I did the thing and said I’m not gonna wait around, she said she didn’t want me to. So I went on a date And her flatmate text her telling her And then my phone gets blown up because I did that .
She told me she is confused and we can meet just as friend while she was figuring stuff out. I told her that I’m not meeting her while she’s confused and to give me a call when she figures stuff out
Keep it like that and don't cave in I'm in the same situation if she contacts you set a date do the triple H hang out have fun hook up while not there yet keep yourself busy i.e. meet other girls, hang with friends, work more OT, play video games, work out etc. Too keep her out of your mind I know it really really hard but trust the process you either find someone better or get her back.
I love it man. The end was great. It shows that we are always growing and as humans we make mistakes. If you would have really responded to her how you said it the first time in my opinion it shows weakness. It's easy to mess up and say the wrong thing. And it could be as simple as feeling tired in the moment. But then as men you have to string back to your center and follow what you teach. You're awesome brother. Blessings.
Guys, need opinions. A girl kept reaching out to me so I would set dates. Our third date, we go to her aunts house (the girl I'm dating tells me the aunt knows who I am because she's told her about me. Good sign?) later, she calls a friend asking if we could come over. She asked who I was and she said I was "just a friend, we aren't talking or anything." (She said this with a sideways glance and smile at me. Not sure if she was just lying so we could go and watch the movie because the persons mom was strict about guys-she is, or if it was a friend zone move?) Anyways, I took her home and Told her I don't think of her as just a friend. She said "it's not like that, im just not over the ex and I dont think i should date anyone while I'm stuck on him." She said she thinks when we both go to college in the fall, we could possibly date but right now she needs some time. She said she needs time to get over him. Said she isn't trying to get into a relationship right now, needs some time to be single and she doesn't want to kiss a guy and be thinking of her ex. I said that's fine, take all the time you need, and let me know when u want to go out cuz I think you're awesome. However I can't wait around, so no guarantees. I'll be talking to other girls. I can't hang with you one on one and not want to date. Helppppp!!!!! Did she friend zone me??? I know she's serious about the ex cuz she started getting emotional about it
This is old yet it sounds like she was keeping her options opened. It’s so crazy how women excuses benefit them so much yet let you mention an ex once or twice & they no longer want to date you.
my ex asked me if I loved her, she asked me on two separate occasions. I said I did love her and she then got distant, and then said she's confused. then she disappeared, poof, ghosted. I wasn't chasing, I wasn't over pursuing, I think I came across as too available. she used to have a car but she doesn't now. I was picking her up for and from work a few times. I believe she had another guy still in her life and he made himself unavailable more so than I did. wow, you genuinely care about a woman but you have to act like you probably don't for them to stay interested. woman are "w***** (rhymes with feared).
Extremely fucking weird! It’s ridiculous that it’s the norm for guys to accept their bullshit in order to sleep with em. Not worth the head ache & wasted time you soon realize.
Bro. She is saying im confusing but doesnt tell me how. She says everything she say she dont know. SHE IS THE ONE BEING CONFUSING. WTF IS GOING ON. I been nothing but told her straight up, and she can't speak her mind.
My gf of two and a half years told me yesterday she feels as if she's not sexually attracted to me anymore. I don't turn her on. She gave me a big shpeel about how she's been feeling like this for months. And in lew of that she's been developing a crush on a dude at work. It hasn't gone anywhere apparently. We were supposed to move half way across the country this July and told me she's confused and doesn't know what she wants. She's scared. We talked about it and it seems she is willing to work on this with me. Tough situation. We have a lot of history and I really want this to work out. I don't know what to do. I feel kinds helpless.
Update: After watching some of these videos I can understand that how she's feeling is a symptom of a bigger problem. Our relationship has become stagnant and boring. I have probably given off a weak and needy vibe in the past and not been the man she fell in love with. We used to go out all the time and I would show her how much I appreciated her. Now we have such a monotonous routine and it's killing the relationship. The weird thing is, over the weekend we spent a lot of time together and did a lot of fun stuff (bake together, painted eggs with her son, did a scavenger hunt thing with her son, Easter dinner. We even got drunk and hooked up.) She still goes for kisses and flirts with me. So I'm assuming she still has some interest. Thanks Corey for your information, it's helping me realize what I need to do. I just need to step up and be the man she once loved.
This happened to me with girl who at first planned to come and visit me. Long story short, she said she feels "Friendship" and that's what she can offer. Told her that best I can do is "Call me when you change your mind". Her response: "I definitly wont." Me: "We'll see about that..."
Aren't men turned off when women chase after them? It seems that since I started chasing my boyfriend he has become less interested. He used to be so attentive and call and text and I really loved it. Now I do most of the contacting and he is becoming more and more indifferent and I miss the way he used to be. I just miss him period. He told me he loved me. We used to talk about marriage and now he ignores me. We have not had a fight or anything. I think I may have ruined it by calling and texting him too much.
+MsPatriceyofi no we arent "turned off" we just get complacent and dont feel the need to answer back with same passion......women on the other hand dont look at complacency as a good thing....when ur i love youre SUPPOSED to be comfortable............then we all believe that the pursuing woman is going nowhere......mine threw away almost 3 years because of my complacency and she wont admit it that she was bored.....the threw alot of ridiculous stuff back at me and tried pinning it on ME..........my advice is he probably DOES love you, but back off a bit, and dont make yourself so available and get a hobby
Thanks Coach - working towards becoming one of the 3%'ers Still fuck up a lot though - I just purchased your book, so now no more cherry picking! Cheers from Denmark!
This just happened to me with the girl of my dreams. I came on too strong, told her i missed her and got needy when she didnt say it back, then pushed her to hang out then ultimately she said she was confused. I told her how i felt and she said she isnt opposed to hanging out again. Last thing i said was if she changes her mind and wants to get together again to let me know and she said okay. Is it too late?
@@proudindian9140 you have to do it right from the start, using coreys method at a turn of a switch doesnt come off as genuine You have to be willing to lose her, to win her. Being desperate is unattractivr
She wanted you to come on stronger and confidently pursue her. When a man tells a woman to let him know, she feels unworthy of the pursuit. Being confused means the a woman needs clarification. Put your intentions into words for her. That simple.
"Train yourself to let go of everything you fear to loose" even your bowel movements.....☺️
There is another guy. Next question.
I did the thing and said I’m not gonna wait around, she said she didn’t want me to.
So I went on a date
And her flatmate text her telling her
And then my phone gets blown up because I did that .
She told me she is confused and we can meet just as friend while she was figuring stuff out.
I told her that I’m not meeting her while she’s confused and to give me a call when she figures stuff out
So what happened ?
Keep it like that and don't cave in I'm in the same situation if she contacts you set a date do the triple H hang out have fun hook up while not there yet keep yourself busy i.e. meet other girls, hang with friends, work more OT, play video games, work out etc. Too keep her out of your mind I know it really really hard but trust the process you either find someone better or get her back.
I love it man. The end was great. It shows that we are always growing and as humans we make mistakes. If you would have really responded to her how you said it the first time in my opinion it shows weakness. It's easy to mess up and say the wrong thing. And it could be as simple as feeling tired in the moment. But then as men you have to string back to your center and follow what you teach. You're awesome brother. Blessings.
this dude is a legend
Guys, need opinions. A girl kept reaching out to me so I would set dates. Our third date, we go to her aunts house (the girl I'm dating tells me the aunt knows who I am because she's told her about me. Good sign?) later, she calls a friend asking if we could come over. She asked who I was and she said I was "just a friend, we aren't talking or anything." (She said this with a sideways glance and smile at me. Not sure if she was just lying so we could go and watch the movie because the persons mom was strict about guys-she is, or if it was a friend zone move?) Anyways, I took her home and Told her I don't think of her as just a friend. She said "it's not like that, im just not over the ex and I dont think i should date anyone while I'm stuck on him." She said she thinks when we both go to college in the fall, we could possibly date but right now she needs some time. She said she needs time to get over him.
Said she isn't trying to get into a relationship right now, needs some time to be single and she doesn't want to kiss a guy and be thinking of her ex. I said that's fine, take all the time you need, and let me know when u want to go out cuz I think you're awesome. However I can't wait around, so no guarantees. I'll be talking to other girls. I can't hang with you one on one and not want to date. Helppppp!!!!! Did she friend zone me??? I know she's serious about the ex cuz she started getting emotional about it
This is old yet it sounds like she was keeping her options opened. It’s so crazy how women excuses benefit them so much yet let you mention an ex once or twice & they no longer want to date you.
I LIKE THIS GUY. I'VE DONE JUST ABOUT EVERYTHING, IF NOT ALL, UNCONSCIOUSLY.
I said to my ex because he started acting like a jerk. better to take the blame instead of wasting your time
my ex asked me if I loved her, she asked me on two separate occasions. I said I did love her and she then got distant, and then said she's confused. then she disappeared, poof, ghosted. I wasn't chasing, I wasn't over pursuing, I think I came across as too available. she used to have a car but she doesn't now. I was picking her up for and from work a few times. I believe she had another guy still in her life and he made himself unavailable more so than I did. wow, you genuinely care about a woman but you have to act like you probably don't for them to stay interested. woman are "w***** (rhymes with feared).
Extremely fucking weird! It’s ridiculous that it’s the norm for guys to accept their bullshit in order to sleep with em. Not worth the head ache & wasted time you soon realize.
@@ryanl775give them a taste of their own medicine they hit low we hit low
Bro. She is saying im confusing but doesnt tell me how. She says everything she say she dont know. SHE IS THE ONE BEING CONFUSING. WTF IS GOING ON. I been nothing but told her straight up, and she can't speak her mind.
So what happened? I bet it was another guy
Preach brother preach! You convicted me!
My gf of two and a half years told me yesterday she feels as if she's not sexually attracted to me anymore. I don't turn her on. She gave me a big shpeel about how she's been feeling like this for months. And in lew of that she's been developing a crush on a dude at work. It hasn't gone anywhere apparently. We were supposed to move half way across the country this July and told me she's confused and doesn't know what she wants. She's scared. We talked about it and it seems she is willing to work on this with me. Tough situation. We have a lot of history and I really want this to work out. I don't know what to do. I feel kinds helpless.
Update: After watching some of these videos I can understand that how she's feeling is a symptom of a bigger problem. Our relationship has become stagnant and boring. I have probably given off a weak and needy vibe in the past and not been the man she fell in love with. We used to go out all the time and I would show her how much I appreciated her. Now we have such a monotonous routine and it's killing the relationship. The weird thing is, over the weekend we spent a lot of time together and did a lot of fun stuff (bake together, painted eggs with her son, did a scavenger hunt thing with her son, Easter dinner. We even got drunk and hooked up.) She still goes for kisses and flirts with me. So I'm assuming she still has some interest. Thanks Corey for your information, it's helping me realize what I need to do. I just need to step up and be the man she once loved.
What happened I just got this same thing think she fucked the dude and her friends helped her plan this out.
Get out while you can , sorry but the writings on the wall. Please look after yourself, don’t much like the sound of this , sorry to be blunt
69 year old dating a 29 year old? Yeah right pull the other one mate
This happened to me with girl who at first planned to come and visit me. Long story short, she said she feels "Friendship" and that's what she can offer. Told her that best I can do is "Call me when you change your mind".
Her response: "I definitly wont."
Me: "We'll see about that..."
😕
Any update?
@@lonelee3827 Im in new relationship now, completely forgot about that far away ratchet.
@@MixyTheGreat86 nice.
always listen to the coach
Aren't men turned off when women chase after them? It seems that since I started chasing my boyfriend he has become less interested. He used to be so attentive and call and text and I really loved it. Now I do most of the contacting and he is becoming more and more indifferent and I miss the way he used to be. I just miss him period. He told me he loved me. We used to talk about marriage and now he ignores me. We have not had a fight or anything. I think I may have ruined it by calling and texting him too much.
+MsPatriceyofi no we arent "turned off" we just get complacent and dont feel the need to answer back with same passion......women on the other hand dont look at complacency as a good thing....when ur i love youre SUPPOSED to be comfortable............then we all believe that the pursuing woman is going nowhere......mine threw away almost 3 years because of my complacency and she wont admit it that she was bored.....the threw alot of ridiculous stuff back at me and tried pinning it on ME..........my advice is he probably DOES love you, but back off a bit, and dont make yourself so available and get a hobby
You arent giving him space... he should set dates whenever you reach out, if not, chasing him over the phone wont guarantee anything
What "research" is the 3% number based upon?
Great videos coach!
it's explained in the book
Thanks Coach - working towards becoming one of the 3%'ers
Still fuck up a lot though - I just purchased your book, so now no more cherry picking!
Cheers from Denmark!
This just happened to me with the girl of my dreams. I came on too strong, told her i missed her and got needy when she didnt say it back, then pushed her to hang out then ultimately she said she was confused. I told her how i felt and she said she isnt opposed to hanging out again. Last thing i said was if she changes her mind and wants to get together again to let me know and she said okay. Is it too late?
Any updates?
@@AFishFace nah done for good
@@mrperfect7400 so all that what coach says is eventually useless
@@proudindian9140 you have to do it right from the start, using coreys method at a turn of a switch doesnt come off as genuine
You have to be willing to lose her, to win her. Being desperate is unattractivr
She wanted you to come on stronger and confidently pursue her. When a man tells a woman to let him know, she feels unworthy of the pursuit. Being confused means the a woman needs clarification. Put your intentions into words for her. That simple.
Look forward to reading the book
This happened to my gf.
Amazing shit man thank you
do you read mind
😂😂😂😂
Lol