I refused marriage cause i ddnt trust my to be in laws my fiancée couldn’t stand up for me he will always put his family first and still wanted to marry I was like never
@@Blessed_for_life_2023 my conscious ddnt allow me I will always get scared when ever he want to send his uncles at home and he was a cheater with lots of kids
Good improvement with the subtitles...the guests should be free to mix with their language without feeling like they are compromising their story. You also give a good balance by trying to mix with english when its you speaking👏
This is a second women who's married to men from Limpopo and husbands are last borns.The family will tell you that the house belongs to the son and makoti.When they are done building makoti and their son,they encouraged their son to divorce his wife.So ladies we need to be careful straight
Sometimes our cultures work against us. I mean what is this thing of "ka sepedi last born o sala ko gae"?? Most black marriages don't work out because of our cultures and traditions, they really set us back. They are designed mostly to oppress women or to prevent growth of the married couple.
Her inability to conceive babies and the age disparity between herself and the husband drove those gluttonous in-laws into a hateful frenzy. They hated her before marriage. And it is undoubtedly possible that they bewitched her.
Speak in Sepedi mama. You will use subtitles.Bapedi, matsonga, Vha Venda need their languages on public platforms. If this was in IsiZulu or Isixhosa most would not complain. Much as we are international subtitles are for that
I didn’t fight or argue, I left and never looked back! I left everything behind and I don’t regret it! I sleep peacefully at night and they don’t have peace.
Look at God,n the minute u walk away without fight dts whr they dnt hv peace bcz they ask themselves how can she jus walk away,o tshephileng n then they become unsettled always
Portia needs to talk more about how she makes money and finances because it sounds like there is something to learn there. She keeps saying she bought things cash. Madam needs to share information please
Ladies, if you want peace, keep a distance from your in-laws. Irrespective of what they say, keep a firm distance, visit once in a while and never ever ever think you are one of them. You are an enemy of their financial freedom. Only keep them close if you are married to their ‘phara’
nna my main reason was for us to be in comfort whenever we home and my husband was the only one left in the house as his sister was married, and he doesnt have parents.
The first mistake she did was being at her own wedding where only the husband's family was present! 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩. I'm sure there were many red flags before that day but she overlooked them.
In my culture your parents don't go for your lobola negotiations. They don't even go to the in laws for your wedding celebration. Only close family go and negotiate for you
Yoh i feel for you my sister, i was there and at the end i was kicked out by protection order because of not conceiving, now im at peace with my husband so they came back saying sorry for what happened... Fast forward now me and my husband we keep distance from his mother and his sisters. Sorry my sister prayer is the solution of everything. With God everything is possible Amen
Your sister in law has always been jealous of you, so o go kgantshetsa le ka bana ba o hloka bopapa bona ba o tlala lapa a sa bereke. She's the core cause of everything and fueled that to her mother. I saw it happening to many people. Get family law experts not criminal lawyers please to fight for you
I was very worried about the interview thinking we would have one of those guests who don't want to speak but the minute sis started speaking in Sepedi she was flowing ❤️
Guys immediately when Portia said bochum, I believe everything. I wish u can get the house ya Gauteng because those ppl will kill you Dear. Thanks for sharing ur story. And am happy ur now healed dear.
Topic Suggestion: Please can you get a lady that is or was a Sister in law that hates her brothers wife and ill treats her. And a step child that hates or hated his or her step partner. I’d like to get their perspective, especially the Sister in laws, because wow they can really be evil. Thanks Promise.
Usisi went through depression 'A bona animal ' a ipona le yena ele animal " she was hallucinating!!!guys sis needs professional help hle she's not OK. you can hear on how she takes long to get to the point!! love and light 🫂
I actually love the way she tells her story,kept the audience engaged,she didn't drag....also,I think she believes it was witchcraft,different beliefs...😁
I agree with u she was depressed yes could witchcraft be there but she was really depressed and understandably so based on wat she went through it was too much for one person against such cruelty
Most in-laws are wicked more so ge o nyala breadwinner.Your case is more or less like mine,worse my parent's in-law are pastor's.This being our 18th year in marriage,i chose my peace and sanity and stopped talking or going to their house.Yhooo it's a lot and i feel you sis,love and light ❤
Get a lawyer sesi we are not that expensive compared to the lods you'll endure. You deserve even pension fund 50% spousal maintenance and 50% of all he owned or owned together by virtue of your marriage. If o nyetswe ga Marais o tsamaile wrong ba loya kouwe. You're entitled to that bonus because you're married
It's always good to allow guests to express themselves in their language that they are comfortable with, especially if the host understands it. Sometimes, using English one loses meaning in what they want to express. Production must learn to include subtitles, because if we prioritise English in our multicultural country the channel will end up losing the opportunity of having great guests because of the language barrier. Well done guest for insisting on sharing your experience exactly as you've experienced it❤
Sister-in laws shout out loud this lady to have a baby as if they want to sleep with their brother. The main cause that led to this marriage to crumble is the mother-in-law and her evil daughers.
Thank you for the subtitles Promise. However some of subtitles were not going hand in hand with what the lady was saying which was misleading to the reader. We can only improve from here. All the best❤
Portia bann gape watla wadi bona yong,keno rapela gore Modimo a gofe maatla o fole moyeng. Ntwa ye o beng ole Ka gare ga yona a seya nama Rapela,a gona ntwe yago feta Thapelo Modimo ke yena Ramaatla ohle
Went through similar situation. Thought they were doing this time me because I'm zulu. I was like a foreigner in that family. Glad I left before I became mad
We appreciate you and the production for the subtitles, I for one was one of those who were frustrated whenever you told your guests to speak English only, as I felt it limits how they express themselves… I appreciate you!!
She keeps blaming the in-laws for a grown as man's decision. Stop this nonsense ladies, sometimes relationships don't work out and that's fine. As for the animal........that is to justify the in laws witchcraft allegations sad shem😂😂😂😂😂
As black families we have a ling way to go in terms of relationships with in laws.... I can relate to Portia's story.... married to a bread winner and a last born myself, its tough...
Getting married to the lime light if the family, pursued me to register with varsity for 2 degrees n diploma. Just to upgrade myself so that my family should also hv a lime light child. But all these helped me bcos at the end I had my qualifications to fall back on. I'm now married to my Qualifications n I'm content
Thank you for bringing "Porche koloi yago turwa" Ngwano!! Nnnete kegore gonyalwa ke last born with all our sepedi cultural laws okare ke curse samma. Di last born gadi laiwe letsona during lenyalo, haaai they can't be wiggling married boys maan!.
Ke fetile mo seemeong sa gago Portia and I choose to leave everything behind and focus on my kids and am now staying at my RDP house at Pretoria All things u have said I relate to them and nna worse part o tseni Mosadi o mong in my house that IV built with my own hands and the lady she's a family member actually thers a lot
I can relate to this lady's story. People who do not want you will fight even use witchcraft to make you leave. Remember she was not wanted in the beginning. As women we go through a lot shem.
Problem is that when you tell the husband about his family he never believes you because he think he knows them he grew up in that family and they treated him right
We build our house far away from the in laws. I felt safe in my own house. The older sister came build next to our house without my knowledge. My mother in law has never been to my house both in Venda and Gauteng.
Portia, all I can tell you my Dear is that God loves you tremendously! You were supposed to be dead by now. Your in-laws are witches, they bewitched both you and their son! You must thank God for being gracious to you! You are so beautifully and fearfully created in the image of God! NO WEAPON FORMED AGAINST YOU SHALL PROSPER!
The in laws will treat you bad shem. I have seen it all. I did not have kids for more than 10 yrs. During that period the lady came to my house pregnant. The following year i fell pregnant with my son.
She's not yet OK! The way she kept her arms strongly folded against her chest is a sign of trauma but I am glad she's strong enough and smart enough to want to fight for what belongs to her!
😢I can relate to this lady shuu in laws are so horrible especially mother's in-law God help them ,I have one son I will never do what was done to me Gal you will win this battle um telling you if someone uses.uthi wena don't use it do u knowrhis thing called Karma soon gal it will catch them watch the space I know exactly what you going through Happy cos 3 people who were doing me wrong 4 of them are no more left with 4 of which I see what's going on in their lives So don't worry God will deal with them one by one Revenge sometimes is not ok wait on the Lord that man is not playing games one by one
I understand that Sis Portia invested so much. However, is it worth your life fighting for material things and losing your life? I really don't think the inlaws will give up.
Promise Sisi please don't be ignorant. South Africa has 9 official languages. Vernac is not just Pedi. Some of us speak Xhosa and don't understand a word of Pedi. So its not just English and Pedi people on your channel. There are Zulus, Xhosas etc... We appreciate the subtitles. Thanks
But vernacular has NEVER been Pedi. She is referring to all SA indigenous languages. Xhosa is aso vernac. That's way she said if you do not understand the vernacular language being spoken in that interview [in most cases it's sePedi]. Then English and the subtitles will be of assistance. This is also on assumption that the listeners are multi-lingual. She wasn't being ignorant. You just took it personally without listening to understand 😂😂😂
one thing about sisters-in-law, they don't want to work for their kids, they are very arrogant and refuse to accept money from their baby daddies claiming that they can take care of their kids themselves, while using their brothers to support and destroying their brother's lives
I am from Limpopo, and I will never ever build a home inside a family yard....when your husband dies, you will know the inlaws. My husband is the only boy, and yet he doesn't support this thing of making a family house your home. Every man must have his own stand
If you could start afresh,what would you do differently? What has this taught you as a person, what role did you play in all this.with that being said/asked may you find healing please go for professional help for your peace sesi Sorry
Promise reminds of home hle...sepedi se bose...lol❤
I refused marriage cause i ddnt trust my to be in laws my fiancée couldn’t stand up for me he will always put his family first and still wanted to marry I was like never
Good girl for listening and trusting your intuition. You saved yourself from emotional torture and divorce. 👏🏾
@@Blessed_for_life_2023 my conscious ddnt allow me I will always get scared when ever he want to send his uncles at home and he was a cheater with lots of kids
@@Blessed_for_life_2023 Good!
True, this man never defended his wife from day 1 nje, that alone was a redflag
Smart girl
Good improvement with the subtitles...the guests should be free to mix with their language without feeling like they are compromising their story. You also give a good balance by trying to mix with english when its you speaking👏
This is a second women who's married to men from Limpopo and husbands are last borns.The family will tell you that the house belongs to the son and makoti.When they are done building makoti and their son,they encouraged their son to divorce his wife.So ladies we need to be careful straight
My hubby is last born n built in his home too,but he has other houses outside
Same here@@MaphaleMampuru
Sometimes our cultures work against us. I mean what is this thing of "ka sepedi last born o sala ko gae"?? Most black marriages don't work out because of our cultures and traditions, they really set us back. They are designed mostly to oppress women or to prevent growth of the married couple.
Her inability to conceive babies and the age disparity between herself and the husband drove those gluttonous in-laws into a hateful frenzy. They hated her before marriage. And it is undoubtedly possible that they bewitched her.
So true! I feel that they even showed her that they hated her before she even got married but she overlooked that! 😮😮😮
Age disparity ke yona 1 year difference bathong?😂
Eve if they were same age this would happen. It is so sad@RayOfLetsatsi
Bathong. I know this lady. She stayed a street away from where I grew up. Sweet sweet girl.
It’s so nice when people who know speak for you ❤
Speak in Sepedi mama. You will use subtitles.Bapedi, matsonga, Vha Venda need their languages on public platforms. If this was in IsiZulu or Isixhosa most would not complain.
Much as we are international subtitles are for that
VaTsonga🥰
I like this woman....you can see she was raised well....may she get peace and love in her life
I didn’t fight or argue, I left and never looked back! I left everything behind and I don’t regret it! I sleep peacefully at night and they don’t have peace.
Same here and i don't regret...am at peace❤
Look at God,n the minute u walk away without fight dts whr they dnt hv peace bcz they ask themselves how can she jus walk away,o tshephileng n then they become unsettled always
Portia needs to talk more about how she makes money and finances because it sounds like there is something to learn there. She keeps saying she bought things cash. Madam needs to share information please
Ladies, if you want peace, keep a distance from your in-laws. Irrespective of what they say, keep a firm distance, visit once in a while and never ever ever think you are one of them. You are an enemy of their financial freedom. Only keep them close if you are married to their ‘phara’
Powerful 👏👏👏
True 😂😂
Very true
What is “Phara”😂
a good for nothing @@pfulu
Ur biggest mistake was to build on her land/next to her house, bomakoti should build far away from in-laws man, It never ends well
nna my main reason was for us to be in comfort whenever we home and my husband was the only one left in the house as his sister was married, and he doesnt have parents.
Truly life is spiritual You need to go to a church that understand deliverance and you should embark in prayer
The first mistake she did was being at her own wedding where only the husband's family was present! 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩. I'm sure there were many red flags before that day but she overlooked them.
Exactly more especially in rural village she will not win better she destroyed.
Absolutely, under no circumstances should that be an option
The Red flags were there,his family never came for the lobola but she proceeded to build a house at their yard!!
N0 that a lie😂
That is a big red flag
@@SoldahMohlala It’s not even a Flag it’s a Billboard!!
No they came
In my culture your parents don't go for your lobola negotiations. They don't even go to the in laws for your wedding celebration.
Only close family go and negotiate for you
Yoh i feel for you my sister, i was there and at the end i was kicked out by protection order because of not conceiving, now im at peace with my husband so they came back saying sorry for what happened... Fast forward now me and my husband we keep distance from his mother and his sisters. Sorry my sister prayer is the solution of everything. With God everything is possible Amen
Your sister in law has always been jealous of you, so o go kgantshetsa le ka bana ba o hloka bopapa bona ba o tlala lapa a sa bereke.
She's the core cause of everything and fueled that to her mother. I saw it happening to many people.
Get family law experts not criminal lawyers please to fight for you
I was very worried about the interview thinking we would have one of those guests who don't want to speak but the minute sis started speaking in Sepedi she was flowing ❤️
Lenna😂
And she knows her story! I'm glad she's not depressed by her experience and I pray she gets legal help.
Guys immediately when Portia said bochum, I believe everything. I wish u can get the house ya Gauteng because those ppl will kill you Dear. Thanks for sharing ur story. And am happy ur now healed dear.
Definitely. My in-laws are from that side. Luckily my husband did not give them airtime from day 1
Ur IQ is questionable. U believe her based on just that?
Bochum Dia boa shame
@@mathapelomphahlele5309 portia o dula bochum mo kae?
Loved this episode. Its a good thing she opted to express herself in vernacular.
The way she foldeed her arms 💔💔💔💔 the pain in her voice😢
Topic Suggestion: Please can you get a lady that is or was a Sister in law that hates her brothers wife and ill treats her. And a step child that hates or hated his or her step partner. I’d like to get their perspective, especially the Sister in laws, because wow they can really be evil. Thanks Promise.
They are gonna say makoti/step mom was evil 🙄 and they were angels who were done wrong mxm
With the sister in law, they will always say makoti is evil😂😂 trust me
😂😂please we need to understand what's going on in Thier minds ....
😂😂😂@@lovinglydeewi4302
I never believed that there's witchcraft until things happen to me I do understand that lady tjo hle boloi bo teng
I wish she can strengthen herself spiritually coz wow,she is dealing with the devils who will kill.but all in all may God protect her.
Usisi went through depression 'A bona animal ' a ipona le yena ele animal " she was hallucinating!!!guys sis needs professional help hle she's not OK. you can hear on how she takes long to get to the point!! love and light 🫂
I actually love the way she tells her story,kept the audience engaged,she didn't drag....also,I think she believes it was witchcraft,different beliefs...😁
I agree with u she was depressed yes could witchcraft be there but she was really depressed and understandably so based on wat she went through it was too much for one person against such cruelty
Im uMxhosa, mara ki mukwa ha bose... Im loving the subtitles too.
Most in-laws are wicked more so ge o nyala breadwinner.Your case is more or less like mine,worse my parent's in-law are pastor's.This being our 18th year in marriage,i chose my peace and sanity and stopped talking or going to their house.Yhooo it's a lot and i feel you sis,love and light ❤
Moses of the family 🙄
Get a lawyer sesi we are not that expensive compared to the lods you'll endure.
You deserve even pension fund 50% spousal maintenance and 50% of all he owned or owned together by virtue of your marriage.
If o nyetswe ga Marais o tsamaile wrong ba loya kouwe.
You're entitled to that bonus because you're married
When she said she was dreaming of things after the operation, it’s definitely because of the medication, basically hallucinations
Sad part she seem to believe things happened during hallucination😪
It's always good to allow guests to express themselves in their language that they are comfortable with, especially if the host understands it. Sometimes, using English one loses meaning in what they want to express.
Production must learn to include subtitles, because if we prioritise English in our multicultural country the channel will end up losing the opportunity of having great guests because of the language barrier.
Well done guest for insisting on sharing your experience exactly as you've experienced it❤
TLB is the way diliza😅😅
😂😂
O morusu 😂😂!
@@LadyT06I hope they will support her in jail too
Sister-in laws shout out loud this lady to have a baby as if they want to sleep with their brother. The main cause that led to this marriage to crumble is the mother-in-law and her evil daughers.
The moment she said Bochum (husband is from Bochum), I believe her😫😫
😂😂what’s happening ko Bochum?
Lenna😂😂 I just knew .
M from bochum neh but banna ba bochum le bomma bona a ba tsebalege🤞🤞
@@KatMugba loya and most of their parents likes to control their marriages
Aii le nna I believe..
Thank you for the subtitles Promise. However some of subtitles were not going hand in hand with what the lady was saying which was misleading to the reader.
We can only improve from here. All the best❤
That hair on her face is distracting me
One eye sesi😅😅😅😅
😂😂😂😂😂me too
Your marital problem is spiritual which requires spiritual warefare.
Ayi kabi neh mara most mother in laws bako Limpopo are their sons family's downfall😢its always the same story ay ngeke.
True😢
1 The husband is not man enough 2 Mother in law wa loya 3 Thank God you are still alive sesi. Leave everything as they are. Start your life over.
😂😂😂😂😂
4. Because of all that her kids are suffering and don’t hv anything good as results 😢
Never experienced a Pedi Programme. It sounds so sweet to the ears. But fr the sake of inclusion let's share ladies.
I’m hurt of this interview😢 this woman went through a lot May God Comfort You😭❤️🙏🏻
Do not ever build a house at your in laws no matter how nice it is last born or not.
The pain on her face😒
Thank you promised for this interview, we are learning a lot 🙏♥️
Portia bann gape watla wadi bona yong,keno rapela gore Modimo a gofe maatla o fole moyeng. Ntwa ye o beng ole Ka gare ga yona a seya nama Rapela,a gona ntwe yago feta Thapelo Modimo ke yena Ramaatla ohle
Went through similar situation. Thought they were doing this time me because I'm zulu. I was like a foreigner in that family. Glad I left before I became mad
You were visiting your inlaw too much , two weeks 😢 nooo
Hei imagine. And 4 times a year ngeke!
Maybe it’s because ne ba aga Wabona just to go and check gore dilo di sepela jwang , le gosa tsebe shame 💔
We appreciate you and the production for the subtitles, I for one was one of those who were frustrated whenever you told your guests to speak English only, as I felt it limits how they express themselves… I appreciate you!!
Some translation there is wrong.Maybe those people can't hear her clearly
So painful! Strong woman my sister. I've heard this before. Safety first! God is able
People ask Clement Maosa of skeem about Bochum and witchcraft
I always thought England UK is worst place in witchcraft, saucers and all evil. Mo England ba golowa mo dishopong o ba lebile ba saiphitlhe
@@DikakanyoGoweditswe😂 really
I believe you Portia...wishing you all the good things you deserve in life❤
I feel like Mrs Law o duma this lady's inlaws😂😂😂😂😂from her facial expressions a re " wena wa ba tlogela" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Her remarks nje 😂😂😂😂😂 o ba batla 1 by 1
Ke banyaka mo nna. Nka ba bontsha di films
Aka ba tshela kq meetse
O ba tlogetši from the beginning jerrr wa nkwatiša
She keeps blaming the in-laws for a grown as man's decision. Stop this nonsense ladies, sometimes relationships don't work out and that's fine. As for the animal........that is to justify the in laws witchcraft allegations sad shem😂😂😂😂😂
As black families we have a ling way to go in terms of relationships with in laws....
I can relate to Portia's story.... married to a bread winner and a last born myself, its tough...
Getting married to the lime light if the family, pursued me to register with varsity for 2 degrees n diploma. Just to upgrade myself so that my family should also hv a lime light child. But all these helped me bcos at the end I had my qualifications to fall back on. I'm now married to my Qualifications n I'm content
I saw your story on Tick Tock and glad you came to the pot cast, fight for what is yours, you are strong, still young and can rebuild your life❤
Hi Bitso. Let's the law take it's course she will be given what is hers
She is young and beautiful 😍 🎉hlem
Thank you for bringing "Porche koloi yago turwa" Ngwano!!
Nnnete kegore gonyalwa ke last born with all our sepedi cultural laws okare ke curse samma. Di last born gadi laiwe letsona during lenyalo, haaai they can't be wiggling married boys maan!.
Pronise love your colour clothing combination simple but tops🎉❤🎉
Alot is happening in South Africa shem.👐👐, Iam even scared of getting married.
I need to be interviewed to your podcast about my marriage. Is it possible
Use her email
Ke fetile mo seemeong sa gago Portia and I choose to leave everything behind and focus on my kids and am now staying at my RDP house at Pretoria
All things u have said I relate to them and nna worse part o tseni Mosadi o mong in my house that IV built with my own hands and the lady she's a family member actually thers a lot
I can relate to this lady's story. People who do not want you will fight even use witchcraft to make you leave. Remember she was not wanted in the beginning. As women we go through a lot shem.
That's true, you'll find that they are also the reason why she can't conceive in her marriage. In-laws can be wicked if they hate you. 💔
Problem is that when you tell the husband about his family he never believes you because he think he knows them he grew up in that family and they treated him right
We build our house far away from the in laws. I felt safe in my own house. The older sister came build next to our house without my knowledge. My mother in law has never been to my house both in Venda and Gauteng.
La bona txa Limpopo txona ai..Askies Sesi
Eii Limpopo ke mathata maan ba resegisha ka batho
Portia, all I can tell you my Dear is that God loves you tremendously! You were supposed to be dead by now. Your in-laws are witches, they bewitched both you and their son! You must thank God for being gracious to you! You are so beautifully and fearfully created in the image of God! NO WEAPON FORMED AGAINST YOU SHALL PROSPER!
There is nothing you can do to the house because it's in the mother's land only thing that you can take will be furniture.
We need Prayer as a Nation, witchcraft is real and the Devil uses family members to do it's work, Marriages are in trouble. Praying and Prayer
Thank u for the subtitles Sesi Promise
Hello Promise. Is the skin care only available in South Africa?
No world wide.. please whatsapp the business +27837799601
"...like kereng...."whole video
this woman story is my story exactly
What in the witchcraft is going on here😮
The in laws will treat you bad shem. I have seen it all. I did not have kids for more than 10 yrs. During that period the lady came to my house pregnant. The following year i fell pregnant with my son.
Portia stay away from those people you're not save.
Run to Christ He is always waiting for us
I feel.sorry for ur husband coz in this whole thing he is being used and all he is doing is not what he wants
His family is go8ng to kill him and they were trying to kill you.
Loved it n promise ngwaneshu i just wanna say some of us can relate to this stories one way or another. 😢
Another narcissist man😢
Thanx for adding subtitles🎉
Me too ,I am so happy .The interview also help here and there
For What is worth I believe you sis 🫂
Sister in-law was passing remarks.
You aee still married dear.The law will divide the benefits equally sven your benefits in his pension funds from the date of marriage.
Marry a breadwinner if you want to cry non stop, even an only son yjo you will see flames
According to law everything thats on someone's land belongs to them. Thread careful before they send you to jail
came back here again after listen to the husband side of the story....kukhona into e-off to both. she shud have kept this away from social media.
Watching from Uganda please more of English
Guys mara is Portia OK??😮😮I'm sorry gal as a married woman in Venda I'm scared
She's not yet OK! The way she kept her arms strongly folded against her chest is a sign of trauma but I am glad she's strong enough and smart enough to want to fight for what belongs to her!
Yoh am married and scared hle
@@charmainekgatla7107 normalise fasting and prayer, with God nothing is impossible
Not a good storyteller u Sisi
Yazi watched 4mins and left,now seeing promise posting abt the come back from hubby and had to watch but nooo mani,it's not giving
@@tembezelanilubatapela3116 tuu sana
😅😅😅😅retla reng
The subtitles are not make sure. 🙃😅
Honestly i am very scared, after Posch's story akesaya ga Mother inlaw 😂😂😂am traumatised
😢I can relate to this lady shuu in laws are so horrible especially mother's in-law God help them ,I have one son I will never do what was done to me
Gal you will win this battle um telling you if someone uses.uthi wena don't use it do u knowrhis thing called Karma soon gal it will catch them watch the space
I know exactly what you going through
Happy cos 3 people who were doing me wrong 4 of them are no more left with 4 of which I see what's going on in their lives
So don't worry God will deal with them one by one
Revenge sometimes is not ok wait on the Lord that man is not playing games one by one
X-repo my sister
X-Repo, Mamazala, Enough is enough, Dlozilam, Re a tsotella, Jub Jub .. she needs all Moja Love shows to help her! 😅😅😅😅😅
I completely agree
I understand that Sis Portia invested so much. However, is it worth your life fighting for material things and losing your life? I really don't think the inlaws will give up.
Exactly he was from Bochum
This lady is going through a lot and the fact that she spoke pny 1 hour means theres a lot behind that happened for those years 😢
Promise Sisi please don't be ignorant. South Africa has 9 official languages. Vernac is not just Pedi. Some of us speak Xhosa and don't understand a word of Pedi. So its not just English and Pedi people on your channel. There are Zulus, Xhosas etc... We appreciate the subtitles. Thanks
You’re the ignorant one, South Africa has 11 official languages
But vernacular has NEVER been Pedi. She is referring to all SA indigenous languages. Xhosa is aso vernac. That's way she said if you do not understand the vernacular language being spoken in that interview [in most cases it's sePedi]. Then English and the subtitles will be of assistance. This is also on assumption that the listeners are multi-lingual. She wasn't being ignorant. You just took it personally without listening to understand 😂😂😂
I get what you're saying but I also get what Promise was expressing. She was not saying Vernac is limited to Sepedi
Bathong,she did not say nor implied that,lalela kahle.
@@sibongilentshangase4398i was dreading to respond to this.. not sure how she concluded that i said only Sepedi is Vernac🥹😩
Jesus is the answer 🙌
The inlaws bewitched her shem, and the husband had a hand in it
one thing about sisters-in-law, they don't want to work for their kids, they are very arrogant and refuse to accept money from their baby daddies claiming that they can take care of their kids themselves, while using their brothers to support and destroying their brother's lives
Yohh you are strong Portia. May God 🙏 protect you
I am from Limpopo, and I will never ever build a home inside a family yard....when your husband dies, you will know the inlaws. My husband is the only boy, and yet he doesn't support this thing of making a family house your home. Every man must have his own stand
If you could start afresh,what would you do differently? What has this taught you as a person, what role did you play in all this.with that being said/asked may you find healing please go for professional help for your peace sesi
Sorry