Thats right all u guys need to do is show her that u are a alpha male... do not beg or try to convince her just let her be try to be with friends and show her love respect and make her laugh to drive the negative energy away! Good job man this video is awesome! I have the same problem but my girl says that she wants to make the relationship better whats ur thoughts about that i mean she doesn’t know how she feels about me but she keeps telling me that she loves me.. i hope u reply man my situation is killing me
Very simple advice but true, deep down we all know it, just helps to have a bro like you to put us in that headspace, much like we should when our bro needs us to help, thanks mate, i subbed, have a good one x
@@LawCharles-f4rI said I was confused the other day cuz the guy made me feel confused by showing no effort and making me feel like I need to move on 🤷🏻♀️
Thank you, you helped quite a lot since im the same situation. I try my hardest to control my emotions and to give her time and freedom for a while so she can get her thoughts together and see what she actually wants in life.
A little update! I didn’t reach out to me and than she started reaching out to me.the thing is, I got where I didn’t freak. Listen to this dude! Time and space!
Yow nic, I just wanted to ask. If you have an idea when she says "I think we'll never work out. It's too good" But she ask me to go out with her. Does that mean she really dont like me?
@@AlagangMotoFil if she said we'll never work, it's too good and proceeds to ask you out, tell her "I thought you said we'll never work out. What changed your mind?" You got to be playful about it.
Have an eager desire for curiosity to know why shes doing it at that moment (whats her intention). If non of what she's saying is genuine, for example ("i felt pretty lonely that why i came to you") leave her.
I'm a girl, and when at least I say I'm confused, im actually confused about the guy im dating and what he's doing, he could be shutting me down or not talking, or anything but its about him. But the best thing for him to do which I wish he would do, is just listen, and do his best to do what I need him to do.
One piece of advice and that: chase and the cat will run away. Leave it alone and do you and watch it come to you. I should congratulate you for entering a new chapter in your life.
What happens if when you told her that you’re walking away she gets emotional and says she doesn’t want to lose you as a friend am I just like hard in the friend zone?
Hi Mr Cruz. Does this 'I'm confused same with I'm not ready for a relationship? I'm a Malaysian & the girl I love is a Thai. We are in a long distance relationship. Recently she told me she's not ready for a relationship. I believed most likely is because of her many past failed relationships & marriaged (she's a single mother). Thanks.
I’ve been dating this girl for few months now it’s practically official we see each other once a week as she has a busy schedule as she works 8- 14 hours a day and she said she’s feeling overwhelmed with what’s she has on and mine and her relationship, she also said when she gets like this it’s like she’s in a bubble, I’ve told her I would give her Space and left it as that and it’s been a couple days now with nothing should I carry on giving space ?
Ok you got to lead bro. If its practically official, then it really isn't. Just because you see each other on a weekly basis don't mean anything until you and her make an agreement. I think she's confused because you won't let her know. When she says she gets in a bubble, it's also her telling you she doesn't completely trust you. Women are covert communicators man. You need to lead this, but do give her space. If it's too much, then hit her up. But do not stop living your life and having a ball.
Where she works is busy this week and she is working 8/14 hours a day for 7 days on the bounce, she said after this week she will sort her head out. Should I just not talk for the time being?
What if in a relationship she says she is confused, but she still wants to be with someone, like shes just in a dark place, what then space, or try and help?
My girlfriend was confused so I gave her time and space. She didn't reach out to me for a whole year then she reached out saying she missed me and waned to give it another try and we did now 3 months in she told me the same thing that she wants to love me but for some reason she can't that she's confused. ? Any suggestions
It depends how serious your into getying back with her and what your intentions are? If shes always confused their must be a communication problem where the two of you arent clarifying where your going in relationship but more importantly...Why your doing it. If she doesnt know... dump her. Otherwise its gonna happen again bud. Shes got to realize why shes doing it on her own
Its been tough for me. She told me she was confuse so I told her to separate. After a month I sae on FB another guy hitting on her, I confronted her and we arrange a meeting. I tried in that moment to come back, kissing her but she didnt allow me. I got angry so I dropped her on her house and left. She texted me telling me she is confuse, during 4 days we barely messaged so suddenly we ended the contact. 1 week later it was a special date so I approached her by text wishing her the best and trying to meet again. At the beginning she said yes, but after she backed off. I sent her a text telling her I rushed and I was going to give her her time and space, and she reaaly appreciated. Its been a week of no contact, and I think of her all day, Id love to get back. Any suggestions?
Pistache 13 it seems the both of you are in need of space. You guys need clarity and figure out what you want. Let her go and let her come to you at her own pace. Do not let it stop you from seeing other women. Keep moving forward man.
Dominic Cruz Dominic, I need an advice. So, after 28 days of no contact, and more of 2 months after breaking up, she sent me a text yesterday night. In the translation it was "HelloHello". I replied her and we talked for a minutes, and today in thenmorning she answered another texts and told me that when she came back from school she would tell me how was she and continue talking. Up to the moment she hasnt texted me. I dont understand, whats going on, she is a nice girl, I dont think she is playing with me, but what should I do?
No gay, but after watching this i love you as much as i love her ;) Edit: There is points i wanna let you know and hopefully you'll respond. She has never had a boyfriend. We are jews and this is something that has to do with the fact that she is live in complete separation from boys. She is 15. We met on internet two years ago and since then we have much much fun toghter and i started falling in love with her. Now days she telling me stop talking about the future and don't count on it that we can be togheter or something, the thing she says the most that she is confused about me and about the future with me, She also saying that she doesn't want to hurt me. hope you will give me the correct answer i need.
Sounds like she is done with the relationship. You said she is 15 years old and my friend I think you have your whole life ahead to be worried about this one. My suggestion would be to focus solely on yourself and improve. Your success is much more important than to dwell on a previous relationship. Keep your head up bro.
@@DominicCruz Tnx for the reply, to be honest we have a deep relationship. We met on internet and not met face to face or being really couple, but we really enjoy and stuff. i told her that i love her and she said it's imbarracing her but also cute, and she is confused about the future and her feelings to me. Now you said that she may done with the relationship. I don't really know b'cuz we always had that moments of can't let go, if it's in arguments or just to talk all night we can't let go... i may afraid that she is in this way b'cuz she sfraid to hurt me. But i told her that i prefer the truth and not the thing that might make me happy. So she said that in the future we may not talk. so i really confused myself by her. We also tells each others secrets that no one need to know... and one week we was in argument and didn't talk to each other but we come and said that we are sorry and we missed each other and etc... Also i think that before i fall in love with her we were way better with our relationship. Hope you will respond to this one as well. I really appreciate your help.
@@DominicCruz just more very importent point, she doesn't want to talk about the future and she says that she wants to enjoy with me in the present. She hates everytime i bring up the future.
Thank u for your Advice, ok now the thing is we work in the same department should I stop hanging out on lunch with her or should I keep that going? That’s my only concern also when we work together she wait for me so we can go get lunch and eat with other co worker, now the gonna follows this advice should stop hanging out with her on break and lunch?
My ex and I broke up 2 months ago and it has been a very tough two months for me. We got back in contact together but every time she tells me she is confused. I am not sure what I should do because it hurts. She tells me she loves me and wants to be a part of my life, how can I convince her that I am the better me and prove to her to give me a second shot?
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Would it be okay to start dating others? My biggest fear is getting another woman involved and breaking her heart. I’m blocked right now and begged and pleaded afterward smh. But thank you for the advice. 👍
Me and my girl got into a fight cuz she at her dads and theres this dude staying there I felt sum was up she said...he tried sum but she told him she had a bf....so anyways she said she deleted the messages he sent her and I kinda reacted bad and posted on fb deleting messages is bad she broke up wid me but the next day she said she was just mad that she wants a future with me but says she wants to fix it wensday...its on a Monday...to me tbh and ik it's not good to look needy or clingy but it's almost like she saying we can fix it wensday but let me have my fun for these couple days..she also said I need time I'm confused give me a day or 2 but then that's when she said she wanted to be with me .but that we couldnt call each other till wensday..cuz she wants to be alone and off her phone yet was on her phone the whole time its currently Tuesday ...I'm just wondering should I even make up wid her or should I just tell her its over cuz yea she put me in her bios again on social media said she wants to work it out but says we gotta wait till wensday..and the guy is still there and shes been on her phone the whole time basically feel disrespected
@@DominicCruz okay so actually the last i talked to her she wanted to end things. So i did let it go and blocked her. Few hours later that night she tried calling me and said she was confused and still wanna talk so i said sure just text me. Then days after that night she initiated texts and i responded but slowly she faded off and hasnt replied to my reply. And that was almost 2 month ago. Shld i hit her up with a hows life qns?
is being friends still an option or does that make the whole situation different? She told me to give her time and let her think things, and I asked to being friends, though I'm not sure if I should do that or just let her be, she seems to be fine texting me, I am still confused as to what I should do, either way I am respecting her decision.
I don’t get it. She acts like she’s all into me she shows it but it’s kind of mixed emotions. Then like weeks later she tells me that she doesn’t know if she’s ready for a relationship, and fuck dude this is so damn hard bc it’s confusing tf out of me. This is the second time she’s done this. The first time she wanted to keep our “thing” going after like 2 days she says she wanted to end it. Now it’s happening again. She said “i don’t know if I’m ready for a relationship” I just do not know what to do, now She said “we can still be friends” so now I’m in the friend zone. I don’t wanna be your fucking friend, I wanna be your boyfriend. It just don’t make sense. It’s so confusing man. I don’t know what to do tbh. HELP ME MAN
Dominic Cruz yoo I got chu check this out Listen to this My ex reached out to me on thanksgiving. She ended it with me October 20th, so it’s been about a month and a week. Since we last talked, I did no contact. And my ex thinks I called her a player because of a rumor that went around. But I didn’t. So she i don’t think she wanted anything to do with me. And the kid that spread the rumor saying I called her a “player” later spread a rumor about her saying she kissed another guy at a party. Mind you, me and my ex are both friends with this kid but we both cut him off because all he does is lie and spread rumors. So she said to me on Thanksgiving Day, “I’m sorry for thinking You called a player, I trusted Peyton(the kid who spread the rumors about us both) and I don’t hate you I just don’t wanna make it awkward when we’re by each other because I’m friends with a lot of your friends” so now we’ve been talking for the past 2-3 days.. sooooo... do you think she wants to be good friends or maybe give it another try?? Please HELP it means a lot thank you Update: (I wrote that a couple days ago)^^ it’s been a week now since she hit me back up. And she used to reply to my texts within a minute but now it’s a lot longer sometimes 45 minutes to a couple hours. And it she isn’t really texting as much just sending snaps because we have a streak. I say hi in the halls and she says it back so idk man I think we’re kinda like “friends” but less than that. I guess you could call it “chill” we’re chill with each other. So idk. If you could help me out it would mean a lot thanks
Pls make a video on how to deal with beating ourself for the past mistakes of chasing and breaking no contact...etc. Dan bacon has completely different opinion on relationship. He made me look like a loser.
@@lykmlm7063 walk away to give yourself some space. You can't force your way or convinced the decision. A woman who loves doesnt need convincing. If she does, that's not the one.
Eric Parra Yes! Tell her if she doesn't know what she wants or is confused, then you're going to walk away. You're more than that bro and I think she's choosing to be that way until she finds someone else.
Ask her why she is confused about the relationship. You have to carry yourself like you are the mountain. If she wants to go and you did all you could to maintain, then let her go.
@@DominicCruz shes back from work we are talking she told a guy at work was threating her she dident mean about things she said we are good just upset about thing in work
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Fudge, this makes sense in my situation. Okay, so time, space and freedom and making myself valueable. Got it.
Boom!
Thats right all u guys need to do is show her that u are a alpha male... do not beg or try to convince her just let her be try to be with friends and show her love respect and make her laugh to drive the negative energy away! Good job man this video is awesome! I have the same problem but my girl says that she wants to make the relationship better whats ur thoughts about that i mean she doesn’t know how she feels about me but she keeps telling me that she loves me.. i hope u reply man my situation is killing me
Oh shit I thought I had replied to this. How are you now?
Man u explained my whole situation and so I'ma give my girl time , because she is confused, but u helped me feel better about it now:) thx!!!
Sketchy Brian if she's confused then walk away because staying the picture won't help you. You got this bro!
How did it turn out?
@@Julianuribe23 just got of the relationship after 5 years… shit happens💀
Very simple advice but true, deep down we all know it, just helps to have a bro like you to put us in that headspace, much like we should when our bro needs us to help, thanks mate, i subbed, have a good one x
byGamer007TV Thanks bro
Worrying and helping too many people will actually make us part of the problem
She told me she was confused and I didn’t understand so this helped me
Why do you jump over fences for a girl who is on the fence about you? 🤷♂️
Boom
@@LawCharles-f4rI said I was confused the other day cuz the guy made me feel confused by showing no effort and making me feel like I need to move on 🤷🏻♀️
God will give us all warnings signs and confidence before moving towards new goals
What actually Chase's?
Dog's
It may have been three years old but this shit just fixed my whole outlook on life let alone my relationship
Awesome!
How did it turn out?
This is exactly what I was looking for thanks bro.
Sam Jr No problem!
Wisdom over everything...... Woe until til behold like my father use to say
Really helped me out clearing my mind man I was overthinking about this so much
Bro this actually helped me big time thank you I know now what to do , it came just on time for me
I'm dealing with it now. I'm letting her figure it out. I'm NOT chasing her.
Don't you wait for her to make a decision. If someone doesn't value you because they're confused, you deserve someone better.
@@DominicCruz I don't her to take time and figure it out. I left it at that. I honestly don't feel the need to say anything else to her.
@@toddgoogle4387 Awesome! Know your worth!
I already received some text messages but my answers to her were pretty vague. How do I keep doing this if she starts coming back around?
@@DominicCruz thought you said give her time&space
Thanks man. Your videos are helping. I’ve been obsessed on getting the ex back but this is helping me realize my personal strength. I needed that.
Thank you, you helped quite a lot since im the same situation. I try my hardest to control my emotions and to give her time and freedom for a while so she can get her thoughts together and see what she actually wants in life.
Listen to this man! this is 100% the only way to do it.
What the fuck, you deserve so much more views bro you kept this light hearted and it actually made sense, keep it up and thanks I’ll try this 👊🏼
From one Cruz to another, appreciate it bro.
Dominic Cruz ayyye we out here 😂🤘🏼
Thank you for this! Phew! Time, space and freedom! I'm on the right track!!!! 🤘🏾🤘🏾🤘🏾
That's all you need.
i agree dominic 100% with all your videos i apologise for messaging you on facebook.
I forgive you
A little update! I didn’t reach out to me and than she started reaching out to me.the thing is, I got where I didn’t freak.
Listen to this dude! Time and space!
Keep it that way
What if she is confused because she started seeing her ex (they study in the same study group)
Anes D Same her she’s still talking to her ex fiancé. That’s the rumor.
Walk away anyway. Someone who is confused about you does not respect you.
Thank you boss
Anytime
The quiet team also the loudest not because of the partners but the mother's aren't like the grandmother's due to most are missing
Yee Yee yeee thanks brother needed that advice because I’m not so experienced in the dating scene haha
Anytime. We all got to start somewhere.
My girlfriend of 2.5 years told me the same thing she's confuse And the time to figure some things out so thank u
You're very welcome!
Yow nic, I just wanted to ask. If you have an idea when she says
"I think we'll never work out. It's too good"
But she ask me to go out with her.
Does that mean she really dont like me?
Challenge her about it
@@DominicCruz but how? Seems like .... sounds confusing on that kind of scenario.
@@AlagangMotoFil if she said we'll never work, it's too good and proceeds to ask you out, tell her "I thought you said we'll never work out. What changed your mind?" You got to be playful about it.
Have an eager desire for curiosity to know why shes doing it at that moment (whats her intention). If non of what she's saying is genuine, for example ("i felt pretty lonely that why i came to you") leave her.
I believe you are right. Just subscribed to your channel. Thanks alot for this video. Great content.
Great video, very refreshing
I'm a girl, and when at least I say I'm confused, im actually confused about the guy im dating and what he's doing, he could be shutting me down or not talking, or anything but its about him.
But the best thing for him to do which I wish he would do, is just listen, and do his best to do what I need him to do.
Then tell him. If he doesn’t then you know your answer.
@@DominicCruz oh ik, im just giving some more things to what "I'm confused" can mean. To maybe help some other guys 🙃
In my case she says she doesn’t know how she feels but that she’s willing to give me a chance
Read that whole sentence again and tell me what’s wrong with that.
@@DominicCruz I don’t get it, plzz tell me.
you are worth molre than just "okay ill give it a chance"@@elementaljedi9335
Sad Xmas coming
I'm trying my best and it hurts to have her confused idk how I can not chase when I want this women
One piece of advice and that: chase and the cat will run away. Leave it alone and do you and watch it come to you. I should congratulate you for entering a new chapter in your life.
Aye yo thank you so much like you literally just answered everything I’m a 5 minute video you a straight g
Anytime!
What happens if when you told her that you’re walking away she gets emotional and says she doesn’t want to lose you as a friend am I just like hard in the friend zone?
@@miniincky908 it depends if you want to be her friend or not. My ex tried the same thing, but I said no. You can't have your cake and eat it too.
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Hi Mr Cruz. Does this 'I'm confused same with I'm not ready for a relationship? I'm a Malaysian & the girl I love is a Thai. We are in a long distance relationship. Recently she told me she's not ready for a relationship. I believed most likely is because of her many past failed relationships & marriaged (she's a single mother). Thanks.
If she says that she isn't ready then be ok with her not being ready. Don't try to force it.
@@DominicCruz OK sir. Thanks the advice.
You good bro 😎
It's killing the relationship is what the whole purpose right 🤣🤣🤣
Should I ask her does she want to talk about it or does she want space?
Go for it.
@@DominicCruz I did and now we desided to hang out more
I’ve been dating this girl for few months now it’s practically official we see each other once a week as she has a busy schedule as she works 8- 14 hours a day and she said she’s feeling overwhelmed with what’s she has on and mine and her relationship, she also said when she gets like this it’s like she’s in a bubble, I’ve told her I would give her Space and left it as that and it’s been a couple days now with nothing should I carry on giving space ?
Ok you got to lead bro. If its practically official, then it really isn't. Just because you see each other on a weekly basis don't mean anything until you and her make an agreement. I think she's confused because you won't let her know. When she says she gets in a bubble, it's also her telling you she doesn't completely trust you. Women are covert communicators man. You need to lead this, but do give her space. If it's too much, then hit her up. But do not stop living your life and having a ball.
Where she works is busy this week and she is working 8/14 hours a day for 7 days on the bounce, she said after this week she will sort her head out. Should I just not talk for the time being?
What if in a relationship she says she is confused, but she still wants to be with someone, like shes just in a dark place, what then space, or try and help?
Give as much space as you can give. You don't know what you don't know until she speaks up. I'd turn the other way and just focus on goals.
My girlfriend was confused so I gave her time and space. She didn't reach out to me for a whole year then she reached out saying she missed me and waned to give it another try and we did now 3 months in she told me the same thing that she wants to love me but for some reason she can't that she's confused. ? Any suggestions
I am so sorry for this late response. But if I were you, I'd walk away. Sounds like she doesn't respect you and your time.
It depends how serious your into getying back with her and what your intentions are?
If shes always confused their must be a communication problem where the two of you arent clarifying where your going in relationship but more importantly...Why your doing it.
If she doesnt know... dump her. Otherwise its gonna happen again bud. Shes got to realize why shes doing it on her own
Common sense better than book smart and street smart 😂
There’s to many women out here that want to be with US!
When you're ready
Ask ourselves if it's me or someone else honestly with all the unnecessary foolishness trying to sike others out and getting more confusion in life
I am a women and I am confused about someone
Its been tough for me. She told me she was confuse so I told her to separate. After a month I sae on FB another guy hitting on her, I confronted her and we arrange a meeting. I tried in that moment to come back, kissing her but she didnt allow me. I got angry so I dropped her on her house and left. She texted me telling me she is confuse, during 4 days we barely messaged so suddenly we ended the contact. 1 week later it was a special date so I approached her by text wishing her the best and trying to meet again. At the beginning she said yes, but after she backed off. I sent her a text telling her I rushed and I was going to give her her time and space, and she reaaly appreciated. Its been a week of no contact, and I think of her all day, Id love to get back. Any suggestions?
Pistache 13 it seems the both of you are in need of space. You guys need clarity and figure out what you want. Let her go and let her come to you at her own pace. Do not let it stop you from seeing other women. Keep moving forward man.
Dominic Cruz i really thank you bro. Sincerly
Pistache 13 No problem bro!
Dominic Cruz Dominic, I need an advice. So, after 28 days of no contact, and more of 2 months after breaking up, she sent me a text yesterday night. In the translation it was "HelloHello". I replied her and we talked for a minutes, and today in thenmorning she answered another texts and told me that when she came back from school she would tell me how was she and continue talking. Up to the moment she hasnt texted me. I dont understand, whats going on, she is a nice girl, I dont think she is playing with me, but what should I do?
Pistache 13 if the ball is in her court, let her come to you. Wait
No gay, but after watching this i love you as much as i love her ;)
Edit: There is points i wanna let you know and hopefully you'll respond.
She has never had a boyfriend. We are jews and this is something that has to do with the fact that she is live in complete separation from boys. She is 15.
We met on internet two years ago and since then we have much much fun toghter and i started falling in love with her.
Now days she telling me stop talking about the future and don't count on it that we can be togheter or something, the thing she says the most that she is confused about me and about the future with me,
She also saying that she doesn't want to hurt me. hope you will give me the correct answer i need.
Sounds like she is done with the relationship. You said she is 15 years old and my friend I think you have your whole life ahead to be worried about this one. My suggestion would be to focus solely on yourself and improve. Your success is much more important than to dwell on a previous relationship. Keep your head up bro.
@@DominicCruz Tnx for the reply, to be honest we have a deep relationship. We met on internet and not met face to face or being really couple, but we really enjoy and stuff. i told her that i love her and she said it's imbarracing her but also cute, and she is confused about the future and her feelings to me. Now you said that she may done with the relationship. I don't really know b'cuz we always had that moments of can't let go, if it's in arguments or just to talk all night we can't let go... i may afraid that she is in this way b'cuz she sfraid to hurt me. But i told her that i prefer the truth and not the thing that might make me happy. So she said that in the future we may not talk.
so i really confused myself by her. We also tells each others secrets that no one need to know... and one week we was in argument and didn't talk to each other but we come and said that we are sorry and we missed each other and etc...
Also i think that before i fall in love with her we were way better with our relationship.
Hope you will respond to this one as well. I really appreciate your help.
@@DominicCruz I'm 18 BTW
@@DominicCruz just more very importent point, she doesn't want to talk about the future and she says that she wants to enjoy with me in the present. She hates everytime i bring up the future.
@@maorohana5 bro the future doesn't exist if I were you, I'd let her go. She doesn't serve your future right now.
Thanks man! Really..
Thanks bro this was amazing info
Appreciate it
Thank u for your Advice, ok now the thing is we work in the same department should I stop hanging out on lunch with her or should I keep that going? That’s my only concern also when we work together she wait for me so we can go get lunch and eat with other co worker, now the gonna follows this advice should stop hanging out with her on break and lunch?
I'm 4 months late to responding to this. Are you still working with her and if so, do you still eat together?
Thanks man! It worked :') thank you so much. Subscribed :D
Ana Rizvi Glad it worked for you man. Keep striving!
This is amazing advice
I'm going listen to this dude see if this helps thanks for the advice
jason no problem
Hey! Does this also work the same for men who tell women they are "unsettled and confused"?
Yes
@@DominicCruz Thank you! Do you give advice? I'm happy to provide payment if so.
@@graziella257 Yeah hit up my IG. The link is in the description box.
@@DominicCruz Hi, thanks, although I haven't got Instagram :/
@@graziella257 ok email me at Dominic@dominiccruz.com
Believe that
My ex and I broke up 2 months ago and it has been a very tough two months for me. We got back in contact together but every time she tells me she is confused. I am not sure what I should do because it hurts. She tells me she loves me and wants to be a part of my life, how can I convince her that I am the better me and prove to her to give me a second shot?
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When you say give them time, is it stop talking to them for a while ? Or just talking to them without flirting ?
Joasinho Hernandez Stop talking to them. If they're not sure or they're just "confused", it's best to walk away.
Dominic Cruz thanks bro, keep on doing you’re work 🙌
Thanks man i needed this ,Imma give her space
Do it for you, not for her. You are just as important.
@@DominicCruz yes brother
Would it be okay to start dating others? My biggest fear is getting another woman involved and breaking her heart. I’m blocked right now and begged and pleaded afterward smh. But thank you for the advice. 👍
You attract what you fear. Don't think about your flaws. For dating, I'd say get to know yourself more before you meet someone else.
Dominic Cruz Thank you 🙏🏼
Me and my girl got into a fight cuz she at her dads and theres this dude staying there I felt sum was up she said...he tried sum but she told him she had a bf....so anyways she said she deleted the messages he sent her and I kinda reacted bad and posted on fb deleting messages is bad she broke up wid me but the next day she said she was just mad that she wants a future with me but says she wants to fix it wensday...its on a Monday...to me tbh and ik it's not good to look needy or clingy but it's almost like she saying we can fix it wensday but let me have my fun for these couple days..she also said I need time I'm confused give me a day or 2 but then that's when she said she wanted to be with me .but that we couldnt call each other till wensday..cuz she wants to be alone and off her phone yet was on her phone the whole time its currently Tuesday ...I'm just wondering should I even make up wid her or should I just tell her its over cuz yea she put me in her bios again on social media said she wants to work it out but says we gotta wait till wensday..and the guy is still there and shes been on her phone the whole time basically feel disrespected
I'd wait til Wednesday and see whats up.
@@DominicCruz I mean yea buts i feel like she doin sum rn
@@629131 thats why you communicate it in a calm way.
Women observe so much shyt... and chase after everything
Whole purpose of a divorce I thought
Love it bro...thanks
Hey if she talks to me sometimes do i reply her or just go no contact?
Respond back. Communication is like a game of tennis.
@@DominicCruz okay so actually the last i talked to her she wanted to end things. So i did let it go and blocked her. Few hours later that night she tried calling me and said she was confused and still wanna talk so i said sure just text me. Then days after that night she initiated texts and i responded but slowly she faded off and hasnt replied to my reply. And that was almost 2 month ago. Shld i hit her up with a hows life qns?
@@Empoleon370 Fuck no!
Thanks bro 👍🏼
Brandon Gastel You're welcome, bro!
Imma listen and see what happens.
KNG Finn let me know
Man ur cool the words r true kudos!!
Thanks man
Good one
Thank you!
I was a real trick and didn't marry what I'm use to even if she's an ex porn star
I had to sub shot g
is being friends still an option or does that make the whole situation different? She told me to give her time and let her think things, and I asked to being friends, though I'm not sure if I should do that or just let her be, she seems to be fine texting me, I am still confused as to what I should do, either way I am respecting her decision.
Fuck that
Give her time, if she wants to be friends than that’s her, but if she hasn’t said anything about being friends and you love her, don’t
Dont reply fast
I don't care about people past neither do all real experts
I like this guy
Appreciate it!
I don’t get it. She acts like she’s all into me she shows it but it’s kind of mixed emotions. Then like weeks later she tells me that she doesn’t know if she’s ready for a relationship, and fuck dude this is so damn hard bc it’s confusing tf out of me. This is the second time she’s done this. The first time she wanted to keep our “thing” going after like 2 days she says she wanted to end it.
Now it’s happening again. She said “i don’t know if I’m ready for a relationship” I just do not know what to do, now She said “we can still be friends” so now I’m in the friend zone. I don’t wanna be your fucking friend, I wanna be your boyfriend. It just don’t make sense.
It’s so confusing man. I don’t know what to do tbh. HELP ME MAN
I'm sorry I'm just now seeing this. How are things now?
Dominic Cruz yoo I got chu check this out
Listen to this
My ex reached out to me on thanksgiving. She ended it with me October 20th, so it’s been about a month and a week. Since we last talked, I did no contact. And my ex thinks I called her a player because of a rumor that went around. But I didn’t. So she i don’t think she wanted anything to do with me. And the kid that spread the rumor saying I called her a “player” later spread a rumor about her saying she kissed another guy at a party. Mind you, me and my ex are both friends with this kid but we both cut him off because all he does is lie and spread rumors. So she said to me on Thanksgiving Day, “I’m sorry for thinking You called a player, I trusted Peyton(the kid who spread the rumors about us both) and I don’t hate you I just don’t wanna make it awkward when we’re by each other because I’m friends with a lot of your friends” so now we’ve been talking for the past 2-3 days.. sooooo... do you think she wants to be good friends or maybe give it another try?? Please HELP it means a lot thank you
Update: (I wrote that a couple days ago)^^
it’s been a week now since she hit me back up. And she used to reply to my texts within a minute but now it’s a lot longer sometimes 45 minutes to a couple hours. And it she isn’t really texting as much just sending snaps because we have a streak. I say hi in the halls and she says it back so idk man I think we’re kinda like “friends” but less than that. I guess you could call it “chill” we’re chill with each other. So idk. If you could help me out it would mean a lot thanks
Bro thanks 🙏
2 years later, you're welcome lol
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Pls make a video on how to deal with beating ourself for the past mistakes of chasing and breaking no contact...etc. Dan bacon has completely different opinion on relationship. He made me look like a loser.
Awesome Artwork I got you! I won't make the video today but probably tomorrow.
@@DominicCruz thnks a lot
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Awesome Artwork You're welcome!
What if it’s the second time she does it after coming back to you
Then expect a 3rd time if you give a chance to change her mind. Bro she's taking you for granted I think you can invest your time somewhere else.
@@DominicCruz thanks brother
she says she’s confused with what she wants
Better walk away.
Dominic Cruz by that you mean to leave for good or space?
@@lykmlm7063 walk away to give yourself some space. You can't force your way or convinced the decision. A woman who loves doesnt need convincing. If she does, that's not the one.
Thank you
motoman771 you're welcome!
Women snooping around after false claiming guys for money, drugs and sex . Now that's reality vs entertainment center 🤣🤣🤣
Amen and thank you
You're welcome!
Doing repeating foolishness listening to people
Wise until became fools
Real men observe lol
Should I do the same thing you said if she said she doesn't know what she wants? Give her space and freedom?
Eric Parra Yes! Tell her if she doesn't know what she wants or is confused, then you're going to walk away. You're more than that bro and I think she's choosing to be that way until she finds someone else.
Playing with nobody
Hey Dominic can you help me man?
Sure. I have an email coaching service and phone coaching service. You can email me at cruzdominic88@gmail.com to get started.
Dominic Cruz I’ll email you right now man thanks!!
I already emailed you man help me get her back!
My gf said she dont know about our relationship we been together for 3 years nearly 4 i dident do nothing wrong shes not telling me why ?
Ask her why she is confused about the relationship. You have to carry yourself like you are the mountain. If she wants to go and you did all you could to maintain, then let her go.
@@DominicCruz thanks bro i will try her friend is helping me aswell told her i got a feeling she wants another man i dont know
Xxminty619 Xx Communicate, listen, don't argue, and solve this issue. You got this!
@@DominicCruz i will and let u know what happens bro ?
@@DominicCruz shes back from work we are talking she told a guy at work was threating her she dident mean about things she said we are good just upset about thing in work
Grow up gilson and Johnson
Thank you..
Aarti Rai You're welcome!