing to listen to an intelligent person on this platform once in a while

  • @Mloko_M27
    @Mloko_M27 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    Bare Kena le monna Bara Edward Mojela. Nka ipolaya struu😢😢😢

    • @anastheciasebela6460
      @anastheciasebela6460 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂❤

    • @mmakgollaphoshoko4042
      @mmakgollaphoshoko4042 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Why?i feel you judging this man, actually i feel this man is telling the truth, ladies and being biased by the other ladies, something is fishy with that lady, either entitlement is her issue or she did not think she will lose all this luxury , she is depressed

    • @nickymthelebofu
      @nickymthelebofu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ​@@mmakgollaphoshoko4042 Lol are u the sister of Monna wo😃

    • @mmakgollaphoshoko4042
      @mmakgollaphoshoko4042 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@nickymthelebofu m not the sister nor related,but blv u me, there's some truth there

    • @nickymthelebofu
      @nickymthelebofu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@mmakgollaphoshoko4042 yes there is, but this man is Bomma man

  • @thabangmalepe1663
    @thabangmalepe1663 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    This guy o weak weak weak. Let him marry again the girl stated she wasn't working in marriage. The lady should go to court. She is in denial about their separation, the man cheatered she can't stay with .we waiting for new makoti round 2.the ladies gave each other senyama thats why she smell. They are both wrong but his family enkga lefotha

    • @darealvirgo86
      @darealvirgo86 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Guys STI causes a smell.

  • @MogashoaLesetja
    @MogashoaLesetja 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Wena rao shiya ko Mans conference, 😂Eddy weee, man up leave ur mom n Siblings

    • @tinnylesetja8330
      @tinnylesetja8330 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nnete fela

    • @Kelebot
      @Kelebot 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Mosiyeng o useless

    • @lebogangmariba4388
      @lebogangmariba4388 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mmusetseng banneng😂😂

    • @esthersambo6119
      @esthersambo6119 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Klaar😏

  • @Hlaps
    @Hlaps 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    O sele this guy ,he came here just to confuse Promise 😢

  • @rachelshabangu4253
    @rachelshabangu4253 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Working or not she's entitled to half of everything.

    • @AliceNkosi-l9b
      @AliceNkosi-l9b 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      But the guy is not denying that mos........ But specifically everything under his name

  • @silindilenxumalo9541
    @silindilenxumalo9541 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    There is no way someone can take a knife on you and you are saying you don't know what was the argument about. This woman doesn't look crazy,never

  • @menniekumalo3276
    @menniekumalo3276 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    This man is what we call isiyoyoyo, that lady dodged a bullet. Men like this should remain unmarried or marry his mother or sister.

  • @kelebogilelebese9294
    @kelebogilelebese9294 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This man is solid. I actually believe him more than I do Portia

  • @koketsokekana8521
    @koketsokekana8521 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Promise re kopa the lady o Eddie na flertta Leena, the friend wa Portia, le the KFC guy, before we make our decision 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @patricianwandule5798
    @patricianwandule5798 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    He is protecting his family ..and yet he act innocent

  • @selinabatlhaodi612
    @selinabatlhaodi612 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This marriage was toxic nje,too much detactives n they should just devorce in peace.the lady should just accept what's given to her n move on.

  • @Thembi-jb5br
    @Thembi-jb5br 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    They both have contributed to this .but what im realizing is that the lady has depression and having it difficult to accept the separation.

  • @neomahlangu4073
    @neomahlangu4073 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He is lying throughout 😂, even the cheating allegations don’t hold weight

  • @kgaogeloleseka7941
    @kgaogeloleseka7941 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Ke joint estate ya eng if the "lady never worked"???!! This guy is talking rubbish

    • @GomolemoKgokong-tf5nv
      @GomolemoKgokong-tf5nv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This guy o bua rubbish fela

    • @Mamaofthree792
      @Mamaofthree792 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Joint estate is everything they have, if she had 0 and he had 2 then you add zero plus 2 and get 2 then the equally to the couple he is being fair it’s how it works whether she worked or jot

    • @Mamaofthree792
      @Mamaofthree792 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Joint means her zero and his 3

    • @TebohoMonyamane
      @TebohoMonyamane 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This guy is just full of nonsense 🙄 😢he makes me angry ga a tsebe le hore o tlile for eng mona

    • @murielmoyahabo6078
      @murielmoyahabo6078 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂Chesa wena Teacber. Akere a tsebe basic maths mothushe​@@Mamaofthree792

  • @mitchell_nkonimodjadji430
    @mitchell_nkonimodjadji430 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Him explaining that whole cheating thing? What a bunch of nothings! May this kind of man never locate me in the name of the Lord!!!

  • @mokgadimamabolo7859
    @mokgadimamabolo7859 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Yhoo Promise this interview you seem disorganised and didn't have enough time to plan...so many red flags about what this guy said but you didn't dig deeper..

    • @Namunana89
      @Namunana89 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I feel like they should have listened to Portias story before interviewing da husband to comprehend everything she said. Looks like she was misquoted on what she said.

  • @keitumetseledingoane8458
    @keitumetseledingoane8458 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Die bra onale mokgwa…Porche is the one that got away and I love that for her ❤

  • @kgaogelozulu9422
    @kgaogelozulu9422 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Portia could be toxic but what led to her being like that i dont knw. She only mentioned all the bad things about this guy and his family coz she wants to play victim. The guy has his weaknesses but how do you deal a person who burns your clothes and sleeps with a knife

  • @katlegokgolane182
    @katlegokgolane182 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Theres no enough reason in cheating, if ur cheated on then leave

  • @gilliannkomi406
    @gilliannkomi406 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Protect your wife with all cost ... no matter what kere protect ur wife

    • @avuyilekhuzwayo4068
      @avuyilekhuzwayo4068 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Haibo even if she is wrong musani ukudlala ngamadoda

    • @tinnylesetja8330
      @tinnylesetja8330 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @MalefaMadihlaba
      @MalefaMadihlaba 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But wives can be wrong ...

  • @SammyMqwati
    @SammyMqwati 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Shame sesi Promise surely haofetsa interview ee orile kapelong "ive just wasted my time" huuu abuti oo haona ntwe abuileng niks ..

  • @kgaogeloleseka7941
    @kgaogeloleseka7941 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Yooh man who doesn't defend you , especially to his family,ke nonsonso

    • @tinnylesetja8330
      @tinnylesetja8330 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Trauma 😢

    • @Bee-zl2gq
      @Bee-zl2gq 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A re he needs to know whether your telling the truth😂

    • @nkosazanaleseka4261
      @nkosazanaleseka4261 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Imagine!!! ​@@Bee-zl2gq

    • @Mamaofthree792
      @Mamaofthree792 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Bee-zl2gqeven if you are in the wrong he must defend you? A true wife knows to shut it and fight her battles quietly in the battle field. Portia lied too from what I picked up

  • @phindileskhosana3989
    @phindileskhosana3989 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Nah I believe the wife obviously this man will advocate, justify, and defend him self man can can change the story as always remember man can lie

  • @cindyrambau4476
    @cindyrambau4476 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I honestly like this man, he’s standing on the truth,,

  • @matshidisomofokeng2997
    @matshidisomofokeng2997 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Bible e la tjho yare o tla siya Mmao ha o nyala u will never last in any marriage with this mentality abuti

  • @zandilevinjwa3659
    @zandilevinjwa3659 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I think Porsche should’ve asked for divorce spousal support

  • @nthabisengmoshana8589
    @nthabisengmoshana8589 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The way Promise went out of her way to accommodate this guy? Giving him a platform to share his side and even moving her episodes around to air his first and he’s being so rude to her? He’s so arrogant! Men for you! Promise leyena was being too accommodating

    • @zeemali4369
      @zeemali4369 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Promise is full of it

  • @letushilaalina
    @letushilaalina 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The moment he said to Promise “listen to me, listen to what I am saying” nahhh 🤮 even if everything Portia said is a lie, as in all of it, I still stand with her because the other option isn’t up for consideration yuk!!!

  • @tinnylesetja8330
    @tinnylesetja8330 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    If your intentions was to improve your family sir nkabe o sanka o nyala ngwana wa batho because that monster in-laws they will always demand on you and hate your wife for the whole life.Ga o na back bone Eddie

    • @zandiletshehla2877
      @zandiletshehla2877 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hence why he built before marrying her

    • @tinnylesetja8330
      @tinnylesetja8330 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@zandiletshehla2877 exactly

    • @tlangelanipatriciashingang5789
      @tlangelanipatriciashingang5789 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@zandiletshehla2877Do u want this man Sisi??? U sim 2 be interested in him😂😂😂

    • @lebogangmariba4388
      @lebogangmariba4388 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Maybe ke sesiage 😂​@@tlangelanipatriciashingang5789

  • @ratanangmatjila261
    @ratanangmatjila261 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I believe Portia.

  • @RudzaniMandiwana-n7m
    @RudzaniMandiwana-n7m 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He is defending himself rather than telling his story. Painting the wife bad. Eish.

  • @PhutiFridah
    @PhutiFridah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    They gave up on each other very quickly,this can be fixed

    • @nomsakunene4638
      @nomsakunene4638 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True it was not that messy😢

  • @VirginiaSihlangu-ur5vb
    @VirginiaSihlangu-ur5vb 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This guy is protecting his family i know such ppl

  • @uuka652
    @uuka652 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Didn't she say she was building the house while dating than got married officially 2018.

    • @chloebadass9526
      @chloebadass9526 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      They don’t want to touch that part...

    • @mokgohloentsoane7607
      @mokgohloentsoane7607 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Mara logically speaking how does build a house ko bo boyfriend? Why nasa nyake stand a aga ? That to me doesn't make sense

  • @katekilerakubu592
    @katekilerakubu592 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I tend to believe this man bcos I have seen this happening in a family.
    Women can be mad...both of them are toxic to each other
    Why did she come to social media?

  • @Mloko_M27
    @Mloko_M27 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    This guy o ntlatsa pelo yho. Okare nka mmetha ka mpama

  • @EbusMb
    @EbusMb 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    These 2 should just cut their losses...this guys family will always be a factor in their marriage

  • @pearlmmaleetle9178
    @pearlmmaleetle9178 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Men are going through alot, why is it difficult to just sign divorce ge motho asago nyake...now kedi ip and down😢

  • @refilwephokungoane4644
    @refilwephokungoane4644 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    He never answered any questions 😢

  • @msngema1380
    @msngema1380 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    What if this lady started contributing to the house when they were dating? Did I miss that?
    This man is not make sure…he cheated shem lol

  • @nompulal
    @nompulal 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It's 5 minutes in the PodCast and I don't trust this guy. He doesn't answer questions. Wajikajika mani

  • @kgaogeloleseka7941
    @kgaogeloleseka7941 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Bathong, this guys sister mocked his wife about not having kids, and this is how he responds?!!!! 😔😔😔

    • @thattswanagirl5615
      @thattswanagirl5615 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Are hiccups😳. He grew up in a toxic environment thats why he dismisses it saying “their relationship was like every other relationship I know”

    • @Mamaofthree792
      @Mamaofthree792 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What if she lied?

    • @kgaogelozulu9422
      @kgaogelozulu9422 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@thattswanagirl5615but he was willing to solve the issue by bringing them together and she refused..why?

  • @thandomtembu7193
    @thandomtembu7193 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dude just confirmed Porsche koloi ya go tura's story....we thank him for vilifying her whilst trying to defend the indefensible!