Joy Seepane ON being a proud side chick of a married man since 23 years ago
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ก.ย. 2024
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She was taken advantage of by an older man,groomed her as well.
Dude her whole life has been on hold for this man😮
@@kwetsephetla3597 yes, this is like the SA former press
Mdala
@@yangankenkana5034 Yes, with LaC...
Ey true this story is weird. But did she not say she was 19. Her boyfriend married someone else and she said it didn't phase her at all. I'm wondering if she is okay but I don't want to sound offensive.
God tried saving this woman in the first 3 years by not allowinh her to fall pregnant and yet even after he married someone else she stayed.
This woman is actually so smart yoh. You can tell by how she speaks.. shes aware of everything
As a younger generation. Let's teach our kids self love. i would never put myself through a situation with a man who doesn't know what he wants. Its the delulu ke sana😂😂😂😂
He knows what he wants. He wanted her as a side chick.
😂😂😂😂😂
This lady looks decent, but her thinking capacity is very disappointing
I agree with you
My thoughts exactly, and reasoning is just off🤔
Gullible 😅
Delulu is the solulu
See how his position in his family and society was protected and prioritised over hers? Our daughters must really understand that they have the right to dream and harbour ambition. That they have meaningful space in the family and community. That in itself is sacred.
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❤❤ That's so true.I'm saving these words for my daughter 4 when she's older.
Proof to show that age doesn't necessarily come with wisdom. The delusion!!! Young girls, don't take her stance PLEASE!!!! It's her story, we're clapping for her. I was in a similar situation. He got married and I left, 12 years later, he's still tryana make me a side chick to the woman he cheated on me with and then married! My answer is still " go to the nearest hell, there's a special place for you there". Girls, don't do it. Point, blank and the period
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He is building his family with the wife, as a side chick, when do you get to do that ? Man will always put themselves first shame
Not all women want to get married.
@antonattachihombori9561 so because you don't want to get marry, you choose to be the side? Make that make sense
@@mahlatse8605 good question
Decenter men. Focus on yourself and live your best life. ❤
Just imagine this being your mother on social media telling people she’s a proud sidekick 😢
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ma'am at her big big age for that matter
Sad
Embarrassing 😢
Nka lla gore😂😂😭😭
"Member of ANC"😢 That said it all. Imbalance of power was at a center stage here. Since she was the younger one she took the short end of the stick. Young girls aren't suppose to be with old men. This age is just a number is never beneficial to women.
When she said "now he loves me too much" yet he still hasn't married her😅😂😂😂 It's giving inganekwane vibez🤞😂
😂😂😂😂😂 Dudeeeeeee
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Its a MESSSSS
But she did say he offered to though and she refused..
Inganekwane sana if you ask me🤣🤣🤣
They are both comfortable with whatever that is between them. It's you who has a problem with their affair
I don't understand this level of Love these ladies has for this Man. Yhu, Ha A! There's no way I can be in their position, I don't have that kind of love. I hope Joy & her son are listed as beneficiaries. Because it would be tragic for this Man to die & Joy is stripped of everything.
Mdala wa loya maan😅
Money and status skat
Not everything is about money hle
Everyone must understand that not everyone wants to get married. She made her choices and she's happy about it, so who are you to judge. I salute her for standing by her truth.
Exactly
People who don't want to get married don't want to experience the pain that they cause to married women.
Calling out rubbish is not judging, it's challenging the wrong doer to take accountability of their actions and not delight in hurting others.
Singaphela ngabo don't judge while things get ruined.
@@zintlenjoli2981 thats your opinion but nothing is going to change about her situation. She's still living her truth whether we agree with it or not.
@@busiluthando451 she may be living HER truth like you say, but in the long run, this truth is going to cost her dearly. There are things in life that are FORBIDDEN,and one of those things is to get involved with a married person.
@tsholofelomocumi4207 Exactly, we live in times where doing the wrong things are considered right, and doing the right thing like calling out a person for their destructive behavior is considered wrong.
The Host finishing this ladies sentences is sending me😂😂 like get to the point..
totally enjoyed this interview
I understand her case she didn’t date a already married man she was not the chosen one
This lady is delulu I swear🤞
Mrs Law's laugh proves the point 😂😂.
Gogo "Mamkhulu" is very old and very proud to be on tick tok bashing women who choose marriage.
The man never wanted to marry her. Why didn't the other woman have to prove that she can have babies as well 😢
23 years as a sidechick and shes proud of it wow....Talk about Shallowness
That was her choice
I love this lady, she seems not malicious its just that life is complicated..
I think this lady loved and respected uMamkhulu(1st wife) inside of her mind lives a child shame kodwa in reality she’s just old wethu. Makayeke udika😄😄
Aowa this woman is not a side chick, she actually the one she was just pushed away by the family
No she is not
@@gedrutsekgala8339yes you’re right she’s not a side chick ..
xes a side chicken
Had it not been the family refusing her from marrying, she would have been a wife with that one son, who knows she would have been blessed their blocked that for a older woman
The way things carried on she was meant to be in this family
@@blackwoman_015😂😂haibo side chicken
Definitely
My heart broke for her when she said she did not have enough time to prove herself💔
To have developed such an impression of yourself at such a young age.
A lot of what she is saying is not consistent. She dated this guy when he was married.
Yoh
This story is not make sure, the math is not mathing 🥴🥴
I believed this story until the sithembu,it’s giving Telemundo
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This woman was a main chick turned side chick. She didn’t start as a side. This was full relationship and there was genuine love, if they hadn’t been told they couldn’t have kids she could’ve been the wife
What's your point exactly?
@@zethesjourney4389She's trying to justify ths woman's actions
What come first??? Marriage or kids
If man wants to make you his wife he will regardless...
@@Blessed224elaborate because you are bold for this statement!
Everytime promise says “Ohkaay”…💀😂😂😂😂
I like her honesty and openness
A 48yr old would have not done “form3” at that time it was “standard” but this lady seriously has something to do with the Illness of other ladies. Also this relationship traumatised her she’s not make sure
Plus she cant be 48 and dated him for 23yrs since the age of 19.. the math is not mathing
My sister just said so, she is 52 and did Standard. Aai her story is messy.
Ain't this staged thou?😮
@@itumelengmokoena9933 i doubt it is because she’s saying the same thing on Tiktok🤷♀️
Her family didn't want nothing to do with the old man cos she was underage doing FORMC
When Primrose asked, But is it not you.. hehhe I cackled and snort laughed.. hehehehe Is it not her indeed..
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The ring doesn't mean anything it's the heart of a person or character it doesn't have to do with marriege or anything
I know of a few aunties who have been sidekicks to well known, wealthy SA men. They are never in the public eye, but have good access to " spousal benefits"
Some are not even wealthy, they are comfortable and inlove
Already it is known I am carrying a boy child 😒😒sadiki lomama
WHAT A STORY!! Claps a lot 👏🏽 .
Life is not lived in a straight line.
This woman is brave to have left her son in a dangerous situation that left people injured.
Lost me at the maths not mathing so now I don’t believe anything she said😭✌🏽
I’m delusional …now im worried I might never outgrow it😭😭modimo😭👍
Mina i feel sorry for this lady shame
This is what they mean when they say LOVE IS BLIND
Either she's lying about her current age ya 48😂 or she's confused because wow the math ain't mathing. Honestly everything she's saying is nonsense just watching for Promise at this point.
i have never been so confused in my life.😭
I'm so proud of you my lady you the house for your son kerp it up goid job🎉🎉
How is she mamkhulu while not married, she came before who cz she was never married. Why then ddnt she become real mamkhulu when she had the child.. she gave her child away to that family that had no right to claim a child. This here something is off
45:12 when she said “I think she wanted to apologise before she died but I was too late to get to her” I knew inganekwane 🙄
Stop... 😂😂😂😂😂🤭
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Proof that medicine men are doing their job lol. We need the wife to share contacts because this one has been dealt with! 😂😂😂😂
Definitely 🤣🤣🤣
money
Joy you're just pure gold,a humble calf sucks the most milk god is an untime God
Provided She have peace in that togetherness. What Is ring a man Will sleep and sleep around if he Is weak.
Inganekwane. Intsomi. Fairy-tale.
Indeed the solulu is to be delulu.
The wife calls her mamkhulu. Hehake.
Permanently or originally...what does this one talk about with this married man
Hayini lo mama🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️. Kunini ndikhuza😮😮😮
If you're married to an ANC man, start going with him to all rallies and events to ensure this aunty's not referring to your husband 😅
😂😂😂😂
But the woman is in a wheelchair. It could be too taxing for her health 😢.
Mara Mrs Makunyane's laughs😂😂😂...Le the way a shebileng Mam Joy😂😂😂
I just turned 24, with this I am learning hore as woman I need to learn to continuously love myself. Therapy is very important as a woman...traumas are real😢 Mam Joy ke feela okare ha sharp😢
He cheats on her with her and he cheated on her with her. Iyohhh😮
Is there a way that I can unwatch this🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Meeee tooo😂😂😂🤦♀️
😂😂😂😂
Why do you wanna unwatch it 😂😂😂😂
Argh ngiyamu jaja mina lomama, she is delusional nje uMama ka boy 😂😂
They been involved for 23 years and she is now 48 and they dated when she was grade 10. So at 25 she was in grade 10
Bathong what’s Mdala’s name🙈🙈
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Lol kanjaniiii kanjaniiiiiii🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Im so shook!!!!!!!!!!!!
My friend first love got her pregnant and married another woman. She has never been with another man since. But he’s still married to the wife.
Lol this lady wants to marry this man so that he can leave her with something
Ay abo Mamkhulu of nowadays😂😂😂😂😂 *claps hands*
Give this man a Bells 🥃 of being "biggest manipulater"
I heard gore chick ke till 25... from 26 to 32 ke hen..over 33 ke vulture... i repeat i heard!!!
😂😂😂side vulture
She should have left as soon as the old man got married,now she is delighted because of a boy child mnc
Promise coming with the content
So you have to give him a baby before marriage. That sounds backwards for me.
Lady please get professional help. I Beg..😢
i read the comments before watching and was so ready to judge her, but i finished the whole thing with zero judgement.
Very weird content !
Hai. The stupid justification on why he didn’t marry her. He just doesn’t think you’re worthy of being his wife because you lack self-respect. Side chick to a man for 23 years yet he met you before his wife. Love yourself ma’am.
Oh no, this lady knows exactly what caused the two ladies' "disability". Nalo mdala wakhona is not make sure shame.
Mdala is old but she wants to marry him now. Why now
Story of Rachael & Leah
Can we look at the other side of the coin … could it be the husband was at fault here ?
Mara sisters let me not judge you thing happened xem , you just being real❤❤❤
At some stage, she called that woman "Mamkhulu" I thought she was supposed to be mamncinci.
Yhoo this giving Zimbambwe chaa😂sabu brainwashed domkop.Sana her story is not make sure
haibo is Mdala still able to dlala hle ai things are happening out there
Son wants mum and dad to get married and didn't like how mum was introduced at the grandmothers funeral. 😶🙄
This woman is either soo carefree or just naive it’s so refreshing and interesting 😅either way I like her world. She is totally unbothered 😅
Hush he will never marry you...he will get another person. Aren't you sure you aren't the one causing these wives tobe sick
Aibo....the lady said " i was raised by my sister" jiki jiki "i grew up in isithembu" 🤔
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hey wena mara kanti what is going on here.
She bashes married women because she’s been played for 23 years 😂😂😂😂 old and bitter
This woman is crazy
Yazi and its distribution to watch..
I think this is what we call “nyova dam”
I like this😂😂😂
Yiyo le shomi😂🤣
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Why are You killing Me like this??? Yiyo 🗣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂 I’m finished 😂😂😂
😭😭 Proud side chick at that age.... Mama ngeke
So sad that she is involving God in this mess!!! If he wanted to marry you he would have. he didnt do it even after giving him is son. hyi Sisi love yourself!
The wife is a champion ke motho shem taking care of a side’s baby wow🙌
Promise's laugh.💓😍😂
its so cute
❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉 very good sister God did it.....
Joy is 48. She has been with old man for 23 . Which means yhey started dating when she was 25. But she says she was 19 when they met ans started dating. There is 6 years not accounted for. Is she telling the truth?
I think she’s been a side chick for 23 years.
The six years were when they were one-on-one dating
Then when she turned 25, her man either met or married the wife
She is not free to give full information she has to protect the identity of the ANC man. There was a lot at stake
Thank you, I do not change my principles for another human being ❤. Self love.
Powerful
Don't be me😂😂😂😂
Madam I salute for your honesty
I love her so much 😂😂🤍🤍🤍
I don’t believe mdala asked this chick to marry her. The stories are not adding up
This woman is not ok upstairs 😅
This isnt a real real side chick😅😅😅..its a situationship
Ths woman isnt actually naiive. 😂😂😂she knows what she is doing, look how happy she is when talking about her house..when Mdala passes she will now go public about thaaaat man she is hiding and probably get married😂😂😂😂😂, haii Joy is a mind games player
I love Promise
Cocosi yaphela😂😂😂
The day this man passes on, Joy will then understand the difference between a wife and a girlfriend.
Thank you
She seems to be working and creating her own money mos. What will make her cry? When she has her own things ?
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Eish 😢
@asandamthembu6275 you clearly don't know anything
Fascinating discussions! I don't sit in judgement of others, rather I always try and understand what drives people to do certain things and behave in a certain manner. This way I learn and grow and I'm the better for for it. Great shows all-round!!!
Very interesting. Very humble if all the side chicks had this mindset I would be happy for my husband.
Her life is as confused like the red hair and purple lipstick 😂😂😂
That man never intended on marrying her. When men want to marry, they do it. Family can’t even stop them.
Danko
Whether u can or cannot have kids
@@triciakekanaexactly!
Self love is important guys..🌸🌼🌺
Very imperative
The comment I was looking for ❤
Unfortunately some ppl don’t know how to love themselves. I teach many ppl self love everyday. It’s sad to see sis.
Very important😢
She lost me at Grade 10 and member of the ANC… The ANC never loved SA 🤞🏾
Hai mun 😂😂😂😂😂
I’m screaming 😭😭😭
This kills me😂😂😂😂😂
True
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If they met ko skolong, she is now 48 and they been together for 23 years, that means she was 48-23=25years🤔🤔. Waitse ke eng, I don't know the colour of tomorrow😮😮
Also 23 years ago there was neither Form 3, nor standard 8 but GRADE 8.
Phela year 2000 was 23 years ago, so😂😂
LIES LIES LIES
@@ayandanofumba9865 bahahah 🤣🤣🤣
The lies are too much shem mmè oo thinks we're stupid. This actually makes her credibility and the whole story questionable.
@@RayOfLetsatsiher wanting to now get married to an old man is suspicious 😂😂. I never scrutinise things, mara haai!! Dilo ga di kopane.
“Oh, lies, lies, lies and everywhere it’s lies”